What i love about Mary is that she fell in love and she loved Steve when he was trying to gain his success and they both were struggling financially..she stayed!. Thank you Mary for sharing your heart to all women who are dealing with this relationship situation!. Amen Mary!🌺
I listened to Mary Harvey and I saw a woman who was raised in a Christine home. She has class, manners, well spoken. Whole your head up God shell provide. He has brought alonggggggg way. Keep pushing forward with hope in your heart. You are a beautiful person. I'm sorry what happened to you, but GOD is moving you up One day you will look back and say how I got over Be blessed to GOD be the Glory
She sound well explicit, learned and able to put things together. I wish someone would give her a show. She has a lot to offer through her experience, I admire how she's representing herself.
Yes! A Genuine Talk Show! I am writing my story for women to fight the right way! The good fight of faith, and the power of God's word activated for favor, blessing, joy, strength, to feel loved, heard, and come out with the joyous victory! We must not forget to forgive, pray for, bless our enemies, and do good to those who hurt and betray us. In doing so, God promises us much: He will make our opposers/enemy our footstool, all things turn around and work for our Good; for those who loves the Lord and called for His purpose. God can turn it around - Trust God!
For you folks who say she should move on she is moving on but you have to go more into the history. She took her time became stable again now she's in position to speak up in positive light.
she spoke so diligently...she is not bitter steave did her dirty..point blank..and his new wife is a home wrecker...benefiting off her suppose to be life.
@Angela Stone Although that might be allegedly true what she did. We need to learn how to not look at the past and look at the present. And just pray that someone will learn a lesson from all his. Thank God for Jesus who forgive us from our sins when we repent and he forget about our past sins and sets us on the path of righteousness. Thank God we have a Holy and Righteous Judge, Jesus and don’t have humans to determine whether we get in to heaven or not.
You have a beautiful voice!! And beautiful manners!! You are too good for Steve Harvey!!You are well spoken..and can find you a really good man !!! Elaine Hartsoe replied God bless...you!!!
when your husband leaves you and divorces you for his MISTRESS. it hurts more than the DEATH of a LOVE ONE. HOWEVER through PRAYER and TIME. God WILL HEAL THAT BROKEN BROKEN HEART. PLUS GIVE YOU THE JOY AND PEACE YOU NEED. ALL IS NOT LOST. There's a BETTER DAY AHEAD. BELIEVE GOD. Im a WITNESS.
I feel she is over the pain and him, Steve tells his ''STORY'' let her tell her story rather you believe her or not.... DO YOUR THING, SAY IT LOUD STAY BLACK AND PROUD lady.
The problem is the lady is very thorough. She took her time got herself back together now shes voicing her opinions. Bravo she should be considered the guru not Steve Harvey. 3 marriages does not make him a guru he does not speak for all men.
Usually the person speaking up has nothing to hide. Steve Harvey is jus hoping she will go away quietly because he wants to protect his brand. Even if they speak privately it would be beneficial to him, her and more importantly their son He needs to "Think like a man"
If he wants to go away why not give her access to her son. Why not pay her alimony. Why not treat her like she is a human being deserving of some amount of respect.
She's a strong woman. People with power and fame are highly manipulative. I'm glad she's shining a light on Steve Harvey crude manipulative ways. I hope she gains access to her child.
Men going to tell you what they want you to here. Just to sell lies of book sale The dumbest book i ever heard.. Most white women don't live with men period.. Without marriage. Quick...They go straight to marriage..
@@alicewashington5633 Steve is telling a bunch of lies in his book ...just to sell books.. women think remember he use to tell jokes for a living.. if it a lie..and sounds good folks will laugh.. sense many women buy the book how many relationship turn into marriage? Did he waited..90 days before he got the cookie? With his relationship?
@@SunnyDoesLife Absolutely right .. I often wonder where black folks get this things about shacking Up from.. and I mean for years.. and have multiple children. Man runs off and leave his children and marry a woman with 2/3/4/5 children.. ect. Take care of her kids.. she going to make sure he supports her and kids.. but don't take care of his own children he left behind with their mother..SMH.. Marjorie make sure Steven adopted her 3 kids.. To get a pieces of the pie..
I can't believe so many women would hate on this woman and her pain. Bunch of snakes and wipers. If he came slithering around your door you would let him in huh? people suck
Marjorie brought all of the kids together. The first time he has been able to have a real family setting. That's wonderful. Ask Mary did she ever invite his kids over and how close was their relationship. When I divorced, I missed all of the children because I brought them over a lot. We're still close. She hasn't once said anything about "the family". She so stuck on Steve and jealous of the life he has with his wife and the "whole" family.
Mary, I’d buy a book about what you’ve done to rebuild your foundation, to speak up. You’re very well-spoken, intelligent and inspiring a culture, especially as a female, in bringing healthy, balanced change in dealing with abuses of power. If you need a developmental editor to work with, let me know. You’ve got a great voice🙏🏼✊🏽
Marjorie can't be half or even a third of the woman Mary is. As Marjorie knew of their situation and imposed herself into the woman's life. Marjorie and Steve are both disgusting.
Stay Strong! You should have your own show because you are such a great speaker and is telling it like it is. Thank you for this message and I know that there will be something greater for you over what you have been through. If nothing else, you got back the gift of You! Love, Peace and Blessings.
Mary you have so much class, dignity and Beauty. I pray the Lord use you in a mighty way in Jesus name. Listen ladies you can learn from what she is sharing. Never settle or compromise your body , mind or soul for a man. Trust God and hold that Man to Gods standards, not a man that tells you to make a man wait 90 days for the Golden Rule before you share your body, no that's called fornication. If the man cant love , support grow with you and your walk with God, he is not worthy; when he loves unselfishly , that man commits. When a man loves you he desires you to be in the will of God not you compromising because compromise places your purpose and potential in jeopardy. Jeremiah 29:11-14
Stay strong like a strong black woman that you are don't let know man brake you. For me Steve is not in position to talk about how woman should think or do, I believe everything this woman said. Steve is fake
I love Mary's strength and positive outlook about this - - stay strong - - you are an excellent example for any woman who may need to regain her self-esteem..
Ms. Mary Harvey you are speaking the truth in regards to virtue and women standards and covenant. I pray God will heal you and make you whole. I pray that you are restored for all that you lost. Many women suffer due to adulterous horrific affairs. But God!
