I struggle with this video because whilst i agree with what is said, I feel I am the one who is isolated and alone, even though I'm fairly certain I haven't done anything to anyone, albeit I have 100% been on the receiving end of Narcs.
Right there with you. My covert narcissistic mother has alienated me from the extended family several times over. But like he says in the video it appears that the narcissist is winning but it's only temporary. Something I didn't know how badly I needed to hear as of this past month. You are in a temporary situation to some extent. For as the narcissists lies begin to unravel, those who were led blindly astray by those lies will see that they have made a grave miscalculation in who they gave their trust to. God has vindicated me time and time again behind the lies of my mother as well as others. I stay mostly to myself, I do what is right to the very best of my ability always, even when no one but God is watching. I am honest to a fault I am frequently told by most people I know or encounter. But because of my mother's tactics I knew she was very likely going to reach my kids with her lies which she claims more as assumptions. Either way she is wrong. But I knew that it would come to what it has with her turning my grown children on me. So I was especially sure that I told my kiss the truths no matter what it was or if it was "age appropriate" because I needed to be sure they heard the truth from me before they heard lies from anyone else. Even though it currently seems as though that honesty has suddenly eluded their memories and somehow twisted it in their minds that she was the honest one and I the deceiver. I know that at some point in the near future I will expose her truths, in the event God doesn't before she drives my youngest to the mad house again. Why 2 of my 3 sons can't see that it's her not me, especially with as tight as my bond was with my boys all their lives. They were all over 18 when she somehow managed to turn them. Only 1 saw through her rather quickly after that and came back to sit with mom so she wasn't alone as the other 2 continue to let her paint the narrative she wants rather than chose reality. A big motivation behind their choices is monetary and materialistic. She projects her false love by providing nice things and financial help etc. She buys her way in and makes it look like love from the outside. This has been one of my biggest fears for my children. Because I didn't tell them nearly enough of the realities that make up my childhood and most of my adult years so far. But I did teach them to be aware of her games and not to let them affect them personally and not to allow her twisting of reality distort their first hand reality. So I'm hoping that God gets through to her and exposes her and vindicates me soon as possible, so I don't have to fear it backfiring and causing more damage to my relationship with my boys rather than open their eyes to remember it always has been and always will be her at the center weaving webs of lies of the worst sorts. I realized that I would much rather be alone or isolate than to continue to waste my already severely limited energy supplies thank to her covering up, making excuses, denying and hiding what I now know is a serious sleep disorder that has greatly affected if not completely ruined my life at this late of a stage. All while punishing me for the things I wasn't able to do and she could clearly see I couldn't. Not because I didn't want to either, but that is the narrative she painted. But not just seeing me struggle horribly day in day out and punish me, but she also knew her mother and grandmother had very similar symptoms as I did and she didn't even remotely let on to that key factor until after I was finally diagnosed which was 2yrs after my grandmother died with complications of dementia. Something strongly tied to severe sleep deprivation as in cases with my illness. So I know now what I have to likely look forward to in my future. Had my mother not covered up my symptoms and instead made attempts to find answers and get me help and treatment my life would've gone a completely different direction and I could've had a more productive life and a successful career in medicine and/or mental health. But she sabotaged me to such a degree it has made getting adequate care and treatment for my condition literally impossible now. No Dr will give me the time of day. Between her constant rejection of me and the constant rejection and dismissal of hundreds of drs in some of the most advanced areas in the country for medical and mental health care has left me unable to work, broken in ways I have been able to mend and other ways I can't begin to figure out where to start. The excessive level of rejection anxiety I carry cripples me so effectively that I won't even bother making Dr appointments anymore and I just sit here and suffer to a large extent. But now she is targeting my youngest the way she did me and well that just isn't going to fly too far with me at all. I will be the suicide bomber than takes her flight down and crumbles the fake reality she has created all around her if God doesn't expose her first. Those are my kids. She had a lifetime to try and do things the right way. She isn't going to tote my babies to hell in a hand basket behind her. They are the only things I will ever hurt someone as bad as I could her behind. Don't toy with the eternal souls of my babies. Period. But God hasn't let me down on that front yet. I don't expect him to begin letting me down now. 🤞 hard and painful as it can be. Let God do what he does and the truth will set you free. ❤
Hazel, it IS a hard thing especially because our instinct is to stand up for ourselves, to the abuser and then also to those who've been told stories by that same abuser. Cast not your pearls before the swine my friend! Pearls being wisdom but then also, don't explain yourself. We are in an upside down world now, right is wrong etc etc. You know the situation, you've lived it and no one knows better the truth in that situation. God sees, Christ sees and the Holy Spirit will comfort you. Mourning the living is harder than mourning the dead. You eventually have closure with the dead but the living pile it on every day, even when you aren't speaking. They are cowards and liars. Who does that remind you of? That devil who seeks to kill and destroy. Be strong in your faith, stand in that place God has placed you and in Him you'll over come. You will always hurt, abuse shapes us for life and the only change over time is our natural response to put up more walls. Don't let the devil make it hard to love, or to be a giver when needed to others, we are still His and He is still our Father. Don't fail Him, because He deserves you and I and all others to show the difference He makes in our lives. Most people are damaged by this same abuse, which has caused the abused to be an abuser most times themselves; alcohol, drugs and other behaviors. It just shows that we are fighting a conniving enemy. He will get His due, you keep plugging along and when the enemy of you spirit comes, by any means, rebuke him and he must flee!
