True wisdom does come from experience, both your personal experiences PLUS the experiences of others. However, it's not necessary that experience may come with age. A child who has gone through the harsh realities of life in their relatively short life can have greater wisdom than an adult who hasn't!
B.M Benyi Hmm, I think its vice versa. Wisdom is experience, but experience is not wisdom. We all know that person who can go through things time and time again and not learn a thing. However, wisdom is gained by experience, whether young or old. When there is wisdom, there is always experience. But when there is experience, there is not always wisdom.
You got a lot of likes but no one commented.I will because I’m older and this is something that hits home for me.This is a gem because many young women hook up with men that literally take care of them.They think it’s cute when they talk about all the things he buys them and the trips.But,While they’re doing all of that living it up do they realize that they’re living in his house,driving cars he is paying for and wearing clothes that he’s payed for? They’ll look up and be 40 and realize that they haven’t worked a day in there lives or have anything that they acquired on their own.Good advice from Gma!
@@kimwright6377 thanks for the comment; but my Grandmother was speaking in terms of her not taking care of health. She was never into working out, and as far back as I can remember, she drunk Pepsi like crazy which contains lots of sugar. It got to the point in her life where she physically couldn't take of herself anymore and needed help with the simplest things like going to the bathroom etc.
Ms. Monika Marie I understand that too.Thats definitely a gem as well especially in our community.We don’t get regular check ups and by the time we go to the Dr.its bad.Im concerned about those same issues.And I worked 20 plus years with the elderly so I’ve seen it all.
“ Hoe It Up” ... that threw me off 😂 basically apart from the hoe it up part the one thing I understand and have learned from my elders that enable for you to live YOUR LIFE , you have to focus on YOURSELF and do what makes you happy instead of focusing on what the next person is gonna say about your journey.... just be you , do you , and you’ll go a long way
My grandma told me a few years before she passed, “Listen to your parents and obey them.” I was a teenager at the time and now as an adult and a mother I see the wisdom behind her advice. It sounds like normal advice but there is so much fruit that comes out of honoring your mother and father. It has helped me live a better and richer life!!
Nah I think it's more complicated. Your parents usually give you good advice but you have to figure out the path you ultimately want to take. Their input is only part of the equation.
"stay off the pole" "live your life, not someone elses" "being an adult means taking responsibility for your past, present, and future" "don't wait on God"
My great aunt gave me some great advice when I started working and getting involved with the real world. She quoted from a scripture that I still take to heart. It’s Matthew 10:16 “Look! I am sending you out as sheep among wolves; so prove yourselves cautious as serpents and yet innocent as doves.” Ever since then my motto has been “Cautious as a serpent. Innocent as a dove.” 😇😌
Take care of your health is what i was told. My mom did not live to be 50 and my dad is almost 70 so i learned that i need to make responsible choices if i want to live a long life
Don't live your life without Christ because this life is short, think about where you will spend your eternity after this life is over, salvation is a free gift from God; let Christ be your savior and Lord.
I'm with Adrienne, the best advice I ever received from an elder (my father) was *"Live your life as if it was being televised 24/7 for all the world to see. What do you want people to see and hear?"* It has served me well, I am for the most part a good person.
For real tho, old ppl have some WISDOM! I don’t understand how u can just throw away old ppl when they have so many stories and advice to give. It’s beautiful
I don’t get caught up at all. I’m 27. I don’t smoke, I don’t drink, I don’t do drugs, I don’t party, etc. I keep it clean. I do live my life but I keep it pg
my grandmother is 90 now and she eats garlic everyday...her advice to me was dont wait to do things or go places...if you can do them now.... dream big and ..dont settle for less...and know your worth
Best advice I have ever received, was also the best parenting advice I’ve ever received. She told me that when I have kids to remember to parent according to the times not according to my times. She said my values shouldn’t differ but the times do. It hit me big time because I was raised “not in my time” and suffered the consequences as an adult. Rip mrs Magda
After my engagement was announced a family member from my sister in law side came up and said congrats and said the key to relationship is communication. Without it is why many have problems.
