This man was completely calm, confident and collected, even after the results were read. She came out swinging and fighting, not to protect her kids, but to protect her lie and her image. He needs to get full custody of his kids, and take it from there. Don't gaf about her.
Yeh SHE SHOULD GO TO PRISON for this Keep in mind 1 out of 8 sex offenders that are accused DONT MAKE IT TO TRIAL because they are whacked before them Yes I SAID IT people GET maimed or WORSE KILLED over these accusations
Yeah and to everyone that says that parents that care and want to protect their children that need to get full custody are right when they say that. And not only that I DO NOT G.A.F ABOUT HER ETHER and What a skank move
They should 100% be taken from her & given to him. She is destroying the 3 of their lives. That's not a not a mom, let alone parent, that's a monster. People who place blame where it doesn't belong for selfish gain, are sick & now the daughter who claimed she was molested, will probably never get answers bc she did NOTHING to help find the truth.
He needs to get the court involved to try to get full custody of the kids after what she pulled. She deserves to never see her kids again and honestly some jail time on top of that.
I would normally say children need their mother, but that not a mother, that's a monster who not only failed to protect them, kept them from their father, who they clearly need to protect them from HER, bc she caused harm to them & clearly the father who loves those kids. He kept helping her, as the mother of his children, & she went & did that? I'm generally not a fan of name calling, but she really is a demented bum.
Far too many MEN have SADLY lost their LIVES physically mentally and professionally because a scumbag succubus like this one made up an accusation like this that the innocent man ENDS UP DEAD over
The woman has disgusting written all over her! He dragged this man through hell just so we could ruin his life and have the kids all to herself! I know a lot of people say this in the comments, and I agree with them: people who fabricate stories, or make up allegations, should be arrested, and have the same sentence as the actual crime! I honestly hope he gets full custody of the kids, and that she’s never around them again!
Yeah. I'm not on Steve's level of protection but I always said n thought people who fabricate should serve jail time cause people don't got time to be falsely accused.
will never happened, because law have always been favor of a girl and will always be , world is never fair and will never be fair and we should fight for fairness but always be real and see world for what it is
@@JackieDaytona1776 The consequences of a false accusation are far reaching and destructive. People have committed suicide because of them. Rape is bad but so are false accusations.
She kept his kids from him for a whole YEAR and he didnt take her ass to court? She didnt call the police, dhs, nothing. Obviously she was lying. Hebetter take her to court.
She knew! Her facial expression never changed when Steve read his results. She keep saying, “still ain’t seeing them”, I hope he remembers that when she begging him to see the kids cause he got full custody.
@@battlerudeeDan explained that she went along with the fabrications of child molestations so that’s why she passed two questions about fabricating the child molestations regarding her daughter and her son telling her what happened and she failed for coaching her kids and made false accusations against Wilbur.
I think people who make false allegations such as these should get as much punishment as the person They blamed would have. I cannot stand women (or men) who falsely accuse their exes of heinous crap just to get back at them. Using your kids as pawns is beyond evil.
I hope he gets a really good lawyer who not only rips her a new one in court, but also gets him full custody with supervised visits for her. I don't even want to think about what vile things she whispered (and absolutely will continue to whisper) in the little ones' ears.
Why the people who falsely accuse never seem to get punished for it. Twisting little ones minds does so much harm. The way Wilbur was attacked for something she manifested makes me worry for the children in her care.
Heartless. It was obvious she was coaching the kids- the way she wouldn't answer any damn questions and just kept trying to deflect showed boldly how guilty she was. I hope she lost the kids, or she'll use them as pawms their whole lives.
Why can't people see that telling your child they were interfered with screws them up almost as badly as it actually happening? Their fragile little brains are trying to develop in an already crazy world without their guardian throwing them into a snake pit.
Dude, she wasn't making up the allegations. Someone clearly has been touching those kids (or they lied about it). Coaching can be anything from trying to make the child believe it was someone else to asking leading questions like, "did your dad do it?"
What a clown 🤡! Why would she try to fight him if she was making it up? And seriously though if your children were actually being molested why tf would you call DHS but not the police? What tf are DHS gonna do?
I feel so sorry 4 the father, I knew he was telling the truth from the beginning. When she attacked him on stage from the beginning, I knew she was lying. Women who accuse men of this allegations should be thrown in jail.
