your additional thoughts on the fear of success is the single best i've ever heard about what that might really mean. Like folks will hear that and say how can you fear success? isn't that what you want? to elevate? be financially free... etc? But the loss of relationships, proximity to others and things you are familiar with, the literal transformation within and of yourself that must occur so you can attain said success is what's really the hard work and what feels like everything is at stake. This video is a hit. Double platinum on my recommended. Keep going Alex!!
I just found your channel.... I only watched one video before this, but it's funny... The comment I literally just left on that video is that YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BE DOING THIS. Seriously!! Go check it. You are not an imposter and it was very evident to me on that FIRST video I just watched, that you are exactly where you are supposed to be with this RUclips thing. You're beautiful, cool, clever, a hustler, real, and super helpful.... And I dunno about everyone else, but I say you are great and we haven't even seen the peak of how far you will go yet. Congratulations on your successes, you deserve all of it... For being exactly who YOU are. 💪 👑 Keep up the great work! WE SEE YOU!
Thank you for sharing💔 I read in a book, which said when we feel stress, we should become humble and ask to be guided toward the next right step. I am praying for your sucess
I really appreciate your honesty. It's helpful to see the real journey other creatives go through because I think it helps us to keep going and not give up! So, thank you. You're inspiring others!
Jealousy is not a bad emotion. You acknowledging the feeling and doing something about it is what's important. So many of us black girls were taught that jealousy is bad, I mean, it's not the best emotion but it's an emotion us humans feel and we can use that emotion and turn it into motivation, inspiration. Thank you for sharing this video ❤ I think I'm afraid of success too!!
I have to tell you, Alex, you are definitely my new absolute favorite of all RUclips ever🎉 I stumbled upon your channel today and I have binge watched it every since and I have never commented on anyone’s stuff. Maybe once when I first started watching RUclips, which is about a year and a half ago I thought that RUclips was just for teenagers like mine watching people play video games. Well our stories are similar. I’ll keep it short but I absolutely love you hit every every every point that I know, and have been struggling with in this video right here, and you are brave, you are the shit to me and I have now gained the courage to finally do something things is so true I am so creative. I have so many things. Oh my God, I can create everything. I would love you to see my office , I am an empty Nester. My only child is a freshman in college and no more to make excuses. I have nothing but the world at my fingers and I needed to hear this. I needed it now and I need it every single last syllable thank you again! I don’t know , something where I can get some advice from you of how I can kick this off because I am always the loudest the most outgoing event, planner decorator party girl ever & I’ve been terrified to do the RUclips channel and I just been scared of success and more,,know that it’s just so much I could say you have brought it out of me! My bases for my channel was, and has always just been for me to speak very real of candy and raw and know that there are people out there going through the same thing, but you were brave enough to do it and I literally have just got my bubble burst by you if that makes it I don’t know you have a great day. I don’t know where you’re from. I gotta go back and watch the beginning 😂
I was right with you that "afraid of success" but I had to start writing down my affirmations with they were true or not. God has really shifted how I see myself and my business. It's only up from here. Loved this video!
Thank you for being so transparent. I just got out of the Ghetto aka Hood aka Corporate America. I'm still trying to find my rhythm. Your videos have been very encouraging.
Girl, I am right here with you !! The failed tshirt business, the fear to succeed, the struggle of wanting to do too much as a creativ person urrgghhhhh !!! Yo, i tool a social media cleanse without even knowing hahaha, i just got fednup and took off before I became a hater or even just depressed and less greatful of what God has given me.... all that in the name of pplz lives or Lies on insta. I SOOOOO feel you. Hang in there mama! ❤❤
Aries I miss you. How I miss this one. You got this. Stay focus and NEVER look at anyone else ( difficult I know) I enjoy your authenticity Sistah Soldier
Same here, I feel like that at times, like so scared to do better. My dream is to make my cards my business So many people love my cards and say they are odd and beautiful, and I should start my business. My manager asked me what was I doing there with the talent that I have. I am now working things out. Thank you for sharing your struggles with us. Take care.
Wow what an amazing first video of yours for me to watch. Truly felt relieved to hear you say the things I’ve been feeling but haven’t been able to articulate. I’m so glad you shared this 💗
I really feel every word you said on this video. ❤Its good to know I'm not the only one lol! you nailed it on here to me at least, right!! currently in that cleansing zone, in hopes of making my business succeed. will definitely be checking out your other videos 🙂
Your video just hit my algorithm, I'm subscribing immediately because your raw real truth about jealousy and all those uncomfortable emotions we don't want to admit that we ALL have, your raw real truth is refreshing on the internet-the internet lacks real raw truth. I admire your courage to be real instead of pretending and being fake. When we are honest then healing can begin! Damn I just finished watching and it got even better! I recently had to cut someone off because she was jealous and holding me back, always undercutting me. I'd talk about wanting to do my art again and she'd interrupt me mid sentence to talk about something completely different. You're right-some of those people do not deserve access to us! I'm saving this video as a reminder! Excellent confessions-thank you thank you!
