My friend was brought up by his single mother.He got married, and within a year due to wife harrassment he died of heart attack.Now wife gets his insurance,all deposits, money,house which was in his name ( unfortunately gifted by his mother before marriage)and also govt job on compassionate grounds.She remarried and enjoying life.But mother is virtuallly on streets.She is fighting in court to nullify the gift deed due to present circumstances.she is only 55 years.This is bloddy law of EQUALITY.
Simple solution ,,, marry the right person and give everything you have ,,, if not ,, don’t marry ,,, And if you think life is unfair because of one person despite you giving your best ,,, you should take a stance that it’s over,, ,,, Not just you but also for the person who made you do it ,,, Become the kamakaze pilot of Japan ,,, (google it up )😅😅
their scenario was: He's a capable guy of earning, his spouse is aware of that. somehow she's not happy with him, there's maybe some disagreement, some arguments, or simply she didn't like him. so she wants him to stay away from her, so she used her trumpeting mouth to offend him verbally everytime they start an argument.. at one point she really done living with him and resort to final measure, that measure id is somehow she have to make him act violently. with her nasty mouth, she bombarded him with words to trigger him, he turned violent and hit her. now she got a mighty weapon "Proven Domestic Violence". Women who are subjected to proven domestic violence are eligible to apply for divorce and claim alimony at the same time. this is what is happening in every corner of India. alimony should be abolished like we abolished dowry.
Atleast an women with right civic sense and humanity here we found the ray of hope. Yes alimony should be banned and joint parenting also need to be encouraged ❤.
@@meghamurali3631why husband need to earn . when wife comes to his place he is feeding her taking care of her giving her all luxury all because she is on his place And she is just a normal housewife But when husband came to her place it's her obligation to feed him even if he is unemployed she is the one who must earn but this had never happen in history where a normal wife is earning and taking care of her husband
The judge was stunned, saying, 'You're worth less than 3.5 lakh, yet you're with someone worth 3.5 crore and demanding 6.6 lakh in alimony? What irony.
what is well done in this case, the father is paying 12lpa for his kids school fees and 1.2lacks per month for the rent and additional money for maintenance but can only meet his Childers on weekends in the societies club house for 4hr.
Agreement banawa Lo shadi se pahle usme likhwa lo maintenance/alimony nahi dege Ladki agar berojgar hai to likha lo coaching se aur part time me silayi se apna kharch chalati hai Yadi naukri wali hai to likha lo ladki ki job hai khud alag hone par apna kharch chala legi
Total nonsense. The wife is trying to extract money from the husband for her lifestyle. She is young and can be gainfully employed. Why lean in the husband's income. Educated women who have no good upbringing are resorting to such tactics.
In today's world n this age generation parents of the girls seek for benefit....they want to enjoy tooo in name of care taking daughter n grandchildren...
Alimony should depend on children, marriage duration, and the wife’s earning ability. Under 5 years: 10% of income. 6-10 years: 20%, and so on... There are some shameless women who marry a rich guy then divorce after 6 months... Why should a man pay alimony his whole life for a 6 month mistake??
Alimony should depend on whether there is kid or not, marriage duration, and the wife’s earning ability. Under 5 years: 10% of income. 6-10 years: 20%, and so on... There are some shameless women who marry a rich guy then divorce after 6 months... Why should a man pay alimony his whole life for a 6 month mistake??
Pls refer case recently in which supercourt ordered husband to give 2 cr. permanent alimony to a working woman who earns 1.5lk per month@@himanshus2273
My lord husband in this case:- I have money but no peace I have kids but no attachment I looked good till I provide them the facilities Otherwise, I will be dragged to court and road 🛣️. Divorced women :- I know how to play with you and courts
Alimony should depend on whether there is kid or not, marriage duration, and the wife’s earning ability. Under 5 years: 10% of income. 6-10 years: 20%, and so on... There are some shameless women who marry a rich guy then divorce after 6 months... Why should a man pay alimony his whole life for a 6 month mistake??
Well, you can hire a maid and cook but if you want to live a long life, don't hire the 3rd thing you mentioned, especially in India. Unless you wish to rot with all kinds of diseases.
Mother is playing parental alienation games . These kinds of women don't care about the impact it has on the children etc..they'll do whatever it takes to harm the life of the ex husband.
Alimony should depend on whether there is kid or not, marriage duration, and the wife’s earning ability. Under 5 years: 10% of income. 6-10 years: 20%, and so on... There are some shameless women who marry a rich guy then divorce after 6 months... Why should a man pay alimony his whole life for a 6 month mistake??
Lol actually here the lawyer/s are the real beneficiaries 😝 I know women who were very intimate with the lawyers during divorce proceedings along with paying mota fees to them. Most of these kala coats stop picking fones or don't meet anywhere other than their chambers immediately after the divorce is done 😜
Ar first patriarchy only created the rule of woman having to be deendant on husband and not earn. Now you all crying the repercussions of it. Could have just been decent humans and supported women to work
@@MightyClashers That's a luxury 3 bedroom apartment.. if she's not doing the work, why should she has to stay at Whitefield.. this is like stealing money.. kind of corruption.. Most of the people are getting salary in India less than 3 lakh per annum.. I could say, 90%.. But some people are already getting almost 30 lakh per annum tax free and still not enough for their living.. funny isn't it. The system should not permit such separation scams.. Let's make a calculation.. he's getting 8 lakh.. then has to pay 34% to tax.. which is almost 3 lakh.. From his earnings he's giving 40-50%.. still the wife needs more.. is he a money milking machine for them ?
