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  • Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024

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  • @chikaaustinn
    @chikaaustinn 5 месяцев назад +1166

    Only the OGs remember her “Scandalex” era😂❤️

    • @bridannielle1983
      @bridannielle1983 5 месяцев назад +47

      Okayyyy!!! No shade no tea still call her Scandalex when her intro is running 😅😂

    • @aleshasinclair8529
      @aleshasinclair8529 5 месяцев назад +2

      Facts

    • @jen4236
      @jen4236 5 месяцев назад

      💯

    • @brileenette
      @brileenette 5 месяцев назад +38

      righttt i still say “scandalex” instead of “alexus rebecca” because that’s what i was used to 😭

    • @Benjamina.Button
      @Benjamina.Button 5 месяцев назад +8

      And still say it

  • @oluwatosinabikoye3085
    @oluwatosinabikoye3085 5 месяцев назад +893

    Who knew Vante be chatting like this 😂😂 we need more sit down videos with him.

    • @itstabbybaby
      @itstabbybaby 5 месяцев назад +14

      Mannn fr 😂 lol

    • @lpgilber
      @lpgilber 5 месяцев назад +19

      Yeah, let him talk to us more.

    • @Ashkoshhhhh
      @Ashkoshhhhh 5 месяцев назад +1

      😂exactlyyyyy

    • @EveYvette
      @EveYvette 5 месяцев назад

      😂😂😂

    • @JustAGrl007
      @JustAGrl007 5 месяцев назад

      Right!

  • @tiaradenisee
    @tiaradenisee 5 месяцев назад +76

    & im cracking up at everyone calling him “ vonte “ .. when he made it very clear its “ Vante “ 😂😂

    • @dj.1094
      @dj.1094 5 месяцев назад +2

      Yeah im definitely guilty of the misspelling 😂

  • @NajaRants
    @NajaRants 5 месяцев назад +13

    I respect the fact that as a man in this generation he knows what he wants.

  • @d3finit3lym33
    @d3finit3lym33 5 месяцев назад +11

    Vante is a whole mood. It was good seeing him front and center. I think yall both did yall dirt but the fact that yall matured and came back together is all that matters. Love you guys.

  • @thomasinadaley5613
    @thomasinadaley5613 5 месяцев назад +15

    Run this back again though with a Part 2 or an advice segment Vante & Alex 😂This was fun 🫶🏾

  • @Bossnini
    @Bossnini 5 месяцев назад +15

    borderline creepy how hard im smiling 😭 so cuteeee💕

  • @mommymommama7444
    @mommymommama7444 5 месяцев назад +20

    Oh Vante be talking talking! 😂 I love this segment!!! 🫶🏽 And Lex I love you but you was wrong sis! 😩😅😂

    • @Scandalex
      @Scandalex  5 месяцев назад +2

      I feel like we both were lol

  • @kennedywilson8477
    @kennedywilson8477 2 месяца назад

    Been following you since I was in high school❤️ love seeing yall together! We need to see more of him!! I like his personality!!

  • @chemariexoo
    @chemariexoo 5 месяцев назад +6

    I thoroughly enjoyed this! I love yall relationship. We can tell it’s very pure and true love. Happy for the both of y’all.

  • @cnew1592
    @cnew1592 5 месяцев назад +4

    We need another video this was pure gold his stories got details I was wanting more!! But babyyyy Scandalex was a vibe we love the vibes now though!!

