The truth is the harder I try to get a girl the harder it actually is..but when I'm just chilling doing me, not really wanting a girlfriend more girls seem interested like it gets very annoying at times! I think my main issue is that I unintentionally push away those that actually/genuinely like me not only that but when I think a girl isn't that interested in me I later find out that's complete bs! It's like a never ending reversed psychology cycle!
girls like men that is confident in themselves, this means that they often dont have to «try» but will go after what they want without fear of being rejected. Never chase somebody, cause it visually means their running from you. Try to «attract» them by becoming the best version of yourself (physically, mentally and spiritually). This will boost your confidence and naturally make you appear as a «alpha».
Try to make the not like you. Like don't make them hate you, but try to make them not like you and they'll come for you. Trying to get them to like you fucks you over.
@@josefh503looks bro that’s the number 1 thing at the end of the day no girls wanna date a ugly dude no matter how confident you is closes they will do is friendzone you prolly would be able to smash once if she like your personality
•Physical traction such as self improvement doing things outside of relationships alone that can benefit your ownself like going to the gym, looks, dressing, physique •Having charisma , your overall flow and swag of making people into you •Body language like having good eye contact and posture •Dress how you wanna be adressed •Small talk is the enemy when talking to girls •Really listen to body language to interpret and infer things to be able to tell whats wrong and right •Carry yourself with confidence and overcome their ego •Conversations are a two person thing and you need to really pay attention
Bro, this is some great advice. I am a pretty ugly, fat, middle aged, bearded guy.😂 If I’m honest, I’m a 3-4 in the looks department but my personality easily jumps me up to a good 6-7. I swear having a good sense of humor, with good communication skills, and confidence is where you will shine from the rest. I kid you not, I have had some IMMENSELY beautiful women interested in me. My last ex had the biggest vibrant green eyes and dudes were seriously shocked by how I managed to get a gf like that. I’m no player by any means, I just know how to conduct myself in person and I don’t just go around hitting on women but instead focus on how well I connect with them. At my old workplace, I had this amazingly beautiful Columbian woman visiting with her family and I had her and her mother just dying of laughter, the father really liked me. The 23 year old daughter could not stop staring at me, unfortunately at the time I had a gf BUT my coworker watched with his mouth open and could not understand how smitten that woman was with me, as he saw it all himself, she was easily a 10/10, he even said so himself. My point is, I’m not a rico suave, I don’t try to impress, I don’t come off too strong, I don’t get sexual too soon and if the conversation goes well then I’ll ask for their social media or something. Just go out and TALK to these females, don’t put pressure on yourself to get the digits and ONLY ask if you truly feel it went great. You do get better chances if you dress presentable and smell good, so keep that in mind. Anyway, hope this helped, boys! 💪🏻 Go get your girl. 🤓
I used to struggle talking to girls even at work but after listening to some advice from one of my friends and other RUclipsrs, my attraction started improving and some girls are starting to become interested. It just seems your looks does the work for you without you even trying to get them interested in you. My family would just give me lame advice by just telling me that I should just talk to people to get them to like me when in reality that doesn’t always work since not everyone is the same.
@@joelgeorge4364 Looks CAN play a factor, for real, however it’s only about HALF at what a woman looks for. Being funny and confident with yourself can help a lot, trust me, just focus on making people laugh and you’re foot will be in the door. I don’t know why, but humor tends to really speak about your confidence.
Keep up the good work young man. You don’t really have to do anything but be yourself and be a good listener. Don’t expect anything and just be genuine.
Im charismatic and dynamic. My issue is the women that come to me, I dont find them attractive. I've been told I exude confidence and comfort....I have no issue speaking to women....My issue is I cant seem to attract the women I find attractive. My approach is the same with all women. Cool, calm, collected.
I subbed to your channel cause having aspergers makes it difficult for me to talk to people in general and you lay it out plain and simple in your videos for me to understand.