The fact that these are now coming into the open is amazing, and I hope young men and boys in India see this to understand what they are getting into. A young man can easily lose 10-15 years his income from right after graduation in a matter of months
@@harribarbossa4584it's depend on the person mentality life can make easier or harder. Even if we have no education n doing slab work in concrete building I don't want to marry n produce so I can pay my rent n bills n foods n save little bit. If we r poor why need to produce bunch of children just to make life harder when we can choose to live easier n less tension n peacefully as I do since teen days I'm in 60s now. If God will my dream is to earn money till she of 85. Age of 95 doing own gardening in off grid in own tiny home n selling less chemical veggies in neighbourhood. Age of 96+ go to senior home or else to bring someone in my tiny home who can look after me and inherit my tiny home after I'm gone
Alimony should depend on whether there is kid or not, marriage duration, and the wife’s earning ability. Under 5 years: 10% of income. 6-10 years: 20%, and so on... There are some shameless women who marry a rich guy then divorce after 6 months... Why should a man pay alimony his whole life for a 6 month mistake??
Because of such vile women, some day the laws will be altered and due to that, the women who actually need the support of law won't get it. It's shamful.
Father has to pay for the maintenance of his divorced wife, the education and other expenses of his children and wife but still he has to beg for time to meet his own children. The wife cannot feed herself and her children but still enjoys custody of the children, the husband maintains the children and the divorced wife but still can't have custody. What nonsense is this? Why should he maintain a women who seperated from him, month after month? Why can't the woman go out and work and maintain herself and the children? Why can't she contribute her part for the upbringing of the children? She enjoys the status of being a mother at the cost of the father. Men, don't marry and be happy. Marriage is synonym for modern slavery.
If she can't take care of child then he himself will take care of child. No need of giving alimony. Because of this alimony girls think of easy money. Marriage is not a business
Alimony should depend on whether there is kid or not, marriage duration, and the wife’s earning ability. Under 5 years: 10% of income. 6-10 years: 20%, and so on... There are some shameless women who marry a rich guy then divorce after 6 months... Why should a man pay alimony his whole life for a 6 month mistake??
Simple solution ,,, marry the right person and give everything you have ,,, if not ,, don’t marry ,,, And if you think life is unfair because of one person despite you giving your best ,,, you should take a stance that it’s over,, ,,, Not just you but also for the person who made you do it ,,, Become the kamakaze pilot of Japan ,,, (google it up )😅😅
I got visitation rights for my kid four years ago when he was 3 year old. But still they are creating problem by not showing my kid.I am still fighting in court to see my kid. I lost my health, career due to the case. Sometime law is tough towards men biasedly.
Dear brother. Take care your health first. If you have parents please concentrate on them. Gradually turn ur mind. If ur child understand you once he will come to see you. Karma will remain hit on ur wifes head. Dont worry. Be happy. Enjoy ur life with rest of your parents life... Make them happy... Your mind will retain with in three months. This is my experience. God nless you.
Yea so after marriage change your surname and live with your in laws, also take care of household duty of your wife and take care of her parents just whats expected from a woman. Then there will be equality
@@abhi0465 Still they are expected to take care of her in laws and kids and do all household chores right? And woman live with their in laws not the other way around.
@@moonbrush5 Yeah we can do that and we will change the rules of alliance seeking as well where men's parents will expect women to be financially stable, should have a own house in the place where the bride works, she should not have a brother (Because men parents will have the fear of their sons might be tortured by brother-in-law) and the bride should have a good social skills where she should handle all external things that affects the family. Only if the bride meets this requirement men will marry her and men will do all the household chores, take care of their in laws, baby and of course going to a job will be optional to men, no dowry, she needs to take him for vacation some where or any other presents often and there will be alimony if the couple gets divorce.
Even if he is earning 8 lakhs, why should he pay it to the greedy woman?! His legal obligation should be to provide her food and shelter, and children's well-being.
Scary kyun bro. Me khud 33 ka hua huun.. Aur aj bhi single huun... Aur proud bhi feel karta huun ❤❤ Jab Maan karega.. Tab ek ngo se bache ko adopt karunga.. Bas Maa Baap ka sath nai chodna
I'm so glad, I have a wife who cares for me and my children and is selflessly taking care of the home. I have no worries about taking care of work. I'm so blessed. Will make sure my son knows what a wonderful mom he has.
Women can't be supportive. She is supportive to brothers and sons..... When she herself stands against husband father in law brother in law etc she becomes dracula
Marriage is not for companionship. It is for contributing towards evolution of human species. But cheapened to the level of companionship or worse in present day world.
@@rohit98raja12anirban Living a celebrity life in the posh area of Mumbai in a rented house is also not a very Indian thing IMO. In Mumbai, house rent in 65K PM is an absurd generalization! You know what an Indian common man's thought process would be - if for the facilities I can afford to pay 65K rent a month, I'd better think of buying a house or a flat with 65K EMI.
2.35L per.month being paid already😮 & he is paying .1.5L towards college in advance into FDs & he gets.to his children 2 hours plus 2 hours total 4 hours in club house ?? Men need to rise up against such injustices --
Why is he paying such amount for their college etc. He should pay when needed. Keep the money with himself. They will probably spend that buying drugs thanks to their other rich school-friends. haha. Crazy people.
@@vaibhavdlv It's court order, he can't do anything about it, or else he will face jailtime & could also get his property or assets sold to accommodate the daylights scam, known as alimony.