I have looked at some of your videos and you are very professional and know your stuff. The thing, i see after looking at you this video...I think you are afraid of your on success sweetheart. We all pretty much equipped for success but it depends how we utilize our skill sets'. It is all in the head. We can really get in our way including myself, OK. Go and get your Monte Honey, please don't worry about those haters, OK. I truly understand the hood, that Corporate thing. That's a mess in it self, that's' why you got keep it pushing so you can escape that world. Good Luck
My biggest struggle is feeling like everything I come up with is a waste of time because others are already doing it, doing it better and there's no point in my trying. Do I give up and don't try.
I can totally relate, a lot of us have the same interest which I think is how we build community but being different at the same time is where I’d like to stand out
Hello Alex I lm a fairly new subscriber to your channel. I have a question I followed your video on pressing shirts and I'm trying to press mine.I set the settings and thought I set everything up right.But when I press down it doesn't start pressing I have to press down on the arrow button and my transfers aren't sticking all the way.What tf am I missing 😵
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your additional thoughts on the fear of success is the single best i've ever heard about what that might really mean. Like folks will hear that and say how can you fear success? isn't that what you want? to elevate? be financially free... etc? But the loss of relationships, proximity to others and things you are familiar with, the literal transformation within and of yourself that must occur so you can attain said success is what's really the hard work and what feels like everything is at stake. This video is a hit. Double platinum on my recommended. Keep going Alex!!
Thank you Donfons, this was beautifully stated & I appreciate you for understanding exactly what I feel.
Keep learning, keep growing, KEEP GOING!!!!! ❤
these are my confessions!!!🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶Awesome vid!💛
thank you for being genuine, real and transparent.
I just found your channel.... I only watched one video before this, but it's funny... The comment I literally just left on that video is that YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BE DOING THIS. Seriously!! Go check it. You are not an imposter and it was very evident to me on that FIRST video I just watched, that you are exactly where you are supposed to be with this RUclips thing. You're beautiful, cool, clever, a hustler, real, and super helpful.... And I dunno about everyone else, but I say you are great and we haven't even seen the peak of how far you will go yet. Congratulations on your successes, you deserve all of it... For being exactly who YOU are. 💪 👑 Keep up the great work! WE SEE YOU!
Thank you for sharing💔 I read in a book, which said when we feel stress, we should become humble and ask to be guided toward the next right step. I am praying for your sucess
Thank you
I really appreciate your honesty. It's helpful to see the real journey other creatives go through because I think it helps us to keep going and not give up! So, thank you. You're inspiring others!
Hooked from minute 1. Alex you inspire me to keep pushing towards my dreams.
This is for me. Thanks for sharing sis😊
Totally resignate with fear! But with healthy mental practices, I'm pushing thru, and so will you! ❤️
Jealousy is not a bad emotion. You acknowledging the feeling and doing something about it is what's important. So many of us black girls were taught that jealousy is bad, I mean, it's not the best emotion but it's an emotion us humans feel and we can use that emotion and turn it into motivation, inspiration. Thank you for sharing this video ❤ I think I'm afraid of success too!!
Same here baby we just have to keep pushing forward no matter what keep doing you❤❤❤❤❤❤
I have to tell you, Alex, you are definitely my new absolute favorite of all RUclips ever🎉 I stumbled upon your channel today and I have binge watched it every since and I have never commented on anyone’s stuff. Maybe once when I first started watching RUclips, which is about a year and a half ago I thought that RUclips was just for teenagers like mine watching people play video games. Well our stories are similar. I’ll keep it short but I absolutely love you hit every every every point that I know, and have been struggling with in this video right here, and you are brave, you are the shit to me and I have now gained the courage to finally do something things is so true I am so creative. I have so many things. Oh my God, I can create everything. I would love you to see my office , I am an empty Nester. My only child is a freshman in college and no more to make excuses. I have nothing but the world at my fingers and I needed to hear this. I needed it now and I need it every single last syllable thank you again! I don’t know , something where I can get some advice from you of how I can kick this off because I am always the loudest the most outgoing event, planner decorator party girl ever & I’ve been terrified to do the RUclips channel and I just been scared of success and more,,know that it’s just so much I could say you have brought it out of me! My bases for my channel was, and has always just been for me to speak very real of candy and raw and know that there are people out there going through the same thing, but you were brave enough to do it and I literally have just got my bubble burst by you if that makes it I don’t know you have a great day. I don’t know where you’re from. I gotta go back and watch the beginning 😂
You have been a blessings to me. ❤ May Yahuah continue to bless your business.
