finding out your sister self harms - a mental health Q&A

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  • @lindseyswieringa9239
    @lindseyswieringa9239 4 года назад +95

    when she said "you weren't self absorbed, you were ill" I feel like that was such a mature thing for her to say. That fact that she was only 16 is crazy

  • @e.mchristina5260
    @e.mchristina5260 5 лет назад +314

    I’m 17 almost 18 and I have been self harming for about 6 years. 2 weeks clean!

  • @tillydaley3235
    @tillydaley3235 6 лет назад +331

    Honestly everyone needs a sister like amy, she’s so amazing xoxo

  • @XSweetCherryBlossomX
    @XSweetCherryBlossomX 3 месяца назад +6

    I miss you Marie… rest in peace 🥺

  • @Rebecca-fw3vm
    @Rebecca-fw3vm 6 лет назад +187

    i want to be friends with your sister she seems like the loveliest person ever

  • @isabelwondrasch3900
    @isabelwondrasch3900 6 лет назад +106

    This video made me cry.. my sister had to watch me in deep depression and witnessed my suciside attempt and had to see my self harm scars. Never understood or seemed to try how she thought about it all. So thank you Amy for helping me and many others see how our mental illness didn’t only effect us

  • @tay1783
    @tay1783 6 лет назад +195

    i came to this channel because its so real. it talks about serious issues surrounding mental health. Tbh i see creators avoiding these kind of subjects, this channel is unique and amazing 💕

  • @peachigo5495
    @peachigo5495 6 месяцев назад +8

    26:37 seeing Marie and her sister laugh here so much tells me they had such a strong bond. Grief is so so difficult. Keeping y’all in my thoughts all the time.

  • @alliecary.
    @alliecary. 6 лет назад +537

    Could you talk about swimming with self harm sometime? *edit* i know i posted this over a year ago, but i want to clarify that i meant with scars. i do not actively self harm anymore but i deal with a lot of insecurity about my scars. thanks for the replies anyways!

    • @nicolletoledo1740
      @nicolletoledo1740 6 лет назад +20

      Allie Cary it’s painful and it prevented my scars from healing properly

    • @alliecary.
      @alliecary. 6 лет назад +33

      alison toledo I mean scars, not cuts. Hanks though

    • @averosia
      @averosia 6 лет назад +38

      Oh god yeah. I want to go swimming with my friends over the summer but like aaaaaaaa

    • @madisonknows5344
      @madisonknows5344 6 лет назад +18

      Truth be told from my phone experiences, they never notice. :)

    • @madisonknows5344
      @madisonknows5344 6 лет назад +4

      **own

  • @MissZoiieL1990
    @MissZoiieL1990 5 лет назад +88

    I've been self harming for 17 years... I'm currently 2 weeks clean

    • @childofthetardis5939
      @childofthetardis5939 5 лет назад +2

      Zoie'sWorld well done!

    • @MissZoiieL1990
      @MissZoiieL1990 5 лет назад

      @@childofthetardis5939 Thank you!

    • @madisond7436
      @madisond7436 4 года назад

      Zoie'sWorld I’m so proud of you!

    • @connorbriarly655
      @connorbriarly655 4 года назад

      You got this! Stay strong 💕 I’m a year clean, I think it gets easier as time goes on and you heal from the inside 💕

    • @smallstone836
      @smallstone836 3 года назад

      Well done 👍 keep going I'm proud of you

  • @williamhilton5519
    @williamhilton5519 6 лет назад +121

    Its sad to think that you think 12 is young to know about it but I self harmed then

    • @ayybibi
      @ayybibi 5 лет назад +17

      PredawnPoet 21 riiight, i was 9 when i first started getting suicidal thoughts & 10 years old when i first attempted. im fourteen now, survived 10 attempts in total. i completely understand you.