Once they start earning they will understand since the will eventually come to stop. If someone gives you laks of rupees every year. He has love for you. Movies might show things incorrectly. But tbh earning money in India is very hard spending lakhs of rupees is a very big thing..
My Unpopular Opinions on Alimony. 1. Don't allow any Alimony if the wife is Characterless (if she's already having an affair) 2. Don't allow any Alimony if there's no child of the spouse. (even if there's a Child and if the wife is ready to take the custody, then only allow Alimony). 3. There must be a specific criteria for Alimony. Or a limit percentage for Alimony for example 30% of his monthly income) (For Example - If there's only 1 child then 20,000 for both wife and kid).
Holding the visitation for just 8 hours a week as hostage to extract nearly 2.5 lakhs from a man.. how is it not pure extortion? Why does he have to beg just to visit his kids when he is basically paying for everything for the children and the mother? The law in this country is just shameful
This is pure nonsense, people who works daily labours are more happy than these corporates, its either men/women wants high life and forgets whats imporatant in relationships, adjustments, sacrifice and all. Marriage life will become hell for men especially if he faces these kinds of womens and their demands...
Even if you look at matrimony market first marriage .Girls who are earning 3-4 lakhs are asking for 20-30 LPA and preferrable own house .This is from a middle class perspective. IF you are poor then both girl and boy know life is shit and economic situations changes so they adjust maybe fight but live life .Rich people I don't know bro. But watching too much of these Internet videos with all the doom and gloom sucks the joy out of life and kinda makes you depressing. Watching this video makes me think rural UP Bihar regressive practices looks more practical.
Is this an Ambani family, 3.5 Lakhs per month, 1.35L Rent per month and she is withdrawning 3.5 Crores ...My God, I am not going to marry and moving into Live in Relationship immediately .
The argument should be my lord: the husband is paying all his salary for the ex wife and children. Then why is he not being allowed to keep the children full time? Men need to understand than in todays world marriage is just an instrument that women can use against you and benefit off you. It does not serve men any purpose.
Alimony should be partially banned just like dowry or simply amended. If a woman can't provide payments for her children's upkeep, then the children should stay with the father who can take care of them. If a man is unwilling to take care of his children, then he should keep giving alimony money to his ex-wife. In case of no children, no alimony should be present. I have seen cases of a man earning 60k a month and giving alimony of 50k a month. And he was divorced because his wife cheated on him. But since court decides whether alimony should be provided for in case of alimony, the judge simply told the man to pay regardless of the circumstances. It was a fine case of moral kidnapping where a man's children were kept hostages for the man to keep giving the majority of his salary to his cheating ex-wife.
why does husband needs to pay. Dowry is banned same way alimony should be banned. or Minimum maintainence amount should be decided. I have seen people coming up with prepostrous amounts.
He can clearly ask court to set some minimum maintenance. Court is the one supposed to do that. With salary of 3L per month, court will probably not ask for more than 30% amount and even a good lawyer can fight for each and every rupee the husband has to shell out. That means the lady can not stay in a house of 1.35L rent. You get 1L rupees which is plenty enough to live comfortably.
Marrying wrong person is scary af this days. Society is getting doomed. Abolish dowry nd alimony both. Make marriage neutral from money. If someone wants to give gifts or evn money on their own then its fine but it shouldn't be forced or asked by any party
The ex wifes lawyer will advocate that the family deserves the same standard of living that they had when they were married.....Hence the same house....
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Living in a 1.35Lacs rented appartment and have nothing to eat 😂😂
The judge did laugh on that statement
absolute scam. this law should be abolished
modern day Bhikari
😂😂😂
It's so funny and see the scenrio
Karma is waiting for these women and their lawyers
Lawyers are just doing their job.
There is something called Ethics in every profession @@Fuelthejet
@@Fuelthejet
Lawyers Job Is Give Justice To Client
Not To Exploit Other Client
@@JohnWick-nm6jx and if that’s the case then both lawyers will fight for one client only.
@@JohnWick-nm6jx lol, lawyers are to exploit opposition 😅
My friend was brought up by his single mother.He got married, and within a year due to wife harrassment he died of heart attack.Now wife gets his insurance,all deposits, money,house which was in his name ( unfortunately gifted by his mother before marriage)and also govt job on compassionate grounds.She remarried and enjoying life.But mother is virtuallly on streets.She is fighting in court to nullify the gift deed due to present circumstances.she is only 55 years.This is bloddy law of EQUALITY.
My god
It's his fault to marry. He can go for surrogacy mother and take care of his child .
Where is she now u frd mother u didn't help her or if u can't u can contact to NGO or women welfare
😂😂😂😂😂😂 fake story
So sad😢
New generation business women
Marry a rich guy
Have a kid
Get divorce
And take all his money
Business women ? No
Bhikmangi FOX
😂😂😂😂😂what can you expect from the women ☕☕☕these days
yes this is a western culture and getting popular in INDIA too
And enjoy with other men of their choice and at their will.
Prenup is the answer
Law for women and lawda for men
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MESSAGE IS LOUD AND CLEAR, DON'T MARRY!!!!
