Her Innocence Was Taken Away By Her Uncle

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  • @narishafoxx6998
    @narishafoxx6998 7 месяцев назад +77

    I totally get what you said about your aunt. My grandmother hated me and would always call me ugly, stupid, and many other names. It took many years for me to get my head together. God bless you doll. ❤🙏

    • @guest6398
      @guest6398 7 месяцев назад +14

      I had a grandmother like that, too. She treated me like a stepchild, instead of a grandchild. I never have figured out why.

    • @indigo_phoenix
      @indigo_phoenix 7 месяцев назад +6

      💜🙏🏾

    • @debrapilcher9757
      @debrapilcher9757 7 месяцев назад +3

      💜🙏🙏

    • @helierhefortuneteller
      @helierhefortuneteller 7 месяцев назад +6

      Majority of my cousins said our grandmother was a nice lady. A male cousin a year younger than me, we didn't like her & years later a cousin I didn't see much didn't like her either she confided in me. She's 10 years older than me. All she did was yell at me. & Tell me what I couldn't do. Putting me down. When she passed, I didn't really feel too bad about it. Just mean.😥

    • @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722
      @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722 7 месяцев назад

      I'm sorry ❤️ I hope everything to be alright now, your grandmother was such a bitch

  • @stephaniejohnson1972
    @stephaniejohnson1972 7 месяцев назад +43

    The aunt's conduct by discarding her underwear to ensure the evidence is destroyed is sad. The extent that people like her (police officer) aunt would go to, to protect their "good" names, their fake reputations, and their public image is a shame.

  • @typicaltip0327
    @typicaltip0327 7 месяцев назад +37

    I have a aunt that hates me too. She even made her kids hate me... crazy part I have no idea what i did

  • @Elliebutapancake
    @Elliebutapancake 7 месяцев назад +15

    She’s so pretty,,

  • @samanthabreezy9563
    @samanthabreezy9563 7 месяцев назад +36

    If u were my baby ,girl i would have protected u with my life from any and everyone. Family members too. Thats my mind set as a mother/ mommy . I always think everyone is a suspect ❤❤

    • @INDIGO.GODDESS_573
      @INDIGO.GODDESS_573 7 месяцев назад +4

      CUZ EVERY 1 IS.
      MY THING IS WHY WOULD THE MOTHER LET HER GO THERE WITH A MAN IN THE HOUSE AND WTF WOULD THE AUNTIE LEAVE HER THERE ALONE WITH MALES..AND SHEIT WHY TF DID THE AUNNTIE EVEN AGREE TO LET HER NIECE MOVE IN.. KNOWING IT WAS MALES IN THER HOUSE. I JUST AINT DOING IT.. I WILL NEVER PUT A CHILD IN JEAPORDY TO BE SA OR HARMED IN ANYWAY.. I DEF DO NOT ALLOW MALES TO BE LEFT ALONE WITH KIDS.. I PERSONALLY CAN SAY I HAVE NEVER DONE THAT WITH MY DAUGHTER, MY ONLY CHILD, I DONT EVEN AGREE WIITH MY GRANDSON BEING LEFT WITH NO MAN. I DONT TRUST TEACHER'S CHURCH FOLK NEIGHBORS FAMILY.. MALES AND FEMALES , NO DAUM BODY.

    • @samanthabreezy9563
      @samanthabreezy9563 7 месяцев назад

      @@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 i totally 1000000 agrees with you . Everyone failed poor baby ❤💔

    • @sexyalleycat
      @sexyalleycat 5 месяцев назад

      I am the same way. I trust nobody, especially family members 😒

  • @amandau.2367
    @amandau.2367 7 месяцев назад +40

    I’m so sorry. It sounds like there was a lot of resentment between your aunt and your mom and she took it out on you. She knew it was happening for sure she literally wished teenage pregnancy upon you. They’re both evil as hell

    • @stephaniejohnson1972
      @stephaniejohnson1972 7 месяцев назад +2

      So true and so sad that persons cover for these culprits

    • @helierhefortuneteller
      @helierhefortuneteller 7 месяцев назад +1

      My mother's siblings did the same thing to me. Hard to understand when I was a kid. 😥

  • @carlaperry1312
    @carlaperry1312 7 месяцев назад +29

    So sorry this happened to u my dear, I too endured the same as a very young child, I remember very vividly as a 6 yr old. By My step father and his brother. U are so brave and strong to be able to spread awareness, This happens in families more than we know. I appreciate ur bravery my sister. God Bless U🙌🏽🙌🏽😘🖤🤎🤞🏽🤞🏽Stay strong.