    • @redbengal16
      @redbengal16 4 года назад +3

      I'm 11 and I'm self-harming... almost 12

    • @islarebecca333
      @islarebecca333 4 года назад +1

      @@redbengal16 me too stay strong for me, my insta is @islakippin xxx

    • @redbengal16
      @redbengal16 4 года назад +1

      @@islarebecca333 I'll try to stay strong. I'm currently 12 and I've been slowly getting better. 😊

    • @islarebecca333
      @islarebecca333 4 года назад +1

      A Kourtesis yessss! well done 🥰sending love and support your way ❤️❤️dm me if needed @islakippin on insta and tiktok

  • @CHRISTYLEANNE
    @CHRISTYLEANNE 6 лет назад +132

    How does your sister get her hair so sleek and shiny? 😀

  • @lanaroberts9929
    @lanaroberts9929 6 лет назад +39

    What a lovely strong little sister, makes me think of my own sister and how much she would have had to deal with with me, such a similar situation in my family. Lots of love x

  • @rubybond7888
    @rubybond7888 6 лет назад +39

    2 beautiful ladies talking about something really important xxx

  • @liamodonovan3437
    @liamodonovan3437 6 лет назад +149

    To adorable sweethearts such a beautiful honest story love both of you

  • @sashathorpe
    @sashathorpe 6 лет назад +47

    So truthful, what a pair of angels, well done the TWO of you, all credit goes to you BOTH, so proud and so much love xx

  • @coralmore3568
    @coralmore3568 6 лет назад +14

    I have so much guilt and shame about putting my brother through so much when I started going through my mental illness, this made me feel so much better and less bad/evil/selfish. Love you both.

    • @amysenechal5440
      @amysenechal5440 6 лет назад +3

      Coral More don’t feel guilty! What your going/ went through is difficult enough, never feel guilty xx

    • @coralmore3568
      @coralmore3568 6 лет назад +2

      Amy Senechal you are amazing

  • @ainedolley5438
    @ainedolley5438 6 лет назад +78

    You should do more videos with your sister! This one was amazing!! Xxxx

    • @marieroseeee
      @marieroseeee  6 лет назад

      Thankyou so much!! And yes we 100% will!! ❤️

  • @lesleysmith7897
    @lesleysmith7897 6 лет назад +20

    A venting account....lots of people with MH difficulties have them. You can vent without your family being on that Insta account. You are such sweethearts. You're bond/closeness is clearly visible 💜 xxxx

  • @nikki-fb3tt
    @nikki-fb3tt 6 лет назад +9

    i just wanted to say you’re such an inspiration to me. i’m currently recovering from anorexia and self harm and your videos help me get through the tough times as now i know i’m not alone going through my struggles! it’s been very hard for me recently as i’ve gone into hospital but you’ve helped me a lot so i just wanted to say thank you for the help

  • @orlabeausang
    @orlabeausang 6 лет назад +24

    your videos honestly make me feel a lot more confident to talk about my mental illness, so thank you so much Marie 💗

    • @marieroseeee
      @marieroseeee  6 лет назад +2

      Oh wow I’m SO happy about that, remember it’s important to talk and for it not be a taboo topic! 🧡

  • @elliewatson2262
    @elliewatson2262 6 лет назад +35

    I relate to Amy so much as I went through so similar with my older sister and everything that was described was so similar to my situation and it helps me to know that something like this wasn’t just me who has gone through this and the time length that you two had is the same as me and in a way it’s scary how alike it is ps u two look like twins lol

  • @emmawilliams4422
    @emmawilliams4422 6 лет назад +13

    Amy seems like a lovely person and I love seeing you guys together and seeing your relationship. ❤️ xxx

  • @ClandestineGirl16X
    @ClandestineGirl16X 6 лет назад +13

    I wish my litter sister and i had a relationship like you two have. When my sister found out about my self-harm, eating disorder, and depression she said i need to be locked away in the "nut house" and she wished i would die from it. lovely little girl. she was about 11 at the time. shes 19 now and she still hates me. we havent spoken in nearly 3 years.

