It's crazy that a man will literally tell you he doesn't want a relationship and women STILL go after them.. Lol he's literally telling you what it is upfront. If you get caught up in that, you can only blame yourself
That is exactly why I do not entertain men who have approached me because if I'm not interested I do not want to have them have high hopes of a future relationship with me. The best thing is to make it known that you are not available and that they should be pursuing somebody else instead.
As women we need to use wisdom to discern when we should walk away from relationships that would not benefit us. You are a young woman obtaining a postgraduate degree yet here you are pining over an incarcerated man, who will no doubt be limited in his job options which will make you the primary provider in your household. Do you genuinely believe that this is the best you can do? Or this is the spouse God has in store for you? Its so important to break soul ties to avoid confusion and attachment. Please remember that God is not a God of confusion and the mere fact that you have to wonder, should be answer enough. Close that door so God can open a new one.
Well said this women need to look at the big picture. GOD is not for mess and this will be messy. Also there will be issues with who the head of household will be because this woman will have to be the provider not a good look. Women got to learn that if ain’t right it’s not right and let it go.
“When a woman really loves a man, she’ll give the world her butt to kiss.” I can totally relate, as I insisted on marrying someone with significant baggage, and that brought on resistance and skepticism. But you couldn’t tell me anything about it at the time. The naysayers were right in the end, but still, their judgment was neither here nor there in how I handled my relationship with him. Plenty of reasons not to marry a man who is incarcerated. Other people’s feelings about it aren’t really one of them *if* she really believes he is worth marrying at all.
I'm sorry but that's not love.. it's stupidity and delusion.. if everyone is telling us the man ain't 💩 and our intuition is firing off red flags brighter than Forth of July.. than some is wrong with us and not them or the man.. something is wrong with our logic.. and men who ain't 💩 bet and bank on that.. not that we shouldn't embrace our emotional feminine nature, but there should be balence in embracing our masculine logical side by trusting our instincts.. this will keep us from staying in situations way longer than we ever should.. that is when you know you're truly trusting and speaking with God because he speaks thru our intuition and gives us strength to use discernment.
@@DivaDivine88 I think that you misunderstood. Love and marriage are separate things. Choosing to remain in relationship with someone or to marry them is a decision that can be made with or without love present. The point was not that she would marry him if she loved him, it was that her preoccupation with others’ opinions shows that she has little if any love for him, as their opinions about her relationship weigh more on her mind than any hope or potential she sees in a relationship with him.
@@AriD2385 nahh I understood everything he said just fine.. sometimes u should worry about what others say bc they are supposed to be neutral.. if they are trustworthy you should consider their opinions in some sense bc they aren't emotionally involved and they don't want the shame of their daughter being married to a criminal convict whose destine to likely provide nothing but struggle love and riticule to her.. yes u can marry someone without love and nice versa but she end of the day sometimes it's best to make head over heart decisions. Just bc I love someone doesn't mean they rt for you and just bec they "right for you on paper" doesn't mean you will love them ever.. love is objective and a fleeting bc it's a feeling.. more women need to move with logic and reason (especially black women) BC going on feels has gotten many women nothing but baby mama status and no generational wealth.. But thanks for your reply.
Mr, Gaskins! No man will do what you are doing! God surely will reward you! I'm proud of you Sir for helping us women! You're a caring man! Be blessed!
That’s RalTalk TG you broke that all the way down women needs to understand if you don’t truly like/ love that person don’t play with their hearts because women is good at telling a man don’t play with their heart but forget men have feeling too it most definitely go both ways.
Well Tony, since I'm 53yrs young, you are my young internet brother, whom I listen to & soak in all informative advice you have to offer! God is definitely using you as a vessel, flowing through your heart, to teach women of all races & ages. May God continue to strengthen & keep you and your family covered in the precious blood of Jesus!
The emotional stress animal but he’s a human being.. Took me out! I was in my car listening and almost had to pull over.. I was crying laughing 😭😭😭.. Keep up your work Tony.. We appreciate you ❤️
We do love hard. She may truly love that man. I was head over heels for a man I ran away from, simply because of my own up bringing, I ran when it was great too. Raised by a single mom who never dated while I was growing up. So I ran scared. Her worrying about the judgment is completely understandable as our society truly judges others harshly.
Tony can you do a video explaining the difference between “trying to change a man” vs allowing him to grow in certain areas (weight/ eating habits, communication, career advancement)
Just joined the Blessed tribe, I’m working on the three B’s and reading a womens influence. I’ve been watching your videos all year, I have a story, and you’ve helped me heal. Haven’t yet watched this video. But THANK YOU ! And thank GOD for what you’ve done in my life!! I just came to say that!
