I’m a newbie. Five minutes in to your video and I’m happy that you all are composed and level headed. So many reaction videos to Kevin’s show is filled with anger and vitriol towards him without any or much particular commenting on his commentary.
I think if those Same angry people took the time to listen to his videos they would understand his point of view. A lot of people are just running with whatever negative things people say about him and basing their judgment on that. Thanks for your feedback 🥰
Yeah, women are very hateful. I dealt with a friend like this. She would purposely give me bad advice to sabotage my dating/relationships because she was jealous of me. This is the reason why I don’t tell my friends and family about my dating/relationship life. This is very factual!
Yes it’s sad that a lot of females are like this because they are always secretly in competition with you. We need to make our decisions based on what’s best for us and not what our friends think we should do because sometimes friends advice are coming from a jealous place. Thank you for all your feedback on all of our videos we appreciate you 🥰
My mother and sister tried to sabotage my relationship now marriage. I shut it down and now I am not on speaking turns with my family. After I got married my sister bought a wedding dress a week later with no marriage proposal. I am a happily married wife and mother. I talk to nobody about what goes on in my home. My husband comes first because he protects us and through the pandemic he took care of his family. I had to quit working and stay home with the children. Thank God I am not a single mother.
We are 3 best friends and 2 of us is taken and the one that is not is so chill ... she once told me how blessed she feels that our group is getting engaged and married it gives her hope for herself and the insights and advices she gets from us is priceless... can't wait for her to meet her husband... love my girls ❤
That’s beautiful that’s maturity when you can be happy for other people finding love while your still looking. I wish most friends would have that level of maturity 👏🏾👏🏾👌🏾🙏🏾
Great video! It’s true the single life can hinder the wife life. Just facts. I’m experiencing that shift in my life. I’m happy in my relationship and you want to tell someone. Your happiness is not always received with that same energy back. You feel it. It seems us women can talk about for hours about how someone did them wrong but to share happy moments where someone is treating right is short lived. I’m learning to keep things to myself and if I’m just having a moment of like “Wow he makes me happy...” I just tell him.
I totally agree, I noticed that same thing too, if all of us were miserable we can talk for hours non stop but when you try to talk about your happiness it’s this awkward silence, delayed responses, forced smiles, switching the topic 🙄🙄🙄it’s a bit much and the more you receive that energy you really don’t want to be around it. So the distance grows the tension grows and then they tell people your acting different smh. It’s a horrible cycle but in the end everyone deserves to be happy and you have to do what’s best for you and your piece of mind. We wish more love and blessings in your relationship and hopefully your friends learn how to be happy for you. 🥰🥰🥰thanks so much for your feedback
Hey guys! Great video as always! Mema-I definitely see your point about the parents living their life, then want to keep their kids close in their adult life. It’s definitely not fair. I will never forget a couple of years ago before I moved to LA , my dad said to me “Don’t leave your Daddy.” I know he was just looking out but some parents really do want you to be their companion. Smh
This reminds me of a conversation I had with a woman I was interested in. She asked me, "If we were married how would you feel if I wanted to go to Jamaica with my girls?" My response was, "my wife should not go to Jamaica if we haven't been as a couple and why can't we all go as couples?" If a man or a woman is that vested into their friends that aren't prepared to be a mate for someone. A mate takes priority over parents, children, and friends. Kevin is right, if a person refuses to except that reality they will die alone or make a mate very unhappy.
@PancakesAnd Wine When a person marries they give up the person, the desires, and wants of a single person. If this was not the case, what's the difference between singleness and marriage. There's no room for self in a marriage, one MUST sacrifice for the sake of the marriage and their mate. Recite the vows, why they are made, and why are they necessary. See marriage is for mature people who understand the responsibility that comes with it. If any person is so focused on themselves and their friends they are not ready to be married because they will soon be divorced.
