stop waiting for people to VALIDATE you..How to stop seeking external validation,Increase your value

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  • Опубликовано: 11 янв 2025

Комментарии • 52

  • @DG-pl4ny
    @DG-pl4ny 19 дней назад +36

    You're literally my online therapist ❤

    • @NeoRelebogile
      @NeoRelebogile 19 дней назад +1

      I feel the same way, my online therapist ❤

    • @Vinas_piece
      @Vinas_piece 12 дней назад

      Same here

  • @LilianJaneOkoroafor-od3pp
    @LilianJaneOkoroafor-od3pp 19 дней назад +16

    People pleasing 😭 that's me
    I was at a place where I used to allow people's words get to me, but now I longer do that to myself and then these same people are intimidated by my confidence now

  • @ijeomauwakwe8936
    @ijeomauwakwe8936 19 дней назад +11

    You’ve said it all girl. I thank God I’ve been like this for years, it takes a lot of personal work, prayer n meditation. The best way to achieve this is by being by yourself n enjoying ur own company. Just get to know yourself, ur triggers n be truthful to yourself.

  • @mccnbinnie9840
    @mccnbinnie9840 13 дней назад +3

    Thank you for reminding me to be the best version of myself.

  • @chikaohizu3357
    @chikaohizu3357 15 дней назад +2

    Honestly, you pushed me to take a big bold step which is accepting that i seek validation from outside and also writing them down like i haven't even thought about doing that. But your video got me pausing to write my triggers. Thank you so much 😘

  • @shaneilhenry
    @shaneilhenry 16 дней назад +2

    Lucy is your voice brings peace

  • @jacksonprecious20
    @jacksonprecious20 17 дней назад +2

    This is me 😔😔
    I dislike this version of myself right now,i look down on yourself I allow people’s opinion get to me, but I’m trying to fix my self,love myself improve on my personal development etc
    Thank u big Sist❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
    Compliment of the season🎄🎅

  • @_maeva_
    @_maeva_ 3 дня назад

    Words of affirmations can be a game changer !! ✨️

  • @bernardethg
    @bernardethg 15 дней назад +1

    Another insightful video and so important to talk about, especially in today's time👏🏾👏🏾

  • @cynoruskilliah8953
    @cynoruskilliah8953 19 дней назад +4

    I haven’t watched the video! I literally just file my nails down cause my mom told me it didn’t look good…. I did it myself and I was so proud. PS: it looked good to me. Okay, now let me get back to the video cause it ain’t happening again

  • @dollyrevenge98
    @dollyrevenge98 18 дней назад +1

    This is the best hairstyle I've seen on you. It looks so feminine and highlights your facial features so well :)

  • @quinnknight9371
    @quinnknight9371 19 дней назад +4

    I wish I could like this video a thousand times over😩❤️❤️💞💕

  • @nicolesasha4795
    @nicolesasha4795 19 дней назад +11

    A timely one for sure ❤❤

    • @MyLucyBenson
      @MyLucyBenson  19 дней назад +1

    • @GiftOrekyeh
      @GiftOrekyeh 16 дней назад

      Patiently waiting for"how to rebrand yourself for 2025" from you 🥺❤️​@@MyLucyBenson

  • @jayminjoh142
    @jayminjoh142 12 дней назад

    On my way to stopping people pleasing and seeking validation
    Very much helpful

  • @louiseaori
    @louiseaori 12 дней назад

    Speaking facts 12:38

  • @LoriPrecious-e2d
    @LoriPrecious-e2d 19 дней назад

    Lucy, I can't say thank u enough since when I started watching ur videoes I began to heal. God bless u❤

  • @oluwatosinbewaji
    @oluwatosinbewaji 19 дней назад

    Thank You Lucy for being part of My 2024. God bless You more bountifully.

  • @Damininuola
    @Damininuola 16 дней назад

    I needed this!!

  • @BCBeautystores
    @BCBeautystores 18 дней назад

    Still Working on It.. Thank You For always being here and being part of my 2024🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

  • @LucyPatrick-kn4re
    @LucyPatrick-kn4re 19 дней назад

    lucy is the reason why l watch RUclips everytime ❤ thank u

  • @cobaltblue26
    @cobaltblue26 19 дней назад +2

    Your hairrrr😍😍😍

  • @vixytori
    @vixytori 18 дней назад +1

    The look😍😍

  • @sammy2400
    @sammy2400 18 дней назад +1

    You are absolutely gorgeous.

  • @quinnknight9371
    @quinnknight9371 19 дней назад

    I so really needed this right now, thank you so much 🙏🏼❤️

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld6072 17 дней назад

    Beautiful video thank you ❤😊

  • @mariemonageorges2470
    @mariemonageorges2470 18 дней назад

    Thank you for this video. I really did. Appreciate it.❤🤗

  • @naturallynicholine
    @naturallynicholine 19 дней назад +5

    First here 🎉❤

  • @omongiddy
    @omongiddy 19 дней назад

    God bless you Lucy ❤

  • @achuviandynamics
    @achuviandynamics 14 дней назад

    I'm still learning ❤

  • @iamprincessvibess
    @iamprincessvibess 19 дней назад

    Thank you sis this video is for me ❤

  • @GloryKere-pp4ro
    @GloryKere-pp4ro 19 дней назад

    Lucy I think you should make more videos like this😢

  • @thobekamantshongo4458
    @thobekamantshongo4458 18 дней назад

    ❤❤❤,enjoy your holidays. God bless u abundantly.

  • @AnnebelleNjeri
    @AnnebelleNjeri 18 дней назад

    I love your content so much ❤️

  • @essence____beauty_92
    @essence____beauty_92 16 дней назад

    Perfectly said love it thank you & great timing ❤❤❤❤😍😍😍💋💋💋🌸🌸🌸☺️☺️☺️☺️

  • @sleekchinwe
    @sleekchinwe 19 дней назад

    Thank you so much

  • @princessmelissa2180
    @princessmelissa2180 17 дней назад

    Love your videos 😍 and you have the most beautiful chin ever , your face shape is perfect

  • @GertrudeMansaray-r1p
    @GertrudeMansaray-r1p 19 дней назад +3

    Finally here 🎉 thank you lucy Bension for your hard work 😊

  • @brittanymitchell4132
    @brittanymitchell4132 18 дней назад

    Lucyyyyyyy You Look So BEAUTIFUL ❤❤❤

  • @GRACEIGBINEVBO-mo7ti
    @GRACEIGBINEVBO-mo7ti 19 дней назад +3

    You look really beautiful

  • @Tasha_rich
    @Tasha_rich 19 дней назад +1

    I love you ❤

  • @kingaradina
    @kingaradina 19 дней назад +2

    Third here🎉

  • @carineakebeawah5330
    @carineakebeawah5330 19 дней назад +1

    YES YOU ARE REALLY CUTE

  • @blessingblessing4987
    @blessingblessing4987 19 дней назад +1

    ❤❤

  • @victoriaoluwafunmilayo6713
    @victoriaoluwafunmilayo6713 19 дней назад +1

    Hey gurl my name is Vicky 😊
    🫂 From Jos city

  • @carineakebeawah5330
    @carineakebeawah5330 19 дней назад

    CHOP KISS SWEET LUCY💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋❤❤❤💙💙💙💛💛💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @DivineKLove
    @DivineKLove 19 дней назад

    ❤❤❤