you’ll get there! i was the same as you too and i still struggle with cutting toxic people out of my life. i just seem to attract them! you’ll fine genuine friends soon. i did and it’s hard to get away from those toxic and bad friends. you’ll get there!
I'm also INFJ. I read that INFJs are usually reserved but highly sensitive to how others feel, they are idealistic, with high moral standards and a strong focus on the future and enjoy thinking about deep topics and contemplating the meaning of life. I can definitely relate to most of those things.
I'm an INFJ too and completely resonate with that! I'm very reserved so I like to have a small circle of friends, but they're friends that I want a very deep and strong connection too
I’m genuinely impressed by people like you, who aren’t afraid to be themselves online. I couldn’t do it. I thought it was a choice but recently found out that I’m terrified of posting my personal thoughts and things that I like under my real name. I fear people irl would make fun of me or that my mysterious image would be ruined. I’m trying to change because it’s too stressful.
I feel the same way. I even have an entirely diff IG that nobody knows abt in real life (if you add 1 person you get rec’d to others) so I can feel like I can post what I want w/o getting anxious about every move. And also just seeing other people’s lives all the time that I know in RL is not my thing, it’s depressing I think it’s fear of intimacy or smth
Omg fr! I always have felt more comfortable making an anonymous account where I put my actual thoughts and feelings. Idk what it is but expressing any type of deeper feeling or thoughts under my true identity makes me so uncomfortable and I overthink it like crazy everytime!
Me too ;-; I felt like I was hiding myself under anonymous names and pictures from google for a long time that I'm now trying to get out of that shell this 2021. :>
I used to feel this way. I wore my anonymity as veil to protect myself. Being mysterious made me feel invincible and invisible at the same time. It's hard to be yourself IRL, let alone online. But once you live authentically as yourself without fear, you feel free. I hope anyone reading this finds courage and strength to be your true self always. You deserve to be the main character in your story. 🤍
when it is hard for you to be real you should be anonym online. It is dangeress if all viewers know you address or your full name. I would not do this. I do videos with anonymity too
im also an INFJ :))) it usually means you’re soft-spoken, altruistic, and thoughtful. its supposed to be the rarest personality type but i see so many people with it lol. i definitely think it fits you!!
I'm also an INFJ and I thought they were very rare but reading the comments I'm surprised how many there are including Michelle! I'm glad that Michelle is a youtuber- I relate to her in so many ways such as being second gen Korean, personality traits, being very chill and introverted yet silly with friends, but also the struggle of making new friends and stepping out of that comfort zone especially when having social anxiety like myself. It's reassuring knowing you're not the only one and hearing her insight and advice. Love from Toronto x
I totally agree to every sentence you wrote here. I’m also an INFJ, Korean (not second gen but still lol) and living in Toronto! It’s just so 신기해요 that I have read someone’s comment who have some facts in common with me on Michelle’s youtube.
This is so comforting just hearing you talk to your friends. After college, meeting new people and making friends has been a struggle especially since I'm a consultant so work by myself mostly..
i'm an infj :) it's interesting because i find that a lot of the youtubers i follow and am most interested by are generally infjs/infps (which is also the people i surround myself with) i had a feeling you were one! i feel like we all have that ~mystery~ to us and we have a lot of personality but it only shows to a select few people. i struggled growing up bc i was shy & i made it a point to be more outgoing in my teens/early twenties. now that i'm in my late twenties, i'm a lot more comfortable with myself and understanding that my "success" isn't defined by how social i am/how many friends i have but by the meaningful connections i make with the few people out there i call close friends. struggled with being hypercritical of myself and my work because i always look up to people who are phenomenal at what they do. so i always feel average. when i know i'm definitely above average. (but i would never actually admit that and it feels weird for me to type that lol) but love your talks girl!
omg sooo true I an INFJ too and i felt like i related to michelle on some weird level (until i realized she was INFJ and it made more sense lol). everything else u said i relate with too 100000%
Wait, your chit chat grwm with Esther made me so.so.freaking.happy. I struggle to make friends every time I move and know that pivotal moment when you finally find that FIRST true friend. Even better when they’re on the same journey as you. I love how comfortable you two are with each other now. ☺️☺️ go Michelle! Also, I’m the Advocate INFJ-T ✌️
I'm INFJ too. I like being alone rather than being in a crowd. I know many people because of it people say that I'm very sociable, but I'm not. I have can't say that all are my friends, just few are.
can i just say I LOOOVE this particular vlog michelle this is the first time that you introduced a friend who is similar with you like wanting to meet new friends too. aggh i miss my friends hahahahaha
I'm also INFJ and can totally relate to depending on my boyfriend to make new friends. I made friends like this in college but now that I just graduated, I realize my bond with them just wasn't as strong because I only talked/hung out with them when I was with my boyfriend 😅I'm moving to a new city soon and I really want to make some new friends on my own! p.s. love you both! ❤
INFJ here! You can do it! =) Especially in a new place and alone it pushes us out of the comfort zone and sometimes, it just takes longer for us to find the right click but once it's found and we really want it, it's usually lasting and deep 😊
When Michelle shared she was an INFJ before I felt I understood why I really resonated with all her vlogs. I mostly spend my time alone, decorating my apartment, playing with my dogs, and really just vibing on my own. I too face challenges sometimes trying to genuinely connect with others, but at the same time I barely leave the apartment, haha.
I’m also an INFJ! It’s really interesting to see other INFJ’s as we are all so similar, I think that’s one of the reasons I love Michelle’s vlogs. She’s so relatable!