She “said it’s a blessing but she said what she said and I did what I did” this lyin woman know good damn she wanted that man locked up for no reason how the hell, she didn’t call the police she didn’t take her daughter to the hospital to see if she was touched by her father all she did was keep his kids away from him, they don’t need to co-parent she needs to go to jail and he needs to get full custody for his children. She’s a bad influence and a cold hearted mother
What it is, they were abused, but not by the father by somebody else, but she wanted the kids to say the father so that way he would lose custody and she would have full custody
How I understand it is she coached the kids to say that he did it so she technically didn’t lie by saying the kids did say it, even though what they were saying was a lie. I hope that makes sense
I hope Wilbert fought Cara for custody of the kids. She's one of those horrible mothers out there that would lie and coach her kids to say that Wilbert molested them. She needs to be put in jail for this. In jail, mostly. I like that Steve Wilkos said: "Take your okays and get the f--- off my stage!" That had me cheering every time he said it.
What a pathetic cold hearted sorry excuse for a mother. You can tell she wasn't happy that he passed the lie detector test and when steve ask her if she failed and said he can feel any type of way he wants to feel i knew right away she was lying i hope he gets full custody of those kids and keep them away from her because its messed up she tried to ruin that man's life like that.
Bro shoulda just let the drugs take her she’s definitely wasn’t worth saving. He literally got her a job and off of drugs and all she repaid him with was infidelity and lies that nearly ruined his life 🤦🏾♂️
I just wanna point out that there was allegations without a story..like she came to the stage calling him a liar but didn’t explain why their child would say that. He’s the only that seemed clear about how things transpired out of nowhere. I hope he really gets those babies from her!
She's got to be the most despicable human being to coach her kids to say it was their dad that molested them just to have full advantage I hope he finds a good lawyer to get his kids away from the mother
I remember this episode. The father, I glad he's passed, tested flying colors. The mother failed Being accused of Sexual molestation your kids are worse, being a murder
Lying about R, SA etc should be ILLEGAL. They should receive the exact sentence for what they wrongfully accused another for. That should put a stop to it.
I didn’t even have to stare at the screen cued in on the results, as a matter of fact I played digital bingo on a game site after he stopped talking because I knew he wasn’t molesting them. She’s so vindictive
You come out ready to show so much anger and emotion when she came out but yet when he passes she just stands there she could care less about how she’s tried to ruin his life
So something did happen to the kids but she more so was concerned with the child support that she would be receiving. Steve is right most would bring their children to the hospital to get them checked out or directly call the police.
What a disgusting excuse for a mother and a horrible person anybody that can say and do that doesn't deserve her children and I hope and pray that the dad gets full custody with her having supervised visits i feel so very sorry for the children
'It's a blessing that (Wilbert) didn't touch her, but she said what she said and I did what I did.' *Steve: But you didn't do anything...* 😒 (I second that, all Cara did was try and fight Wilbert on stage and come to find out he told the damn truth!! Shoulda used that energy to pick up the phone and dial 3 certain digits, Cara!! And then you lied about coaching your kids with the motive of fouling up his chances for custody??!! You're deranged. 😠)
I hope he takes her to court and gets full and permanent custody. I wish there was a way for Steve to help ensure people that need help like this man, that are being railroaded or plotted against by the other parent like this, to get help to get permanent custody of their children.
Wow she should be ashamed of herself for trying to ruined his life by making up accusations and fabricate the story that's just sad and messed up. She should be in jail for making up lies and worse getting your own kids involved in it for what to make him suffer. I don't know why do people have to lie or make up accusations or fabricate a story. Just be honest with your partner or ex but first you have to be honest with yourself.
I hope he got to see his kids.. I felt so bad for him.. he seems like a good dude that ended up with the wrong woman.. I hope everything worked out for him🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾… just think how many innocent men are in jail because they were lied on…
I hope he fights for them and wins. She's traumatizing them by saying these things and the environment she has them in. Idk how she was granted custody in any way with her living how she has been. He's way too nice and needs to shut her out and take his kids. She also never cleared up who had her kids while she was there? 🤔 scary
Wilbert should get custody of both those children and run like hell!!! She's a little "loose". Put her in jail for not telling the truth!!! Not embarrassed or remorseful about coaching those children!!!😳😳🫣🫣
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This man was completely calm, confident and collected, even after the results were read.