Naw flirting only works if they’re attracted to you or you’re attractive and those are two different things. I know a lot of dudes who aren’t very attractive but flirt and pull because they have so many other aspects that attract women like being alpha athletic confident and funny
@@toluwanimibankole2345 not true at all. The halo effect exists. if an ugly dude is funny its seen as annoying. if a hot dude is funny its seen as funny
Most guys don't understand the power of physical attraction, I remember a chick walking in the club and all the guys were staring at her, and some men were shooting their shot and at this time I was minding my own business, until she saw me and gave me the same attention the guys were giving her! I eventually talked to her and she was giving me I'm down for whatever vibes.
We been talking and I was able to get her comfortable lastnight with telling me one of her darkest secrets felt dope to have her feel safe and to trust me to do this now I have to be able to start coming up with things to say when I run out or have that blank silent moment
Listening, to what she saying. (To pick up great things) the best conversationalist are the best listeners. comments and thoughts / questions actively respond in a way that's engaging in the conversation. and body language . engaged body language (face her). and maintain eye contact. now dont make it uncomfortable, look away every now and then, as long as its comfortable. but Do make eye contact. think about the conversation at hand.look away every now and then. 80% (both present) people like to talk about themselve. Stay away from small talk. talk about them and listen. and comments and thoughts/ questions have good body language face. dont look brute they like masuclime frame and feel safe and protected
If you miss her that means that you view her as better than yourself and you’ve put her on a pedastal. A women will only date somebody she view better as herself. You need to improve yourself for you and become a better version of who you were. This will make you forget her but also attract new girls into your life💪🏾
Bro you gotta watch tykwondoe also if you don’t already you should start streaming bro fw the content preaching facts a lot of us males make the game harder then it rlly is it’s really simple. Just be you, a human
Yo this one girl blocked me rt but I see her in school she still try to talk to me and she always tryna touch me today she tried to touch my hair I told her to stop talking to me ion get it is dat what girls just do?
blocking somebody is a way of telling somebody to stop communicating with you immidiately. the flirting at school is her way of still trying to get your attention without you being able to contact her after school-time. Always recipricate the energy you recieve with a female. In this case: ignore her/block her from your social life. Talk with her as little as possible and watch how she’ll react. If she wants your attention, make her work for it. If she stops flirting, she was just a time-digger and you’ve dodged a bullet💪🏾
Yes charisma, social intelligence and social skills, putting your purpose first, and body language will work but looks, money, etc are not a requirements, and either way the your just gonna be a used napkin when one day it goes down and theres planty of good looking rich guys out there, the point is how you make her feel, mastering your mouthpiece which is attracting women through conversation makes them feel attracted by default not by superficial things that dont focus on her feelings, but if you cant make her feel any mental or emotional spike other then physical, your in trouble, im tired of hearing about looks, looks, looks, theres more to it then just looks and its jot a requirement to be good looking to get one all you need is mindet, the belief in yourself to make her feel attracted through who you are or personality (mouthpiece), theres plenty of natruals out there that are average looking and get more then many handsome men do, because the truth is being handsome has its own obstacles too, you have to bring more then just looks, because theres always someone better with that out there. Im jot saying dont work on your looks but please dont do it for the intent to get women because it doesnt work and if it does they can still leave you because your personality is trash and your socially dumb, go out and socialize thats your answer to your single problem because all natruals do that
Honestly you can’t force a man to flirt, it’s just something that’s supposed to naturally happened talking to girls, just lower your voice and be yourself
I’m 24. My sister friend moved in across the room from me. She’s 19. I feel an energy between us but my sister claims she views me as a brother. I even asked her myself but when she answered she smiled really big. Furthermore since then she’s stoped talking about her exes around me and lowkey makes a point to talk to me at times. Just to say hey. I want to go deeper but she’s also talking about her ex she broke up with 9 months ago and it kinda still on him. (He ghosted her). Should I just play the long game and be more of a friend bit at the same time not? Let it grow naturally? As she’s kinda on that “I wanna have fun” mode currently and has said she is enjoying being single atm. Bit yet she seems interested in me and laughs and smiles and talks to me one on one when my sister is not around. I feel she likes me but don’t want to mess up anything she might have with my sister and living at our house. Sticky situation. If anyone could give some insight it would be much appreciated. I’m falling for her but don’t want to if the signs don’t seem right so things don’t become awkward
@@tiktokvibes8069 like when u talking to a girl and know she gotta boyfriend but you know he doesn’t really make her happy so she doesn’t really have genuine love him
You should offer consultation calls. You're missing out on a fortune, sir. Your prime audience? Males aged 29-45 who spent age 20-35 getting bread, not bitches. We would pay you PAPER, my guy.
