I think she doesn’t want the surrogate because she doesn’t want to be the primary mother. If he finds a woman to have a child with, that woman would be the primary mother and she could give secondary support, which is what she wants from what I understand. She’s committed to her career rn and doesn’t want to disrupt that with a child.
@@wendyannruns agree, she is 17yrs older than him so she probably doesn't want to leave that burden of him taking care of the child on his on if she was to past on...
But her to say she is ok for her husband to be with someone else and kids with,tami is going to regret ever saying the whole “taking a break”thing because all i see is red flags 🚩!
Like the ladies suggested there are other ways to have a child and if she truly feels like she’s being selfish then let him go. How you gonna let your man go do his thing and knock up someone else and then come back to you? What about the child? Glad her man knows better than to take her up on the offer.
I get what her intentions were, but I would never give my husband the ok to go sleep around with someone. He can easily go get a surrogate, and not even have to worry about a co parenting situation. Then to break up for a year or 2, what is the point of that? To live a life with another women for 2 years? It just doesn’t make sense. It looks to me that she shouldn’t even be married.
Another to looking at it, is she gave him the ultimate freedom of choice and he still chose her. So that let's her no that his love is strong n real and her love is the same. So now since they both really know where each other is at mentally and that option is not an option he truly wants then maybe the will do surrogacy
Okay but what happens if your husband falls in love with the woman that births his child? If you want a guaranteed emotional detachment i wouldn’t suggest he go “find another woman” Conceiving and birthing a child isn’t robotic like that
If he falls in love with her then he should be with her. Some ppl aren't worried about "keeping" a man, and the friendship and love between you two is what's important, not the romantic relationship itself
Tami attempted to clarify this but the bottom line is we all know what she was saying. Go have a relationship with someone else for the purposes of a baby and we'll work it out later. Otherwise why would they have to separate for two years? If you make a decision and decide to go public with it then just own it.🤷🏿♀️
I would to see her as a cohost on this show. Based on her history and point of view, she could give the panel more of a flava. She definitely has no issue giving her perspective and she usually keeps up with daily topics.
You make a great point. Tami is a great person to host and/or cohost a talk show. She will always give and receive an opinion. She also asks interesting questions.
She's not beautiful. She looks unnatural and, well, strange and "plastic". And by the way I too hope all gets well with her, but clearly it isn't right now.
Tami sold her soul the day she let that black co-star take all the heat from real world when all of them were in on the joke. It ruined his career and all. Watch how karma is riding Tami and letting us watch.
So I'm assuming people forgot Tami went through SEVERAL miscarriages trying to conceive a child with Reggie She did her part and it failed, so the option to have a child with someone else is a compromise. That is what you do for someone that you love. Y'all way too judgemental. Trying way to hard to ve traditional
It's not really about that. It's about sending him off for 2 years to have a full relationship with another woman to have a child. There are so many other ways to have a baby. There's surrogacy or even cheaper pay a woman for a one night stand and offer her child support and co-parenting, there's also adoption.
I wish folks wouldn't be so quick to run their mouth just to talk about people. You don't know what fertility issues people could be facing. And just because they may not do things the way you would, doesn't mean something is off or they're being selfish. People called Jeannie selfish for not wanting children. No one really knows why she didn't want them at first, or what issues may have prompted her to not want them. It was totally ok for her to change her mind. Tami is a diabetic, so she could've developed hypoglycemia. And in woman, it possibly effects pregnancy. That's why people should hold off on their opinions of everything. Cause you don't know what could be happening. This is not about tolerating behaviors in a relationship either. You don't know what that person may feel like that they can't give their partner one of the most natural occurances.
she's 51 with 2 adult children. So biologically she might not have kids unless she had frozen eggs and find a surrogate. At the same time, she doesn't want to have another child. Most people in their 50s, both men and women, who already have grown-up children don't want to go back to changing diapers. but the husband is 34 so she doesn't want to kill his dream of having biological children when she has hers
Exactly and Tammy has had multiple miscarriages trying to have a child for Reggie but people are calling her selfish without knowing. If u don't have fertility issues u will never understand the severity
You don't have anymore eggs in your 50s. 50s is too old. This generation has a very hard time living in reality and telling the truth. The woman is clearly ill too and in no way shape or form in any condition to carry a baby or raise one. Her fans need to stop this foolishness and living in this fantasy land with her. Ain't nobody being mean either for stating the truth. She is an old woman and there's nothing wrong with being old.
im skeptical about the validity of the baby pass. seems like a surrogate would be something one would offer as an alternative no to go have sex and breakup for 1-2 years. something just feels off in it.
I agree wouldn't you offer a surrogate to hold you and your husband baby you don't have to hold the baby anymore she can use up eggs and his sperm now.