Jealous friends were always jealous from the JUMP! Smh it’s sad meanwhile you were being a real friend! Especially if you’re leveling up, losing weight, getting to your bag and oh last but not least finding happiness it’s like they want to say how dear you get engaged/married🥴🤣🤷🏽♀️
That’s exactly what it felt like. I was completely in a state of shock how your happiness can bring out the ugliness in people smh but your right hater is always a hater👏🏾👏🏾thanks for your feedback 🥰
When my beastie got married, I forced him to stay at home with his partner. I'm a grown adult, i can take care of myself/I'm good/I'm fine... focus on your new marriage. Or bring your spouse along with you.
You guys are a great loving couple plus you speak the truth. I wish you all the happiness in the world and to be with each other for life. Stay close to each other. 🙏
I completely understand but I’ve had “friends” who were in very toxic relationships that lowered their self esteem and when we tried to go out to eat or make plans for them they cancel based on the fact that their toxic partner doesn’t like us. Like when my friends are in relationships im happy for them because i considered them family I don’t expect them to put me over their partner but when it’s visibly noticeable that they’re not happy it is hard to try to be there for them when they complain to you about their relationship.
My older cousin was always not trying to date nobody but as soon as I met my fiance and things started to get more and more serious she was in a rush to date in 3 years of me being with my man she dated 4 guys... she even told me that I dont have time and she needed a new person to chill with... she told me she could never date a guy like mine cause she said he isn't on her social financial level or status 🤷🏿♀️ boy I was so shocked ... and then there's my mom who I feel is my worst enemy... wanting to keep me for herself and all the unnecessary drama she brought into my relationship 😩... thank God my fiance didn't get discouraged... lol he even told me the more my mom acts up and wanting to hold on to me the more special of a prize I am to him ! He told her that lol ...
Smh it’s so embarrassing some of the drama people create it shows their character. Sometimes you have to love people from a distance. Hopefully one day they will see the wrong in their ways and try to change and thank god your hubby didn’t listen to anything they say that’s because he knows he has a beautiful love story with you.🙏🏾 thanks for your feedback 🥰
I have to tell you a story I’m in a relationship now and I can tell you I’m already experiencing this, this same friend went behind my back talking about how she saw him with a women at a party, then when it was time for his birthday and I couldn’t help her with her nails she made a shady comment say if I spend all my money on my bf…. Like what.
Wooow that’s crazy. Well I’m glad I’m the nice homegirl in the group. My girlfriends give me hope. Lol but we all don’t live close to each other so we get together when I’m in their areas. But honestly it seems like you’re homegirls were already haters before the relationship.
WOW, yall do know not all single people are jealous/sad/lonely/ evil right? I mean YOU picked your friends so....but nvmd😳 I wish your marriage the best but understand everyone's life isn't supposed to be the same as yours & they can STILL be happy ! 💕
I see your triggered 😤 but we never said all single people are miserable and evil and jealous. That is your interpretation because you are clearly in your feelings. We are speaking to the people who are looking to settle down and get married and find a partner. That was said several times in this video. Clearly if a single person is not interested in finding a mate then they can continue to do what they been doing. Your representing for the singles and that’s fine but there are single people who want to settle down and that’s who we are addressing in this video. This video doesn’t apply to you or the single people who want to stay single. More power to y’all🙌🏾
@@MsCrooklyn718 🤣I never said I was single, you asked to leave our opinions. Just because my opinion opposes yours doesn't mean I'm "hating" on your union/ triggered. I in fact gave you a compliment & wished you the best but ok. I'm not representing anyone except myself which is one of the viewer's you asked to leave an opinion/comment. I think the world has this perspective that marriage or having kids means you've reached some goal & cant be seen around others who haven't OR dont want the same then demonizes/isolate them. That was no diss to you but I knew from studying human behavior what response was coming. Again , blessings to you💕
@@belizeanbaby why do you keep responding something totally different to what I said. I never said your hating on my union. Anyone reading this can see I never said that. You can definitely leave an opinion but quote what was said not your interpretation of what was said. We never said all single people want to be married and need to be married to feel validated. We never said that stop rearranging what we said to your interpretation of what we said. Some people aspire to be married and to those who don’t that’s their business. The video is addressing the single people who aspire to marry. If marriage is not for you that’s cool. We are not here to change your views but your first statement was “WOW y’all do know not all single people are jealous/sad/lonely/evil right? I mean you picked your friends but nvm😳then throw a blessings behind it. Don’t back peddle your message came across how it was meant to come across.
