My husband.....not even talk to me ....but if I say I am going to my house.....he become completely in violent mode...😮😮😮😮😮 Actually I don't know what to do....leave him or not??? Now only after 19 yrs of torture i realised it ...😮😢😢😢
yep. i just realized that my husband doesnt like ME ...he just wants someone around ...Im slowly starting the riptide effect and on my way out, slowly making things and signs of me disappear. I will not be a novelty item.
Spot on! All so true. Ignoring them, avoiding eye contact with them and not engaging like if they're not there work wonders. Your tranquility, health and wellbeing are priceless. Never take them seriously. Thank you, Dr Bashir 🙏🏻
At this point, I am no more irritated by narcissistic noise! I can’t be bothered to smile nor snarl at the narcissist anymore! I am lifeless and soulless at them. I only smile, laugh and play with my children! My family, husband and in-laws are narcissist nest, and they will always keep trying to drive us into suicide by whatever means they can dish out. I am already bored of their antics. Thank you.
I moved on thank you on Danish for this video on this message because God willing that the narc does not bother me to ask is out of my life permanently and I would like to keep it that way Thank you Danish
@@tammyhollis1519 he chose to solve a problem with more problems It’s like stretching an elastic band further and further because you don’t want to see it. But the further it goes, the harder it will rebound on him ñ that’s a law of the universe
@@tammyhollis1519 it would’ve been way less work and better results if he chose healing But the fact he chose that path means he has fallen in God’s trap, to destroy him. And this due to his evil heart
Danish. I'm afraid of women now. I freak when I see an unknown woman. I freeze I wanna run. I hold my breath like I'm under water This only happens near where the abuse happened. I'm terrified to go places I used to go afraid of seeing the ghost or witch and them speak to me. I wear heavy ear covers so I'll never hear the frightening words. I avoid women because she's the second abusive/woman/ authority person where I am. Mom was like that so I've had too many blows in one area. I'm dented. tonight I went even afraid but it may cause a medical issue to activate. God and my earphones the only help for the fear. Didn't go bad. I had to carry everyone from U Tube with me. All those rooting for me. Thanks for being one of those friends
It's tricky when they live with you. And mine is retired now. Aack! So today I decided I need to put gray rocks strategically around the house. Kitchen windowsill, bathroom counter, where I sit in the living room, a bigger one on my dresser in my room. He's never in there so won't see it.😊 Little reminders to not react when he baits me, belittles me or tries to otherwise provoke me. Sadly all of these are daily. But not for much longer...❤😊🎉
@@peacefaith560 lol! Actually even if you were married you should get out ASAP! I had gotten so depressed, layer upon layer of it, that I was truly just surviving. I developed health issues most caused by or made worse by stress. Well there's plenty of stress if you have a narcissist in your life. I didn't even know that his behavior was what a narcissist is. I thought he was just a selfish a$$hole. Lucky for me we aren't married. 😊 I had that much sense! And I own my house. He's refused to leave numerous times. I finally snapped out of the depression a couple of months ago. I've got the wheels in motion to get him out of my life. He's previously said it will take a legal eviction to get him out. He's that kind of vindictive. That will be lots of fun.
This is very true. It was the one thing I could control and she hated it when I’d put her in Time Out. But she learned when to back off if she didn’t want to get silenced again.
I Didn't get another person for sometime. Afraid I'd get someone like that. Needed to SELF REPAIR ETC. His take on the situation, " SHE can't get over me, she hasn't found someone for so long! " SO full of himself and in DENIAL OF HIS DAMAGE! UNBELIEVABLE EGO!
Oh yeah, they become like silk when discarded, but their niceness doesn't work either 😂total victory with silence and just living my life successfully 😂and praising others in front of them, and talking about death and playing on their fear of abandonment, and dancing and singing and being happy 😁 total destruction.
And when someone disrespect you with manipulations, lack of empathy, not giving You your place, ignoring your years, and then they go away smiling having a wonderful day ignoring you and don't give a fuck what? You are the evil one for not laughing at their mistakes or not accepting being so low value or crying or getting angry?? Your the crazy onenfor making drama while they don't feel shit like remorse, empathy or at least make something to correct their mistakes but theyre calmly ignoring you almost at 100% and having the best time ever?
