I need to get this off my chest - Finally opening up...

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  • Опубликовано: 5 окт 2024
  • Finally opening up about the break up, my girlfriend and the plans for the future in the Philippines. This vlog is very raw and emotional, and it was incredibly important to me to clarify some of the things that have happened in my life here in the Philippines.
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  • @BESportsandEntertainment
    @BESportsandEntertainment Год назад +35

    Obviously you did something wrong. The fact that you have a new gf in a short period of time speaks for itself.

  • @buildingdecorinspiration6397
    @buildingdecorinspiration6397 Год назад +84

    Mike I am from South 🇿🇦 Africa....stay strong brother, I see your pain, after any long relationship that has a break up happen, emtional pain is experienced for many reasons. It's like a period of mourning that you have to get through. People have no right to be ugly and throw stones, and those friends that have abandoned you are not worthy of being called friends, because in hard times true friends are meant to be there for you. Many people divorce and this happens, the friends pick sides, so time to get a new life and make new friends that suit that life.🙏💖😘

  • @charlottemaemcallum8384
    @charlottemaemcallum8384 Год назад +16

    I’m not being judgemental and I’m trying to absorb everything you’re saying on this video but my feelings remain the same - if you can move on that quick from Nellie after 14 years together - then Nellie deserves something better !
    I’ve watched you and Nellie from day one and I’m gutted that it end up that way … good luck in your future prospects -I’ll support Nellie instead ….

  • @prodigee_msc
    @prodigee_msc Год назад +150

    Hey Mike, hang in there. Anyone that has watched the VLOG knows how much you both loved each other and continue to have love and deep respect for one another. As much as we had hoped for the relationship to continue and flourish, I'm sure the break-up took its toll much harder on you both than any of your viewers. Mental health is a serious discussion everyone should have and gain access to care for. Thank you for bringing the importance of this topic to light. Please continue to take of yourselves and making meaningful and purposeful content. Know that we are here for you both as you have been there for us.
    -JR from Korea

  • @mtgonzalez03
    @mtgonzalez03 Год назад +5

    My only question is ; how can you be with someone else when you were supposed to be engaged to be married? I know it was tough to be overly together 24/7, you could have both taken a break separately but, to take a break to be with someone else is a bit cunning don’t you think so?

  • @NIO3954
    @NIO3954 Год назад +64

    Hey Mike, I left PI when I was 8 and been living in US for almost 50 years now. I really enjoy seeing the various sites in PI through your (and Nelly's) eyes. Prayers to you both...

  • @magimix12
    @magimix12 Год назад +65

    Nilie is a good person, the way she laughed is so natural that is why I really don’t understand what happened with your relationship. Hopefully you and Nelie will get back together. Humility is one of the best answer in all of the problem . I love you both and God bless.

  • @soleofkatie2169
    @soleofkatie2169 Год назад +38

    It was heartbreaking for me to know that you guys broke up but at the end of the day, you don't owe anyone an exaplanation. But I'll give it to you as you are brave enough to share your pain and feelings.
    Glad that both of you guys are happy. ❤️

  • @andieaquino9913
    @andieaquino9913 Год назад +13

    Hi Mike. Just want to share this quote from one of my favourite books - The Bridges of Madison County; “ The human heart has a way of making itself large again even after it’s been broken into a million pieces.” Keep loving and smiling 🥰

    • @lovethynature5689
      @lovethynature5689 Год назад +1

      Exactly!!! I believe that from my oen experienced😊👍

  • @mariasoledadbuenvenida6176
    @mariasoledadbuenvenida6176 Год назад +20

    I perfectly understand your point. No need to explain yourself. We respect your decision. Just be happy and no need to hide anything.