@@MsCrooklyn718 I'm not back peddling at all , I do believe by your response we both have different interpretations of how we both came off to each other.
well I'm happy that you found each other and I could tell you I really in love cuz you're finish each other's sentences. But I was once in a serious relationship like 2 years ago she is from New York Harlem but lived in the Bronx and she has a a mother that stayed in the ear cousin and a cousin was the party girl always got dudes at a house and when she started hanging back around her cousin after me and her got together she started lying about where she was really at she was really at her cousin house partying. I was always listening to her vent about her mom has a cousin her friend all of them negative not to be funny but it is true! I was being very supportive of her dreams what she wanted to do even though her mother told her she wasn't smart enough to become my own boss! own her cleaning service. A cousin always trying to introduce her to other guys that she thought have more money than me cuz he was driving Beamers and Mercedes they don't know if it's raining or not but the thing is I'm not flashy like that! So I felt as though that she was lying that she was home and she was really in Brooklyn her cousin party house that she's cheating on me and this the same girl that was telling her girl you ain't going to be able to handle being a balls to other people and and I'm telling her different you smart enough start off with two three people to clean a condos laws will have one small business building all you need is like two or three clients that's consistent and that's all you need until you're ready to elevate to the next level. But our mother was putting her fears on her and her cousin and her best friend the only person that had my back and had her back was her younger sister which was happily in a relationship and gauge with a child about to get married and she kept telling her sister you got a good guy got a great guy he respects you he listens to you he gonna he's trying to understand you more like everybody has flaws he's not going to be this perfect man. even her sister told her to stop listen to Mommy stop hanging around out cousins cuz I don't hang around them and your best friend she came back in life after 7 years you don't know who she really is she changed. Unfortunately I got impatient she wasn't listening to me if we split up even though she reached out to me I just can't do it cuz I gave it to chances before the first time I could see she wasn't ready the second time she came back in my life since you truly ready she understood why I was saying for the first time I gave it a second chance. In the same situation happen so that's that. but I'm praying that one day I come across some women that would take my advice cuz I see what I see you in an outside looking in just like she gave me her advice and I stopped dealing with certain people that was in my circle so only God knows
Using him for clout? We have so many videos on several topics with our own content. What makes this any different than people doing RUclips videos on movies, tv shows, gossip reviews? We love his topics and we want to give our perspective as a married couple. ruclips.net/video/Rvu-YDyusHc/видео.html We don’t need clout! Thanks for your feedback
@@MsCrooklyn718 She most likely is a detractor of KS and because she enjoyed the topic she didn't make it specifically about him. Kevin started the topic which is why you used his name, she can't see through the forest past the trees.
I’m a newbie. Five minutes in to your video and I’m happy that you all are composed and level headed. So many reaction videos to Kevin’s show is filled with anger and vitriol towards him without any or much particular commenting on his commentary.
I think if those Same angry people took the time to listen to his videos they would understand his point of view. A lot of people are just running with whatever negative things people say about him and basing their judgment on that. Thanks for your feedback 🥰
@@MsCrooklyn718 y’all cool. Seem like a sweet couple.
Yeah, women are very hateful. I dealt with a friend like this. She would purposely give me bad advice to sabotage my dating/relationships because she was jealous of me. This is the reason why I don’t tell my friends and family about my dating/relationship life. This is very factual!
Yes it’s sad that a lot of females are like this because they are always secretly in competition with you. We need to make our decisions based on what’s best for us and not what our friends think we should do because sometimes friends advice are coming from a jealous place. Thank you for all your feedback on all of our videos we appreciate you 🥰
My mother and sister tried to sabotage my relationship now marriage. I shut it down and now I am not on speaking turns with my family. After I got married my sister bought a wedding dress a week later with no marriage proposal. I am a happily married wife and mother. I talk to nobody about what goes on in my home. My husband comes first because he protects us and through the pandemic he took care of his family. I had to quit working and stay home with the children. Thank God I am not a single mother.
Wow smh . That’s a perfect of example of why you should value your marriage over friends and singles .