I walk away to my family everybody thinking that I'm the one at fault .I don't care whatever they said to me all I know I walk away because I can't fight my own family because they joint forces and no allies even I m expecting one of my kids will be staying on my side .but nobody and hurt .I walk away because I found my ex mask was fallen .I can see his true nature and my kids were the same .i was shocked and crying walking away .I don't know where to go ,no money ,no gas .but only God sees all this things .God help me find the way escape and provide ,protect and take care of me during my vulnerability .I found a job like a part time to sustain my everyday expenses.i found a ruined house nobody live there long time which I'm scared ,I'm alone ,no family .I just rented a room lot of small cockraches and mouses.i don't have no choice than to survive .I clean the house of course it's not perfect. But I see to it my room is orderly and clean. I started from there. Cleaning organizing and find ways to live alone .At first it's very challenging living alone but days ,months ,years come I became used to it and I don't need any body that will harm me I stay away ,good people I go friends .it's a wonderful journey that I can survive little by little with the help of God. Now rest is history .it's a very wonderful journey that God gave me a new life.Thank You Lord for everything you've done .I can testify that there's really God that will help everybody .I don't know about demons before how it appear now I realized I saw a demon in the flesh 37 years sleeping with the enemies
Even though this is AI, the message is encouraging. However, most psychologists will say a narcissistic cannot EVER change. But GOD & Scripture ARE more powerful than ANYONE, even a narcissist! May He grant strength, peace, comfort & victory to all of us who are under the wrath of a narcissist!! It’s indescribably vicious & relentless. Oh, how we need Jesus!!
Amen. God can heal. God is the righteous judge. Definitely he evil doers. Hope I get better from the mental and emotional abused. Forsure, they will see it makes no sense to be narcicist they will only hurt in the end.
@stephennelson1687 if a narcissist can never change, is your belief you'd have to be an atheist. In which case I pity you. My God can do whatever He chooses. Sometimes, He uses evil for good. His ways aren't subject to our approval or acceptance.
@@seeleygirl6178 actually they get worse with age, and therapy will not help. The only thing they will learn from therapy is to how to cover up their narcissism.
They may become jealous of others’ success or relationships and attempt to isolate those close to them while attacking their self-esteem through constant insult...and will sabotage any good deed.
Wow this is deep!! I have gone through craziness past 12 yrs plus and have over come so much!! I know God is here for me!! I’m working on forgiveness for husband I’m separated 12 yrs . Next step is stand up to him in court on my own and our son.
God has dealt with many throughout biblical history that were brought very low and some repented and were restored...God is just and answers the prayer of faith for deliverance from bondage and captivity...many who love and pray have seen God do this!
I would love to buy this in book form and give it as gifts. It's a testimony to GOD yet also explains a certain type of sinner. Thank you Jordan Peterson. Your own transformation has not went un-noticed dear Brother
Amen, very encouraging video. Many blessings to all of my brothers and sisters out there who have felt this anguish from these experiences. Many blessings to the years to come.
My husband and I have been victims of this through our youngest adopted daughter. Long story.....suffice it to say that she has a 4 year old daughter, born out of wedlock, lives off and on with the father, both over the past 6+ years have worked together to scam us of much money, we practically raised our grand daughter, but when we did not comply after bad experiences they would use her against us. Removing her for months at a time.....excruciating regarding our grand daughter, but we are learning to separate our selves from them. God understands we miss and love our grand daughter, but are helpless regarding her own well being.
This message is true I see the LORD CHANGING THE narcissist in my life. When i first began to notice some things my inclination was to RUN. RUN RUN. And the LORD TOLD ME NO. BE PATIENT AND WAIT. I had many many conversations with the LORD and he told me he is going to get better. AND HE HAS. THE put downs have stopped the verbal accusations have stopped. Picking fights to amuse himself has stopped. The tit for tat has stopped the threats and bullying has stopped. ALL THROUGHOUT THIS time the LORD HAS and continues to tell me to be patient and wait. And I will continue to be patient and wait!!!!!!!
I just discovered my significant other of 17 years is a vulnerable narcissist It has just flipped my world upside down it's evil on a hole new level thank u so much for posting this im still in shock and I'm in so pain but this helped me so much I understand what I must do
Hi Missy, I went through this same thing in January of this year. We were married for 21 years. I felt exactly the way you do today. I couldn’t eat, I cried all the time, I kept searching for answers as to why?, etc.. Today is 12/29, and I can honestly say that I am 95% better than I was on 1/14. So you will get to this point, I promise! What helped me the most is accepting the realization that he is sick and only he can fix what’s going on inside of him. His issues were not caused by me nor mine to deal with. We divorced in June. I am still working on building back my self esteem and it’s okay. I’m free now. I promise you will reach this point! Hang in there!! Hugs!
EVERYTHING I HAVE HEARD ABOUT NARCISSIST IS NEGATIVE AND HOPELESS. I JUST ASKED THE LORD. I KNOW YOU CAN CHANGE MENS HEARTS PAUL ME AND OTHERS HAVE BEEN CHANGED BY THE POWER OF GOD. THIS VIDEO POPPED UP WITH HOPE AND TRUTH. THE BIBLE IS CLEAR THAT GOD WILL VINDACATE AND TAKE VENGEANCE ON THE UNJUST. BUT HE ALSO OFFERS REPENTANCE. AMEN continue to trust in the LORD BE PATIENCEAND DO WHAT HE TELLS YOU TO DO!!!!!!!!!
No. God has never punished anyone. The cultural justice system delivered punishment. Did Shiva punishment you with the sword of destruction. Are you coming back in a lower form for being bad? There is no god
My covert narc husband was not revealed to me til he got parkensons / dementia. His family are full of narcs. God opened my eyes to him when needed. He tryed to take my income when he saw I was one to him. But than god god protected me
Wow Mr.Jordan, GOD is revealing much to you! Be blessed. GOD has given you an amazing mind and now may I pray even a new heart? Something is different or is in the process of being different. It's good. :). Much wisdom here.
Truth is powerful! I see it up close and personal and at large in our world of selfish self-absorbed heads of large man made institutions and "ministries."
Just Amazing ! This person Jordan Peterson is a true Gift to Humanity! His mastery of Religion , Psychology, and the English language is PERFECTION ! ❤
This just described everything we have been experiencing at our church under a very narcissistic pastor, who has caused endless harm and is now facing the exact reckoning described in this video in EVERY way!!! Its as if this was based on what has been our experience the last decade. We are near the end now. She is in the final stages of the consequences of her actions.
