I love that cal is so blunt and real. I know remi feels the need to tiptoe and be polite but it’s nice to see him setting boundaries and protecting her.
LA events producer here! So I have a lot of resources and I really hope you see this. Bc I highly recommend Bites & Bashes Catering - a family owned/run catering company AND they’re Korean:) they’re a mother-daughter duo and the dad helps farm ingredients🥹 I’ve had the pleasure of meeting the daughter and she’s so lovely! They have a very extensive menu but obviously have bangin Korean items. One of the short rib dishes is a family recipe that has a heartwarming backstory too:) anyway, happy planning! It’ll get stressful at times but remember to enjoy every moment and remember it’s not that serious🫶🏽
We put disposable cameras on every table and had guests take pictures. Those pictures are the pictures we loved the most!! We had a photographer who did formal pictures and made a video, but the pictures that our guests took are the ones we love the most!! It was so cool to see what they took pictures of when we weren't necessarily paying attention!! Lol
I really think seeing each other for the first time down the aisle is soooo special. It’s such a built up moment. I just remember staring at my husband like nobody else was in the room. It was so beautiful and such a special moment. I recommend waiting to see each other!
I've been married for 23 years now, and I kept my bouquet and had a 2nd one for the bouquet toss. We did the garter as well, but I kept my garter and had a new 2nd one that my husband tossed to the single men!! My husband has my garter in a box that he's cherished!! My dress is in a vacuum sealed box with my veil. You can do whatever you want. It is your special day!! We didn't see each other for 24 hours until I was walking down the aisle, and everyone cried during our vows, we also wrote our own and kept them pretty short!! Lol The reception was so much fun. We did a buffet style and had more than enough food for everyone!! My dad paid for everything!! Bless his soul! He insisted on paying for everything because I was his baby, and my parents had a combined 7 children, my dad had 3, my mom had 3, and then they had me!! Lol I was spoiled!! ❤ Do whatever you want and don't compare your plans to anyone else's wedding plans!! Congratulations!! Can't wait to see all the hard work and plans come to life!! 🎉
32:37 In the Philippines, bridesmaids and groomsmen walk down the aisle and then sit behind the immediate family. They don't stand beside the bride and groom until pictures. Something to consider.
REM I'm dead Cal is too funny "just tell them you will and then don't do it😭" I was also watching your pod ed on wild til 9 and him saying "no effing curfew" I replayed multiple times it was too funny
This is so refreshing seeing you two just talking and answering to our questions, all chill. I already appreciate you sharing your wedding plans as much as you can and letting us be part of this joyful moment in your life. Currently it´s night time in Europe, I am all cuddled up in my bed with warm blanket. I am going to enjoy this 1h video yesss 💜
Catching up today: 1. Praying for your mama - hope she’s healthy and healing 2. Love the Q&A - you can definitely see more of Cals personality lol 3. You’ll never be actually ready for kids, follow your own timeline and it’ll work out as it should - NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS + he is standing on that 💯 4. You nailed it with the moms and scraps 😂😂 my kids are 7 + 5 still eating scraps 🤍 5. Love seeing Mariah more on camera! 4.
Haven’t even watched yet, but I was thinking today that it’d be fun to have a Cal Q&A! Things like how his work changed over the last year now that he has videoing and editing for basically unfiltered, highs and lows of the year, etc.
Also, things haven’t been going too well with my grandma (she was diagnosed with stage 4 bladder cancer back at the beginning of last month) so these vlogmas videos are keeping me sane and making me smile so thank you 🥺🩵
I've had the hardest day and just woke up from a depression nap to get fries and watch RUclips and Remi has blessed us with over an hour of Vlogmas, I could cry. Thank you for putting in so much work for us 🩷 I appreciate you so much.