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Simple solution ,,, marry the right person and give everything you have ,,, if not ,, don’t marry ,,,
And if you think life is unfair because of one person despite you giving your best ,,, you should take a stance that it’s over,, ,,,
Not just you but also for the person who made you do it ,,,
Become the kamakaze pilot of Japan ,,, (google it up )😅😅
Write
100 💯% correct
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Why no equality rights here? Why can’t wife give money to husband if she is earning!!!
yes brother….there is a rule..if wife earning and husband not..then husband can claim for maintance if they r seperating
False bro, only when husband is physically disabled*@@n.kranjan1573
No rule in practice.see 99.9999999 % judgement chahe ghar bejoo ya bhik mangoo maintenance dena padega
@@anukumari551 😥
@@channasuc1726 yes very true 👍
Wife does not want husband but wants his money!! What a pity. Alimony should be banned.
their scenario was:
He's a capable guy of earning, his spouse is aware of that. somehow she's not happy with him, there's maybe some disagreement, some arguments, or simply she didn't like him. so she wants him to stay away from her, so she used her trumpeting mouth to offend him verbally everytime they start an argument.. at one point she really done living with him and resort to final measure, that measure id is somehow she have to make him act violently. with her nasty mouth, she bombarded him with words to trigger him, he turned violent and hit her. now she got a mighty weapon "Proven Domestic Violence". Women who are subjected to proven domestic violence are eligible to apply for divorce and claim alimony at the same time.
this is what is happening in every corner of India. alimony should be abolished like we abolished dowry.
Finally found a diamond in group of roldgold
Hatts off mam👌👌👌
Atleast an women with right civic sense and humanity here we found the ray of hope. Yes alimony should be banned and joint parenting also need to be encouraged ❤.
Then please ask husband ti shift to wife's house after marriage and earn for them,intead of woman shifting to husband's house to take care of them.
@@meghamurali3631why husband need to earn . when wife comes to his place he is feeding her taking care of her giving her all luxury all because she is on his place
And she is just a normal housewife
But when husband came to her place it's her obligation to feed him even if he is unemployed she is the one who must earn but this had never happen in history where a normal wife is earning and taking care of her husband
The judge was stunned, saying, 'You're worth less than 3.5 lakh, yet you're with someone worth 3.5 crore and demanding 6.6 lakh in alimony? What irony.
Now we knew why Salman Khan is still unmarried 😅
True Legend
He is muslim
Muslim law is different 😮
@@anshikasaxena9717 true
But in muslim law there is also a provison of Meher @@anshikasaxena9717
He’s smart😂
This is called pure scam..Well done indian judiciary 👏👏 You should be proud of it
what is well done in this case, the father is paying 12lpa for his kids school fees and 1.2lacks per month for the rent and additional money for maintenance but can only meet his Childers on weekends in the societies club house for 4hr.
@@Deity_TaffyHe’s given sarcastic comment, not appreciating by saying well done.
Don’t say anything against the judiciary, it will be considered contempt of the court.
You should understand that we are living in a democracy.
@@deadpooldeadpool665 democracy means that u can share u thoughts. there is nothing wrong with it.
Judiciary is innocent blind
Spend 3.5 crore in 1 year.. And she had no money to eat😑
I spend 150 rs a day for food bro 😢
I spend less than 100
@@HistoryFacts195 meanwhile 80 crore people in this country dependent on government for food
Agreement banawa Lo shadi se pahle usme likhwa lo maintenance/alimony nahi dege
Ladki agar berojgar hai to likha lo coaching se aur part time me silayi se apna kharch chalati hai
Yadi naukri wali hai to likha lo ladki ki job hai khud alag hone par apna kharch chala legi
@@Parsotam-c3g prenuptial is not legal in india except in state of goa
Total nonsense.
The wife is trying to extract money from the husband for her lifestyle.
She is young and can be gainfully employed.
Why lean in the husband's income.
Educated women who have no good upbringing are resorting to such tactics.
😂😂😂 Most of the time, men be cheating around but refuse to pay alimony.
So, by your logic, if the wife cheats she should pay alimony to husband? Simp.
@@Shefusriwhat if she's cheating.
Why lean on the husband's income ? because she is shameless
In today's world n this age generation parents of the girls seek for benefit....they want to enjoy tooo in name of care taking daughter n grandchildren...
I am 32 years old and after seeing such cases I do not want to get married 😂😂😂
Same here bro.. 🍻
I am with u😂. NEVER get married
Me 2 bro
Perfect....never one can realize the dark face of someone until u start living 24/7....so better not take a chance...
Take prenup and Marry
Ok so Dowry should be legal as like maintenance😂 i am not kidding here
Exactly
Alimony should depend on children, marriage duration, and the wife’s earning ability.
Under 5 years: 10% of income.
6-10 years: 20%, and so on...
There are some shameless women who marry a rich guy then divorce after 6 months... Why should a man pay alimony his whole life for a 6 month mistake??
Agree
There also , a man will have to arrange that
He is already murdered while still being alive, pathetic
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true
True😭😭
Alimony should depend on whether there is kid or not, marriage duration, and the wife’s earning ability.
Under 5 years: 10% of income.
6-10 years: 20%, and so on...
There are some shameless women who marry a rich guy then divorce after 6 months... Why should a man pay alimony his whole life for a 6 month mistake??
Abolish Alimoney, just like Dowry abolished.
Marry a working wife
@@himanshus2273 Thanks for advice Pandit ji.
Pls refer case recently in which supercourt ordered husband to give 2 cr. permanent alimony to a working woman who earns 1.5lk per month@@himanshus2273
@@himanshus2273 you will have to pay alimony even if your wife earn more than you.
The judge will tell you to get a better job or go to jail.
The wont do it bro
our Govt Make Rules only to Support Women Not Man
Mens are meant to do Gadha Majduri in India
My lord husband in this case:-
I have money but no peace
I have kids but no attachment
I looked good till I provide them the facilities
Otherwise,
I will be dragged to court and road 🛣️.