The truth is the harder I try to get a girl the harder it actually is..but when I'm just chilling doing me, not really wanting a girlfriend more girls seem interested like it gets very annoying at times! I think my main issue is that I unintentionally push away those that actually/genuinely like me not only that but when I think a girl isn't that interested in me I later find out that's complete bs! It's like a never ending reversed psychology cycle!
Exactly! It’s like the lesser you try the easier it gets but you have to be crafty with your words to make them interested.
girls like men that is confident in themselves, this means that they often dont have to «try» but will go after what they want without fear of being rejected. Never chase somebody, cause it visually means their running from you. Try to «attract» them by becoming the best version of yourself (physically, mentally and spiritually). This will boost your confidence and naturally make you appear as a «alpha».
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@@yoelkeflu3969 thanks haha
Try to make the not like you. Like don't make them hate you, but try to make them not like you and they'll come for you. Trying to get them to like you fucks you over.
We all need a friend like Kam
Yeah we do
Ong
I have a friend like Kam
How do you start a topic by making a statement? Without using the things that are on the table, example food or drinks.
Be like kam
I attract a bunch of females but have no game and eye contact is terrible 😭💀
Same🤦🏽♂️
Stg
them how can you attract them witouth that? thats some bs man
@@josefh503looks bro that’s the number 1 thing at the end of the day no girls wanna date a ugly dude no matter how confident you is closes they will do is friendzone you prolly would be able to smash once if she like your personality
@@josefh503looks dawg
•Physical traction such as self improvement doing things outside of relationships alone that can benefit your ownself like going to the gym, looks, dressing, physique
•Having charisma , your overall flow and swag of making people into you
•Body language like having good eye contact and posture
•Dress how you wanna be adressed
•Small talk is the enemy when talking to girls
•Really listen to body language to interpret and infer things to be able to tell whats wrong and right
•Carry yourself with confidence and overcome their ego
•Conversations are a two person thing and you need to really pay attention
Mmmm
Bro, this is some great advice. I am a pretty ugly, fat, middle aged, bearded guy.😂 If I’m honest, I’m a 3-4 in the looks department but my personality easily jumps me up to a good 6-7. I swear having a good sense of humor, with good communication skills, and confidence is where you will shine from the rest. I kid you not, I have had some IMMENSELY beautiful women interested in me. My last ex had the biggest vibrant green eyes and dudes were seriously shocked by how I managed to get a gf like that. I’m no player by any means, I just know how to conduct myself in person and I don’t just go around hitting on women but instead focus on how well I connect with them. At my old workplace, I had this amazingly beautiful Columbian woman visiting with her family and I had her and her mother just dying of laughter, the father really liked me. The 23 year old daughter could not stop staring at me, unfortunately at the time I had a gf BUT my coworker watched with his mouth open and could not understand how smitten that woman was with me, as he saw it all himself, she was easily a 10/10, he even said so himself. My point is, I’m not a rico suave, I don’t try to impress, I don’t come off too strong, I don’t get sexual too soon and if the conversation goes well then I’ll ask for their social media or something. Just go out and TALK to these females, don’t put pressure on yourself to get the digits and ONLY ask if you truly feel it went great. You do get better chances if you dress presentable and smell good, so keep that in mind. Anyway, hope this helped, boys! 💪🏻 Go get your girl. 🤓
Appreciate it💯
Thanks boss 🙏
I used to struggle talking to girls even at work but after listening to some advice from one of my friends and other RUclipsrs, my attraction started improving and some girls are starting to become interested. It just seems your looks does the work for you without you even trying to get them interested in you. My family would just give me lame advice by just telling me that I should just talk to people to get them to like me when in reality that doesn’t always work since not everyone is the same.
@@joelgeorge4364 Looks CAN play a factor, for real, however it’s only about HALF at what a woman looks for. Being funny and confident with yourself can help a lot, trust me, just focus on making people laugh and you’re foot will be in the door. I don’t know why, but humor tends to really speak about your confidence.
