I DATED OLDER MEN to fill the void of my absent biological father

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  • Опубликовано: 17 янв 2025

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  • @DailyMeaghan
    @DailyMeaghan 2 месяца назад +43

    Lebo I am so proud of you, you really are improving your interview skills. You are a better listener in this episode. I am so proud of you mama. Keep it up 🤍 re na Le wena

  • @molatelochokoe1867
    @molatelochokoe1867 2 месяца назад +58

    There’s a lot of improvement. I love it here

    • @MyJourneybyLeboKeswa
      @MyJourneybyLeboKeswa  2 месяца назад +21

      One foot step at a time, we’ll fully get it eventually!😊

    • @seipatimoleleki2222
      @seipatimoleleki2222 2 месяца назад +4

      I'm proud of you my role model ❤❤❤

    • @lebokeswa1804
      @lebokeswa1804 2 месяца назад +2

      Thank you☝🏽. We learn all learn all the time🙏🏽

  • @Lee-hp5hc
    @Lee-hp5hc 2 месяца назад +23

    its so unfortunate what happened to him. I can't help but love Lebo's reactions. Am literally just here for that

  • @nothandonxumalo4460
    @nothandonxumalo4460 2 месяца назад +15

    im loving this podcast. People go through a lot and previously they didn't have a platform that solely focuses on them telling their story and venting . Thank you giving ordinary people (non celebrities) the platform to vent as they navigate their journey

  • @nomangesinthala8948
    @nomangesinthala8948 2 месяца назад +20

    You're on the ball, Lebza. Keep those episodes coming❤😊

    • @MyJourneybyLeboKeswa
      @MyJourneybyLeboKeswa  2 месяца назад +5

      If you can get the family to subscribe, we’ll definitely go far
      #AWHOLEUS!

  • @AshleyBee444
    @AshleyBee444 2 месяца назад +23

    😂madafakha you can't help but love Lebo

    • @lebokeswa1804
      @lebokeswa1804 2 месяца назад +3

      Thank you Darling🥰🥰🥰

  • @Elizabeth-vu1tb
    @Elizabeth-vu1tb 2 месяца назад +13

    This is my first time getting ads.. congratulations 🥂 ❤️❤️❤️

    • @lebokeswa1804
      @lebokeswa1804 2 месяца назад +4

      Thank you so much👏🏽👏🏽. You guys made this possible💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

  • @letlhogonolondhlovu6691
    @letlhogonolondhlovu6691 2 месяца назад +7

    That part where he said he doesn't have any friends & Lebo cut him short offering her friendship 😂 As an introvert I laughed and said what if he doesn't want friends Lebo😂 Bless the hearts of extroverts, and she enjoys people, bless your heart Lebo😂

    • @kabelomalema9078
      @kabelomalema9078 Месяц назад

      Yes, cos I find it difficult to dsy yes to a friendship request... 😂It feels weird

  • @sisiphonqwane2500
    @sisiphonqwane2500 2 месяца назад +4

    Shortest 38 minutes ever. The episode was that good. Lebo is such a funny and gentle host at the same time. Kudos Sisi 🙏👌👌👌

  • @letlhogonolondhlovu6691
    @letlhogonolondhlovu6691 2 месяца назад +5

    Cheers to the people who comment, we see the changes. Love that you went straight to the point

  • @MrsNkala-z7b
    @MrsNkala-z7b 2 месяца назад +5

    Keep it up Lebo because am addicted everytime i log into RUclips i check if you posted anything ❤❤❤❤

  • @SpigadoMakoloi
    @SpigadoMakoloi 2 месяца назад +5

    This woman is great

  • @rachelmakutu6865
    @rachelmakutu6865 2 месяца назад +2

    I love Lebo’s energy 😂😂😂she has an active inner child

  • @MpendulenhleZikhali-wm3hn
    @MpendulenhleZikhali-wm3hn 2 месяца назад +5

    The consistency is beautiful..Syabonga Lebo

  • @AnnastaciaSibeko
    @AnnastaciaSibeko 2 месяца назад +4

    Thank you Lebo ❤

  • @aqua_virginia6635
    @aqua_virginia6635 2 месяца назад +4

    Wow I enjoyed this

  • @phutilegodi5939
    @phutilegodi5939 Месяц назад +1

    refreshing! you are a very warm spirit and come across as someone who is easy to talk to. i love this space❤❤💘

  • @fulufhelotshisevhe685
    @fulufhelotshisevhe685 2 месяца назад +2

    Lebo you are glowing. We love to see this.

