I went through Postpartum Depression because of my toxic in-laws and my husband's behavior. I was on the verge of harming my 6 month old baby but my mom's Duas & Surah Dhuha made me stronger day by day & ALHUMDULILAH ALHUMDULILAH today I'm doing well. I took therapies and our baby's presence made my husband realize his mistakes. Alhumdulilah, I'm in a much better place now. So time heals & Quraan also helps us in every way.
@@umb7088 Mein abhi b parhti hun. Jab kabi overthinking Karti hun ya past ki baatein yaad aati hain tou Surah Dhuha parhne lag jaati hun. Kabi 5 dafa, kabi 8 dafa. There's no specific number.
Listening to surah Ad-Duha alot and surah Rehman helps soooo much.. wese tow pura Quran e shifa hai.. but these two surah are my fav.. Makes one feel sooo relaxed and really cures
I cried while hearing your story . Yaar , it is a a disease just like Blood pressure , diabetes . It needs proper treatment . Guys it is real . I lost my nephew due to this illness ( Although he was under treatment ) Big hand to Saheefa for speaking out .
Cried watching this . I don’t understand why people don’t understand clinical depression is real! Mashallah saheefa’s bond and love with husband is an example even with hard times they comfort and support each other. May Allah keep you both happy and together forever.
I had a similar condition 32 years ago and didn't know what was going on with me. 18 months I was untreated and was in very miserable condition. Please listen all, THERE ARE SO MANY TYPES OF DEPRESSION SO DON'T LISTEN TO ANYONE GO STRAIGHT TO A GOOD PSYCHIATRIC WHO CAN DETERMINE WHAT KIND OF DEPRESSION YOU ARE PASSING THROUGH. MEDICATION IS a MUST, RELIGION AND OTHER ASSISTANCE HELP BUT DEPRESSION NEVER GOES AWAY WITHOUT MEDICATION. Thanks to Allah after 10 years of medication I am Alhamadulillah fine. Saheefa you are MA very pleasant and I pray Allah bless you with happiness, stay blessed.
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
I just accidentally started watching this and didn't know when I finished it. It was an amazing interview . I wish people who are suffering and don't share , will learn a lesson and immediately seek help from a professional. Well done Ahmad . And Sahifa im impressed by your honesty. Be strong God help you dear girl .Ameen
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
@@anz_taqi3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
Depression is so hard, i went through it for so many years, but now that i overcame it, OMG i realise that what a dangerous thing it is!! it COMPLETELY warps your view of the world and yourself and there is NOTHING that can remove those feelings. its just time that makes it go away, if youre lucky. at least thats what happened with me! Saheefa best of luck, youre doing so good and youre being so strong. Wish you all the best.
Sis how did u overcome this horrible thing..currently suffering from it, my life has turned upside down, i have children and i cant even look after them or the house...😢
@@yasminahmed7151dear sister in this journey the only one who can help you is you❤I have been through it 😢many times.Subha uthty hi shukr.. jaisy hi koi negative khayaal aye change your focus right there .Change your place and promise yourself you will not let your thoughts take control of your body.Sirf shukrguzaari py focus karain tu within a week or do your brain will rewire too InshaAllah
@@aroojnaeemk12003:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
She's so polite and well mannered girl i just loved the way She's talking bout mental health which is exactly exist a really bad disease, I'm really suffering these days i feel so empathise and feels so energetic after hearing her Alhumdillah thanks to butt sahab for inviting her on his show, ❤
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
Dear saheefa im amazed at ur honesty and willingness to open up to the world about ur struggles. As a parent however hard it is to see my child hurting, i will be crushed if my child didnt share his issues with me. So please be grateful for ur parents, brother and husband and let them help u. U r not alone. Depression is a disease u need to treat . If ur throat,stomach is sick u take it to the dr, similarily if ur brain is sick u must take it to the dr. Best wishes
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
I didn't skip a second of this podcast Saheefa is so well spoken and pretty I can't resist watching her. ❤Worst part of depression is you look normal outside and dead from inside I hope you get out of this situation very soon and everyone suffering from this may heal Ameen ❤
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
Your interview makes me cry, my younger sister ( 16 year) has anxiety she weng and is going through alot. I've always been their for her. Whenever whereever she called me , I reached home within hour. She was doing for us for our parents but eventually she realize that she has to do it for herself because noone on earth makes her feel good unless she do it for herself. Thing which you said that you regret for making your parents and husband going through it. She always tells me the same. But you've to realize that seeing you crying and talking and involving us in your pain is more relieving for us then to go by yourself through it and then call us oneday in detoriated state. Just allow everyone of your family member to share your pain and struggle. You'll see change. My sister theraptics is doing great for her too 💕. Stay blessed.
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
Butt sb Top episode again. Saheefa jabbar khattak was really candid, honest and unfiltered. I loved the way she respects her husband and the way she say khawaja sb, all girls should learn from her. And all boys should learn from khawaja sb, i become a fan of saheefa and superfan of khawaja sb. Well done 👍
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
Me, a strong macho alpha by nature fell into the worst kind of depression 4 years ago. Suffered a lot, faced it alone, without therapies, without medication, without ny wife and children knowing abt it. Got isolated in a different room for 4 long years. Out of it now for the last 1 year. Oh hell, it was so haaard but i have come up stronger, Literally rose for the ashes. I wish saheefa a natural recovery and never face it again. Love❤❤❤
Salam, i want to say that i didnt like her at beginning at all because of her bold dressing and other things but after this Podcast i starting love her.she is a beautiful soul.i think i have also depression but its not so severe like her.i wish you a happy healthy life and i pray for you inshaAllah you will gain your peace of mind and happiness.plz also pray for me too.Everyone of us leading a difficult life , so PLZ love and respect each other and dont mis judge anyone by their dressing or life style.Allah knows better.so please spread love only🙏
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
I was crying when I heard what saheefa went through , I’ve been through this , when I was a very little kid , it’s the worst feeling , not many people know about this , it takes a whole lot of courage to say this infront of people
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
I'm a doctor by profession, and I live in Canada. I have had depression and anxiety for the past 25 years. But now I have learned how to handle specifically panic attacks. I'm from Quetta, Pakistan. Persian speaking.