Divorced women :- I know how to play with you and courts
Just live like bhairaaghi (om shanti),🚩🙏
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😂 well said
Ive heard several news of a wife got hit by a truck walking on street,
Caused death on instant 😢
@@nagarajgurav2717🤣😅 ,, ideas mat bolo openly ,,, they’ll def do it when it’s enough for the husband
As always empowered independent women standing with a begging bowl in front of men. 😂😂
SAVAGE!
For this kind of womens shirya law is best😊
The children don't have anything to eat?! 😂😂😂
The lawyer, himself is the person in question.. 😅😅😅
Alimony should depend on whether there is kid or not, marriage duration, and the wife’s earning ability.
Under 5 years: 10% of income.
6-10 years: 20%, and so on...
There are some shameless women who marry a rich guy then divorce after 6 months... Why should a man pay alimony his whole life for a 6 month mistake??
No the person is his client
Its better to run away from this country 😂
plz go…there is lot of papulation here😂😂
@@n.kranjan1573 yeah i will become muslim and will go to malasiya 😊…
@@ChetanSingh-zd4vzu can marry four at a time 🤣🤣
@@Juniordatascientist-k8d I don’t need 4 wives … quantity doesn’t matter quality matters … one is enough for me …
@@Juniordatascientist-k8d😅
If men hires cook, maid and pros*****e for his needs. He will not endup begging for justice.
Very well said
Damn bro..i was thinking the same😂
Well, you can hire a maid and cook but if you want to live a long life, don't hire the 3rd thing you mentioned, especially in India. Unless you wish to rot with all kinds of diseases.
@@rinidmoron only if needed. I will live like APJ Abdul Kalam and Vajpayee
And still won't cost ₹1.35 lakh per month as well. And can do anything he wants!
In this country, Dowry is a crime,
But, Alimony & maintenance money is correct.
Instead hire a professional hitmen with all that money she will be gone without a proof😂
Mother is playing parental alienation games . These kinds of women don't care about the impact it has on the children etc..they'll do whatever it takes to harm the life of the ex husband.
influencing kids against their father, shame .
If toxic women have daughters they will be a role matter for their daughters in toxicity and harassing their husbands.
Alimony should depend on whether there is kid or not, marriage duration, and the wife’s earning ability.
Under 5 years: 10% of income.
6-10 years: 20%, and so on...
There are some shameless women who marry a rich guy then divorce after 6 months... Why should a man pay alimony his whole life for a 6 month mistake??
It is disgusting to know that there are such ruthless, shameless money greedy women out there. The children will have no respect for her.
The children too follow her foot steps....in such case children take the advantage n become bigger gold diggers....😢
They will act very cruel to their wife or husband and won't even give any respect to any man as there is no fatherly figure in their life
True Mam...There are so many nice and wonderful mothers/women in this world..But She is one among few such disgusting exceptions..
@@rajeshcp1983but nowadays there are lots of women who look for easy money and at earliest
80% women are like this 😂
2:42 Gold digger spotted 😂
Irony - Dowry is crime, but Alimony is reward 😂
Actually she comes at 1:54 itself 😅
Dowery and Alimony should both be considered crimes.
This is not a gold digger, this is a grave digger..
aur karo empowerment lmao
Lol actually here the lawyer/s are the real beneficiaries 😝
I know women who were very intimate with the lawyers during divorce proceedings along with paying mota fees to them. Most of these kala coats stop picking fones or don't meet anywhere other than their chambers immediately after the divorce is done 😜
Our ancestors had patriarchy for a reason
Cry harder
Ar first patriarchy only created the rule of woman having to be deendant on husband and not earn. Now you all crying the repercussions of it. Could have just been decent humans and supported women to work
@@dis_appointed8626 ok, now go do the dishes
@@dis_appointed8626 Shut up
Watching this fridge and cutter stocks 📈
Guys, dont get married, else face this in near future
30 Middle class people live happily with 1.35 crore's in 12 months 😂 .
Noo.. Say 60😢😢
So true bro
100 poor family 🗿
Actually that much money can help 1000 lower middle class families to live happily and actually bless the person who supports them for entire life.
@@xgamergamer7282 100 poor family can settle for their rest of life.
2.3 lakhs per month with 1.30 lakhs for rent 😂
This is why marriage is scary
I wonder which place charges that much rent , is he living in a luxury hotel or something,
She is doing that on purpose?
Whitefield, Banglore.
@@MightyClashers That's a luxury 3 bedroom apartment.. if she's not doing the work, why should she has to stay at Whitefield.. this is like stealing money.. kind of corruption..
Most of the people are getting salary in India less than 3 lakh per annum.. I could say, 90%..
But some people are already getting almost 30 lakh per annum tax free and still not enough for their living.. funny isn't it. The system should not permit such separation scams..
Let's make a calculation.. he's getting 8 lakh.. then has to pay 34% to tax.. which is almost 3 lakh..
From his earnings he's giving 40-50%.. still the wife needs more.. is he a money milking machine for them ?
@@MightyClashershe is very rich
@@Mr.Awes0me marriage is scary 😳
May the lawyer who said they have nothing to eat. May his family have the same blessed life like the mother of the children whom he is defending.
The fact that these are now coming into the open is amazing, and I hope young men and boys in India see this to understand what they are getting into. A young man can easily lose 10-15 years his income from right after graduation in a matter of months
1.35 lakh rented appartment.😂😂. Nothing to eat
Both dowry and alimony ,two sides of same coin, shameful,and parasiting on someone elses money.Work ,earn and live with heads held high.