I Love my sister in my head, Tami is amazing, I'm scared for her decision to give her husband permission to sleep with another woman to procreate, Sarah gave Abraham permission to impregnate the servant girl within their tribe and that didn't go well, she became jealous and sent the woman and child away to fend for themselves..The bible has a way of repeating itself, Tami tried to give him a child and she stated on basketball wives that she was experiencing some difficulties .That's not being selfish..Before inviting that possibility in their lives, I hope she really rethinks her stance, its easier said than done..Its cute to be matter of fact until your faced with that reality. I wish she and her marriage well with billions of blessings..
@@kaboomroom33 My initial response to the post was literally about MY stance and YOU decided to comment. Take time to read and truly understand what you’re commenting on before you make yourself look a fool🥰
I love Tammy so much, I understand her wanting to allow her husband to have a legacy and I like them together. They should consider using a surrogate, donor egg, and do IVF with his sperm. This way the child is biologically his without him having relations with another women.
To each their own. Not everyone has to comply with traditional rules and dynamics of marriage and relationships. I don't think her decision is selfish. She would have been selfish if she insisted that if she didn't want kids, he had no recourse and had to stay childless. Her decision to let him be and have what he wants is selfless or at the very least, not selfish.
I don't understand why she didn't consider a surrogate for him? Instead of finding and being with a whole ass woman, they can find one to carry the child.
@@TheTonyspik yeah, I was wondering the same thing. Maybe not only does she not want to go through the pregnancy process but also not do the bulk of mothering? As infants are highly dependent & can impact her career.
How is it selfless to allow someone to be in a relationship and make a family with the intent to come back to you. That’s the selfish part because what about the woman that he actually makes a baby with. This is weird
For those who don’t know, there is a such thing as an egg donor… this could be a money issue, as it would be expensive to get an egg donor AND a surrogate, but the information needs to be out there!
Tami is the offering for her husband to have another relationship. This wouldn’t necessarily work out they way she thinks. She just needs to find a surrogate.
Wow😳, I should go back to the Holy Manual for life (the Holy Bible) to read more about marriage as prescribed by the Holy God who instituted it because the last time I read the marriage part, I didn't see any arrangement like this woman is talking about. May be I missed something while reading.
@@shereetaylor232 Are "most of the men in the Bible" that you're referring to the ones that instituted marriage? So, why should their form of marriage be the examples to follow instead of the Originator's model of marriage?
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This is the most tragic and depressing thing I’ve ever seen in my life. Women … please go heal somewhere before you get in relationships, Situationships, or weird baby mama ships. *It’s getting really demon!c out here*
Sorry Tammy, I love you girl but disagree giving Reggie permission to be with another woman just to have a baby is a bit extreme for your marriage. Especially just to keep him happy isn't enough for you. Not my issue but concerned for your well-being.
she doesn't have a choice. biology chose for her. he is a younger man and he is going to exercise options. its better she knows about it than not know.
It seems selfish to tell a man that have no kids n you too that he can never have a child of his own in his life. Give him his option n let him choose so down the line there is no regret. If he stays with you then he unconditionally love for you and she definitely have unconditionally love to even offer that. Also it's address all factors that could come up before it does. There's no excuse for him to cheat when she gave him promission in the first place. So it takes cheating out the equation it's already been address. Sometimes you let him and if he comes back it was meant for yoy.
First, I pray Tammy is ok. I’m worried she is fighting something more than diabetes. I also remember her mother died from cancer. So I’m praying that it’s not that. I like Tammy a lot. She’s my kind of girl, a straight shooter. I also think that she should have been added to The Real instead of Garcelle, whom I love also, but not for this show.
Are you CRAZY ABOUT replacement for Garcelle 😔😔😔😔😏😏🤔🤔 I think u just lost ur dame mind.... Garcelle is THEE best fit for the Real the missing piece that was lost and just been found. LOVE love love Tamera as she was our first puzzle piece but after she took a step back to be with her family and venture onto a new journey...Honey honey chile BEST believe THIS until Garcelle decide on her OWN to leave The Real Garcelle is there TO STAY No Lady bye bye before I get Mama Mai to give you a piece of her mind TEAM GARCELLE in THEEEE HOUSE N'adine from Canada 💙💕💃🎤🎙️
I know tami is a diabetic and that makes you lose massive weight...but i feel like she is battling something else something. Is not right and i love tami sense 2010. I am honesty concerned
@@VVVV-ug1pz It’s very weird because two of my uncles have diabetes and they look the same where they look like they’re very sick and now we’re all wondering is it really because of the diabetes? Because we know people with diabetes and they look normal so we’re very confused and we’re wondering if there’s some kind of other illness out here
She is diabetic. The medicine you are prescribed can cause weight loss. I was recently diagnosed as diabetic and I’m losing weight as a result of my diet and the medication.