I am going through the same. Breathing therapy and cold water showers are helping me. It is very hard. I know it's easy to say "Be Brave" but we have no other choice. You are a very strong woman. Stay strong. Love from Canada. You are a very good actor and beautiful soul.
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
Hi, it is very good interview. Saheefa me apsy kehna chahti hu k kia apny kbi thyroid ka test krwaya hy aksar depression ki boht bre waja thyroid b hoti hy. I have gone through this. I was taking medication of thyroid, but still it was messing up with my head.
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
One of the finest Host and Human being is Ahmed Ali Butt. The empathy the strength to listen others n feel it is phenomenal. Words are less for ALB. The best of the best shows 🎉🎉🎉🎉
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
I’ve been suffering through depression since 2011 and it seems a never ending battle… no one understands you and all they say is ‘tumhari life mai toh sab theek hai,positive soncho’bla bla but they don’t know what it is to live with a mental health issue … l relate to you 100%😢
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
I don’t know you it was first time listening to your story 😢 I pray from deepest heart that may Allah heal you! Please please stay with ur loved ones!! If you can’t be with your husband now please stay with your parents ! Please 🙏🏻 I hope u find peace and may your heart heals !!
I don’t watch many drama serials so was not sure who you were until I watched you on Green recently. What a fantastic woman you are, hats off for being so incredibly honest and raw. Allah keep you healthy and give you happiness. Was a nice interview and your friendship came through beautifully. Well done Ahmed, dua’s for you both.
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
Saheefa you are much more stronger than you think. My advice would be to let go of your past. Forgive yourself and have yaqeen that Allah has Forgiven you so you don't need to hold on to anything that hurts you. You have inspired so many people qho suffers from depression and anxiety so don't be too harsh on yourself. May Allah protect you from evil eye. Ameen And Ahmed Ali butt 👍for this podcast. Thank you
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
Best podcast ever , all i can say your husband should be with you , earning money , education anything is secondary life comes first ,emotional support at this stage of your life is important .you need your loved once around you in this situation.
The first podcast I've ever watched! The best conversation between the host and guest, loved every bit of it. The best podcast ❤️ Lots of love to Saheefa and lots of Respect to Ahmed Ali butt for putting it with so decency 👍🏻👏🏻
This was such a good interview. More more more power to you Saheefa. Ahmed just treated her like a chid and gave her serious advices. So hood to see both of you talk about mental health issues. Looking forward to see her more work. You goo gurl. Much more to achieve and conquer. ❤
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
Yaar, she's so sweet I spoke to her once through a friend here in hong kong, listening her story makes me so sad for her... Yeh anxiety meray sath b huiii hai. N abhi b uskay asraat hain..
very knowledgeable podcast. I watched first podcast of pakistani youtube channel . my first experience is so nice . thankt to both of you . Love from India ❤❤
Unfortunately i have read very degrading comments on clips from this podcast circulating on social media. Its my request to limit comments please. Saheefa is struggling with mental health issues and she is vocal about it. We dont need to dampen her spirit and create more problems for her. Buht asaan ha anjan ban ke aik mean comment ker dena Afsos ha apni qaum per jo sirf aik dusray ko nuqsan pohnachana main lagi ha
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
I saw this interview and understood that I’m going through something similar and the hardest part is that no one is able to understand what I’m going through . If I tell my husband something he says the same thing k namaz Padho sab theek hojayega…. I’m constantly trying to make his understand my situation but I’m not able to do so …
A Virtual hug for saheefa. May Allah ease her pain. She may already have, but she needs to find if something triggers her emotions and work on it. Very emotional episode. Agree with her there are some profession's which comes from heart, don't become therapist, nurse or doctors if you don't have a heart.
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
Dear girl take Ignatia 30 homeopathic remedy every day at maghrib. InshAllah you will feel better. Start surah rahman listen to it after fajr may Allah bless you in abundance. Ameen see a good homoeopath. There are remedies for depression in homeopathy
@@salehaali1003:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
thank you soo soo soo much Ahmad Bhai and Saheefa for sharing this podcast, both of your stories which are same in a way, would be a great assistance for sufferers and motivation to confront such situations in their lives with courage. literally, it is giving me this emotional touch that I can't express in words......again thank you, and bless you!
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
May Allah bless her with true happiness. Listen to ruqyah by Mishary Rashid daily. It helps to remove effects of nazar and other evil things. Please do also look into your diet and improve gut health as there is a strong connection between mental health and gut health. Lastly, reach out for either mental health therapy or as Ahmed Ali Butt suggested, talk things out with some good friend or family member. You are a very strong girl and in sha Allah you will come out of this pitfall soon. Prayers for your health and happiness.