I was hanging out with her today she was touching my hair complimenting me and she broke the touch barrier kam got me out here feeling like the 🐐
Congratulations bro
W
Nice mate 👌
Bro i just want you to know that u changed me and my boys life 😂💖.
Please don’t stop making these videos
Im ngl to you brother the heart with stars is crazy 💀
@@zackrodriguez7519ong 😂
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@@sxmuelzz shii i got premium
@@tofred1846 rich ah
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@23Lurkin 😂 that makes me 3 premium gang
Keep up the good work young man. You don’t really have to do anything but be yourself and be a good listener. Don’t expect anything and just be genuine.
Im charismatic and dynamic. My issue is the women that come to me, I dont find them attractive. I've been told I exude confidence and comfort....I have no issue speaking to women....My issue is I cant seem to attract the women I find attractive. My approach is the same with all women. Cool, calm, collected.
The amount of times he said “you know what I mean” is crazy
I subbed to your channel cause having aspergers makes it difficult for me to talk to people in general and you lay it out plain and simple in your videos for me to understand.
You saving lives every day bro
Damn I’m tapping back in after a couple months bro done matured a lot.
U came in clutch at the right time
Doesnt matter how good you are at flirting if your ugly. Flirting only works if you are good looking. This has been provin on multiple occasions.
Naw flirting only works if they’re attracted to you or you’re attractive and those are two different things. I know a lot of dudes who aren’t very attractive but flirt and pull because they have so many other aspects that attract women like being alpha athletic confident and funny
@@toluwanimibankole2345 not true at all. The halo effect exists. if an ugly dude is funny its seen as annoying. if a hot dude is funny its seen as funny
@@why8410 why you so pressed
@@aspect7304 just stating facts
@@why8410 how I wish what you are saying is 100% true
Be genuinely interested in people, be sincere, find what their missing, listen, encourage them to speak, build intimacy
Most guys don't understand the power of physical attraction, I remember a chick walking in the club and all the guys were staring at her, and some men were shooting their shot and at this time I was minding my own business, until she saw me and gave me the same attention the guys were giving her! I eventually talked to her and she was giving me I'm down for whatever vibes.
Been talking to this shawty for a few weeks now you helped me out a lot bro I been useing your tips thanks bro
We been talking and I was able to get her comfortable lastnight with telling me one of her darkest secrets felt dope to have her feel safe and to trust me to do this now I have to be able to start coming up with things to say when I run out or have that blank silent moment
@@Brothaishmaelupdate now?
The force is strong with u kam
Listening, to what she saying. (To pick up great things) the best conversationalist are the best listeners. comments and thoughts / questions actively respond in a way that's engaging in the conversation.
and body language . engaged body language (face her). and maintain eye contact. now dont make it uncomfortable, look away every now and then, as long as its comfortable. but Do make eye contact.
think about the conversation at hand.look away every now and then. 80%
(both present) people like to talk about themselve. Stay away from small talk. talk about them and listen. and comments and thoughts/ questions
have good body language face. dont look brute they like masuclime frame and feel safe and protected
This vid needs to blow up, gotta listen to the key points and how do you forget bout a female so I can move on from her?
If you miss her that means that you view her as better than yourself and you’ve put her on a pedastal. A women will only date somebody she view better as herself. You need to improve yourself for you and become a better version of who you were. This will make you forget her but also attract new girls into your life💪🏾
Abundance mindset
@@yoelkeflu3969 I got you on that part so do I stop texting/meeting her? because she eventually starts wanting to interact with me
@@sanityfc2988 no keep what you got going with her and get a backup option
@@unreleasedcontent9316 what’s the backup option?
Bro this Man is the MVP of the month lol.. He spittin facts no 🧢. Peep game cause them a lot of gems 💎.
