This was absolutely helpful. Really struggling with letting go of the south node. I took a leap of faith in my career and moved across states alone without savings or really anything in the bank. I did incredibly well for a few months, then when I had to move to another place I grew south node feet. I went to visit family. Well. I’m here visiting family and realize that was a huge, gigantic, ginormous mistake. I’m trying to get back to my Capricorn NN trajectory and go back to the state I moved to. The emotions are getting in the way of strategy and planning. So, this is the help I need. Thank you.
I have the south node in 11th house cancer and north node in 5th house Capricorn. I always felt a pull towards helping others/my community and I would say I'm a natural nurturer/caregiver to others which lead me to go into nursing but I never found satisfaction in simply being the nurse at your bedside or working with older people, for the most part. I started to feel like I needed recognition for my hard work and started to become resentful burned out etc now I know why; I need to activate my north node in Capricorn. Become a leader, be creative, maybe work with children, be resilient, work hard and don't let my emotions take over. I still haven't got it all figured out but it's been prominent since I turned 30. As far as children I never cared too much in having my own children, only if it were to happen that's great but it's natural for me to understand other women issues / motherhood although I may not be a mom. I did have bonding problems with my own mom as a child, I felt deprived emotionally. My mom wasn't the most nurturing and I later realized she was a young mother who was still figuring who she was. I was a mother to my own mother, ha. I had to let that Capricorn north node kick in to help me build resilience towards the outside world and lick my own wounds. I love that I gathered all of this through astrology to better understand myself. ( I think I might of been a mother in my past with many children and that's why I don't feel too inclined in having my own big family in this life time.. 🤔 ) Thank you for your insight Xo
This is accurate. I’m trying to leave the nest but I always feel compelled to mother others, to help my family, they guilt trip me when I tell them no. It’s a cycle that I’m breaking.
Appreciate your perspective. Thank you. This is my go to video at times of uncertainty. It helps to deal with these difficult emotions and not feel a victim.
No children & went from extremely close to family to not wanting family in my life. My North & south Nodes took over in '12/'13...the positive lessons.
was I cursed in a bad family (mother who malnourished me despite having the money to feed me; I almost died as an infant because she refused to feed me) to help push me out of it and seek my own way? me and my brothers all suffered under her, but I would argue it was me who suffered the most (oldest brother left, too, although his north node is in cancer and he left to start his own family far away from the assholes who oversaw his childhood)
It’s crazy that you say people with south node in cancer are likely to not want children because all I ever wanted was to be a better mother then what I had she wasn’t evil but man it could have been better I’m most definitely trying to live in my north node it very hard with children but I’m trying!!
Of Course they can. In my experience I have found many women with the South Node in Cancer choose not to have children. Its a choice they make not a destiny. Marc : )
Sydney Astrology School oh okay ! I was nervous . Thank you Marc ! Also last question about this placement ..are they typically bound for divorce ? It seems like a ton of celebrities with this placement have had a tragic first relationship with a kid but then end up okay . I guess it’s all dependent on their chart though ..
@@pisceandreamz9096 Yes it does all depend on the chart, but you must remember things aren't fated in Astrology. We do get challenged, but then its up to us to choose what to do and where to go. For these people divorce may have seemed like the best option for them. We are always trying to learn and grow. Having the South Node in Cancer means you have the North Node in Capricorn which is about taking authority, and being self sufficient and reliant. Maybe in the marriages they fell back into South Node traps of neediness, emotional dependency and enabling, not what the soul wants for this lifetime. Marc : )
Sydney Astrology School you’re amazing and right ! Thanks for opening my mind to this insight and other perspective. This is most definitely something I have noticed I have has been a challenge in my love life
Can anyone possibly help me decipher my South Node falls into the same sign as my Midheaven?! AND the same sign as my Chiron! They all 3 are in Cancer. It's conflicting. I feel like I'm a walking paradox 😔 I don't have anyone to discuss this with.
Angelica with the South Node on the mid heaven in Cancer you possibly held a role or position of sorts within the family Dynamic, maybe a mother or carer with a lot of responsibily and whi everyone possibily relied on. People may have looked at you to manage things and keep everything together but it could have been quite emotionally overwheming for you as this would have felt like quite a load to carry. Being conjunct Chiron says you may have had to look after people as well possibly nurse them or heal them. This also could have been difficult as you may not have been all that well yourself and possibly had to do this alone. I see this in your post saying 'I don't have anyone to discuss this with' sounds very South Node Marc Laurenson
South Node in Cancer, Moon in the 4th conjunct Pluto. Long story short; abusive parents. No contact for 7 years. BUT South Node is very close to Ascendant. The hurt (particularly caused by my mother) has been resolved through a wonderful relationship with my own children. However. I seem to face constant obstacles to being a mother. You name it, it has happened. To the point of having to take legal claims. I am disabled so this doesn't help, a lot of it has been centred upon that. So when it comes to my home, I pretty much feel like pulling up the drawbridge, nailing the door shut and dropping the portcullis. There are sharks in the moat. 😂 Everyone apart from my youngest has Pluto in the 4th house. That includes the dog. My youngest has moon in Scorpio though! Fun stuff!
This was absolutely helpful. Really struggling with letting go of the south node. I took a leap of faith in my career and moved across states alone without savings or really anything in the bank. I did incredibly well for a few months, then when I had to move to another place I grew south node feet. I went to visit family. Well. I’m here visiting family and realize that was a huge, gigantic, ginormous mistake. I’m trying to get back to my Capricorn NN trajectory and go back to the state I moved to. The emotions are getting in the way of strategy and planning. So, this is the help I need. Thank you.