  • @mnigirl2152
    @mnigirl2152 4 месяца назад

    The set up and cameras/ lighting is everything.
    I love your connection. Wow hearing your story is inspiring. No comments for either, I love how you learned and grew stronger. Blessings on your unity.
    It's the looks at each other on the set for me ❤️

  • @crispairandcoffee
    @crispairandcoffee 5 месяцев назад +8

    I'm soo happy she has a time frame. So happy. When a man starts basing prerequisites for marriage such a property ownership... I just don't think he's IN love .
    And yes, that was so foul for him to cheat on her as punishment for something that was understood and especially because he was moving the exact same way. Smh

  • @snobbybeauty2210
    @snobbybeauty2210 2 месяца назад +1

    Put a ring on it, Vante 🤦🏽‍♀️ !!
    Im waiting for the announcement 📣

  • @Theweekndsgirl
    @Theweekndsgirl 5 месяцев назад +6

    Definitely remember Scandalex (OG’s know 🤪). This was awesome seeing, hearing and learning more about Vante! More of these please 🥹

  • @cenisebryant
    @cenisebryant 5 месяцев назад +1

    Yaaasss!!! This whole video, the set up, the lighting, the colors, and most importantly.. the conversation was giving!! 😂😂 and yes.. the Scandalex era.. she came with the tea. 🍵 with a splash of a lil spice. It's healthy when you can sit, talk, and look back over the mistakes. And move forward with a clear head in knowing that he/she is what you want. We need more videos like this. I was HOLLERING!! When Vantae was talking about he had to knock a ninja out. He was serious. 😂 it be like that sometimes.. unfortunately. This whole video was very entertaining. Love yall, love your life!! Keep these videos and esthetics coming. I am HERE for it!! 😊❤

  • @WrapsPops
    @WrapsPops 5 месяцев назад +7

    Alexus is the most naturally scrumptious single baddie on RUclips Period 🎉
    Gdluck with love n all things u desire .
    #singleuntilmarried

  • @WineDown_Dre
    @WineDown_Dre 5 месяцев назад +3

    I thoroughly enjoyed this and would support the podcast!! Real and uncut - loved it!

  • @KayBee21
    @KayBee21 5 месяцев назад +1

    I love this!!! Please do more of these with Vante!!!

  • @triahviah
    @triahviah 5 месяцев назад +3

    This was goooooooood! Loved it! We need a part 2!

  • @milanimama
    @milanimama 5 месяцев назад +1

    nah lex, I LOVEEE this! more plsss lol. as a cancer myself, I know EXACTLY wtf you meant by all you kept thinking about was what he said to your dad! whew. but I do understand where's he's coming from because he was showing you what his intentions were.

  • @rachelleah_
    @rachelleah_ 5 месяцев назад +1

    I lovveeeed this! One of the first videos I watched was about how you moved on from your ex. I was in a similar situation, and I instantly connected with you. I have enjoyed following your journey since! I love seeing you being loved. Vante seems like a great guy, and I love how you both try with each other. Please, more of this! P.s. I'm low-key siding with Vante on the breakup story 🙈🙈

  • @ATouchofLuv16
    @ATouchofLuv16 5 месяцев назад +1

    Hey Lex and Vante I love this video. The quality is amazing and the setup is super sexy. I’m from the A as well and if you can succeed in maintaining a healthy and lasting relationship here it’s a true blessing. I’ve been with my hubby for 33 years and we’ve overcome some issues but overall we decided to keep everyone OUT of our relationship (including our families) and we’re truly happy. We’ve raised our kids and now we are enjoying being grandparents. I wish you guys all the best and I look forward to seeing what God has in store for your wonderful future ❤

  • @k.barbiee
    @k.barbiee 5 месяцев назад +1

    lol LOVEEEE this video. we love the Scandalex era period lol also Vante mad funny, but I know that right he applied that pressureeee

  • @kaimarie23
    @kaimarie23 5 месяцев назад +2

    I really enjoyed this video. Definitely would love to see more. I wish yall could have done more questions.