  • @emmabrown8822
    @emmabrown8822 5 лет назад +4

    I can’t deal how understanding Amy is what an amazing sister ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @laurenollymursx
    @laurenollymursx 6 лет назад +9

    Your sister is such an amazing person. So mature and loving. Such a heartwarming video. I wish my sister was the same x

  • @oliviagallagher6663
    @oliviagallagher6663 6 лет назад +8

    This video is so inspirational 💋 Amy is honestly the kindest person I know and I’m so grateful to have her as a friend ♥️

    • @amysenechal5440
      @amysenechal5440 6 лет назад

      Olivia Gallagher awww liv, love youuu♥️

  • @TashaRoberts
    @TashaRoberts 6 лет назад +23

    Amy is so beautiful inside and out!!! Loved this video❤️

  • @Charlotte-yo9bc
    @Charlotte-yo9bc 5 лет назад +5

    Awww Amy is such an amazing sister. I am so scared that if my sister finds out about my mental health it will affect her so much and I just feel so guilty to my whole family for putting them through it xxx

  • @LucyGem98
    @LucyGem98 6 лет назад +12

    You and your sister look so alike, and you're both so beautiful. Your family must have some good genes

  • @multifandomtears9401
    @multifandomtears9401 6 лет назад +8

    Everyone get yourself an Amy , such a strong family❤️x

  • @roseyclarke4491
    @roseyclarke4491 5 лет назад +17

    Jeez I was 11 nearly 12 when I started self harming and I was nearly 11 when my anxiety and depression started

  • @El-sc8mo
    @El-sc8mo 6 лет назад +7

    I was ten when I found out about "mental health" stuff. Depression. Anxiety, selfharm

  • @insertmeme1531
    @insertmeme1531 4 года назад +5

    I've been self harming for almost 3 years, told some people and nobody cared. So I don't bother with hiding my scars (but of course I hide fresh cuts) I'm so tired

  • @charlottehooton6710
    @charlottehooton6710 6 лет назад +20

    U too are so cute u have come so far Marie!❤️❤️

  • @MsPeaceLover2k10xx
    @MsPeaceLover2k10xx 6 лет назад +2

    I admire your Amy’s maturity, you both have such a sweet relationship❤️

  • @12sizednugget67
    @12sizednugget67 6 лет назад +9

    So now, as an older sister, do you get paranoid that your younger sister may be self harming? I get sooooo paranoid but I try and equip them with things I didn’t have to cope with if they need it

  • @mgreyce9139
    @mgreyce9139 6 лет назад +6

    Thank you for sharing this. Amy, you're such a sweetheart and have an amazing genuine heart. Marie, you're incredibly strong. Hoping for the best for both of you xx

  • @pip9733
    @pip9733 6 лет назад +26

    Such a good video 💞💞💞

  • @charlottehooton6710
    @charlottehooton6710 6 лет назад +37

    YASSS SHISTAR 😛😛

  • @vessyt.7663
    @vessyt.7663 5 лет назад

    That video made me realise how much mental health and self harm affect not only you but the people closest to you. Thank you for spreading awareness. Take care ❤️❤️ also your sister is the loveliest person ever

  • @user-um4md5zj6i
    @user-um4md5zj6i 4 года назад +4

    Thankyou, I've just found out my sister has severe anxiety and self harms/ harmed and has just got through to a counsellor from bernadoes. I've just turned 12 .