I have confidence in myself that the vibe will flow through
u allways come with something new, love your content :)
best hair so far
Bro you gotta watch tykwondoe also if you don’t already you should start streaming bro fw the content preaching facts a lot of us males make the game harder then it rlly is it’s really simple. Just be you, a human
Fax
Fax he gon hit that 200k pack rq 🚀
Ty the rizz professor
I’m really good at listening but I suck when it comes to eye contact.
just practice looking at a camera, i’m it sounds weird but that’ll help make you more comfortable in “larger audiences”
I keep great eye contact but my game is trashhhhh
The bigger of the deal you make it the harder it gonna be
Truth
12:50 why you think girls like bad guys? Kam hit the nail on the head
My guy kam is putting me on 🤝
This was really good.
Thank you!
Thanks bro, i really liked the video and everything you said and teached
Yo this one girl blocked me rt but I see her in school she still try to talk to me and she always tryna touch me today she tried to touch my hair I told her to stop talking to me ion get it is dat what girls just do?
blocking somebody is a way of telling somebody to stop communicating with you immidiately. the flirting at school is her way of still trying to get your attention without you being able to contact her after school-time. Always recipricate the energy you recieve with a female. In this case: ignore her/block her from your social life. Talk with her as little as possible and watch how she’ll react. If she wants your attention, make her work for it. If she stops flirting, she was just a time-digger and you’ve dodged a bullet💪🏾
@@yoelkeflu3969 Glooks bro
@@yoelkeflu3969 solid advice💯
@@yoelkeflu3969 Fax
@@yoelkeflu3969 😅😂
When that nigga cut his dreads
Shoutout for the whole small talk shit brodie. i deal w errythin else proper but sometimes tweak w convos. Make more vids bou it
Yes charisma, social intelligence and social skills, putting your purpose first, and body language will work but looks, money, etc are not a requirements, and either way the your just gonna be a used napkin when one day it goes down and theres planty of good looking rich guys out there, the point is how you make her feel, mastering your mouthpiece which is attracting women through conversation makes them feel attracted by default not by superficial things that dont focus on her feelings, but if you cant make her feel any mental or emotional spike other then physical, your in trouble, im tired of hearing about looks, looks, looks, theres more to it then just looks and its jot a requirement to be good looking to get one all you need is mindet, the belief in yourself to make her feel attracted through who you are or personality (mouthpiece), theres plenty of natruals out there that are average looking and get more then many handsome men do, because the truth is being handsome has its own obstacles too, you have to bring more then just looks, because theres always someone better with that out there. Im jot saying dont work on your looks but please dont do it for the intent to get women because it doesnt work and if it does they can still leave you because your personality is trash and your socially dumb, go out and socialize thats your answer to your single problem because all natruals do that
I use my own philosophy to pull girls
That’s the best way, people gotta stop trying to be other people.
As long as what you're doing works, don't change it.
LoL good
Me too i throw eggs at them while laughing.
This like my 3rd video I just randomly seen this account now you gained a subscriber
Damn this just exposes how shallow a lot like us men are/were.
And how many females do you get?
he spiting gems
Back then watched Von n still sometimes rewatching shi, now lil or big bro its time to eat also w/ you 🤞🏻😭 😈 Demon Time
toocut?
@@rawdogger809 yessir he was the goat
Yeah.. time moves fast bro. N now we in 2022. Feels like yesterday in 2020
ONG FAM
Tykwondoe goated too
Honestly you can’t force a man to flirt, it’s just something that’s supposed to naturally happened talking to girls, just lower your voice and be yourself
The better the physical attraction is, the less they will care about rizz
Yo kam thank u for everything u helped me a lot man
why kam bringing kendrick lamar vibes though
youre doing god's work here brother trust me!
🔔 squad up
The more you want the less the chance, the less you want the more the chance
solid video preesh
Dat boy cut the dreads
I’m 24. My sister friend moved in across the room from me. She’s 19. I feel an energy between us but my sister claims she views me as a brother. I even asked her myself but when she answered she smiled really big. Furthermore since then she’s stoped talking about her exes around me and lowkey makes a point to talk to me at times. Just to say hey. I want to go deeper but she’s also talking about her ex she broke up with 9 months ago and it kinda still on him. (He ghosted her). Should I just play the long game and be more of a friend bit at the same time not? Let it grow naturally? As she’s kinda on that “I wanna have fun” mode currently and has said she is enjoying being single atm. Bit yet she seems interested in me and laughs and smiles and talks to me one on one when my sister is not around. I feel she likes me but don’t want to mess up anything she might have with my sister and living at our house. Sticky situation. If anyone could give some insight it would be much appreciated. I’m falling for her but don’t want to if the signs don’t seem right so things don’t become awkward
nada i mean?
nada i mean
nada i mean
gyat dayum lmao
I'm 14 and a Vergin
Thx! 😉👍🏼
Why u cut the locs man? Not judging just curious
I think it’s because they were unhealthy, dying and bleaching your locs kills them if it’s excessive.