Let me preface this by saying…I HATE commenting on someone else’s weight/body BUT I hope she’s ok. Of course people will defend it, but like TAMI I wanna speak MY mind and hope she’s not going through somethin🙏🏽
well thanks .. i was scrolling down to see sny honest opinion or just kiss assing people .... this lady seems to me suffering anneroxia ...and scary thing is this ... they said ...her followers ... i sm not a hater ... just spoke my mind ... not saying however she is ugly or anything damaging ...
@@wendyfan8071 tami was initially really skinny. Look at her real World Series and even when she guest starred on The Parkers. She also a lot older than I think people realize.
What??Sooo what about the intimacy with the OTHER a woman? He’s just gonna stick another woman…and develop NO feelings and what if SHE does…What in the Handmaids Tale??🤔
Please tell me what happened with her if anyone knows. It's been awhile since I have kept up with anything basketball ball wives related so I did not recognize her at all. She's thinner and doesn't look like herself. Anyway I wish her well
@@sarai373 me too I noticed that but waiting for people to point out , especially when you look around her jaws, I don’t know if it’s the camera or lighting but the bone structure was very visible making her seem even thinner.
Ok, all jokes aside (and probably why I've always liked her) I look at basic things like this all the time and the results are typically 99% true! Plus, I'm a crunchy Cheeto person as well! 🤣Also me, "Can we just make it Tuesdays?!"
Here goes. All Tammy and her husband have to do is simple get a surrogate to have the baby for them using her husband's sperm and walla there he still have is legacy alive simple one two three and if she loves him as much as he loves her simple again have a nanny to help raise that child problem solved. N'adine from Canada 💙💕💃🙏 AMEN
Karma is riding Tami and letting us watch. Make sure you all apologize for your wrong doings! Karma doesn't play. Apologize to that guy, Tami. It was a joke and all your housemates were in on it. Namaste.
Tami has always been so gorgeous and so I have to say I'm very concerned watching her in this interview she looks very frail=Way Too Thin!!! To the point where it's affecting even her face she does not look like the same person and you can tell by what she's wearing is even concealing her neck and the extra shoulder pads is covering how very thin she is-Please Forgive me if she's sick with some type of ailment but so many people on here are commenting about anorexia I'm not sure I recall her saying she dealt with that but that's another disease of the mind and affects the body but she does not look well and it's so obvious. I pray that she will be okay very soon and she realizes that she was way more beautiful before she lost all that weight(so if she did that on purpose) she needs to get into some therapy and nutrition counseling and I pray she can get back to a healthier self!
@@charlarthur9742 she can also be suffering from an eating disorder or maybe she has another health condition that she hasn't shared. People tell you what they want you to know.
I was like - is anyone watching this? She looks like she’s been on WEIGHTLOSS injections...can’t starve yourself on that, LOL. She’s too thin to have sagging skin, sheesh
🔥It's not wise to do this, ppl act like there aren't soul ties & they don't exist😒Oh yes the enemy don't play fair & u gon' have to pay him eventually😒
It’s not selfless, it’s SELFISH. He wants a kids and she doesn’t. And nah it doesn’t make her bad, but they shouldn’t be together. We all know if one person wants a child and one doesn’t. It WONT work. Plus, that idea is SO DUMB. Why would you PLAN to be single parents 🤨. Make it make sense. Just let that man go bruh
To each their own. Not everyone has to comply with traditional rules and dynamics of marriage and relationships. I don't think her decision is selfish. She would have been selfish if she insisted that if she didn't want kids, he had no recourse and had to stay childless. Her decision to let him be and have what he wants is selfless or at the very least, not selfish.
Agreed, sounds very weird to me. I know they've been trying for a long time unsuccessfully but something is off about this. It would be less weird if they were both looking for a surrogate but she's literally just sending him off to do his own thing 🤔 I can't put it on Tammy either because he's actively participating in this as well.
Makes sense. I get her decision and think it was gracious for her to even suggest it but he is a beautiful person to turn her down and lose out on that because he loves her so much.
The rerun episodes brought me here......I kept wondering why this lady looked soo familiar to me, then I remember seeing her on the show 'BasketBall Wives', Lolol! Woww just put the two together, didn't realize that was her on 'The Real World' back in the day! I noticed that she looks kind of thin and sickly, especially in the face...Hope all is well with her. And if not, I pray she gets the help she needs, Ah-Men!!
