The True Cause of Our Fallout (w/ Tana Mongeau)

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  • Опубликовано: 4 окт 2022
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  • @susana9519
    @susana9519 Год назад +5685

    Tana seems like the kind of person who’s friends with everyone but there’s only a handful that she lets in and deeply cares for. Say what you want about the girl but she definitely loves her friends hard

    • @Nicole-rz3qv
      @Nicole-rz3qv Год назад +93

      Isn’t everyone like ghat

    • @MaybeYourMom21
      @MaybeYourMom21 Год назад +43

      @@Nicole-rz3qv 💀lowkey

    • @nicolealex9130
      @nicolealex9130 Год назад +32

      @@Nicole-rz3qv maybe in highschool but after I left highschool and also being one of few people I know who went to a new highschool almost every year. You realize that that is so energy draining. Time is priceless, wasting ur energy and time on people who you don't truely care about become tiring quickly in ur adult life unfortunately. Basiclaly the only people I'm sorta like that with is my co-workers that I'm "friends" with, because again I've worked so many jobs. The second u leave u mean nothing to them so🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @lydiamay8238
      @lydiamay8238 Год назад

      @@Nicole-rz3qv lol no. I fuck so deeply for my friends and they don’t fuck with me at all apart from a couple

    • @cviolet7373
      @cviolet7373 Год назад +13

      Lol a kind person who was racist AF to her so called friends… okay 😂

  • @meanpfahler
    @meanpfahler Год назад +244

    I love how Tana's chest is blurred to avoid demonetizing 💀

    • @meganl9573
      @meganl9573 10 месяцев назад +1

      oh my god

    • @rebeccamarie7707
      @rebeccamarie7707 9 месяцев назад +8

      I didn’t even realize that’s what it was I just couldn’t figure out why her hands were blurred in some shots 😂

  • @Samantha-vv7yg
    @Samantha-vv7yg Год назад +964

    Thank you for mentioning the part about having seizures when you’re coming off alcohol. I don’t think many people realize how scary and dangerous it can be to stop drinking when it’s what your body is running on. I almost lost my boyfriend to a multiple seizures brought on by stopping cold Turkey. Absolutely terrifying for all parties involved. Sending you love on your continuous journey through sobriety! ❣️

    • @meetthecreeper
      @meetthecreeper Год назад +4

      This! ❤️‍🩹 2 years ago my husband had three seizures after quitting alcohol after drinking every day.

    • @katelynspencer8392
      @katelynspencer8392 Год назад +3

      Yeah withdrawing for alcohol is super dangerous. For like 4 days I couldn’t write my own name let alone walk around

    • @ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed
      @ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed Год назад +1

      Is it safer to stop slowly then?

    • @meetthecreeper
      @meetthecreeper Год назад +3

      @@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed yeah so they told my husband after his seizures that he should gradually reduce how much he drinks over a period of time. Since he’s been a heavy addict over all it affected him severely.

    • @kategilbreath3439
      @kategilbreath3439 Год назад +4

      my dad was an alcoholic for 30 years, he drank everyday for 5 years, and when he got sober, his doctor gave him a lot of medications like a few months before he stopped drinking, and when he was in rehab he had like a ziploc bag full of medications that he took, and he still had hallucinations and ended up with a pancreatitis. i think a lot of people think withdrawals are easier than they actually are.

  • @xxxmochibaby
    @xxxmochibaby Год назад +329

    I’ve had a lot of gripes about tana over the years but it’s undeniable that she has grown ALOT this year. She has shown so much more maturity and insight the last few months and I am proud of her.

    • @tinycha0s
      @tinycha0s Год назад +4

      She is actually an amazing person. I wish I knew her in real life.

    • @JessiMoonSix
      @JessiMoonSix Год назад +19

      I know it’s not such uncommon knowledge now that we have things like TikTok, but the internet has really been a perfect display of the pre frontal cortex and it’s completion of development at 25 and how it changes people and their thinking/behavior drastically. (Tana is 24 now)

    • @xxxmochibaby
      @xxxmochibaby Год назад

      @@JessiMoonSix that is an interesting observation

    • @ericareneemcneeley8965
      @ericareneemcneeley8965 Год назад

      @@JessiMoonSix Agreed.

    • @MountainDewEnthusiast
      @MountainDewEnthusiast 6 месяцев назад

      The frontal lobe that develops between 24-25 makes such a differenc e

  • @Glitter-N-Grease
    @Glitter-N-Grease Год назад +1605

    I can’t even tell you the comfort this video gave me… It’s really cool to feel like we’ve all grown up together and now are having adult conversations reflecting on a time when we were all young and dumb. Trevi, you’re truly an inspiration and we all love and support you so much. It warms my heart to see you two on the same screen together again 💛🥹

    • @trgiun
      @trgiun Год назад

      Yup

    • @calicook1041
      @calicook1041 Год назад +5

      For real. This touched me in sum sorta way
      way. Nostalgic, slay.

    • @billivee
      @billivee Год назад

      Parasocial relationships are so real I read this and thought you knew them 😂😂

    • @badatthese
      @badatthese 4 месяца назад

      Young and traumatized* ❤️‍🩹😅

  • @kikijlynngirl
    @kikijlynngirl Год назад +924

    I’m glad you both were able to move forward and come back together 🤍

  • @NatalieAHough
    @NatalieAHough Год назад +764

    I looooooove Tana and Trevi. I also love how Tana is turned towards you and fully invested in this conversation.