Thank you for this video. It encourages me to keep going. I was married to a narcissist; over 18 years after the divorce, I have to keep blocking him as he keeps trying to get at me. Now we're about to have one in the White House again. I intend to be compassionate to those who supported him; many of us haven't yet experienced having regular dealings with one. It's a painful but necessary lesson, to grow past one.
Whoopie is so RIGHT! The Holocaust was Not about RACE I LOVE HER! Also Lemon,Sharpton,Farrukan, I am Woke and proud of it Why can't people see THE TRUTH??? THE NEXT 4 YEARS ...will be pure he'll. If The View is canceled Our Society will have no direction and we will have no direction whatsoever Also...that'll we do without Rachel Maddow ??? She's our Savior our Blueprint our Goddess
Think it would help if you learned about the man. Not the outside. Working for nothing to help heal this country and has chosen a fine team to help him.
Many years of pain and confusion until God gave me a promise of justice and restoration...still many years of being diminished and blamed in the church system...but now it is being shaken up and the "house that Jack built" is collapsing...God will rebuild on a new foundation!!
The only thing i pray for is for my children not to end up with that horrible man. Even my faith has been rocked by this relationship… I have little faith left but if i lose my children to his horrible selfish hands i dont know anymore what will happen to my faith and to my life.
Not all narcissist believe they are self made. What about the ones who claim to and truely believe they are Christians. It's insanely hard to be amongst it.
Jordan you are a genius if you apply this logic to someone whose mind has been in turmoil for days of this because at the same time I was being accused of it, I started to gain clarity. Be clear it took me a couple of hours to fix this based on you're advice. In this process it fixed my coming to god turmoil to boot. My to advice anyone don't give up.
Every sentence, every quote is so true . . .God will repay, see Galacians 6:7-8 These verses came to my view moments after I asked God. . .why? GOD IS NOT MOCKED (Fooled,Tricked)
God never punished my parents for turning down my employment opportunities when I was a young adult starting out. They would answer the phone, or open the mail and then tell me about it months later. Fate never compensated me for my loss. Reality got there first. In regard to compensation to make up for my loss, but of course people will say, well it wasn't meant to be.
My Father was a Covert Catholic, literally went to Church everyday. But was not a Spiritual man in any sense of the word. He was a Supreme Narcissist...
My adult son is a narcissist. I never knew what a narcissist was until I got to know my son as an adult when he came back into my life. I'm sorry for him that he is isolated himself and doesn't speak to anybody that says very evil hurtful things BUT I do feel sorry for me too, as I no longer have a son.
I had to move away from one last year; These lives are the WORST human beings ever that I had yet experienced as she crossed without permission into my personal boundaries. I still, to this very day have issues in how she is as she even CONTINUES TO BLAME me in how she is. I know one thing for sure; She represents the WIDE. Narcissists and their 'adoring fans'...I hope some days they will figure out the truth of life and purpose of it.
These comments are very interesting about AI too. I have been under attack and it's literally been mental abuse. I've been through 2 psych evaluations and was never diagnosed a Narcissist but my ex husband was. I've lost everything and decades. I will receive for example my ex and youngest daughter comes here for my other daughter and granddaughters one year birthday party. I'm running late cause my phone was locked up in my daughter's house and I couldn't map where the party was going to be. I get a video again from a Dr C but the titles reads WHY IS THE NARCISSIST ALWAYS RUNNING LATE.. I've also seen on my phone videos from Dr Ramani who I've known but then I also see where on a channel it says Dr Ramanis videos have been subjected to hacking. I could write an affidavit about everything I've gone through. It's been literally stalking through use of technology as I've lost years of my family pictures and my cleaning business pictures and profile plus. My accounts hacked into it's been a nightmare in which someone knows technology real well. Now I'm not saying this is part of it as I could describe pure insanity that is completely obvious.
that sounds absolutely dreadful i,m sorry to hear you are going through all that, my goodness why is it that the most sincere and modest and humble people have to bear such untold kinds of malicious torment, leave our good people alone already, why can't they just live and let live, they can't let us live in peace, therefore they must not be living, they must be a shell or husk of a soul deprived of any kind of higher moral compass, leaving a trail of destruction in their wake and leaving us to pick up the pieces of our lives and attempt to make some semblance of sense out of the wreckage
My my my, had it not been for mercy I would have them at the point of my sword and trust me justice will be swift. Now you stand tall and face whatever comes your way and be brave as a lion. And keep this in mind, that He did not come for the self righteous but them who are broken and have a contrite spirit. He came as a physician, to heal
But while the victim is still there if anything bad happens to the narcissist the victim gets harmed more. It's not like the narcissist learns his lesson.. They're cursed ways still make their way to hurt others. So until they are put into submission there is no punishment in sight and they still get to do the devils work in the process.
I’m so surprised at how good the quality of this AI-generated content is. Yes, the Peterson AI voice is clunky and requires a more intense focus to follow what is being said, but the content of the speech is so well-articulated. I suspect that some of it must come from Peterson’s new book, ‘We Who Wrestle with God’. If so, this was a really good preview/advertisement for the book. Props to the content creator for uploading this.
One thing to remember Is one thing God does Is remove the victim from the narc's life, and he even empowers victims to take back certain areas of their lives while TAKING BACK their lives Another thing God may also do is remove the narc from the victim's life If you've been financially taken advantage of by a narc, God will Empower you with the desire to take back your finances AND any OTHER area where the narc has taken advantage
Wow. This is Calvary Chapel of the Harbour in Huntington beach. Narcissist. I felt dark spirit in the pastor. And the energy/ spirit/ even physical appearance just didnt look right. I learned dont listen to their words, but their spirit. Trust your first intitial/ impression of that person. I learned there is no Jesus in them. And Calvary Chapel together.
If Narcs are empty inside or born without the capacity for empathy, what is redemption like? How could they even imagine that they could reverse their being?Is there hope for a lifetime cruel narcissist?What would that look like?