Rem! I got married last year but enjoy all these wedding Q&As haha. My husband and I skipped out on the garter and bouquet toss. I probably would have done the bouquet toss, but a LOT of my friends are married haha. I would have felt so bad pointing out the 3-4 girls that were still single. As far as first look, we did that and have NO REGRETS. I know you mentioned that it's more of a photography preference, which very well could be so, but we saw it as wanting a private moment of seeing each other for ourselves. There are so many things happening when you're walking down the aisle that I feel like that first look moment kind of escapes you. Having my husband see me and me seeing my husband for the first time privately truly was the best thing for us. I still managed to cry down the aisle as well. So excited for you and Cal!
as a long engagement girlie, I’ve loved it! My fiancé & I got engaged in June 2023 & getting married in June 2025. It has been great to not only enjoy this time, but I’ve also been able to spread out the planning! So happy for y’all 🤍
I can’t wait to hear Cals vowels. The way he looks at you, you can tell he just loves watching you speak so well! His eyes are saying wow I’m really marrying her 🥹. I’m already crying and I haven’t even heard them.
I love Cals answer of none of your business honestly. Yes, you told people to ask anything lol but his answer is 100% correct. Happy you have someone to be tough for you at times ♥️
In regards to vows: write letters to eachother to read beforehand. Those can be lengthier. Then, do the vows out loud during the ceremony! Also- my favorite part of our wedding was when my husband and I had a private dinner during our guests dinner hour. We did pictures with each table afterwards!
We did a traditional ceremony vows & then read our vows to each other on our honeymoon on the beach 🤍 it was so special & allowed us to prolong the wedding festivities & have a private moment that’s not in the height of a first look!
omg REMi for the wedding first of all THANK YOU i already know how present we’re gonna feel as your subscribers you always pull out all the stops for us 🩵😭! imagine though ya’ll had a little ‘photo booth’ concept space but instead it’s just a camera set up where your guests can pop into the booth and record sweet message/ how they feel in that moment / literally anything! it can just be set up and present during the whole reception/ party, in that way you’d get adorable documentary style super candid little reels of everyone 🥺 i can just imagine looking back at that footage
My husband and I had a first look and were so glad we did!! The whole morning I was so excited and nervous and I just wanted to see him and once we saw each other, all the nerves flew out the window and it was such a special moment.
In regards to babies, my husband and I waited 4 years after getting married. We did get married young and wanted that time to enjoy being married. But when we had our first child, I was so in love with her and I wished I started a family earlier. There’s really never a “right time” to start a family. If babies are on your mind, then you’re “ready” for a child 💕 you’re going to be amazing parents!
Be sure to get first look pictures with your Dad! I did that with my Dad when I got married and now it’s a special moment with him that I get to cherish forever 💕🌻
My husband and I did a first touch and loved it! I was a nervous wreck all day but he didn’t want to see me until I was walking down the aisle. It grounded me so much to at least hold his hand and my bestie prayed over us before our ceremony
Remi! The Garter is what Cal tosses to the single men at the wedding! (But yes it’s strange lol) And yes, you would have a separate smaller bouquet to toss to the single ladies at the wedding! 🤗
Some things I did at my wedding that I LOVED was we did a social media moment at the ceremony where the guests could take pictures and videos and then the officiant told everyone to put phones away, it was great so they could photos and then we didn’t have their phones in professional photos, we also did a first look 10/10 recommend it helped ease the nerves seeing each other before hand and we got a lot of the pictures out of the way so we could actually enjoy cocktail hour and the reception with our guests!
I love love love my babies!! 24 and have 3 kids, 3 and under. I cannot imagine how boring my life would be without them 🥹 So excited for you two to start your married life together.
I got married earlier this year! We decided to do the bouquet toss, but instead of using my bridal bouquet, I used a bridesmaids bouquet! That way you get to keep your own bouquet and still get the fun tradition! 💐
Watching this video I realised I technically “know” you Remi since before Cal does, cause I’ve been watching you videos since before you knew him. And I had a moment of “wow, I’ve known her for longer than literally THE Cal, her literal finance. I’m so important!!!!” Hahah just a silly funny thought. I can’t wait for the wedding video, this is such an exiting era coming. Big kisses from Barcelona, Spain.