Best Words of Wisdom -"I don't care if you found your soulmate. If you can't get along with his family it isn't worth it" I look forward to spending time with my In-laws and that takes all the stress outta of the Holidays.
My Granny always told me to go back to school! I graduated a trade high school and went up and down in life... Now realizing I need to go back to school for the next move in my life🔥🔥🔥, also you can defiantly find Peace is in God💞💞💞
It is only natural for us to learn from our mistakes as we get older. If someone isn't a better version of themselves the more time goes on, they must be incredibly stubborn. Quite rare cases, I would say. I think it is better to stop judging other people and just focus on improving yourself.
Eriss R. Young people can have wisdom 😳 Wisdom is defined by experience, not age. When I was a teen, I’d already experienced trauma, abuse, and motherhood that people who were my teachers hadn’t even seen. That made me a wiser person.
For me it’s more of a saying my mom grew up saying and I do. “I can do it” trying to be independent and I can do whatever I set my mind on. As well as “you can do whatever you put your mind on” however growing up my personal wisdom that I’ve learned is to not let anyone make you feel like your living life wrong.
Senior citizens aren’t all full of wisdom, some are full of ignorance and that was told to me by a 80 year old. One unapologetically asked me if my hair was real (because I’m black) and I instantly said “Yes, it is. Unlike your teeth.”
I work in people's homes when they are going through some form of disaster (water damage, fires, major construction, etc)..it's absolutely my favorite when I work in an elderly person's home because I not only get to help them and put them at ease, but I get to listen to their stories all day. And they usually share some really great life lessons and advice and it just brings me joy!
I felt A’s advice one thousand percent! I am a firm believer in having integrity and filling my life with those who value that principle. Unfortunately it seems very rare but I know I can at least trust in myself to make the best decisions for me. Such a good one A! ✨💎
It wasnt from an older person it was actually a guy friend of mine he once said, "Ma always remember a good mouthpiece will talk you out of a million dollars." As I grew older I realized it's so true. Watch out for those people always have control of your own decisions, have discernment.
Mine is kinda different...A long time ago, I was watching an Amputee on tv.He lost both legs & an arm.He said " man if I still had my legs, I would never take the elevator & escalator ever again." It stuck with me, and till this day I Always take the stairs & think of him. Im so Great I can walk.
it's so funny every time I go on a video and the first person that talks I'm like damn they look so good lol... that background that you guys have now is making literally every last one of you ladies look phenomenal for real.
She’s right about garlic. I cook with it at almost every meal, and I swallow it raw to help keep my blood pressure low and my immune system strong. Brushing your teeth and tongue and or eating parsley helps so you won’t have dragon breath. ( aka stank breath)
I Love Your story Ms. Loni!!!!! Yes!!!!!The Elder ought to Teach the younger!!!!♥️♥️♥️ And Ms. Tamera, Totally agree, because I had to take Castor Oil when I was younger, because I always had problems with constipation, it didn't taste good, but it was and is Most Definitely GREAT for me!!!!! Good for colon for sure!!
I believe that wisdom comes with experience and not age. So obviously the elders have experienced and gone through a lot in their lives to be able to give some wisdom. Great girl chat!
Tamera says her gramma told her to drink castor or olive oil... it helps lower cholesterol & then on another episode she said she has no idea why her cholesterol is always high when she goes to the doctor lmao.. I’m dead! Sometimes this show is a huge contradiction, but aren’t we all? 🤷🏻♀️
Tamera: "in college my boyfriend called me wifey cause he thought I was wife material. I really liked that." Also Tamera: "I would never allow a man who i'm not married to call me his wife. I enjoyed the different stages of Adam calling me his gf, then fiance and now his wife" 😂😂😂😂
Age doesn’t produce wisdom. It produces experience.