So if you are sufferring these consequences does it mean you are a narcissist or could you have these as a consequence of narcissistic abuse. Isolation seems like a gift after years of dealing with a network of self indulgent people. I just want everyone to leave me alone but that never happens I am just stuck with stupid coping skills.
doesn't matter if it's an a.i. voice, the message itself has merit, and Jordan Peterson is an appropriate likeness of voice to carry this message to those trying to swim in the confusing and bewildering waters of malignant narcissist abuse if the message of this video is lost on you, then consider yourself fortunate to have not been the target of narcissistic cruelty and treachery, this video is for those who need it, for those who have been harmed by malignant narcissistic personalities don't attack the video for its a.i. voice, if you are someone trying to heal from harm caused by narcissism then it should be abundantly clear to you that the content and message of this video is consistent with practically ever other video analysis out there that also deconstructs the warped and twisted world of narcissistic personality types you cannot practice empathy around someone who is a flaming narcissist, you just can't, it's a lost cause, i made this mistake and it cost me my fingertips because the hell's angels organized crime syndicate told themselves they were teaching me a lesson after they gaslighted me and provoked me and antagonized me into responding to body language that they were portraying to me, how long am I supposed to tolerate it that, i responded in the way that i did because THEY wanted me to, and they used that as an excuse to cause permanent irreparable harm to me, to cause grievous bodily harm to me, and yet i have never done wrong by anybody, i never stole anything i never uttered threats or threatened violence against others, i never acted untowardly around others, and yet they only had one track mind to persecute me, to act friendly to my face while they wait for me to react to their gaslighting so they can take that as reasonable cause to bring untold harm to me, they poke and prod and gaslight you into reacting to their antagonisms and then go way overboard in punishing you for having reacted when they were the ones responsible for goading you into reacting, it's inhumane, they put me on trial for my fingertips when i didn't even know i was on trail for anything, it is absolutely profane in the face of God in their coordinated effort to persecute me for their perceived lack of humanity in me, they have demonstrated their own lack of humanity they are drunk with power, and violent narcotics traffickers tend to collect and pool the worst kinds of narcissists together at the top of their hierarchy of command and control, with their legion of flying monkey minions doing their bidding i already listen to a lot of real Jordan Peterson, and the merit is in the message, because i also listen to a lot of other a.i. voice likeness videos, because there is merit in the message everything said in this video is consistent with my own lived and real life experience dealing with these deplorable and morally deprived kinds of people going to play the video back again actually because i missed a large portion of it while typing out this comment
Hmm read the Description This thought-provoking discourse, inspired by Jordan Peterson’s analytical style, reveals the inevitable consequences narcissists face as their deceit and manipulation are exposed. It says inspired. ....hmm
Alhamdulillah. This is Islām transmitted almost fully in English. May Almighty Allah guide all of us through to the ultimate end of the journey to attain eternal salvation by recognition and existence by the Truth.
I struggle with this video because whilst i agree with what is said, I feel I am the one who is isolated and alone, even though I'm fairly certain I haven't done anything to anyone, albeit I have 100% been on the receiving end of Narcs.
Exactly I know what you mean isolation for self protection,
@@ChristianLife888I feel the same way I am safe and by still waters too
Right there with you. My covert narcissistic mother has alienated me from the extended family several times over. But like he says in the video it appears that the narcissist is winning but it's only temporary. Something I didn't know how badly I needed to hear as of this past month. You are in a temporary situation to some extent. For as the narcissists lies begin to unravel, those who were led blindly astray by those lies will see that they have made a grave miscalculation in who they gave their trust to. God has vindicated me time and time again behind the lies of my mother as well as others. I stay mostly to myself, I do what is right to the very best of my ability always, even when no one but God is watching. I am honest to a fault I am frequently told by most people I know or encounter. But because of my mother's tactics I knew she was very likely going to reach my kids with her lies which she claims more as assumptions. Either way she is wrong. But I knew that it would come to what it has with her turning my grown children on me. So I was especially sure that I told my kiss the truths no matter what it was or if it was "age appropriate" because I needed to be sure they heard the truth from me before they heard lies from anyone else. Even though it currently seems as though that honesty has suddenly eluded their memories and somehow twisted it in their minds that she was the honest one and I the deceiver. I know that at some point in the near future I will expose her truths, in the event God doesn't before she drives my youngest to the mad house again. Why 2 of my 3 sons can't see that it's her not me, especially with as tight as my bond was with my boys all their lives. They were all over 18 when she somehow managed to turn them. Only 1 saw through her rather quickly after that and came back to sit with mom so she wasn't alone as the other 2 continue to let her paint the narrative she wants rather than chose reality. A big motivation behind their choices is monetary and materialistic. She projects her false love by providing nice things and financial help etc. She buys her way in and makes it look like love from the outside. This has been one of my biggest fears for my children. Because I didn't tell them nearly enough of the realities that make up my childhood and most of my adult years so far. But I did teach them to be aware of her games and not to let them affect them personally and not to allow her twisting of reality distort their first hand reality. So I'm hoping that God gets through to her and exposes her and vindicates me soon as possible, so I don't have to fear it backfiring and causing more damage to my relationship with my boys rather than open their eyes to remember it always has been and always will be her at the center weaving webs of lies of the worst sorts. I realized that I would much rather be alone or isolate than to continue to waste my already severely limited energy supplies thank to her covering up, making excuses, denying and hiding what I now know is a serious sleep disorder that has greatly affected if not completely ruined my life at this late of a stage. All while punishing me for the things I wasn't able to do and she could clearly see I couldn't. Not because I didn't want to either, but that is the narrative she painted. But not just seeing me struggle horribly day in day out and punish me, but she also knew her mother and grandmother had very similar symptoms as I did and she didn't even remotely let on to that key factor until after I was finally diagnosed which was 2yrs after my