@@MsCrooklyn718 keep winning girl and jessicak3757 just like how ya'll value ya'lls husbands he values ya'll too.
We are 3 best friends and 2 of us is taken and the one that is not is so chill ... she once told me how blessed she feels that our group is getting engaged and married it gives her hope for herself and the insights and advices she gets from us is priceless... can't wait for her to meet her husband... love my girls ❤
That’s beautiful that’s maturity when you can be happy for other people finding love while your still looking. I wish most friends would have that level of maturity 👏🏾👏🏾👌🏾🙏🏾
Great video! It’s true the single life can hinder the wife life. Just facts. I’m experiencing that shift in my life. I’m happy in my relationship and you want to tell someone. Your happiness is not always received with that same energy back. You feel it. It seems us women can talk about for hours about how someone did them wrong but to share happy moments where someone is treating right is short lived. I’m learning to keep things to myself and if I’m just having a moment of like “Wow he makes me happy...” I just tell him.
I totally agree, I noticed that same thing too, if all of us were miserable we can talk for hours non stop but when you try to talk about your happiness it’s this awkward silence, delayed responses, forced smiles, switching the topic 🙄🙄🙄it’s a bit much and the more you receive that energy you really don’t want to be around it. So the distance grows the tension grows and then they tell people your acting different smh.
It’s a horrible cycle but in the end everyone deserves to be happy and you have to do what’s best for you and your piece of mind. We wish more love and blessings in your relationship and hopefully your friends learn how to be happy for you. 🥰🥰🥰thanks so much for your feedback
If I assumed off the thumbnail I was expecting disagreement and simping. Lol glad y'all got common sense and truly love each other. Lol 🤣
Thanks so much Jared . Appreciate it and thanks for watching lol
You guys look amazing!!
Thank you and thanks for watching .
Hey guys! Great video as always! Mema-I definitely see your point about the parents living their life, then want to keep their kids close in their adult life. It’s definitely not fair. I will never forget a couple of years ago before I moved to LA , my dad said to me “Don’t leave your Daddy.” I know he was just looking out but some parents really do want you to be their companion. Smh
This reminds me of a conversation I had with a woman I was interested in. She asked me, "If we were married how would you feel if I wanted to go to Jamaica with my girls?" My response was, "my wife should not go to Jamaica if we haven't been as a couple and why can't we all go as couples?" If a man or a woman is that vested into their friends that aren't prepared to be a mate for someone. A mate takes priority over parents, children, and friends. Kevin is right, if a person refuses to except that reality they will die alone or make a mate very unhappy.
All facts that makes so much sense . Those girl trips are for single ladies . Child’s play
Point taken!
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@PancakesAnd Wine When a person marries they give up the person, the desires, and wants of a single person. If this was not the case, what's the difference between singleness and marriage. There's no room for self in a marriage, one MUST sacrifice for the sake of the marriage and their mate. Recite the vows, why they are made, and why are they necessary. See marriage is for mature people who understand the responsibility that comes with it. If any person is so focused on themselves and their friends they are not ready to be married because they will soon be divorced.
@@73asbwoods preach
😁Kevin would be really happy to hear from you two
We hope so we are learning a lot from his videos , I definitely see things different now 🥰thanks for your feedback
@@MsCrooklyn718 I hope his platform really grows so many women can learn from him
@@trishtrish2349 agreed 👏🏾
Jealous friends were always jealous from the JUMP! Smh it’s sad meanwhile you were being a real friend! Especially if you’re leveling up, losing weight, getting to your bag and oh last but not least finding happiness it’s like they want to say how dear you get engaged/married🥴🤣🤷🏽♀️
That’s exactly what it felt like. I was completely in a state of shock how your happiness can bring out the ugliness in people smh but your right hater is always a hater👏🏾👏🏾thanks for your feedback 🥰
Y’all spoke directly to my issue with leaving my parents I already knew but it’s just reassuring to know that I’m doing the right thing.
Yes sometimes parents can be a little selfish but keep in mind your happiness matters too 🥰thanks for your feedback
Your hair and makeup is gorgeous.
And don’t discuss your relationship with your homegirls.