  • @NteboMo
    @NteboMo Месяц назад +2

    Oh Lebza, because show. Loving the growth. I'm a whole subscriber now. ❤❤❤

  • @lepinamogorosi5372
    @lepinamogorosi5372 2 месяца назад +5

    I like the consistency 😊❤❤❤

  • @asandakhathi
    @asandakhathi 2 месяца назад +2

    Omg I love Lebo. She seems so sweet man like she has alot of love to give

  • @GuguMthenbu-ce2fj
    @GuguMthenbu-ce2fj 2 месяца назад +3

    Kancane kancane kuyalunga. IMPROVEMENT
    You have my heart Lebo

  • @TshiamisoMocumi
    @TshiamisoMocumi 2 месяца назад +2

    This podcast ❤❤❤is where I will always be❤❤

  • @malefasalemane
    @malefasalemane 2 месяца назад +3

    That “Madafakha!” I felt it, I understand where it comes from

  • @LeomProjects
    @LeomProjects 2 месяца назад +2

    Well done sis' Lebo, your interviewing skills have improved. Well done and may your podcast continue to grow.

  • @asandakhathi
    @asandakhathi 2 месяца назад +5

    Dear: guest. You're absolutely gorgeous 😍

  • @AshleyBee444
    @AshleyBee444 2 месяца назад +14

    Lebo has our backs asking ubatholaphi😂

  • @tanatswataruvinga
    @tanatswataruvinga 2 месяца назад +2

    Your an inspiration to everyone Lebo

  • @bathandiwebingwa214
    @bathandiwebingwa214 2 месяца назад +5

    So much improvement Lebza

  • @senzelokuhlenkabini6004
    @senzelokuhlenkabini6004 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you Lwanda for sharing your story. Even though people will forever be judgemental, I do believe you've changed someone's life through talking about your blessings & hardships ❤.

  • @ndihvhuwo
    @ndihvhuwo 2 месяца назад +1

    GREAT GREAT IMPROVEMENT!✅✅✅✅
    Keep going. Love it👌

  • @SonOfGodRSA
    @SonOfGodRSA 2 месяца назад +4

    I grew up without a dad and was raised by a single mother who worked piece jobs, we slept on hunger, sometimes without electricity and I was forced to be a parent at 8 years old to my second younger brother who was 5 years old at the time(whose dad was not around too)..to this day we never knew our dads and I don't care about knowing them, I have never felt a void mom's love always filled us, today I am studying Computer Sciences and my younger brother Bachelor of Education, we never drank, smoked or slept around blaming it on the absenteeism of our dads, I have met phony people like this dude who blamed their actions and consequences for strange appetites on absent fathers, which I know its crap, I know some loser will think "ohhh but our situations are different, we are different as people.." , NO they are not and we are not different! and most times you find out individuals like these had better privilege, he is not a special case or an exception, I don't feel pity for people like this sorry(or rather I am not even sorry). I had to grow up so fast that I missed having a girlfriend and do what normal teens did, when I look back I do not regret anything, I wrote 3 hours matric exam papers on a hungry stomach for Physical Sciences and Life Sciences, I know what suffering is, what excuses does this phony dude has!?

    • @SpigadoMakoloi
      @SpigadoMakoloi 2 месяца назад

      your story n mine are almost similar..

  • @ladybee1909
    @ladybee1909 2 месяца назад +3

    I'm here to like all the comments of true Lebo Kheswa supporters. 🥰😍

  • @MarylinK.Z
    @MarylinK.Z 2 месяца назад +1

    True. She is improving by the day.kudos to her.👏👏👏👏

  • @BathOfMercyWithLucas
    @BathOfMercyWithLucas 2 месяца назад +1

    Beautiful watch ❤❤

  • @Berthm1979
    @Berthm1979 2 месяца назад +2

    You are cluein me in Sis lebo❤

  • @DimakatsoNtshweng-gw9py
    @DimakatsoNtshweng-gw9py 2 месяца назад +1

    The first podcast that m watching advert till the end,i love this woman

  • @portiatshabane8056
    @portiatshabane8056 2 месяца назад +3

    I like the fact that Lebo after everything she is willing to assist nam nditsho this guy must be a prisoner

  •  2 месяца назад +3

    I love you sis Lebo❤

  • @ncebambambi9957
    @ncebambambi9957 Месяц назад

    This is well shot; the camera composition is proper. I struggled to watch that episode with Sis Pearl and Ayanda because the angles were not balanced. 😞 This is getting better; even the host has improved. Keep up the good work, guys!😊❤

  • @nkosivilekhumalo298
    @nkosivilekhumalo298 2 месяца назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤ Wow Lebo doing very well congrats