grandmother died with complications of dementia. Something strongly tied to severe sleep deprivation as in cases with my illness. So I know now what I have to likely look forward to in my future. Had my mother not covered up my symptoms and instead made attempts to find answers and get me help and treatment my life would've gone a completely different direction and I could've had a more productive life and a successful career in medicine and/or mental health. But she sabotaged me to such a degree it has made getting adequate care and treatment for my condition literally impossible now. No Dr will give me the time of day. Between her constant rejection of me and the constant rejection and dismissal of hundreds of drs in some of the most advanced areas in the country for medical and mental health care has left me unable to work, broken in ways I have been able to mend and other ways I can't begin to figure out where to start. The excessive level of rejection anxiety I carry cripples me so effectively that I won't even bother making Dr appointments anymore and I just sit here and suffer to a large extent. But now she is targeting my youngest the way she did me and well that just isn't going to fly too far with me at all. I will be the suicide bomber than takes her flight down and crumbles the fake reality she has created all around her if God doesn't expose her first. Those are my kids. She had a lifetime to try and do things the right way. She isn't going to tote my babies to hell in a hand basket behind her. They are the only things I will ever hurt someone as bad as I could her behind. Don't toy with the eternal souls of my babies. Period. But God hasn't let me down on that front yet. I don't expect him to begin letting me down now. 🤞 hard and painful as it can be. Let God do what he does and the truth will set you free. ❤
Hazel, it IS a hard thing especially because our instinct is to stand up for ourselves, to the abuser and then also to those who've been told stories by that same abuser. Cast not your pearls before the swine my friend! Pearls being wisdom but then also, don't explain yourself. We are in an upside down world now, right is wrong etc etc. You know the situation, you've lived it and no one knows better the truth in that situation. God sees, Christ sees and the Holy Spirit will comfort you. Mourning the living is harder than mourning the dead. You eventually have closure with the dead but the living pile it on every day, even when you aren't speaking. They are cowards and liars. Who does that remind you of? That devil who seeks to kill and destroy. Be strong in your faith, stand in that place God has placed you and in Him you'll over come. You will always hurt, abuse shapes us for life and the only change over time is our natural response to put up more walls. Don't let the devil make it hard to love, or to be a giver when needed to others, we are still His and He is still our Father. Don't fail Him, because He deserves you and I and all others to show the difference He makes in our lives. Most people are damaged by this same abuse, which has caused the abused to be an abuser most times themselves; alcohol, drugs and other behaviors. It just shows that we are fighting a conniving enemy. He will get His due, you keep plugging along and when the enemy of you spirit comes, by any means, rebuke him and he must flee!
I walk away to my family everybody thinking that I'm the one at fault .I don't care whatever they said to me all I know I walk away because I can't fight my own family because they joint forces and no allies even I m expecting one of my kids will be staying on my side .but nobody and hurt .I walk away because I found my ex mask was fallen .I can see his true nature and my kids were the same .i was shocked and crying walking away .I don't know where to go ,no money ,no gas .but only God sees all this things .God help me find the way escape and provide ,protect and take care of me during my vulnerability .I found a job like a part time to sustain my everyday expenses.i found a ruined house nobody live there long time which I'm scared ,I'm alone ,no family .I just rented a room lot of small cockraches and mouses.i don't have no choice than to survive .I clean the house of course it's not perfect. But I see to it my room is orderly and clean. I started from there. Cleaning organizing and find ways to live alone .At first it's very challenging living alone but days ,months ,years come I became used to it and I don't need any body that will harm me I stay away ,good people I go friends .it's a wonderful journey that I can survive little by little with the help of God. Now rest is history .it's a very wonderful journey that God gave me a new life.Thank You Lord for everything you've done .I can testify that there's really God that will help everybody .I don't know about demons before how it appear now I realized I saw a demon in the flesh 37 years sleeping with the enemies
God sees what we do not.
Even though this is AI, the message is encouraging. However, most psychologists will say a narcissistic cannot EVER change. But GOD & Scripture ARE more powerful than ANYONE, even a narcissist! May He grant strength, peace, comfort & victory to all of us who are under the wrath of a narcissist!! It’s indescribably vicious & relentless. Oh, how we need Jesus!!
Amen. God can heal. God is the righteous judge. Definitely he evil doers. Hope I get better from the mental and emotional abused. Forsure, they will see it makes no sense to be narcicist they will only hurt in the end.
I heard with age and therapy they learn how to act out as much.
Paul was a pharasee and God saved him. Pharasees are narcissists.
@stephennelson1687 if a narcissist can never change, is your belief you'd have to be an atheist. In which case I pity you. My God can do whatever He chooses. Sometimes, He uses evil for good. His ways aren't subject to our approval or acceptance.
@@seeleygirl6178 actually they get worse with age, and therapy will not help. The only thing they will learn from therapy is to how to cover up their narcissism.
We have a great God
I've been watching every video about narcissistic people this few days till I came to this. It reminded me that God is in Control of everything.
they are traumatised souls ... off course they cause harm to others but like all of us they have issues in some areas se my video i shared ..
Best video I've heard in 2024! God led me to this. Knowledge is Power. And I know My Redeemer Lives! 🙌
Same!!! It was divine intervention!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
GOD WILL BRING JUSTICE...DON'T LIVE IN ANGER AND HURT...TRUST GOD'S REDEMPTION PLAN!
Yes perfect timing ❤
Amen
Brought me here too 🙏🏽
As of right now my narcissistic Ex just found another supply. I pray for God's intervention as it's our kids who pay the most:(
“Responsibility” becomes accountability
The truth stands independent of their beliefs. I love that!
Justice is coming!!!
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Amen!
I don't believe it i think life is good them good guy like me fiench last every time
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I hope this is true. Cause right now justice seems so hopeless. I hope God works on her. He’s sure showing me a lot.
Lord I pray Justice is coming !! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Amen!
The harm is great, but I believe in God and his justice.
i hope so.
Thanks for being a warrior of TRUTH Jordan! GOD BLESS YOU Jordan!
They may become jealous of others’ success or relationships and attempt to isolate those close to them while attacking their self-esteem through constant insult...and will sabotage any good deed.