  • @Miss_Shilla
    @Miss_Shilla 5 месяцев назад +4

    love it here, you've grown SM😍😍

  • @1tangie1
    @1tangie1 5 месяцев назад

    LOVE THIS! ❤ I’m an OG follower. I love seeing you two together. I’m over here smiling from ear to ear 😂 every relationship gets tested. I’m so happy you two weathered the storm and are still pushing through life together. Love ya Lex! 🎉

  • @joyceballi6799
    @joyceballi6799 5 месяцев назад +2

    Can't wait for the wedding vlog!!! 😍😍😍

  • @MichaelsOpinion
    @MichaelsOpinion 5 месяцев назад +1

    This was mad cute, and Vante seems cool af!

  • @raulysse1
    @raulysse1 5 месяцев назад +1

    Loved this sit down!!! Y’all should definitely do more of these! ❤

  • @TedraChanel
    @TedraChanel 5 месяцев назад +27

    Alex, stop rushing him! We need alllllllllll the details! 🤣🤣🤣 That’s our brother! Be nice.

    • @Scandalex
      @Scandalex  5 месяцев назад +4

      Listen he came to CHAT omg

    • @TedraChanel
      @TedraChanel 5 месяцев назад

      @@Scandalex and did 🤣🤣🤣

  • @ninaprior49
    @ninaprior49 5 месяцев назад +1

    Loved the video so authentic! I do believe your marriage will last because your taking the time to nurture a true partnership. 🎉.

  • @shavonewk17
    @shavonewk17 5 месяцев назад

    This was so refreshing and entertaining!! If you can have V on more of the episodes please do he is funny and its nice to see you two in this way like podcast style

  • @TheMaya712
    @TheMaya712 5 месяцев назад

    Yes this damnear needs to be a series y’all do every couple of months on different topics.
    I’m already knowing yall getting hella views and love on this.

  • @mrsperk281
    @mrsperk281 5 месяцев назад +2

    This left me wanting more or yall! Yall are too cute! God bless🙏🏽
    Stick together💪🏽💯❤️

  • @jen4236
    @jen4236 5 месяцев назад +7

    Yes Queen! Back to Back ❤

  • @mscharliebrown4eva
    @mscharliebrown4eva 2 месяца назад

    I love yall lol thanx for sharing Lex you have a real one…. Sorry I’m late catching up on my favs🥰❤️

  • @NaturallyJay
    @NaturallyJay 4 месяца назад

    I'm happy ya'll are in a good space now. Relationships are built and stay solid on communication and certainty. So I get both sides, but I'm a firm believer in being sure. People have to be ok with whatever repercussions come with their decision. So if your decision is to not be fully committed until I move regardless of the fact your actions and nice gestures suggest something else, respectfully you have to be ok with whatever comes with that. And vice versa, I chose if I'm ok with that and understand what that means then cool. But thank you both for sharing with us your personal relationship and letting us into ya'll bubble. Best wishes to the lovely couple!

  • @joannenagbe
    @joannenagbe 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thoroughly enjoyed this 😂 Ion be wanting to be in folks business but I am happy to get the missing pieces FINALLY. Love yall for this! ❤️🤞🏾

    • @joannenagbe
      @joannenagbe 5 месяцев назад

      & Alexis you was wrong too. Lol y’all both was wrong!

  • @dadondiva2365
    @dadondiva2365 5 месяцев назад

    I am here for this chit chat.. love Vonte has joined in for a man’s point. I love how supportive he is in your channel ❤

  • @ParisSade
    @ParisSade 5 месяцев назад

    We loved this.. definitely want more Lex & Vante content. Maybe a question and answer if answering how well do you know each other

  • @kennkissed
    @kennkissed 5 месяцев назад +1

    I just loveeeeee the transparency! Relationships HARD & I’m glad yall saw the light at the end of the day lol. I’m someone who has experienced infidelity in my relationship and we decided to still be together… How did yall finally overcome that??

  • @leliajackson8377
    @leliajackson8377 Месяц назад

    I loved this!!!! Beautiful couple ❤

  • @KANESWA
    @KANESWA 5 месяцев назад +2

    I love this content. Please keep it going and keep the love for each other strong.

