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Choose Your Enemies Wisely: 10 Enemies To Motivate You In 2023

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  • Опубликовано: 15 авг 2024
  • If chosen carefully, enemies can be used to propel you forward in life. In this episode, Patrick Bet-David talks about the 10 types of enemies that can hold someone back from reaching their dreams.
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  • @VALUETAINMENT
    @VALUETAINMENT  Год назад +30

    Did you think of an enemy that you hadn't thought of before? What are your thoughts on the episode? Also don't forget the PDF: valuetainment.com/my-enemies-bonus-content/

    • @billkeaveney1526
      @billkeaveney1526 Год назад

      Great video Pat, some good and some not so good examples.

    • @TortugaLanguageProductions
      @TortugaLanguageProductions Год назад +1

      One to Ten - spell it out . rule of GRAMMAR

    • @TortugaLanguageProductions
      @TortugaLanguageProductions Год назад

      nice watch ....super slick... !!!

    • @FLGurl
      @FLGurl Год назад

      Question: do you have more enemies than you have friends who have your back? For me, I like to learn from the mistakes made by the enemies.

    • @balsamicman9114
      @balsamicman9114 Год назад

      Those truly behind 911 and CCP is a good enemy … could you do a video on healthy vs unhealthy paranoia ;)

  • @osoarrogant6331
    @osoarrogant6331 Год назад +225

    Here's a list for those in a hurry:
    1.) An Ex
    2.) A former Business Partner
    3.) Family Member
    4.) Manipulators
    5.) Someone who Quit on you
    6.) Someone that forces things on you
    7.) Bullies
    8.) Your Ego
    9.) Scarcity Mindset
    10.) Being Content

  • @rubioalvin
    @rubioalvin Год назад +10

    For me, mankind has 3 enemies. 1st is our Ego, 2nd is Laziness & the 3rd is Regret

  • @Allday1219
    @Allday1219 Год назад +118

    It’s sad sometimes your biggest enemies are relatives

    • @Spalife369
      @Spalife369 Год назад +5

      So true

    • @luisvillegas6630
      @luisvillegas6630 Год назад +5

      I TOTALLY AGREE.

    • @juliettejohnson3510
      @juliettejohnson3510 Год назад +2

      Many of them secretly hope for your downfall.

    • @FutureBusinessTech
      @FutureBusinessTech Год назад +5

      Yeah, one would think one's relatives would smarten up, band together, and help each other reach the next level which is the case for some highly successful families.

    • @maravilloso002
      @maravilloso002 Год назад +4

      Real effing talk!! They are your biggest haters.

  • @brianbayer4868
    @brianbayer4868 Год назад +55

    Yip Bet is correct, having enemies is healthy ,they drive you to achieve greatness. Is it Pac who said 'I let my enemies live longer to see my progress'

    • @Abraxastrust
      @Abraxastrust Год назад

      Where is pac now

    • @djokosubakto5512
      @djokosubakto5512 Год назад

      Capres2 yg tersedia, belum ada satupun yang berkemampuan melebihi JKW.....!!

  • @motivationoncommandofficial
    @motivationoncommandofficial Год назад +3

    Your inner critic is your worst enemy! It can be overwhelming at times and you may find yourself feeling paralyzed by its judgment. For example, if you're trying to write a blog post or article, your inner critic may tell you it's not good enough and that no one will read it. This can be incredibly disheartening and lead to unhealthy perfectionism.
    Or have you ever tried to take on a new hobby only to be stopped in your tracks because your inner critic said it was too hard or you weren't good enough?
    Or even worse - have you ever had an idea for something that you wanted to do but your inner critic said it was a bad idea or too risky?
    It's important to recognize the power of your inner critic and understand how it can be destructive. The best way to combat this is by talking back to it.
    The first step is to acknowledge the presence of your inner critic. Acknowledge that it's there, but don't give in to its demands. Recognize that it is only an internal voice and not necessarily reflective of reality.
    The next step is to challenge the inner critic's beliefs. Ask yourself if they are really true or just stories you're telling yourself. Is there any evidence to support these claims? If not, can you come up with a more balanced perspective?
    Finally, take action. Once you've identified the inner critic's thoughts and beliefs, come up with a plan to address them.