Hr kisi ko mukammal jahan nhi milta... Kahien zameen tou kahien asmaan nhi milta... Allah ap ko sehat de dil aur demagh ka sakun de... Ameen... Life is a test bas Allah sb k liye asaniyan kary ameen
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
So sad to hear all her interview.So emotional.May God give her complete health.Watch her mini series during Ramadan and can never imagine. What she is going through
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
I am.just crying I can feel ur pain bkuz I am in the same boat I know how we ppl are we are emotional and concerned about everyone and everyone's feeling and emotion ppl like us think about each and every detail
i just crieddd and criedddd during your sepression story and totally relateable buttt struggling is hard you have no one to tell except allah cz no one can understand and due to financial issues you cant manage therapist
Great podcast! This is the first time I’m watching your podcast Ahmed Sahab and are phenomenal. Saheefa you are very powerful. It is not easy to tell the truth. May Allah heal your pain and guide you in your matters. Please take professional help. Get rid of the antidepressants from your life please. I would suggest to live close to your mom, dad and husband. It’s your loneliness. Maybe you are craving your dad to be close to you and your husband. Do take professional help, please. The doctor of your that helped you I’m sure she should be accessible through email. Talk to her to recommend a good therapist/ maybe a psychiatrist for you. God bless you and your family. Prayers for you
This was an awesome podcast! I have not seen your work Chica… but you are one hell of a strong trooper! I only wish and send you the best of positive vibes and may your heat always be so crystal clear clean!! And one last thing… Go workout!!!!!! I am extremely lazy and have 1001 reasons on WHY I SHOULD NOT go the gym but it’s totally worth it. If not gym, then do aqua workout or go running… it will help with the mind. I speak from experience, I can somewhat understand your mindset. Take care of yourself and I hope you keep a journal of your journey …
Also forgot to add, I felt your pain and cried with you as you were taking, hence I believe with proper care and support and willpower to get through all this you can do it!!
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
Butt Sahb thank you so much for this podcast. You are one of the hosts who let their guest be comfortable, express themselves the way they want, you provide a comfortable environment.
Ahmed bhi, I LOVED DA WAY U CONDUCTED IT. APKI SB SY ACHI BAAT YA HY U LET UR GUEST SPEAK. AND U ONLY INTRPT WHN ITS NEEDED. THIS IS SUMTHING I HV SEEN IN NAEEM BUKHARI,DILDAR BHATTI, ZIA SAHAB AND NOW IN U MASHAllah
Allah bless her & make her healthy inshallah. Ahmad did an amazing job listening to her, showing concern, being empathetic and lined his questions very carefully. 👍🏻
It is heartbreaking to know that the people we see always laughing are sometimes the ones fighting just to exist.. may Allah grant her a very good mental physical financial and spiritual health.. it takes a lot of courage to open up..
Ouff this really pulled on my heart strings. My only advice would be- please go to regular therapy. Keep searching until you find a good one. Healing of the mind is very important. You can only go as far as your health allows you to and you have to prioritize yourself. Seek a psychiatrist. Lots of prayers love and well wishes for you ❤
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
Very nice interview glad you interviewed Saheefa she is a really nice soul i really pray that she gets out of her illness & please start gym it will help you in sha Allah. 😊
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
kia kamal example thi "4 taanko wali", i got to know you from Pakwheels videos, jo ap ne apnay husband ki baat ki hai na kay woh her cheez ma se optimistic pehlu pehlay sochtay hain, Kamal!! Allah apki sari parayshanian door karay or khush rakhay. jis tarhan ka apko banda mila hai depression ho to us ko jakay hug kar len i am sure he will take care of you!
@@liza-us8mz3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
I can feel her because i was in same situation from back two years but alhamdulillah now i am good By the will of allah and i strongly control my thoughts So please consider this is as a disease
Depression is so hard some time you are just done with your brain and body and difficult to control yourself and the words hit me was whe talked about his depression and people reply with Islamic quotes ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Wow, Butt Sab Mash Allah, I have to admit, I'm usually not one to sit through anything over 10 minutes long-even my own videos! My kids always tease me about it, claiming it's a challenge to watch anything with papa. But this podcast? I watched the whole thing and thoroughly enjoyed it. Your hosting skills and the engaging presence of Ms. Saheefa really made the show shine. Hearing about what she's going through was heart-touching. May Allah grant her Shiffa-e-Kamila. Ameen. Butt Sab, keep up the great work, and may success continue to follow you. Ameen.
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
I am crying after watching this video😢 ahmed bhai ur great MASHALLAH ap bhut achay se samjhtay hain 😊 saheefa ur personality is very nice ALLAH apko sehat de himmat de AMEEN ❤❤❤
The only reason she suffered from depression is because she was away from her husband. The only cure for her is to be with him. Why do meds?? If you know the reason for your illness, you don’t need meds. Sort out the reason.
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
Loved all ur podcast BUT this 1 was heartwrenching Saheefa is such a paaroo jaano bachi Wish her great happy healthy long life Butt sahab plz take her to Khuwaja sahab hope he can help her
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
Main bhi depression se guzri hu or meray husband bilkul bhi supportive ni thy, or 2 bachy bhi akely dusry room mein le kr sona prta tha, yani soti bhi akeli thi, ek bhai or bhabi aye kuch time rehny or phr koi ni aya, khud hi apny apko sambhala k joi ye na kahy k ye to pagal ho gai ha
Good job spreading awareness on depression. May Allah give you complete shifa. I liked host being a good listener and supportive and not crack jokes and change track.