    • @tessarobles5015
      @tessarobles5015 Год назад +22

      Same, for whatever reason I didn't recognize Tana at first and it wasn't until I heard her talk that I was sure it was her because she was literally turned toward Trev and away from the camera the whole time. That body language and commitment to the convo means something, for real.

  • @AbbyCadabbyxo
    @AbbyCadabbyxo Год назад +1703

    It’s really interesting because like, when I first started watching Tana and became obsessed with her… I WAS Tana. A total and complete wild ass party girl. That’s what I was known as. Now, years later I’ve grown and evolved and I’m a very different person. I believe Tana is as well. And idk I think it’s just kinda really fucking cool to see your life and story almost mirrored through another person. Very proud of you girls and how far you’ve both come 💜

    • @emily-wb4fv
      @emily-wb4fv Год назад +21

      Sort of a similar experience with me!! I was starting college when I started watching Tana (and then Trevi) and I was totally that party girl. Now I’m 26 and I’m way more critical of the culture we have that enables this sort of self destructive behavior.

    • @pinkfeet518
      @pinkfeet518 Год назад +14

      I’m proud of how far YOU have come! It’s hard when being a “party girl” seems to be the norm and our main way to stay social and keep friends. I hope you’re thriving 🤍

    • @makenaford3785
      @makenaford3785 Год назад +6

      Can relate to this so much new tana is so amazing and growth

    • @Tiffxit
      @Tiffxit Год назад +6

      Exactly same. Only in the last 6-12 months have I started going to detox and winding down. So Weird watching us all grow together

    • @ahhhohitsjustmyreflection2688
      @ahhhohitsjustmyreflection2688 Год назад +5

      Couldn’t have said it better I was actually at the worst part of my life I started watching her videos while drinking and after partying when I was alone and couldn’t sleep I was a mess I could barely move during the day and couldn’t stop moving at night all my friends would screw me over in a heart beat and I was dating a horrible boyfriend who cheated on me all the time and then I got pregnant by him and what I thought would ruin my life actually changed it I stopped drinking I stopped partying and I became a mother at 18 years old and was pregnant at 17 my daughter made everything in my life worth while and when I started becoming a better person I saw Tana do the same it’s great to see where we all are

  • @melissamascari726
    @melissamascari726 Год назад +594

    This hits me in the feels so hard. My best friend was an alcoholic. After I pulled myself away just a bit she almost died. So I was there again. And then she relapsed but kept telling me she was sober and I had such a hard time trusting her. She scared me. And I was always afraid of walking into her house and finding her dead. The last time we hung out we had had plans for weeks. And she was essentially blacked out when I went to pick her up. I thought if we got away for a bit it would be good. But she was passing out. Begging for her little sister (which is what she called me) not even realizing she was with me. So I drove her home and tucked her in and completely cut off every form of communication. People would always tell me they saw her stumbling to the liquor store and I would feel so fucking sad because I loved her so damn much but she was really the only one who could help herself. Nothing I did helped. And then I heard nothing about her or from her in a long time. And one day she reached back out and told me she was clean she was in rehab and doing great. I knew in my soul it was for real that time and I was like oh my god it's like I got my best fucking friend back. She is beautiful and thriving. And I am so fucking proud of her. And proud of you, Trevi! I know it isn't easy. And I am so glad to see you thriving again too

    • @ashlynnmarie59
      @ashlynnmarie59 Год назад +23

      This made me tear up, I’m so happy for y’all!!❤️😭

    • @ainovuorenmaa9786
      @ainovuorenmaa9786 Год назад +12

      Im so happy! Thank you for sharing. Im living with my best friends and Ive been really struggling. This is sending me some hope, much love for the both of you.

    • @melissamascari726
      @melissamascari726 Год назад +3

      @@ashlynnmarie59

    • @melissamascari726
      @melissamascari726 Год назад +6

      @@ainovuorenmaa9786 You can do whatever you put your mind to!

    • @savannah8536
      @savannah8536 Год назад +3

      Lord I’m bawling my eyes out, I’ve read and experienced too many bad endings… that when you heard from her healthy and happy I couldn’t hold the tears back! So happy for your friend!! and so happy you got your best friend back 😭 wishing her safety and love on the rest of her journey ❤

  • @havenalexalangley546
    @havenalexalangley546 Год назад +654

    From watching you get blackout in Mexico to making amends and sober living! Proud of you Trevi and glad you got your friend back ❤

    • @TitttsMcGee
      @TitttsMcGee Год назад +48

      It’s so sad but that video in Mexico was one of my favorites for a really long time lmao

    • @livelollobotomy
      @livelollobotomy Год назад

      oh my gosh this is gonna make me cry

    • @alyssabeth6177
      @alyssabeth6177 Год назад +3

      @@TitttsMcGee it was mine too for the longest 😭

    • @emmacow82
      @emmacow82 Год назад

      @@alyssabeth6177 don't be sad about it. it should make us feel happy that trevi is now in this good place & sober, rather than still being destructive like they were in that video, even tho i loved it too

    • @conformality
      @conformality 7 месяцев назад

      @@TitttsMcGeeyes besides the alcohol that video is full of nostalgia ❤ i love seeing their growth aswell

  • @emily-wb4fv
    @emily-wb4fv Год назад +839

    I really resonated with Tana’s statement about what made her finally throw her hands in the air with Trevi. I had a similar experience when my mom was in active addiction where I had to pull away because I simply couldn’t watch her k*ll herself anymore. She is 29 months sober today. ❤
    So glad to see you have rekindled your friendship. Trevi, I am so so proud of you. You have been through hell and you are such a strong woman. I wish you nothing but the best in your journey.