  • @smustipher
    @smustipher Год назад +17

    I've known my enemies from a young age - my parents and extended family. Then the fears and doubts they instilled I me. I fight my fight every day against my own limited thoughts. That's the big one for me. Contentment is not one of them. The other day I pulled out all the tangible evidence of my accomplishments - a best selling book, a top award from my industry, a spirit label I helped to create, a bar/glassware line, looked at it, and said "I am not content with this" I MUST DO MORE. Then proceeded to work til I dropped at 3AM.

  • @richhands5269
    @richhands5269 Год назад +17

    My three favorite channels: Valuetainment, Stock Brotha, & Zip Trader. Make my week complete.

  • @anksie
    @anksie Год назад +4

    Art of War, Understand your surroundings. Pat is dope. 💯

  • @Kingwithoutathrone
    @Kingwithoutathrone Год назад +12

    Not enemies, but I have former multimillionaire friends who didn't want to help me out (not hand out but actual help) even though they are in a position to do so. I consider those events as one of the greatest and pivotal moments in my life, and it has given me a endless supply of motivation and energy.

    • @CryptoKernels
      @CryptoKernels Год назад +6

      They were afraid that you might pass them up. I find that outside of if you’re lucky, your parents. No one is every truly going to root for you, except you. Everything in this life amongst people is a competition, everything. It’s why I walk alone.

    • @Kingwithoutathrone
      @Kingwithoutathrone Год назад

      @@CryptoKernels yeah it's a hard lesson I had to learn....there are some genuine that will help you but its extremely rare....those incidents have turned me off to people....I dont really hang out with people anymore, men and women

    • @Kingwithoutathrone
      @Kingwithoutathrone Год назад

      @@CryptoKernels but what's crazy is that one of the friends wasn't even a dude, it was a woman, and I'm a guy lol

    • @bobbyricks3638
      @bobbyricks3638 Год назад +1

      Sounds like a handout

    • @levelup2014
      @levelup2014 Год назад +1

      @@Kingwithoutathrone bro we’re you even in a position to help? I hate to say it but if you have 0 skills that someone who’s worth millions can utilize they can’t really do anything. 0*100 still equals 0

  • @BWiseTV
    @BWiseTV Год назад +1

    This church i went to Sunday was just talking about this very subject! Wow!!!

  • @prebioticc
    @prebioticc Год назад +3

    I’ve worked out that one of my closest friends is my enemies. Whatever I tell him I want to do he makes and excuse for me not to do it. I told him I wanted to learn to speak Japanese he said it’s impossible, I’ve been learning by myself for 8 months, keeping it from him and now able to have a basic conversation with my teacher. That fat little shit of a friend won’t stop me from getting after it, I will grow in the shadows. Family, friends sometimes it’s the closest people to you who are the vermin under your floor. I hope everyone here proves there enemies wrong.

  • @HonorOneAbove
    @HonorOneAbove Год назад +2

    Facts! Jordan Quote 'My Pain was my motivation.' Greatest Commerical Ever

  • @RicFF13
    @RicFF13 Год назад +54

    The biggest enemy most of us have is ourselves.

  • @sadaamhasaan_
    @sadaamhasaan_ Год назад +9

    This is a fact! Now I know what Napoleon Hill meant when he said in order to create desire it must be with emotion 💡 Just went off. Thanks my guy !💯

  • @thekonstantine9
    @thekonstantine9 Год назад +6

    10/10 🎮 Messi had such a great comeback it was unbelievable.

