You will have a PERFECT relationship if you do these 3 things: Paul Brunson

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  • Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
  • Relationship expert Paul Brunson reveals three simple ways you can improve your relationship.
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    Paul Brunson is the host of Married At First Sight, and a world-renowned expert on relationships and human connection. Paul spent many years wondering how to get people to love and accept each other, before realising he had to get them to love and accept themselves.
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Комментарии • 41

  • @OkunenSan
    @OkunenSan Год назад +15

    Paul looks as good as ever & his insights are great.

  • @earthairandselfcare
    @earthairandselfcare 6 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for not condemning gifts as a love language . I was the same lil girl. However that has changed now due to the fact most men feel they are being used for only material gain. But I evolved now I watch their manners and energy more now 🌹

  • @aracelivillanueva6427
    @aracelivillanueva6427 6 месяцев назад +22

    1. Love Language
    2.Relationships are always a bid.
    3. Intentional time together.

  • @zainabrose96
    @zainabrose96 7 месяцев назад +7

    What an intelligent guy Paul is!

  • @tspencer661
    @tspencer661 7 месяцев назад +9

    I love Gary Chapman’s books. I know there may not be any scientific evidence that they work, but taking your partner’s needs and feelings into consideration is a good thing for a healthy relationship.
    Dr. Willard Harley says that married couples should spend a minimum of 15 hours per week together, just the two of them. He talks about this concept in his books.

    • @leendecanck4723
      @leendecanck4723 7 месяцев назад

      15 hours. How is this possible when you have kids and work full time?

    • @clwt4075
      @clwt4075 6 месяцев назад

      @@leendecanck4723yes quite difficult.. can start with an hour a day.. and move up to 2 hours a day on average.

  • @howlbeast
    @howlbeast 7 месяцев назад +2

    10:03 it hit home
    10:53 “effort always equals interest”

  • @sueg4448
    @sueg4448 27 дней назад +1

    I’ve worked a little with teens and listening to their complaints about their parents I would tell them that the parent/parents are expressing their love through the way they were loved growing up or in their love language not their Childs love language. It’s important to know your children’s love language also.

  • @jacquelinemarypiper
    @jacquelinemarypiper 2 месяца назад +1

    Finding this so interesting and enjoying this guy's energy and wisdom BUT as a woman I have never, ever, wanted to share what happens during one of my dates with my female friends. Personally I can't think of anything worse. The last thing I want is everyone else's opinion clouding my view. Different strokes for different folks but its all good.

  • @bt7952
    @bt7952 Год назад +4

    Very good content and great interview!

  • @mageaunaturel
    @mageaunaturel 5 месяцев назад +1

    OMG, I'm laughing so much about the WA group and feedback on date. It is so true!!!! (I'm a Woman)

  • @faithglorytriumph
    @faithglorytriumph 7 месяцев назад

    Excellent content! 🌿

  • @MrApw2011
    @MrApw2011 7 месяцев назад +5

    I have never known anything at all about how any of my male friends behave in their relationships with respect to someone telling them something or asking them something. Do you really know your male friends behave that way or is that just speculation based on what everyone "knows"? For me, I have usually be the one trying to get some point across and not being heard so I'm not sure how you can make these generalized statements about men and women.

  • @constantinvasiliev2065
    @constantinvasiliev2065 5 месяцев назад

    (0:52) Probably it didn't occur to her that it might not have been not too different from her regular cooking :)

  • @TiaLei-e7c
    @TiaLei-e7c 7 месяцев назад +3

    What woman has ten friends lol? It’s strange how much I hear about men not having anyone to talk to when a lot of us don’t have this supposed community of confidants.

    • @nkolemwaba428
      @nkolemwaba428 7 месяцев назад +1

      I wonder the same thing

    • @hoodhippychick
      @hoodhippychick 7 месяцев назад +1

      I’m an 80s baby so maybe I’m a lot older than you? But I was literally sitting at a table with 12 women my sister, our cousins and friends all talking about our relationships. We were giving each other feedback and even two of them are in a lesbian relationship and they were asking us our opinion. We were laughing and having a great time but we gave each other feedback.
      I have three close friends that I tell all the details to but it can easily be that many folks I run my issues by. I wonder what is going on in your life where it’s difficult for you to connect to others and have a tribe? I’m sure you are cool and awesome to be around. 80s and 70s babies and earlier got cliques.