  • @rosechugsayan1235
    @rosechugsayan1235 Год назад +5

    It's always good to voice it out whenever there's something in your chest. You feel enlightened and back to your normal healthy happy personality

  • @elenajoson6426
    @elenajoson6426 Год назад +666

    Mike, just to let you know, there are a lot more of us than you think who love and support you. We may not be as vocal as those who pick the women's "side," but please don't feel like you are alone because you are not. You are loved, Mike! ❤️🇵🇭

    • @jnl321
      @jnl321 Год назад +12

      I'm one of them

    • @reddy0102
      @reddy0102 Год назад +9

      me too

    • @sharonmendoza4415
      @sharonmendoza4415 Год назад +10

      Mee three

    • @reddy0102
      @reddy0102 Год назад +24

      ​@@cumali6187 they have done a video together and talked about the reasons of their break up

    • @oreooscar2377
      @oreooscar2377 Год назад +6

      Me 4

  • @Pinoywit
    @Pinoywit Год назад +13

    I haven't been to this channel in awhile, but this popped up in my feed. I wish you well Mike. You have chosen one of the most difficult career paths, being in the public eye. May your heart and mind be blessed with the strength and fortitude to endure.
    To others reading this... May we all be gifted with kindness and compassion. Public figures are humans too.

  • @marilynburgos2000
    @marilynburgos2000 Год назад +23

    People will never stop questioning and it will never end.Whether they judge you or not for what happened ,just ignore them and to not get affected by it.At the end of the day,you know yourself better .Give yourself peace and sanity.You cannot please them.God bless you more. Cheers 🙏😄

  • @mariageorge6961
    @mariageorge6961 Год назад +186

    You don’t have to listen to people telling you to close this RUclips channel and start a new one. You also worked hard for this channel. Please stay encouraged and continue to do positive vlogs.

  • @grace2246
    @grace2246 Год назад +23

    It's okay Mike everything will be alright in time. God bless you. Stay happy. Cheer up 😊

  • @great9302
    @great9302 Год назад +22

    Fourteen years of being happy together, vlogging and being in love, you and Nelly, would only mean to me you really have been supportive partners to each other in one way or another until the pandemic came and disturbed your once great relationship as a couple mentally. Things started to get rough; and finally the separation was agreed.
    What a journey you both had had in the Philippines! I wish you all well on your next enterprise and life's adventures, you and Nelly. 💗💫
    What a disaster this pandemic has brought to many!

  • @rodpau691
    @rodpau691 Год назад +150

    That person who’s harassing you & nelly deserved to be jailed. We will not allow morons & fake news purveyors to thrive here. Just remember, he can never put down a good person. Will be here to support you. Stay safe & God bless.🙏❤️

  • @Rikrok59
    @Rikrok59 Год назад +8

    Thanks Mike. This was emotional to watch, but for your sincerity and honesty. I’m older and blessed to be with my partner and spouse for over 45 years and your advice to seek “ mental health” concerns is paramount to maintain any relationship. I will always support your pursuits and dreams: Make it Happen‼️

  • @ChinkedEyesFilipino
    @ChinkedEyesFilipino Год назад +15

    Great job Mike. Thank you for sharing and transparent with us. We support you all the way. Also, thank you for promoting my motherland. I’ve been a subscriber of this channel for a few years now. I really enjoy watching your videos so keep it up 👍

  • @SummerRamirez
    @SummerRamirez Год назад +131

    While this channel will never be the same without Nelly, I appreciate the fact that you guys sat down and made a video to address your subscribers. And while I can't imagine how Nelly must have felt after hearing that you're in a relationship again shortly after the breakup, I appreciate your honesty and you opening up about your new girlfriend. While you did say this new woman has helped you to get in a better mental and emotional space, I honestly hope that it's not a false sense of security and I pray that you don't regret that decision in the long run. I sincerely wish you and the other influencers find justice for getting harassed by that awful person. Time doesn't heal wounds, but it does make it less painful. This channel is almost 600K strong, and together with the rest of the subscribers we wish you all the best and we look forward to your new adventures.

    • @ziaong4574
      @ziaong4574 Год назад +6

      Couldn’t agree more. One’s happiness and positive outlook in life should not come from others but should come from within. Emotional co-dependency is unhealthy in the long run. All the best in your healing process!

    • @obviouslyetc
      @obviouslyetc Год назад

      💯

  • @maykestrada
    @maykestrada Год назад +12

    Hang in there Mike. I hope this has helped you feel so much better. I am quite excited for what you have planned! Still supporting you both! God bless.