  • @svpjef
    @svpjef Год назад +5

    Liked the video before I watched it

  • @ObeyaCorpsArmory
    @ObeyaCorpsArmory Год назад +7

    Thanks Pat, never looked at it like this. It makes so much sense, thanks for making me aware of this.

  • @adamiyyin4412
    @adamiyyin4412 Год назад +1

    this is one of the best rap song i've ever heard

  • @pradippun5801
    @pradippun5801 Год назад +2

    Most of the time we are our own enemy and we must change it great video Patrick

  • @NestorMaravi
    @NestorMaravi Год назад +11

    4:34 I did my ex wrong. No question about it. Having said that, she said something to me that stayed with me, because I believed it. Time to use it as an enemy, and let it go. Thank you for sharing. 🙏🏻

    • @Focus293
      @Focus293 Год назад +1

      What did she say if you don't mind?

  • @Exprealtyagent
    @Exprealtyagent 7 месяцев назад

    Beautifully guided by you to my real enemies. Thank You!

  • @anoiomerp2147
    @anoiomerp2147 Год назад +2

    WOW!!!!!! I’ve been feeling down this past time because of all of my haters now I can use them to my advantage 😉

  • @mrshinybald2739
    @mrshinybald2739 Год назад +11

    My biggest enemy is honestly my own complacency

    • @blinkyabyss3346
      @blinkyabyss3346 Год назад +1

      That is the majority of the US population and why crazy is accepted as normal now.

    • @mrshinybald2739
      @mrshinybald2739 Год назад

      @@blinkyabyss3346 absolutely!! The amount of people who accept you when you're mediocre... but curse you when you achieve great feats

    • @blinkyabyss3346
      @blinkyabyss3346 Год назад

      @@mrshinybald2739 it is like walking in a bad movie where all the cast but a small few are acting like characters would in a cheesy romcom, while the set is in a horror movie. Going about all happy, walking into traffic, eating each other like zombies, demonic piggyback rides. This has to be peak before collapse because we are becoming incapable of think or say anything that wasn't spooned in.
      Evidence doesn't matter at all, this use to be well hidden, now they don't care, they know the majority will do anything, no matter how inverted.

    • @blinkyabyss3346
      @blinkyabyss3346 Год назад

      @@mrshinybald2739 I still don't understand how you can gain from seeing someone else fail? Competitiveness? Drilled in through school and college? I sympathize with your statement, I just quit a boss that was one of the worst energy vamps possible.

  • @ChefC25
    @ChefC25 Год назад +3

    This is one of his greatest videos, in my opinion 🙏🙏

  • @donmarco23
    @donmarco23 Год назад +2

    Wow Just downloaded the PDF file. It's truly amazing. Great information and it looks very professional and well put-together. Thank You PBD.💯

  • @TreTurner
    @TreTurner Год назад +5

    Pat you always deliver amazing content! But this is on another level!

  • @abnoco
    @abnoco Год назад +1

    This is valuable content. I never appreciated my enemies until now. They’re the biggest asset I have.

  • @denilsonmoreira8667
    @denilsonmoreira8667 Год назад +3

    One of the most valuable videos at this stage of my life. Thank you, Patrick and the Valuetainment team for the eye-opening video!

  • @blodseeker67
    @blodseeker67 Год назад

    The Dark Side of the Force is a pathway to many abilities some consider to be unnatural.

  • @Dancestudent08
    @Dancestudent08 Год назад +2

    Driven by madness!!! Time to win 🏆🔥

  • @pranavsubramaniyan6667
    @pranavsubramaniyan6667 4 месяца назад

    Ego and one's negative mindset is the biggest and the most lethal foe.

  • @AlbertAlbie
    @AlbertAlbie Год назад

    He is the real teacher because he has already experienced everything he is talking about right now. 6 months ago I tried to forget my enemies and guess what, I got slower heheheh, Thank you Patrick.

  • @NestorMaravi
    @NestorMaravi Год назад +4

    5:00 family members. I’m sure I’m an enemy to some of my family members. Having said that, I agree. We can use it as fuel to win. It has nothing to do with revenge.