True wisdom does come from experience, both your personal experiences PLUS the experiences of others. However, it's not necessary that experience may come with age. A child who has gone through the harsh realities of life in their relatively short life can have greater wisdom than an adult who hasn't!
chloeinheels music i think age can produce experience but what makes wisdom is how we perceive and learn from experience or the experiences of others.
B.M Benyi not at all.
B.M Benyi not necessarily
B.M Benyi
Hmm, I think its vice versa. Wisdom is experience, but experience is not wisdom. We all know that person who can go through things time and time again and not learn a thing. However, wisdom is gained by experience, whether young or old. When there is wisdom, there is always experience. But when there is experience, there is not always wisdom.
The best and saddest advice my grandmother ever told me was this:
"Never get to my age and can't take care of yourself"🙁
You got a lot of likes but no one commented.I will because I’m older and this is something that hits home for me.This is a gem because many young women hook up with men that literally take care of them.They think it’s cute when they talk about all the things he buys them and the trips.But,While they’re doing all of that living it up do they realize that they’re living in his house,driving cars he is paying for and wearing clothes that he’s payed for? They’ll look up and be 40 and realize that they haven’t worked a day in there lives or have anything that they acquired on their own.Good advice from Gma!
@@kimwright6377 thanks for the comment; but my Grandmother was speaking in terms of her not taking care of health. She was never into working out, and as far back as I can remember, she drunk Pepsi like crazy which contains lots of sugar. It got to the point in her life where she physically couldn't take of herself anymore and needed help with the simplest things like going to the bathroom etc.
It makes me sad, but it's true. Being a burden to someone else by making them take care of you, makes me feel like I'm taking their freedom and time.
Ms. Monika Marie I understand that too.Thats definitely a gem as well especially in our community.We don’t get regular check ups and by the time we go to the Dr.its bad.Im concerned about those same issues.And I worked 20 plus years with the elderly so I’ve seen it all.
But that's inevitable sometimes ur muscles weaken & ur bones can't hold u up anymore i mean how can u prevent aging 😕
"Don't get caught up out there." That's good advice told to Loni.
She said Hot Girl Summer is over , but now we’re in Thotumn 😩😂
Whats that??*
@@gertrudeboitumelomonare7638 it means thot Autumn . Autumn is fall in British English
@@sunshinequeen3262 Oo okays. Now I know too..thank you!!*
Sunshine queen why’d u say British English and not just English? Lol
@@bye230 Thats probely because we dont all really use the same English. We dont say Fall we South African call it Autumn...
“ Hoe It Up” ... that threw me off 😂 basically apart from the hoe it up part the one thing I understand and have learned from my elders that enable for you to live YOUR LIFE , you have to focus on YOURSELF and do what makes you happy instead of focusing on what the next person is gonna say about your journey.... just be you , do you , and you’ll go a long way
Amen, and I agree.👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Advice, kinda: Enjoy your OWN company, have an affair with YOURSELF and above all take care of your MENTAL Health. 💛
This!!
More like a relationship than an affair.
Preach!!!
yup protect your mind your sould your body
Amen!!!
My advice: don’t wait until you’re old to “find God.”
Amen
Real talk.
girl. Preach!
Lovee this
Preachhhh!!
My grandma told me a few years before she passed, “Listen to your parents and obey them.” I was a teenager at the time and now as an adult and a mother I see the wisdom behind her advice. It sounds like normal advice but there is so much fruit that comes out of honoring your mother and father. It has helped me live a better and richer life!!
Nah I think it's more complicated. Your parents usually give you good advice but you have to figure out the path you ultimately want to take. Their input is only part of the equation.
That's the word!!
"stay off the pole"
"live your life, not someone elses"
"being an adult means taking responsibility for your past, present, and future"
"don't wait on God"
Stay off the pole?
Don’t wait in God??!??
Sheesh Neeshh she means that you can’t expect God to do all the work for you, you must put the work in too but still confide in him
Girl you better wait on God!
@@alexjames2510 You need Jesus too.