  • @lhouieb2002
    @lhouieb2002 Год назад +36

    When you mentioned “Nelly and I seek to travel and don’t want to be confined…” is already an indication of a not so healthy relationship because it only indicated the terms for you to stay together. The times that make you happy. But for one to know a person, you see it best when you face adversities you’ll really get to know the person. You are right when you said that during pandemic you got close but you also fell apart. When the luster of traveling was stalled, you saw the truth in each other during the adversities in your lives. And it shows how different you are and you never saw that because you are both busy traveling and not seeing each other as you in both of your weakness. Sure, there is love but it seems that it has conditions. It’s interesting that your love for traveling is also both your weakness when not doing it. There are some people who loves traveling but ok if they don’t and life still goes on. It’s not like something is taken away from them.
    For what it’s worth, at least you see it now rather than seeing it after being married. You both saved yourselves from bigger problems before it’s too late.
    I wish you well in this new chapter of your life and I can see your genuine interest of immersing in the PH hence it’s better to be with someone who will be there with you who is also comfortable where you are and same for the girl. I see that you embrace the PH for what it is despite not being a perfect country.
    May you move forward in life with much hope, happiness and success. God bless you!🙏🙏

    • @annestoriesph
      @annestoriesph Год назад +1

      Well said. What are you? A counselor or something?👍🏼

    • @lovelifegalore
      @lovelifegalore Год назад +2

      Your comment says it all. I agree with what you've said, so--copy-paste.

  • @gemmalicup-singian2195
    @gemmalicup-singian2195 Год назад +24

    Thank you so much for this you don’t owe any of us explanations but that just shows how important this community to you and I hope everyone supports you and understand that you need to move on and enjoy life, thank you again and God Bless ❤️🥰

  • @reerara
    @reerara Год назад +6

    Hi, this actually inspired me. I have just broken up with my partner of 12 years for various reasons. Your breakup resonates with me very well. We broke up as friends and we still care for each other. It is the romantic side that is not there anymore. The feeling is still raw and we have not announced it to families and friends yet. Your break up announcement and this inspired me a lot. We do not have to resent each other and that we still love each other in a different way. 12 years is a loooong time, 1/3 of my life, so I cannot throw that away. Thank you so much for sharing, I feel like I understand myself more now.

  • @albertcuello8643
    @albertcuello8643 Год назад +9

    That's why it is better to be private when it comes to love. Private life is a better life.

  • @nickdee1913
    @nickdee1913 Год назад +7

    I’ve been a loyal fan for years and I’m still here. I appreciate you giving us clarity. I’ve gone through it and I can relate. As long as you’re happy now then I’m happy for you. Looking forward to all your adventures and I know it will be epic. Take care Mike 👏🇵🇭

  • @jannakavanna9282
    @jannakavanna9282 Год назад +4

    Your gonna end up hurting yourself again.. it is a bad move getting into a relationship after a break up... I hope youll find peace within you...

  • @FullyFamily1958
    @FullyFamily1958 Год назад +17

    your personal life is your own. what you show us on your video's is what you want us to see, that should be enough. what happens between you two is your business. your still the same person you were before all this. good luck to the both of you ❤️🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🇵🇭❤️

    • @andresbiyaya5205
      @andresbiyaya5205 Год назад

      And that's a 'puti' culture. Walang masabing malalim na rason, nagkasawaan lang... sabi sabi. Tama ka out na kayo diyan.

  • @fernandoclaudio
    @fernandoclaudio Год назад +7

    Hangon there man, dont let anybody ruined your life. As pinoy saying " yaan mo silang mamatay sa ingit". Rebuild your self and start all over again. Do what ever you want dont mind them, were here to support the two of you..cheer up man.

  • @engineeratm
    @engineeratm Год назад +22

    Mike, been there since you guys started the vlog. You don't owe us anything but we do appreciate your candidness here. Kudos to you and to Nelly, soldier on...

    • @susanpadrique2899
      @susanpadrique2899 Год назад

      It's your privacy.dont bother ..the comments,..life is short but beautiful ❤️❤️❤️ enjoy every gift of life..