I just had my wedding - spend money on the music photography and videographer Entertainment is important but we are so grateful we invested in things that lasted beyond the wedding night. Now we have all of the memories to look back on
when you talked about the baby question was when i was like IM SO EXCITED FIR REMI'S WEDDING then also kids T_T thats gonna happen further down the line but it's nice to know i'll be here to watch like i'm watching zoey's vlogmas now with her family T_T
when you thought something went wrong with you remi but you just gifted us with the longest vlogmas❤THANK YOU an hour listening to you while cleaning will be so fun
Prayers for your mama! 🙏🏼💜 BTW I have been a bridesmaid five times abc a flower girl once. I’ve also been to A LOT of weddings so it was funny to hear you guys not knowing about garters and some of the new traditions I hadn’t heard about. You guys are the best! 💖
here in Spain there's no such thing as kid free weddings (or at least while I was growing up). It's very cultural here to sit and drink for hours with friends and the kids usually entertain themselves during that time, playing freely along the area❤
thinking of the wedding vlog has me emotional !! thank you for welcoming us at your wedding and in these moments leading up. sending prayers for your mom 💛
At our wedding, the florist made a small bouquet to do for the bouquet toss. That way the person gets a some flowers and you keep the original bouquet.
1hr 6mins on day 17!!!! Whatever did we do to deserve this!!!! Thank you Miss Remi❤ Praying & sending speedy recovery to Mama Suz. Hope all went well. I know she is in the best care cause your dad is the best. Love the Q & A with Cal and how he isn't afraid to speak his mind. "NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS" LOL 😂😂😂thats right tell them Cal. Love your Remi. Soaking up Vlogmas don't want it to end. ❤❤
I’m a florist & we’ve made a specific toss bouquet in which we use the less than perfect flowers. This way everyone can save their bouquet. They aren’t nearly as big or expensive as a brides maids
The having kids question is so annoying cause its like take chill and let people in joy marriage first lol like I told Lauren don’t feel pressured by anyone and do things in your timing and no one else’s! I waited till 30 also married 10 years before we decided to have kids we tried off and on throught the time but we knew we were not ready but open to if it happens it happens so I think do whatever fits you and your body time line and don’t be scared it will be all good and you will be great and do great! Enjoy being married first ❤(not telling you what to do by any means)
I loved this wedding Q and A! Cal reminds me so much of my husband Adi. He's also in the comp sci/tech field and also obsessed with hip hop. Some things my husband and I did and did not do: 1. first look! i loved having time just for the two of us. 2. no phones during ceremony! We had it on our wedding sign, our website, and our officiant announced it. I love looking at photos and seeing absolutely no phones LOL 3. no bridal or groom party. honestly just wasn't important to us. we incorporated some of our favorite people in different ways- before the ceremony, we each invited 3-4 of our best friends to take portraits with us and also did so with our immediate families/siblings. my sister and his best friend each made a toast. it was perfect for us. 4. no garter toss- i know some people do this but again- really wasn't important to us. Honestly- people say wedding planning is stressful, but I truly believe that we made it fun by working together and just allowing what was meant to be, be. We got married on 11/4/2023 and it was my favorite day. Stay true to who you guys are, and it's going to be the best day. :) So much love for you and Cal!
I was JUST in a wedding last weekend and the bride tossed a bridesmaid’s bouquet so she could keep her own!! She asked who wanted to keep theirs, and whoever didn’t want theirs was the one that got tossed! It worked out perfectly!
1000000% invest in the photographer! We had a small wedding with just immediate family, but from day one we knew the photos were going to last a lifetime & be there for our children when we're gone one day. So that was one of our biggest expenses and we don't regret it at all!
Prayers and best wishes goes to mama Cruz 🙏🏽💕 Loveeeee the q&a session with Cal! Love seeing your interactions and how Cal just look at you while you talk with love, its so sweet! And hes sooo funny!! So excited and happy for you two ❤
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I love that cal is so blunt and real. I know remi feels the need to tiptoe and be polite but it’s nice to see him setting boundaries and protecting her.
Cal wanted to judge the ‘first touch’ so hard but he’s too nice LOL 😂
Cal so actively listening to you and validating how you feel, is so sweet to see, he’s truly your best friend, so happy for you both
thank you SO much 🩵🥹😭
Good job Cal setting boundaries and protecting Remi. “None of your business!”
I loved that too!!
Cal cracks me up! He was so real during the Q&A 😂
Okay y’all our show is on.