God bless you sister! Be reminded that Jesus lives you this I know, and He's got you in this! Keep walking in your POWER! We need more sisters like you, women who aren't afraid of the devil! Been there!!!
This woman is a woman of moral power moral strength moral dignity. She’s educated intellectual. Thank you may god continue to bless you bless your heart and continue to strengthen you.
Mary, you need to write your book. You are so right about "the standard." Stay who you are and do not anyone change or lower who you are, but grow within stronger. You need to have a voice, always. Ladies if you are against this walk her walk.
This interview is the first that I've seen of Steve Harvey's ex-wife. I've always wondered who she was and how Steve's fame affected her after he made the decision to abandon his family. This interview was 10 years ago, pre-Margie Harvey, and Steve has blown up even more. I'm praying that his ex is totally healed now, and that she is free and whole, and that she found and reinvented her own identity outside and apart from the tragedy and experience of her life with her ex-husband. I hope that she is truly happy and has been able to discard the painful hurt brought on by the choices of someone else. This is not easy. I've been through it. And let me say this, I don't think that the choice that Steve made in leaving his family behind was an easy choice for him either, because he suffered tremendously and experienced a ton of defeat before finding success. But I also don't think that it was the right choice either. At the end of the day, I believe that there was a way that he could have achieved fame and fortune without the brutal abandonment of his family. D. L. Hughley did it. Bernie Mac did it. Dave Chappelle did it. I believe that Steve could have done it too. But Steve simply did not WANT to do it.
@@christieatuh But Marjorie was nowhere in the picture when Steve left Mary. And even if she had been, c'mon, you just don't abandon your family like that. The only reason why I let Steve slide on this one is because he was young and dumb and it appears he learned his lesson.
Vanessa very well said 🙏 I'VE BEEN THERE. BUT BY THE GRACE OF GOD I MADE IT☝️ WAS MARRIED FOR OVER 20 YEARS . TO GET DIVORCE BUT I FINALLY REALIZE IT TAKE 2 TO TANGO. I REMEMBER WHEN I DIDNT WANT TO GET OUT OF BED TO GO TO WORK. BUT I THANK MY LORD JESUS FOR BEING MY LIFTER.🙏🙏🙏
It would really be great to see her with a young, strong trainer type! I can see how working out with a trainer while falling in love would really be good for her! She is a beautiful woman and could contribute something by sharing the positive experiences as the woman who held her husband down on the road to success and the great doors that opened once things began to take off. I truly wish her well.
I am proud of you Mrs. Harvey for getting out of the bed of depression and speaking up, God has great things still in store for you! You are Beautiful and very inteligent. No more cotton in the mouth no more being silenced you have indeed helped many!
this lady just wants her son so she can move on...i pray for her...we have too make better choices in life i feel her pain and i understand..God bless her.
I feel her 100%....my Girlfriend was Pregnant with her first baby ...her baby daddy threaten to take her baby during her first pregnancy..... sad she miscarriages due to stress...so yes Men are now taking babies and children away from their Mothers
Well ladies, I read a medical journal two weeks ago that states: Studies show women literally DIE from stress. Stress shrinks all our cells so badly they can't reproduce, and...adds to the aging process immensely. Soo...don't choose your soulmate, ask TMH for him. Steve used to be a pimp in the pimp life. Marjarie swung in those drug dealing circles that keeps runaways and prostitutes in DOPE. Now, I'm not judging because I'm not them and don't really know if "I love you" still existed for Steve, due to his still searching for another that matched his ego lifestyle. Birds of a feather, hoochie pick-ups, have always been in that same lifestyle and like "boo boo Kitty" do dastardly deeds to rise, stepping on others. IF SHE FORGED ANY SIGNATURES, the law MUST STEP IN TO PROTECT MARY for grief and emotional suffering. She didn't get to see her son graduate? Black men wake up, don't leave us desolate after rising, if you want to leave. ADD UP THE TIME, PUT YOURSELF IN OUR SHOES, AND BE FUCKING FAIR ABOUT IT. If your rising, you will still rise. You ex-isn't an anchor. Just be fair, and help them to adjust to the loss of love you took from them. Remember the hard times spent and who was with you to help you get through it, otherwise, you'll end up living a lie. WE Hebrew Y'srealites have lived a lie through others long enough. Time to man up and GET FRIGGING HONEST, no matter the cost, TMH will help you through this Mary. HE's got your back.
I understand you completely Mary and agree most time as women we over look, lower our standards, and keep quite. That does not serve our children especially our girl children. God bless you and you really need to write on this matter.
Mary is waaaaaay smarter than Marjorie. He should've stayed with her. He would probably be richer than he is today, b/c all Marjorie does is spend his money.
I am so happy for Mary. She as many other women have been through what she has been through. Mary, is very intelligent, I thank God for her growth. I pray that you face many more better days to come. I went through a situation, that caused a divorce of a marriage of 13 years. I left hurt, abandoned as well. A year later. I met and remarried. What I didn't know at the time was in my divorce decree, being that my ex was retired military, and we had been married over 10 years, I was due a portion of his retirement benefits. I have been remarried for 26 years. One day God spoke to my heart and I looked it up online. Divorced 27 years, remarried 26 years. The Lord blessed, I now receive a portion on a monthly basis part of his retirement. Won't God do it!
I get what she's saying. It must took a lot for her to get to that place and speak up. It hard when you place all your trust in your husband and he fail you especially if you comes from an Christian back ground. Now, not having access to your child, is wrong on ALL. Level. I like Steve but, do the right thing by her. It's never too late to get it right. Mary has to go through every emotion to get to where she is today. Good for her. It's her truth. At times to are so quick to blame the woman. Men do a lot of wrongs to women especially when they are in the public eye because they have an huge fan base that loves them but, we do not see what happen behind closed door. I wish you all the best Mary.
All of u saying she needs to move on. Steve has no right to write a book, telling us women how to think. And just, he still have his son. So y won't she bitter. Even so she is up and giving women strength
just summer , she did not cheat on him. Marriage is work, behind every strong woman, there is a successful man. And now she is not up to his standards. If Steve is teaching us how to hold on to our man, then how did he held on to his ex wife. I don't need all the story. unless she cheated
I've always say, Steve is a hypocrite and lied to women with his bullshits like to wait 90 before opening the legs lolol... He just wanted to make money over bullshits and women bought into that. Sad!