She came out swinging and fighting, not to protect her kids, but to protect her lie and her image.
He needs to get full custody of his kids, and take it from there. Don't gaf about her.
yup. huge red flag, right there.
Yeh SHE SHOULD GO TO PRISON for this
Keep in mind 1 out of 8 sex offenders that are accused DONT MAKE IT TO TRIAL because they are whacked before them
Yes I SAID IT people GET maimed or WORSE KILLED over these accusations
What support system does he have??
Yeah and to everyone that says that parents that care and want to protect their children that need to get full custody are right when they say that. And not only that I DO NOT G.A.F ABOUT HER ETHER and What a skank move
Literally
I hope she loses custody completely. What a despicable excuse for a "mom"
Yea that won't happen. Society won't let females be held accountable
I agree 100 percent I hope she does too
Exactly 💯. He needs to get custody of his son and daughter.
@@richardgentry6996 yeperoni
Perfectly said!! And only supervised visitation
What a horrible, reprehensible, abusive mother. Those children should absolutely not be left with her.
They should 100% be taken from her & given to him. She is destroying the 3 of their lives. That's not a not a mom, let alone parent, that's a monster. People who place blame where it doesn't belong for selfish gain, are sick & now the daughter who claimed she was molested, will probably never get answers bc she did NOTHING to help find the truth.
He needs to get the court involved to try to get full custody of the kids after what she pulled. She deserves to never see her kids again and honestly some jail time on top of that.
@@BellaIsMyBabyagree
Not one bit
I feel so bad for the kids. They shouldn't have to grow up like that
I would normally say children need their mother, but that not a mother, that's a monster who not only failed to protect them, kept them from their father, who they clearly need to protect them from HER, bc she caused harm to them & clearly the father who loves those kids. He kept helping her, as the mother of his children, & she went & did that? I'm generally not a fan of name calling, but she really is a demented bum.
You are very beautiful 😍 ❤️
Very true, by unfortunately it still keeps happens to them because of sicko parents like her.
Women who make false accusations like this need arrested and put in jail. 👮♂️🐀
TBF the father is a black guy, so it is only a matter of time before he would start molesting his kids anyway!
Agreed. Unfortunately that will never happen.
Agreed, smh 🤦🏽♀️
Far too many MEN have SADLY lost their LIVES physically mentally and professionally because a scumbag succubus like this one made up an accusation like this that the innocent man ENDS UP DEAD over
Can’t believe they don’t 🤬
The woman has disgusting written all over her! He dragged this man through hell just so we could ruin his life and have the kids all to herself! I know a lot of people say this in the comments, and I agree with them: people who fabricate stories, or make up allegations, should be arrested, and have the same sentence as the actual crime! I honestly hope he gets full custody of the kids, and that she’s never around them again!
Totally agree with ya
Yeah. I'm not on Steve's level of protection but I always said n thought people who fabricate should serve jail time cause people don't got time to be falsely accused.
I'm hoping that "we" is a typo for "he" because I do not associate with that vermin of a woman.
Not the kids. The money
I love this man’s spirit. He is so authentic and so well spoken. I hope he obtains everything he want in life.
l am sure he will!
I feel so bad for that man. He looks so sad. 😢
He's lovely and will be fine now she's out of his life , I can't see him being single for very long
Being with a harpy like the woman in this episode can really do damage to a man, both inside and out. Hope this guy and those kids are well and happy.
I literally just shed a tear I feel so bad for that man 😩 then she coming out putting her hands on him 🤦🏽♀️
They never learn with those… nvm
I would have defended myself put her in a figure four, chicken wing technically it’s not fighting the person when you have them in a wrestling move.
She look like a liar too 😂😂
A liar and a cheater
Literally 🤨🤨
The law should be “WOMEN THAT FALSELY ACCUSE MEN SHOULD SERVE THE EXACT AMOUNT OF TIME THE PERSON THEY ACCUSED WOULD SERVE”
I agree 100 percent
A false accusation isn't quite as bad as getting raped, but there should be consequences
will never happened, because law have always been favor of a girl and will always be , world is never fair and will never be fair and we should fight for fairness but always be real and see world for what it is
@@JackieDaytona1776 The consequences of a false accusation are far reaching and destructive. People have committed suicide because of them. Rape is bad but so are false accusations.