Thanks so much luv I appreciate the compliment and the feedback 🥰
This couple is real. I wish my ex wife could have understood. Please let your marriage last forever.
Thanks so much for your feedback maybe one say she will understand. Best wishes to you 🥰
he got her a real women and yeah she a real women. we need more women like her in the world
When my beastie got married, I forced him to stay at home with his partner. I'm a grown adult, i can take care of myself/I'm good/I'm fine... focus on your new marriage. Or bring your spouse along with you.
That’s what’s up.
Talk da talk...I’ve just brought my wife watching this video. Been telling her the same thing. She was resistant at first
Straight facts . It happens to guys too bro don’t sleep . Start acting funny lol
You guys are a great loving couple plus you speak the truth. I wish you all the happiness in the world and to be with each other for life. Stay close to each other. 🙏
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I completely understand but I’ve had “friends” who were in very toxic relationships that lowered their self esteem and when we tried to go out to eat or make plans for them they cancel based on the fact that their toxic partner doesn’t like us. Like when my friends are in relationships im happy for them because i considered them family I don’t expect them to put me over their partner but when it’s visibly noticeable that they’re not happy it is hard to try to be there for them when they complain to you about their relationship.
man this was a word!
Your new best friend is now your spouse. That's it😁no one else invited😎
That’s what happened with me . You have to build that strong bond .
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My older cousin was always not trying to date nobody but as soon as I met my fiance and things started to get more and more serious she was in a rush to date in 3 years of me being with my man she dated 4 guys... she even told me that I dont have time and she needed a new person to chill with... she told me she could never date a guy like mine cause she said he isn't on her social financial level or status 🤷🏿♀️ boy I was so shocked ... and then there's my mom who I feel is my worst enemy... wanting to keep me for herself and all the unnecessary drama she brought into my relationship 😩... thank God my fiance didn't get discouraged... lol he even told me the more my mom acts up and wanting to hold on to me the more special of a prize I am to him ! He told her that lol ...
Smh it’s so embarrassing some of the drama people create it shows their character. Sometimes you have to love people from a distance. Hopefully one day they will see the wrong in their ways and try to change and thank god your hubby didn’t listen to anything they say that’s because he knows he has a beautiful love story with you.🙏🏾 thanks for your feedback 🥰
“Twerking in the damn dance brunch” omg I love Melisa ❤️💕 this was a great convo . I’ve dealt with this. Need More friends like her
I have to tell you a story I’m in a relationship now and I can tell you I’m already experiencing this, this same friend went behind my back talking about how she saw him with a women at a party, then when it was time for his birthday and I couldn’t help her with her nails she made a shady comment say if I spend all my money on my bf…. Like what.
I’m a newbie ! Hello new friends 😃
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@@MsCrooklyn718 absolutely I saw the skin deep clip with you two and absolutely loved it had to subscribe it was only right lol !
This was good !
Thanks so much and thanks for your feedback 🥰
U guys ever think about starting a podcast?
Wooow that’s crazy. Well I’m glad I’m the nice homegirl in the group. My girlfriends give me hope. Lol but we all don’t live close to each other so we get together when I’m in their areas. But honestly it seems like you’re homegirls were already haters before the relationship.
WOW, yall do know not all single people are jealous/sad/lonely/ evil right? I mean YOU picked your friends so....but nvmd😳 I wish your marriage the best but understand everyone's life isn't supposed to be the same as yours & they can STILL be happy ! 💕
I see your triggered 😤 but we never said all single people are miserable and evil and jealous. That is your interpretation because you are clearly in your feelings. We are speaking to the people who are looking to settle down and get married and find a partner. That was said several times in this video. Clearly if a single person is not interested in finding a mate then they can continue to do what they been doing. Your representing for the singles and that’s fine but there are single people who want to settle down and that’s who we are addressing in this video. This video doesn’t apply to you or the single people who want to stay single. More power to y’all🙌🏾
@@MsCrooklyn718 🤣I never said I was single, you asked to leave our opinions. Just because my opinion opposes yours doesn't mean I'm "hating" on your union/ triggered. I in fact gave you a compliment & wished you the best but ok. I'm not representing anyone except myself which is one of the viewer's you asked to leave an opinion/comment. I think the world has this perspective that marriage or having kids means you've reached some goal & cant be seen around others who haven't OR dont want the same then demonizes/isolate them. That was no diss to you but I knew from studying human behavior what response was coming. Again , blessings to you💕
@@belizeanbaby why do you keep responding something totally different to what I said. I never said your hating on my union. Anyone reading this can see I never said that. You can definitely leave an opinion but quote what was said not your interpretation of what was said. We never said all single people want to be married and need to be married to feel validated. We never said that stop rearranging what we said to your interpretation of what we said. Some people aspire to be married and to those who don’t that’s their business. The video is addressing the single people who aspire to marry. If marriage is not for you that’s cool. We are not here to change your views but your first statement was “WOW y’all do know not all single people are jealous/sad/lonely/evil right? I mean you picked your friends but nvm😳then throw a blessings behind it. Don’t back peddle your message came across how it was meant to come across.