Yay for us INFJs! We are an incredibly rare personality type. It makes sense that we are all drawn to Michelle’s YT videos as she reflects a lot of the complex qualities in our own nature.
i love michelle and her videos so very much. it’s so comforting watching her be real because she’s so relatable. also, i’m an istj but also follow with an isfj 💛💛
INFP and I've found it so much more difficult to form genuine friendships since I've gotten older. I feel myself drifting from old friends due to living different lives, but being an introvert who feels things really deeply, it's hard for me to meet others similar to me Thanks for sharing this, I can definitely relate!
I’m ENFJ! I actually think we’re super similar, that’s why I was immediately drawn to your videos. I think the test gave me ENFJ bc I trained myself to be extroverted when I hang out but I easily get tired from it so technically I’m borderline INFJ haha. I enjoy a lot of alone time to sort out my thoughts and to let my mind rest. I also think our perspectives of the world are very similar so a lot of what you say resonates with me. Love you Michelle!! 💕Your videos keep me sane. I hope that one day we can become friends haha...a girl can dream 😂
I've always wanted to move to a new city by myself and have a change but I was always too scared. My personality trait is ISFP and it's so hard to meet ppl when I'm so shy. So I totally understand where you guys are coming from and I'm so glad you guys have each other. God bless!
I’m also INFJ. I've been struggling a lot lately with my sensitivity. I always care people’s attention so I was afraid to get out of my comfort zone and take an action. But I saw you and I felt better about myself. Thank you Michelle and I love you from Japan❤️
I'm the same as Esther, ISFP! So cool to know that one of your now closest friends is the same personality type as me. Maybe that's why I always feel like I can relate to you and your vlogs! There's still so much I can learn in life when it comes to friendships and relationships. Thanks for having these chit chat talks :)
I'm INFJ! Personally, I see people with INFJ personalities put a bigger emphasis on quality time with the people you care about, you are able to have alone time, but at the same time still want to be with your significant other/family/friends, you are creative and thoughtful, you're always trying to learn something new, you're calm, when you get excited you can genuinely tell, emotions are strong, but controlled, and connections with people are felt deep inside so you know you truly connect with that person. That's me in a nutshell and I do feel like we share some of those traits. Because when I watch your videos, your thoughts and actions seem to follow what I feel and would do. So I truly enjoy your videos. :)
Hello michelle! I really love watching your videos, it soothes my mind and makes me temporarily forget my problems. I love you already..stay safe always😊
It's really nice that you guys found each other. When i moved here in Australia, i worked really hard making friends and introducing myself to my peers, classmates and lecturers even though i'm a really introvert(INFP!) and shy person before. it really worked out for me because they taught me a lot of self love and reassurance to not be scared to talk to people. i really adore my close group of friends and even though we don't get to meet often nowadays, when we do its like we never lost touch. I'm really lucky that i made that decision to be open to people and many reciprocated. I hope New York life will be much kinder to you michelle! I got a sense that you are very similar to me. ngl i spend a lot of time alone or at home too because i'm not the type who would go out for fun, but having extroverted & outgoing friends really helped me to burst out of that bubble and actually experience new things. i don't regret it at all
I'm also an INFJ! I can relate to you having a few genuine friends rather than having a bunch of casual friends. INFJs can seem outgoing but I think you and I both prefer to hang out in smaller groups or have alone time in deep thoughts about relationships, career, and life in general. I personally have been struggling to maintain friendships and make new friends ever since I graduated from college last year. Thank you for sharing and making me realize I am not alone in this!
The fact that i went from crying (bcoz the talk abt vulnerability is smtg i wanna achieve w/ others) to laughing abt michelle’s “INSFP” 😂 this kinda made my day
I’m INFJ too! I really relate lol, and I especially find that if I start a new chapter of my life, and I don’t immediately have these deep friendships, I end up feeling sad and unfulfilled, when it’s actually just because building these relationships takes time.
I'm an INFJ as well. And yes we are similar in so many ways that is one of the many reasons why I love watching your videos because I can relate to you . Also I get the feeling that I have a genuine friend. Thank you Michelle. Lots of love!❤❤💖
Hi Michelle, for the eye cream you should try to put it on the bone under the eye and not to close of the eye because the skin makes a reaction that makes the cream going back up, so if you put it too close it irritates the eye, hope this help ❤️❤️
I’m INFP! I really value making deep connections and conversations with people, looking how much you grown Michelle, is inspiring to me❤️😭 you have come so far !!
I'm INFJ too Michelle! and i can say i was always drawn to your videos because i can relate to you very well. Making friends is a very difficult thing but so rewarding once you find the ones who cares for you and vice versa. hope youre well!
I’m an INFJ too! I feel like I resonated with you watching your videos and how you have this way of looking off to the side like you’re searching for something when you speak. I do this naturally too! Also in terms of energy levels and how we speak, it’s pretty similar. Sort of monotone / lack of fluctuation in our voices which isn’t a bad thing.
My personality type is INFJ and i totally relate to you. Even i become close to someone it is always on my mind maybe they are getting bored or they are not enjoying my company and just thinking things or attitudes over and over
I'm an INFJ too!! despite the age difference between us, I kind of find it difficult making new friend but I'm always trying to push myself out of my comfort zone and talking to people I haven't before. I wish you all the best
I'm actually so impressed how you were able to get into a relationship first after moving alone to the big city. I would be too afraid to even go on dates! Glad to see you loving your transition and finding a comfort zone with new friends❤️ love ya Michelle❤️
I'm also INFJ and I think for our personality type we tend to hang out with small group of people and have deep relationship with them.. that is what I've been doing. but making friends with some extroverted people will make you hang out more and get to see more people and I think being a little bit more open with them about yourself and make deep conversation is also helpful.
just got my wisdom tooth removed and I recently got my lower molar removed so I can’t really eat with both sides and I’m just in so much pain 😔 so glad Michelle uploaded because I get to put my mind off the pain aaaa I love you!