This part. He forever refers to me as his. Like im an object. Sad part we have kids so we coparent but he still says im his and i have to remind him that I wohld never be "yours" ever again and im not an object
Well the silent treatment is awful for anyone in a relationship whether you’re a narcissist or not. It’s a poor communication strategy to employ. Gets you nowhere in a relationship.
We should all be taught about narcissistic people starting in kindergarten!! These are useless and evil people! We just never knew the name to describe them!
They don’t feel like a failure because they are a failure in every way that counts.
100% true.....You took the words right out of my mouth.👍
This is my ex husband.... 'I don't want a relationship with you but I still want you in my life.'
My husband.....not even talk to me ....but if I say I am going to my house.....he become completely in violent mode...😮😮😮😮😮 Actually I don't know what to do....leave him or not??? Now only after 19 yrs of torture i realised it ...😮😢😢😢
Leave him for your peace @@DGP8630
Do you already have separate homes? If you do, you're halfway there! Go for peace and joy.
yep. i just realized that my husband doesnt like ME ...he just wants someone around ...Im slowly starting the riptide effect and on my way out, slowly making things and signs of me disappear. I will not be a novelty item.
Exactly, narcissists are pathetic and stupid lol
Spot on! All so true. Ignoring them, avoiding eye contact with them and not engaging like if they're not there work wonders. Your tranquility, health and wellbeing are priceless. Never take them seriously. Thank you, Dr Bashir 🙏🏻
Just ignore them and walk away. That worked for me.
At this point, I am no more irritated by narcissistic noise!
I can’t be bothered to smile nor snarl at the narcissist anymore!
I am lifeless and soulless at them.
I only smile, laugh and play with my children!
My family, husband and in-laws are narcissist nest, and they will always keep trying to drive us into suicide by whatever means they can dish out.
I am already bored of their antics.
Thank you.
They almost always have a new supply when you’re breaking up 😢
Just experienced this. When you're arguing they silence you, but when you're silent they're screaming at you like "why are you not answering?"
I moved on thank you on Danish for this video on this message because God willing that the narc does not bother me to ask is out of my life permanently and I would like to keep it that way Thank you Danish
Your supposed to be available anytime they are ready to play with you. They think they can have cake and eat it too.
Ignoring the narcissist is sorrowful because it reminds him of the hurt child in him who was abandoned and ignored
He doesn't deserve to torture others just because he was tortured.
@@tammyhollis1519 he chose to solve a problem with more problems
It’s like stretching an elastic band further and further because you don’t want to see it. But the further it goes, the harder it will rebound on him ñ that’s a law of the universe
@@tammyhollis1519 it would’ve been way less work and better results if he chose healing
But the fact he chose that path means he has fallen in God’s trap, to destroy him. And this due to his evil heart
@@tammyhollis1519 {& they plot only against themselves but they do not sense it} - the Quran
@@scentsoftravelmeditation God doesn't set up evil traps, but He does give us over to our sin.
Danish. I'm afraid of women now. I freak when I see an unknown woman. I freeze I wanna run. I hold my breath like I'm under water This only happens near where the abuse happened. I'm terrified to go places I used to go afraid of seeing the ghost or witch and them speak to me. I wear heavy ear covers so I'll never hear the frightening words. I avoid women because she's the second abusive/woman/ authority person where I am. Mom was like that so I've had too many blows in one area. I'm dented. tonight I went even afraid but it may cause a medical issue to activate. God and my earphones the only help for the fear. Didn't go bad. I had to carry everyone from U Tube with me. All those rooting for me. Thanks for being one of those friends
Yes ...they always need your supply ...they can't bear you avoiding or leaving them
It's tricky when they live with you. And mine is retired now. Aack! So today I decided I need to put gray rocks strategically around the house. Kitchen windowsill, bathroom counter, where I sit in the living room, a bigger one on my dresser in my room. He's never in there so won't see it.😊 Little reminders to not react when he baits me, belittles me or tries to otherwise provoke me. Sadly all of these are daily. But not for much longer...❤😊🎉
If we not married .. I’m OUT 😅
@@peacefaith560 lol! Actually even if you were married you should get out ASAP! I had gotten so depressed, layer upon layer of it, that I was truly just surviving. I developed health issues most caused by or made worse by stress. Well there's plenty of stress if you have a narcissist in your life. I didn't even know that his behavior was what a narcissist is. I thought he was just a selfish a$$hole. Lucky for me we aren't married. 😊 I had that much sense! And I own my house. He's refused to leave numerous times. I finally snapped out of the depression a couple of months ago. I've got the wheels in motion to get him out of my life. He's previously said it will take a legal eviction to get him out. He's that kind of vindictive. That will be lots of fun.