There is no evidence of dowry if at all taken. The alimony and Genderbiasedlaws of our legal system are ruining the life of Men
Easy to say hard to live brother
@@harribarbossa4584it's depend on the person mentality life can make easier or harder.
Even if we have no education n doing slab work in concrete building I don't want to marry n produce so I can pay my rent n bills n foods n save little bit.
If we r poor why need to produce bunch of children just to make life harder when we can choose to live easier n less tension n peacefully as I do since teen days I'm in 60s now.
If God will my dream is to earn money till she of 85.
Age of 95 doing own gardening in off grid in own tiny home n selling less chemical veggies in neighbourhood.
Age of 96+ go to senior home or else to bring someone in my tiny home who can look after me and inherit my tiny home after I'm gone
Take dowry bro at least you won’t the scr*wed that badly
@@sa34wtake dowry save it in bank in separate account, don't debit the interest and pay the corpus as alimony when the misfortune hits 😅
Even Judge can not process this amount, 6 lakh School fee, 65k rent
you forgot 1.35 lakh monthly rent of wife's house
looks like tuiton classes in Antilia😆
Exactly
@@kaustav999Albert Einstein kud karab sa nikal ka parana ata ha 😂😂
Silent Dawry discussion. .😂😂😂
Legally though
Alimony should depend on whether there is kid or not, marriage duration, and the wife’s earning ability.
Under 5 years: 10% of income.
6-10 years: 20%, and so on...
There are some shameless women who marry a rich guy then divorce after 6 months... Why should a man pay alimony his whole life for a 6 month mistake??
If dowry is abolished, why does alimony exist? Illogical... Looting in day light
Because of such vile women, some day the laws will be altered and due to that, the women who actually need the support of law won't get it. It's shamful.
Father has to pay for the maintenance of his divorced wife, the education and other expenses of his children and wife but still he has to beg for time to meet his own children. The wife cannot feed herself and her children but still enjoys custody of the children, the husband maintains the children and the divorced wife but still can't have custody. What nonsense is this? Why should he maintain a women who seperated from him, month after month? Why can't the woman go out and work and maintain herself and the children? Why can't she contribute her part for the upbringing of the children? She enjoys the status of being a mother at the cost of the father.
Men, don't marry and be happy. Marriage is synonym for modern slavery.
If she can't take care of child then he himself will take care of child. No need of giving alimony. Because of this alimony girls think of easy money. Marriage is not a business
I am one from that lucky lot...not married..all my friends are in their mid life crisis with depressed & frustrated wife ... 😆😆😆😆
Right bro be single, be live happily
@@allien5329 hearty congratulations and I happy for you bro.
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3 cr 🙄 for child or orphanages of whole state???
For her luxury life
Hm@@Akshay123z
@@Akshay123z yup def Nut case
Mother cant do job???? Shame on her
When they get everything for free why will they. This is pure harrasment
@@sumit180288It's rampant these days...
In this case mother is the gold digger
Agar itna milega to kyu kregi job
Alimony should depend on whether there is kid or not, marriage duration, and the wife’s earning ability.
Under 5 years: 10% of income.
6-10 years: 20%, and so on...
There are some shameless women who marry a rich guy then divorce after 6 months... Why should a man pay alimony his whole life for a 6 month mistake??
This is what Islamic sharia needed atleast marriage
Hearts hurt when such arguments are made
Just googled and found out Prenup before marriage is not legal in India, we are so screwed
What??
Simple solution ,,, marry the right person and give everything you have ,,, if not ,, don’t marry ,,,
And if you think life is unfair because of one person despite you giving your best ,,, you should take a stance that it’s over,, ,,,
Not just you but also for the person who made you do it ,,,
Become the kamakaze pilot of Japan ,,, (google it up )😅😅
I believe it's legal in Goa because of Portuguese civil code.
Why are you so desperate for marriage
Do not marry, I repeat do not marry 😢
I got visitation rights for my kid four years ago when he was 3 year old. But still they are creating problem by not showing my kid.I am still fighting in court to see my kid. I lost my health, career due to the case. Sometime law is tough towards men biasedly.
Men has get United and fight
Dear brother. Take care your health first. If you have parents please concentrate on them. Gradually turn ur mind. If ur child understand you once he will come to see you.
Karma will remain hit on ur wifes head.
Dont worry.
Be happy.
Enjoy ur life with rest of your parents life... Make them happy... Your mind will retain with in three months.
This is my experience.
God nless you.
not sometimes always law have been biased against men
Become a Muslim, you can marry 2-3 women but doesn't have to Face all this Harrassment.
If a women get remarried...can she still ask money for childern and self?
Equality doesn't mean feminism. Equality means EQUALITY. Kudos to the Honorable Judge.
In INDIA equality means female superiority and women shamelessly claiming special favors in almost EVERYTHING.
Yea so after marriage change your surname and live with your in laws, also take care of household duty of your wife and take care of her parents just whats expected from a woman. Then there will be equality
@@moonbrush5 nowadays women work
@@abhi0465 Still they are expected to take care of her in laws and kids and do all household chores right? And woman live with their in laws not the other way around.
@@moonbrush5 Yeah we can do that and we will change the rules of alliance seeking as well where men's parents will expect women to be financially stable, should have a own house in the place where the bride works, she should not have a brother (Because men parents will have the fear of their sons might be tortured by brother-in-law) and the bride should have a good social skills where she should handle all external things that affects the family. Only if the bride meets this requirement men will marry her and men will do all the household chores, take care of their in laws, baby and of course going to a job will be optional to men, no dowry, she needs to take him for vacation some where or any other presents often and there will be alimony if the couple gets divorce.