I'm an INFJ too , I struggle a lot in making new friends I like long lasting friendships that's why I have one friend only . Usually I like staying at home chilling and enjoying my time alone . I hope we can see Easther more in you vlogs , Love you Michelle ❤
Hi Michelle! I'm also an INFJ-T. What you described in relation to meeting new people and not being dependent on your s/o really resonated with me. There are times where I have to remind myself that I should go out and meet people or hang out with friends rather than stay hibernated in the little hole I've made for myself. But on the other hand, there are times where I can't help but feel I'd rather be alone than use my energy in being around people. In any case, I really enjoy your videos and really "clicked" with you with the first video I saw. Anyway, enough of my ramblings. Hope you're doing well & take care :)
I'm ENFJ with introvert tendencies! You're so funny for getting ISFP wrong so many times 😂😂 glad you two are going out to build more friendships together!
i'm an infp & they're very compatible with infjs too! glad to know there was a reason why i re-subscribed a few years later :) you're not in korea anymore but it's very cool how you've grown!
i’m an INFJ too and i relate soooo much i often find that after finding even just one person i’m comfortable with i tend to just stick to them out of comfort and lose the motivation to continue branching out to meet new people and it’s like if that person isn’t available i’m left alone again it’s it’s this constant battle inside my head of wanting to stick to my comfort zone and having to push myself to meet new people also just cause socialising is so draining for me and i find it difficult to meet people i really click with and at the same time i’m not the kind to invest much in relationships unless they’re more substantial. especially when meeting people in groups too it’s harder to really connect individually and then you tend to not meet unless it’s as a group and it just reduces the chances of making lasting relationships
i'm also an INFJ! i've been watching your vlogs for the past couple years and you remind me a lot of myself. i feel the exact same way about what you said with finding friends in a new city/after college. hoping you and esther can continue uploading more videos together :)
This makes sooo much sense!!! I am an INFJ as well and I noticed parallels in the way you friendship and a lot in general. I love your content and can’t wait to see the rest of your journey!
Hi Mich, 1:24 made my heart drop :O hahahaha the needle on the stylus of the record player is super sensitive and try to place it on the record player lightly. Otherwise, the needle will wear out really fast and it might damage your records too! But sickkkk set up for your first one 😍
same :) im more drawn to people who are introverted and have more similar personality traits, it makes them more relatable. im definitely not as drawn to extroverted creators which is funny because most extroverts draw more attention.
Lol I’m an infj too so I’ve literally related to a lot of things you say/feel so it makes sense now! I recently read up more about my personality type and it really really opened my eyes up to why I am the way I am. Basically: we like to be in our heads a lot, introverted but also with the want to have extroverted feelings so that messes us up a little!
Michelle I looove your videos because they are so friggin relatable!! 💖 I’m an INFJ too and although they’re the rarest personality type apparently lol, most people I’ve met are the same! I feel like we think sorta similarly, and I agree it’s hard to make a new circle of friends as we get older and in a big city, etc. Genuine friends are def hard to come by. Thank u for ur content 💜
im so happy that you have made an effort to make new friends its not easy i think for me it used to be easy but as i have gotten older and have had bad experiences with friendships i now have such a hard time i literately have like 5 friends but in a way i dont mind i rather have 5 very good friends than a bunch of fake friends that don't care about me ... I enjoyed the vlog so much Michelle im so happy to see u happy ♥
Hey Michelle, so, I currently moved to Korea. And it is genuinely hard to make friends that blend well with your personality. I'm an ENFP, which is the extroverted one from your personality. My best friend has the same personality type as you and we are truly soulmates. I hope you enjoy New York. Go out, and meet some great people! You got this!!
INFJ and I can totally relate w you!🦋 That's why one day, when I was watching the video in which you said you're an INFJ, I was Like 'YESS!! I KNEWW IT, THAT'S WHY SHE IS SO RELATABLE.' it made me so happy. 👉👈🥺❤️❤️
I am an INFJ-T! Same as Michelle! We are both similar in ways were we are very introverted but can feel lonely when we spend way too much time alone. We both like having a small circle of friends. idk if you feel the same way but I find a lot of joy in helping others. Also advocating for others like for civil rights and just anything someone else needs. I do a lot of charity and volunteering. I am also an empath. I am very intuitive too I can feel the energy in the room fast, but I am also prone to getting overwhelmed by negative energy. I hope this helps gives some factors on the INFJ personality type.