  • @macknack101
    @macknack101 Год назад +1

    Good Job, PATRICK
    Don Juan said that the first(OF 4) enemies of a Man-of-Knowledge was FEAR ...CLARITY ...POWER ...AGE
    #WELLDONE

  • @MiaMW1
    @MiaMW1 7 месяцев назад

    This was what I need. Shat shnorakal em.

  • @kaddybrarhindi
    @kaddybrarhindi Год назад

    I seen the title yesterday but didn't watch the video but in evening i done something different i have written goals so first i change goal with challenge because i driven by challenges too...then the people i hate or the people who hate me .....i wrote their name beside my challenge and say to my self he/she thinks you can't do it and i see the challenge it burns inside me

  • @grim789
    @grim789 8 месяцев назад +1

    Excited to listen to this book on audible. I wish pat narrated fantasy books to ngl lol.

  • @WilliamTChilton
    @WilliamTChilton 7 месяцев назад

    I have a laundry list of enemies! I didn't realize how much agression I have towards these things, and that's not even mention that I'm the greatest of them all...Shit, this is wild!

  • @b-rare
    @b-rare Год назад

    I just want to say I been with pbd for 6 years now and this man is the ultimate G . The one where he goes to the hood and works in the grocery store because that nfl player said he doesn’t know the hood …. Damn bro pbd doesn’t play man. Beyond top G . Pbd for president though maybe in another 10-15 years. Fuck I’d move to America for that one

  • @darnellromain9471
    @darnellromain9471 Год назад +2

    Thank you Pat!

  • @thenewobsidian
    @thenewobsidian 2 месяца назад

    Gold tier content as always. God bless you patrick for making this channel. I hope I am prepared when I meet you one day

  • @robertacevedo5726
    @robertacevedo5726 Год назад +2

    So much wisdom, Thank you PBD !

  • @realrapquotes
    @realrapquotes Год назад +1

    That Messi breakdown was great!

  • @nemanja3851
    @nemanja3851 Год назад +2

    That Messi Riquelme thing was beautiful Pat

  • @jeannie4489
    @jeannie4489 Год назад +3

    These are my favorite videos. I love it when you just talk to us straight up.

  • @ThatDudeLarzFoo-ah
    @ThatDudeLarzFoo-ah Год назад

    Pray for all 10 of em ❤
    Love ya PBD

  • @user-rh6us9jx5q
    @user-rh6us9jx5q Год назад

    I can find my enemies through that list, especially the last three. I choose my enemy to be the rulers/goverment/matrix (name it as you want) because, apart from myself, I can't find a stronger enemy to beat. And I'll do beat them by being all the things they don't want me to be. And I'll make others eventually better than content with a simple life. It's not my goal, but it's the way for me to reach my potential. May God keep my heart beating and may I know Him from within. Greetings from Greece as I'm still poor and constantly improving!

  • @adamstokes
    @adamstokes Год назад +7

    One of your best Pat. Legendary my brother.
    Thank you 🙏

  • @mattrivera8587
    @mattrivera8587 Год назад +2

    PBD is the big brother I've always wanted

  • @haroldsime8389
    @haroldsime8389 3 месяца назад

    Thanks to my divine mother

  • @Shannox110
    @Shannox110 Год назад +1

    Hi Patrick ! I wanna say i do love ur show,the topics in there. Its very interesting to watch. U are doing a great job. greatings from Germany / Heidelberg

  • @mahen77
    @mahen77 Год назад +1

    This is fire 🔥 love from Singapore ❤

  • @blinkyabyss3346
    @blinkyabyss3346 Год назад

    I think all of our enemy should be ideologies that have and continue to perpetuate a class system and are the source of the world's issues. Same people burning it down are the ones telling the world it needs to use less.