Which wouldn't be very much, unfortunately. A few years and some probation.
What a disgusting pos. He should press EVERY charge against her. I hope she goes straight to prison for a very long time.
I knew he would pass. His whole demeanor showed. She’s a sorry excuse not only for a woman, but as a “MOM.” I hope he gets full custody of his kids
Seriously
She kept his kids from him for a whole YEAR and he didnt take her ass to court? She didnt call the police, dhs, nothing. Obviously she was lying. Hebetter take her to court.
This Woman is just a cold hearted evil
she's a liar and i hope he got full custody!
“Ok” Man take your Oks and get tf off my stage 😂😂😂😂😂 Steeeeeveeeeee that’s my guy lol
She knew! Her facial expression never changed when Steve read his results. She keep saying, “still ain’t seeing them”, I hope he remembers that when she begging him to see the kids cause he got full custody.
well, actually, it was more like a slight look of "oh shit", because she knew right then that she was busted and about to be exposed.
Leave them white girls alone!!!
She's a piece of work. Sad for him
My heart goes out to the father and his kids. The "mother" is vindictive as hell.
Self righteous much there, “Mom”?? She needs to lose custody and be subject to supervised visits.
The fact she stated “I didn’t coach my daughter” without being asked if she did spoke volumes 💯
Facts..I was confused though because it said she didn’t fabricate it..
@@battlerudee I was confused too but just because she didn’t make it up doesn’t mean she didn’t put his name in their heads
@@battlerudeeDan explained that she went along with the fabrications of child molestations so that’s why she passed two questions about fabricating the child molestations regarding her daughter and her son telling her what happened and she failed for coaching her kids and made false accusations against Wilbur.
@@battlerudeebecause I think they were molested, but they didn’t say by who so she coached them to say it was him.
I said the same thing when she blurted that out
I think people who make false allegations such as these should get as much punishment as the person They blamed would have. I cannot stand women (or men) who falsely accuse their exes of heinous crap just to get back at them. Using your kids as pawns is beyond evil.
I hope he gets a really good lawyer who not only rips her a new one in court, but also gets him full custody with supervised visits for her. I don't even want to think about what vile things she whispered (and absolutely will continue to whisper) in the little ones' ears.
Why the people who falsely accuse never seem to get punished for it. Twisting little ones minds does so much harm. The way Wilbur was attacked for something she manifested makes me worry for the children in her care.
No mother,who thought for one second,that her children’s father had molested them,would ever call them a good father.
False allegations, should be followed with stiff prision time
She definitely should not have custody
And to add to that, if the falsely accused gets killed as a result of the false accusations, the accuser should also be charged with manslaughter
@@LouisWarren530 even the killer should be charged.
@@LouisWarren530 very true because a serious accusation like that can get someone killed
Heartless. It was obvious she was coaching the kids- the way she wouldn't answer any damn questions and just kept trying to deflect showed boldly how guilty she was. I hope she lost the kids, or she'll use them as pawms their whole lives.
Why can't people see that telling your child they were interfered with screws them up almost as badly as it actually happening? Their fragile little brains are trying to develop in an already crazy world without their guardian throwing them into a snake pit.
Dude, she wasn't making up the allegations. Someone clearly has been touching those kids (or they lied about it). Coaching can be anything from trying to make the child believe it was someone else to asking leading questions like, "did your dad do it?"
What a clown 🤡! Why would she try to fight him if she was making it up? And seriously though if your children were actually being molested why tf would you call DHS but not the police? What tf are DHS gonna do?
It's called guilt.
I feel so sorry 4 the father, I knew he was telling the truth from the beginning. When she attacked him on stage from the beginning, I knew she was lying. Women who accuse men of this allegations should be thrown in jail.
They should also have to register as a sex offender
Poor Wilbert. I hope he got full custody and found a lady that treats him right.
there are good men out there. I just don't like when some women have their own agenda.