  • @pinoyfromnewyork4525
    @pinoyfromnewyork4525 Год назад +6

    Mike, you and Nellie got us hooked with your Philippine vlogs. You guys were a very sincere and down to earth couple and that connected with us that it did break our hearts you’ve separated. We have an empty space and miss your conversations and back and forth with Nellie. Good luck and hope you can get this harasser in check. That’s not very nice of them.

  • @juankulot7414
    @juankulot7414 Год назад +16

    super excited to see both u and ur new gf on your upcoming videos. choose happiness always Mike! we'll support you all the way 👍

  • @helenbandibas956
    @helenbandibas956 Год назад +58

    you don’t have to explain mike.Just be happy and get on with your life❤

  • @florencecariaso9264
    @florencecariaso9264 Год назад +11

    We understand you Mike I hope everything’s will be alright God bless you always !!❤🙏

  • @jephbisdaktv8291
    @jephbisdaktv8291 Год назад +7

    I supported this channel before i still support it now. Keep making videos. Stay positive and make it happen.

  • @Sazsy005
    @Sazsy005 Год назад +14

    Stay strong Mike ❤ we are always here for you, you are not alone and you will get through all of this.❤Take care of yourself and stay healthy.😊

  • @elchichosantana6410
    @elchichosantana6410 Год назад +3

    MAN ITS TOTALLY SCRIPTED. YOU CAN BRING YOUR SCRIPT TO WWE.

  • @jilb835
    @jilb835 Год назад +106

    Don‘t let other people disturb your inner peace. Life is short to be anything but happy. So as long as you are not stepping on anyone, keep doing you. These distractors can only get to you when you let them. Alles gute von Hamburg!

  • @des_3.0
    @des_3.0 Год назад +7

    just sending you both hugs... I know one day you'll get past this and when you're both in a better place you'll be able to smile more thinking back on the good days.

  • @mayetbuchanan5022
    @mayetbuchanan5022 Год назад +15

    I am sorry to hear of what you and Nelly had been through, I think a lot of us understand , life goes on and wish you both happiness.

  • @sabastian460
    @sabastian460 Год назад +5

    Thank you for sharing your private space with us. Mental health is so important. Understanding your boundaries and yourself I think becomes your insurance moving forward. I am personally happy for you and Nellie as well. Hope to meet your new GF in your blogs soon. Practice meditation and as you always say in your blogs “keep positive and make it happen”. Good luck to you and btw hope you will be able to resolve the issue with the person “stalking” your channel.

  • @judalinealagon5359
    @judalinealagon5359 Год назад +62

    Keep your sanity Mike. Life is not a bed of roses keep fighting. Stay safe and continue to be a good person. Thank you for loving the Philippines 🇵🇭.

  • @daynnight_lady
    @daynnight_lady Год назад +2

    We Filipinos should stop dictating people what to do.
    In Tagalog, wag kayong makialam sa buhay ng iba. If hindi niyo na bet, wag niyong panoorin.
    Let Mike live his life.

  • @rosemaryfordham1778
    @rosemaryfordham1778 Год назад +102

    You made me shed a tear. All the best to you both, and like you said Mike, it’s time to move on. Enjoy your days,enjoy your new found love. Time is short, be happy.

  • @junglejim4549
    @junglejim4549 Год назад +2

    The harassment you both were / are getting is from a person who is very INSECURE. Habe keine angst Und gehe vorwart. Du hast eine wundervoll zukunft in die Philippinen. Und IGNORE all NEGATIVE comments. As the saying goes:" Misery Loves Company!" Gott Segne Dich, Mike, your neue ehepaar.

  • @melitamedina9662
    @melitamedina9662 Год назад +15

    Thank you for sharing something that's so intimate and so difficult to address especially on a public forum. I truly hope that somehow this would also provide you some form of peace within yourself.
    As you said, the best thing is to hold on to great memories and move on and create more memories that best fit both of you regardless on who you end up sharing them with. I am also glad that you have found someone who is making you happy and affords you and helps you to move forward.
    P.S. you breaking down at the end was so raw and heartfelt that it truly broke my heart..I hope your girlfriend was there because you needed a big hug and a shoulder to rest your head on at that very moment.
    Keep your chin up and be happy regardless on how tough it might seem at the moment ❤️ . Everything happens for a reason..and keep making it happen!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @pmjb4
    @pmjb4 Год назад +5

    Be strong Mike! Those of us that have watched you and Nelly from way back, like you both not just as a couple but also as individuals. Will continue to support you both on each of your future endeavors and will welcome any new partners that you and Nelly might share with us in the future. Just wishing you both happiness, calm and good health, both mentally and physically. And I've had enough friends breakup/divorce where it was actually the women who were at fault, so people should definitely not just assume it's because of the guy.