AN HOUR. it’s truly christmas. love you queen
LA events producer here! So I have a lot of resources and I really hope you see this. Bc I highly recommend Bites & Bashes Catering - a family owned/run catering company AND they’re Korean:) they’re a mother-daughter duo and the dad helps farm ingredients🥹 I’ve had the pleasure of meeting the daughter and she’s so lovely! They have a very extensive menu but obviously have bangin Korean items. One of the short rib dishes is a family recipe that has a heartwarming backstory too:) anyway, happy planning! It’ll get stressful at times but remember to enjoy every moment and remember it’s not that serious🫶🏽
Remi bless us with an hour and five minutes today ❤❤
NOOOO WAYYY over an hour?? REMIIII you ateeeee
🥹😭🫶
I read the "REMIIII" in alicias voice
@@kenziepelfrey yess u get it!! that's the only way I can say her name now lol
We put disposable cameras on every table and had guests take pictures.
Those pictures are the pictures we loved the most!!
We had a photographer who did formal pictures and made a video, but the pictures that our guests took are the ones we love the most!!
It was so cool to see what they took pictures of when we weren't necessarily paying attention!! Lol
That’s such a cute idea! ❤
Omg I love this!!
AN HOUR REMI YOURE KIDDING THIS IS THE BEST DAY EVER I WANT ALL THE WEDDING CONTENT POSSIBLE THANK YOU BESTIE🩵🩵🩵
hour long vlog is what i needed today.
"That's none of your business!😌💅🏼" you tell 'em Cal!!!!!
HAHAH
I really think seeing each other for the first time down the aisle is soooo special. It’s such a built up moment. I just remember staring at my husband like nobody else was in the room. It was so beautiful and such a special moment. I recommend waiting to see each other!
I've been married for 23 years now, and I kept my bouquet and had a 2nd one for the bouquet toss.
We did the garter as well, but I kept my garter and had a new 2nd one that my husband tossed to the single men!!
My husband has my garter in a box that he's cherished!!
My dress is in a vacuum sealed box with my veil.
You can do whatever you want.
It is your special day!!
We didn't see each other for 24 hours until I was walking down the aisle, and everyone cried during our vows, we also wrote our own and kept them pretty short!! Lol
The reception was so much fun.
We did a buffet style and had more than enough food for everyone!!
My dad paid for everything!!
Bless his soul! He insisted on paying for everything because I was his baby, and my parents had a combined 7 children, my dad had 3, my mom had 3, and then they had me!! Lol
I was spoiled!! ❤
Do whatever you want and don't compare your plans to anyone else's wedding plans!!
Congratulations!!
Can't wait to see all the hard work and plans come to life!! 🎉
32:37 In the Philippines, bridesmaids and groomsmen walk down the aisle and then sit behind the immediate family. They don't stand beside the bride and groom until pictures. Something to consider.
god bless Remi for giving me serotonin boost everyday during uni semester and depression season
REM I'm dead Cal is too funny "just tell them you will and then don't do it😭" I was also watching your pod ed on wild til 9 and him saying "no effing curfew" I replayed multiple times it was too funny
I just watched that episode too!
This is so refreshing seeing you two just talking and answering to our questions, all chill. I already appreciate you sharing your wedding plans as much as you can and letting us be part of this joyful moment in your life. Currently it´s night time in Europe, I am all cuddled up in my bed with warm blanket. I am going to enjoy this 1h video yesss 💜
Catching up today:
1. Praying for your mama - hope she’s healthy and healing
2. Love the Q&A - you can definitely see more of Cals personality lol
3. You’ll never be actually ready for kids, follow your own timeline and it’ll work out as it should - NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS + he is standing on that 💯
4. You nailed it with the moms and scraps 😂😂 my kids are 7 + 5 still eating scraps 🤍
5. Love seeing Mariah more on camera!
4.
Haven’t even watched yet, but I was thinking today that it’d be fun to have a Cal Q&A! Things like how his work changed over the last year now that he has videoing and editing for basically unfiltered, highs and lows of the year, etc.
Also, things haven’t been going too well with my grandma (she was diagnosed with stage 4 bladder cancer back at the beginning of last month) so these vlogmas videos are keeping me sane and making me smile so thank you 🥺🩵
Prayers for Mom Suz!🙏🏻🙂
THANK YOU 🩵🥹
I've had the hardest day and just woke up from a depression nap to get fries and watch RUclips and Remi has blessed us with over an hour of Vlogmas, I could cry. Thank you for putting in so much work for us 🩷 I appreciate you so much.