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
Yar kafi real Bola hy. Aik baat hy k yeh depression selfmade hy ya waqai real disaster ya loneliness...priorities set karyn..but paisa nahi hona chaye priorities.
you are such a well-mannered girl I hope and pray you will get over your condition soon. Try to find happiness in yourself ,you have talent and MashaAllah good husband (Allah nazar se mehfooz rakhey) an amazing mother in law and you yourself is amazing.Quran does help Surah Fatiha has shifa read regularly and surah yaseen has sukoon start your day with surah yaseen InshaAllah your days will get better and better .
Jitna ho skta ha Allah k qareeb ho jaen....surah Rehman listening key ha depression ko dour krny ki... proper trha sy sunen... Allah ny hmenn jis nature py paida kia ha r sb sy bra truth yh ha k ebadat k liyae paida kia ha r bht temporary life ha hamari.. 1 na 1 din wapis Allah sy ja k milna ha... tw jb hm koi b asa kam krty han Jo Allah sy dour kry Deen main galat ho tw depression ata ha r hmen pta hota ha k hm yh galat kr rhy...phr hm khud ko justification dety k nae yh tw 1 bemari ha... asa kuch nae ha.... main ny bht depression dekha ha... blky aj tk dekha mgr muhy pta ha k main kahan galat hn Allah k samny... tw jb jb Allah sy taluq jora dil ko skoon aya...❤ jb aye he Allah k pass sy han r at the end jana he Allah k.pass ha tw zid chor den and submit yourself before Allah's will.....werna kbhi depression nae khtm hoga jb tk life apni merzi sy guzarna chahen gy
I was going through a tough time, but I have learned to distract myself. There are relationships in life for which you may blame yourself or simply miss, but life must go on. I must say that the ten-day of Ahtikaf changed my life
Sahifa is brave that she is getting on with her life. We are all proud of her and hope she learns the best way to live with this disease and get on with her life
Saheefa may Allah bless with peace and health... you are very brave that you are sitting here and talking about your mental health.... I started thinking about my mental health after listening to u and how I deal with my stresses...
Distraction will not help. It is about not letting it go. Let free your self and let other be free. Love them but do not possess them. You will be freed.
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
Happy to hear your opinion on TikTok and RUclips channel. I never get it why people with good or informative content get less reviews than no content videos
I am also suffering from the same situation but don't know the reason but one thing I found that the people who are sensitive and more curious and deep thinker they always suffer from such disease 😢😢😢😢😢
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
What a beautiful podcast saheefa you are such’a brave girl i found so much strength in your conversation!! And Ahmed bhai what a beautiful advice you gave her ❤️🥹
Great topic, I think in Pakistan we lack serious education on this disease. I got educated on this topic when i moved to abroad. No one explain/teach us about family life. A girl/wife is valunerable pre & post child birth. Sacrifying a career/education after marriage could be periodically hurt with bad feelings. Kids can also fall into depression.
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
Ammazing conversation b/w 2 intellectual.Namaz Quran do matter n help to cure depression...لاحول ولاقوۃ الاباللہ and suratul duha are the best therapies for depression
I loved it Saheefa you are so strong never give up MashaAllah you are so lucky just hold Allah strongly that is it and you have A lot of prayers hope soon you feel better May Allah give you a strong and healthy Life Amern
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
Butt sahb this was the best podcast, very brave of her to speak up on such issue and open her soul for many others who don't say much about mental health. Bravo 👏
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.?? 27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain....... 1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
I went through Postpartum Depression because of my toxic in-laws and my husband's behavior. I was on the verge of harming my 6 month old baby but my mom's Duas & Surah Dhuha made me stronger day by day & ALHUMDULILAH ALHUMDULILAH today I'm doing well. I took therapies and our baby's presence made my husband realize his mistakes. Alhumdulilah, I'm in a much better place now. So time heals & Quraan also helps us in every way.
Kindly tell me best therapist?
@@umb7088 Mein abhi b parhti hun. Jab kabi overthinking Karti hun ya past ki baatein yaad aati hain tou Surah Dhuha parhne lag jaati hun. Kabi 5 dafa, kabi 8 dafa. There's no specific number.
LISTENING AND READING TO QURAN REALLLY REALLLY HELPS..
Listening to surah Ad-Duha alot and surah Rehman helps soooo much.. wese tow pura Quran e shifa hai.. but these two surah are my fav.. Makes one feel sooo relaxed and really cures
@@harismuhammad8240dr Sadia ZAHRA
I cried while hearing your story . Yaar , it is a a disease just like Blood pressure , diabetes . It needs proper treatment . Guys it is real . I lost my nephew due to this illness ( Although he was under treatment ) Big hand to Saheefa for speaking out .
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Cried watching this . I don’t understand why people don’t understand clinical depression is real! Mashallah saheefa’s bond and love with husband is an example even with hard times they comfort and support each other. May Allah keep you both happy and together forever.
How does she support him ?? Only She is making him support her...
I had a similar condition 32 years ago and didn't know what was going on with me. 18 months I was untreated and was in very miserable condition. Please listen all, THERE ARE SO MANY TYPES OF DEPRESSION SO DON'T LISTEN TO ANYONE GO STRAIGHT TO A GOOD PSYCHIATRIC WHO CAN DETERMINE WHAT KIND OF DEPRESSION YOU ARE PASSING THROUGH. MEDICATION IS a MUST, RELIGION AND OTHER ASSISTANCE HELP BUT DEPRESSION NEVER GOES AWAY WITHOUT MEDICATION.
Thanks to Allah after 10 years of medication I am Alhamadulillah fine.
Saheefa you are MA very pleasant and I pray Allah bless you with happiness, stay blessed.