I listen to you and a couple other motivational speakers while working or cleaning and never stop to respond but had to stop in my tracks to say we appreciate you so much & yes the lord is so pleased ... you are one of a kind giving us your time on a Sunday away from your lovely wife and children & especially with FOOTBALL going ! 🙄😂 May you are your family be blessed forever more ! 🙏🏽
I appreciate all that you do Uncle Tony☺️💕🙏🏾 the “grease fire” part took me though😂😂 your videos really brighten up my day. May God continue to Bless You🙏🏾💕💕💕
Your videos..your videos 😂😂😂..I know this is draining but the way Mr. Tony makes it look easy is amazing. I just know it's the funny part of him that makes him do it.
Love the "talks with Tony" all three letters were great! This was so funny, I couldn't contain myself 🤣🤣🤣 What ever happened to the list of quotes we were writing down and saving? Are you still going to do something with that?
Have you dropped your phone in water lately? If so, it's probably got some water damage and is ghost dialing. Put it in rice (it works for me) or take it to a cell phone fix it place.
My boyfriend and the girl he was having a emotional affair with said in the emails its not the right time. Whixh makes me sad bout everything. I choose to forgive him . I still think he really liked her
How can parents accommodate their children's girl or boy friends? This doesn't make sense to me. Parents should never do that, specifically when their kids are so young. If you cannot afford to support a family, don't move together. This young lady's parents are also to blame.
Yea sis practice or not. Dont entertain someone telling u what it is. Pointless , our time is to precious fr. You said u watched the videos but it didn’t sound like it 😂
“This to all the women, if you don’t like a man, let that man go.” TG
My Mom told me the exact thing. Great teaching 👍❤️.
💯 Agree
“What in thee world”
Now I keep saying this too lol
“My goodness “ 🥴
🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Literally in Tony’s voice 😂😂
It's crazy that a man will literally tell you he doesn't want a relationship and women STILL go after them.. Lol he's literally telling you what it is upfront. If you get caught up in that, you can only blame yourself
Broken consciousness. Broken women are drawn to unavailable men.
That is exactly why I do not entertain men who have approached me because if I'm not interested I do not want to have them have high hopes of a future relationship with me. The best thing is to make it known that you are not available and that they should be pursuing somebody else instead.
As women we need to use wisdom to discern when we should walk away from relationships that would not benefit us. You are a young woman obtaining a postgraduate degree yet here you are pining over an incarcerated man, who will no doubt be limited in his job options which will make you the primary provider in your household. Do you genuinely believe that this is the best you can do? Or this is the spouse God has in store for you? Its so important to break soul ties to avoid confusion and attachment. Please remember that God is not a God of confusion and the mere fact that you have to wonder, should be answer enough. Close that door so God can open a new one.
Well said this women need to look at the big picture. GOD is not for mess and this will be messy. Also there will be issues with who the head of household will be because this woman will have to be the provider not a good look. Women got to learn that if ain’t right it’s not right and let it go.
Not Tony flashing that champion ship ring like that 😂😂😂😂 I can always count on him for a good laugh and a good sermon 😂🙌🏾🙌🏾
1:26 Prison love
17:54 Friends with benefits
24:42 Married a grown boy
37:21 Smart dater or playing with fire?
Just a whole lot of mess and GOD don’t bless no mess🤦🏽♀️
The way I was cracking up throughout this whole entire video. You are naturally hilarious! 🤣
Tony is so real and country in his videos. He’s always saying wait a minute y’all, I gotta turn down the heat. Lol! I love it!!
“When a woman really loves a man, she’ll give the world her butt to kiss.” I can totally relate, as I insisted on marrying someone with significant baggage, and that brought on resistance and skepticism. But you couldn’t tell me anything about it at the time. The naysayers were right in the end, but still, their judgment was neither here nor there in how I handled my relationship with him.
Plenty of reasons not to marry a man who is incarcerated. Other people’s feelings about it aren’t really one of them *if* she really believes he is worth marrying at all.
I'm sorry but that's not love.. it's stupidity and delusion.. if everyone is telling us the man ain't 💩 and our intuition is firing off red flags brighter than Forth of July.. than some is wrong with us and not them or the man.. something is wrong with our logic.. and men who ain't 💩 bet and bank on that.. not that we shouldn't embrace our emotional feminine nature, but there should be balence in embracing our masculine logical side by trusting our instincts.. this will keep us from staying in situations way longer than we ever should.. that is when you know you're truly trusting and speaking with God because he speaks thru our intuition and gives us strength to use discernment.