  • @RottenPeach0
    @RottenPeach0 7 месяцев назад +23

    My aunts on both sides don't like me. Always making snide remarks behind my back & to my face. & Looking at me like i smell bad. I didn't take it. It hurts, but i didn't let them know it. I'm so sorry.🌹💜

  • @VictoriaKing-ui8mx
    @VictoriaKing-ui8mx 7 месяцев назад +7

    I’m happy you know you’re beautiful because you’re right you’re beautiful. I hate miserable people that do that to kids because the abuser thinks nothing of themselves

  • @Loveis_Kind
    @Loveis_Kind 6 месяцев назад +7

    God gave you ALL those blessing you mentioned at the end He loves you ❤️

  • @taracofer6152
    @taracofer6152 7 месяцев назад +20

    SMH her cop auntie was DEFINITELY trying to contaminate any evidence by putting her clothes in the rain like that… oh, & don’t even get me STARTED on all of her bras/panties “disappearing” 🤦🏽‍♀️ 🙄😒 She knows her husband’s DNA was all over her nieces things!!! Smh so incredibly sick & sad
    ** to the strong woman telling her story**
    ^ I am so sorry you had to go through that 🥺🫶🏽 but I must really commend you on how gracefully you speak on your past. You are such a beautiful woman, inside and out ♥️✨ praying for a brighter future mama! 🥹 You inspire me to want to push on & live another day & maybe tell my own story one day, like you have .

    • @stephaniejohnson1972
      @stephaniejohnson1972 7 месяцев назад +4

      The aunt's conduct by discarding her underwear to ensure the evidence is destroyed is sad. The extent that people would go to, to protect their "good" names, their fake reputations, and their public image is a shame.

  • @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722
    @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722 7 месяцев назад +6

    You're a really strong and brave person for share this❤ you're really respectable, I hope everything to be alright now, never give up queen ❤

  • @2thelimit
    @2thelimit 7 месяцев назад +7

    As someone who works in law enforcement, Im shocked you reported it to an officer and their response was they didn't believe you! Very brave of you to share your story.

    • @INDIGO.GODDESS_573
      @INDIGO.GODDESS_573 7 месяцев назад +10

      WHAT?? THEY MOST DEF ALWAYS COVER FOR AND LIE AND LET THEM OFF.. WHAT ARE YOU SAYING??
      SO YOU REALLY JUST SAID THAT... LIKE... DO YOU ACTUALLY BELIEVE THAT?
      WOW...

    • @2thelimit
      @2thelimit 7 месяцев назад

      @@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 Never once has anyone ever reported something like that to me and it wasn't taken seriously! I can 100% say that same for everyone in my team!

    • @bippityboppityboo2u
      @bippityboppityboo2u 7 месяцев назад

      Law enforcement and church leaders are the biggest gaslighters and deniers...

    • @keybay7133
      @keybay7133 7 месяцев назад +3

      They didn’t believe me

    • @2thelimit
      @2thelimit 7 месяцев назад

      @@keybay7133 terrible!

  • @Trish0769
    @Trish0769 6 месяцев назад +1

    I am so sorry for what you have been through. It is absolutely crazy that grown people want to act like this type of activity is "normal" and to forgive. I believe you and I am proud of you girl.

  • @rosalindbrown4187
    @rosalindbrown4187 6 месяцев назад +8

    I CAN NOT STAND PEOPLE THAT PROTECT THE ABUSER… Innocent lives are ruined because of sex predators… 😡

  • @nyiajayy
    @nyiajayy 7 месяцев назад +7

    I’m so sorry this happened. I’m praying for you ❤️

  • @shanb.9690
    @shanb.9690 6 месяцев назад +4

    Whewwww this broke my heart into a million pieces just when you think you are the only one who’s been through it all I can do is cry and tell you I’m so so so sorry 😢 sister 👧🏾

  • @veeluv1558
    @veeluv1558 6 месяцев назад +5

    Your Family should be ashamed of themselves. I am so sorry this happened to you.

  • @merindaarvie28
    @merindaarvie28 5 месяцев назад +2

    I’m so sorry you went thru so much! But God is a healer and redeemer!!

