Redefining success after 40: Society's defination of Success and what really matters now.

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  • Опубликовано: 23 дек 2024

Комментарии • 37

  • @Milly_in_denmark
    @Milly_in_denmark  Месяц назад +3

    Hey guys, bonus video as I was late posting my second video for this week. Probably no one will watch it? But I hope you enjoy the video and leave a comment how you define success in your own way.

    • @Crabtree1844
      @Crabtree1844 Месяц назад +1

      Excellent topic choice worthy of discussion. There are so many vain people who live unrealistic lives to please others. In the process they lose themselves under the shadow of others. Personally, I appreciate every noble, honest, just and dignified occupation. Philippians 4:8 is my guideline.

  • @biggie1242
    @biggie1242 Месяц назад +7

    I’ll turn 40 next month, and success to me means continuous learning😊

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  Месяц назад +1

      @@biggie1242 This is true and resonates with me too. As a nurse who currently dont have a specialty I’m dealing with all kind of diagnoses, I have to keep learning and I love it. Thank you for watching 😊

  • @kemikemi
    @kemikemi Месяц назад +1

    Well! said Milly. One thing I am grateful for is that my parents raised us never to rubber-neck into what someone else has and forget to appreciate what is right there on your lap or in front of you. THANK! you mom and dad for that.

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  Месяц назад

      @@kemikemi That’s an amazing thing your parents did. I know young people who have been raised to chase fame in the wrong way. It’s sad actually.

  • @adriantaft770
    @adriantaft770 Месяц назад

    Milly, you and others are spot on with your reflective comments.To learn and contribute to society is success to me. As a person, you're more of an asset than a liability if this is applied.

  • @EnjoyingYourLifeWithJesus
    @EnjoyingYourLifeWithJesus Месяц назад +5

    So right Milly! I think success is being the person God created Me to be & accomplishing His Purpose for Me. Doing something well, with excellence & growing in every area of My Life. And fulfilling My dreams & passions in Life!

    • @Crabtree1844
      @Crabtree1844 Месяц назад +2

      I concur!

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  Месяц назад +1

      @@EnjoyingYourLifeWithJesus I love this answer. Goes to show success is different from person to person. I think as long as one defines it them self and not going with what society expects, it’s very healthy. Thank you for watching and the feedback 😊

    • @EnjoyingYourLifeWithJesus
      @EnjoyingYourLifeWithJesus Месяц назад

      @@Milly_in_denmark thank you Milly & you're welcome! Right!

  • @justmyopinion4938
    @justmyopinion4938 Месяц назад +2

    As a Black woman who wants to live in Denmark you really inspire me. Hopefully my dream will come true very soon.
    I have also redefined success. Right now it’s good health, loved ones and being able to take care of my needs.

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  Месяц назад

      @@justmyopinion4938 I like your definition and it’s very healthy thinking 😊

  • @PheladiNewman
    @PheladiNewman Месяц назад +1

    My favourite topic is: " True success means staying true to a deeper sense of purpose despite deviating from a superficial social norm. It means finding joy in suffering. It means having the courage to peruse one's journey when confronted with the fear of uncertainty." I don't know you, but after watching your videos, I can say you, are a successful woman.

  • @TR-ii3xu
    @TR-ii3xu Месяц назад +2

    I agree with you 100%. I define success as meeting the short and long term goals one sets for THEMSELVES. ❤

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  Месяц назад

      @@TR-ii3xu Exactly. Living life by what society expects of us is very unhealthy.

  • @gofgan
    @gofgan Месяц назад +5

    I hv asked myslf tht question. I thnk success its a personal thn...lyk reaching your personal goals.... Your goals will always differ frm the nxt person.

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  Месяц назад

      @@gofgan I totally agree. It is personal, but some people get caught up with what society defines as successful.

    • @gofgan
      @gofgan Месяц назад

      @@Milly_in_denmark true....ths is why its important to self introspect, identify wot defines u,wot gvs u peace and joy.being put in a societal box is a choice thts promoted by social media and tv.i refuse to be boxed!!!

  • @linientchege183
    @linientchege183 Месяц назад +1

    I agree with you we need to redefine success. I feel my many small achievements are a success.

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  Месяц назад

      @@linientchege183 I think it’s easier when we define what success is to us personally. So small achievements are definitely a success

  • @justdruofficial
    @justdruofficial Месяц назад +3

    Success for me is achieving goals that I have set for myself, period. Wouldn't waste a thought worried about what society thinks. Btw, lovely colors you are wearing. Woke me right up on this dreary day lol

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  Месяц назад

      @@justdruofficial I love hearing people doing their thang not worrying about what society expects them. And thanks for the compliment on the outfit 😊

  • @Carmenjones-h9b
    @Carmenjones-h9b Месяц назад +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @EverlineWanyama-bv9rn
    @EverlineWanyama-bv9rn Месяц назад +1

    I can relate. Thank you for the info

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  Месяц назад

      @@EverlineWanyama-bv9rn You are so welcome and thank you for watching 😊

  • @Fashionanthropologist
    @Fashionanthropologist Месяц назад +2

    Success 4 me is the person i became as i journey through life and gather experiences as i pursue a worthy ideals/ achievements. 😊
    U look amazing that your hair is 🔥🔥.
    Siz from 🇰🇪

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  Месяц назад +1

      @@Fashionanthropologist Thank you 🙏. And that’s a good definition and very personal to you as it should be.

  • @DihessaBodjona
    @DihessaBodjona Месяц назад +1

    I love this so much! The funny thing is I almost never comment on videos on RUclips, but what you say resonates with me so much.

  • @ThePatriciaPatrick
    @ThePatriciaPatrick Месяц назад +1

    I agree with you on what success means. Looking beautiful as always ❤❤

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  Месяц назад

      @@ThePatriciaPatrick Thank you 🙏 and thanks for the feedback 😊

  • @aplacelikehomewithchristin9089
    @aplacelikehomewithchristin9089 Месяц назад

    Thanks so much for this video ❤

  • @Crabtree1844
    @Crabtree1844 Месяц назад +1

    Success to me, is fulfilling the purpose for which I was created with dignity, excellence, and without compromising principle and my health.

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  Месяц назад

      @@Crabtree1844 I like your definition. It’s strong.

  • @PheladiNewman
    @PheladiNewman Месяц назад +1

    To all cleaners, teachers, nurses, cashiers, housewives, bankers, doctors, students, preachers,nannies, etc. you are successful and enough.