@@DivaDivine88 I think that you misunderstood. Love and marriage are separate things. Choosing to remain in relationship with someone or to marry them is a decision that can be made with or without love present. The point was not that she would marry him if she loved him, it was that her preoccupation with others’ opinions shows that she has little if any love for him, as their opinions about her relationship weigh more on her mind than any hope or potential she sees in a relationship with him.
@@AriD2385 nahh I understood everything he said just fine.. sometimes u should worry about what others say bc they are supposed to be neutral.. if they are trustworthy you should consider their opinions in some sense bc they aren't emotionally involved and they don't want the shame of their daughter being married to a criminal convict whose destine to likely provide nothing but struggle love and riticule to her.. yes u can marry someone without love and nice versa but she end of the day sometimes it's best to make head over heart decisions. Just bc I love someone doesn't mean they rt for you and just bec they "right for you on paper" doesn't mean you will love them ever.. love is objective and a fleeting bc it's a feeling.. more women need to move with logic and reason (especially black women) BC going on feels has gotten many women nothing but baby mama status and no generational wealth.. But thanks for your reply.
Well stated.
Mr, Gaskins! No man will do what you are doing! God surely will reward you! I'm proud of you Sir for helping us women! You're a caring man! Be blessed!
That’s RalTalk TG you broke that all the way down women needs to understand if you don’t truly like/ love that person don’t play with their hearts because women is good at telling a man don’t play with their heart but forget men have feeling too it most definitely go both ways.
Tony, Your gentle demeanor & compassionate tone on this one is commendable… seems very professional & without judgement 👏🏽 Thank You 🙏🏽
I soo agree
Well Tony, since I'm 53yrs young, you are my young internet brother, whom I listen to & soak in all informative advice you have to offer!
God is definitely using you as a vessel, flowing through your heart, to teach women of all races & ages. May God continue to strengthen & keep you and your family covered in the precious blood of Jesus!
The emotional stress animal but he’s a human being.. Took me out! I was in my car listening and almost had to pull over.. I was crying laughing 😭😭😭.. Keep up your work Tony.. We appreciate you ❤️
We do love hard. She may truly love that man. I was head over heels for a man I ran away from, simply because of my own up bringing, I ran when it was great too. Raised by a single mom who never dated while I was growing up. So I ran scared. Her worrying about the judgment is completely understandable as our society truly judges others harshly.
16:45...this, MAN!!!!! HOLLERIN!!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!
Tony can you do a video explaining the difference between “trying to change a man” vs allowing him to grow in certain areas (weight/ eating habits, communication, career advancement)
The Realest Coach , Tony tells su thng nobody is willing to tell us thank you Tony G!!
Talks with Tony are the best!! 😊🙌
Just joined the Blessed tribe, I’m working on the three B’s and reading a womens influence. I’ve been watching your videos all year, I have a story, and you’ve helped me heal. Haven’t yet watched this video. But THANK YOU ! And thank GOD for what you’ve done in my life!! I just came to say that!
What a great way to start the New Year! Welcome to The Blessed Tribe! 🤗
Where can I learn about the the Bs? What are they?
@@niki-mars955 search Tony Gaskins 3Bs and press play ▶️
@@cherh Thank you, Sis. ❤
@@niki-mars955 welcome!
Tony, you are living out your dreams. Congrats on your national championship ring!
Lol I like how Tony stop reading to talk about something else lol, it’s entertaining 😂
Tony U are more than a champion, we need U, keep loving, teaching 🙏🙏🙏
I listen to you and a couple other motivational speakers while working or cleaning and never stop to respond but had to stop in my tracks to say we appreciate you so much & yes the lord is so pleased ... you are one of a kind giving us your time on a Sunday away from your lovely wife and children & especially with FOOTBALL going ! 🙄😂
May you are your family be blessed forever more ! 🙏🏽
Hey Tony blessing to you and your beautiful wife and boys. Great message.
I appreciate all that you do Uncle Tony☺️💕🙏🏾 the “grease fire” part took me though😂😂 your videos really brighten up my day. May God continue to Bless You🙏🏾💕💕💕
I’m so happy Talks with Tony is back 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
We appreciate you Tony and value your feedback. Thank you for cutting into your football time frfr lol
Congratulations Mr, Gaskins! Beautiful ring!! Well deserved Sir!!
Your videos..your videos 😂😂😂..I know this is draining but the way Mr. Tony makes it look easy is amazing. I just know it's the funny part of him that makes him do it.
God, Bless Tony. 🙏🏽
You are a man amongst men! Answering questions while football games are on💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽.
You looking slimmer. Hope you keep up the fitness goals
Everything you have said Tony is right on point. Blessings to you and your family 🙏🙏🙏
Love it building champions…Congrats TG
Hi Tony, great lesson on Sunday…Will keep taking your Masterclasses!😇🙏🏿❤️
17:02 my brother makes those same goofy teasing sounds 😂😂🤣😂🤣
Lissenn nah 😂 uncle Tony is the best God bless you
Hi Tony!! I JUST wanted to tell YOU how RIGHT YOU are about feminine influence. I AM seeing HOW my influence is happening WITH my Tony.