Well, from what I have surmised about all of this between Steve and Mary Harvey, there are ALWAYS "TWO SIDES" to EVERY story or situation. And rightfully, both sides have the right to share their views and allow things to go from there. None of us will ever know the entirety of "TRUTH" behind this situation between Mary and Steve: ONLY them, whether they come out and share the totality of the "TRUTH" or not. That is their choice. The only question I have for Mary is why had she chosen to continue using Steve's ĺ"last" name",unless that, very well, happens to be her last name. But, yet again, this, too, is here choice: right, wrong, or indifferent.
Proud of you Mary. You r so professional with ur presenration. I have 50 less resp ect for Steve. Being a black divorced woman not angry or bitter just grateful to be single. 46 years divorced I don't think I ever loved my ex. Stay strong Mary don't lower your standards.i didn't and I am so grateful God moved me away from him. My parents assumed the role of absent man and fave us houses private school for children. Cars, piano 🎹, athletics and positive environment. Go Mary
Mary Harvey is a very beautiful, intelligent , kind spirited soul! Good luck to you! What she said was very well spoken! Praying for the situation. Much love!!
The host of the show made a very valid point.She said that when women are going through something,they will be quick to listen or go out and by a book from someone who has a book out about relationships.
Mary’s hit the nail on the head - she’s found the missing section of Steve’s book - that women are the way they are (strong, independent) because they’ve HAD to be, with no man in the picture. She should write a book of her own about this issue and teach MEN how to treat US!
Mary you really loved Steve. He was less than a man to not let you know that he was courting. Got angry about something he had fabricated. Left you and went to the upper room.
Exactly mary That's your son. Not his wife son.. She want all the credit to say she raise your son.. She need to find her kids fathers.. Oh they don't have money like Steve.. So he adopted her kids... She made sure of that...
.....that was my EXACT reason for not wanting to read the book......HOW CAN SOMEONE WHO'S BEEN MARRIED 3 TIMES TELL ANYONE ABOUT A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE???? I just didn't get it
+Carrie Banks-Wright What good work? Half the world gets divorced. She needs to see a psychiatrist so she can move forward. All over social media telling lies. She filed for divorce, she put her son on a plane. Her storyline is weak and her 10 minutes of fame are gone. Steve better be glad he left this insecure woman.
When I was very young and understood heart break love songs; I vowed never to dwell on a guy who I leave or who leaves me. Do not sing about him, wine about him, explain about him etc... spend the “in the mean time,” getting healthier, finer and setting up a world of joy for yourself. Be the best you life has to offer. SUCCESS IS THE BEST REVENGE EVER! Succeed in your goals, education, physical fitness etc... surround yourself with positive people and sincere friends. Keep his name out your mouth. When his name comes up, be silent, there is power in controlling your world. It looks like he has it all, but he lacks the fullness of himself. Marjorie is his trophy. She defines him, gives him self esteem and a buffed ego. Without money they would not exist. So, move on, do not waste your energy or time. I admire Steve for over coming all odds, I admire Majorie for having visions and goals and accomplishing her dreams, making her own money. So, sis, you are beautiful, you are a very stunning black woman. You are another type of woman. You are not flashy, you are not vain, you are not the because I got it flaunt it type. Low key modest women can be just as beautiful, because it’s the strength you possess that makes you the queen.
Mary Harvey, I feel your pain. You are a brave, smart, and nice woman just looking for JUSTICE. You are in my prayers, as this issue of your unjust DIVORCE is not done yet. You will get justice! June 25, 2018
I know exactly what she's going through .been there done that.The only thing I can say to women is Love yourself first. Love with your head first.The heart is second. Have your own money. Make sure your name is on the deed and At least one account. Do not.dont be comfortable in your relationship because there are women out there ,white and black,, waiting to pounce on your man after you built the empire with him. Just don't sit back and be comfortable. I'm in a great place and been remarried 21years now. He doesn't have any money. I got the money now. Hmm. Mary Harvey move on honey.you re beautiful,intelligent and well spoken.Dont let the past determine your future.love to you.
This video occurred many years ago but listening to her speak today is still relevant. Steve ought to be ashamed of himself. The one thing I disagree with Mary on is Steve being married three times does pave the way to author a book on relationships. Steve is a hustler, strategic and an opportunist based on what I have observed. He has taken his past relationship experiences and author a best selling. I haven’t read his book
The reason why the burden falls on Afrikan / Black women is because A/B men are not considered proper men as all other men of other races are. That's just the way it is t the moment. They are considered at best boys. Most of them don't understand why they are looked upon so lowly. This label of 'boy' also applies to A / B Men that are considered successful. Well done Mary for speaking the truth as you see it.
Thank you Mary Harvey. I knew you had ministry in you when I knew what you had been through. Husband love your wives. He didn't love you or himself. Adultery is an enemy to the soul and believe me when you opened your mouth and use the voice that God gave you; you exposed the truth of the condition of our families and the role and the responsibility of head of household. The church is at fault because we give people a plateau that are rich and famous. When was the last time you watched TBN and saw a blue collar worker who is faithful to God and his wife and his children and be called to speak on nationwide TV. It takes a man of honor and integrity to be able to love a woman like you and to be a carrier of the anointing that God has given you. No your divorce and the adultery and the splitting of your family wasn't God ordained but it will be God used. Just as the word of God said you are no longer the forsaken wife but now your the wife of the redeemed. Godspeed to you sister! Thank you for giving me the courage to use my voice!!!