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
I just accidentally started watching this and didn't know when I finished it. It was an amazing interview . I wish people who are suffering and don't share , will learn a lesson and immediately seek help from a professional. Well done Ahmad . And Sahifa im impressed by your honesty. Be strong God help you dear girl .Ameen
Not even a single min I skiped.....yahi faida ha honest logon ka.very positive sole....Allah sahat da amin
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
I really appreciate how Ahmed gave her the platform to talk - he didn't try to pretend he knew what she's going through. ❤
agree and didn't make any jokes etc
@@anz_taqi3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
Depression is so hard, i went through it for so many years, but now that i overcame it, OMG i realise that what a dangerous thing it is!! it COMPLETELY warps your view of the world and yourself and there is NOTHING that can remove those feelings. its just time that makes it go away, if youre lucky. at least thats what happened with me! Saheefa best of luck, youre doing so good and youre being so strong. Wish you all the best.
Sis how did u overcome this horrible thing..currently suffering from it, my life has turned upside down, i have children and i cant even look after them or the house...😢
@@yasminahmed7151dear sister in this journey the only one who can help you is you❤I have been through it 😢many times.Subha uthty hi shukr.. jaisy hi koi negative khayaal aye change your focus right there .Change your place and promise yourself you will not let your thoughts take control of your body.Sirf shukrguzaari py focus karain tu within a week or do your brain will rewire too InshaAllah
Wish u best health saheefa
Apart of distractions, any medicines helped u for time being ?
@@aroojnaeemk12003:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
She's so polite and well mannered girl i just loved the way She's talking bout mental health which is exactly exist a really bad disease, I'm really suffering these days i feel so empathise and feels so energetic after hearing her Alhumdillah thanks to butt sahab for inviting her on his show, ❤
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
Dear saheefa im amazed at ur honesty and willingness to open up to the world about ur struggles.
As a parent however hard it is to see my child hurting, i will be crushed if my child didnt share his issues with me. So please be grateful for ur parents, brother and husband and let them help u.
U r not alone.
Depression is a disease u need to treat . If ur throat,stomach is sick u take it to the dr, similarily if ur brain is sick u must take it to the dr.
Best wishes
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
I didn't skip a second of this podcast Saheefa is so well spoken and pretty I can't resist watching her. ❤Worst part of depression is you look normal outside and dead from inside I hope you get out of this situation very soon and everyone suffering from this may heal Ameen ❤
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
Your interview makes me cry, my younger sister ( 16 year) has anxiety she weng and is going through alot. I've always been their for her. Whenever whereever she called me , I reached home within hour. She was doing for us for our parents but eventually she realize that she has to do it for herself because noone on earth makes her feel good unless she do it for herself.
Thing which you said that you regret for making your parents and husband going through it. She always tells me the same. But you've to realize that seeing you crying and talking and involving us in your pain is more relieving for us then to go by yourself through it and then call us oneday in detoriated state. Just allow everyone of your family member to share your pain and struggle. You'll see change.
My sister theraptics is doing great for her too 💕.
Stay blessed.
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
Butt sb Top episode again. Saheefa jabbar khattak was really candid, honest and unfiltered. I loved the way she respects her husband and the way she say khawaja sb, all girls should learn from her. And all boys should learn from khawaja sb, i become a fan of saheefa and superfan of khawaja sb. Well done 👍
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
Me, a strong macho alpha by nature fell into the worst kind of depression 4 years ago. Suffered a lot, faced it alone, without therapies, without medication, without ny wife and children knowing abt it. Got isolated in a different room for 4 long years.
Out of it now for the last 1 year. Oh hell, it was so haaard but i have come up stronger, Literally rose for the ashes. I wish saheefa a natural recovery and never face it again. Love❤❤❤
How u recovered???
How did u recover?
@@lenosuz6360 I will write abt the journey in a very effective way for you very soon. Please keep reminding me unless I do it.
@@MegaMakeup121 will write abt it very soon.
@@blackswan5830still waiting
Salam, i want to say that i didnt like her at beginning at all because of her bold dressing and other things but after this Podcast i starting love her.she is a beautiful soul.i think i have also depression but its not so severe like her.i wish you a happy healthy life and i pray for you inshaAllah you will gain your peace of mind and happiness.plz also pray for me too.Everyone of us leading a difficult life , so PLZ love and respect each other and dont mis judge anyone by their dressing or life style.Allah knows better.so please spread love only🙏
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
I was crying when I heard what saheefa went through , I’ve been through this , when I was a very little kid , it’s the worst feeling , not many people know about this , it takes a whole lot of courage to say this infront of people
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
NO ONE CAN RELATE TO YOUR PAIN AND SUFFERING SAHEEFA BUT YOU ARE A CHEETAH AND A SHAIRNI OF A KIND SISTER MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU ALWAYS AMEEN
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
I'm a doctor by profession, and I live in Canada. I have had depression and anxiety for the past 25 years. But now I have learned how to handle specifically panic attacks. I'm from Quetta, Pakistan. Persian speaking.
I am going through the same. Breathing therapy and cold water showers are helping me. It is very hard. I know it's easy to say "Be Brave" but we have no other choice. You are a very strong woman. Stay strong. Love from Canada. You are a very good actor and beautiful soul.
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
Hi, it is very good interview. Saheefa me apsy kehna chahti hu k kia apny kbi thyroid ka test krwaya hy aksar depression ki boht bre waja thyroid b hoti hy. I have gone through this. I was taking medication of thyroid, but still it was messing up with my head.