I agree with the friends situation. I’m 31 and an INFJ also but i went through the same situations in my 20s. I didn’t have an issue with friends but I’m painfully shy and had a hard time finding genuine friends. In my late 20s idk I just became content with my way of making friends and who I am and reflecting on what I need. I don’t have many friends but I allow myself to be open to just speaking to new people. It’s huge when I can strike up small talk because I am not a small talk type of person. I also do not depend on my husband for happiness he has his own thing and I go down my path of my own. I feel like you get a sense of clarity as you can closer to your 30s it just clicked for me.
im an INFJ too! for me, I have my circle of friends who are basically like family to me. we all live in NYC but once we entered college, half them went away to other states and it took a long ass time for me to find comfort within myself. right now, im just trying to figure out how to be a good friend to those i love while also being there for myself. it's always a work-in-process haha
the first time i struggled in making new friends is when i entered senior high school, it last over a year until i officially have my circle of friends. it’s kinda sad bec. i am now an incoming college student which means, im back at it again in making new friends. but its ok i understand this is what life means lol. i’m happy for u for having ur friend by ur side!!♥️♥️
michelle i freakin love u can u pls do more of these talks and also a closet essential or like "everything i have in my closet" because i loveeee your style
I'm ISFP and I also struggle to start/ find genuine friendships as well. I'm quiet but very laid back and I can get along with different types of people but I only have a few close friends but most of them live in different states so it's hard to continue to be close with them. But I'm loving the chitchat vlogs and I can't wait for the podcast! I also wanted to note that everyone should take the test every year or every other year for accuracy because your personality type can change as you grow older.
I’m INFJ too!! I read that they have a hard time making friends because they tend to cut people who they don’t relate to off. But I also read that when they meet a fellow INFJ, they really hit it up with them !!
Omg I can’t believe I came here first 😭 Michelle I saw your first video a few years ago and you’re such an inspiration which made me start my own channel too 💕💕
Wow I am not even halfway through the video and I have some serious waterworks going on lol. As someone who lives on the other side of the world from literally ALL of my friends I am soooo genuinely happy to see you having such a fun time with all your girlfriends Michelle! It honestly warms my heart 💜 Love these vlogs so much~
I am also INFJ OMGGGG. I also feel very dependent to my boyfriend and have recently been trying to lessen it and make time with my friends. Also, I’m not really the very social type and I’m trying to develop myself to be more friendly and outspoken especially with my college program which is communication. Anyways I really love you vlogs! They’re soothing ❤️
I'm an INFJ-T type. No wonder despite all other famous RUclipsr out there I'm still going back watching your videos cause it feels like home. 😍 Love lots. ❤❤
Oh Meesh I feel you girl! I am also born in June and an INFJ. Being (Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling, Judging) can definitely affect the experience of making friends and even opening up to people I've known forever. It's always a work in progress though and happy to know we aren't alone. Just takes more time for us to gain others trust.. :) Mucho love from Toronto
I am also an infj-t and I have been struggling to make friends since elementary school believes or not😩. However, when i first got to a university I notice that my personality has changed; I became less introverted and more open to a wide range of people.
Also an INFJ here 🙋🏻♀️. Guess this is why I feel some sort of comfort watching your videos. I also find it easier to connect with people when they start opening-up or showing their vulnerability. Visit Cebu again someday Michelle!
as someone that’s currently struggling with genuine friendships I’m really happy u uploaded this video🥺
Same!
same here
you’ll get there! i was the same as you too and i still struggle with cutting toxic people out of my life. i just seem to attract them! you’ll fine genuine friends soon. i did and it’s hard to get away from those toxic and bad friends. you’ll get there!
Samee
awww let’s be friends ! 💛
I'm also INFJ. I read that INFJs are usually reserved but highly sensitive to how others feel, they are idealistic, with high moral standards and a strong focus on the future and enjoy thinking about deep topics and contemplating the meaning of life. I can definitely relate to most of those things.
I'm an INFJ too and completely resonate with that! I'm very reserved so I like to have a small circle of friends, but they're friends that I want a very deep and strong connection too
Yup, I am too and that's exactly it!
how do u guys know? I've never heard of this before...
Me too!👋
@@2311tish there is MBTI personality test online you can take and find your personality type
I’m genuinely impressed by people like you, who aren’t afraid to be themselves online. I couldn’t do it. I thought it was a choice but recently found out that I’m terrified of posting my personal thoughts and things that I like under my real name. I fear people irl would make fun of me or that my mysterious image would be ruined. I’m trying to change because it’s too stressful.
I feel the same way. I even have an entirely diff IG that nobody knows abt in real life (if you add 1 person you get rec’d to others) so I can feel like I can post what I want w/o getting anxious about every move. And also just seeing other people’s lives all the time that I know in RL is not my thing, it’s depressing
I think it’s fear of intimacy or smth
Omg fr! I always have felt more comfortable making an anonymous account where I put my actual thoughts and feelings. Idk what it is but expressing any type of deeper feeling or thoughts under my true identity makes me so uncomfortable and I overthink it like crazy everytime!
Me too ;-; I felt like I was hiding myself under anonymous names and pictures from google for a long time that I'm now trying to get out of that shell this 2021. :>
I used to feel this way. I wore my anonymity as veil to protect myself. Being mysterious made me feel invincible and invisible at the same time.
It's hard to be yourself IRL, let alone online.
But once you live authentically as yourself without fear, you feel free. I hope anyone reading this finds courage and strength to be your true self always. You deserve to be the main character in your story. 🤍
when it is hard for you to be real you should be anonym online. It is dangeress if all viewers know you address or your full name. I would not do this. I do videos with anonymity too
michelle's the big sister/friend we all need periodt
Jeri Camposano agreed
I agreee 😅😅😅💜💜💜
im also an INFJ :))) it usually means you’re soft-spoken, altruistic, and thoughtful. its supposed to be the rarest personality type but i see so many people with it lol. i definitely think it fits you!!
I'm an INFJ but far from being soft spoken loll
how do i know which one am i? is there a quiz for it?
M if you just search MBTI test you should find one!