  • @vickimargaret716
    @vickimargaret716 6 лет назад +20

    I would love to know where you got your dangly earrings and necklaces 😍

    • @marieroseeee
      @marieroseeee  6 лет назад +6

      Earrings were asos and necklaces were missguided! I got the earrings a while ago so I’m not sure if they’re still there (but they always have loads similar) and the missguided ones were only a few weeks back ❤️☺️

  • @noellebombardier7556
    @noellebombardier7556 3 года назад +1

    OMG THIS IS SUCH A CUTE VIDEO!!!! MARIE PLEASE MAKE ANOTHER ONE 🥺. I’m here sooooo late but I love this video, it’s so wholesome. Plus with Covid not being able to make videos with friends as much it could be a fun project to involve Amy again ❤️❤️

  • @lailashakira4253
    @lailashakira4253 6 лет назад +8

    I adored this video!!! yassss SHISTAAAR

  • @aimeekinss6864
    @aimeekinss6864 6 лет назад

    The similarities are crazy, that was almost exactly how I was like when I was young and going through it alone. It's 100% true - tell someone otherwise it's only going to get worse. You're both so lovely, kind and beautiful x

  • @katiemcgovern5962
    @katiemcgovern5962 4 года назад

    I think seeing my sister go through her mental health issues was worse then myself going through my own mental health issues. Its soul crushing to see the people you love so hurt and so sad. I would do anything for her and I'm so glad shes doing so much better.

  • @elizabethrosebracken1999
    @elizabethrosebracken1999 5 лет назад +14

    Her sister Amy looks almost identical to my sister Amy and I'm shook

  • @FloralPanic
    @FloralPanic Год назад

    This hits me hard. My big brother has seen my scars before. He hasn't said anything but it makes me feel so bad that he has to see that. I have been on the waitlist for a couple months now and I thank my brother so much. He is the best thing to ever happen to me.

  • @niamhbowden8507
    @niamhbowden8507 6 лет назад +4

    You are amazing being able to talk about this

  • @demiaminu5867
    @demiaminu5867 6 лет назад +4

    Brooo your sister got me howling I swear

  • @jessicagodley2758
    @jessicagodley2758 6 лет назад +3

    Can I like this 10x over please! Remind me of me and my sister. Loved this video!! ❤️

  • @charlotterose4290
    @charlotterose4290 6 лет назад +1

    Bit off topic but omg both of your makeup is SO SO ON POINT like yaaasss

  • @dizzybooth7284
    @dizzybooth7284 5 лет назад +9

    I’m interested in what dad found tbh 😂

  • @alexanderharrison5593
    @alexanderharrison5593 6 лет назад +1

    I loved watching this video. So lovely to see and hear how supportive your family are.

  • @MyOzay
    @MyOzay 2 года назад +1

    Your sister is amazing, and really pretty. I am a sibling of someone with mental health issues, and he had his first episode when i was 14, and he was 16 turning 17, so i found it pretty tough. I went to a steiner school, which was very close knit, so everyone knew about what had happened to my brother, and were sympathetic, although some of the younger ones couldn't understand it. He never went into a physch ward until he was 18, he was seen as too young to go into a ward, although that wud be a different case now, but this was in the late 80s, in rural yorkshire. Orginally he was quite ill for around half a year, and then unfortunately later in his 20s to 30s mainly, physch hospitals became like a revolving door to him, cos he was never quite on the right medication or decided to stop taking it, plus like myself at the time, and i am not proud of what i did at the time, he got involved in drugs like cannabis...his episodes would be triggered by him not being able to sleep, then he wud become physchotic, and he is schizophrenic as it is, he doesn't hear voices, but he can be very delusional, schizophrenia is not just about hearing voices in your head telling you to do things, that has never happened to him, but his veiw of the world is very unusual, he is very negative about things, fearful, and has pet hates.

  • @CharlotteFoley
    @CharlotteFoley 6 лет назад +6

    You are both gorgeous and such amazing people

  • @daniellepitmon4631
    @daniellepitmon4631 5 лет назад +4

    Girls you were both so cute together I’m glad you had such a great relationship as sisters I wish I did with my sister but I never dead keep the love going and keep together forever

    • @daniellepitmon4631
      @daniellepitmon4631 5 лет назад

      PS I thought you two are twins used to who looks so much alike

  • @ewgross6423
    @ewgross6423 6 лет назад +13

    yasssss SHISTAAAAR!