  • @kadejahMoore
    @kadejahMoore 4 месяца назад +1

    Whoa alot to unpack 😂
    You wasn’t wrong sis he said yall wasn’t serious 🤷🏽‍♀️
    Iceeeeee??? I thought he was American,Whats Vonte ethnicity? That’s wild .
    Vonte a chatty patty I love it he mad interesting he need his own channel 😂
    Yaw both wasn’t ish 😂 but happy yaw worked it out ❤

  • @ayshamairelle5239
    @ayshamairelle5239 5 месяцев назад

    Yesss I love this for y’all. Ooouuu Scandalex was a vibeeee 😂😂 we family now girl and Vante. Been on this road since the beginning.

  • @elevatedbeautii
    @elevatedbeautii 5 месяцев назад

    I think I just realized you’re my favorite YTer cuz that Scandelex era was vibes! 😂 I love you and Vante together frfr though from what we see!

  • @aKIMpletevibe
    @aKIMpletevibe 5 месяцев назад +2

    I love love love yall! 🤍 thank you!

  • @AshantiNicole
    @AshantiNicole 5 месяцев назад +5

    Ok productionnnn 🎉 love this ❤

  • @bridannielle1983
    @bridannielle1983 5 месяцев назад

    Loved loved loved this side of yall relationship!!! I’ve been rooting for yall for a while now!! But Vante take care of our girl!!!

  • @tasheenayoung-shelby366
    @tasheenayoung-shelby366 5 месяцев назад

    Yall are some fools in a good way. Loved this video and yall energy yall don't play about each other and I love thst for yall

  • @darquebeautie331
    @darquebeautie331 5 месяцев назад

    I love that yall did the set up for the first sit down 🥰🥰

  • @AjziaNycole
    @AjziaNycole 5 месяцев назад

    LMFAOOO yooo Vante is maddd funny gang 🤣🤣 bro is really chattingggg! Y’all have to do more videos like this 😭😭

  • @dj.1094
    @dj.1094 5 месяцев назад

    Vante my apologies for the misspelling of your name lol! You and Lex are doing the right thing spending time with each other enjoying life and traveling while you are young. Most couples dont have this time until later in life after the kids are grown so I respect how you are moving. When marriage happens there will be no regrets in things you haven’t done yet and you both will truly be ready for the next step in your relationship!

  • @msjones87
    @msjones87 5 месяцев назад

    I really enjoyed this video. The set up and commentary kept me engaged. Yall should do REDDIT type videos answering AITA questions. I would definitely watch 😂

  • @_signedbyni1952
    @_signedbyni1952 5 месяцев назад

    Oh my gosh you guys should definitely keep these type of videos coming i loved it 10/10 ❤️

  • @fikaboojohn5713
    @fikaboojohn5713 5 месяцев назад +1

    You guys forget how you guys got back together.. we need more more

  • @angelaelbert4067
    @angelaelbert4067 5 месяцев назад

    Oh I love this ❤❤❤ we need more of this. I root for Lex. She knew 😂 but Vante is a good guy

  • @MorewithMonica
    @MorewithMonica 5 месяцев назад

    I see the tv deals rolling in!!!!! So entertaining! Love you Lex ❤

  • @remixxlife
    @remixxlife 5 месяцев назад

    Beautiful convo and full of passion lol…. Vante seem to have major interest from the beginning which is dope, but I love how Lex stuck to the word agreed and didn’t put her eggs in one basket lol.
    Lex you are natural on camera and loved the set!