Totally agree
I was right with you that "afraid of success" but I had to start writing down my affirmations with they were true or not. God has really shifted how I see myself and my business. It's only up from here. Loved this video!
Thank you for being so transparent. I just got out of the Ghetto aka Hood aka Corporate America. I'm still trying to find my rhythm. Your videos have been very encouraging.
I appreciate your genuineness & authenticity🧡
I love your authenticity and honesty. I have so much respect and admiration for you Alex. Keep praying and keep your head up. God got you.
Thank you Tessa!
I can so relate it's tough out here😅 thank you for stating the REAL facts
Girl, I am right here with you !! The failed tshirt business, the fear to succeed, the struggle of wanting to do too much as a creativ person urrgghhhhh !!! Yo, i tool a social media cleanse without even knowing hahaha, i just got fednup and took off before I became a hater or even just depressed and less greatful of what God has given me.... all that in the name of pplz lives or Lies on insta.
I SOOOOO feel you. Hang in there mama! ❤❤
you too boo! thanks for sharing
Aries I miss you. How I miss this one. You got this. Stay focus and NEVER look at anyone else ( difficult I know) I enjoy your authenticity Sistah Soldier
I hope RUclips is pushing out my content. I’ve been taking some time off to focus on my business but I’ll be back with more content next month
Great video,... real as real can get.
Instagram is definitely that type of platform! I love it on TikTok
Sending Love ❤
Thank you❤
Same here, I feel like that at times, like so scared to do better. My dream is to make my cards my business So many people love my cards and say they are odd and beautiful, and I should start my business. My manager asked me what was I doing there with the talent that I have. I am now working things out. Thank you for sharing your struggles with us. Take care.
You inspire me, so please don’t give the struggle no energy. Strive Over Struggle!
I hear you loud & clear. Thank you ☺️
Wow what an amazing first video of yours for me to watch. Truly felt relieved to hear you say the things I’ve been feeling but haven’t been able to articulate. I’m so glad you shared this 💗
I really feel every word you said on this video. ❤Its good to know I'm not the only one lol! you nailed it on here to me at least, right!! currently in that cleansing zone, in hopes of making my business succeed. will definitely be checking out your other videos 🙂
Hey Anette, thank you for that sweet comment! I hope you like other videos as well
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I relate so much ❤
Now that was some real talk!!! Thanks for sharing. I have had some of the same struggles.
Thank you ☺️
Your video just hit my algorithm, I'm subscribing immediately because your raw real truth about jealousy and all those uncomfortable emotions we don't want to admit that we ALL have, your raw real truth is refreshing on the internet-the internet lacks real raw truth. I admire your courage to be real instead of pretending and being fake. When we are honest then healing can begin! Damn I just finished watching and it got even better! I recently had to cut someone off because she was jealous and holding me back, always undercutting me. I'd talk about wanting to do my art again and she'd interrupt me mid sentence to talk about something completely different. You're right-some of those people do not deserve access to us! I'm saving this video as a reminder! Excellent confessions-thank you thank you!
Shout out to you for having the discernment of cutting that “friend” off. Real friends don’t tear you down so I agree that you did the right thing
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Love this video ❤ you have a new subscriber 😊
Thank you, welcome to the family
I have looked at some of your videos and you are very professional and know your stuff. The thing, i see after looking at you this video...I think you are afraid of your on success sweetheart. We all pretty much equipped for success but it depends how we utilize our skill sets'. It is all in the head. We can really get in our way including myself, OK. Go and get your Monte Honey, please don't worry about those haters, OK. I truly understand the hood, that Corporate thing. That's a mess in it self, that's' why you got keep it pushing so you can escape that world. Good Luck
Thank you so much 🤗
👏🏾👏🏾
My biggest struggle is feeling like everything I come up with is a waste of time because others are already doing it, doing it better and there's no point in my trying. Do I give up and don't try.
I can totally relate, a lot of us have the same interest which I think is how we build community but being different at the same time is where I’d like to stand out
Hello Alex I lm a fairly new subscriber to your channel. I have a question I followed your video on pressing shirts and I'm trying to press mine.I set the settings and thought I set everything up right.But when I press down it doesn't start pressing I have to press down on the arrow button and my transfers aren't sticking all the way.What tf am I missing 😵