Rem! I got married last year but enjoy all these wedding Q&As haha. My husband and I skipped out on the garter and bouquet toss. I probably would have done the bouquet toss, but a LOT of my friends are married haha. I would have felt so bad pointing out the 3-4 girls that were still single. As far as first look, we did that and have NO REGRETS. I know you mentioned that it's more of a photography preference, which very well could be so, but we saw it as wanting a private moment of seeing each other for ourselves. There are so many things happening when you're walking down the aisle that I feel like that first look moment kind of escapes you. Having my husband see me and me seeing my husband for the first time privately truly was the best thing for us. I still managed to cry down the aisle as well. So excited for you and Cal!
I absolutely love Cals responses, those are just like my boyfriends 😂😂
as a long engagement girlie, I’ve loved it! My fiancé & I got engaged in June 2023 & getting married in June 2025. It has been great to not only enjoy this time, but I’ve also been able to spread out the planning!
So happy for y’all 🤍
I vote for a post-wedding Q&A vs a closer to wedding Q&A ( or both 🥰)
I can’t wait to hear Cals vowels. The way he looks at you, you can tell he just loves watching you speak so well! His eyes are saying wow I’m really marrying her 🥹. I’m already crying and I haven’t even heard them.
wishing your mom the speediest recovery ❤️
thank you SO much 🩵🫶
Hour-long vlog from Rem? literally best day ever!!!
I love Cals answer of none of your business honestly.
Yes, you told people to ask anything lol but his answer is 100% correct. Happy you have someone to be tough for you at times ♥️
Cal is the real MVP! Rem you're such a sweet balancer of all things 🤍 Love the Q&A thanks Cal!! So excited for your guys wedding planning journey!
In regards to vows: write letters to eachother to read beforehand. Those can be lengthier. Then, do the vows out loud during the ceremony! Also- my favorite part of our wedding was when my husband and I had a private dinner during our guests dinner hour. We did pictures with each table afterwards!
We did a traditional ceremony vows & then read our vows to each other on our honeymoon on the beach 🤍 it was so special & allowed us to prolong the wedding festivities & have a private moment that’s not in the height of a first look!
omg REMi for the wedding first of all THANK YOU i already know how present we’re gonna feel as your subscribers you always pull out all the stops for us 🩵😭! imagine though ya’ll had a little ‘photo booth’ concept space but instead it’s just a camera set up where your guests can pop into the booth and record sweet message/ how they feel in that moment / literally anything! it can just be set up and present during the whole reception/ party, in that way you’d get adorable documentary style super candid little reels of everyone 🥺 i can just imagine looking back at that footage
as someone who is currently in the process of confirming a pcos diagnosis, thank you for being so open about it and its effect on having kids.
My husband and I had a first look and were so glad we did!! The whole morning I was so excited and nervous and I just wanted to see him and once we saw each other, all the nerves flew out the window and it was such a special moment.
In regards to babies, my husband and I waited 4 years after getting married. We did get married young and wanted that time to enjoy being married. But when we had our first child, I was so in love with her and I wished I started a family earlier. There’s really never a “right time” to start a family. If babies are on your mind, then you’re “ready” for a child 💕 you’re going to be amazing parents!
Be sure to get first look pictures with your Dad! I did that with my Dad when I got married and now it’s a special moment with him that I get to cherish forever 💕🌻
Living for this hour long vlog! We have been FED this Holiday season thanks to Remi
My husband and I did a first touch and loved it! I was a nervous wreck all day but he didn’t want to see me until I was walking down the aisle. It grounded me so much to at least hold his hand and my bestie prayed over us before our ceremony
I think making sure you get a good photographer for your wedding is important so you can always have them to look back on!!