I am so glad she had the courage to speak out, her words is so powerful and so many ways she would never ever understand I believe every word she said she does not come across as vindictive malicious and desperate. On top of it's all she is absolutely right so many people went down and got that book except for me without thinking this man been married three times how could you possibly know the truth about anything why didn't we look at his other relationship and see how he handle it before we invest into him. Truthfully I stop liking Steve Harvey after how him and Bernie Mac relationship was I'm an old time stand up The Comedy of both of them and the way he blackballed it or jealousy of Bernie Mac's up to the day he died I will never forget so that shows you there are always two sides to a man you sometimes more size that you ever want to believe. The way he handle her was horrible. Simply horrible this woman has lost everything but he has not took her soul I hope for the best for this lady I want her to know that she has so many viewers behind her and we do believe what she is saying I wish the best for her I will pray for her for Eternal health strength and healing most of all in to find somebody that truly love her Beyond he can ever do he has destroyed Secret love and devotion and he has tried to take everything from this woman and leave her out for the wolves so I'm very glad she is able to speak out to his women about the true story on this is a true story God bless her and thank you everything we see on the outside does not mean is what it is on the inside just because he's funny he knows how to talk to people don't mean he hasn't done something terrible and his life to take his son and turn the son against his mother paternal mother words can't even begin to understand this child will reap what he sold as this child grow up he will see a difference and as they say, Karma she does not forget and his wife if you look at her now and what's going on today it seem like it's already coming around because it's been whispering that he is cheating on her as well you can't steal another man from his woman he willingly left what she supposed to do scream and fight look like a fool I think not the women that be in these men's life for so long get thrown away like trash and Society just push them aside all the time they're not credible why because he's famous she the bitter EX I don't think so. I truly hope that this story becomes a lion that she prove to him that the best thing he ever had did was left her because now he is not her problem. Steve Harvey need to fix itself and I was right about him years ago that's why I stop entertaining him he would not get my blessings for his corrupt life he's a typical man full with lies and deceits and when it don't go his way he made her look like a complete total fool and shame on him for that but don't you worry sweetie every dog gets his day whether you are there to see it or not and he is no exception to the rules and it's far as his nasty new wife her day is on his way to because he's cheating on her now as well that's the rumor and I know she has heard of that. until next time thank you for all your carriage and I hope the best for you ❤
This breaks my heart. 💔 I was not aware of any of this. Having said that I did think Steve Harvey was a bully when on national t.v. he said to his son in law (Ben) " you better do right by my daughter as I'm from the hood and I'll look after things ". Sounded like a threat to me. Emasculated the poor guy in front of his audience. Wow! He also made an underlying sexual comment about Kim Kardashian. Will he ever stop chasing women. He is not worthy of you. Don't let a man deflate you. ❤️ 🇨🇦
Steve has admitted this on his own show . He wasn't always what he should of been...Watch the mother's day video...Steve wasn't the man he should of always been. He needs to take care of those who loved him when he had nothing...
May God's Blessings continue to be upon you Mary. I have read about this battle over the years. God is using Mary to be a voice for many. I do believe Mary's side of their stories. Steve often talks about God. He will come clean with his story or take it to his grave. God will be the Judge.
Wow this is a powerful interview. Very good interviewer and her question were on point. Steve is NOT the person he portrays on tv and Majorie is wow...... nothing.
Mary was an equal if not 10 times better than Harvey, the composure she’s having throughout this interview is beyond immaculate, her poise, the points she’s making. This is a woman who was broken down and had taken the stand to rise! I hope indeed she does. He didn’t leave her because because she wasn’t worthy, he left her because of that exact reason, she’s waaay more than he could match. If you ask me he’s career was in trouble 😋
I applaud her for having the courage to stand up for women like her who have been done so wrongly, as she has. I always thought her ex-husband was a liar and a fraudster. Preaching to women about we should make ourselves better to attract a man. That's bullshit!!!! I don't care how a woman carries herself, if a man wants to sleep around, that's exactly what he would do. I was also offered by the notion that women are not enough, when in most cases, we're more than enough. I'm so glad that phony has been exposed, and I can rest knowing that he didn't fool all women.
This is a phenomenal woman, to have gone through an experience such a she has & still be standing strong shows the woman who is a true survivor in spite of life's hardships. Intelligent, articulate & beautiful a true woman in every sense of the word. Steve left a loyal loving Queen for a goldigger who is gonna cost him.
She spoke her truth without demeaning him or herself. Beautiful
She sounds good, but there are 3 sides to every story
What i love about Mary is that she fell in love and she loved Steve when he was trying to gain his success and they both were struggling financially..she stayed!. Thank you Mary for sharing your heart to all women who are dealing with this relationship situation!. Amen Mary!🌺
Mary is an intelligent Woman....
I like her “2020”💯😊👍🏾
Yess
I listened to Mary Harvey and I saw a woman who was raised in a Christine home. She has class, manners, well spoken.
Whole your head up God shell provide. He has brought alonggggggg way. Keep pushing forward with hope in your heart.
You are a beautiful person. I'm sorry what happened to you, but GOD is moving you up
One day you will look back and say how I got over
Be blessed to GOD be the Glory
Christian home!
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AMEN
Mary Harvey I applaud you👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. Very articulate , very intelligent , God Bless you and keep you.
Steve let the woman see her son. She's his mother. You day is coming.
She sound well explicit, learned and able to put things together. I wish someone would give her a show.
She has a lot to offer through her experience, I admire how she's representing herself.
Yes! She should be the one writing her story in BOOKS!
Yes! A Genuine Talk Show! I am writing my story for women to fight the right way! The good fight of faith, and the power of God's word activated for favor, blessing, joy, strength, to feel loved, heard, and come out with the joyous victory! We must not forget to forgive, pray for, bless our enemies, and do good to those who hurt and betray us. In doing so, God promises us much: He will make our opposers/enemy our footstool, all things turn around and work for our Good; for those who loves the Lord and called for His purpose. God can turn it around - Trust God!
Wairimu Mutiti agreed...this woman is brilliant and centered and blessed.
Wairimu Mutiti she sound delusional to me.
delovely day this woman was a millionaire and can't make it from there.
For you folks who say she should move on she is moving on but you have to go more into the history. She took her time became stable again now she's in position to speak up in positive light.
very well put
This is true. How do I or America knows what the whole truth is?
Amen, this women has a degree and work hard to help Steve, and look what he did.
mookms T
She's so cute. Honest. I don't understand what are men looking in a woman.
she spoke so diligently...she is not bitter steave did her dirty..point blank..and his new wife is a home wrecker...benefiting off her suppose to be life.
lady shay While I agree she spoke in a very calm manner & that his new wife is a home wrecker. But Mary also “home wrecked” his first marriage.
@Angela Stone
Although that might be allegedly true what she did. We need to learn how to not look at the past and look at the present. And just pray that someone will learn a lesson from all his. Thank God for Jesus who forgive us from our sins when we repent and he forget about our past sins and sets us on the path of righteousness. Thank God we have a Holy and Righteous Judge, Jesus and don’t have humans to determine whether we get in to heaven or not.
You inspire me, Mary! Keep going up, baby girl!