Even if he is earning 8 lakhs, why should he pay it to the greedy woman?! His legal obligation should be to provide her food and shelter, and children's well-being.
This is extortion at its finest. He has to pay for education, house and maintenance and he gets only four hours with his kids. This system is screwed.
He should make them give rupee by rupee expense and present that to court. But probably he's not used to that like a middle-class or poor person.
He should become a Muslim then he doesn't have to face all this.
Woman should be ashamed for taking alimoney and men should be ashamed for talking dowry
Shameless has no shame
Dowry is illegal. Alimony is legal. In fact not giving Alimony is illegal
Alimony should be allowed only when dowry is taken.
If she has given birth then she truly deserve alimony but not irrational amount
@@viratsharma7542 why, is she incapable to work and make some income?
WTF 😳3.5Cr...Dear lady, these respected person was your husband, not a ATM machine.
Me and my family's annual Income just 5L. And we enjoyed our life.
Why would he have 3.15Cr in an account which his wife has access. Should have invested that money somewhere already.
ये शादी नहीं... व्यापार है!!
Its called equality and Freedom of women🙄🙄
So husbands are basically treated as a ATM in our law.
I am really scared of marrige after seeing all of this.😢
Scary kyun bro. Me khud 33 ka hua huun.. Aur aj bhi single huun... Aur proud bhi feel karta huun ❤❤
Jab Maan karega.. Tab ek ngo se bache ko adopt karunga.. Bas Maa Baap ka sath nai chodna
Be very scared n record everything with spycam If u do
Never get married
HELP UR SELF
@@omprakashsamantroy What about physical requirements? May be you don't need that, but everyone can't be like you.
Where does the concept of equality goes away in these circumstances ? Why the husband should suffer here.
Wemen wanted equality every where, so what are they demanding??? Its really an irony!!! What kind of law and judicial system??
After watching All the divorces cases I Found one thing that Lakhs of salary is the main thing that i found and Alimony is in Crores😅
I'm so glad, I have a wife who cares for me and my children and is selflessly taking care of the home. I have no worries about taking care of work. I'm so blessed. Will make sure my son knows what a wonderful mom he has.
This seems clear exploitation 😢. As a female, i think wise men deserves supportive companion.
Women can't be supportive.
She is supportive to brothers and sons..... When she herself stands against husband father in law brother in law etc she becomes dracula
We lost hope in marriage 😢
Marriage is not for companionship. It is for contributing towards evolution of human species. But cheapened to the level of companionship or worse in present day world.
You please marry him and be his supportive companion
@@harikrishbhat why will I?
Alimony ❌
Extortion ✅
Do Agreement contract before marriage 😢
New bill should be passed
Agreement??? Nothing works in India.
@@krishna_kannan_science written agreement will work if there would be a law
Prenup does not work in India.. if someone does this to me .. id quit my job and suffer along with that female...
@@krishna_kannan_science Yes I know its nothing works but demand new law should be passed for marriage I am demanding to pass this as new law
There is no such thing in India
Singles be like we are safe 😁🤣
Google are not giving this much! How to hell she take this much??
Wow equal Justice...... judiciary wow big clap
The sad side of India! 12 LPA for 2 children's annual school fees and 65K PM House Rent!!! This is not the India I live in.
More developed cities have high rent, check Mumbai, rent depends on type of house and facilities too
@@rohit98raja12anirban Living a celebrity life in the posh area of Mumbai in a rented house is also not a very Indian thing IMO. In Mumbai, house rent in 65K PM is an absurd generalization!
You know what an Indian common man's thought process would be - if for the facilities I can afford to pay 65K rent a month, I'd better think of buying a house or a flat with 65K EMI.
These generally are rich people problem. Like this guy earning 3L a month, he's not middle class, He's not even higher middle class.
1.5 lakh rent ? Why do u want to live like Ambani @@rohit98raja12anirban
If you are not earning, don't live in such a high rented apartment. Move out of Mumbai and live somewhere cheaper.
The guy stays in 65k but the women who wants maintenance and shows petty stays in 1.35lkhs rented house why?? She should work herself
Im not marrying nobody!!
I love my fkin life.
he could have been a billionare if he had stayed single
2.35L per.month being paid already😮 & he is paying .1.5L towards college in advance into FDs
& he gets.to his children 2 hours plus 2 hours total 4 hours in club house ??
Men need to rise up against such injustices --
Why is he paying such amount for their college etc. He should pay when needed. Keep the money with himself. They will probably spend that buying drugs thanks to their other rich school-friends. haha. Crazy people.
@@vaibhavdlv It's court order, he can't do anything about it, or else he will face jailtime & could also get his property or assets sold to accommodate the daylights scam, known as alimony.
Children will have psychological impact from this for sure apart from sucking so much money out of him which is absolute non-sense
No children will be brainwashed, they will always think she is the victim
Once they start earning they will understand since the will eventually come to stop. If someone gives you laks of rupees every year. He has love for you. Movies might show things incorrectly. But tbh earning money in India is very hard spending lakhs of rupees is a very big thing..
No they won't.
They will be poised to thinking he owes them that money .
Man's weakness being exploited to the maximum extent. He should resign his job and stay jobless for a year. Then see what this lady does.
then she will cry
and beg to be together
Court will order some bs amount as child support and send him to jail for non payment
We should go to jail nothing bad they can't Jail indefinitely trend has to start ok instead of working 12 h per day will take rest for 6 m in jail.