‘No body can make us feel guilty more than family.’
Yesss ewwwww
I have the south node in 11th house cancer and north node in 5th house Capricorn. I always felt a pull towards helping others/my community and I would say I'm a natural nurturer/caregiver to others which lead me to go into nursing but I never found satisfaction in simply being the nurse at your bedside or working with older people, for the most part. I started to feel like I needed recognition for my hard work and started to become resentful burned out etc now I know why; I need to activate my north node in Capricorn. Become a leader, be creative, maybe work with children, be resilient, work hard and don't let my emotions take over. I still haven't got it all figured out but it's been prominent since I turned 30. As far as children I never cared too much in having my own children, only if it were to happen that's great but it's natural for me to understand other women issues / motherhood although I may not be a mom. I did have bonding problems with my own mom as a child, I felt deprived emotionally. My mom wasn't the most nurturing and I later realized she was a young mother who was still figuring who she was. I was a mother to my own mother, ha. I had to let that Capricorn north node kick in to help me build resilience towards the outside world and lick my own wounds. I love that I gathered all of this through astrology to better understand myself. ( I think I might of been a mother in my past with many children and that's why I don't feel too inclined in having my own big family in this life time.. 🤔 )
Thank you for your insight
Xo
This is accurate. I’m trying to leave the nest but I always feel compelled to mother others, to help my family, they guilt trip me when I tell them no. It’s a cycle that I’m breaking.
Appreciate your perspective. Thank you. This is my go to video at times of uncertainty. It helps to deal with these difficult emotions and not feel a victim.
No children & went from extremely close to family to not wanting family in my life.
My North & south Nodes took over in '12/'13...the positive lessons.
Oh !! That was accurate
I have this placement and yes my family was the main BLOCKAGE in my way
It is usually the way. You will need to become more your own authority in life. Marc :)
Thank you! Most videos I've seen focus on nurturing the north node. This was helpful!
I have this placement and I feel like kids are holding you back.
Well I have 8 kids and south node is in cancer and north node in Capricorn
was I cursed in a bad family (mother who malnourished me despite having the money to feed me; I almost died as an infant because she refused to feed me) to help push me out of it and seek my own way? me and my brothers all suffered under her, but I would argue it was me who suffered the most (oldest brother left, too, although his north node is in cancer and he left to start his own family far away from the assholes who oversaw his childhood)
I’m so sorry 🫶🏽
It’s crazy that you say people with south node in cancer are likely to not want children because all I ever wanted was to be a better mother then what I had she wasn’t evil but man it could have been better I’m most definitely trying to live in my north node it very hard with children but I’m trying!!
South Node 1st house Cancer oh and Chiron is there as well
I have two boys and I have cancer south node...I'm a Taurus sun with a Virgo moon
Can people with this placement have children ? Or are they destined to not have kids no matter what ..
Of Course they can. In my experience I have found many women with the South Node in Cancer choose not to have children. Its a choice they make not a destiny. Marc : )
Sydney Astrology School oh okay ! I was nervous . Thank you Marc ! Also last question about this placement ..are they typically bound for divorce ? It seems like a ton of celebrities with this placement have had a tragic first relationship with a kid but then end up okay . I guess it’s all dependent on their chart though ..
@@pisceandreamz9096 Yes it does all depend on the chart, but you must remember things aren't fated in Astrology. We do get challenged, but then its up to us to choose what to do and where to go. For these people divorce may have seemed like the best option for them. We are always trying to learn and grow. Having the South Node in Cancer means you have the North Node in Capricorn which is about taking authority, and being self sufficient and reliant. Maybe in the marriages they fell back into South Node traps of neediness, emotional dependency and enabling, not what the soul wants for this lifetime. Marc : )
Sydney Astrology School you’re amazing and right ! Thanks for opening my mind to this insight and other perspective. This is most definitely something I have noticed I have has been a challenge in my love life
Woooow
Can anyone possibly help me decipher my South Node falls into the same sign as my Midheaven?! AND the same sign as my Chiron! They all 3 are in Cancer. It's conflicting. I feel like I'm a walking paradox 😔 I don't have anyone to discuss this with.
Angelica with the South Node on the mid heaven in Cancer you possibly held a role or position of sorts within the family Dynamic, maybe a mother or carer with a lot of responsibily and whi everyone possibily relied on. People may have looked at you to manage things and keep everything together but it could have been quite emotionally overwheming for you as this would have felt like quite a load to carry. Being conjunct Chiron says you may have had to look after people as well possibly nurse them or heal them. This also could have been difficult as you may not have been all that well yourself and possibly had to do this alone. I see this in your post saying 'I don't have anyone to discuss this with' sounds very South Node Marc Laurenson
Dolly Parton has 4th house South Node and she does not have children.
So interesting, isn't it.
Oprah is another one with a Cancer South Node and no kids.
Oh wow. I’m 29 and I just decided I don’t want children.
South Node in Cancer, Moon in the 4th conjunct Pluto. Long story short; abusive parents. No contact for 7 years. BUT South Node is very close to Ascendant. The hurt (particularly caused by my mother) has been resolved through a wonderful relationship with my own children. However. I seem to face constant obstacles to being a mother. You name it, it has happened. To the point of having to take legal claims. I am disabled so this doesn't help, a lot of it has been centred upon that. So when it comes to my home, I pretty much feel like pulling up the drawbridge, nailing the door shut and dropping the portcullis. There are sharks in the moat. 😂
Everyone apart from my youngest has Pluto in the 4th house. That includes the dog. My youngest has moon in Scorpio though! Fun stuff!
Oh the similarities! I am sending you such good energy ✨
Crosswatching. Ty