Ai or not: this message is brilliant. i am thankful for this knowledge♥️
Knowledge is power 😂
i’m living it, and Jordon is right on, God is in charge.
Wow this is deep!! I have gone through craziness past 12 yrs plus and have over come so much!! I know God is here for me!! I’m working on forgiveness for husband I’m separated 12 yrs . Next step is stand up to him in court on my own and our son.
Hate to break it to ya.
But this is fake.
Congratulations you got this sista❤
The narcissist will fight accountability until their last breath. Demons come to collect their souls, and it ain't pretty.
I heard that from someone on youtube, dying people who are narcissists, the end can be horrible for them.
narcissist free m asons are the worse.......
Amen Amen Amen !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Agree with tears !!!
with God there is always the possibility of change and a sense of true self esteem in their maker.
God has dealt with many throughout biblical history that were brought very low and some repented and were restored...God is just and answers the prayer of faith for deliverance from bondage and captivity...many who love and pray have seen God do this!
I would love to buy this in book form and give it as gifts. It's a testimony to GOD yet also explains a certain type of sinner. Thank you Jordan Peterson. Your own transformation has not went un-noticed dear Brother
Beautiful comment and I agree with you
I don’t think it’s really Jordan though, it’s AI. Jordan doesn’t continuously talk like this. But if the message is good does it really matter?💞
Excellent and comprehensive truth...Sadly and painfully accurate.
Jordan. You never let me down. I love you more than you know. Looking forward to seeing you soon. Wendy Carrey👑🇨🇦
30:30.. I'm amazed at the invisible hand, that has me here, and alive today.. come Jesus come.
Amen, very encouraging video. Many blessings to all of my brothers and sisters out there who have felt this anguish from these experiences. Many blessings to the years to come.
Wonderful video! I have experienced this behavior from several relatives in my life! Best wishes.
Me 2
My husband and I have been victims of this through our youngest adopted daughter. Long story.....suffice it to say that she has a 4 year old daughter, born out of wedlock, lives off and on with the father, both over the past 6+ years have worked together to scam us of much money, we practically raised our grand daughter, but when we did not comply after bad experiences they would use her against us. Removing her for months at a time.....excruciating regarding our grand daughter, but we are learning to separate our selves from them. God understands we miss and love our grand daughter, but are helpless regarding her own well being.
I find Jerry Wise channel very helpful, ❤
This message is true I see the LORD CHANGING THE narcissist in my life. When i first began to notice some things my inclination was to RUN. RUN RUN. And the LORD TOLD ME NO. BE PATIENT AND WAIT. I had many many conversations with the LORD and he told me he is going to get better. AND HE HAS. THE put downs have stopped the verbal accusations have stopped. Picking fights to amuse himself has stopped. The tit for tat has stopped the threats and bullying has stopped. ALL THROUGHOUT THIS time the LORD HAS and continues to tell me to be patient and wait. And I will continue to be patient and wait!!!!!!!
Thank you Jordan Peterson for this video.I chose for a peaceful life. You have said exactly what i have did..♥️♥️♥️
His will be done. On earth, and in heaven. The narcissist i left is down to two sources of validation.(People to use up).
🙏Yes Lord , I am seeking divine justice .
I just discovered my significant other of 17 years is a vulnerable narcissist It has just flipped my world upside down it's evil on a hole new level thank u so much for posting this im still in shock and I'm in so pain but this helped me so much I understand what I must do
Hi Missy, I went through this same thing in January of this year. We were married for 21 years. I felt exactly the way you do today. I couldn’t eat, I cried all the time, I kept searching for answers as to why?, etc..
Today is 12/29, and I can honestly say that I am 95% better than I was on 1/14. So you will get to this point, I promise!
What helped me the most is accepting the realization that he is sick and only he can fix what’s going on inside of him. His issues were not caused by me nor mine to deal with. We divorced in June.
I am still working on building back my self esteem and it’s okay. I’m free now.
I promise you will reach this point! Hang in there!!
Hugs!
EVERYTHING I HAVE HEARD ABOUT NARCISSIST IS NEGATIVE AND HOPELESS. I JUST ASKED THE LORD. I KNOW YOU CAN CHANGE MENS HEARTS PAUL ME AND OTHERS HAVE BEEN CHANGED BY THE POWER OF GOD. THIS VIDEO POPPED UP WITH HOPE AND TRUTH. THE BIBLE IS CLEAR THAT GOD WILL VINDACATE AND TAKE VENGEANCE ON THE UNJUST. BUT HE ALSO OFFERS REPENTANCE. AMEN continue to trust in the LORD BE PATIENCEAND DO WHAT HE TELLS YOU TO DO!!!!!!!!!
A word fittly spoken is like golden apples in picture frames of silver
Amen
I thought evil had won. Thanks for this clarification.
I am glad to know that God's justice is a constant, though there is a wait for it. This talk gives me hope.Thank you so much.
No. God has never punished anyone. The cultural justice system delivered punishment. Did Shiva punishment you with the sword of destruction. Are you coming back in a lower form for being bad? There is no god
Yes Lord Make them SEE what they do
My covert narc husband was not revealed to me til he got parkensons / dementia. His family are full of narcs. God opened my eyes to him when needed. He tryed to take my income when he saw I was one to him. But than god god protected me
Excellent analysis!
Wow Mr.Jordan, GOD is revealing much to you! Be blessed. GOD has given you an amazing mind and now may I pray even a new heart? Something is different or is in the process of being different. It's good. :). Much wisdom here.
WOW! WELL Said! I am sharing this! God AWESOMELY BLESS us All 🕊🥰✝️
Amen! TRUTH
Yes! Thank You!
In a perfect world this is true
Truth is powerful! I see it up close and personal and at large in our world of selfish self-absorbed heads of large man made institutions and "ministries."
A king is not born but through perseverance will he be established and the heart of a king is in the Lords hands.
Most helpful channel on the subject is Jerry Wise!❤
True intervention can bring the loving but confronting truth to set them free!