  • @nsz8584
    @nsz8584 6 лет назад +2

    At first I thought they're twins.. They are so beautiful and sweet sisters💞

  • @jkally1
    @jkally1 Год назад +4

    ❤ Thinking of you

  • @emilyrose6459
    @emilyrose6459 4 года назад

    If you’re reading this comment, you’re beautiful and loved. You may have been through scary times but the fact you’re still here means you’ve never truly given up. Well done for pushing through even when you didn’t want to, when you were so done that you struggled to get out of bed you still did, however long it took. If you don’t know who to turn to, there’s always someone ready to listen. It’s okay to get help however bad it is❤️

  • @irispotterwilliams6264
    @irispotterwilliams6264 6 лет назад +5

    Yasss shistar, loved this video 💓💓

  • @georgiakatedurkin
    @georgiakatedurkin 6 лет назад +12

    Love you mariee xxx
    but you seemed soo uneasy in parts 💕💕💕

  • @georgiakatedurkin
    @georgiakatedurkin 6 лет назад +4

    YAS SHISSSTERRR

  • @cloud.observations
    @cloud.observations 6 лет назад +6

    You two are so cute together!!! 💖💖💖and great vid your sis is amazing, just like you

    • @marieroseeee
      @marieroseeee  6 лет назад +1

      Awh omg thankyou! She is, she’s acc a lot funnier, I want her in some more videos so you’s can all see her 🌚

  • @sabinakrpata7155
    @sabinakrpata7155 6 лет назад

    Ahh i could feel the absolute love between you two and it’s so great

  • @kellysdaybook
    @kellysdaybook 6 лет назад +2

    Got to love a sister Q&A, just did one with my twin too xx

  • @violeochoa
    @violeochoa 4 года назад +2

    4 years of self harm, now 8 months clean!

  • @roobyglumandyourmom
    @roobyglumandyourmom 4 года назад +2

    yaaaas SHISTAAAR

  • @loispinnock347
    @loispinnock347 6 лет назад +19

    Hi Marie. I’m not allowed to have social media is there any other way I could contact you for some help? X

  • @hanamary89
    @hanamary89 4 года назад

    I literally LOVE the sisterly banta! x

  • @queenjulianalovesherfatban2064
    @queenjulianalovesherfatban2064 3 года назад

    You're both the sweetest people 🥺🥺

  • @chanelnadiaaa
    @chanelnadiaaa 4 года назад

    You guys are literally me in a nutshell (pisces sun and sagittarius moon) hahaha. You sister is such an angel. You have such a loving family and I'm glad you do cause you deserve to have a big supportive family and you deserve all the happiness!

  • @novawestergren9357
    @novawestergren9357 6 лет назад +5

    Yassss SHISTAAAR

  • @Rebelwithacause94
    @Rebelwithacause94 5 лет назад

    you guys are so funny to watch :D this vid was interesting and its so cool how your sis has supported you :) i have a pretty supportive brother but my parents are a bit meh with my issues they judge a lot

  • @rileybagnall2250
    @rileybagnall2250 4 года назад

    Damn I mean I know nothing about makeup but that eye makeup is like. "On fleek"

  • @paige4577
    @paige4577 3 года назад +2

    I'm 13, I've been self harming for a year and I'm about 1 hour clean

  • @curtisbemis6640
    @curtisbemis6640 3 года назад

    I have to say amy is an amazing beautiful and very mature young lady !!! She has such a beautiful personality and I wanna say to her amy I could only wish for a sibling like you . I hope she reads this because I really mean it from my heart .❤❤❤ bless you and your family