Because we love being alone and we can all relate to her so we're here 😹
@@maiixo808 yes!
I'm also an INFJ and I thought they were very rare but reading the comments I'm surprised how many there are including Michelle! I'm glad that Michelle is a youtuber- I relate to her in so many ways such as being second gen Korean, personality traits, being very chill and introverted yet silly with friends, but also the struggle of making new friends and stepping out of that comfort zone especially when having social anxiety like myself. It's reassuring knowing you're not the only one and hearing her insight and advice. Love from Toronto x
I think INFJ is rare but many INFJs are here because we can relate to her.
I totally agree to every sentence you wrote here. I’m also an INFJ, Korean (not second gen but still lol) and living in Toronto! It’s just so 신기해요 that I have read someone’s comment who have some facts in common with me on Michelle’s youtube.
@@hennyhwang6941 Really makes you feel like it's a small world! ㅎㅎㅎ
@@ceni777 I know right!!! 유튜브댓글이지만 내 마음과 통하는 사람을 봐서 속이 좀 편안합니다 ㅎㅎ
This is so comforting just hearing you talk to your friends. After college, meeting new people and making friends has been a struggle especially since I'm a consultant so work by myself mostly..
i'm an infj :) it's interesting because i find that a lot of the youtubers i follow and am most interested by are generally infjs/infps (which is also the people i surround myself with)
i had a feeling you were one! i feel like we all have that ~mystery~ to us and we have a lot of personality but it only shows to a select few people. i struggled growing up bc i was shy & i made it a point to be more outgoing in my teens/early twenties. now that i'm in my late twenties, i'm a lot more comfortable with myself and understanding that my "success" isn't defined by how social i am/how many friends i have but by the meaningful connections i make with the few people out there i call close friends. struggled with being hypercritical of myself and my work because i always look up to people who are phenomenal at what they do. so i always feel average. when i know i'm definitely above average. (but i would never actually admit that and it feels weird for me to type that lol)
but love your talks girl!
omg sooo true I an INFJ too and i felt like i related to michelle on some weird level (until i realized she was INFJ and it made more sense lol). everything else u said i relate with too 100000%
I never felt more understood. As an infj this is the summarization of my life too.
Wait, your chit chat grwm with Esther made me so.so.freaking.happy. I struggle to make friends every time I move and know that pivotal moment when you finally find that FIRST true friend. Even better when they’re on the same journey as you. I love how comfortable you two are with each other now. ☺️☺️ go Michelle!
Also, I’m the Advocate INFJ-T ✌️
i literally drop everything when i get the notif that michelle's uploaded a video! love u michelle
"There's no point in doing makeup, where's my mask." moooooood.
I'm INFJ too. I like being alone rather than being in a crowd. I know many people because of it people say that I'm very sociable, but I'm not. I have can't say that all are my friends, just few are.
Yessss, we are only sociable with our closest friends (inner circle)
can i just say I LOOOVE this particular vlog michelle this is the first time that you introduced a friend who is similar with you like wanting to meet new friends too. aggh i miss my friends hahahahaha
Watching Michelle makes me so happy!! 💖🥰
I'm also INFJ and can totally relate to depending on my boyfriend to make new friends. I made friends like this in college but now that I just graduated, I realize my bond with them just wasn't as strong because I only talked/hung out with them when I was with my boyfriend 😅I'm moving to a new city soon and I really want to make some new friends on my own! p.s. love you both! ❤
INFJ here! You can do it! =) Especially in a new place and alone it pushes us out of the comfort zone and sometimes, it just takes longer for us to find the right click but once it's found and we really want it, it's usually lasting and deep 😊
When Michelle shared she was an INFJ before I felt I understood why I really resonated with all her vlogs. I mostly spend my time alone, decorating my apartment, playing with my dogs, and really just vibing on my own. I too face challenges sometimes trying to genuinely connect with others, but at the same time I barely leave the apartment, haha.
@@kennyrakwong1707 For us (INFJs) it's like..quarantine? What? Not much different than my normal life heheh
I’m also an INFJ! It’s really interesting to see other INFJ’s as we are all so similar, I think that’s one of the reasons I love Michelle’s vlogs. She’s so relatable!
Yay for us INFJs! We are an incredibly rare personality type. It makes sense that we are all drawn to Michelle’s YT videos as she reflects a lot of the complex qualities in our own nature.
i love michelle and her videos so very much. it’s so comforting watching her be real because she’s so relatable. also, i’m an istj but also follow with an isfj 💛💛
I'm INFJ and I struggle to make friends, but I actually like being alone.
HEY IM INFJ TOO
SAME
Same
Me too.. im also INFJ
Same, it's hard to make new friends in a new environment and i really like being alone since i can focus on stuff i personally like
I'm an INFJ! I heard INFJs want a meaningful life and deep connections with other people. All I want is same🧡
Same! 🧡
Yeap! As an INFJ that’s sooo true
same, me too!
Saaame
Omg finally someone that can relate about this... 🙌🏽
I feel uncomfortable being the only guy that's commenting, but I needed to let you know that your vlogs are very relaxing 🙂
That’s cool. Don’t feel uncomfortable about it
Also you’re probably not the only one!!
Honestly if I knew a guy who watches videos like these, I would approach them !
