How to date when you hate your body ft. Dossier | How to be more confident in your body | Sam Elle

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  • Опубликовано: 2 дек 2024

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  • @SamElle
    @SamElle  3 года назад +8

    Question of the day: What's your favorite color!!!
    Thank you to Dossier for working with me :)
    ✰ GET YOURSELF A SIGNATURE SCENT ✰
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    Use SAM10 for 10% off.

    • @chonger
      @chonger 3 года назад +1

      blue is my favourite colour as well!

  • @coreyalecmusic
    @coreyalecmusic 3 года назад

    This video was so bold and so open and honest. It’s a hard conversation to have even on RUclips and I think it’s awesome that you got on here to have this conversation. Thank you!! Keep being you and spreading these positive vibes!! Loved this video. 👏🏼👏🏼

  • @aalegalfocus
    @aalegalfocus 3 года назад +1

    You look just fine! When you get older, you will look at old pics of yourself and wonder why you were so hard on yourself! This is good info for all young people on the dating market. Only date people who like you the way you are; if anyone puts down your weight/body, ditch them immediately!

  • @mihaelaclaudiap..2
    @mihaelaclaudiap..2 3 года назад

    Loved the third tip!! Best tip ever! Believe in yourself and love yourself! Take yourself on a date, if you like your body just as it is, others will love it as well! Stop negative self talk - love this one as well! So true! If you believe that you transmit that to others! Ladies, we are beautiful! The way we are!

  • @jasminerosecelle
    @jasminerosecelle 3 года назад

    Yesss putting on a signature scent makes me feel instantly more confident! I have a couple of scents from Dossier and I think they're so amazing, especially for the price! I 100% agree with tip #3. I read something about how we're often so compassionate, forgiving, and encouraging to our partner/ friends/ loved ones, but we don't give each other the same love! Will definitely work on saying something positive about myself when I catch myself doing negative self-talk. Watching your videos is so therapeutic, it's like talking to a friend! You are amazing, and I always appreciate how genuine your videos are!

  • @kadeeeartiaga
    @kadeeeartiaga 3 года назад

    Definitely grateful for all your tips here, Sam! ♥️

  • @CelesteLaura
    @CelesteLaura 3 года назад

    These tips are so genuine!! I love this video so much. I love the when you say a negative thing about yourself, say a positive thing about yourself. You sister is such a great supporter!

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle  3 года назад

      my sister is literally my best friend and im so grateful for her!!

  • @Margueritetchek1
    @Margueritetchek1 3 года назад +1

    Honestly you look beautiful as you are. We all have insecurity one way or another. I think you are such a brave girl to share yours. Big thumbs up

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle  3 года назад

      thank you so so much!!!

  • @brooklynwilson_
    @brooklynwilson_ 3 года назад +1

    I love that you have came so far in the process of working towards loving your body! Putting on your best fit that you feel so good in, and smelling really nice always helps I bet! I used to poke fun at myself literally so much, ITS NOT IT. Sam you're amazing and so stunning!

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle  3 года назад

      Yes to putting on your fav fit and scent!! I think a lot of us would poke fun of ourselves and it's great that you have also been able to stop that!!!

  • @NikkiClark
    @NikkiClark 3 года назад

    self love baby!!!!! 🤍 loved this video. can't wait to support you

  • @jamieavernaa
    @jamieavernaa 3 года назад

    I love these open and honest videos so much!! Confidence is key and building it can be a slow process. I love tip 3 so much. Yes be kind to yourself!! We're already our own biggest enemy so reversing it is so good. Stopping negative self talk is something I've been working on. If I find myself talking negatively, I have to snap out of it quickly!!

    • @carlmoot6315
      @carlmoot6315 3 года назад

      why are women always so negative?

  • @MauricioBanuelos
    @MauricioBanuelos 3 года назад

    Sam, I know I am repetitive as to saying your vulnerability is gold. It's true you helping others with the issues they are scared to voice out it amazing
    Keep making an impact !!! 🔥

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle  3 года назад

      thank you thank you!!!

  • @jessmok
    @jessmok 3 года назад

    yes don’t talk negatively!! you will start to believe it!

  • @SaraEvanss
    @SaraEvanss 3 года назад +1

    I love watching honest videos like this! Smelling good is KEY for me; I feel 10x better with the right perfume on :)

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle  3 года назад

      whats your fav scent!!

  • @KezziesCorner
    @KezziesCorner 3 года назад

    i love these four tips dear sam! i think its very natural this this part comes out that we dont like ourselves and question our bodies especially with social media ! i lovee the getting ready part and wearing things that i love and they help make me feel confident! i need to stand straight more ah the superman pose need to include that more in my day hehe !!! ahhh treating ourselves with love and care is so important and finding love in yourself too !!! and that negative talk is so natural too its about breaking the cycle !!! we sometimes are our worst enemies ehh s o i like going in front of the mirror and say three things that are nice to myself every day and slowly slowly the negative self talk reduced :D love that you did this dear sam x

  • @katiiieeeking
    @katiiieeeking 3 года назад +1

    omg i've definitely struggled w/ this before. i'm sure this video will help so many ppl sam!! ♡ love your top btw!! yes tip 1 is sooo important! omg the superman pose for 2 mins sounds genius!! negative self talk is the root of all evil!