Listening. Thanks Tony
Ms New Booty..Tony you got me in tears..Great questions tho!! Confirmation for me as well!! 😂 😂 Ty
😂😂😂😂 grl down.... DEAD
I really enjoy “Talks with Tony”. Didn’t realize how long it’s been on hiatus.
Your expressions are halarious
Thank you for keeping it always so real and straightforward. I learn so much from
Your videos always
Congratulations on your 🏆 championship! Amen! You go Tony Gaskins! !😊
Be Blessed
We so listen to exactly what you say.
Facts!!! Goin about your business!! God bless you Uncle. T
Praise God! Proof that working on the three B’s will get you the results you really want! Good for you sis 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
The Lord is pleased with you Tony 🙌🏾
Lol 🤣 @TonyGaskins ...you're hilarious
But you just made me laugh 😂 with that ring show 😂
Great advice🎯
I also am pleased with you… thanks so much
Not a grease fire !! 😫😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Love it! 🤣🤣
Big Brother Tony!! 💪🏾
Be Blessed 😊
Congratulations Bro Tony on your champion ring it's nice I love it. 💪🏿✊🏿🙏🏾❤️💍
🤦😂🤣 burnt 2 CRIZP! 🤣😂🤣😂
You are so funny Tony. When you stopped to talk about the football. 🤣🤣🤣
Doing that ring like that😂😂😂
I see a DISCLAIMER SECTION being included in Tony's videos❗🥰🥰🥰🤣🤣🤣
🤣🥇💍💯 16:58 That's Right Tony, CONGRATS!
...." ur videos...ur videos....ur videos..." 😂😂😂
Um we not marrying men in jail smh he needs to get out and prove that he can be a husband
Talks r back. Hey, what happened with the list we started last spring(March-May)?? Praise God we made it to 2022!!🙌🙌🙌
That’s what I was thinking. I ran across mine the other day
Work on yourself! Yes!
u work for it nice RING !!!
Love the "talks with Tony" all three letters were great! This was so funny, I couldn't contain myself 🤣🤣🤣
What ever happened to the list of quotes we were writing down and saving? Are you still going to do something with that?
I was wondering about that too. I still have the list
Bro Tony said he lost in the sauce lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣
You cannot make room to park a Mercedes-Benz when you you have a Hooptie parked in the driveway
Brother we preciate ya!!!! 🥴 “Put my cashapp in the comments.” 😂 Living a life of purpose but keeping it lighthearted!🙏🏽
She did that man so wrong 💔😭😩🥺
Yeah, I missed that class watching the game..😂 thank you for your service! 🙏🏾 but...
Rams vs Bengals Superbowl LVI 🏈
$TonyGaskins cash app 🤑
Have you dropped your phone in water lately? If so, it's probably got some water damage and is ghost dialing. Put it in rice (it works for me) or take it to a cell phone fix it place.
Great perspective!
This is for entertainment purposes only 😂😂😂😂
My boyfriend and the girl he was having a emotional affair with said in the emails its not the right time. Whixh makes me sad bout everything. I choose to forgive him . I still think he really liked her
Stop leading him on Sis. You never wanted him as a boyfriend. He is your fallback guy!
A grease fire? Lmaoooo I can’t stand you!
Rotisserie chicken!!😀
We appreciate you Tony for missing your football. Lol!!
Looks good
That happens to my phone like someone is touching it. Real weird
Not 🏝️Gilageena Island 🏝️ 😂😂😂😂
How can parents accommodate their children's girl or boy friends? This doesn't make sense to me. Parents should never do that, specifically when their kids are so young. If you cannot afford to support a family, don't move together. This young lady's parents are also to blame.
Ok Champ😂😂😂💪🏼
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂tony stopped dead n hus tracks its sunday the football game on and im answering email what n the world😂😂😂😂
Standards & Boundaries
Yea sis practice or not. Dont entertain someone telling u what it is. Pointless , our time is to precious fr. You said u watched the videos but it didn’t sound like it 😂
Rotisserie Chicken 🐔 😆
Where can i send my questions i need help too my situation is way more interesting
The way i laughed
What in the world 😂
How can I get to attend the masterclass?
🙏🏾🙏🏾
You reading the letter makes him sound like he’s manipulating her. Idk that’s just the vibe I get from it.
i mean she will give the ENTIRE WORLD A AZZ CHEEK!!!! He sounds like she is who she uses when she is single and alone.