How To Stay Married (So Far) 114 Therapy Speak & When Setting "Boundaries" is COERCIVELY CONTROLLING

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Комментарии • 17

  • @amynow
    @amynow 11 месяцев назад

    Wow I love your videos! I especially I love this part most:: “the people use ‘my truth’ now instead is saying ‘from my perspective’”

  • @BluebellB
    @BluebellB Год назад +1

    If your boyfriend says "I don't think this friend is good news, maybe you should only see her for lunch" that's not a boundary or a law, its just a suggestion. If he says "I'm not comfortable with you going out with that friend and drinking and I don't want you to do it" that's laying down a law and isn't fair in my opinion as its not his decision to make- it isn't hurting him.

  • @leaveittothediva
    @leaveittothediva Год назад

    It's very like what Ruby Wax said, something like if you have a broken leg, people give you sympathy, if you have a broken mind, you're not visited but told to "Petk up", like you hadn't thought of that before. I've been in therapy, and not had certain family members ask once how I am, in all those months, just shows us lots about people and how they view things.

  • @natalieharris5030
    @natalieharris5030 Год назад +2

    If a boyfriend had sent me that, I would've replied, "It's been nice knowing you". Sounds like Jonah Hill needs to deal with his insecurities rather than manipulate a girlfriend's behavior to cover his own personal shortcomings. Beware of controlling behavior....period.

  • @jaynecessford1431
    @jaynecessford1431 Год назад +2

    Did she just put out parts of the conversation? What was said before that part and after. Had she done anything that was a red flag xx

  • @carolmoore4202
    @carolmoore4202 Год назад

    I'm 60 and my mum said to me don't let a man tell you what to do, I said the same to my daughter. Although I would even do something I didn't really want to do just to prove a point if he said I don't really want you to.

  • @kathyo85
    @kathyo85 Год назад +1

    You both articulate this so well, thanks for a great video!

  • @BluebellB
    @BluebellB Год назад

    Id love to know how he would have reacted if shed said "ok I can't deal with your boundaries so best we break up." I seriously doubt he would have supported that as he claimed he would.

  • @BluebellB
    @BluebellB Год назад

    I also hate "my truth". Just saw I feel/think!

  • @rachaelboden2693
    @rachaelboden2693 Год назад

    I have never been able to set any boundaries with anyone. I don’t know why. It puzzles me.

    • @rachaelboden2693
      @rachaelboden2693 Год назад

      But I can tell friends how to and when they ask advice about relationships. I don’t get it.

  • @rosarioacton2377
    @rosarioacton2377 16 дней назад

  • @preesi1403
    @preesi1403 Год назад +2

    But shes bipolar. Perhaps Jonah Hill knows that if she gets in a manic phase that she can be a little wild and her judgement is cloudy! A lot of bipolar people can be reckless sexually while in a manic phase.

  • @stephschulze4898
    @stephschulze4898 Год назад

    Very interesting topic xx

  • @carolineault6360
    @carolineault6360 Год назад

    My ex once said to me he knew how to manipulate people. I was horrified having just left an abusive relationship. We spilt up because of my mental health I love him dearly to this day. My mum knew I was frightened of him and asked me to leave him. Which I did. He came from a very volatile family. Sadly you can't always help who you fall in love with, my daughter lives withhim due to my disability. I didn't want her to be my carer. He is an angry man but I believe wholeheartedly he would mecer hurt my daughter.

  • @clairesmillie8125
    @clairesmillie8125 Год назад

    Thank You ❤ xxx

  • @gigieyre
    @gigieyre Год назад

    I think its the worst ever that she has put out these texts. Totally wrong. This is what he wants and she doesn't want it. End of story. Break up and move on. Why does she have to put all his personal stuff out there? Good grief.