Just Amazing ! This person Jordan Peterson is a true Gift to Humanity! His mastery of Religion , Psychology, and the English language is PERFECTION ! ❤
Dr. Peterson,
Can you share how this applies to both narcissists AND psychopaths AND how they alienate grown children from their victim?
THIS message FITS ALL EVIL DOERS GODS JUSTICE WILL BE DEALT TO ALL. GOD IS NOT A RESPECTER OF PERSONS
This just described everything we have been experiencing at our church under a very narcissistic pastor, who has caused endless harm and is now facing the exact reckoning described in this video in EVERY way!!! Its as if this was based on what has been our experience the last decade. We are near the end now. She is in the final stages of the consequences of her actions.
Thank you for this video. It encourages me to keep going. I was married to a narcissist; over 18 years after the divorce, I have to keep blocking him as he keeps trying to get at me. Now we're about to have one in the White House again. I intend to be compassionate to those who supported him; many of us haven't yet experienced having regular dealings with one. It's a painful but necessary lesson, to grow past one.
Do you watch CNN?
Do you watch The View?
Whoopie is so RIGHT! The Holocaust was Not about RACE
I LOVE HER!
Also Lemon,Sharpton,Farrukan,
I am Woke and proud of it
Why can't people see THE TRUTH???
THE NEXT 4 YEARS ...will be pure he'll.
If The View is canceled Our Society will have no direction and we will have no direction whatsoever
Also...that'll we do without Rachel Maddow ??? She's our Savior our
Blueprint our Goddess
Rachel Maddow and The View are
my Godesses
I pray they will NEVER be canceled
Think it would help if you learned about the man. Not the outside. Working for nothing to help heal this country and has chosen a fine team to help him.
Many years of pain and confusion until God gave me a promise of justice and restoration...still many years of being diminished and blamed in the church system...but now it is being shaken up and the "house that Jack built" is collapsing...God will rebuild on a new foundation!!
Yep God will level the playing field period!!
The only thing i pray for is for my children not to end up with that horrible man.
Even my faith has been rocked by this relationship… I have little faith left but if i lose my children to his horrible selfish hands i dont know anymore what will happen to my faith and to my life.
Beautiful…and healing…thank you
Thank you, amazing talk!!
Not all narcissist believe they are self made.
What about the ones who claim to and truely believe they are Christians.
It's insanely hard to be amongst it.
This
They are all in the my family and they were hidden for decades ( religious covert narcissists that can also be communal celebral narcissists )
Jordan you are a genius if you apply this logic to someone whose mind has been in turmoil for days of this because at the same time I was being accused of it, I started to gain clarity. Be clear it took me a couple of hours to fix this based on you're advice. In this process it fixed my coming to god turmoil to boot. My to advice anyone don't give up.
Every sentence, every quote is so true . . .God will repay, see Galacians 6:7-8
These verses came to my view moments after I asked God. . .why? GOD IS NOT MOCKED (Fooled,Tricked)
God never punished my parents for turning down my employment opportunities when I was a young adult starting out. They would answer the phone, or open the mail and then tell me about it months later. Fate never compensated me for my loss. Reality got there first. In regard to compensation to make up for my loss, but of course people will say, well it wasn't meant to be.
🙏🏼 A M E N 🙏🏼
The truth!
I hope truth surfaces.
Melvin just slammed the bed room door his middle ..listening omg new yrs 2025 313 am
My Father was a Covert Catholic, literally went to Church everyday. But was not a Spiritual man in any sense of the word. He was a Supreme Narcissist...
My adult son is a narcissist. I never knew what a narcissist was until I got to know my son as an adult when he came back into my life.
I'm sorry for him that he is isolated himself and doesn't speak to anybody that says very evil hurtful things BUT I do feel sorry for me too, as I no longer have a son.
What trauma did your son suffer as an infant and toddler that caused him to dissociate? He may not remember but you would know.
Wow!!! Amen!!! ❤❤❤
This video is like a huge AH-HA momentv
In summary, chaos returns to order, everything eventually returns to its lowest energetic state.
I had to move away from one last year; These lives are the WORST human beings ever that I had yet experienced as she crossed without permission into my personal boundaries. I still, to this very day have issues in how she is as she even CONTINUES TO BLAME me in how she is. I know one thing for sure; She represents the WIDE.
Narcissists and their 'adoring fans'...I hope some days they will figure out the truth of life and purpose of it.
Doesn't matter, it speaks the truth❤❤❤This AI's wordz are true, how about the human, you?🐿️🌎🥜
These comments are very interesting about AI too. I have been under attack and it's literally been mental abuse. I've been through 2 psych evaluations and was never diagnosed a Narcissist but my ex husband was. I've lost everything and decades. I will receive for example my ex and youngest daughter comes here for my other daughter and granddaughters one year birthday party. I'm running late cause my phone was locked up in my daughter's house and I couldn't map where the party was going to be. I get a video again from a Dr C but the titles reads WHY IS THE NARCISSIST ALWAYS RUNNING LATE.. I've also seen on my phone videos from Dr Ramani who I've known but then I also see where on a channel it says Dr Ramanis videos have been subjected to hacking. I could write an affidavit about everything I've gone through. It's been literally stalking through use of technology as I've lost years of my family pictures and my cleaning business pictures and profile plus. My accounts hacked into it's been a nightmare in which someone knows technology real well. Now I'm not saying this is part of it as I could describe pure insanity that is completely obvious.
that sounds absolutely dreadful
i,m sorry to hear you are going through all that, my goodness why is it that the most sincere and modest and humble people have to bear such untold kinds of malicious torment, leave our good people alone already, why can't they just live and let live, they can't let us live in peace, therefore they must not be living, they must be a shell or husk of a soul deprived of any kind of higher moral compass, leaving a trail of destruction in their wake and leaving us to pick up the pieces of our lives and attempt to make some semblance of sense out of the wreckage
My my my, had it not been for mercy I would have them at the point of my sword and trust me justice will be swift. Now you stand tall and face whatever comes your way and be brave as a lion. And keep this in mind, that He did not come for the self righteous but them who are broken and have a contrite spirit. He came as a physician, to heal
Thanks !