You have a beautiful voice!! And beautiful manners!! You are too good for Steve Harvey!!You are well spoken..and can find you a really good man !!! Elaine Hartsoe replied God bless...you!!!
when your husband leaves you and divorces you for his MISTRESS. it hurts more than the DEATH of a LOVE ONE. HOWEVER through PRAYER and TIME. God WILL HEAL THAT BROKEN BROKEN HEART. PLUS GIVE YOU THE JOY AND PEACE YOU NEED. ALL IS NOT LOST. There's a BETTER DAY AHEAD. BELIEVE GOD. Im a WITNESS.
she divorced him 3 times
@@Cindiluu really!?
That interviewer 👏👏👏👏so professional, so articulate, great job!
Tell your STORY! It took years to heal and rise again. Go forward and tell the story of the reckoning of selfish shameful affairs.
I feel she is over the pain and him, Steve tells his ''STORY'' let her tell her story rather you believe her or not.... DO YOUR THING, SAY IT LOUD STAY BLACK AND PROUD lady.
The problem is the lady is very thorough. She took her time got herself back together now shes voicing her opinions. Bravo she should be considered the guru not Steve Harvey. 3 marriages does not make him a guru he does not speak for all men.
Usually the person speaking up has nothing to hide. Steve Harvey is jus hoping she will go away quietly because he wants to protect his brand. Even if they speak privately it would be beneficial to him, her and more importantly their son He needs to "Think like a man"
Kevin g 💯
now you are talking; amen to that; you are growing.
AMEN Kevin g!
If he wants to go away why not give her access to her son. Why not pay her alimony. Why not treat her like she is a human being deserving of some amount of respect.
She's a strong woman. People with power and fame are highly manipulative. I'm glad she's shining a light on Steve Harvey crude manipulative ways. I hope she gains access to her child.
I especially like when she said if he was working at Walmart and been married 3 times would women be lined up in the cold to buy his book?
Men going to tell you what they want you to here. Just to sell lies of book sale The dumbest book i ever heard.. Most white women don't live with men period.. Without marriage. Quick...They go straight to marriage..
@@alicewashington5633 Yep and straight to divorce 3 kids and 3 years later
She said Kmart
@@alicewashington5633 Steve is telling a bunch of lies in his book ...just to sell books.. women think remember he use to tell jokes for a living.. if it a lie..and sounds good folks will laugh.. sense many women buy the book how many relationship turn into marriage? Did he waited..90 days before he got the cookie? With his relationship?
@@SunnyDoesLife Absolutely right .. I often wonder where black folks get this things about shacking
Up from.. and I mean for years.. and have multiple children. Man runs off and leave his children and marry a woman with 2/3/4/5 children.. ect. Take care of her kids.. she going to make sure he supports her and kids.. but don't take care of his own children he left behind with their mother..SMH.. Marjorie make sure Steven adopted her 3 kids.. To get a pieces of the pie..
I can't believe so many women would hate on this woman and her pain. Bunch of snakes and wipers. If he came slithering around your door you would let him in huh? people suck
We don't hate on her I am just wondering what is really the truth. Why would Steve leave her out in the truth?
SAUNDRA ONEAL THANK YOU!
@@Happey67 MONEY. That's what he's protecting a product and he has to protect that product at all costs.
Marjorie brought all of the kids together. The first time he has been able to have a real family setting. That's wonderful. Ask Mary did she ever invite his kids over and how close was their relationship. When I divorced, I missed all of the children because I brought them over a lot. We're still close. She hasn't once said anything about "the family". She so stuck on Steve and jealous of the life he has with his wife and the "whole" family.
I love that she's such a smart woman
I can honestly say i can relate to what she is saying from her side.
Rena Grayes hold your standards
Rena Grayes she’s very wise
Mary, I’d buy a book about what you’ve done to rebuild your foundation, to speak up. You’re very well-spoken, intelligent and inspiring a culture, especially as a female, in bringing healthy, balanced change in dealing with abuses of power. If you need a developmental editor to work with, let me know. You’ve got a great voice🙏🏼✊🏽
She's has great insight, balance of emotions and poise.
i will buy her book. intelligent woman. i hope majorie is half the woman u are
LYDIA PREMPEH I can't wait to buy her book too! I can't wait! Steve Harvey is fucking trash! Karma, karma, karma is a bitch!
Marjorie can't be half or even a third of the woman Mary is. As Marjorie knew of their situation and imposed herself into the woman's life. Marjorie and Steve are both disgusting.
She anit even half the woman mary is see what happing to steve now??? Karma is a bitch
Stay Strong! You should have your own show because you are such a great speaker and is telling it like it is. Thank you for this message and I know that there will be something greater for you over what you have been through. If nothing else, you got back the gift of You! Love, Peace and Blessings.
She'd make a great news anchor or spokeswoman
Beautiful lady, I love her courage on speaking out and helping a younger generation.
Mary you have so much class, dignity and Beauty. I pray the Lord use you in a mighty way in Jesus name. Listen ladies you can learn from what she is sharing. Never settle or compromise your body , mind or soul for a man. Trust God and hold that Man to Gods standards, not a man that tells you to make a man wait 90 days for the Golden Rule before you share your body, no that's called fornication. If the man cant love , support grow with you and your walk with God, he is not worthy; when he loves unselfishly , that man commits. When a man loves you he desires you to be in the will of God not you compromising because compromise places your purpose and potential in jeopardy. Jeremiah 29:11-14
Mary, should write a book about what happened then make a movie also to help others...
@Ding Dong Exactly she God tired of his action with all those other women..
Great 👍 interview with Mary Harvey she is very articulate in speaking. She also a beautiful black woman
Stay strong like a strong black woman that you are don't let know man brake you. For me Steve is not in position to talk about how woman should think or do, I believe everything this woman said. Steve is fake
I love Mary's strength and positive outlook about this - - stay strong - - you are an excellent example for any woman who may need to regain her self-esteem..
Ms. Mary Harvey you are speaking the truth in regards to virtue and women standards and covenant. I pray God will heal you and make you whole. I pray that you are restored for all that you lost. Many women suffer due to adulterous horrific affairs. But God!
I believe her then and I believe her now. That is why his payback is beginning with the Ms Universe embarrassment.
God bless you sister! Be reminded that Jesus lives you this I know, and He's got you in this! Keep walking in your POWER! We need more sisters like you, women who aren't afraid of the devil! Been there!!!