    • @danafeenaghty1201
      @danafeenaghty1201 Год назад +5

      I’ve felt the same way watching my mom get sober. it’s so hard to watch and sit there as someone you love goes through it and it’s hard bc you know it’s a disease but of course it still hurts a lot

    • @danafeenaghty1201
      @danafeenaghty1201 Год назад +3

      I’m glad your mom was able to get sober

    • @MissPink217
      @MissPink217 Год назад +3

      i’m so happy you get to experience your mom sober in this lifetime. i hope you cherish that & her bc not everyone gets to see their person beat addiction ❤

    • @gracegustafson7106
      @gracegustafson7106 6 месяцев назад

      Same in my moms addiction. 7 years sober:)

  • @Katzunowo
    @Katzunowo Год назад +490

    My mom struggled with addiction her whole life. It’s so hard to see someone you love go through it. But me and her have a great relationship now and I’m glad you guys are rekindling :)

    • @melissagardner5936
      @melissagardner5936 8 месяцев назад

      I love you for your comment ❤ I’m so glad you where able to forgive your mom. I’m a mom in recovery ❤️‍🩹 ❤❤

  • @kinzinator1
    @kinzinator1 Год назад +593

    I haven't watched Tana in a couple years and I'm happy to see how much she has grown up and matured

    • @VioletHeyoka
      @VioletHeyoka Год назад +4

      She truly has! She’s currently doing 69 hard and ENJOYING being sober! She even wakes up early and is changing her life. I’m so damn proud of her!

  • @Papaetmoi2000
    @Papaetmoi2000 Год назад +846

    I’m not a huge tana fan, as she has a huge problem with taking accountability for her actions/making a joke out of it but, I can totally relate to her as someone who is friends with addicts. She truly loves trevi and has all the patient and believes in trevi so much.

    • @destinyc7801
      @destinyc7801 Год назад +37

      I don’t disagree but I do think it’s because humour is her biggest coping mechanism and when you’ve been through stuff, humour hides pain, it’s one of the strongest defences because it can distract people and protect you from vulnerability and having to work on yourself. I completely get why people don’t like though and I agree that she has done bad things but I also think she’s probably different in real too because most people seem to like her

    • @Papaetmoi2000
      @Papaetmoi2000 Год назад +13

      @@destinyc7801 her “humour” comes at the expense of other peoples pain.

    • @rilkennedy
      @rilkennedy Год назад +14

      “i was young and didn’t know” she was 24

    • @Papaetmoi2000
      @Papaetmoi2000 Год назад +10

      @@rilkennedy literally. Girl I’m 22 and stopped watching her at 18

    • @toriforbes2225
      @toriforbes2225 Год назад

      @@rilkennedy no she’s 24 now idiot. 22 and 24 are huge jumps when it comes to what u value in your life.

  • @colaoversize6981
    @colaoversize6981 Год назад +352

    How you two managed not to cry on camera BEATS me. My tears were falling throughout the video. Thank you for sharing this beautiful moment with us.

    • @Sam13806
      @Sam13806 Год назад +1

      How do people do that? I must be one emotionless bitch. Cause ya this is great and it’s a good moment for them but definitely not cry worthy to me. Lmao.

    • @user-yy3zs8ll9x
      @user-yy3zs8ll9x 6 месяцев назад

      Srsly

    • @user-yy3zs8ll9x
      @user-yy3zs8ll9x 6 месяцев назад

      I cried too

  • @ellielikesmuffins3447
    @ellielikesmuffins3447 Год назад +513

    I have so much respect for people who are brave enough to work through things and are willing to see each others’ faults.
    I love you both 💚

  • @blep76
    @blep76 Год назад +177

    Hearing her say trevi was so sweet to me 😭😭 I hope y’all can heal

  • @Interstellarpickles
    @Interstellarpickles Год назад +95

    This was so healing and I’m dumbfounded by the enormity of Trevi’s strength. I am in active addiction right now lying to people and stuck in a cycle and trying and failing but still fighting and it gets so overwhelming. Trevi I’m so proud of you and inspired by you for this time you have spent sober and faced so much.