Wooow Remi!! A whole hour!! Nobody is doing it like you 🥰💗
thank you so so much 🥹🥹
HOUR LONG VLOG!!!! YES REMIII!!! VLOGMAS QUEEEN 👑❤
Remi! The Garter is what Cal tosses to the single men at the wedding! (But yes it’s strange lol) And yes, you would have a separate smaller bouquet to toss to the single ladies at the wedding! 🤗
Remi giving us a whole series episode! ❤
Some things I did at my wedding that I LOVED was we did a social media moment at the ceremony where the guests could take pictures and videos and then the officiant told everyone to put phones away, it was great so they could photos and then we didn’t have their phones in professional photos, we also did a first look 10/10 recommend it helped ease the nerves seeing each other before hand and we got a lot of the pictures out of the way so we could actually enjoy cocktail hour and the reception with our guests!
I love love love my babies!! 24 and have 3 kids, 3 and under. I cannot imagine how boring my life would be without them 🥹 So excited for you two to start your married life together.
Don’t let anyone fear monger you with having a baby! You both will have children when YOU decide, and it will be wonderful and beautiful ❤️
1 hour long vlog??? Miss Remi Ashten is THAT 👏 GIRL 👏 Miss vlogmas queen. We love you Rem! 💕🤩
AN HOUR VLOG?? YAASS REM! giving us all the good stuff
OMG AN HOUR?!! we're so blessed this season! also praying for your mum
I got married earlier this year! We decided to do the bouquet toss, but instead of using my bridal bouquet, I used a bridesmaids bouquet! That way you get to keep your own bouquet and still get the fun tradition! 💐
Been here since your college days and now I’m near the end of my college days as you’re getting married!
Rem, you had me freaking out all day because you didn’t upload. This makes up for it though girl. SHES A VLOGMAS GODDESS!!!
An hour longgg??? What did we do to deserve this 😭♥️
ilysm 🥹🥹
Watching this video I realised I technically “know” you Remi since before Cal does, cause I’ve been watching you videos since before you knew him. And I had a moment of “wow, I’ve known her for longer than literally THE Cal, her literal finance. I’m so important!!!!” Hahah just a silly funny thought. I can’t wait for the wedding video, this is such an exiting era coming. Big kisses from Barcelona, Spain.
I just had my wedding - spend money on the music photography and videographer
Entertainment is important but we are so grateful we invested in things that lasted beyond the wedding night. Now we have all of the memories to look back on
AN HOUR? The wait was worth it
when you talked about the baby question was when i was like IM SO EXCITED FIR REMI'S WEDDING then also kids T_T thats gonna happen further down the line but it's nice to know i'll be here to watch like i'm watching zoey's vlogmas now with her family T_T
Remiiiii 💀 that's literally a podcast episode I'm dead 😍
when you thought something went wrong with you remi but you just gifted us with the longest vlogmas❤THANK YOU an hour listening to you while cleaning will be so fun
you could always just have the maid of honor and best man stand up there, no one ever said it had to be the full wedding party :3
An hour long vlog AND a wedding Q&A with Cal??? You keep us well fed Remi ❤
Prayers for a speedy recovery for your mom! ❤
Prayers for your mama! 🙏🏼💜 BTW I have been a bridesmaid five times abc a flower girl once. I’ve also been to A LOT of weddings so it was funny to hear you guys not knowing about garters and some of the new traditions I hadn’t heard about. You guys are the best! 💖
I'm an Aries and Cals Aries energy is the best in this lol ❤ cannot wait to see how beautiful y'alls wedding will be!!
I cried the entire time you guys answered these questions… idk why I’m emo…. Haha but it’s so sweet and genuine.
Ugh I’m so proud of Remi. She’s killing it this year ❤
here in Spain there's no such thing as kid free weddings (or at least while I was growing up). It's very cultural here to sit and drink for hours with friends and the kids usually entertain themselves during that time, playing freely along the area❤
thinking of the wedding vlog has me emotional !! thank you for welcoming us at your wedding and in these moments leading up. sending prayers for your mom 💛
At our wedding, the florist made a small bouquet to do for the bouquet toss. That way the person gets a some flowers and you keep the original bouquet.
Remi have you seen where the bride honors her mom by dedicating her bouquet to her? So sweet!
1hr 6mins on day 17!!!!
Whatever did we do to deserve this!!!!
Thank you Miss Remi❤
Praying & sending speedy recovery to Mama Suz. Hope all went well. I know she is in the best care cause your dad is the best.