I absolutely get that option, legacy is very important to me too. I would love for both Reggie and Tami to get what they want. That’s what marriage is about, working on an alternative. Donated eggs and a surrogate? I’m sure it’s an extremely costly process though
The ladies were judging tami in their mind , I can tell 🤣🤣
Right. Especially Adrianne since she is currently married. Lol
Right
Yep lol
I understand what she did for Reggie. But Reggie could get a surrogate on his own. He don't have to go out there and sleep with someone else. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
What I was thinking. It would technically be the same thing, without the sleeping around.
Right. I was like ok why not a surrogate? But I was thinking maybe they do not want to pay for a surrogate.
I think she doesn’t want the surrogate because she doesn’t want to be the primary mother. If he finds a woman to have a child with, that woman would be the primary mother and she could give secondary support, which is what she wants from what I understand. She’s committed to her career rn and doesn’t want to disrupt that with a child.
@@wendyannruns agree, she is 17yrs older than him so she probably doesn't want to leave that burden of him taking care of the child on his on if she was to past on...
She backtracked "getting another woman pregnant on a year break " . Tami said WE misunderstood she meant pick a surrogate 🤔🙄
I interviewed Tami years ago at a charity event. She is so incredibly kind, gracious, attentive and humble.
But her to say she is ok for her husband to be with someone else and kids with,tami is going to regret ever saying the whole “taking a break”thing because all i see is red flags 🚩!
I’ve started to watch the basketball wives and I think she’s a nasty piece of work,she’s a bully…
I am speaking continued love, peace, and complete and total health and wholeness over Tami - mind/body/soul & spirit in Jesus’ name. Amen! 🙏🏾💝
Amen,I wish Jeannie was here to give her input..
Amen
Amen
Tabia means "manners" in Swahili
Like the ladies suggested there are other ways to have a child and if she truly feels like she’s being selfish then let him go. How you gonna let your man go do his thing and knock up someone else and then come back to you? What about the child? Glad her man knows better than to take her up on the offer.
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I get what her intentions were, but I would never give my husband the ok to go sleep around with someone. He can easily go get a surrogate, and not even have to worry about a co parenting situation. Then to break up for a year or 2, what is the point of that? To live a life with another women for 2 years? It just doesn’t make sense. It looks to me that she shouldn’t even be married.
Good for you. She wasn't talking about your pretend marriage, though.
Another to looking at it, is she gave him the ultimate freedom of choice and he still chose her. So that let's her no that his love is strong n real and her love is the same. So now since they both really know where each other is at mentally and that option is not an option he truly wants then maybe the will do surrogacy
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I love Tami! She is honestly the Queen of Queens of reality tv. She started in 93! FCK it up sis.
I love Tami Roman but I'm trying not to be rude but is Tami Roman ok because she looks so skinny 🤔
Tami should be a host on the Wendy Show. Lord I would be dying the whole hour. Nene should be a host as well!
She'd be TOO REAL for that show. That don't mean I wouldn't be watching the hot mess unfold though 😎 🍿 !!
word 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Agreed!! But baby they might be too hot for TV😂😂😂😂
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Okay but what happens if your husband falls in love with the woman that births his child? If you want a guaranteed emotional detachment i wouldn’t suggest he go “find another woman”
Conceiving and birthing a child isn’t robotic like that
Right the real question. What happens after that baby come boom they’re back together just like that. Sounds weird but not my life so………
@@calenajackson8772 it’s giving danileigh and dababy and tami roman is meme
@@LadylaRed but she said her husband said no he’s not going to do that
If he falls in love with her then he should be with her. Some ppl aren't worried about "keeping" a man, and the friendship and love between you two is what's important, not the romantic relationship itself
@@gioaarons i’m not sure you’d bother getting “married” if you aren’t concerned about “keeping” “a” “man” boo
Tami Roman is as REAL as they come and I love it!!!!❤️
Tami attempted to clarify this but the bottom line is we all know what she was saying. Go have a relationship with someone else for the purposes of a baby and we'll work it out later. Otherwise why would they have to separate for two years? If you make a decision and decide to go public with it then just own it.🤷🏿♀️
I love Tami !! "Can we just do Tuesdays ?" ☠️😭🤣
it's the go higher on the stipend for me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Tami is so charming on this interview! Loving how she speaks her mind and truth unapologetically! She looks great, I love that color
I would to see her as a cohost on this show. Based on her history and point of view, she could give the panel more of a flava. She definitely has no issue giving her perspective and she usually keeps up with daily topics.
You make a great point. Tami is a great person to host and/or cohost a talk show. She will always give and receive an opinion. She also asks interesting questions.
I agree! She definitely should’ve been considered as host…
I am almost on board, but I still can't get over what happened between her and Kesha on BBW Season 4.
she has her own show
I pray all is well with Tami! She’s a fixture in reality television. And such a beautiful woman.
She's not beautiful. She looks unnatural and, well, strange and "plastic". And by the way I too hope all gets well with her, but clearly it isn't right now.