  • @jene2314
    @jene2314 5 месяцев назад

    I felt like I was listening/watching a podcast. Definitely enjoy this!
    Maybe in the future you guys should think about doing a podcast together.
    I remember the vlog when you said that you guys had broke up. Glad that everything work out for the best. Every relationship has their stories, 😂
    Can’t wait to see what the future holds for you guys❤

  • @altinalee101
    @altinalee101 5 месяцев назад +1

    what doja say?? “THATS NOT CHEATING IF I WASN’T WITHCO AHHH” lol the scandlex era was a time 😂❤

  • @Talk2UrHommieTV
    @Talk2UrHommieTV 5 месяцев назад

    Enjoyed every bit of it. So sweet, we want moreee

  • @LifeOfTalia101
    @LifeOfTalia101 5 месяцев назад

    I 100% agree with the social media. Me and my boyfriend stayed into it over his social media , and kept blocking each other . I never cared anymore about being so big on the social media couple , it causes too many problems and we’re so much happier without following each other .

  • @TM-he3yh
    @TM-he3yh 5 месяцев назад +1

    Why do men always act butt hurt when the relationship is not officially a committed 1 & us lady’s still like to play. Once
    we are committed then we put in that work & loyalty.
    At the end of the chat you 2 know you have trust within each other & that is key to bringing longevity with your relationship.
    Have kids when you're ready for sure I waited until I was 28, didn’t let no body pressure me, I was ready when I was ready & my man knew I didn’t want kids until my mid to late twenties had my second right before 30

  • @monicachantee
    @monicachantee 5 месяцев назад +2

    What I will say is Vante was applying major pressure in the talking stage, also Lex how you never had crab legs before dating V ?!

  • @kimmy70759
    @kimmy70759 5 месяцев назад

    I really love y’all relationship there is a real genuine friendship that you can feel

  • @cibrian13
    @cibrian13 5 месяцев назад +5

    Anybody that says Lex was wrong is the type of GREEN she’s talking about lol if a man says y’all aren’t official then what do you think that means??

  • @Misserieb
    @Misserieb 5 месяцев назад

    As a fellow cancer, I agree with Lex’s point of view 😩♋️

  • @ja_browngirl1785
    @ja_browngirl1785 3 месяца назад +1

    Damn I thought this guy couldnt talk🤦🏽‍♀️😂😂.. But great sit down.

  • @chemaimoore7427
    @chemaimoore7427 5 месяцев назад

    Yea lex!! Keep this goin!! I love this series!!!

  • @AdaMichelle
    @AdaMichelle 5 месяцев назад +3

    Damn. Yallllll nooooooooooo this got deep and I'm scared.... that's it that's all. Ugh is it fucked up I'm lowkey mad yall let the world in!!!!!!!!

  • @mauryn2866
    @mauryn2866 5 месяцев назад

    We need more of this!! This was so entertaining😂

  • @Meganclark_
    @Meganclark_ 5 месяцев назад

    Wow what’s crazy that it shows that we think we know these people on these socials but in reality we only know what they share and we shouldn’t judge anyone.
    WITH that being said Alexus did what he thought she wouldn’t do evenly though he made it clear that they not official until etc etc but I’m glad they worked through it because they are beautiful together ❤
    I’m rooting for them 🎉

  • @ciarailenrey1050
    @ciarailenrey1050 5 месяцев назад +1

    Loved this. More of this pls!

  • @BreLJ
    @BreLJ 4 месяца назад

    Vante from New York, they always hype in their storytelling lmao doesn’t mean he’s still salty he just spilling the tea for y’all 😂 it’s giving, they’re locked in, don’t get it confused!

  • @cherise_jasmyn
    @cherise_jasmyn 5 месяцев назад +9

    Are y’all….over it? lol

    • @Scandalex
      @Scandalex  5 месяцев назад +5

      Lmao cause it was very much giving we aren’t. 😭😭

  • @tierrasardine562
    @tierrasardine562 5 месяцев назад +1

    😂why I’m cracking up !! When I say RELATABLE bihhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh….you obviously in my house lol

  • @EbonyxTav
    @EbonyxTav 5 месяцев назад

    Yesss I was here for the Scandalex era lol.. and boyyyy he got that Libra energy chatty. And us Cancers move the way we move especially if we’re SINGLEEEEEEE!!! Reminds me of my relationship lol Libra and Cancer 😂