  • @moiben663
    @moiben663 Месяц назад

    Tiktok brought me here. What a story

  • @Nunec
    @Nunec 2 месяца назад +2

    When someone mentions that their parents or loved one passed on u do not remain quiet Lebo, u acknowledge by passing your condolences or say words of comfort no matter how long ago it was

    • @michaelsithole7392
      @michaelsithole7392 2 месяца назад +1

      Deputy Principal Evelina ka Bolpene e Red... Retla Dira di corrections ne

    • @Nunec
      @Nunec 2 месяца назад

      @michaelsithole7392 Tsek

    • @Nunec
      @Nunec 2 месяца назад

      @michaelsithole7392 Tsek

  • @phutilegodi5939
    @phutilegodi5939 Месяц назад

    I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation, Lebo as a host!!!! ❤❤❤ it was too short,

  • @lmkleafintheforest3997
    @lmkleafintheforest3997 2 месяца назад +1

    Keep it up 🎉🎉I'm even watching the adds🎉

  • @helenikauses9753
    @helenikauses9753 2 месяца назад +4

    ❤❤❤

  • @Linda-ly5td
    @Linda-ly5td Месяц назад

    He's so down to earth ❤

  • @tammy5272
    @tammy5272 2 месяца назад +1

    Love it here mami❤❤

  • @Rhulaninkome-np3ux
    @Rhulaninkome-np3ux 2 месяца назад

    Lebo your the best🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @spicefaith7419
    @spicefaith7419 Месяц назад

    Lawanda such a beautiful name.u are well spoken

  • @mvelo2062
    @mvelo2062 2 месяца назад +9

    Semhle uLebza today

  • @mafungwashekumkanikazi2656
    @mafungwashekumkanikazi2656 2 месяца назад +1

    I couldn't watch the previous episode about that rape. I tried 3 times and eventually just deleted it. I'm tempted to try this one now.

  • @samkelolatha2897
    @samkelolatha2897 2 месяца назад +2

    Moddaphakka 😭 10:25

  • @emilymolaudzi5206
    @emilymolaudzi5206 2 месяца назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @lebogangmaponya2224
    @lebogangmaponya2224 2 месяца назад

    Well done Bitso, you did so well

  • @SizweMhlana
    @SizweMhlana Месяц назад

    I love lebo

  • @success1304
    @success1304 Месяц назад

    We love you Lebo

  • @ntombenhleNtombenhle-x8m
    @ntombenhleNtombenhle-x8m 2 месяца назад

    Lebo we love you.

  • @SurpriseAphane-pl9gb
    @SurpriseAphane-pl9gb Месяц назад

    Lebo wa mpolaya hlee 😂❤❤

  • @NtombiDube8498
    @NtombiDube8498 2 месяца назад +1

    Oh wow , look at God 😅 #AWholeUs getting ads🎉 congratulations are in order Lebo❤

  • @Wanguicathy
    @Wanguicathy 2 месяца назад

    Love you loads Lebo 🇰🇪🇰🇪

  • @olabuk2000
    @olabuk2000 2 месяца назад +2

    What is wrong with us in SA. So many women 'married' at R300 with a promise of a continued stipend only to be 'dumped' after the first R300.

  • @gwuministries2895
    @gwuministries2895 2 месяца назад +1

    It is Lwanda Mbulawa not Bulawa. We went to the same school.

  • @michaelsithole7392
    @michaelsithole7392 2 месяца назад +1

    Lebo Nna Kego Rata Gao Raasa Maaan... Ntsha Bo Straatmaid bola.... A Whole you this Calm... Aowaaa Maan... Don't Liiiiieeeeeeeeeeeeyyeeeeeeeeeeeeee😂😂😂

  • @phumzamkhuli3809
    @phumzamkhuli3809 Месяц назад

    Oh maarn u Lebo unothando yazi😢😢😢

  • @kgomotsotlhapane2076
    @kgomotsotlhapane2076 2 месяца назад +6

    Ous Lebo i think there is a lot of improvement, however you can do better please did dipper when interviewing your guest i feel like this interview was very light you could have gone deeper and asked more questions , Also please dont speak over your guests allow them to tell their stories without interrupting them. Otherwise i think your cool, you show a lot of empathy to your guests and throw in a bit of humour here and there which is good in this way the guest becomes comfortable sharing.