  • @user-ph2wj9nj4p
    @user-ph2wj9nj4p Год назад

    Big fun of yours . You motivate me every time you come.
    Awet a refugee from East Africa

  • @foodbytheword6262
    @foodbytheword6262 Год назад +1

    I would love to see you interview Ice Cube!

  • @tawiahsamuel3226
    @tawiahsamuel3226 Год назад +2

    You did well man by mentioning that Messi is the GOAT 🔥🔥🔥⚽👍

  • @freem4nn129
    @freem4nn129 11 месяцев назад

    cant wait till the boek / audiopbook drops PBD !

  • @oldschoolsteve5116
    @oldschoolsteve5116 Год назад +4

    Love your videos! I am my own worst enemy. This video also reminded me that I have many More that I had forgotten about. Thank you!

  • @manwithaplan.
    @manwithaplan. Год назад

    Brandon carter talks about this pure gold

  • @Abraxastrust
    @Abraxastrust Год назад +1

    Resentment is a weak form of energy to drive you , I recommend against it . Gratitude is stronger

  • @kevinr9109
    @kevinr9109 Год назад +2

    Wow Bet! I have such more respect for you now 👏🏽👏🏽 you really want to help people. Thanks one's of the best videos you done👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @spiderwebbmarketing
    @spiderwebbmarketing Год назад +1

    Damn it PBD really encouraging us to get enemies

  • @timlucasentertainment
    @timlucasentertainment 9 месяцев назад

    God Bless You Pat!

  • @pabloseb
    @pabloseb 5 месяцев назад

    Love all the Argentina references! 🇦🇷

  • @moonriseCT
    @moonriseCT Год назад +4

    Wow Pat! You so nailed it. Thank you for your words of wisdom and encouragement

  • @tanvirbsb
    @tanvirbsb 9 месяцев назад

    Great video. Though I disagree about the point of being content. Lack of contentment will keep us running our entire life. In my humble opinion without contentment the experience of this life would be incomplete.

  • @PinkuStyle
    @PinkuStyle Год назад

    Drives me daily!! F em all. Breaking timelines using their hate to fuel. Win win win until they just go away. Also mediocre activities being praised over things that you do which is much bigger

  • @whitejake25
    @whitejake25 Год назад +4

    Man Vs. Man
    Man Vs. Himself
    Man Vs. Nature
    Man Vs. Technology

    • @Rambleon444
      @Rambleon444 Год назад +2

      So true...Technology is my friend and my enemy.

    • @whitejake25
      @whitejake25 Год назад

      @@Rambleon444 Men stand alone, there are no friends only future enemies

  • @Domjackson747
    @Domjackson747 Год назад +1

    This is the video I needed today

  • @DonesdeMotivacion
    @DonesdeMotivacion Год назад

    I love you, my goal. Is to be as eloquent like you

  • @DJMDesign
    @DJMDesign 9 месяцев назад +1

    Needed to be said

  • @ZoY33
    @ZoY33 Год назад

    Yo PBD is a freakin excellent communicator. I get it now. I feel like I just leveled up

  • @franciscojavierricobernal7136
    @franciscojavierricobernal7136 Год назад +1

    THANKS A TON..!!!!-

  • @zmisolutionz9393
    @zmisolutionz9393 Год назад +1

    Thanks for your superb guidance.

  • @crystalhartviolin_
    @crystalhartviolin_ Год назад +1

    Powerful video. Thank you PBD for such insightful content.

  • @jaredbeckwith
    @jaredbeckwith Год назад +2

    An ex girlfriend left me because I was a “loser.” 5 years later I’m finally starting to prove her wrong!

  • @alistairfreedom2456
    @alistairfreedom2456 Год назад

    Cut the enemies out of your life and then focus on positive things you want, then go get the things you want. Carrying anger for enemies is not healthy I dont believe. My life is about me and building my ideal life, its not spent on my enemies.
    Give ur enemies nothing.