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
this is conversation was so raw! so heart-wrenching!!!!
ahmed bhai is a great great man when he said that canada gya bhaar mein apna khyaal rkho🤌🏻
One of the finest Host and Human being is Ahmed Ali Butt. The empathy the strength to listen others n feel it is phenomenal.
Words are less for ALB.
The best of the best shows 🎉🎉🎉🎉
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
I’ve been suffering through depression since 2011 and it seems a never ending battle… no one understands you and all they say is ‘tumhari life mai toh sab theek hai,positive soncho’bla bla but they don’t know what it is to live with a mental health issue … l relate to you 100%😢
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
I don’t know you it was first time listening to your story 😢 I pray from deepest heart that may Allah heal you! Please please stay with ur loved ones!! If you can’t be with your husband now please stay with your parents ! Please 🙏🏻 I hope u find peace and may your heart heals !!
I don’t watch many drama serials so was not sure who you were until I watched you on Green recently. What a fantastic woman you are, hats off for being so incredibly honest and raw. Allah keep you healthy and give you happiness.
Was a nice interview and your friendship came through beautifully. Well done Ahmed, dua’s for you both.
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
Saheefa you are much more stronger than you think. My advice would be to let go of your past. Forgive yourself and have yaqeen that Allah has Forgiven you so you don't need to hold on to anything that hurts you. You have inspired so many people qho suffers from depression and anxiety so don't be too harsh on yourself. May Allah protect you from evil eye. Ameen
And Ahmed Ali butt 👍for this podcast. Thank you
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
اللّٰہ آسانی کا معاملہ کروا دے ۔
I would like to learn more of her experiences ... Kindly inform when & where to get to talk to the guest ..
Best podcast ever , all i can say your husband should be with you , earning money , education anything is secondary life comes first ,emotional support at this stage of your life is important .you need your loved once around you in this situation.
Why should he earn money or get education?? She should be the one doing all that
The first podcast I've ever watched!
The best conversation between the host and guest, loved every bit of it.
The best podcast ❤️
Lots of love to Saheefa and lots of Respect to Ahmed Ali butt for putting it with so decency 👍🏻👏🏻
This was such a good interview. More more more power to you Saheefa. Ahmed just treated her like a chid and gave her serious advices. So hood to see both of you talk about mental health issues. Looking forward to see her more work. You goo gurl. Much more to achieve and conquer. ❤
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
Yaar, she's so sweet I spoke to her once through a friend here in hong kong, listening her story makes me so sad for her... Yeh anxiety meray sath b huiii hai. N abhi b uskay asraat hain..
I cried my heart out saheefa!!! Sending tons of prayers your way. You are such a precious soul baby!! Please take care of yourself. ❤❤❤
They both went thru their most inside stories and talked their heart out.
very knowledgeable podcast.
I watched first podcast of pakistani youtube channel .
my first experience is so nice . thankt to both of you .
Love from India ❤❤
Unfortunately i have read very degrading comments on clips from this podcast circulating on social media.
Its my request to limit comments please. Saheefa is struggling with mental health issues and she is vocal about it. We dont need to dampen her spirit and create more problems for her.
Buht asaan ha anjan ban ke aik mean comment ker dena
Afsos ha apni qaum per jo sirf aik dusray ko nuqsan pohnachana main lagi ha
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
I saw this interview and understood that I’m going through something similar and the hardest part is that no one is able to understand what I’m going through . If I tell my husband something he says the same thing k namaz Padho sab theek hojayega…. I’m constantly trying to make his understand my situation but I’m not able to do so …
A Virtual hug for saheefa. May Allah ease her pain. She may already have, but she needs to find if something triggers her emotions and work on it. Very emotional episode. Agree with her there are some profession's which comes from heart, don't become therapist, nurse or doctors if you don't have a heart.
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
Dear girl take Ignatia 30 homeopathic remedy every day at maghrib. InshAllah you will feel better. Start surah rahman listen to it after fajr may Allah bless you in abundance. Ameen see a good homoeopath. There are remedies for depression in homeopathy
Yes
Ignatia 30
@@salehaali1003:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
@@Logicalsane , excuse me I just
Told her to ignatia homeopathy. And I got a full lecture.
Like anything 😡
thank you soo soo soo much Ahmad Bhai and Saheefa for sharing this podcast, both of your stories which are same in a way, would be a great assistance for sufferers and motivation to confront such situations in their lives with courage. literally, it is giving me this emotional touch that I can't express in words......again thank you, and bless you!
What was her channel name? Can't find any
Much respect for Saheefa! Takes a lot of courage to share such personal issues.
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
May Allah bless her with true happiness. Listen to ruqyah by Mishary Rashid daily. It helps to remove effects of nazar and other evil things.
Please do also look into your diet and improve gut health as there is a strong connection between mental health and gut health.
Lastly, reach out for either mental health therapy or as Ahmed Ali Butt suggested, talk things out with some good friend or family member.
You are a very strong girl and in sha Allah you will come out of this pitfall soon.
Prayers for your health and happiness.
It takes lots of courage to speak your personal life. Thanks Butt Sahab for this interview. This will help lot of ppl.
Hr kisi ko mukammal jahan nhi milta... Kahien zameen tou kahien asmaan nhi milta... Allah ap ko sehat de dil aur demagh ka sakun de... Ameen... Life is a test bas Allah sb k liye asaniyan kary ameen
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
So sad to hear all her interview.So emotional.May God give her complete health.Watch her mini series during Ramadan and can never imagine. What she is going through
Can you share the link of it?
