I totally agree Amanda with a guy having a different approach. One thing that really intrigued me about my fiancé was his approach and the way he interacted with me when we were first dating. He was just a genuine nice guy and was very respectful in getting to know me. A lot of guys these days miss the "just be a nice guy" Hope you guys are having a wonderful day : )
I agree. I actually dress pretty modestly yet a lot of guys approach me with the SAME kind of attitude. Along the lines of, "Dang girl!" or "AY Beautiful" and then end with a... "can I get your number". Every time I say no. It would honestly be nice to not exactly know for sure if a guy is interested. For him to just be friendly and respectful and invite me to church on our first date or something different like that! I'd LOVE to just feel like were friends hanging out and kinda secretly wonder if hes interested in me and then get excited when I realize we both like each other. It makes it even better that way because then I'll feel as though he doesn't only like me for my looks but he was smart enough to get to know me before letting me know he's interested. Then I'll also have more respect for him because I'll feel like he's not going around asking every pretty girl for her number. And dating on a budget is fine as long as he is 100% a gentleman and we find ways to spend time together as FRIENDS.
Melissa King I agree. I’m so nervous about Christian guys talking to me because of my looks and shape. Even fully clothed I still attract a lot of guys and I get uncomfortable. I feel like running and hiding aha.
I agree with everything you said Amanda! I have a wonderful God fearing boyfriend and I realized everything you said or suggested he has those qualities. it was definitely a breathe of fresh air and we are making a year in April ❤
Awesome video! Great Topic! Great advice! You guys have such a beautiful family. Thank you for your transparency. We just got into the youtube ministry.... I mean channel lol Just want to say thank you for inspiring us. God bless. Have a beautiful week.
I'm from a Pentecostal Church and we believe once in the courting/dating stage a chaperone should be present when they get engaged it is a little more relaxed
“Pay for her meal, you’ll set yourself apart” Pretty sure paying for her meal is the standard... for generations. In fact, you’ll probably be looked at poorly if you don’t pay for it. It’s never changed.
As far as who pays for the meal on a first date, it's not only chivalrous for the man to pay, it also shows her that he has faith that God will help Him provide for her (as long as that's how he looks at it). Also, the guy is getting to BLESS a sister in Christ with a meal regardless of where it's going to go. ON THAT NOTE: I wouldn't mind at all if this beautiful woman of God said to me, "Do you mind if I pay for this meal this time, I just want to bless you :)" if it's like the third or fourth meal. I would be like, "Wow!! You don't have to but THANK YOU!" That's beautiful.
Paying for her - question. I asked out a woman from Match on a first date the other week. It was for coffee. When we were ordering our stuff, I saw her pull out money. I pulled out my card and said “I’ve got it”. She said “no, I’ve got this”. I was surprised. I said “...you sure”. She said yes. Well, I had every intention of paying for the date. I wasn’t sure if she did that because she really wanted to pay or if she was testing me. I didn’t want to have an argument on the first date, lol. So, I said thank you and let her pay for both of us. Actually, many times women pay for me on dates even though I intended to pay. Is this a test women do?
That's a good question man... you should probably let the girl know what you think about chivalry and paying for the dinner and even ask her if is a test lol
thanks for this great video!!! btw... I am would like to know the name of the music in the background... where can I find that ? :) thank in advance, Andrew
I quit listening as soon as she said he has to pay for her meal. How about you pay for your meal and I pay for mine so there's no unspoken obligations for anyone
i need help i am a homeschooler and i like this one christian girl but she told me she has never liked someone or had feelings for a guy before and i have never dated a girl before so how do i ask her on a date or what i am 14 turning 15 this year and we don't get to see each other a lot just once a month for a few days if someone can give me advice
but when you pay for the date it means your paying for her time? shouldnt it be mutual so you both pay showing that you both enjoyed each other company??
I agree with everything you said Amanda! I have a wonderful God fearing boyfriend and I realized everything you said or suggested he has those qualities. it was definitely a breathe of fresh air and we are making a year in April ❤
I totally agree Amanda with a guy having a different approach. One thing that really intrigued me about my fiancé was his approach and the way he interacted with me when we were first dating. He was just a genuine nice guy and was very respectful in getting to know me. A lot of guys these days miss the "just be a nice guy" Hope you guys are having a wonderful day : )
We don't do the nice guy because that isn't what females are looking for.They say they want the nice guy but only go for the bad boy.
the way Michael looks at you Amanda😢❤
I agree. I actually dress pretty modestly yet a lot of guys approach me with the SAME kind of attitude. Along the lines of, "Dang girl!" or "AY Beautiful" and then end with a... "can I get your number". Every time I say no. It would honestly be nice to not exactly know for sure if a guy is interested. For him to just be friendly and respectful and invite me to church on our first date or something different like that! I'd LOVE to just feel like were friends hanging out and kinda secretly wonder if hes interested in me and then get excited when I realize we both like each other.