I pray she gets peace in her situation.
This woman is a woman of moral power moral strength moral dignity. She’s educated intellectual. Thank you may god continue to bless you bless your heart and continue to strengthen you.
Mary, you need to write your book. You are so right about "the standard." Stay who you are and do not anyone change or lower who you are, but grow within stronger. You need to have a voice, always. Ladies if you are against this walk her walk.
This interview is the first that I've seen of Steve Harvey's ex-wife. I've always wondered who she was and how Steve's fame affected her after he made the decision to abandon his family. This interview was 10 years ago, pre-Margie Harvey, and Steve has blown up even more. I'm praying that his ex is totally healed now, and that she is free and whole, and that she found and reinvented her own identity outside and apart from the tragedy and experience of her life with her ex-husband. I hope that she is truly happy and has been able to discard the painful hurt brought on by the choices of someone else. This is not easy. I've been through it. And let me say this, I don't think that the choice that Steve made in leaving his family behind was an easy choice for him either, because he suffered tremendously and experienced a ton of defeat before finding success. But I also don't think that it was the right choice either. At the end of the day, I believe that there was a way that he could have achieved fame and fortune without the brutal abandonment of his family. D. L. Hughley did it. Bernie Mac did it. Dave Chappelle did it. I believe that Steve could have done it too. But Steve simply did not WANT to do it.
Agree 💯
Look at Majorie and look at Mary. Steve was just swept away
@@christieatuh
But Marjorie was nowhere in the picture when Steve left Mary. And even if she had been, c'mon, you just don't abandon your family like that. The only reason why I let Steve slide on this one is because he was young and dumb and it appears he learned his lesson.
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Vanessa very well said 🙏 I'VE BEEN THERE. BUT BY THE GRACE OF GOD I MADE IT☝️ WAS MARRIED FOR OVER 20 YEARS . TO GET DIVORCE BUT I FINALLY REALIZE IT TAKE 2 TO TANGO. I REMEMBER WHEN I DIDNT WANT TO GET OUT OF BED TO GO TO WORK. BUT I THANK MY LORD JESUS FOR BEING MY LIFTER.🙏🙏🙏
It would really be great to see her with a young, strong trainer type! I can see how working out with a trainer while falling in love would really be good for her! She is a beautiful woman and could contribute something by sharing the positive experiences as the woman who held her husband down on the road to success and the great doors that opened once things began to take off. I truly wish her well.
I am proud of you Mrs. Harvey for getting out of the bed of depression and speaking up, God has great things still in store for you! You are Beautiful and very inteligent. No more cotton in the mouth no more being silenced you have indeed helped many!
Thank you for sharing your story Mary...you have no doubt helped many. I support you.
Awesome woman Mary, thumbs up
this lady just wants her son so she can move on...i pray for her...we have too make better choices in life i feel her pain and i understand..God bless her.
She need Steve too
I feel her 100%....my Girlfriend was Pregnant with her first baby ...her baby daddy threaten to take her baby during her first pregnancy..... sad she miscarriages due to stress...so yes Men are now taking babies and children away from their Mothers
Beulah R. Walker I wish somebody would have taken mine so I couldn't had a better life.
Well ladies, I read a medical journal two weeks ago that states: Studies show women literally DIE from stress. Stress shrinks all our cells so badly they can't reproduce, and...adds to the aging process immensely. Soo...don't choose your soulmate, ask TMH for him. Steve used to be a pimp in the pimp life. Marjarie swung in those drug dealing circles that keeps runaways and prostitutes in DOPE. Now, I'm not judging because I'm not them and don't really know if "I love you" still existed for Steve, due to his still searching for another that matched his ego lifestyle. Birds of a feather, hoochie pick-ups, have always been in that same lifestyle and like "boo boo Kitty" do dastardly deeds to rise, stepping on others. IF SHE FORGED ANY SIGNATURES, the law MUST STEP IN TO PROTECT MARY for grief and emotional suffering. She didn't get to see her son graduate? Black men wake up, don't leave us desolate after rising, if you want to leave. ADD UP THE TIME, PUT YOURSELF IN OUR SHOES, AND BE FUCKING FAIR ABOUT IT. If your rising, you will still rise. You ex-isn't an anchor. Just be fair, and help them to adjust to the loss of love you took from them. Remember the hard times spent and who was with you to help you get through it, otherwise, you'll end up living a lie. WE Hebrew Y'srealites have lived a lie through others long enough.
Time to man up and GET FRIGGING HONEST, no matter the cost, TMH will help you through this Mary. HE's got your back.
Beulah R. Walker yes about get miscarage also trying to take my baby also my baby daddy did the same by trying take my baby before she was born.
I understand you completely Mary and agree most time as women we over look, lower our standards, and keep quite. That does not serve our children especially our girl children. God bless you and you really need to write on this matter.
Black men please be kind to the black women!
AMEN!
Mary is waaaaaay smarter than Marjorie. He should've stayed with her. He would probably be richer than he is today, b/c all Marjorie does is spend his money.
Majorie is light skin. That’s all he wants…
I am so happy for Mary. She as many other women have been through what she has been through. Mary, is very intelligent, I thank God for her growth. I pray that you face many more better days to come. I went through a situation, that caused a divorce of a marriage of 13 years. I left hurt, abandoned as well. A year later. I met and remarried. What I didn't know at the time was in my divorce decree, being that my ex was retired military, and we had been married over 10 years, I was due a portion of his retirement benefits. I have been remarried for 26 years. One day God spoke to my heart and I looked it up online. Divorced 27 years, remarried 26 years. The Lord blessed, I now receive a portion on a monthly basis part of his retirement. Won't God do it!
She is s woman of substance....i suggest she put her story in a book.
I get what she's saying. It must took a lot for her to get to that place and speak up. It hard when you place all your trust in your husband and he fail you especially if you comes from an Christian back ground. Now, not having access to your child, is wrong on ALL. Level. I like Steve but, do the right thing by her. It's never too late to get it right. Mary has to go through every emotion to get to where she is today. Good for her. It's her truth. At times to are so quick to blame the woman. Men do a lot of wrongs to women especially when they are in the public eye because they have an huge fan base that loves them but, we do not see what happen behind closed door. I wish you all the best Mary.
Praying 🙏🏽 Keep God 1st . Better things are coming for you. Thank you Mary.