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
I am.just crying I can feel ur pain bkuz I am in the same boat I know how we ppl are we are emotional and concerned about everyone and everyone's feeling and emotion ppl like us think about each and every detail
i just crieddd and criedddd during your sepression story and totally relateable buttt struggling is hard you have no one to tell except allah cz no one can understand and due to financial issues you cant manage therapist
Great podcast!
This is the first time I’m watching your podcast Ahmed Sahab and are phenomenal.
Saheefa you are very powerful. It is not easy to tell the truth. May Allah heal your pain and guide you in your matters. Please take professional help.
Get rid of the antidepressants from your life please. I would suggest to live close to your mom, dad and husband. It’s your loneliness. Maybe you are craving your dad to be close to you and your husband. Do take professional help, please. The doctor of your that helped you I’m sure she should be accessible through email. Talk to her to recommend a good therapist/ maybe a psychiatrist for you.
God bless you and your family. Prayers for you
This was an awesome podcast! I have not seen your work Chica… but you are one hell of a strong trooper! I only wish and send you the best of positive vibes and may your heat always be so crystal clear clean!! And one last thing… Go workout!!!!!! I am extremely lazy and have 1001 reasons on WHY I SHOULD NOT go the gym but it’s totally worth it. If not gym, then do aqua workout or go running… it will help with the mind. I speak from experience, I can somewhat understand your mindset. Take care of yourself and I hope you keep a journal of your journey …
Also forgot to add, I felt your pain and cried with you as you were taking, hence I believe with proper care and support and willpower to get through all this you can do it!!
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
Butt Sahb thank you so much for this podcast. You are one of the hosts who let their guest be comfortable, express themselves the way they want, you provide a comfortable environment.
Ahmed bhi, I LOVED DA WAY U CONDUCTED IT. APKI SB SY ACHI BAAT YA HY U LET UR GUEST SPEAK. AND U ONLY INTRPT WHN ITS NEEDED.
THIS IS SUMTHING I HV SEEN IN NAEEM BUKHARI,DILDAR BHATTI, ZIA SAHAB AND NOW IN U
MASHAllah
Allah bless her & make her healthy inshallah.
Ahmad did an amazing job listening to her, showing concern, being empathetic and lined his questions very carefully. 👍🏻
It is heartbreaking to know that the people we see always laughing are sometimes the ones fighting just to exist.. may Allah grant her a very good mental physical financial and spiritual health.. it takes a lot of courage to open up..
Ouff this really pulled on my heart strings. My only advice would be- please go to regular therapy. Keep searching until you find a good one. Healing of the mind is very important. You can only go as far as your health allows you to and you have to prioritize yourself. Seek a psychiatrist. Lots of prayers love and well wishes for you ❤
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
Very nice interview glad you interviewed Saheefa she is a really nice soul i really pray that she gets out of her illness & please start gym it will help you in sha Allah. 😊
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
kia kamal example thi "4 taanko wali", i got to know you from Pakwheels videos, jo ap ne apnay husband ki baat ki hai na kay woh her cheez ma se optimistic pehlu pehlay sochtay hain, Kamal!!
Allah apki sari parayshanian door karay or khush rakhay. jis tarhan ka apko banda mila hai depression ho to us ko jakay hug kar len i am sure he will take care of you!
I really appreciate what Butt bhai said, Canada jaye bharr main . . . . Really very intelligent and honest piece of advice.
It's so informative thanks to her. We pray for her. Please meet with Dr Javid surha Rehman waly. Stay blessed
Such a beautiful soul.may Allah bless her with complete health n happiness
Aameen
@@liza-us8mz3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
Mr Ahmed sounds more sensible, and he somehow figured it out. I hope In sha Allah one day sahifa made herself enough strong to leave this dark phase ❤
I can feel her because i was in same situation from back two years but alhamdulillah now i am good
By the will of allah and i strongly control my thoughts
So please consider this is as a disease
Depression is so hard some time you are just done with your brain and body and difficult to control yourself and the words hit me was whe talked about his depression and people reply with Islamic quotes ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
1:18:40 best advice. I also do workout which calms me down.
Wow, Butt Sab Mash Allah,
I have to admit, I'm usually not one to sit through anything over 10 minutes long-even my own videos! My kids always tease me about it, claiming it's a challenge to watch anything with papa.
But this podcast? I watched the whole thing and thoroughly enjoyed it. Your hosting skills and the engaging presence of Ms. Saheefa really made the show shine.
Hearing about what she's going through was heart-touching. May Allah grant her Shiffa-e-Kamila. Ameen.
Butt Sab, keep up the great work, and may success continue to follow you. Ameen.
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
I am crying after watching this video😢
ahmed bhai ur great MASHALLAH ap bhut achay se samjhtay hain 😊
saheefa ur personality is very nice ALLAH apko sehat de himmat de AMEEN ❤❤❤
The only reason she suffered from depression is because she was away from her husband. The only cure for her is to be with him. Why do meds?? If you know the reason for your illness, you don’t need meds. Sort out the reason.
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.......
Loved all ur podcast BUT this 1 was heartwrenching
Saheefa is such a paaroo jaano bachi
Wish her great happy healthy long life
Butt sahab plz take her to Khuwaja sahab hope he can help her
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
Main bhi depression se guzri hu or meray husband bilkul bhi supportive ni thy, or 2 bachy bhi akely dusry room mein le kr sona prta tha, yani soti bhi akeli thi, ek bhai or bhabi aye kuch time rehny or phr koi ni aya, khud hi apny apko sambhala k joi ye na kahy k ye to pagal ho gai ha
Good job spreading awareness on depression. May Allah give you complete shifa.
I liked host being a good listener and supportive and not crack jokes and change track.