She “said it’s a blessing but she said what she said and I did what I did” this lyin woman know good damn she wanted that man locked up for no reason how the hell, she didn’t call the police she didn’t take her daughter to the hospital to see if she was touched by her father all she did was keep his kids away from him, they don’t need to co-parent she needs to go to jail and he needs to get full custody for his children. She’s a bad influence and a cold hearted mother
Yeperoni I agree 100 percent
I knew she lied as soon as she started talking.
She doesn’t deserve custody of them babies! I hope dad gets full custody of his babies!
What is most sickening was the look of disappointment on her fave when she found out he *didn't* do it
How did she come back truthful that she didn’t fabricate the story but failed on coaching them? That means she did fabricate the story.
It true and false, they did say it and it’s not true that they were abused
What it is, they were abused, but not by the father by somebody else, but she wanted the kids to say the father so that way he would lose custody and she would have full custody
I think the relative that she said told her her son said it made the story up and she went along with it to get custody.
Just play this 12 min tape in court and youll be fine my guy😂
Wait, so the mother didn't fabricate the molestation allegations but she fails for coaching? I don't completely understand how that could happen.
I don’t either I thought I was the only one
Someone else could've molested the kids, and she coached them to say it was him.
It just means someone else molested her children but she coached them to say it was him
How I understand it is she coached the kids to say that he did it so she technically didn’t lie by saying the kids did say it, even though what they were saying was a lie. I hope that makes sense
I remember Dan saying a possibility was someone gave her the idea to coach her kids
I hope Wilbert fought Cara for custody of the kids. She's one of those horrible mothers out there that would lie and coach her kids to say that Wilbert molested them. She needs to be put in jail for this. In jail, mostly. I like that Steve Wilkos said: "Take your okays and get the f--- off my stage!" That had me cheering every time he said it.
She needs to go to jail. She falsely accused him of molestation to take his kids away from him.
That mother is disgusting, she don't deserve kids!! I hope the dad gets custody and she never sees them again!!
Prison she should go for a year and the children go to the dad.
7:22 Wilbert's lie detector test results
8:41 Cara's lie detector test results
knew he wasn't lying from the beginning, shame on this "mom"
Hard to choose a good mother for your kids. Just use protection guys!
What a pathetic cold hearted sorry excuse for a mother. You can tell she wasn't happy that he passed the lie detector test and when steve ask her if she failed and said he can feel any type of way he wants to feel i knew right away she was lying i hope he gets full custody of those kids and keep them away from her because its messed up she tried to ruin that man's life like that.
Bro shoulda just let the drugs take her she’s definitely wasn’t worth saving. He literally got her a job and off of drugs and all she repaid him with was infidelity and lies that nearly ruined his life 🤦🏾♂️
I just wanna point out that there was allegations without a story..like she came to the stage calling him a liar but didn’t explain why their child would say that. He’s the only that seemed clear about how things transpired out of nowhere. I hope he really gets those babies from her!
Take your oks and get the hell off my stage 😂😂😂😂
She's got to be the most despicable human being to coach her kids to say it was their dad that molested them just to have full advantage I hope he finds a good lawyer to get his kids away from the mother
I agree because coach her kids to say that is almost like physical molesting but in a verbal way
I remember this episode.
The father, I glad he's passed, tested flying colors. The mother failed
Being accused of Sexual molestation your kids are worse, being a murder
Not only is it worse than murder, it can also get someone killed
@@silence6813good point
No, murder is the worst crime. Both crimes are horrible obviously, but being a murderer is the worst thing.
Wilbert isn’t a name. It’s a punishment.
So is Captain Tae😅😅😅😅😅😅
😂😂😂😂
Oh my god😭😭
A tier comment 😂😂😂
Lying about R, SA etc should be ILLEGAL. They should receive the exact sentence for what they wrongfully accused another for. That should put a stop to it.
I didn’t even have to stare at the screen cued in on the results, as a matter of fact I played digital bingo on a game site after he stopped talking because I knew he wasn’t molesting them. She’s so vindictive
You come out ready to show so much anger and emotion when she came out but yet when he passes she just stands there she could care less about how she’s tried to ruin his life
She said "it lookted funny" 5:19
How ironic.....KAREN! Talk about taking the walk of shame!
I hope he gets full custody and she never sees them again..
She should lose custody of her kids and not be allowed to make more.
So something did happen to the kids but she more so was concerned with the child support that she would be receiving. Steve is right most would bring their children to the hospital to get them checked out or directly call the police.