INFP and I've found it so much more difficult to form genuine friendships since I've gotten older. I feel myself drifting from old friends due to living different lives, but being an introvert who feels things really deeply, it's hard for me to meet others similar to me
Thanks for sharing this, I can definitely relate!
it's 2am here in germany rn and i was about to go to sleep, so i saved this to watch later lol love u michelle
Omg sameee im from germany as well but i cant wait im so excited 🌸🌸 greatingsss and gn
Sameee😂
alle aus Deutschland hier
hey chuchu das ist so toll zu wissen !! 🌿
I’m ENFJ! I actually think we’re super similar, that’s why I was immediately drawn to your videos. I think the test gave me ENFJ bc I trained myself to be extroverted when I hang out but I easily get tired from it so technically I’m borderline INFJ haha. I enjoy a lot of alone time to sort out my thoughts and to let my mind rest. I also think our perspectives of the world are very similar so a lot of what you say resonates with me. Love you Michelle!! 💕Your videos keep me sane. I hope that one day we can become friends haha...a girl can dream 😂
Hi! Im ENFJ too!
saaame
wow me too
Ber L hi fellow ENFJ!!
Kim haha glad to know I’m not alone!
I've always wanted to move to a new city by myself and have a change but I was always too scared. My personality trait is ISFP and it's so hard to meet ppl when I'm so shy. So I totally understand where you guys are coming from and I'm so glad you guys have each other. God bless!
I love watching you Michelle.
You always motivate me with a new video.
Thank you.
Take care.
I don't know but I love Esther so much. I love her personality and especially her smile ☺
She suits so much to be your friend..
I’m also INFJ. I've been struggling a lot lately with my sensitivity. I always care people’s attention so I was afraid to get out of my comfort zone and take an action. But I saw you and I felt better about myself. Thank you Michelle and I love you from Japan❤️
omg I'm also INFJ !! I was wondering why I was so drawn to you from the first vlog I watched :,)
Same same!
I'm the same as Esther, ISFP! So cool to know that one of your now closest friends is the same personality type as me. Maybe that's why I always feel like I can relate to you and your vlogs! There's still so much I can learn in life when it comes to friendships and relationships. Thanks for having these chit chat talks :)
I'm INFJ! Personally, I see people with INFJ personalities put a bigger emphasis on quality time with the people you care about, you are able to have alone time, but at the same time still want to be with your significant other/family/friends, you are creative and thoughtful, you're always trying to learn something new, you're calm, when you get excited you can genuinely tell, emotions are strong, but controlled, and connections with people are felt deep inside so you know you truly connect with that person. That's me in a nutshell and I do feel like we share some of those traits. Because when I watch your videos, your thoughts and actions seem to follow what I feel and would do. So I truly enjoy your videos. :)
Hello michelle! I really love watching your videos, it soothes my mind and makes me temporarily forget my problems. I love you already..stay safe always😊
Your videos are so so so so so relaxing. I am blessed that I found your channel. Love you 💙
Hey meech! You genuinely seem more happy in your latest vlogs and it’s good to see it! xx
It's really nice that you guys found each other. When i moved here in Australia, i worked really hard making friends and introducing myself to my peers, classmates and lecturers even though i'm a really introvert(INFP!) and shy person before. it really worked out for me because they taught me a lot of self love and reassurance to not be scared to talk to people. i really adore my close group of friends and even though we don't get to meet often nowadays, when we do its like we never lost touch. I'm really lucky that i made that decision to be open to people and many reciprocated.
I hope New York life will be much kinder to you michelle! I got a sense that you are very similar to me. ngl i spend a lot of time alone or at home too because i'm not the type who would go out for fun, but having extroverted & outgoing friends really helped me to burst out of that bubble and actually experience new things. i don't regret it at all
You are one of the only youtubers I truly enjoy watching because you’re so genuine and kind!!
the friendship talk was so relatable! would love to hear your thoughts about changes that happen in a long relationship and adulting
I'm also an INFJ! I can relate to you having a few genuine friends rather than having a bunch of casual friends. INFJs can seem outgoing but I think you and I both prefer to hang out in smaller groups or have alone time in deep thoughts about relationships, career, and life in general. I personally have been struggling to maintain friendships and make new friends ever since I graduated from college last year. Thank you for sharing and making me realize I am not alone in this!
The fact that i went from crying (bcoz the talk abt vulnerability is smtg i wanna achieve w/ others) to laughing abt michelle’s “INSFP” 😂 this kinda made my day
I'm sooo happy for you Michelle, because you look happy, and smiling with your friends. Love you girl🥰
I’m INFJ too! I really relate lol, and I especially find that if I start a new chapter of my life, and I don’t immediately have these deep friendships, I end up feeling sad and unfulfilled, when it’s actually just because building these relationships takes time.
It's nice to see you with friends,you look happier
I'm ISFP like Esther! No wonder I feel like Michelle's like my bff ❤
I'm an INFJ as well. And yes we are similar in so many ways that is one of the many reasons why I love watching your videos because I can relate to you . Also I get the feeling that I have a genuine friend. Thank you Michelle. Lots of love!❤❤💖
Is anyone else really happy at the fact Michelle seem to have found real friends?
Hi Michelle, for the eye cream you should try to put it on the bone under the eye and not to close of the eye because the skin makes a reaction that makes the cream going back up, so if you put it too close it irritates the eye, hope this help ❤️❤️
I’m INFP! I really value making deep connections and conversations with people, looking how much you grown Michelle, is inspiring to me❤️😭 you have come so far !!
where is esther’s podcast!!!! also, i totally get what y’all mean regarding friendships. love these girl talks!
I'm INFJ too Michelle! and i can say i was always drawn to your videos because i can relate to you very well. Making friends is a very difficult thing but so rewarding once you find the ones who cares for you and vice versa. hope youre well!