    • @lebokeswa1804
      @lebokeswa1804 2 месяца назад +5

      Thanks for the feedback. I only engage people on what they are comfortable to talk about. It’s already difficult for them to put their lives out there so I need to create a safe space for them. Let’s be considerate🙏🏽

  • @happymnguni6284
    @happymnguni6284 2 месяца назад +4

    lol Lebo 😂😂 character

  • @unathinibe8089
    @unathinibe8089 2 месяца назад

    I know this guy from Queenstown

  • @Moosa_Qubinkomo
    @Moosa_Qubinkomo 2 месяца назад

    Mina I want to be the guest's friend hle

  • @pulengmoatshe9985
    @pulengmoatshe9985 2 месяца назад +2

    Ijo bathong she's improved no more disbelief and fucked up people screaming tjo it was a lot.

    • @michaelsithole7392
      @michaelsithole7392 2 месяца назад

      It's quite funny I miss her screaming, facial expressions, I m not used to a calm Lebo... No no Not Under my Watch 🫥

  • @KamogeloMabe-wd4gv
    @KamogeloMabe-wd4gv 2 месяца назад +1

    But Lebo is Cute shame ❤️

  • @LeratoHatlile
    @LeratoHatlile 2 месяца назад +2

    You know what in as much as the story is hurting me to my deepest core and Lebo being so of a beautiful soul i don't get this gay story..its not giving "true story thing"

  • @criticallyspeaking
    @criticallyspeaking 2 месяца назад +5

    Lebo stop interrupting

    • @lebokeswa1804
      @lebokeswa1804 2 месяца назад +4

      Please stop criticising for the sake of criticising🙄

    • @NonhleZikalala
      @NonhleZikalala 2 месяца назад

      ​@lebokeswa1804 you awesome sis Lebo nd we thank you soooooo much for this podcast ❤ you really improving more nd more everyday 🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @mpumemtebeni979
      @mpumemtebeni979 Месяц назад

      Lwanda,uwenumuntu,owawtholimali nje mahhala.❤

    • @mpumemtebeni979
      @mpumemtebeni979 Месяц назад

      Don't go through a lot Lwanda❤ try and make friends.
      Well done Lebo!

    • @mpumemtebeni979
      @mpumemtebeni979 Месяц назад

      You can act as his father Lebo

  • @MsMousy82
    @MsMousy82 2 месяца назад +1

    You can see the healing in you Lebo, I come from something similiar.
    There was no rooftop HIGH enough! 🤣 I wanted the UNIVERSE to know my pain!
    But I'm glad you are rising through the brokenness to emerge as the best version of you.
    While it took me some time to get over it all. I know now how deep my love is, so very deep! I suspect the podcast may come to an end because it served it's purpose now. However, if you continue to go forward with it, I hope you use your experience to pour into others some light and hope for a long time coming.
    Light and Light...

  • @houseofmeadow
    @houseofmeadow 2 месяца назад +3

    Looks like the bala boys

    • @LeomProjects
      @LeomProjects 2 месяца назад

      Too much...especially Phelo

  • @NompumeleloDhlamini-f6o
    @NompumeleloDhlamini-f6o 2 месяца назад +1

    Well done Lebo, inteviewing skills improved, However stop adding your Letoya story all the time,,,,

  • @hlumilekunjana8686
    @hlumilekunjana8686 2 месяца назад +5

    No contexts provided in the intro...they just begun by talking about a sextape...so confusing for the viewer.

    • @lebokeswa1804
      @lebokeswa1804 2 месяца назад +14

      Some people are just born to complain yazi yeses🙄🙄🙄

    • @nthabee
      @nthabee 2 месяца назад

      ​@@lebokeswa1804yhoooo imagine... He is here to tell us about this man and some people want to hear about childhood... Singenaphi became we want the breaking news... Abantu baya bora shem🤢🤢🤢🤮

    • @sisiphoB
      @sisiphoB 2 месяца назад

      Its true we need a background

    • @michaelsithole7392
      @michaelsithole7392 2 месяца назад +1

      Abo Principal Magongwa Bak Lendawo Yoh... Safa Madoda

    • @michaelsithole7392
      @michaelsithole7392 2 месяца назад

      ​@@lebokeswa1804yesessessssssssss🤧

  • @Moosa_Qubinkomo
    @Moosa_Qubinkomo 2 месяца назад

    Bathi siyi fish 😭😭😭😭

  • @mosamokoena5979
    @mosamokoena5979 2 месяца назад

    "I dont eat fish" that is such a rude statement omw!!!! what is it supposed to mean?

  • @Ngunikaz
    @Ngunikaz 2 месяца назад +2

    Lebo can just let the person introduce themselves and then tell their own story

  • @NehandawaChaminuka
    @NehandawaChaminuka 2 месяца назад

    Why are most Xhosa men like him?

  • @thobekilezindela5316
    @thobekilezindela5316 Месяц назад

    I love that at the end she offers a solution to help with their mental health 🤍