All of u saying she needs to move on. Steve has no right to write a book, telling us women how to think. And just, he still have his son. So y won't she bitter. Even so she is up and giving women strength
Huh ttrhnjhf
You didn't live her or his life....and you are only going off on one side of the story. just say'n
just summer , she did not cheat on him. Marriage is work, behind every strong woman, there is a successful man. And now she is not up to his standards. If Steve is teaching us how to hold on to our man, then how did he held on to his ex wife. I don't need all the story. unless she cheated
I've always say, Steve is a hypocrite and lied to women with his bullshits like to wait 90 before opening the legs lolol... He just wanted to make money over bullshits and women bought into that. Sad!
Well, from what I have surmised about all of this between Steve and Mary Harvey, there are ALWAYS "TWO SIDES" to EVERY story or situation. And rightfully, both sides have the right to share their views and allow things to go from there.
None of us will ever know the entirety of "TRUTH" behind this situation between Mary and Steve: ONLY them, whether they come out and share the totality of the "TRUTH" or not. That is their choice.
The only question I have for Mary is why had she chosen to continue using Steve's ĺ"last" name",unless that, very well, happens to be her last name. But, yet again, this, too, is here choice: right, wrong, or indifferent.
Proud of you Mary. You r so professional with ur presenration. I have 50 less resp ect for Steve. Being a black divorced woman not angry or bitter just grateful to be single. 46 years divorced I don't think I ever loved my ex. Stay strong Mary don't lower your standards.i didn't and I am so grateful God moved me away from him. My parents assumed the role of absent man and fave us houses private school for children. Cars, piano 🎹, athletics and positive environment. Go Mary
So sad to hear about this experience, but happy that she is speaking her truth.
Its her side his side the end.She must have done something bad..what role she play in this. ijs
Mary Harvey is a very beautiful, intelligent , kind spirited soul! Good luck to you! What she said was very well spoken! Praying for the situation. Much love!!
The host of the show made a very valid point.She said that when women are going through something,they will be quick to listen or go out and by a book from someone who has a book out about relationships.
Mary’s hit the nail on the head - she’s found the missing section of Steve’s book - that women are the way they are (strong, independent) because they’ve HAD to be, with no man in the picture. She should write a book of her own about this issue and teach MEN how to treat US!
Please GIVE US MORE OF MS. MARY
Mary you really loved Steve. He was less than a man to not let you know that he was courting. Got angry about something he had fabricated. Left you and went to the upper room.
Exactly she still love him
But she was the one that divorced him
Interviewer is asking good questions!
She was great!
Exactly mary That's your son. Not his wife son.. She want all the credit to say she raise your son.. She need to find her kids fathers.. Oh they don't have money like Steve.. So he adopted her kids... She made sure of that...
brilliant centered and blessed
..well done excellence.
Bless this woman.
.....that was my EXACT reason for not wanting to read the book......HOW CAN SOMEONE WHO'S BEEN MARRIED 3 TIMES TELL ANYONE ABOUT A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE???? I just didn't get it
The book is all about money..Act like a woman think like a man.. Boy buy. Stupid women.. who buy the book.. He is not God...He is a greedy man..
Well said. Classy and Beautiful
divorce is hard I don't think she is bitter I just think she is in pain she is hurting to this day that mean she was really in love with this man
It's more women believes is what you are saying Mary, so keep the good work up.
+Carrie Banks-Wright What good work? Half the world gets divorced. She needs to see a psychiatrist so she can move forward. All over social media telling lies. She filed for divorce, she put her son on a plane. Her storyline is weak and her 10 minutes of fame are gone. Steve better be glad he left this insecure woman.
Il Ike the way she adresse the situation with respect plus she’s beautiful
When I was very young and understood heart break love songs; I vowed never to dwell on a guy who I leave or who leaves me. Do not sing about him, wine about him, explain about him etc... spend the “in the mean time,” getting healthier, finer and setting up a world of joy for yourself. Be the best you life has to offer. SUCCESS IS THE BEST REVENGE EVER! Succeed in your goals, education, physical fitness etc... surround yourself with positive people and sincere friends. Keep his name out your mouth. When his name comes up, be silent, there is power in controlling your world. It looks like he has it all, but he lacks the fullness of himself. Marjorie is his trophy. She defines him, gives him self esteem and a buffed ego. Without money they would not exist. So, move on, do not waste your energy or time. I admire Steve for over coming all odds, I admire Majorie for having visions and goals and accomplishing her dreams, making her own money. So, sis, you are beautiful, you are a very stunning black woman. You are another type of woman. You are not flashy, you are not vain, you are not the because I got it flaunt it type. Low key modest women can be just as beautiful, because it’s the strength you possess that makes you the queen.
Whew!! If she had cash app I’d send her all I have!! Preach Queen!!
Mary Harvey, I feel your pain. You are a brave, smart, and nice woman just looking for JUSTICE. You are in my prayers, as this issue of your unjust DIVORCE is not done yet. You will get justice!
June 25, 2018
I know exactly what she's going through .been there done that.The only thing I can say to women is Love yourself first. Love with your head first.The heart is second. Have your own money. Make sure your name is on the deed and
At least one account. Do not.dont be comfortable in your relationship because there are women out there ,white and black,, waiting to pounce on your man after you built the empire with him. Just don't sit back and be comfortable.
I'm in a great place and been remarried 21years now. He doesn't have any money. I got the money now. Hmm.
Mary Harvey move on honey.you re beautiful,intelligent and well spoken.Dont let the past determine your future.love to you.
This video occurred many years ago but listening to her speak today is still relevant. Steve ought to be ashamed of himself.
The one thing I disagree with Mary on is Steve being married three times does pave the way to author a book on relationships. Steve is a hustler, strategic and an opportunist based on what I have observed. He has taken his past relationship experiences and author a best selling. I haven’t read his book
The reason why the burden falls on Afrikan / Black women is because A/B men are not considered proper men as all other men of other races are. That's just the way it is t the moment. They are considered at best boys. Most of them don't understand why they are looked upon so lowly. This label of 'boy' also applies to A / B Men that are considered successful. Well done Mary for speaking the truth as you see it.
Stay strong & continue to STAND for what is right!!!