VERY DEEP . All True.
When they act visibly unhinged after they know you can’t be won back-it’s both rewarding and sad.
Exactly..
Spot on, as usual Danish 🎉 Thank you!!
Exactly 💯
This is very true. It was the one thing I could control and she hated it when I’d put her in Time Out. But she learned when to back off if she didn’t want to get silenced again.
Does this apply to parental narcissistic abuse?
They also use silent treatment so that you don't speak up
Very true
Thank you
I definitely needed to hear today
OH YEAH !!! I REALLY SHOW AND PROVE !!! TO THESE KIDS !!! VERY WELL RECIEVED !!!
Awww❤
All true. Going through it now. But what's on your finger? Haha. Thanks for the consistent content.
I Didn't get another person for sometime. Afraid I'd get someone like that. Needed to SELF REPAIR ETC. His take on the situation, " SHE can't get over me, she hasn't found someone for so long! " SO full of himself and in DENIAL OF HIS DAMAGE! UNBELIEVABLE EGO!
Everyone likes to be significant and important. It's very human condition.
Oh yeah, they become like silk when discarded, but their niceness doesn't work either 😂total victory with silence and just living my life successfully 😂and praising others in front of them, and talking about death and playing on their fear of abandonment, and dancing and singing and being happy 😁 total destruction.
And when someone disrespect you with manipulations, lack of empathy, not giving You your place, ignoring your years, and then they go away smiling having a wonderful day ignoring you and don't give a fuck what? You are the evil one for not laughing at their mistakes or not accepting being so low value or crying or getting angry?? Your the crazy onenfor making drama while they don't feel shit like remorse, empathy or at least make something to correct their mistakes but theyre calmly ignoring you almost at 100% and having the best time ever?
They love to imply that we are crazy. If we are, or act like we're crazy it's simply from putting up with all the drama and BS they spew all over us.
They're not living their best life these ppl are miserable
Awesome Danish🙌🏻💯🔥 ummm...vNo. Just NO. Im NOT someone's "PROPERTY". I am a Sovereign individual & plan to stay that way. They need to move on. Live & let live.©️
People are becoming aware of something going on and I am having to deal with my own paparazzi, I am dodging.
He also said cancer couldn't happen to more of a deserving person. When my mom found out she had 3 stage 4 terminal cancers.
Do you have a book...you need to write a book
Thanks. I keep forgetting
They need reaction at all times
This is my mother, my ex boyfriend... I'm totally surrounded by these kind of people and It's hurting so much rn
IGNORE-ANCE
This part. He forever refers to me as his. Like im an object. Sad part we have kids so we coparent but he still says im his and i have to remind him that I wohld never be "yours" ever again and im not an object
That is madness
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They don't know what they want just evil people
I'm ready to move out of the country.
The narc told me he doesn't like when I ignore him. I'm free now! 😊
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My narc ex : “if we broke up, you’re still my friend “
Me: oh so you cheated on me and you want to be my friend?!!!
F him after my brother died he said I consider you a brother to me. They will pull on your heart strings when you are broken. Don’t let get devil in
Well the silent treatment is awful for anyone in a relationship whether you’re a narcissist or not. It’s a poor communication strategy to employ. Gets you nowhere in a relationship.
Maybe if they didn't act so stupid and make so much trouble they wouldn't feel like a failure
But how do we move on?
Why everything that Mr. Bashir said are right ? i feel like a big failure person now that knowing this knowledge just now
We should all be taught about narcissistic people starting in kindergarten!! These are useless and evil people! We just never knew the name to describe them!
Very true