@@jonasalden29201 what your heart look like🖤? She got you beat by miles her ❤️, fix ya heart hun smh 😑.
She’s lost quite a bit of weight because of her diabetes
Tami sold her soul the day she let that black co-star take all the heat from real world when all of them were in on the joke. It ruined his career and all. Watch how karma is riding Tami and letting us watch.
@@SheraDeletic1 🎯
Permission to have a child with another woman ,what the heck 🤣🤣
Yeah the way they worded it is very disturbing, imo.
So I'm assuming people forgot Tami went through SEVERAL miscarriages trying to conceive a child with Reggie
She did her part and it failed, so the option to have a child with someone else is a compromise. That is what you do for someone that you love. Y'all way too judgemental. Trying way to hard to ve traditional
It's not really about that. It's about sending him off for 2 years to have a full relationship with another woman to have a child. There are so many other ways to have a baby. There's surrogacy or even cheaper pay a woman for a one night stand and offer her child support and co-parenting, there's also adoption.
She doesn’t want anymore children. She wants to be the step-parent who will love the child unconditionally.
I wish folks wouldn't be so quick to run their mouth just to talk about people. You don't know what fertility issues people could be facing. And just because they may not do things the way you would, doesn't mean something is off or they're being selfish. People called Jeannie selfish for not wanting children. No one really knows why she didn't want them at first, or what issues may have prompted her to not want them. It was totally ok for her to change her mind. Tami is a diabetic, so she could've developed hypoglycemia. And in woman, it possibly effects pregnancy. That's why people should hold off on their opinions of everything. Cause you don't know what could be happening. This is not about tolerating behaviors in a relationship either. You don't know what that person may feel like that they can't give their partner one of the most natural occurances.
It’s just a red flag.🤷♀️
she's 51 with 2 adult children. So biologically she might not have kids unless she had frozen eggs and find a surrogate. At the same time, she doesn't want to have another child. Most people in their 50s, both men and women, who already have grown-up children don't want to go back to changing diapers. but the husband is 34 so she doesn't want to kill his dream of having biological children when she has hers
Exactly and Tammy has had multiple miscarriages trying to have a child for Reggie but people are calling her selfish without knowing. If u don't have fertility issues u will never understand the severity
Basically people need to realize if they're not in it don't speak on it let them figure it out and do their thing
You don't have anymore eggs in your 50s. 50s is too old. This generation has a very hard time living in reality and telling the truth. The woman is clearly ill too and in no way shape or form in any condition to carry a baby or raise one. Her fans need to stop this foolishness and living in this fantasy land with her. Ain't nobody being mean either for stating the truth. She is an old woman and there's nothing wrong with being old.
Gosh that won’t work practically. A baby brings a whole new drama. Either adopt or break up
She tried to get pregnant many times I'm guessing she's had enough 😪
She had several miscarriages. So they tried, but she couldn't hold the pregnancies.
Praying all is well with and for Tami. She’s amazing 🤍
im skeptical about the validity of the baby pass. seems like a surrogate would be something one would offer as an alternative no to go have sex and breakup for 1-2 years. something just feels off in it.
I agree wouldn't you offer a surrogate to hold you and your husband baby you don't have to hold the baby anymore she can use up eggs and his sperm now.
I don’t think she wants the baby to be her responsibility. She has already raised her kids- starting over would not be easy.
It could be that it’s a very costly process
If she doesn't want more kids she should of told him that before they got married especially since he doesn't have any kids of his own yet
@@tiffs4055 exactly. If she felt this way, this should’ve been addressed when they first started dating.
I Love my sister in my head, Tami is amazing, I'm scared for her decision to give her husband permission to sleep with another woman to procreate, Sarah gave Abraham permission to impregnate the servant girl within their tribe and that didn't go well, she became jealous and sent the woman and child away to fend for themselves..The bible has a way of repeating itself, Tami tried to give him a child and she stated on basketball wives that she was experiencing some difficulties .That's not being selfish..Before inviting that possibility in their lives, I hope she really rethinks her stance, its easier said than done..Its cute to be matter of fact until your faced with that reality. I wish she and her marriage well with billions of blessings..
Well I guess this is as Real as it gets,😍
I loves me some Tami😍😍
That's good that Tami Roman Remains Relevant after all these years. One of the first black women to do real reality T.V.!
Agreed 👏🏽👏🏽💯💯
17yr age difference what did she expect SAD
Excuse me?! Wow, people truly do take different things in relationships because whew I could NEVER🤭😭
It’s really hard when you can’t give ur husband a child especially if u have already have kids.
That’s why it’s different strokes for different folks. Don’t judge!