My great aunt gave me some great advice when I started working and getting involved with the real world. She quoted from a scripture that I still take to heart. It’s Matthew 10:16 “Look! I am sending you out as sheep among wolves; so prove yourselves cautious as serpents and yet innocent as doves.” Ever since then my motto has been “Cautious as a serpent. Innocent as a dove.” 😇😌
It’s true elderly people are always full of wisdom.
Because they have lived and experienced things
Not always.
Hannah Walmer most of ‘em do
My grandma eats garlic everyday too as well as ginger. She’s 80s now and still taking care of herself and moving around going on walks
Doesnt garlic burn a bit?
"Thotumn!"
I like that 😁.
😂😭😭
Jeannie is always a mood
Yes Loni👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I volunteer at care homes in the UK, offering companionship can really make someone's day❤
❤️ that’s amazing girl
My grandma always said stay close to Jesus our God will neve leave you ♥️
Take care of your health is what i was told. My mom did not live to be 50 and my dad is almost 70 so i learned that i need to make responsible choices if i want to live a long life
Loni seems like such a genuinely nice person. I would really like to meet her and have a conversation for a minute or two.
@javi ruiz tamar caused her own damn self to get fired. Get over it lol
Don't live your life without Christ because this life is short, think about where you will spend your eternity after this life is over, salvation is a free gift from God; let Christ be your savior and Lord.
Amen
Amen
Amen! 🙏
This is the absolute key to life! 🙏🏽
so no "hoeing it up" which i know seems like such a bother, but gods approval is worth it
That’s that “old lady sitting under the tree” type of advice lol
Come On Now:”Live a life with integrity.” 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I'm with Adrienne, the best advice I ever received from an elder (my father) was *"Live your life as if it was being televised 24/7 for all the world to see. What do you want people to see and hear?"*
It has served me well, I am for the most part a good person.
Adrianne hit the nail on the head on this one for me, I stan the advice she received from the elderly people in her life.❤
For real tho, old ppl have some WISDOM! I don’t understand how u can just throw away old ppl when they have so many stories and advice to give. It’s beautiful
Someone told me.. if it doesn’t make me rich it ain’t my friend.. I will never forget this
Adrienne's whole look today is giving me 90s vibes and I'm here for it!!!
Thank you Tamera for keeping your dignity and self respect.
‘Stay in your own lane’
‘ speak when spoken to’
These two are the ones I say to people 😊
I don’t get caught up at all. I’m 27. I don’t smoke, I don’t drink, I don’t do drugs, I don’t party, etc.
I keep it clean.
I do live my life but I keep it pg
So we just gonna pretend Tamara’s grandma smelling like garlic was a cute thing? No ma’am, I’ll love you from distance grams. 😂
my grandmother is 90 now and she eats garlic everyday...her advice to me was dont wait to do things or go places...if you can do them now.... dream big and ..dont settle for less...and know your worth
Best advice I have ever received, was also the best parenting advice I’ve ever received. She told me that when I have kids to remember to parent according to the times not according to my times. She said my values shouldn’t differ but the times do. It hit me big time because I was raised “not in my time” and suffered the consequences as an adult. Rip mrs Magda
Jeannie looks popping with the red lipstick 💋❤️
I was raised by my grandparents love older ppl I always feel a connection to them
Adrienne was schooled by Monique on the show 😩😂
Katrina l.p.
😭😭😂😂
Katrina ooof
LMFAOOOO IM WEAK 😭😂😂😂😂
LMAO
After my engagement was announced a family member from my sister in law side came up and said congrats and said the key to relationship is communication. Without it is why many have problems.
Best Words of Wisdom
-"I don't care if you found your soulmate. If you can't get along with his family it isn't worth it"
I look forward to spending time with my In-laws and that takes all the stress outta of the Holidays.
My Granny always told me to go back to school! I graduated a trade high school and went up and down in life... Now realizing I need to go back to school for the next move in my life🔥🔥🔥, also you can defiantly find Peace is in God💞💞💞
I was always told to surround yourself with the people you love most until you can’t see them again 😪
I don’t believe wisdom comes with age
It is only natural for us to learn from our mistakes as we get older. If someone isn't a better version of themselves the more time goes on, they must be incredibly stubborn. Quite rare cases, I would say. I think it is better to stop judging other people and just focus on improving yourself.