  • @nuworldvisionz
    @nuworldvisionz 6 месяцев назад +5

    So many predators out here. I wish you well ma'am.

  • @brittneysperspective8433
    @brittneysperspective8433 7 месяцев назад +10

    @11:40 Pay attention to that y’all. I’ve heard many stories of sexual abuse, and they often involve some sort of “extortion” that the child is forced into, and blames themselves. One girl said her stepfather would force her to rake up all the leaves in the backyard as a chore. They had a huge backyard. He would make her do it by herself, unless she performed whatever sexual act he requested and she would “give in”, or be forced to do some kind of grueling labor. This is the abusers way of convincing themselves it’s “consensual”. This is why I encourage women who to have clear rules about disciplines and/or makes demands on them.

    • @nadialove2048
      @nadialove2048 7 месяцев назад

      And I bet you believed them all don’t you? There are some where the accusers actually came out and said they lied about their rape and sexual abused. I guessed they were looking for attention.

  • @gladwaite1719
    @gladwaite1719 5 месяцев назад

    I am so sorry. This sounded so super hurtful to everyone involved. I am so happy that you have gotten this far in your healing journey. It was especially wonderful to hear that you KNOW THAT YOU DESERVE the good life that you have now. Thank you for your courage. The men that do these things don't take the collateral damage into consideration. You seem like you're steadily. Moving forward on your healing journey. All the best to you!

  • @harleyquinnmsj
    @harleyquinnmsj 7 месяцев назад +5

    Thank you for telling your story. It really because I thought that I was alone all my life. It also happened to me. My abuse happened when I was nine I was molested by this man in the same man kept doing it until I was 16 and that’s when it stopped.

  • @krystalarmstrong3181
    @krystalarmstrong3181 7 месяцев назад +11

    Thank you for your bravery🙏❤💖

    • @Test-s8z
      @Test-s8z 7 месяцев назад +4

      It. Takes a lot to share our experiences. You are an amazing young lady. Your sharing will encourage others. To be close those that exploit them ❤️💪🏿

  • @CJ-xg6ii
    @CJ-xg6ii 6 месяцев назад

    Crystal, it is completely understandable how deeply your aunt’s hatred affected you. I’m sorry that she and so many other sorry people in your life let you down. So glad you’re in a good relationship with a loving husband. You deserve to be happy. Blessings💜

  • @wnjohnson6625
    @wnjohnson6625 6 месяцев назад +3

    I can hardly get through this. You are telling my story. I would love to have a conversation with you.

  • @bb863
    @bb863 7 месяцев назад +7

    Peace be with you

  • @rtweeddancy7155
    @rtweeddancy7155 7 месяцев назад +13

    Lord have mercy. I was raised as a JW as well. That “Jehovah knows his heart” BS is what they all tell themselves to excuse all manner of indecency that goes on within that religion. I’ve seen multiple cases of CSA perpetrated by various members of that cult and the members just want to forgive and forget. Nonsense!!!! Shameful!!!

    • @INDIGO.GODDESS_573
      @INDIGO.GODDESS_573 7 месяцев назад +2

      WHY DO Y'ALL CALL IT A CULT? MY NIECE AND NEPHEW AND THEIR MOM ARE JW. THEY ARE THE BEST PEOPLE I HAVE EVER MET IN MY 51 YEARS OF LIFE.I WENT TO 2 MEETINGS.. AND 3 ON ZOOM.. I JUST DONT GET CULT. BUT I HAVE HEARD JW BEING CULT A CULT. I JUST DONT KNOW WHY THO..

    • @Lookup33
      @Lookup33 6 месяцев назад +3

      @@INDIGO.GODDESS_573I have a feeling that if u pay attention and pray for discernment you’ll figure out why. Don’t dismiss any questions that may come up in your head when being amongst JW, ask questions, observe and the truth will come to you

  • @AriesSuperLove
    @AriesSuperLove 6 месяцев назад +3

    OMG I'm sorry that happened to you but remember this....... family is the biggest enemy ever ,blood ain't thicker than water

  • @VictoriaKing-ui8mx
    @VictoriaKing-ui8mx 7 месяцев назад +6

    Yeah he didn’t need to know what you wanted to shave

  • @tiadekattu9096
    @tiadekattu9096 7 месяцев назад +3

    God bless you🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @bettycouncil6637
    @bettycouncil6637 6 месяцев назад +1

    Ur a good beautiful young lady and we all love you sis💋💖🌹💐💯🎉 coming from Lil Mama in Cambridge Ma Lol y'all Peace blessed

  • @karenmiller9825
    @karenmiller9825 3 месяца назад

    All adults who are AWARE and do NOTHING should also be charged.