I’m an INFJ too! I feel like I resonated with you watching your videos and how you have this way of looking off to the side like you’re searching for something when you speak. I do this naturally too! Also in terms of energy levels and how we speak, it’s pretty similar. Sort of monotone / lack of fluctuation in our voices which isn’t a bad thing.
omg yas i've been rewatching all your old videos to get me through this third wave of covid whilst working from home! so happy you uploaded ♡
i just love your videos so much, thanks for making my day better 🥺👉🏻👈🏻
My personality type is INFJ and i totally relate to you. Even i become close to someone it is always on my mind maybe they are getting bored or they are not enjoying my company and just thinking things or attitudes over and over
I look forward to your videos every week and I like how genuine you are. It makes it really easy to connect with you.
I'm an INFJ too!! despite the age difference between us, I kind of find it difficult making new friend but I'm always trying to push myself out of my comfort zone and talking to people I haven't before. I wish you all the best
I'm an INTP and my bf is an INFJ and we found out that our personalities fit really good together so good that it is even called the golden pair
I'm actually so impressed how you were able to get into a relationship first after moving alone to the big city. I would be too afraid to even go on dates! Glad to see you loving your transition and finding a comfort zone with new friends❤️ love ya Michelle❤️
you and esther living together is such goallsss omg i love ur friendship!
my day getting better bc of this upload ✨
I'm also INFJ and I think for our personality type we tend to hang out with small group of people and have deep relationship with them.. that is what I've been doing.
but making friends with some extroverted people will make you hang out more and get to see more people and I think being a little bit more open with them about yourself and make deep conversation is also helpful.
i love you michelle and i rlly hope u r okay now because you deserve everything in this world.
your vlogs are such a vibe!
just got my wisdom tooth removed and I recently got my lower molar removed so I can’t really eat with both sides and I’m just in so much pain 😔 so glad Michelle uploaded because I get to put my mind off the pain aaaa I love you!
I'm an INFJ too , I struggle a lot in making new friends I like long lasting friendships that's why I have one friend only . Usually I like staying at home chilling and enjoying my time alone . I hope we can see Easther more in you vlogs , Love you Michelle ❤
Hi Michelle! I'm also an INFJ-T. What you described in relation to meeting new people and not being dependent on your s/o really resonated with me. There are times where I have to remind myself that I should go out and meet people or hang out with friends rather than stay hibernated in the little hole I've made for myself. But on the other hand, there are times where I can't help but feel I'd rather be alone than use my energy in being around people. In any case, I really enjoy your videos and really "clicked" with you with the first video I saw. Anyway, enough of my ramblings. Hope you're doing well & take care :)
Your vlogs are so therapeutic 🥺❤. Love your vlogs ❤ obsessed
Thankyou Michelle! I'm struggling with genuine friendships from the past few days. And your videos gave me motivation always. 💜💜
I'm ENFJ with introvert tendencies! You're so funny for getting ISFP wrong so many times 😂😂 glad you two are going out to build more friendships together!
i'm an infp & they're very compatible with infjs too! glad to know there was a reason why i re-subscribed a few years later :) you're not in korea anymore but it's very cool how you've grown!
I was wondering why I was so drawn to Michelle and I just learned she’s an introverted version of me. ENFJ :))
I'm supposedly ENFJ too😂
Omg i thought the same, enfj repping
i’m an INFJ too and i relate soooo much i often find that after finding even just one person i’m comfortable with i tend to just stick to them out of comfort and lose the motivation to continue branching out to meet new people and it’s like if that person isn’t available i’m left alone again it’s it’s this constant battle inside my head of wanting to stick to my comfort zone and having to push myself to meet new people also just cause socialising is so draining for me and i find it difficult to meet people i really click with and at the same time i’m not the kind to invest much in relationships unless they’re more substantial. especially when meeting people in groups too it’s harder to really connect individually and then you tend to not meet unless it’s as a group and it just reduces the chances of making lasting relationships
i'm also an INFJ! i've been watching your vlogs for the past couple years and you remind me a lot of myself. i feel the exact same way about what you said with finding friends in a new city/after college. hoping you and esther can continue uploading more videos together :)
This makes sooo much sense!!! I am an INFJ as well and I noticed parallels in the way you friendship and a lot in general. I love your content and can’t wait to see the rest of your journey!
Hi Mich, 1:24 made my heart drop :O hahahaha the needle on the stylus of the record player is super sensitive and try to place it on the record player lightly. Otherwise, the needle will wear out really fast and it might damage your records too! But sickkkk set up for your first one 😍
OMG i started watching you because i thought We Were soooo similar and now i Know Why! I am an INFJ too hahaha
I'm also INFJ and I thought this, too!
Ditto!!! Funny how personalities draw you in and until now I couldn't figure out why she's so comforting to me.
same :) im more drawn to people who are introverted and have more similar personality traits, it makes them more relatable. im definitely not as drawn to extroverted creators which is funny because most extroverts draw more attention.
same!! i just saw so much of myself in her and now I know why :)
Lol I’m an infj too so I’ve literally related to a lot of things you say/feel so it makes sense now! I recently read up more about my personality type and it really really opened my eyes up to why I am the way I am. Basically: we like to be in our heads a lot, introverted but also with the want to have extroverted feelings so that messes us up a little!