  • @KeontraTyese
    @KeontraTyese 5 месяцев назад

    I loved this I was smiling the whole time 😂. We need a part 2

  • @sheisart5857
    @sheisart5857 5 месяцев назад

    I agree with Vante on only wanting to be married once. Same here I don’t wanna deal with divorce and stuff

  • @latoyadubery9313
    @latoyadubery9313 5 месяцев назад

    Great video! I enjoyed the sneak peek into your relationship. Stay blessed

  • @melissafisher4394
    @melissafisher4394 5 месяцев назад

    OMG y’all are adorable! I loved this video ❤

  • @Thatgyaldindin
    @Thatgyaldindin 5 месяцев назад

    "Mom got flowers toooo" "that evening" Vante had me hollering

  • @jessicamoran9980
    @jessicamoran9980 5 месяцев назад +1

    Hilarious!!! How y’all get back together??

  • @LovelyLeo20
    @LovelyLeo20 5 месяцев назад

    3 boys!!! I would love to see a little Lex❤ at least one girl, V!

  • @BeautifulGurl27
    @BeautifulGurl27 5 месяцев назад +1

    that’s definitely a libra trait ♎️ we love hard

  • @tyrunmcmanus4964
    @tyrunmcmanus4964 5 месяцев назад

    it’s giving we need a podcast sister girlll

  • @sashajaz7029
    @sashajaz7029 5 месяцев назад +1

    As a fellow July cancer I can safely say we are PETTY and love to get back at people lol…. Deleting his ig I know that’s when the crazy jumped out😂😂😂. Wishing ya a happy life and more sit downs 🤗

  • @marnaowens6803
    @marnaowens6803 5 месяцев назад +2

    Vante really came up! He went from Wizard Kelly to having a whole sit down video. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Gisellej80
    @Gisellej80 5 месяцев назад

    Thanks for sharing dante how you both met👀👀👀👀.
    Nice mom get flowers. Oh alexus he giving tea

    • @phiwelove
      @phiwelove 5 месяцев назад

      Vante* babe

  • @desireedanielle6349
    @desireedanielle6349 4 месяца назад

    Lex as soon as he said he was a libra I knew this was me and my boyfriend. Like cancer libra mix we definitely be bumping heads but that love is strong baby. Routing for you guys.❤❤❤❤

  • @tanyahullett2389
    @tanyahullett2389 5 месяцев назад

    More couples videos. Loved the vibe

  • @WrapsPops
    @WrapsPops 5 месяцев назад +1

    Wooooo Vante said ur gonna host me on ur channel : Say no more 😂😂

  • @BlessingMachina-pi4wb
    @BlessingMachina-pi4wb 5 месяцев назад

    im excited for this one ❤

  • @Sem_TG
    @Sem_TG 5 месяцев назад

    Let this man come on here and speak now, and then 😂. The Scandalex days were epic, though 😁❤

  • @diamondleonard
    @diamondleonard 5 месяцев назад +1

    Yes hun you hit the nail on the coffin it was a blow to his “ego” he probably thought you were at home being a good girl, same for me when my man found out I was a pretty playa he married me quickly, instead of breaking up with me 😂 and yes girl don’t wait too long on a proposal. that’s literally wasting your time especially if it doesn’t happen on your time! then you got to get back out there date, get to know someone all over again and wait on a another proposal so I hope it’s soon especially if you are what he wants.

  • @FRmeech
    @FRmeech 5 месяцев назад +1

    i like Vante, london boyyy 🇬🇧 but im on Lex’s side .. kandi burruss said it best “don’t think im not!” 😂

  • @iampreciouswalker
    @iampreciouswalker 5 месяцев назад

    Definitely want to see more!

  • @henyhen73
    @henyhen73 5 месяцев назад

    Love yall together!❤