Lo mejor que puede a hacer es curarlos. Pero no hay forma.😅
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The worse part is how affects your kids. 😒
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Toxic. Great choice of words. Arrogance, manipulative, controlling. Liars. False accusations. Charming, yep, check, check…….
But while the victim is still there if anything bad happens to the narcissist the victim gets harmed more. It's not like the narcissist learns his lesson.. They're cursed ways still make their way to hurt others. So until they are put into submission there is no punishment in sight and they still get to do the devils work in the process.
This describes alcoholics too. Maybe the traits go hand in hand.
No person wants to hear about their shitty behavior. Everyone thinks they are right and just even in their justification for committing crimes.
Honest conversation with yourself...
I’m so surprised at how good the quality of this AI-generated content is. Yes, the Peterson AI voice is clunky and requires a more intense focus to follow what is being said, but the content of the speech is so well-articulated. I suspect that some of it must come from Peterson’s new book, ‘We Who Wrestle with God’. If so, this was a really good preview/advertisement for the book. Props to the content creator for uploading this.
I think the speed is just off.
Narcissistic behavior critiqued by Jordan Peterson, oh that’s CLASSIC! A false prophet AND opportunistic
One thing to remember Is one thing God does Is remove the victim from the narc's life, and he even empowers victims to take back certain areas of their lives while TAKING BACK their lives
Another thing God may also do is remove the narc from the victim's life
If you've been financially taken advantage of by a narc, God will Empower you with the desire to take back your finances AND any OTHER area where the narc has taken advantage
See how HE did for Abigail with nabal the fool
Wow. This is Calvary Chapel of the Harbour in Huntington beach. Narcissist. I felt dark spirit in the pastor.
And the energy/ spirit/ even physical appearance just didnt look right. I learned dont listen to their words, but their spirit. Trust your first intitial/ impression of that person. I learned there is no Jesus in them.
And Calvary Chapel together.
When making a decision on the fate for the Greater good, one must choose their words wisely. lol....
If Narcs are empty inside or born without the capacity for empathy, what is redemption like? How could they even imagine that they could reverse their being?Is there hope for a lifetime cruel narcissist?What would that look like?
I can see how things and peolple get taken away.How does God offer them the truth?
So if you are sufferring these consequences does it mean you are a narcissist or could you have these as a consequence of narcissistic abuse. Isolation seems like a gift after years of dealing with a network of self indulgent people. I just want everyone to leave me alone but that never happens I am just stuck with stupid coping skills.
This makes it sound like this world has perfect justice. Not true. Only Heaven will be fair and perfect. Wishful thinking though.
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doesn't matter if it's an a.i. voice, the message itself has merit, and Jordan Peterson is an appropriate likeness of voice to carry this message to those trying to swim in the confusing and bewildering waters of malignant narcissist abuse
if the message of this video is lost on you, then consider yourself fortunate to have not been the target of narcissistic cruelty and treachery, this video is for those who need it, for those who have been harmed by malignant narcissistic personalities
don't attack the video for its a.i. voice, if you are someone trying to heal from harm caused by narcissism then it should be abundantly clear to you that the content and message of this video is consistent with practically ever other video analysis out there that also deconstructs the warped and twisted world of narcissistic personality types
you cannot practice empathy around someone who is a flaming narcissist, you just can't, it's a lost cause, i made this mistake and it cost me my fingertips because the hell's angels organized crime syndicate told themselves they were teaching me a lesson after they gaslighted me and provoked me and antagonized me into responding to body language that they were portraying to me, how long am I supposed to tolerate it that, i responded in the way that i did because THEY wanted me to, and they used that as an excuse to cause permanent irreparable harm to me, to cause grievous bodily harm to me, and yet i have never done wrong by anybody, i never stole anything i never uttered threats or threatened violence against others, i never acted untowardly around others, and yet they only had one track mind to persecute me, to act friendly to my face while they wait for me to react to their gaslighting so they can take that as reasonable cause to bring untold harm to me, they poke and prod and gaslight you into reacting to their antagonisms and then go way overboard in punishing you for having reacted when they were the ones responsible for goading you into reacting, it's inhumane, they put me on trial for my fingertips when i didn't even know i was on trail for anything, it is absolutely profane in the face of God
in their coordinated effort to persecute me for their perceived lack of humanity in me, they have demonstrated their own lack of humanity
they are drunk with power, and violent narcotics traffickers tend to collect and pool the worst kinds of narcissists together at the top of their hierarchy of command and control, with their legion of flying monkey minions doing their bidding
i already listen to a lot of real Jordan Peterson, and the merit is in the message, because i also listen to a lot of other a.i. voice likeness videos, because there is merit in the message
everything said in this video is consistent with my own lived and real life experience dealing with these deplorable and morally deprived kinds of people
going to play the video back again actually because i missed a large portion of it while typing out this comment
This is good, but there is a lot of repetition being stated in different ways, but the same point.
Wenn du eine Sache besonders vermeidest\verdrängst
wird sie kommen. energetische Gesetzmäßigkeit.
Dr. A.I. Peterson 😂😂😂
Sounds good, but where is the proof of this? Is it scriptural? How do you know this to be true? Just want to know.
Yes this is scripture...look at the stori of Josebel
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AI JP. Only a narc is interested what will happen to the narc. What hurts is the ego. Your ego.
It is your choice how long you stay.
What caused it
Hmm read the Description This thought-provoking discourse, inspired by Jordan Peterson’s analytical style, reveals the inevitable consequences narcissists face as their deceit and manipulation are exposed. It says inspired. ....hmm
Alhamdulillah. This is Islām transmitted almost fully in English. May Almighty Allah guide all of us through to the ultimate end of the journey to attain eternal salvation by recognition and existence by the Truth.