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle  3 года назад

      THANKS!! i got it from abercrombie&fitch!!! I got it this past summer!! AND YEA the superman pose kinda looks silly but it surprisingly works!

  • @Taniadavixo
    @Taniadavixo 3 года назад +1

    Love this video Sam!! Also, you have got gorgeous shiny hair and beautiful skin! Could you please do a video about your hair-skin care routine? Big hugs xx

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle  3 года назад +1

      oooo okay, I will do an updated morning routine type of video where I show that!! :)

    • @Taniadavixo
      @Taniadavixo 3 года назад

      @@SamElle oh you’re a gem, thank you!!

  • @AimlesslyDrifting
    @AimlesslyDrifting 3 года назад

    GIRL! I've been dealing with this (and I'm sure a lot of other ladies as well) has been dealing with this a whole lot more than normal every since the pandemic and I just can't get out of the rut :/ The body confidence + anxiety is not a good mix!

  • @alexfetsko
    @alexfetsko 3 года назад

    your hair looks so good !!!!

  •  3 года назад

    my confident queen😭😭❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @catthecritic
    @catthecritic 3 года назад

    yes on more loving self talk!!

  • @kadeeeartiaga
    @kadeeeartiaga 3 года назад

    This is so relatable! 🥺😩😩😩

  • @KariBeth
    @KariBeth 3 года назад

    I definitely feel more confident when I wear pink 🙌🏻💕💖💗💕! Oooo I’ve never heard about the Superman pose for 2 minutes! I could definitely see how that would also help to boost confidence! Such a good idea anytime we realize we said negative about ourselves we say something positive about ourselves immediately after 👏🏻🙌🏻!! Love that!! 💖

  • @chonger
    @chonger 3 года назад +1

    as they say look good feel good! you are totally right about finding a nice scent and wearing it out on a date, and you look good in the dresses that are your date outfits! i know what it feels like to have a lack of body confidence, I feel like everyone experiences it in some way at some time. I'm glad that you are open about how you feel and bring light to the situation. For me, I have always been self confident about my skin.... also ps I saw what to comment if you saw that in the video.... but Im not 😂

  • @_uluu
    @_uluu 3 года назад

    I’ve been loving all your body positive tips and advice!! I totally agree that having a signature scent will help make you feel more confident. Wow, I didn’t know that the superman pose can lower your stress hormones. Might give that a try next time 😅

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle  3 года назад

      yaaa the superman pose was something I learned in my presentations class!! Honestly I kinda giggle when I do it but I do think it is effective!

  • @coffeewithdee
    @coffeewithdee 3 года назад

    All super excellent suggestions!!! I’m gonna try that perfume website too, I’ve been looking for reliable places to buy perfume and this one sounds pretty legit.
    Also self-narrative is very important, people can see through how you treat yourself and your insecurities. It’s an acquired skill to be uplifting to yourself

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa 3 года назад +1

    That makes me feel struggling depression has been really hard during the day Sam honestly I don't know because you are sweetheart like I'm sure this helps so many memories finding more ppl to be expected ummm I just wanted to say that you are amazing vibe and you are sweetheart

  • @otherryan
    @otherryan 3 года назад

    Shoutout to your sister for the tip at the end! Definitely agree that confidence is key, and that can come in a lot of different forms. It doesn't matter what it is as long as you feel your best, and that'll shine through the most. Those posture tips are smart too -- I never thought about how "poses" can help you fake it til you make it lol

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle  3 года назад

      do the superman pose before you play tennis. You'll be sure to win LOLOLOL

  • @JessKaplan
    @JessKaplan 3 года назад

    Yummm yesss when I smell good I am so much more confident!! 💕

    • @JessKaplan
      @JessKaplan 3 года назад

      Ughh I let people treat me bad freshman year of college, I was not used to boys being like that and I totally let them get away with it! Ew!

  • @jessmok
    @jessmok 3 года назад

    yes me always crouched over omg superman pose i need to do that hahaha

  • @myfoodforall6102
    @myfoodforall6102 3 года назад

    Great tips 👍

  • @mynameisliana
    @mynameisliana 3 года назад

    I like to lick my toes… and yeah sometimes I put myself down without realizing it, but I don’t really mean it. I usually just say it mindlessly. All such good points about body confidence!

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle  3 года назад

      right?!? I SAY IT MINDLESSLY TOO!! i started catching myself whenever I say it so I could stop that habit

  • @jessmok
    @jessmok 3 года назад

    i struggle with my body confidence too

  • @HS-kq5di
    @HS-kq5di 3 года назад

    Can you talk about/give any tips for body image, leading up to homecoming dance and stuff in schools since that’s coming up?