Love the Q & A with Cal and how he isn't afraid to speak his mind.
"NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS" LOL 😂😂😂thats right tell them Cal.
Love your Remi. Soaking up Vlogmas don't want it to end. ❤❤
FINALLY I THOUGHT SOMETHING BAD HAPPENED!
Same I was actually panicking. I checked all her social media
ilysm 🩵🥹😭
Me too
Same 😭
yall can she sleep??
one hour is absolutely crazy!! thank you for all you do to get these vlogs up for us ❤
I’m a florist & we’ve made a specific toss bouquet in which we use the less than perfect flowers. This way everyone can save their bouquet. They aren’t nearly as big or expensive as a brides maids
The having kids question is so annoying cause its like take chill and let people in joy marriage first lol like I told Lauren don’t feel pressured by anyone and do things in your timing and no one else’s! I waited till 30 also married 10 years before we decided to have kids we tried off and on throught the time but we knew we were not ready but open to if it happens it happens so I think do whatever fits you and your body time line and don’t be scared it will be all good and you will be great and do great! Enjoy being married first ❤(not telling you what to do by any means)
Yes! You get a toss bouquet! Most florist give you a complimentary toss bouquet! Love from an event planner! ❤
Storm stayed and an hour vlog....name a better duo🤩
I loved this wedding Q and A! Cal reminds me so much of my husband Adi. He's also in the comp sci/tech field and also obsessed with hip hop.
Some things my husband and I did and did not do:
1. first look! i loved having time just for the two of us.
2. no phones during ceremony! We had it on our wedding sign, our website, and our officiant announced it. I love looking at photos and seeing absolutely no phones LOL
3. no bridal or groom party. honestly just wasn't important to us. we incorporated some of our favorite people in different ways- before the ceremony, we each invited 3-4 of our best friends to take portraits with us and also did so with our immediate families/siblings. my sister and his best friend each made a toast. it was perfect for us.
4. no garter toss- i know some people do this but again- really wasn't important to us.
Honestly- people say wedding planning is stressful, but I truly believe that we made it fun by working together and just allowing what was meant to be, be. We got married on 11/4/2023 and it was my favorite day. Stay true to who you guys are, and it's going to be the best day. :) So much love for you and Cal!
Filming, editing, posting with jet lag and it’s still AN HOUR?! Remi you are THAT GIRL
Cal repeating “none of your business” is funny 😆
prayers for momma cruz 😊 i’m so excited to see this wedding vlog, you guys are AMAZING 🩵🩵
I was JUST in a wedding last weekend and the bride tossed a bridesmaid’s bouquet so she could keep her own!! She asked who wanted to keep theirs, and whoever didn’t want theirs was the one that got tossed! It worked out perfectly!
an hour vlog… during vlogmas GIRL GOD BLESS YOU🤩
ilysm 🥹
OMG ILYSM😭 you made my whole week!!❤️❤️
AN HOUR LONG VLOG?! god we’re blessed
1000000% invest in the photographer! We had a small wedding with just immediate family, but from day one we knew the photos were going to last a lifetime & be there for our children when we're gone one day. So that was one of our biggest expenses and we don't regret it at all!
Cal is such a mood in this Q&A. Love it for you guys!
As a ftm you are never truly ready for kids. They just show up in your life when they are meant to☺️
Cal is HILARIOUS oh my gosh! Very excited for this journey
This video is our gift lmao. I’m cleaning my kitchen so this hour long video is perfect!😭❤️🎄
Cal is so relatable and naturally funny. I love him 😂
WHAAAT CAL!!! I've literally never seen someones skin look squeaky clean. The man is glowing!!!
Thank you Remi, this makes December so fun!
Prayers and best wishes goes to mama Cruz 🙏🏽💕
Loveeeee the q&a session with Cal! Love seeing your interactions and how Cal just look at you while you talk with love, its so sweet! And hes sooo funny!! So excited and happy for you two ❤
“WE SHOULD EXPOSE” 😂😂i love cal he’s hilarious
Cal’s opinions about weddings are my EXACT OPINIONS lol
Yessss! I love that you spoiled us with an hour long video🤍