Niaaa Julie, keep living.
It comes with experience
Wisdom comes from experience which piles up the longer you live which goes hand in hand with age
It depends on how the person processes their experiences. I know some old fools.
I would love to sit down and have a coffee and chat with Tamera; she's just filled with so much genuine kindness and light.
My sweet grandma Always use to tell me ‘’ your habits is your passport to life’’ And ‘’ be patient everything will eventually fall into place “.
“With age comes wisdom”
Not necessarily.
right, not always
Eriss R. That’s not the definition of wisdom. That’s experience
Eriss R.
Young people can have wisdom 😳 Wisdom is defined by experience, not age. When I was a teen, I’d already experienced trauma, abuse, and motherhood that people who were my teachers hadn’t even seen. That made me a wiser person.
Eriss R.
Oh I see, you’re a troll 😂 I hope something interesting takes place in your life so that you can stop commenting on strangers’. 🙏🏾
All old people ain't wise now
For me it’s more of a saying my mom grew up saying and I do. “I can do it” trying to be independent and I can do whatever I set my mind on. As well as “you can do whatever you put your mind on” however growing up my personal wisdom that I’ve learned is to not let anyone make you feel like your living life wrong.
my grandpa always tells me “walk slow and drink a lot of water” 😂
Jeannie's creative remarks give me so much life!!😂😂😂
Senior citizens aren’t all full of wisdom, some are full of ignorance and that was told to me by a 80 year old. One unapologetically asked me if my hair was real (because I’m black) and I instantly said “Yes, it is. Unlike your teeth.”
OMG IM SCREAMING
DEAD AS HELL at Tishas story🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
Best advice always comes from my grandma
If you give to the universe, it will always give back.
Do what you love and the money will follow.
Old people are my faves,I rather be around them than any other age group lol, missing my grandmother ❤
All good advice especially Tamera and Adrienne given by my parents.
Best advice I received was, “the first time you do it for love, the second time for convince.”
i was waiting for what jeanie was gonna say...
Probably "Always buy things on sale" -Mama Mai
SoniB Xo 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Revival I don’t think she had any notes for that segment so she didn’t say anything 😂
"Hoe it up" I always gets variation of this from older folks...
so true!!!
Damn Jeannie be looking attractive af 🔥🔥😜😜
I love wisdom from older people it's the best I live there stories especially my grandmother R.I.p to her love her
I work in people's homes when they are going through some form of disaster (water damage, fires, major construction, etc)..it's absolutely my favorite when I work in an elderly person's home because I not only get to help them and put them at ease, but I get to listen to their stories all day. And they usually share some really great life lessons and advice and it just brings me joy!
Castor oil isn't the best thing to ingest💀 especially pure castor oil
Don’t let anyone rob you of your peace
And happiness is found in yourself but joy is found in the Lord 🙏🏾
Thank you
"Turn down hateful judgements but remember helpful resolutions"
PLEASE HAVE A MILLENIAL GUEST SO WE HEAR DIFFERENT AGE VIEWS SOMETIMES
Adrienne is a millennial
@@shanb4520 but she still prejudice about millennials
구배일리 Asian men wonder why no race is attracted to them 😂 yall wear make up like girls
I I why are you so angry 💀 blood pressure through the roof for no reason
I felt A’s advice one thousand percent! I am a firm believer in having integrity and filling my life with those who value that principle. Unfortunately it seems very rare but I know I can at least trust in myself to make the best decisions for me.
Such a good one A!
✨💎
It wasnt from an older person it was actually a guy friend of mine he once said, "Ma always remember a good mouthpiece will talk you out of a million dollars." As I grew older I realized it's so true. Watch out for those people always have control of your own decisions, have discernment.