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle  3 года назад

      Oooo yes I can! I’m going to make a video about body image and insecurities and the tips from there can definitely apply to dances at school :)
      Do you have something picked out for what you’re going to wear? I remember I used to hate them (many years ago) because I didn’t like how I looked in a dress / didn’t like how anything fitted on me. But now I look back and I’m like wait, that was silly of me to think that

    • @HS-kq5di
      @HS-kq5di 3 года назад

      @@SamElle yeah, actually, my homecoming dance was last night. I was SO worried about how I would look in a dress and then when I got out there with my friends I didn’t even think about it.
      I know like, with the whole announcing the homecoming queen and stuff it can be quit triggering and
      I just think a video with tips would help a lot of people! Thanks :)

  • @myfoodforall6102
    @myfoodforall6102 3 года назад

    Awesome ❤

  • @ripanshil9793
    @ripanshil9793 3 года назад

    Very beautiful video

  •  3 года назад

    yess clothes that make me feel confident makes me confident LOLL

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle  3 года назад

      CONFIDENCE QUEEN

  • @tv0562
    @tv0562 3 года назад

    영상잘보고 갑니다.
    늘~ 건강하시고 유투버도 승승장구 하시며 행복하시길 응원합니다.

  • @LisaChouTV
    @LisaChouTV 3 года назад

    *Nice sharing.!.!!!!!!!!!*

  • @Wealthy.Africans
    @Wealthy.Africans 3 года назад

    ❣🌷🙏Thank You, success in the future

  •  3 года назад

    i shld try putting perfume on myself more honestly😩😩

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle  3 года назад

      if im running late to class, I always skip it hahaha. I barely get dressed when Im running late

  • @edz5399
    @edz5399 3 года назад

    Hi Sam, OMG ! With all due respect… I don’t see your problem. You are such a beautiful young woman!! I’m just getting over Covid and I lost like 35lbs. And I’m mad as hell ! I’m used to my 205lbs. !! I’m about 6’tall and I can’t stand to be that skinny. Oh I guess I do have a problem lol. Gonna go get a burger to throw down my throat/ fries and vanilla shake too. Ok Sam have a beautiful week! Bye for now. Oh it’s reall nice and cool outside. How is your weather?👍🏽🙏🏽💛🇨🇱

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle  3 года назад

      Everyone definitely has different body preferences!!! I WISH I WAS THAT TALL!! I used to be so so jealous of people who were taller than me. I want to be like 3 inches taller hahah. What kind of burger did you get? I love adding onions tomatoes and mustard to my burgers!! The weather here is also cool, it totally feels like fall!

  • @diabetesvictor
    @diabetesvictor 3 года назад

    Share informative videos.

  • @KhlaBaiTong
    @KhlaBaiTong 3 года назад

    Wow 😍💜❤️💜❤️💜💜💜❤️

  • @ediasmrrawrice9693
    @ediasmrrawrice9693 3 года назад

    Good morning my friend 🙏 nice video 👍

  • @CaroleRobinson
    @CaroleRobinson 3 года назад

    stop negative self talk you're right

  • @pomch2374
    @pomch2374 3 года назад

    good! like👍

  • @kiagengsubagiyo2850
    @kiagengsubagiyo2850 3 года назад

    Wow mantap sungguh luar biasaa👍👍

  • @Healingthroughprayer
    @Healingthroughprayer 3 года назад

    Great really awesome dear friend 💞 success to you always #asavetv
    Watching at this moment ❤️

  • @FaridaHamzah
    @FaridaHamzah 3 года назад

    nice,,,,

  • @Luong.samborangsey
    @Luong.samborangsey 3 года назад

    🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩

  • @salimyahadiyu9931
    @salimyahadiyu9931 3 года назад

    Salam🙏 I am like your video nice👍👍😍😍😍💙💙🙏

  • @davidparnell4675
    @davidparnell4675 3 года назад

    Hi sam

  • @trsbsportspodcast2105
    @trsbsportspodcast2105 3 года назад

    Hello how are you

  • @YourNeighborJenny
    @YourNeighborJenny 3 года назад

    Sam, we love you 😍 Can definitely feel all this, it's been a difficult journey but I'm glad things are improving for you! I used to definitely crouch more to hide my rolls....but now I gotta do the superman pose, I'll try to practice that!! Sabrina has been helpful with you through this process too 😌 such good tips, thanks Sam!
    *I like to lick sweaty toes 😉

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle  3 года назад +1

      omg i used to be so so ashamed of my rolls but then I realized literally everyone had them!! SIBLINGS ARE THE BEST

  •  3 года назад

    hahahaha guilty of having bad posture😭😭😭

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle  3 года назад

      i am crunched over as I type right now LOL