  • @kemchewplays07
    @kemchewplays07 Год назад +26

    MIKEking it happen all the way. you have our support mike ! we love you ❤️

    • @tendermender
      @tendermender Год назад +2

      Wow! This is a good name to rename the channel -
      "MIKEking It Happen"

    • @kemchewplays07
      @kemchewplays07 Год назад

      @@tendermender 100% agree on this 👌

  • @Philmeupgm
    @Philmeupgm Год назад +5

    I was so sad when you both broke up. I followed you since the day you were in Manila.
    I can relate of how you felt Mike. Me and my boyfriend broke up during pandemic as well.
    But I can see that you'll get back together in time ❤️

    • @marysuzettecatipon6147
      @marysuzettecatipon6147 Год назад

      Me too I can see that they will.get back together with each other in God's perfect time.

  • @pkchatterjee2005
    @pkchatterjee2005 Год назад +57

    Wish we could all give you one massive hug, pat you on the back and say "it will all get better"! Hold on to the memories but move on Mike... Your virtual friends are all with you! 🤗🫂

  • @hangontofaith
    @hangontofaith Год назад +3

    I’m proud of you Mike. Health is always first priority. Mental, emotional, physical and spiritual. You do this to help others and your videos do help in many ways! Good works are never useless.

  • @MakatiMazz
    @MakatiMazz Год назад +12

    Mike, you and I should hang out. I’m an American living in BGC, long time viewer. You even inspired me to have a small RUclips channel with vlogs and my original music!

    • @MakingithappenVlog
      @MakingithappenVlog  Год назад +5

      Amazing :) hit me up on IG

    • @MakatiMazz
      @MakatiMazz Год назад +3

      @@MakingithappenVlog I’m 63. Not on IG. LOL. RUclips is enough for me. I. Can I email you my contact details?

  • @dnalorarmada7500
    @dnalorarmada7500 Год назад +4

    Life must go on no matter what happens, so do you, just keep up your good work dont quit.... We love you (and Nellys too)... God bless and take care.

  • @ZhanMiyong
    @ZhanMiyong Год назад +232

    Mike i can see your sincerity in this vlog .i understand your situation during the pandemic because i had experienced it too specially my mental health when i am secluded in one area only for along time. There are still filipinos who cannot move on ,or the ability of acceptance.,whichis part of the filipino culture...just move on with your lfe which makes you happy..Come on filipinos lets move on and be compassionate...We love you Mike and were here for you throughout..cheers.

  • @puglover4280
    @puglover4280 Год назад +5

    I'm glad you got those issues off your chest. Praying for peace and happiness for both you and Nelly (and Peanut). I have come to care for you guys individually. I hope the stalker gets his comeuppance soon. Continued success to both of you. Mike, please pat yourself on the back for learning to love again. God bless you!

  • @phreshcutphunk
    @phreshcutphunk Год назад +9

    Mike I'm ashamed to admit it but I was one who needed to understand more. I have invested so much time to your vlogs I felt I knew you guys. This video was not necessary, but it made me understand and appreciate yours and Nellys situation. I also appreciate you opening up like this and it really brings us closure. So do us a favor and don't make a video like this again... go on and look ahead my friend. Best wishes to you all.

  • @Jersey.Living
    @Jersey.Living Год назад +2

    Your channel was one the reason why I really wanted to visit the Philippines sad that the two of you are not together now

  • @Jlb-fz7nl
    @Jlb-fz7nl Год назад +34

    Hang in there Mike, it’s just life. You’re human just like all of us ❤ You got this man!!!!