    • @Kaitygerber
      @Kaitygerber Год назад +11

      You’re doing better than you realize by even recognizing that you want change. It’s baby steps, and you’ve already completed the first one by understanding the issue. I’m hoping for all the best for you 🫶🏻

    • @oliviac422
      @oliviac422 Год назад +1

      Sending you strength ❤

    • @tessarobles5015
      @tessarobles5015 Год назад +2

      Same, it's so hard! But seeing videos like this gives me hope and strength. Rachel, just know that I love u for what u go through on a daily basis and what you've been through and hope that we see better days soon! ✌️❤✌️❤

    • @ericaj8867
      @ericaj8867 Год назад +1

      You got this ❤ God has got this

    • @kitten-face
      @kitten-face Год назад

      @KaitysMakeup this. Self awareness is the very first step. OP: you got this

  • @angelarechiga2938
    @angelarechiga2938 Год назад +33

    The maturity of the conversation is so genuine. I love both Trevi and Tana for having this conversation and sharing it with others.

  • @Juwlz
    @Juwlz Год назад +168

    Its interesting to see you guys sit down together. I remember the video you guys did years ago, talking about your birthday party fallout and while I won't lie, you both were able to make the story hilarious and entertaining because of the way it was told, I remember thinking "I hope Trevi is ok. There is a lot of "normalizing" what sounds like a dangerous pattern of substance abuse underneath the jokes and comedic timing of this story"
    I'm glad to see you doing so well and if it is healthy for you to do so, I hope to see you on your channel more often 😊 but only if it's healthy for you

    • @laurens.6040
      @laurens.6040 Год назад +3

      i remember thinking the same thing during that video

  • @lauryniti1807
    @lauryniti1807 Год назад +89

    this was so refreshing to see two adults have a proper conversation about life and what y’all have been through

  • @juliette700
    @juliette700 Год назад +96

    This is a great way to demonstrate that the “Hollywood life” can be so toxic beautifully put together so proud of both of you. I stopped following both of you when my addiction took off because it was too much and seeing this pop up really made me love both of you so much

  • @xmelissaxx
    @xmelissaxx Год назад +27

    "Losing you is like losing a part of me." Exactly how I feel after losing my boyfriend. So glad you're thriving and that the two of you reconnected

  • @FreakyFatCooking
    @FreakyFatCooking Год назад +145

    As a person who is struggling so hard with alcohol and has followed Trevi from the beginning, this gives me the courage to want to stop. I love you so much trevi and I am so proud. And I hope i can become the amazing person you are today

    • @rachelmarie7892
      @rachelmarie7892 Год назад +3

      I wish you the best of luck friend 🖤 I hope you hold onto that courage and are kind to yourself, recovery is so tough. Remember each day is open for a new choice to be made, and keep moving forward 🖤

    • @hwoods-kg1jf
      @hwoods-kg1jf Год назад +3

      You can quit! I never thought I would quit until I started having serious health issues/liver problems from my alcoholism and drug use and I got sober. I stopped doing drugs 8 years ago and I quit alcohol a Year and 10 months ago. The first 3-6 months is the absolute hardest but after you make it through that, it does get a bit easier. I tend to stay away from places where I know there will be alcohol or people that continue to party/drink and that also helps keep me sober/on the wagon. Best of luck to you!

    • @Sproutlings
      @Sproutlings Год назад

      Wishing you strength and hope 🙏

    • @zweij
      @zweij Год назад +1

      I wish you a happy alcohol free life. You can do it, really...

    • @heatherray8718
      @heatherray8718 Год назад +1

      If I can celebrate being clean off of fentanyl you can get clean! I believe in you !!!❤

  • @TaylorReilly
    @TaylorReilly Год назад +95

    i love everything about this. the mature energy is amazing. sending love to both of u.

  • @angiewyss6703
    @angiewyss6703 Год назад +22

    This video means the world to me. My bestfriend died a year ago and she struggled with addiction for years…I never got to say goodbye because we weren’t apart of each others lives anymore and I wish I could’ve had a conversation like this with her

  • @sophiec1348
    @sophiec1348 Год назад +106

    Haven’t watched anything Tana’s been in in a few years and I’m honestly amazed and proud of the maturity and growth in this video.

  • @ashleyburns95
    @ashleyburns95 Год назад +273

    So proud of you Trevi!! 💖 I’m going on 4 years sober myself. It’s such a hard battle but I’m grateful for every day I have clean.
    Edit: I also wanted to say I relate to this whole video so much. My best friend also cut me off because of my addiction. We recently reconnected after 3+ years of not speaking and it’s been so amazing. Losing my friendship with him was one of my deepest regrets and the hardest loss I experienced because of being an addict. I’m so glad to have him back in my life 💖 You just have those people in your life that are truly soul sisters

    • @zoeshapiro3907
      @zoeshapiro3907 Год назад +2

      congrats on 4 years! 😁

    • @ashleyburns95
      @ashleyburns95 Год назад +1

      @@zoeshapiro3907 thank you!!! 🥰

    • @jujumariex
      @jujumariex Год назад +2

      i’m also 4 years clean from heroin & everything in between. to this day i’m still losing friends to overdoses. i’m so proud of you for your sobriety ❤ keep up the amazing work

    • @AD-kh3wj
      @AD-kh3wj Год назад

      Wow...4 Yrs..CONGRATS😇

  • @spookybaby7497
    @spookybaby7497 Год назад +115

    Teary eyed. I’m about to hit a year and a half clean and I lost my best friend back in April to the disease of addiction. I’m in the in between of having left behind my friends still using for my own safety and yet to meet new ones. It’s so lonely. I’m really proud of you Trevi.