  • @user-ve5cv6wg1x
    @user-ve5cv6wg1x Год назад

    Dad I'm ali and for me food is the religion and I'm athiest....
    And wanted to read a book but now situation is not right to buy it even when I've tried to buy physical copy of doing the impossible to buy here it's not available and ive already read it twice that doing the impossible and this one is going to be a great also....

  • @NestorMaravi
    @NestorMaravi Год назад +2

    7:58 scarcity mindset. You are really going all out here Pat, and I appreciate you for that.

  • @johhharley5487
    @johhharley5487 Год назад

    Thanks Pat

  • @manastic7270
    @manastic7270 Год назад

    Now, this. This makes me smile.

  • @bladelazoe
    @bladelazoe Год назад +4

    My thoughts exactly. My uncle thought he was a god when he convinced my grandfather to give him $750,000 and made promises he never intended to keep. Seeing the family fight over money as a boy to a teen was intense. Which is why I don’t think about money the same way as the rest of my family. I vowed to myself that I’ll make $750k look like absolutely nothing!
    Many of my workouts are fueled by the fact that iv never had a dating life. Just about every crush or girl I liked, rejected me. So I use that as fuel for building muscle.
    My neighbors thinks against me on money quite a bit, so I’m determined to prove them wrong.

    • @Michael-nj1um
      @Michael-nj1um Год назад +2

      Keep working hard!! All the best to you on your journey!!
      Invest in some good cologne - it will help with the opposite sex. Sauvage by dior is great! ✌👊

    • @bladelazoe
      @bladelazoe Год назад +2

      @@Michael-nj1um same to you brother! We’re gonna make it! 👊

    • @tycoons8734
      @tycoons8734 Год назад

      Check out Fit X Fearless RUclips channel he talks a lot about dating and getting women.

  • @alexandreperez3938
    @alexandreperez3938 Год назад

    God bless you..

  • @gvozdeni9685
    @gvozdeni9685 Год назад

    Didn't know that fact about Ice Cube, respect to him

  • @donnalangiewicz1084
    @donnalangiewicz1084 Год назад

    All of the above. I better get busy.

  • @rickipacaci1338
    @rickipacaci1338 Год назад

    You are brilliant. How clever you are to express.

  • @fredsimwaba4362
    @fredsimwaba4362 Год назад

    The Bigger The Goal The Bigger The Enemy

  • @hattrick257
    @hattrick257 Год назад

    Pat you should look into why the media, espn, fifa, spew so much hate towards Cristiano , dating back 15 years ago. Why they attack him for his virtues specifically.

  • @vildanb8038
    @vildanb8038 Год назад

    Thank you Patrick & Mario!!! You are great!!!!

  • @user-rn3oh3oj7r
    @user-rn3oh3oj7r 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you Sir

  • @Samiismyname
    @Samiismyname Год назад +6

    This Messi analogy gave me goosebumps 🙌🏻

  • @ShaunGuerreroTheLoanOfficer
    @ShaunGuerreroTheLoanOfficer Год назад

    I connect with this video so much. Thank You.

  • @Randall2023
    @Randall2023 Год назад

    Dauphin River First Nation Manitoba Canada 🇨🇦

  • @SojemBellai
    @SojemBellai 6 месяцев назад

    I will defeat my enemies to become great.

  • @johnz6241
    @johnz6241 Год назад

    Let’s go Pat!

  • @EyeBall187
    @EyeBall187 Год назад

    Love these guy❤🤍💙

  • @hernandojimenez5102
    @hernandojimenez5102 Год назад

    I'm inspired, thanks!

  • @anthonysolis8933
    @anthonysolis8933 Год назад +1

    Wow, perfect timing for this video, I don’t have much of a support system so I pretend that Pat is my Ungle and that I know him personally. when I get in a situation where I need to make a decision, I ask my self what would Pat do. 🤷‍♂️

  • @joeballer4036
    @joeballer4036 Год назад +1

    This is a good video