  • @filamhalohalo
    @filamhalohalo Год назад +3

    Thanks for sharing more about what you've gone through. A lot of people can relate to grief associated with losing an important relationship, but you are going through it publicly. I'm sorry the negative comments that have come at you. You deserve happiness. Take good care. Can't wait to see how you grow & change from all of this. Best wishes to you.

  • @pauladosch7062
    @pauladosch7062 Год назад +14

    Mike, you are very impressive. What a gentleman! I really respect both you and Nelly. This video was very important for clarifying the main issues that people have been wondering. I’m sure this will put speculation to bed and allow everyone to move on. I like how you said let’s look to the future, make memories, and make it happen. Bless you.

  • @graciemeier7056
    @graciemeier7056 Год назад +5

    Mike- thank you for opening up. I hope you continue to heal. 💚

  • @csreyesccm
    @csreyesccm Год назад +32

    Life is hard in itself. Give and take in a relationship are even harder. You and I have a lot in common. I have been married to an Austrian for the last 32 years and I am a few generations Filipino. My wife and I have a lot of ups and downs but one thing for sure, the good outweighs the bad. And another thing, Filipino will assume the bad more so the good, so please take it for what it's worth or not and move from it. At the end, it is your life not theirs who you need to work on. Hey! Stay safe and looking forward to see more vlogs.

  • @jazjoyce
    @jazjoyce Год назад +7

    Cheer up Mike, hayaan mo silang mga Marites na mahilig sa chismis. We will support you and Nelly forever. We love you both.

  • @faudungca8069
    @faudungca8069 Год назад +40

    I hope you will feel better now, I hope you understand SOME of us are very engaged and tend to feel very involved to the point where we want to know everything and do things that will affect your life. IT'S LIKE HOW WE FEEL WITH OUR FAMILY. HOPE YOU WILL BE BOTH HAPPY. PEOPLE WILL ALWAYS ATTACK YOU JUST IGNORE THEM AND MOVE FORWARD.

  • @vfg4evr192
    @vfg4evr192 Год назад +4

    Our man Mike has spoken and he is happy. Ready to move on future chapters of Making It Happen. So stoked to see u back on your Lippizaner steed. Someday soon I will share a cup of Mose coffee with you and I'm bringing Sauerbraten and Sauerkraut. U da Man💯

  • @deantucker1464
    @deantucker1464 Год назад +13

    Mike...it's a good thing you made this video. The thing is that people who haven't yet made the leap to get out of the rat race live for the moment vicariously through you and when you and Nellie broke up, they also sort of experienced that. Hopefully now, you'll share your new relationship so people don't have that awkward feeling that you're deliberately hiding something like the seafood boil.

  • @matelbanzon2086
    @matelbanzon2086 Год назад +3

    All things shall pass. Always remember that tomorrow will be better than today!. We should all lift each other up and no pulling down! Despite challenges keep it up!

  • @momsierose_ng_bayan
    @momsierose_ng_bayan Год назад +6

    So much heart. No need to explain. Needing time to heal and move on is never easy it's a process. Both of you deserves to be happy regardless if it's together or with someone else. That's life. I am a recovering stroke survivor last June and mental health is indeed a struggle. Always surround yourself with positive and great people. Stay strong. God bless. 😊🙏❤️

  • @justinasteiner70
    @justinasteiner70 Год назад +2

    Mike you're alright a lot of us here were understand your situation, that's life okay ? I include you in my prayers that you'll be blessed with more strength to cope everything, big hugs from me and God bless you always. Have a lovely day out there greetings from England, UK. Mabuhay oh dear I do really miss Philippines my home country.