    • @shayalynn
      @shayalynn Год назад +2

      Aww good things will start coming to you, in it’s good time. Each day a little more of who are will start coming out again. Addiction is terrible and I’m going through it too. I hate when people think if someone looks well in appearance (well dressed, hair put together, makeup) it doesn’t mean someone isn’t secretly addicted to a substance. I’m sorry for everything you went through, and for you to get where you are now, shows how much strength you got in your heart.

    • @lydiaaccount2168
      @lydiaaccount2168 Год назад +1

      It will get better, release the old friends from your life, healthy relationships will find you. Congrats on the sobriety. ❤ I just hit 3.5 years this month. Life will get better. ❤

    • @user-jc1xc4jk1c
      @user-jc1xc4jk1c Год назад +2

      I’m proud of you💗

    • @heatherray8718
      @heatherray8718 Год назад +3

      I have 16 months clean off fentanyl. Hardest battle I’ve ever had to go through. It’s extremely lonely. But I’ll take a lonely life over my best day on drugs anytime. Keep on going you are worth it 🤍🌹

    • @shayalynn
      @shayalynn Год назад +2

      @@heatherray8718 wow, you're a walking legend.. heather thats incredible you overcome that. congratulations and hope your life becomes more blessed!

  • @alexandrastrauser5538
    @alexandrastrauser5538 7 месяцев назад +6

    its so important to educate people about trauma. trauma causes us to behave in ways that are beyond the persons own control. it takes away our free will. it causes a person to self sabotage.

  • @veronicao4643
    @veronicao4643 Год назад +48

    I feel really guilty right now because my favourite video of theirs is blackout drunk in Mexico. That being said, I’m glad Trevi is doing well and back in their friend group.

    • @emmacow82
      @emmacow82 Год назад +3

      don't feel guilty. it should make you feel good to think that trevi is now sober and in such a good place. you can look back on that video without the negativity of thinking that he could still be out of control on drugs and alcohol in the present

  • @lexvirgilio
    @lexvirgilio Год назад +85

    This video is truly amazing. More conversations like this need to happen especially amongst young adults. And you both look absolutely AMAZING . Literally Breathtaking❤️

  • @rubybrown8344
    @rubybrown8344 Год назад +10

    wow… this video resonated so hard with me. a year ago a close friend of mine was dealing so hard with addiction and i didn’t know how to handle it as a kid (we were 19) and it just got so out of control i had no idea how to support her and now she’s thriving and in recovery and i’m so proud of her and i’m hoping we can rekindle our friendship the same way you and tana have done here❤️

  • @itsmo6285
    @itsmo6285 Год назад +3

    coming from someone who grew up watching both you and tana and wondering over the past couple years what ever happened to your relationship i’m so happy for you both. i’m so proud of you trevi but also tana, you both have grown so much and you guys are beautiful people inside and out ❤️ this healed me watching you guys healing and coming back together

  • @melissacoviello2886
    @melissacoviello2886 Год назад +2

    This is such an important video. Trevi you are awesome for being this open. I can only imagine what it would’ve been like having people online that I looked up to getting sober and being real, and healing friendships publicly as someone who got sober at 15. I’ve had the conversations with friends who just didn’t get it, because why would other teenagers get it. I adore you both.

  • @iloveparamore989
    @iloveparamore989 Год назад +5

    thank you guys for being vulnerable choosing to share this conversation because i think this would help a lot of people. its helping to break the misconception that you can be “too young” to have substance abuse and addiction issues. congrats on your sobriety trevi im glad you have made it out alive and thriving

  • @mandyholliday131
    @mandyholliday131 Год назад +5

    wow. i love you both so much and trevi i am so so SO proud of you. i grew up watching you and it makes my heart so full to know that self growth is achievable and the real ones around you will be there at the end of the day

  • @whitneyrose96
    @whitneyrose96 Год назад +20

    I HAVENT FINISHED THIS BUT IM SO HAPPY YA’LL ARE BACK TOGETHER PROUD OF YOU TREVI YOU LOOK AMAZING BABE

  • @shayasmr5581
    @shayasmr5581 Год назад +27

    Talking about addiction with your friends is important ❤ im glad you guys got this full circle moment with each other, alot of people don’t get it because its too late. Good job Trevi!!!

  • @TiffanyZeyer
    @TiffanyZeyer Год назад +6

    I know where both of y'all have been I've been there and back and I'm so proud and happy for you! You're glowing, both of you!

  • @lparsons1972
    @lparsons1972 Год назад +34

    It hurts so much to watch a friend die from addiction. I am so so proud of trevi for getting clean. It takes a strength that not a lot of people have.

  • @justice-zz7hp
    @justice-zz7hp Год назад +4

    this genuinely made me tear up in the best way ♡ you can HEAR the therapy in the way Trevi speaks about her addiction and her journey I'm just so proud of her :(

  • @sat1vadiva
    @sat1vadiva Год назад +3

    i love this, as someone who’s been watching the both of you since the very beginning i’m so happy to see how far the both of you have come. Tana has become so much more mature and sensible over the years.
    congratulations trevi for being sober, you are badass !! love you both

  • @misfitbritt
    @misfitbritt Год назад +22

    I'm SO glad you two hashed it out! Can I just say I LOVE that you both looked at one another talking it out, not at the camera! Felt like a girly talk w my besties! The way... I cried throughout this video... my lord! 😫 😭👏 I've been through this myself w my favorite human in the world.... she couldn't take watching me drink and do drugs, letting my life slip away! Thankfully now almost 8 years sober!