@@kaboomroom33 that’s why I mentioned that I could never meaning me right😒
@@princessafrika Did I ask what your stance was? I said don’t judge if it ain’t for you! 🙄
@@kaboomroom33 My initial response to the post was literally about MY stance and YOU decided to comment. Take time to read and truly understand what you’re commenting on before you make yourself look a fool🥰
I love Tammy so much, I understand her wanting to allow her husband to have a legacy and I like them together. They should consider using a surrogate, donor egg, and do IVF with his sperm. This way the child is biologically his without him having relations with another women.
To each their own. Not everyone has to comply with traditional rules and dynamics of marriage and relationships. I don't think her decision is selfish. She would have been selfish if she insisted that if she didn't want kids, he had no recourse and had to stay childless. Her decision to let him be and have what he wants is selfless or at the very least, not selfish.
it is actually selfLESS. What a beautiful heart she has.
I don't understand why she didn't consider a surrogate for him? Instead of finding and being with a whole ass woman, they can find one to carry the child.
@@TheTonyspik yeah, I was wondering the same thing. Maybe not only does she not want to go through the pregnancy process but also not do the bulk of mothering? As infants are highly dependent & can impact her career.
How is it selfless to allow someone to be in a relationship and make a family with the intent to come back to you. That’s the selfish part because what about the woman that he actually makes a baby with. This is weird
@@donna7049 well obviously the woman would be well aware of all of this before she would agree
She definitely should be added as a host 😍
I love hearing the people behind the cameras laughing along
For those who don’t know, there is a such thing as an egg donor… this could be a money issue, as it would be expensive to get an egg donor AND a surrogate, but the information needs to be out there!
Love how she being so transparent, I have so much respect for her!!!
Tami is the offering for her husband to have another relationship. This wouldn’t necessarily work out they way she thinks. She just needs to find a surrogate.
Wow😳, I should go back to the Holy Manual for life (the Holy Bible) to read more about marriage as prescribed by the Holy God who instituted it because the last time I read the marriage part, I didn't see any arrangement like this woman is talking about. May be I missed something while reading.
Most of the men in the Bible had a concubine especially if they wife couldn't have a baby. Girl what Bible are you reading.
@@shereetaylor232 Are "most of the men in the Bible" that you're referring to the ones that instituted marriage? So, why should their form of marriage be the examples to follow instead of the Originator's model of marriage?
is it me or has she lost ALOT of weight?
I hadn't seen her in a long time and I thought the same thing , wow she looks way older .
I came to the comments just to see if someone else would mention it. I like Tami but the weight loss imo ages her. I genuinely hopes she's healthy
Everyone, she is a diabetic. She can’t help her weight at this point.
@@mbrn3441 wrong not just the diabetes. She suffers with body dysmorphic disorder
I adore Tami! I wonder why she didn't mention Get Into It with Tami Roman on FOX Soul.
I thought that was canceled
@@Msladyrae92 Was it canceled? That sucks it was so good!
What is going on with Tami??? I mean this with love... but she looks like she's struggling with something health wise. Prayers girl!
I agree she doesn't look well. Lets keep her in prayer.
She has diabetes.
Praying for Tami. She doesn't look the same. Maybe I'm looking wrong, but something seems different. I'm praying all is well..
She was always skinny however her father had diabetes and unfortunately she’s been battling it for years now
*I’m a puffy Cheeto person can’t stand the crunchy.* 😖
This was funny...She's on point with those Tami ask Tami questions 🤣
Hahaha, I don't think she realizes Garcelle is older than her 🤣
Why she lost so much weight???
Just a little to thin
Who is cracking up in the background?? Lol
That’s maturity
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This is the most tragic and depressing thing I’ve ever seen in my life.
Women …
please go heal somewhere before you get in relationships, Situationships, or weird baby mama ships.
*It’s getting really demon!c out here*
Sorry Tammy, I love you girl but disagree giving Reggie permission to be with another woman just to have a baby is a bit extreme for your marriage. Especially just to keep him happy isn't enough for you. Not my issue but concerned for your well-being.
she doesn't have a choice. biology chose for her. he is a younger man and he is going to exercise options. its better she knows about it than not know.
It seems selfish to tell a man that have no kids n you too that he can never have a child of his own in his life. Give him his option n let him choose so down the line there is no regret. If he stays with you then he unconditionally love for you and she definitely have unconditionally love to even offer that. Also it's address all factors that could come up before it does. There's no excuse for him to cheat when she gave him promission in the first place. So it takes cheating out the equation it's already been address. Sometimes you let him and if he comes back it was meant for yoy.
She looks so unhealthy. But I pray all is well with her
Yea bc there is not enough broken black family homes. Let that man go so he can build a two parent house hold.