  • @Canada93214
    @Canada93214 Год назад +17

    be happy mike we are always here to support you be happy both you and nelly we love you

  • @kevwanders
    @kevwanders Год назад +4

    As an OG Fan of you guys. This the saddest part being in a social media. I've seen you guys grew so much as a RUclipsr and we felt we've known you.. We keep supporting you guys no matter what .. 💪🏼

  • @kompyuter2003
    @kompyuter2003 Год назад +108

    We got you Mike. You do you. There are a lot of "crazy fans" who think they own their idols and want to control them. Don't worry about them. Do keep your legal team handy because the only way to push back is legal action. That should make them think twice before they make a move. Hope you feel better, gain back that zest, joy and happiness and smile in your heart. Don't ever lose that. Be confident that you are not doing anything wrong. You are not stepping on anyone's toes. You are free to go out, love again, live again. If people don't like what you're doing, well tough luck to them. They can't stop you from Making Things Happen! 💗👍

  • @mariapablo2127
    @mariapablo2127 Год назад +11

    Thank you Mike for being transparent. I acknowledge your courage by being vulnerable. Break ups are difficult, we grieve the loss when we go through such difficult and painful moments. It's not easy going through this alone. I'm sorry the friends you thought were friends were not able to grieve along your side, let alone be supportive and share your burden. Difficult times in our lives allows us to see who are true friends are, those who stands by our side during the difficult times, they are the people you want.
    I am glad you found someone special, someone who will be by your side, love you unconditionally and be supportive. I hope all the best for you and in your new relationships and endeavors. I hope all the best for Nelly too.
    It's through the pain where we grow. Warmly, Maria

  • @angjenvicarv2421
    @angjenvicarv2421 Год назад +10

    Yes, let’s move on and make it happen. I believe many of us are still supporting you and Nelly’s channel despite the separation. Happiness and success for you and Nelly and to your separate future projects.

  • @virgilioritos1567
    @virgilioritos1567 Год назад

    GOD is with you always. You are such a good man. Be strong in the LORD. GOD BLESS YOU MORE.

  • @jaxs1121
    @jaxs1121 Год назад +12

    Be strong Mike! Praying for you always.

  • @kitoryo__
    @kitoryo__ Год назад +3

    Hi Mike! I've been watching your vlog even before the making it juicy series. Just know that I will always love both of you and support you guys as well as your GF 😊 keep safe always!

  • @ednaalberto6403
    @ednaalberto6403 Год назад +17

    You did the right thing, by pouring out your heart out to us (your subscribers) its so hard to keep it by yourself and by doing so,,hoping that it'll ease the pain ,,goodluck to your upcoming business( been waiting for it to open) be strong and stay happy with your new found love , take care Mike 😘🤗

  • @filipinohomecooking
    @filipinohomecooking Год назад +1

    agruements are just part of the process. It is the phase where you need both to overcome in the relationship. If you let your pride get on the way, that is when break up happens. If you overcome that phase that is when your relationship become stronger. There is no perfect relationship without arguments. It is present in every relationship. It is how you handle each others difference.
    You just got to talk it out. Talk what you dont like about her attitude or what she has done. If she didnt change it and if you notice that she is not willing to change it then you can decide.
    I am sure thing like this can happen again in your next relationship. It just how you handled things out, both of you. It is either you acknowledge your difference or get your pride on the way and leave.

  • @ryandextersantos4053
    @ryandextersantos4053 Год назад +7

    Being happy is a choice and an effort...good to hear that you are moving on and getting excited once again. Having a reason and purpose in life will make things easy for you to move on to the next chapter of your life.

  • @breathaway.
    @breathaway. Год назад +3

    Nelly and you recognize that your relationship has problems, it`s like you love each other but can`t be together. We`re all very different expressions of life and you bring something different to the world. Keep going, Mike. Life is beautiful.

  • @allenemartinmarquez966
    @allenemartinmarquez966 Год назад +5

    You are a good person mike and a real gentleman.. Just be positive and life will eventually be perfect for you.. there's always a rainbow after the storm... hope you'll find your rainbow mike and nelly...

  • @larookat3338
    @larookat3338 Год назад +1

    I think privacy is a HUGE factor in preserving any relationship. being on RUclips can be a bit of a sacrifice, and living in a small country makes it easier for the crazy stalkers.

  • @teresapentason2062
    @teresapentason2062 Год назад +6

    Hi sir Mike, just be free, you have spoken much about the break up before and pls.don't stress yourself too mch. Life must go on...always following your vlog here. God bless

  • @rose29599
    @rose29599 Год назад +2

    healing takes time.. you both deserve to be happy and at peace.. 😇🙏

  • @michaelcrist4485
    @michaelcrist4485 Год назад +44

    Stay strong Mike! You will get through this and be happier in the future. Always take care and be blessed.