  • @chan3llaa
    @chan3llaa Год назад +23

    Trevi we are so proud of you! Thank you for coming out to address this to the public we’ve missed you so much and we’re so happy you’re looking after yourself. We see you and you’re glowing babe! love you!!! Xoxo

  • @jazlynnlowery7975
    @jazlynnlowery7975 Год назад +21

    I’m honestly so proud of both of y’all. Neither of you know me, but I grew up watching y’all and it’s amazing to finally see y’all thriving and working everyday to be the best you possible. This video was truly inspiring and no matter what anyone says y’all really are killin it❤️

  • @zilyakinley4287
    @zilyakinley4287 Год назад +2

    i recently had surgery and was on painkillers for even the shortest time and it has been in my head this entire week. i had a real hard night tonight but this video really brought me back down to earth. it reminded me why my recovery is so crucial. trevi, you truly are an inspiration and i'm so proud.

  • @emmabickford5674
    @emmabickford5674 Год назад +12

    This means so much for me to see right now. I lost my best friend to my addiction, and it has been soul crushing. Just hope one day she will come back. So proud of you xx

  • @faerigutsz
    @faerigutsz Год назад +7

    this makes me so fucking happy. as someone who has been watching you since 2014, it’s so inspiring to see your growth. so incredibly proud of you and the person you are Trevi.

  • @mimizofia
    @mimizofia Год назад

    videos like these are so necessary and beautiful- ur addiction story is something we see often nowadays but seeing the growth and realness behind it is so important. vulnerability like this inspires and helps so many more people than you can imagine so thank you

  • @madisons.5623
    @madisons.5623 Год назад +8

    I lost my father to alcoholism in March… so proud of you Trevi. So glad you have people in your life who support you. Love you ❤

  • @esmithycentral
    @esmithycentral Год назад +11

    as someone who deals with addiction this has me sobbing, ive pushed so many people away and i hope to have a reconciliation like this with some of them one day

  • @quinnharlow7304
    @quinnharlow7304 Год назад +6

    As a recovering addict I can relate to Trevi so much. I related so much back then too. And I had such heavy resentments over people who distanced themselves with me and so much shame. It made me so happy to see this

  • @annavictrix
    @annavictrix Год назад +2

    Thank you for sharing this conversation. I was a binge drinker for years, needed a shot just to feel okay in the morning, $$$ a week on liquor, etc. Maintaining friendships like that is hard. I’m glad you both are able to have this conversation and I hope it leads to even more healing.

  • @itsyourgirl_9899
    @itsyourgirl_9899 Год назад +3

    This was such a beautiful, open and honest video. Thank you for sharing, truly made me emotional watching this. I'm so proud of you Trevi!

  • @harmony7967
    @harmony7967 Год назад +26

    This hits home for me. Literally the same exact story with my friends and myself. I'm going on 3 years sober at the end of the month! I tell people ALL the time people who go through trauma, addiction then recovery that we give main character vibes if we get our shit together. If you are struggling, find people to connect with for support. When they say "it takes a village" it TRULY does. Connection could singlehandedly save the world. Sending my love to anyone who needs it!

    • @ON-qy1ou
      @ON-qy1ou Год назад

      Omg main character vibes.. that's so true

  • @Moonlight-zx6ho
    @Moonlight-zx6ho Год назад

    I cried for y’all watching this!! to see you guys come so far is honestly so heart warming I grew up watching you guys and am experiencing my own journey with sobriety and this was vary full circle moment and healing congrats to you for how far you have came and to come 😊

  • @emmabrigham4211
    @emmabrigham4211 Год назад +2

    so proud of you trevi, truly so proud. Almost cried sm times hearing you talk about your struggles, so proud of you

  • @Grace.allovertheplace
    @Grace.allovertheplace Год назад +5

    Hi 👋 I really appreciate this video, it appears that you have begun to find yourself, your true essence. I haven’t watched neither one of you for at least 2+ years and isn’t subscribed to your channels, but this interview still popped up in my feed, thank you both and the best of luck and prayers to you both ❤️

  • @denise_gabriella2614
    @denise_gabriella2614 Год назад +3

    So clear that this convo was genuinely meaningful to both of them. Proud of how much growth and maturity that they show in this video. Lovee this duo so much💓

  • @AnnaVickee
    @AnnaVickee Год назад +2

    Trevi, thank you so much for this video. RUclips recommended it to me and it feels like destiny. My mom just went to rehab for the second time yesterday, I'm her only child and she's recently divorced my dad so I'm the one taking care of her and it all. Her addiction has also hardly impacted our relationship, and seeing you and Tana mended up like this makes my heart so warm. I feel like she can do this and I can do this and we'll make it out alive, stronger, and closer than ever. Maybe you never thought this video, in particular, would be of help to someone, but it really is, I can't explain how healing it was to watch this. Thank you both so so so much for your honesty in this. I can only hope and pray for the best of you. Slay!