I salute you sir for your kind conversation with her , hoping she finds strength with each new day. Amen
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
Yar kafi real Bola hy. Aik baat hy k yeh depression selfmade hy ya waqai real disaster ya loneliness...priorities set karyn..but paisa nahi hona chaye priorities.
you are such a well-mannered girl I hope and pray you will get over your condition soon. Try to find happiness in yourself ,you have talent and MashaAllah good husband (Allah nazar se mehfooz rakhey) an amazing mother in law and you yourself is amazing.Quran does help Surah Fatiha has shifa read regularly and surah yaseen has sukoon start your day with surah yaseen InshaAllah your days will get better and better .
Jitna ho skta ha Allah k qareeb ho jaen....surah Rehman listening key ha depression ko dour krny ki... proper trha sy sunen... Allah ny hmenn jis nature py paida kia ha r sb sy bra truth yh ha k ebadat k liyae paida kia ha r bht temporary life ha hamari.. 1 na 1 din wapis Allah sy ja k milna ha... tw jb hm koi b asa kam krty han Jo Allah sy dour kry Deen main galat ho tw depression ata ha r hmen pta hota ha k hm yh galat kr rhy...phr hm khud ko justification dety k nae yh tw 1 bemari ha... asa kuch nae ha.... main ny bht depression dekha ha... blky aj tk dekha mgr muhy pta ha k main kahan galat hn Allah k samny... tw jb jb Allah sy taluq jora dil ko skoon aya...❤ jb aye he Allah k pass sy han r at the end jana he Allah k.pass ha tw zid chor den and submit yourself before Allah's will.....werna kbhi depression nae khtm hoga jb tk life apni merzi sy guzarna chahen gy
I was going through a tough time, but I have learned to distract myself. There are relationships in life for which you may blame yourself or simply miss, but life must go on. I must say that the ten-day of Ahtikaf changed my life
Sahifa is brave that she is getting on with her life. We are all proud of her and hope she learns the best way to live with this disease and get on with her life
Saheefa may Allah bless with peace and health... you are very brave that you are sitting here and talking about your mental health.... I started thinking about my mental health after listening to u and how I deal with my stresses...
Distraction will not help. It is about not letting it go. Let free your self and let other be free. Love them but do not possess them. You will be freed.
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
what’s her youtube channel she was talking about?
Happy to hear your opinion on TikTok and RUclips channel. I never get it why people with good or informative content get less reviews than no content videos
Saheefa jabbar you are my sister always praying for your health and success.
ALLAH PAK SALAMAT RAKHAE
There are such people you can listen to them for hours and hours and Sahifa Jabbar Khattak is one of them.
Stay Strong Saheefa .... Allah will guide you through this .... just believe it
I am also suffering from the same situation but don't know the reason but one thing I found that the people who are sensitive and more curious and deep thinker they always suffer from such disease 😢😢😢😢😢
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
Absolutely love saheefa ❤️ and bhatt Saab please do more interviews like this! This is your best interview by far.
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
M also depressed but NAmaz helps me and now 80% recovery shukar ALHAMDULILLAH in months
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
What a beautiful podcast saheefa you are such’a brave girl i found so much strength in your conversation!! And Ahmed bhai what a beautiful advice you gave her ❤️🥹
Amazing story, she needs to have good support system which is missing in our society unfortunately
Allah pak both mehraban hai. Allah pak reham fermaye hum Saab pe Ameen sumameen ❤❤❤. Respect nd love for sahefa mam...
I loved 💕her transparency
Great topic, I think in Pakistan we lack serious education on this disease. I got educated on this topic when i moved to abroad. No one explain/teach us about family life. A girl/wife is valunerable pre & post child birth. Sacrifying a career/education after marriage could be periodically hurt with bad feelings. Kids can also fall into depression.
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
This is amazing, and you will be in my duas in sha Allah
Ammazing conversation b/w 2 intellectual.Namaz Quran do matter n help to cure depression...لاحول ولاقوۃ الاباللہ and suratul duha are the best therapies for depression
I loved it Saheefa you are so strong never give up MashaAllah you are so lucky just hold Allah strongly that is it and you have A lot of prayers hope soon you feel better May Allah give you a strong and healthy Life Amern
34:53 perfect example of ‘sinners judging sinners for sinning differently.’
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
Kya zabardast episode tha , so many appreciation for Saheefa for speaking on this issue
Hoping and praying that someday I'll see a podcast and she'll say that she has defeated depression and she's a happy and healthy person.
Butt sahb this was the best podcast, very brave of her to speak up on such issue and open her soul for many others who don't say much about mental health. Bravo 👏
Huge huge huge respect for the lovely mother in law…masha Allah
😍😍😍😍😍😍
Saheefa betay aap kay liye dil say boht si duaein 💕 Himmat rakho betay inshaAllah Allah apko boht jald boht khush kar dega apni rehmat say ❤️
3:32 that's so wrong and unfair to her poor father...why not the other way around like her mother stayed abroad alone and worked hard all the time but her father stayed home and enjoyed the comforts with children.??
27:13 she is propagating disgusting gender discrimination against men....imagine if a man said proudly k jootian larkio ko parti hain lekin larkay haath ka chaala hain.......
1:11:13 she's speaking against Khalil ur Rehman instead of supporting him... By her logic if a man is r@ping a woman and that woman tries to fight back by scratching him or tearing his shirt,etc then people should attack that lady for hurting that poor man without even thinking that what that poor man(r@pist) was doing to her first.........
You guys are so honest and so intelligent MashAllah