@@Nisowyd true but from the looks of it I didn’t really see that much breakage and damage idk then again I didn’t see the roots
I pulled a bad bih on da 1st vid I seen of ya
this video is kinda cracked
really good stuff bro
Thanks Kam 💪🏿💯
Kam do a vid on playin the side nigga n what to do when shorty got a manz but she obviously don’t respect him
Side Nigga role is so easy
What? 😂
@@tiktokvibes8069 like when u talking to a girl and know she gotta boyfriend but you know he doesn’t really make her happy so she doesn’t really have genuine love him
@@anthonyboa6476 bro if she cheat on him with you, then you’ll know she’ll do it again. What stopping her from cheating on you?
@@tiktokvibes8069 I mean that’s common sense but I’m saying like to smash or maybe even be friends with benefits
Can these vids work as a teenager?
Yeah
Great video
Needed this vid
Bros been watching Tykwondoe
Thank you for helping me
what about texting
I make eye contact but she staring at the ground
She don’t fwu
Banger video ! ❄❤📽
you t'd me up in the first 5 minutes g
🔔
Where you get that chain it's lit
This sht fye
now i know how to flirt, but i don't know what to flirt.
whoever the hell you want
Start by practicing on boys then get better and go to girls
@@geomejia8946 tf LoL
@@geomejia8946yo If I flirted with women the way I flirt with homies I’d be in jail 😂😂😂
Bro your a true Man
Brodie can u make a vid on wat to talk bou w chicks. Wat to say more or less. How to be smooth n shit. Respec
he just explained that in the vid bro
@@vincent8313 a whole vid bou it specifically bou tat bruh
Talk to her like how you would talk to your homie but with the little sexual vibes , try to make her laugh with good jokes
Wish I had an older brother so I could’ve had this advice
How do you start a topic by making a statement? Without using the things that are on the table, example food or drinks.
“Hey how are you doing. What’s your name ( ). I’m slick Rick let’s fuck
Just say whatever the fuck it don't matter that much really
How do u talk to girl when there are Hella of her friends around
Talk in private when no ones around
By saying Hey! or Excuse me! to get her attention
Don’t. You’ll get a whole different energy when you catch her by herself in private
Nah better to talk to her while she with her friends it shows ur confident
Don’t. Talk to her alone
Kam what are your thoughts on talking to girls from Canada in the U.S.?
Heywanna hear a funny joke on a women. You should come to my room ,it will be a bouncy castle. Lmao
What if she doesn’t want to tell me if she’s insecure ?
Don't ask her. If she is more shy or gets imbareced easily she could be insecure
@@branonb3rkman786 my boy work on your spelling smh
Kendrick ?
I’m talking to a girl and she wants to take a break from me
Why all your vids in HDR?
Bro show some recipts
Fax💯
Knawhudimean?
features dude😊
Umm... What if your short 💀
You should offer consultation calls. You're missing out on a fortune, sir. Your prime audience? Males aged 29-45 who spent age 20-35 getting bread, not bitches. We would pay you PAPER, my guy.
🎯
u know what i mean
2:28😂
👍🏻
this doesnt work for me cause im short
bro i saw a 5’0 mf pull a bad bitch js looksmax
@@vgoxness8181 i have and i get some attention now
Y’all just improve yourself and your social skills, the bitches and money will come as a consequence.
😭
@@33GLOCK 😂
W Kaaaaaaaaaam
I’ve watched some of your vids and I’m still a virgin…
😂😂
Y’all some weirdos in this comment section☠️
Lose weight and do push ups. Get your athletic build. That's what gets them
Cap