First, I pray Tammy is ok. I’m worried she is fighting something more than diabetes. I also remember her mother died from cancer. So I’m praying that it’s not that. I like Tammy a lot. She’s my kind of girl, a straight shooter. I also think that she should have been added to The Real instead of Garcelle, whom I love also, but not for this show.
Are you CRAZY ABOUT replacement for Garcelle 😔😔😔😔😏😏🤔🤔
I think u just lost ur dame mind.... Garcelle is THEE best fit for the Real the missing piece that was lost and just been found. LOVE love love Tamera as she was our first puzzle piece but after she took a step back to be with her family and venture onto a new journey...Honey honey chile BEST believe THIS until Garcelle decide on her OWN to leave The Real Garcelle is there TO STAY
No Lady bye bye before I get Mama Mai to give you a piece of her mind
TEAM GARCELLE in THEEEE HOUSE
N'adine from Canada 💙💕💃🎤🎙️
Why do you prefer Tami over Garcelle?
She did an interview on “The Real Daytime” about her mental challenges.
Tami is still pretty. That weight loss gives her a sunken face. It usually goes away though.
Danng I can’t believe she’s 51 , she looks good
Wow no… she looks sick. I hope she’s okay. Truly.
@@ruthieryan2191 does she have anorexia
@@yeslia2010Godis she has diabetes
Not natural looking at all, I hope all is well 🙏🏾
I know tami is a diabetic and that makes you lose massive weight...but i feel like she is battling something else something. Is not right and i love tami sense 2010. I am honesty concerned
She is. She shared on another show
Is she well? She looks so skinny
I see her bones. Big fake teeth. Bad wig.
Where is your picture???
no shade but why Tammy looking so gaunt in the face? i hope its not a medical situation and she just looking to be at this thinner body frame
I read somewhere that she’s trying to keep her diabetes at bay. Watching what she eats etc. But she does look extremely small.
@@VVVV-ug1pz It’s very weird because two of my uncles have diabetes and they look the same where they look like they’re very sick and now we’re all wondering is it really because of the diabetes? Because we know people with diabetes and they look normal so we’re very confused and we’re wondering if there’s some kind of other illness out here
She is diabetic. The medicine you are prescribed can cause weight loss. I was recently diagnosed as diabetic and I’m losing weight as a result of my diet and the medication.
Let me preface this by saying…I HATE commenting on someone else’s weight/body BUT I hope she’s ok. Of course people will defend it, but like TAMI I wanna speak MY mind and hope she’s not going through somethin🙏🏽
Omg! I thought it was just me! Tammy was the thick, cury one ( in a good way) I was like 😲
well thanks .. i was scrolling down to see sny honest opinion or just kiss assing people .... this lady seems to me suffering anneroxia ...and scary thing is this ... they said ...her followers ... i sm not a hater ... just spoke my mind ... not saying however she is ugly or anything damaging ...
I really think she’s sick
@@wendyfan8071 tami was initially really skinny. Look at her real World Series and even when she guest starred on The Parkers. She also a lot older than I think people realize.
@@jamonicashoals5866 true thanks! I just felt like I just saw her from bbwives lol
What??Sooo what about the intimacy with the OTHER a woman? He’s just gonna stick another woman…and develop NO feelings and what if SHE does…What in the Handmaids Tale??🤔
I love Tami she’s hilarious
From the debut of the real world to today she’s one of those magnetic personalities who’s vibe instantly feels like a friend. She’s hilarious as well.
I love Tami , she’s too trill .
Wen a woman, send a husband to go have a baby with another woman🤔I don’t know..
WHat if the husband falls in love with the other woman? Hmmmm
I love Tami, but did she have to go to a funeral home to get her makeup done?!
i thought i was the only person who thought this. she looks horrible. she is naturally beautiful
yeah something ain't right
Casket ready
Please tell me what happened with her if anyone knows. It's been awhile since I have kept up with anything basketball ball wives related so I did not recognize her at all. She's thinner and doesn't look like herself. Anyway I wish her well
@@sarai373 me too I noticed that but waiting for people to point out , especially when you look around her jaws, I don’t know if it’s the camera or lighting but the bone structure was very visible making her seem even thinner.
She is witty, intelligent, and funny! I like her a lot!
Thin is one thing but she does not good. Scary
Tami is tripping!! That’s not godly at all! Garcelle tripping talking that’s “selfless “😳🤦🏾♀️
I NEVER COMMENT, On the REAL post!!! But I absolutely loved this interview, this was sooo authentic and a breathe of fresh air.
Ok, all jokes aside (and probably why I've always liked her) I look at basic things like this all the time and the results are typically 99% true! Plus, I'm a crunchy Cheeto person as well! 🤣Also me, "Can we just make it Tuesdays?!"