@@GamESIymakes sense
she'd start an onlyfans account
There is proper judgement
My Unpopular Opinions on Alimony.
1. Don't allow any Alimony if the wife is Characterless (if she's already having an affair)
2. Don't allow any Alimony if there's no child of the spouse.
(even if there's a Child and if the wife is ready to take the custody, then only allow Alimony).
3. There must be a specific criteria for Alimony. Or a limit percentage for Alimony for example 30% of his monthly income)
(For Example - If there's only 1 child then 20,000 for both wife and kid).
Holding the visitation for just 8 hours a week as hostage to extract nearly 2.5 lakhs from a man.. how is it not pure extortion? Why does he have to beg just to visit his kids when he is basically paying for everything for the children and the mother? The law in this country is just shameful
This is pure nonsense, people who works daily labours are more happy than these corporates, its either men/women wants high life and forgets whats imporatant in relationships, adjustments, sacrifice and all. Marriage life will become hell for men especially if he faces these kinds of womens and their demands...
Even if you look at matrimony market first marriage .Girls who are earning 3-4 lakhs are asking for 20-30 LPA and preferrable own house .This is from a middle class perspective. IF you are poor then both girl and boy know life is shit and economic situations changes so they adjust maybe fight but live life .Rich people I don't know bro.
But watching too much of these Internet videos with all the doom and gloom sucks the joy out of life and kinda makes you depressing.
Watching this video makes me think rural UP Bihar regressive practices looks more practical.
Sir,
These sort of issues are there in poor famoly too, it's their own fate, nothing else.
@@ramalingamp9274 thank you sir .
@@ramalingamp9274no concept of divorce, alimony doesn't exist in the minds of Lower class
When injustice becomes law, resistance becomes duty...
Super brother
Greats Ben Franklin quote but the middle class is just comfortable enough to not resist
Judge mam has to look into rented house paid 1.35lac
What exactly will she do if the husband passes away?
Husband must look for other alternatives. There's always a cheaper slightly immoral options.
I am going through similar hell. I have been fighting for the last 5 and hlf years.
@@rshabreeaal the best man.. Hope tou get out of this..
@@rshabree Ive heard news of wife accident by a truck causes instant death
This Madam is what a judge should be. To the point the questions are.
If father is willing to take care of children (which he is) then mother will pay the maintenance? Alimony is not business…
He is earning around 47 LPA
Is this an Ambani family, 3.5 Lakhs per month, 1.35L Rent per month and she is withdrawning 3.5 Crores ...My God, I am not going to marry and moving into Live in Relationship immediately .
Beware live in relationship also deserve fat alimony as per recent court ruling
Start up business of women - Alimony
The argument should be my lord: the husband is paying all his salary for the ex wife and children. Then why is he not being allowed to keep the children full time? Men need to understand than in todays world marriage is just an instrument that women can use against you and benefit off you. It does not serve men any purpose.
Same my thoughts
Cause she gave birth to the children. She has some rights too
@@dis_appointed8626 correct,some rights not complete rights
Lady enjoys free money
@@dis_appointed8626yes if a woman get married , she enjoys full right of husband money
If she get baby, husband has to become slave of her
ALIMONY = DOWRY, If DOWRY is punishable offense, then why not the ALIMONY is punishable offense?
Alimony should be partially banned just like dowry or simply amended. If a woman can't provide payments for her children's upkeep, then the children should stay with the father who can take care of them. If a man is unwilling to take care of his children, then he should keep giving alimony money to his ex-wife. In case of no children, no alimony should be present. I have seen cases of a man earning 60k a month and giving alimony of 50k a month. And he was divorced because his wife cheated on him. But since court decides whether alimony should be provided for in case of alimony, the judge simply told the man to pay regardless of the circumstances. It was a fine case of moral kidnapping where a man's children were kept hostages for the man to keep giving the majority of his salary to his cheating ex-wife.
Why does the mother need custody of children if she can't bear the expenses of children?
Alimony should be banned.
That's enough money for her to retired
She ain't working. She was born retired.
Modern day beggar. Sad to see no equality 😢…
Divorces with children.... Is very dangerous to men......
Men are punished in the name of marriage....
So sad...
She is standing like a beggar, and asking for money because she can't make money but fight. How ridiculous.
why does husband needs to pay. Dowry is banned same way alimony should be banned. or Minimum maintainence amount should be decided. I have seen people coming up with prepostrous amounts.
He can clearly ask court to set some minimum maintenance. Court is the one supposed to do that. With salary of 3L per month, court will probably not ask for more than 30% amount and even a good lawyer can fight for each and every rupee the husband has to shell out. That means the lady can not stay in a house of 1.35L rent. You get 1L rupees which is plenty enough to live comfortably.
Ameer logo ka case dekh lia glti se😊
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Yes bro 😂
I can't imagine of this much amount of money, utube recommended me this.
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Abolish the law of alimony! Let man live! This is ridiculous !
Marrying wrong person is scary af this days. Society is getting doomed. Abolish dowry nd alimony both. Make marriage neutral from money. If someone wants to give gifts or evn money on their own then its fine but it shouldn't be forced or asked by any party
Why not change the house that has low rent ? Its total nonsense to hear all this injustice happening..
Exactly, no one is talking about. Even, husband is living in 65k in three room house. She can also live like that
The ex wifes lawyer will advocate that the family deserves the same standard of living that they had when they were married.....Hence the same house....
All the men please force the govt. Pass some law who favour men also.... Now the maintenance law is used by wife in malafied way....
That's where common civil code comes into picture.
Stop getting married.. simple..just date them for life..