Thank you Mary Harvey. I knew you had ministry in you when I knew what you had been through. Husband love your wives. He didn't love you or himself. Adultery is an enemy to the soul and believe me when you opened your mouth and use the voice that God gave you; you exposed the truth of the condition of our families and the role and the responsibility of head of household. The church is at fault because we give people a plateau that are rich and famous. When was the last time you watched TBN and saw a blue collar worker who is faithful to God and his wife and his children and be called to speak on nationwide TV. It takes a man of honor and integrity to be able to love a woman like you and to be a carrier of the anointing that God has given you. No your divorce and the adultery and the splitting of your family wasn't God ordained but it will be God used. Just as the word of God said you are no longer the forsaken wife but now your the wife of the redeemed. Godspeed to you sister! Thank you for giving me the courage to use my voice!!!
I am so glad she had the courage to speak out, her words is so powerful and so many ways she would never ever understand I believe every word she said she does not come across as vindictive malicious and desperate. On top of it's all she is absolutely right so many people went down and got that book except for me without thinking this man been married three times how could you possibly know the truth about anything why didn't we look at his other relationship and see how he handle it before we invest into him. Truthfully I stop liking Steve Harvey after how him and Bernie Mac relationship was I'm an old time stand up The Comedy of both of them and the way he blackballed it or jealousy of Bernie Mac's up to the day he died I will never forget so that shows you there are always two sides to a man you sometimes more size that you ever want to believe. The way he handle her was horrible. Simply horrible this woman has lost everything but he has not took her soul I hope for the best for this lady I want her to know that she has so many viewers behind her and we do believe what she is saying I wish the best for her I will pray for her for Eternal health strength and healing most of all in to find somebody that truly love her Beyond he can ever do he has destroyed Secret love and devotion and he has tried to take everything from this woman and leave her out for the wolves so I'm very glad she is able to speak out to his women about the true story on this is a true story God bless her and thank you everything we see on the outside does not mean is what it is on the inside just because he's funny he knows how to talk to people don't mean he hasn't done something terrible and his life to take his son and turn the son against his mother paternal mother words can't even begin to understand this child will reap what he sold as this child grow up he will see a difference and as they say, Karma she does not forget and his wife if you look at her now and what's going on today it seem like it's already coming around because it's been whispering that he is cheating on her as well you can't steal another man from his woman he willingly left what she supposed to do scream and fight look like a fool I think not the women that be in these men's life for so long get thrown away like trash and Society just push them aside all the time they're not credible why because he's famous she the bitter EX I don't think so. I truly hope that this story becomes a lion that she prove to him that the best thing he ever had did was left her because now he is not her problem. Steve Harvey need to fix itself and I was right about him years ago that's why I stop entertaining him he would not get my blessings for his corrupt life he's a typical man full with lies and deceits and when it don't go his way he made her look like a complete total fool and shame on him for that but don't you worry sweetie every dog gets his day whether you are there to see it or not and he is no exception to the rules and it's far as his nasty new wife her day is on his way to because he's cheating on her now as well that's the rumor and I know she has heard of that. until next time thank you for all your carriage and I hope the best for you ❤
She has moved on and seems to be coming with fire. Showing that she is reclaiming her life. Congratulations!
Beautiful... Stunning.. Whatever she saw in Steve.. She should had followed her instinct from the start .. keep it moving.. Don't look back
how is a woman is supposed to act like a man?? are think like a man if we are women! !
Speak Mary no more abuse from men and power!!! Men can't just do anything to a woman! Thank you Deya for giving us a voice!
This breaks my heart. 💔 I was not aware of any of this. Having said that I did think Steve Harvey was a bully when on national t.v. he said to his son in law (Ben) " you better do right by my daughter as I'm from the hood and I'll look after things ".
Sounded like a threat to me. Emasculated the poor guy in front of his audience. Wow! He also made an underlying sexual comment about Kim Kardashian. Will he ever stop chasing women. He is not worthy of you. Don't let a man deflate you. ❤️ 🇨🇦
I like that, “Don’t let a man deflate you.” Personally, I never did and never will. But thank you for saying that.
girl..... you need your own talk show. I love her.
♥️♥️♥️ So happy she’s speaking out
This is real thing. I lived this through my daughter.
Steve has admitted this on his own show . He wasn't always what he should of been...Watch the mother's day video...Steve wasn't the man he should of always been. He needs to take care of those who loved him when he had nothing...
This gives me another whole look at Steve Harvey,...,
I'm glad she poses these questions and answers them.
Prayer changes things.
God Bless you Mary!! You my dear inspire me.
May God's Blessings continue to be upon you Mary. I have read about this battle over the years. God is using Mary to be a voice for many. I do believe Mary's side of their stories. Steve often talks about God. He will come clean with his story or take it to his grave. God will be the Judge.
Wow this is a powerful interview. Very good interviewer and her question were on point. Steve is NOT the person he portrays on tv and Majorie is wow...... nothing.
Well, said. 👏
God bless you Mary!
Amazing dear Sister ....strong arguments. God bless
God send my loving and healing energy around this woman or any woman hurt. Peace and Power
God Bless you for standing up Mary Harvey, if you kick a dog his going to stream!!!
Mary was an equal if not 10 times better than Harvey, the composure she’s having throughout this interview is beyond immaculate, her poise, the points she’s making. This is a woman who was broken down and had taken the stand to rise! I hope indeed she does. He didn’t leave her because because she wasn’t worthy, he left her because of that exact reason, she’s waaay more than he could match. If you ask me he’s career was in trouble 😋
I applaud her for having the courage to stand up for women like her who have been done so wrongly, as she has. I always thought her ex-husband was a liar and a fraudster. Preaching to women about we should make ourselves better to attract a man. That's bullshit!!!! I don't care how a woman carries herself, if a man wants to sleep around, that's exactly what he would do. I was also offered by the notion that women are not enough, when in most cases, we're more than enough. I'm so glad that phony has been exposed, and I can rest knowing that he didn't fool all women.
Do not let Steve have the power over your thoughts. Give your hurt to God.
Glad u r sp eaking
Well done Mary...how do we expect to rank Steve as relationship coach when he married 3 times??? Plizzzzz.
This is a phenomenal woman, to have gone through an experience such a she has & still be standing strong shows the woman who is a true survivor in spite of life's hardships. Intelligent, articulate & beautiful a true woman in every sense of the word. Steve left a loyal loving Queen for a goldigger who is gonna cost him.