It makes it even better that way because then I'll feel as though he doesn't only like me for my looks but he was smart enough to get to know me before letting me know he's interested. Then I'll also have more respect for him because I'll feel like he's not going around asking every pretty girl for her number.
And dating on a budget is fine as long as he is 100% a gentleman and we find ways to spend time together as FRIENDS.
Melissa King I agree. I’m so nervous about Christian guys talking to me because of my looks and shape. Even fully clothed I still attract a lot of guys and I get uncomfortable. I feel like running and hiding aha.
Awesome video Michael and Amanda. It really provides insight on the whole dating issue. Don't stop, we cherish all your videos
You guys are so interesting together. That sounds funny, but you guys talk off of each other very well. That's hard to do, well done!
I agree with everything you said Amanda! I have a wonderful God fearing boyfriend and I realized everything you said or suggested he has those qualities. it was definitely a breathe of fresh air and we are making a year in April ❤
Great video guys! And Amanda, your curls look sooooo good and have grown so beautifully! Love it :)
Charisse Dunkley thanks so much sis!! It's been a journey!
Awesome video! Great Topic! Great advice! You guys have such a beautiful family. Thank you for your transparency. We just got into the youtube ministry.... I mean channel lol Just want to say thank you for inspiring us. God bless. Have a beautiful week.
Planet Nance thanks for watching! Best wishes with your channel!
Michael is funny . Talking about book of numbers
This is so true! I was wondering if there is a video for us ladies?😊
Cheyanne Woodard next week!! Stay tuned!
Michael and Amanda Yay!!!!! Thank you!😊
Love this!!
Your videos are always on point (: May God bless you both!
the way he looks at her though 🤗🤗
This is so honest and hilarious 😂
Whoever reads this please pray for me. Whatever the LORD lays on your heart, I need prayer.
Love this video 😊
Toni Roberts thanks for watching!
Michael and Amanda np
I'm from a Pentecostal Church and we believe once in the courting/dating stage a chaperone should be present when they get engaged it is a little more relaxed
“Pay for her meal, you’ll set yourself apart”
Pretty sure paying for her meal is the standard... for generations. In fact, you’ll probably be looked at poorly if you don’t pay for it. It’s never changed.
As far as who pays for the meal on a first date, it's not only chivalrous for the man to pay, it also shows her that he has faith that God will help Him provide for her (as long as that's how he looks at it). Also, the guy is getting to BLESS a sister in Christ with a meal regardless of where it's going to go. ON THAT NOTE: I wouldn't mind at all if this beautiful woman of God said to me, "Do you mind if I pay for this meal this time, I just want to bless you :)" if it's like the third or fourth meal. I would be like, "Wow!! You don't have to but THANK YOU!" That's beautiful.
Paying for her - question. I asked out a woman from Match on a first date the other week. It was for coffee. When we were ordering our stuff, I saw her pull out money. I pulled out my card and said “I’ve got it”. She said “no, I’ve got this”. I was surprised. I said “...you sure”. She said yes. Well, I had every intention of paying for the date. I wasn’t sure if she did that because she really wanted to pay or if she was testing me. I didn’t want to have an argument on the first date, lol. So, I said thank you and let her pay for both of us. Actually, many times women pay for me on dates even though I intended to pay. Is this a test women do?
That's a good question man... you should probably let the girl know what you think about chivalry and paying for the dinner and even ask her if is a test lol
Hello, bravo for speaking up! Christ is the Lord Jesus. Christ is King!
Hello Michael and Amanda. Please advise if it is ever a good idea to tell a guy that you have feelings for him?
Go to God for that! :)
Michael bro... that's a nice outfit..
i love u guys
Yea yea yea.. some people don’t want to be attached to anyone. Let alone finding someone who won’t want you years down the road... or just for sex
thanks for this great video!!!
btw... I am would like to know the name of the music in the background...
where can I find that ? :)
thank in advance,
Andrew
I quit listening as soon as she said he has to pay for her meal. How about you pay for your meal and I pay for mine so there's no unspoken obligations for anyone
Netflix and chill - ren
what if you like a guy but your not a loud to date yet what would you do
i need help
i am a homeschooler and i like this one christian girl but she told me she has never liked someone or had feelings for a guy before and i have never dated a girl before so how do i ask her on a date or what i am 14 turning 15 this year and we don't get to see each other a lot just once a month for a few days
if someone can give me advice
You got no social circles with her, as I see. Ask her out, that's your only chance to get to know her
but when you pay for the date it means your paying for her time? shouldnt it be mutual so you both pay showing that you both enjoyed each other company??
can he for once look at the camera?!
I agree with everything you said Amanda! I have a wonderful God fearing boyfriend and I realized everything you said or suggested he has those qualities. it was definitely a breathe of fresh air and we are making a year in April ❤
Are you still together ?