    • @TiaLei-e7c
      @TiaLei-e7c 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@hoodhippychick well I have lived in 4 time zones in 4 years but now that I am settled in one city hopefully I’ll be able to find friends but even still 10 seems more than necessary for my introverted self lol. And that’s great for you but based on every other 40 year old I know, most don’t have 10 friends except for the ppl I know who still live in our hometown and hangout with the same crew since high school. And by friends I mean people to really confide in, it’s easy to meet acquaintances to get brunch with occasionally.

  • @bcreative2772
    @bcreative2772 7 месяцев назад +1

    wow i didnt kniw men feel attacked by displays of emos and just want an easy life guess thats why i lost my love im very moody and emo darmn it

    • @ShyMplsMale
      @ShyMplsMale 7 месяцев назад +1

      Recognizing things we did to hurt others allows us to change and be better. Some people never recognize their faults so you're moving in the right direction 🙏

  • @GlobalFreeLiving
    @GlobalFreeLiving 8 месяцев назад +30

    I practice Tantra... the intention of Tantra is to be kind to your partner daily, do acts of kindness to your partner daily, and do what makes your partner happy, joyful, blissful daily.... focus, enhance & compliment the best of him or her daily. Super easy. I do this for people I love in general.
    My brother did an act of kindness for me yesterday.... he paid an extra $10 to the Hulu channel.... so, I can see Fargo without commercials. What a loving act of kindness! I was so so touched and felt much love from him. It is the little things.

    • @hoodhippychick
      @hoodhippychick 7 месяцев назад +1

      I love this!! And want to practice this with my partner and I do which he doesn’t reciprocate but I realize I have to practice this consistently with myself for it to work either others.
      You are super awesome and keep up the great work!!❤❤❤

    • @sparkyin3d
      @sparkyin3d 6 месяцев назад

      I love this! ❤thank you you !

  • @wizzysloungetitaure
    @wizzysloungetitaure Год назад +24

    Paul is one of the reasons l enjoy MafsUK. He definitely should have a podcast. A lot will benefit from it.

    • @wongiekandi5755
      @wongiekandi5755 17 дней назад

      I do too,,,I like his advice he is so genuine and very wise

  • @cawstongreenway
    @cawstongreenway Год назад +10

    Thanks for the potted version. Really interesting and look forward to the whole thing tomorrow.

  • @Detonator007
    @Detonator007 7 месяцев назад +2

    So it took 7 years to understand you were dealing with a child 👧 lol … joking

  • @constantinvasiliev2065
    @constantinvasiliev2065 5 месяцев назад +1

    (7:13) If her love language is gifts, you could expect to be regularly receiving gifts from her, too. If it's mostly one way, then it's either not her love language (and is simple gold digging) or it is her love language and she is telling you she doesn't love you. EDIT: He does mention her giving him gifts (7:50)

  • @neverhomeguideservice
    @neverhomeguideservice 3 дня назад

    Makes sense EXCEPT roles reversed here… my guy and all these feelings ughhh!

  • @flexkitten
    @flexkitten 7 месяцев назад +1

    Great information and I could listen to him all day long!

  • @crlns
    @crlns 7 месяцев назад +1

    3:47 😄

  • @Tokyo_Drift-k3u
    @Tokyo_Drift-k3u 3 месяца назад

    Date night while still married is very important. This is what keep the spark alive

  • @Tokyo_Drift-k3u
    @Tokyo_Drift-k3u 3 месяца назад

    The woman council must approve the outfit lol

  • @ralphy1989
    @ralphy1989 6 месяцев назад

    Don't find someone with bpd

  • @p.h.3987
    @p.h.3987 7 месяцев назад +1

    A huge heap of simplistic BS.

  • @LaitoChen
    @LaitoChen 7 месяцев назад +2

    Funny, the only love language American women understand is gold dogging, sorry gift giving 😂😂