  • @jehoqz
    @jehoqz Год назад +1

    So effing proud of you girl!!! It was 5 years for me August 1st. You two have an iconically beautiful & strong friendship. Take not peeps ... THIS is how you SAVE your friends as much as it hurts ... you'll get them back just give them time to heal!!! xoxox

  • @KateKosmo
    @KateKosmo Год назад +5

    As an addict all we have are broken relationships! I've been in recovery for 14 yrs & it's crazy how much destruction we cause. I'm so happy your in recovery now bc watching through the screen I literally though you were going to die & was so scared for you. At the end you really were at rock bottom. The worst is we couldn't help you, only you could help yourself but it hurt to watch your destruction. Love you 😍

  • @joyceannblue1433
    @joyceannblue1433 Год назад +10

    This is exactly what I needed right now 🙂 And glad y'all got together 💕

  • @hwoods-kg1jf
    @hwoods-kg1jf Год назад

    SO happy to see Trevi sober and THRIVING! I'm also glad you and Tana got to talk things out! I'm also a recovering addict and alcoholic. I'm 8 years sober from hard drugs but I'm a Year and 10 months sober from alcohol and I have to say, quitting drinking has been by far the HARDEST one for me to quit! Props to you Trevi! You're an inspiration to others! Much love and support! 🙂😘💗

  • @rileymoores7604
    @rileymoores7604 Год назад +2

    This is the most real RUclips video I have ever seen I grew up on these people and new knew anything. This is beautiful and such an inspiring video. I love tana and Trev and I have missed these two together I’m so glad that they can connect like this again and grow together. Love you both so proud of u both

  • @samanthasartain2077
    @samanthasartain2077 Год назад +50

    Trevi, you can tell you've put in the work. Congratulations mama- a friend of Bill ❤️ #ODAAT

  • @FawnaFuller
    @FawnaFuller Год назад +4

    I'm so happy for this reunion and for your continued success living your best life Trevi!!! Everyday and every way everyone's getting older but only the real ones not only face it but embrace it

  • @qnicole1679
    @qnicole1679 Год назад

    Wow! Haven't watched your videos in years, this came up in my recommended. Trevi I'm so happy to learn about your sobriety journey. Your kindness and introspection is obvious in the way you speak and act. You seem mature beyond your years - I don't know if it's because of all you've been through or just who you are as a person. It touched my heart to hear you say things like "we don't have to sit here and compare" and bring up the idea of selfishness vs. compassion; even in discussing serious and devastating topics you're being very empathetic and kind to Tana. Wish you the best of luck on your journey forward.

  • @emreblaubeermuffin5004
    @emreblaubeermuffin5004 Год назад

    this was so healing to watch! you two have a beautiful connection and I am so happy for you

  • @milkyway994
    @milkyway994 Год назад +45

    i love you, trevi 💕 been here since your apple store dance era and I'm so proud of the woman you are today

  • @Just2Brothershl1314
    @Just2Brothershl1314 Год назад +42

    My cousin suffered from addiction for 10 years until he took his life in 2007. I wish he reached out and had the resources to recover healthily. I’m so happy to see Trevi alive happy and healthy. Please reach out for help if your are suffering from addiction it’s not worth your life.

  • @jordyn5538
    @jordyn5538 Год назад +1

    This was so healing and beautiful 💓💓 such a blessing to be able to even have these conversations

  • @BelieberforevazXx
    @BelieberforevazXx Год назад +6

    i really respect your friendship and really enjoyed this very open video, all the luck to you trevi (:

  • @18Mscutiegirl
    @18Mscutiegirl Год назад

    i literally have grown up watching you guys. It is sooo cool to see us all kinda growing together and maturing. Having these sorts of difficult conversations are hard but so important!! Proud of you both xx

  • @Popopatop
    @Popopatop Год назад +1

    wow this made me tear up multiple times. this must have been so healing for you guys to sit down and have the chance to hear where each other was coming from. Being in both positions is so so hard. The person I love the most in the world was/is battling alcoholism and there aren't words to express how devastating it is to be a bystander and feel like you have no control over them slowly killing themselves. I related a lot to what tana was saying, especially when she kept reiterating how she never truly left trevi and she was still there for her just distanced. Thats how I feel towards my loved one too. You can tell how much these two people love each other and its so beautiful to see and i just feel happy that they have each other. congrats on your sobriety

  • @desereesantillanes-torrez6823
    @desereesantillanes-torrez6823 Год назад +5

    Trevi thank you for being so honest about addiction and the Hollywood industry. I am a recovering addict with 11 years clean. Something that's helped me stay sober is, NEVER forgetting the person I was. Because that person can come back anytime. Very PROUD of you! Sending love, light and prayers

  • @asdjklasdjkl105
    @asdjklasdjkl105 Год назад +12

    I started watching this video, paused to watch that tana episode, then went down a rabbit hole of tana and Trevor and now I’m here 6 hours later

  • @claressadurfee6521
    @claressadurfee6521 Год назад +1

    I personally struggle with alcohol addiction, and this is exactly what I went through.. I wish nothing you but the best in your journey. This hit home hard, and I'm glad that people are finally opening up and talking about it