  • @johnintheus5260
    @johnintheus5260 Год назад +16

    Mike, thank you sharing this very emotional and personal story with this community. You both are very good people and we want nothing but happiness for both of you. And for those haters, just ignore as best you can, their negativity. You being in the public limelight does caring that burden of people commenting on you, both negatively and positively. We all can’t be your bff (lol) because there are thousands of us who truly care about your well-being, so many of us really do Mike. So hang in there friend, things will get better and better for you both - God
    bless you always, both of you 🙏🏻

  • @rodvargas
    @rodvargas Год назад +83

    Thanks, but you and Nelly don’t owe us an explanation. Do what you both gotta do, be what you both gotta be!!! We’re behind you guys and yes please another reaction channel, I really miss TAKEOUT THURSDAY!!!

    • @MakingithappenVlog
      @MakingithappenVlog  Год назад +15

      Thank you so much Rod this is so generous 🥰 Thank you for all the support and yes I really should bring back Take out Thursday

  • @NLW288
    @NLW288 Год назад

    You'll find your happiness soon down the road, I know it. Ingat Ka!
    Keep striving my friend.
    👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @grantelliott3979
    @grantelliott3979 Год назад +6

    Mike I applaud you for yhis video. Remember that life sometimes is not fair and kicks you in the butt. I know what it is like to have a long relationship breaks down. I was with my ex for 16 years and she left me for someone else. All I can tell you that use the lessons from the breakup to become a better person. The pain and anguish will go away. Good luck mate and next time I am in the Philippines, I will look for yourcafe

  • @josearliecruz5937
    @josearliecruz5937 Год назад +3

    I’ve watched you even before the pandemic and you guys were our company during the pandemic. My wife and I watched all your vlogs during that period. Unfortunately, things has to take a turn for you both. There’s no other way for you two but to move on. You have talked about your issues as adults and had an understanding. That’s life, some good thing has to end. Hoping for the better. Good luck to both of you. 🙂🙏

  • @ringo2799
    @ringo2799 Год назад +89

    whatever happens we support you guys for promoting the Philippines to the world.....

  • @nerissagonzales7077
    @nerissagonzales7077 Год назад +1

    I am one of ur subscriber who feel sad when you announced ur break up! I understand you now after I watched/heard ur explanation. That's life! It's good ur not married yet coz it will only end in divorced! Be happy and God bless you Mike and so to Nelly!!!

  • @mariaelmahirai4303
    @mariaelmahirai4303 Год назад +9

    That is okay Mike and we really understand you and we still love and support you both and Nelly and we wish you will have a beautiful and happy life and thank you for sharing it to us your subscribers… God bless you and to all your future journeys in life ♥️

  • @LOU1NY
    @LOU1NY Год назад +1

    Well, statistics show that in the age of social media, marriages & serious relationships last less than 5 yrs…So, you actually beat the odds.

  • @chacha9674
    @chacha9674 Год назад +1

    Try to reconcile with Her. I can see that you so loved her. Go try it. If there is no third party involve that means there is a second chance. You don’t know maybe she is just waiting for you to talk to her.

  • @plantkea4052
    @plantkea4052 Год назад +14

    Move on but don’t take this down. All the ❤️

  • @homegrownchuckles9696
    @homegrownchuckles9696 Год назад +57

    You and Nelly are both wonderful people. We supported you as a team and we’ll continue to support you as individuals. Looking forward to your next adventures and hopefully get to know your partner soon. Keep smiling brother, you don’t owe anyone an explanation. Let’s boogie 😊😊😊

  • @rowena261989
    @rowena261989 Год назад +11

    You are not alone in this situation Mike. I was very stressed during this corona years especially giving birth at the start of the pandemic. I was very vocal saying it to my husband that i cant do it anymore. I need to go Home back to the Philippines where my mom can take Care of me. Luckily i went to Iceland for a week with some students from our School. It helped me a lot. 1 week alone time with myself and be myself without thinking for others and others needs (making food, cleaning the house og etc). I am happy to see you both are couping ❤