@@MsCrooklyn718 I'm not back peddling at all , I do believe by your response we both have different interpretations of how we both came off to each other.
What's your website for your makeup artist business, doll? Would love to become a client
Thanks beauty you can follow me on Instagram @memacreations or email me at melisaomartin@hotmail.com 🥰
They know they will see less of u and u will be with your man
well I'm happy that you found each other and I could tell you I really in love cuz you're finish each other's sentences. But I was once in a serious relationship like 2 years ago she is from New York Harlem but lived in the Bronx and she has a a mother that stayed in the ear cousin and a cousin was the party girl always got dudes at a house and when she started hanging back around her cousin after me and her got together she started lying about where she was really at she was really at her cousin house partying. I was always listening to her vent about her mom has a cousin her friend all of them negative not to be funny but it is true! I was being very supportive of her dreams what she wanted to do even though her mother told her she wasn't smart enough to become my own boss! own her cleaning service. A cousin always trying to introduce her to other guys that she thought have more money than me cuz he was driving Beamers and Mercedes they don't know if it's raining or not but the thing is I'm not flashy like that! So I felt as though that she was lying that she was home and she was really in Brooklyn her cousin party house that she's cheating on me and this the same girl that was telling her girl you ain't going to be able to handle being a balls to other people and and I'm telling her different you smart enough start off with two three people to clean a condos laws will have one small business building all you need is like two or three clients that's consistent and that's all you need until you're ready to elevate to the next level. But our mother was putting her fears on her and her cousin and her best friend the only person that had my back and had her back was her younger sister which was happily in a relationship and gauge with a child about to get married and she kept telling her sister you got a good guy got a great guy he respects you he listens to you he gonna he's trying to understand you more like everybody has flaws he's not going to be this perfect man. even her sister told her to stop listen to Mommy stop hanging around out cousins cuz I don't hang around them and your best friend she came back in life after 7 years you don't know who she really is she changed. Unfortunately I got impatient she wasn't listening to me if we split up even though she reached out to me I just can't do it cuz I gave it to chances before the first time I could see she wasn't ready the second time she came back in my life since you truly ready she understood why I was saying for the first time I gave it a second chance. In the same situation happen so that's that. but I'm praying that one day I come across some women that would take my advice cuz I see what I see you in an outside looking in just like she gave me her advice and I stopped dealing with certain people that was in my circle so only God knows
Great video but Using K.S name for views is just naaah. Just create your own content without using other people's names for clout that's all. Cheers.
Using him for clout? We have so many videos on several topics with our own content. What makes this any different than people doing RUclips videos on movies, tv shows, gossip reviews? We love his topics and we want to give our perspective as a married couple.
ruclips.net/video/Rvu-YDyusHc/видео.html
We don’t need clout! Thanks for your feedback
@@MsCrooklyn718 She most likely is a detractor of KS and because she enjoyed the topic she didn't make it specifically about him. Kevin started the topic which is why you used his name, she can't see through the forest past the trees.
@@toenonaaqubo8771 all facts bro
Man bashing is like oxygen to many women these days.
Yes it is and after awhile it’s gets very old and tiring. Nobody want to take accountability and move forward .
@@LA-wv7gf how’s your life been since you broke away from the pack?