I loved it. Tammy is great and real as usual. And right about that only Tuesday thang.😂😂
Here goes. All Tammy and her husband have to do is simple get a surrogate to have the baby for them using her husband's sperm and walla there he still have is legacy alive simple one two three and if she loves him as much as he loves her simple again have a nanny to help raise that child problem solved. N'adine from Canada 💙💕💃🙏 AMEN
Karma is riding Tami and letting us watch. Make sure you all apologize for your wrong doings! Karma doesn't play. Apologize to that guy, Tami. It was a joke and all your housemates were in on it. Namaste.
She uploaded a video explaining more what she meant
I’m 30 and I’d do the Tuesday Thursday thing lol she made a good point most women sharing anyways and don’t even know it 😂
Tami has always been so gorgeous and so I have to say I'm very concerned watching her in this interview she looks very frail=Way Too Thin!!! To the point where it's affecting even her face she does not look like the same person and you can tell by what she's wearing is even concealing her neck and the extra shoulder pads is covering how very thin she is-Please Forgive me if she's sick with some type of ailment but so many people on here are commenting about anorexia I'm not sure I recall her saying she dealt with that but that's another disease of the mind and affects the body but she does not look well and it's so obvious. I pray that she will be okay very soon and she realizes that she was way more beautiful before she lost all that weight(so if she did that on purpose) she needs to get into some therapy and nutrition counseling and I pray she can get back to a healthier self!
I get what you mean. I didnt recognize her I was like OMG WOAH
Same here . Diabetes DOES NOT affect you like this! At all
@@cherryluv3843 Diabetes can definitely cause weight loss when there’s too little insulin
She shared that she suffers with body dymorphic disorder
@@charlarthur9742 she can also be suffering from an eating disorder or maybe she has another health condition that she hasn't shared. People tell you what they want you to know.
Wow! Tami looks 😳
I was like - is anyone watching this? She looks like she’s been on WEIGHTLOSS injections...can’t starve yourself on that, LOL. She’s too thin to have sagging skin, sheesh
She’s a diabetic.
🔥It's not wise to do this, ppl act like there aren't soul ties & they don't exist😒Oh yes the enemy don't play fair & u gon' have to pay him eventually😒
In America we cannot say anything anymore. Too sensitive about everything
It’s not selfless, it’s SELFISH. He wants a kids and she doesn’t. And nah it doesn’t make her bad, but they shouldn’t be together. We all know if one person wants a child and one doesn’t. It WONT work.
Plus, that idea is SO DUMB. Why would you PLAN to be single parents 🤨.
Make it make sense. Just let that man go bruh
To each their own. Not everyone has to comply with traditional rules and dynamics of marriage and relationships. I don't think her decision is selfish. She would have been selfish if she insisted that if she didn't want kids, he had no recourse and had to stay childless. Her decision to let him be and have what he wants is selfless or at the very least, not selfish.
Agreed, sounds very weird to me. I know they've been trying for a long time unsuccessfully but something is off about this. It would be less weird if they were both looking for a surrogate but she's literally just sending him off to do his own thing 🤔 I can't put it on Tammy either because he's actively participating in this as well.
She went through 3 miscarriages trying to give a baby to Reggie
She literally said this on Basketball Wives
Tami is far from Selfish
No ones going to talk about the nail salon comment? Bye Tami. Y’all are weird wish Jeannie was here.
Agreed. I wonder what exactly she said.
So True Tami on the stiflen , and I'll only take Tuesday ! 😂😂😂😂
Team CRUNCHY!
‘Can it just be Tuesdays?’ lol I hear ya!
Is Tami's health ok? Her face looks so thin and also her body....love me some Tami and so glad that she left that pitiful show "Basketball Wives".
Makes sense. I get her decision and think it was gracious for her to even suggest it but he is a beautiful person to turn her down and lose out on that because he loves her so much.
I like Tami, I wish her well.
I love puffs!!!! Lol and I'll never understand the different dynamics in others marriages. It's so foreign to me
Tami kept it REAL...
Tami don't need makeup her skin nice without it
The rerun episodes brought me here......I kept wondering why this lady looked soo familiar to me, then I remember seeing her on the show 'BasketBall Wives', Lolol! Woww just put the two together, didn't realize that was her on 'The Real World' back in the day! I noticed that she looks kind of thin and sickly, especially in the face...Hope all is well with her. And if not, I pray she gets the help she needs, Ah-Men!!
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Wow that's sound complicated
I absolutely get that option, legacy is very important to me too. I would love for both Reggie and Tami to get what they want. That’s what marriage is about, working on an alternative. Donated eggs and a surrogate? I’m sure it’s an extremely costly process though
Lol sad
I can't unsee the bully in Tami. She was a big bully when she was on basketball wives.
Not my favorite look from Tami. The make up makes her look witchy
Love her!!! She just sooo real