8:40 I would’ve sued her for defamation of character and push to get full custody of my kids!
I knew as soon as she walked on stage she was lying...
Wish we had a update for him and his kids. This mother shouldn't be having anything to do with them. Vile human being.
Those poor kids. The kids looses, no matter what .
Its so evil, to use your kid as against a parent !
Her: I did what I did
Steve: but you didn't do anything 😂😂😂😂
What a disgusting excuse for a mother and a horrible person anybody that can say and do that doesn't deserve her children and I hope and pray that the dad gets full custody with her having supervised visits i feel so very sorry for the children
'It's a blessing that (Wilbert) didn't touch her, but she said what she said and I did what I did.'
*Steve: But you didn't do anything...* 😒
(I second that, all Cara did was try and fight Wilbert on stage and come to find out he told the damn truth!! Shoulda used that energy to pick up the phone and dial 3 certain digits, Cara!! And then you lied about coaching your kids with the motive of fouling up his chances for custody??!! You're deranged. 😠)
Word of guilt "WHATEVER"
8:54 ohh jeez not mixed answers
As soon as she came out “calm” then got to swinging😂 tells it all💯
I hope he takes her to court and gets full and permanent custody. I wish there was a way for Steve to help ensure people that need help like this man, that are being railroaded or plotted against by the other parent like this, to get help to get permanent custody of their children.
NOW SOMEONE SLAP THAT SECOND JOWL OFF THAT TRICK!!! AND GET THAT MAN A CHAIR, STEVE!!! NO...GET HIM A THRONE!!!
Wow she should be ashamed of herself for trying to ruined his life by making up accusations and fabricate the story that's just sad and messed up. She should be in jail for making up lies and worse getting your own kids involved in it for what to make him suffer. I don't know why do people have to lie or make up accusations or fabricate a story. Just be honest with your partner or ex but first you have to be honest with yourself.
I pray he takes her to court and gets custody. These poor kids are the ones who are getting hurt in the end and deserve their father.
He should get the kid’s and she should lose custody!
Mad respect for this man. Heʻs honest and sincere. He deserves a woman with kindness and integrity.
Charge that cow with assault and slander!
dude better get away from her and stay far away. people who falsely accuse people need to be jailed.
I hope he got to see his kids.. I felt so bad for him.. he seems like a good dude that ended up with the wrong woman.. I hope everything worked out for him🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾… just think how many innocent men are in jail because they were lied on…
the fact that she coached them to say that is child abuse. send her to jail
Humanity... Is there ANY hope left at all ? 😢
Shame on Her. Sad for Him. I hope He gets both of His kids. They probably need to be together and safe in one home too. His home.
I really hope she gets everything that is coming to her. Please lock her up for lying!!
Justice For Real
Why do they always come out hitting smh 🤦🏾♀️
Sue her immediately
7:50 alot of weight lifted off my shoulders
I knew he wasn’t lying! 😂Steve with the truth as usual!!!
I hope he fights for them and wins. She's traumatizing them by saying these things and the environment she has them in. Idk how she was granted custody in any way with her living how she has been. He's way too nice and needs to shut her out and take his kids.
She also never cleared up who had her kids while she was there? 🤔 scary
Wilbert should get custody of both those children and run like hell!!! She's a little "loose". Put her in jail for not telling the truth!!! Not embarrassed or remorseful about coaching those children!!!😳😳🫣🫣
I freaking love Steve wilkos!
He Is Everyone's Favorite Great Guy
Bruh I laughed sooo hard at security “Stop it, stop it,stop it.” 😂
I need him in my life 😢😅
Women like her should b locked up
So does this mean her kids did tell her but she coached them to say it was daddy? Shes a danger to her children
Yes she coached them
To say it was daddy
I think she knows who did it
Yes the children were probably molested by some one else and she coached them to say it was Wilbert
@@zarinshapurjee9430Which is just fucking sickening that she would let the real abuser slide to spite the father 🙄
@dragastarr2926 plus I bet money she knows who really did it is and she is still with that same sicko.
4:05 😂😅I know what kinda woman she was after Steve said let’s bring her out
She is evil.
I would love to see an update on this case! I hope and pray he was able to get the children away from her!
Y’all be ruining it before we even get a chance to watch it damn