Michelle I looove your videos because they are so friggin relatable!! 💖 I’m an INFJ too and although they’re the rarest personality type apparently lol, most people I’ve met are the same! I feel like we think sorta similarly, and I agree it’s hard to make a new circle of friends as we get older and in a big city, etc. Genuine friends are def hard to come by. Thank u for ur content 💜
im so happy that you have made an effort to make new friends its not easy i think for me it used to be easy but as i have gotten older and have had bad experiences with friendships i now have such a hard time i literately have like 5 friends but in a way i dont mind i rather have 5 very good friends than a bunch of fake friends that don't care about me ... I enjoyed the vlog so much Michelle im so happy to see u happy ♥
Hey Michelle, so, I currently moved to Korea. And it is genuinely hard to make friends that blend well with your personality. I'm an ENFP, which is the extroverted one from your personality. My best friend has the same personality type as you and we are truly soulmates. I hope you enjoy New York. Go out, and meet some great people! You got this!!
I love how wholesome your videos are ☺️ Thanks for sharing, Michelle! 💕
INFJ and I can totally relate w you!🦋 That's why one day, when I was watching the video in which you said you're an INFJ, I was Like 'YESS!! I KNEWW IT, THAT'S WHY SHE IS SO RELATABLE.' it made me so happy.
👉👈🥺❤️❤️
I am an INFJ-T! Same as Michelle! We are both similar in ways were we are very introverted but can feel lonely when we spend way too much time alone. We both like having a small circle of friends. idk if you feel the same way but I find a lot of joy in helping others. Also advocating for others like for civil rights and just anything someone else needs. I do a lot of charity and volunteering. I am also an empath. I am very intuitive too I can feel the energy in the room fast, but I am also prone to getting overwhelmed by negative energy. I hope this helps gives some factors on the INFJ personality type.
I agree with the friends situation. I’m 31 and an INFJ also but i went through the same situations in my 20s. I didn’t have an issue with friends but I’m painfully shy and had a hard time finding genuine friends. In my late 20s idk I just became content with my way of making friends and who I am and reflecting on what I need. I don’t have many friends but I allow myself to be open to just speaking to new people. It’s huge when I can strike up small talk because I am not a small talk type of person. I also do not depend on my husband for happiness he has his own thing and I go down my path of my own. I feel like you get a sense of clarity as you can closer to your 30s it just clicked for me.
im an INFJ too! for me, I have my circle of friends who are basically like family to me. we all live in NYC but once we entered college, half them went away to other states and it took a long ass time for me to find comfort within myself. right now, im just trying to figure out how to be a good friend to those i love while also being there for myself. it's always a work-in-process haha
the first time i struggled in making new friends is when i entered senior high school, it last over a year until i officially have my circle of friends. it’s kinda sad bec. i am now an incoming college student which means, im back at it again in making new friends. but its ok i understand this is what life means lol. i’m happy for u for having ur friend by ur side!!♥️♥️
the back and forth between you and esther in the last minute of the video is literally the funniest thing ever
michelle i freakin love u can u pls do more of these talks and also a closet essential or like "everything i have in my closet" because i loveeee your style
Omg you and esther are such a vibe, im a fannn
Love Esther and your conversation!!! Plz have more of these sit down chit chats!!!
I'm ISFP and I also struggle to start/ find genuine friendships as well. I'm quiet but very laid back and I can get along with different types of people but I only have a few close friends but most of them live in different states so it's hard to continue to be close with them. But I'm loving the chitchat vlogs and I can't wait for the podcast! I also wanted to note that everyone should take the test every year or every other year for accuracy because your personality type can change as you grow older.
I’m INFJ too!! I read that they have a hard time making friends because they tend to cut people who they don’t relate to off. But I also read that when they meet a fellow INFJ, they really hit it up with them !!
I love u sm Michelle!!! thank you for creating such amazing content and giving out the best insights abt life
Omg I can’t believe I came here first 😭 Michelle I saw your first video a few years ago and you’re such an inspiration which made me start my own channel too 💕💕
Wow I am not even halfway through the video and I have some serious waterworks going on lol. As someone who lives on the other side of the world from literally ALL of my friends I am soooo genuinely happy to see you having such a fun time with all your girlfriends Michelle! It honestly warms my heart 💜 Love these vlogs so much~
oh Michelle, how I aspire to live an aesthetic life as you. Love your videos! 💓
I am also INFJ OMGGGG. I also feel very dependent to my boyfriend and have recently been trying to lessen it and make time with my friends. Also, I’m not really the very social type and I’m trying to develop myself to be more friendly and outspoken especially with my college program which is communication. Anyways I really love you vlogs! They’re soothing ❤️
I'm an INFJ-T type. No wonder despite all other famous RUclipsr out there I'm still going back watching your videos cause it feels like home. 😍 Love lots. ❤❤
Oh Meesh I feel you girl! I am also born in June and an INFJ. Being (Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling, Judging) can definitely affect the experience of making friends and even opening up to people I've known forever. It's always a work in progress though and happy to know we aren't alone. Just takes more time for us to gain others trust.. :)
Mucho love from Toronto
I am also an infj-t and I have been struggling to make friends since elementary school believes or not😩. However, when i first got to a university I notice that my personality has changed; I became less introverted and more open to a wide range of people.
Also an INFJ here 🙋🏻♀️. Guess this is why I feel some sort of comfort watching your videos. I also find it easier to connect with people when they start opening-up or showing their vulnerability. Visit Cebu again someday Michelle!
I love your friendship with Esther! It’s so wholesome ❤️ I’m also an INFJ!
I really love chit chats. Makes me feel like a lil sis!!