This was such a cute segment today. Loved it. We definitely could be respecting the elderly more! God bless their souls ❤❤
Wow loni ‘s story touched me. Older people always have gems. I’ve always heard them tell me to trust God
Mine is kinda different...A long time ago, I was watching an Amputee on tv.He lost both legs & an arm.He said " man if I still had my legs, I would never take the elevator & escalator ever again." It stuck with me, and till this day I Always take the stairs & think of him. Im so Great I can walk.
Adrienne's ensemble dropping some Cheetah Girl hints! Bring on the NEW Cheetah Girls movie!
Loved it...but don't Hoe it up y'all...STD'S are real
Absolutely hoe it up if you want; there are ways to do it safely. Condoms and dental dams are real too
Kathleen-May Colón exactly
They can hoe responsibly.
Toni Woodburn 😂😂😂🤣
True
Loni so sweet❤️❤️❤️love her
I’m so over REDDIT lawd!!🤦🏽♂️
it's so funny every time I go on a video and the first person that talks I'm like damn they look so good lol... that background that you guys have now is making literally every last one of you ladies look phenomenal for real.
Jeannie: it’s still Thautumn 😂😂😂😂
Adrienne outfit tho and hairstyle 👌🏽👌🏽
Older folks always have some wisdom, I love them.
My grandfather lived to 89 and he was a smoker since the age of 9. Miss and love you grandpa 👼🏾 💔
You cant save anyone until you Save yourself.
Jeannie kills me 🤣🤣🤣🤣 bout thotum🤣🤣🤣😎
Im that girl @ 00:53 living for the "Hoe it up" lesson 😭🤣💀
My grandma 👵🏾 would alway say, you can like money but never fall in love with it because then you’re do anything for it. RIP Grandma Mama Louise
they all look pretty asfkk this dayyy 😍😍
My mom eats raw garlic every single day.
The ladies are looking beautiful 💙
Are you mixed
She’s right about garlic. I cook with it at almost every meal, and I swallow it raw to help keep my blood pressure low and my immune system strong. Brushing your teeth and tongue and or eating parsley helps so you won’t have dragon breath. ( aka stank breath)
I'm with Tamera's grandma! I eat raw garlic too and it really does work to fight viruses! It's my best remedy
I used to sit with my grandparents and their friends just to hear them talk about the struggles, past times, ect...
I Love Your story Ms. Loni!!!!! Yes!!!!!The Elder ought to Teach the younger!!!!♥️♥️♥️ And Ms. Tamera, Totally agree, because I had to take Castor Oil when I was younger, because I always had problems with constipation, it didn't taste good, but it was and is Most Definitely GREAT for me!!!!! Good for colon for sure!!
"Dont let your mouth right a check that your ass cant cash" Granny
Just respect your elders 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
I have really enjoyed Tisha Campbell on the show. She would be a great addition.
I believe that wisdom comes with experience and not age. So obviously the elders have experienced and gone through a lot in their lives to be able to give some wisdom. Great girl chat!
Jeanie is an entire mood board!
"God is not in religion" SN: My grandmother lived to be 89 she died of old age yet she drank,smoked and smoked weed🤣🤣🤣
😂😂
lol Tamara's face. I wish Jeannie would take a seat
I love my elders 🖤
Adrienne's advice 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Tamera says her gramma told her to drink castor or olive oil... it helps lower cholesterol & then on another episode she said she has no idea why her cholesterol is always high when she goes to the doctor lmao.. I’m dead! Sometimes this show is a huge contradiction, but aren’t we all? 🤷🏻♀️
Linda Argueta because she probably didn’t follow the advice
I remember the episode you're talking about
Tamera: "in college my boyfriend called me wifey cause he thought I was wife material. I really liked that."
Also Tamera: "I would never allow a man who i'm not married to call me his wife. I enjoyed the different stages of Adam calling me his gf, then fiance and now his wife"
😂😂😂😂
They all look so nice.
Loni is so sweet
You guys are beautiful! Wow!!!!! Like all of you? No ways😍😍😍😍😍
I would do that Loni, thank you