  • @erinrichards8299
    @erinrichards8299 6 лет назад +4

    Yassss Shistaar 🧡🙃❤️

  • @joshb2689
    @joshb2689 5 лет назад +3

    I have depression

  • @laurenmcgreeghan3933
    @laurenmcgreeghan3933 6 лет назад +3

    I love this video ; thank u its Rly helped me

  • @kylehill9981
    @kylehill9981 5 лет назад

    this was such a cool and interesting video, yall so smart & chill

  • @alliecary.
    @alliecary. 6 лет назад +2

    *yassssss shishtarrrr.*

  • @chlobolt9688
    @chlobolt9688 6 лет назад +2

    get yourselves an Amy people

  • @sophiadendias8278
    @sophiadendias8278 3 года назад

    I started self harming when I was around 9/10 years old because of bullying. I'm now 21 and relapsed last week after 262 days clean

  • @bloggingwithmills1252
    @bloggingwithmills1252 5 лет назад +2

    How do you do it I self harm almost every day xx

  • @alice-olivia9948
    @alice-olivia9948 6 лет назад +1

    I hate not being able too talk about my metal health with my family. I would love the relationship you have with your sister. Could you give me any tips on how to tell my family.

  • @insertmeme1531
    @insertmeme1531 6 лет назад +2

    She has such sweet sister :) All that my sister does, when she find out. Was just yelled at me and making fun of me. Oh and she told everyone. Like her boyfriend and my cousin,aunts (which I hate btw xd) Of course she did that, cause that shouldn't make me feel like total shit ^-^
    Thx you sis I love u

  • @Alluska
    @Alluska 6 лет назад +3

    I love this video 😊

  • @kobiejohnson6860
    @kobiejohnson6860 4 года назад

    my sister selfs harms and our mum knows but she doesn’t know that she relapsed but ik so i help my sister through it but i don’t tell my mum about it bc i feel like it’s not my business to tell her and as long as ik i feel like i can help her through it myself

  • @xCiaraLouisexx
    @xCiaraLouisexx 6 лет назад +1

    Yasss. Shishtaaaar

  • @Lizzy552
    @Lizzy552 Год назад

    I have been going through this as well I’ve felt really upset with everything going on and felt like I just want it all to end self harming was a really bad way to cope with all of the stuff I was going through I also I’m part of a thing called the squad in gymnastics I train 8 hours a week and we are always told that we can’t eat a lot and that made me stop eating and I got really sick I honestly felt like I was crazy for all of this stuff even though I wasn’t I hope anyone else going through something like this gets better I love gymnastics but it’s been making things a lot worse for me

  • @frankoceanlvrr
    @frankoceanlvrr 5 лет назад

    I’m 15 and I’ve been cutting since I was 10 and I can’t stop it’s so addicting

  • @samkulik2159
    @samkulik2159 6 лет назад +1

    yassss shistarrrrr

  • @potterheads1220
    @potterheads1220 4 месяца назад +2

    I'm the Amy of the story but I did also self harm and my sister was a bich even if a was there for her.

    • @angEl.dust.13.
      @angEl.dust.13. 3 месяца назад

      i‘m so sorry, i hope ur ok and have people in ur life now that are there for u ❤️

    • @potterheads1220
      @potterheads1220 3 месяца назад

      @@angEl.dust.13. Thank you, you are very nice. I still... do it, but now I have a sister without comun blood who is alwais there for me and I'm for her.

    • @angEl.dust.13.
      @angEl.dust.13. 3 месяца назад

      @@potterheads1220 so happy to hear that shes there and sending you love and support

    • @potterheads1220
      @potterheads1220 3 месяца назад +1

      @@angEl.dust.13. Thanks🥰🥰

  • @zararobson7532
    @zararobson7532 6 лет назад +1

    I knew about mental health since I was 9

  • @serinat2181
    @serinat2181 5 лет назад +3

    6:30 That is literally me

  • @claireyfairytwomey
    @claireyfairytwomey 6 лет назад +2

    yassss SHISTAAAR

  • @risatakei9697
    @risatakei9697 5 лет назад

    Yassss SHISHTAAAR