  • @GenuinelyMorgan
    @GenuinelyMorgan Год назад +4

    Aww I love you guys! 🥰 Watching you guys grow up, so proud 💕

  • @daniellevictori906
    @daniellevictori906 Год назад +8

    I missed y’all’s friendship SOOO much!!!! ❤ I’m so happy with how you’ve both grown

  • @danimarie9041
    @danimarie9041 Год назад

    BEAUTIFUL video and so many people can learn from what you both went through. Together and separate. And being able to come back together in this different stage of your lives is EVERYTHING ❤

  • @elaine378
    @elaine378 Год назад +2

    Feel like crying, love you SO much Trevi, and I’m so glad you and Tana have now come 180, you’re exceptional and inspiring

  • @Amanda-yz8yw
    @Amanda-yz8yw Год назад +7

    I’m so proud of your guys. To watch you evolve into such well spoken, rounded mature adults. Like wow. Congratulations. 💕 So glad the girls are back together

  • @ugnej
    @ugnej Год назад +20

    I haven't watched either of you in literally years and it's been lovely to see this healthy discussion!

  • @beckydavid8411
    @beckydavid8411 Год назад +1

    This video makes me so happy. I’m a recovering addict, and have been clean for 6.5 years off of pain meds (I still drink when my friends get together). I’m now dealing with my sister who was always such a amazing sister, and mom to her son being addicted to heroine, meth, and alcohol & it’s the hardest thing I’ve ever had to watch. It physically hurts to see someone you love with your whole heart dealing with addiction. I pray that someday soon she will get clean, and finally start living her best life. Taking care of my 16 year old nephew as a 27 year old is rough because I see how much it bothers him that both his mom & dad are addicts who can’t take care of him.
    I love the realness in this video, and I’m so, so happy for you.

  • @SK-hn9ic
    @SK-hn9ic Год назад +1

    iconic behavior from both parties in this videoooo!!!! i’ve been struggling w addiction for 9 years, been sober for 5 and it’s so REFRESHINGGGG to see some ppl w such a platform have a very mature adult conversion regarding addiction + such!!! 10/10 stars kisses to the chef 💕

  • @JLynn72788
    @JLynn72788 Год назад +39

    I'm so glad to see you 2 mature and being together again ❤️

  • @laurenmarshall8877
    @laurenmarshall8877 Год назад +15

    This hit so close to home. I’m currently struggling with alcohol use. Ever since covid i’ve been drinking daily and using alcohol to feel better when i’m depressed. I always assumed I would be able to stop but now I can’t and it’s the absolute worst thing. The amount of strength and discipline it takes to get sober is something I wish i had. People have started distancing from me for the same reason tana did and it hurts to see knowing this is a result of my own actions

    • @samkelsall8767
      @samkelsall8767 Год назад +3

      Sending you so much love ❤ Praying for you - you’ve got this!!! 🙌🏼

    • @SweetMelodies00
      @SweetMelodies00 Год назад +3

      I’ll tell you what I told my brother who is an alcoholic, the only other option is death….soo any other option would be 100 times better

    • @laurenmarshall8877
      @laurenmarshall8877 Год назад

      @@SweetMelodies00 thank u so so much this means a lot

    • @laurenmarshall8877
      @laurenmarshall8877 Год назад

      @@samkelsall8767 thank you a million times

  • @ianseverson8618
    @ianseverson8618 Год назад

    I did almost the exact same thing with my friend that was an addict and I felt bad for so long but it’s what was healthy for both of us because we enabled each other in one way or another and ultimately it made us both healthy. So glad to see you two back together💕

  • @bizzyguinchard275
    @bizzyguinchard275 Год назад +1

    so happy for the both of y'all, it really shows how much y'all have grown

  • @Kristen_B123
    @Kristen_B123 Год назад +3

    Gosh, this is so beautiful. I’m so glad they shared this with us ❤️

  • @theonlydianer
    @theonlydianer Год назад +4

    Trevi I don't know you but I'm so proud of you! I'm also a recovering addict, I've been clean over a year and it's amazing. It's so hard to come out of but it just shows you how damn Strong you are. You haven't had it easy but don't look back now, be excited for the future and your new chapter
    ❤️

  • @evelynjt7838
    @evelynjt7838 Год назад

    So inspiring!!! Ive done it before I’m going to do this again. Thank you for bringing awareness to sobriety! You are amazing Trevi.

  • @CrystalLynnBeauty
    @CrystalLynnBeauty Год назад

    I'm so happy to see this. Healing for both of you. The blessings of recovery! Killin it Trevi💜

  • @casperblue3668
    @casperblue3668 Год назад +7

    That's wut's up homie, props for getting the help that was necessary to get you to where you are now keep going to meetings and all that good stuff

  • @chloeneal6624
    @chloeneal6624 Год назад +52

    1Y 2M sober and it has been literally life changing.
    Nice to see you guys hanging out again. Thanks for speaking about addiction Trevi, it’s still so taboo even in todays times.

  • @emmalilybear
    @emmalilybear Год назад

    This is amazing. I love that your paths are realigning 💓💓 thank you for sharing this conversation

  • @jadeverkos
    @jadeverkos Год назад +1

    i love seeing this serious and more relaxed side of tana. it's really refreshing :) ily both 💗

  • @brinker913
    @brinker913 Год назад +3

    Genuinely they are both so grown and well spoken now how beautiful ❤