  • @liv5402
    @liv5402 7 месяцев назад +1

    Oh my goodness well I’m sorry for what happened to you should’ve never had to go through that.

  • @elvinajames8791
    @elvinajames8791 5 месяцев назад

    God bless you 🙏 and all the best in life 💕

  • @bettycouncil6637
    @bettycouncil6637 6 месяцев назад +1

    Sis u never let nobody touch u ever without ur permission

  • @BajanBeautyBawse
    @BajanBeautyBawse 7 месяцев назад +8

    #SurvivorsStories🎉

  • @adrianawilson5752
    @adrianawilson5752 4 месяца назад

    All that matters is moms believed you that’s the strongest one that matters she did what she needed to do to protect you ❤

  • @janeicekaranja8977
    @janeicekaranja8977 6 месяцев назад

    For your to stay with him after finding out what he did is SAD!

  • @FlaviadaRocha-c5m
    @FlaviadaRocha-c5m 3 месяца назад

    Needs a lot more detail of the alleged assaults. The use of term 'private area' is always a red flag. It usually indicates a woman who cannot or will not give proper detail, using the proper terms.

  • @Secularism25
    @Secularism25 7 месяцев назад +3

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤ sending love, prayers and positive vibes I grew up around two pedos so i could feel your struggle xxx

  • @moniqueanderson143
    @moniqueanderson143 7 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @Cassandra_69
    @Cassandra_69 7 месяцев назад +1

    I am atheist as well because of horrible things like this that happen to children, upon many other reasons. I love this woman for speaking out and for being strong even when she shouldn't have had to be and for creating the life she deserved! ❤

  • @armontidean5969
    @armontidean5969 6 месяцев назад

    ****How can you submit your story? Can someone please let me know.

  • @ToxicTodaynews
    @ToxicTodaynews 7 месяцев назад +7

    The picture pose doesn't really fit the title but I get it

    • @michaeldes1800
      @michaeldes1800 7 месяцев назад +5

      Cute Right

    • @INDIGO.GODDESS_573
      @INDIGO.GODDESS_573 7 месяцев назад +7

      IT HER WHEN SHE WAS LITTLE DURING THE TIME OF HER ABUSE

    • @nadialove2048
      @nadialove2048 7 месяцев назад

      @@INDIGO.GODDESS_573little as in what age because it seems like she was a teenager at the time due to the fact that she went to buy razors to shave her legs, little girls don’t say can you take me to the store to buy razors and also her aunt threw her out of the house, if she was under the age of 13 or 12 I’m sure her aunt wouldn’t have thrown her out of the house. She never said how old she was or maybe I missed that part.

    • @KayciazWorld
      @KayciazWorld 7 месяцев назад +5

      ​@@nadialove2048Wtf why does it matter how old she was?? A man violating her is wrong no matter her age. You must be the aunt🤦‍♀️

    • @nadialove2048
      @nadialove2048 7 месяцев назад

      @@KayciazWorld so if she goes to court and take the stand and the judge or prosecutor ask her; how old were you when you was molested would you say to the judge or prosecutor WTF? Why does it matter how old she was? If not go sit your ass down because there is nothing wrong with asking an accuser how old were they when the incident took place.

  • @haikuhaiku
    @haikuhaiku 4 месяца назад

    HELL YEAH GIRL I hope you read this but I applaud your decision to leave the church and religion. I always see girls on here with severe religious trauma and they come out the other end still believing in the abusive narcissistic relationship of a god, I'm so glad you're moving past your religious trauma. Good for you, and welcome to the logical side - end religious abuse!

  • @samanthabreezy9563
    @samanthabreezy9563 7 месяцев назад

    If people keep blaming the devil,,well prison should be empty . Everyone should be forgiven 😮

  • @redandclassy
    @redandclassy 7 месяцев назад +7

    It saddens me to hear you say God allows bad stuff to happen. It’s because ppl are not robots or controlled by God. Ppl have 100% free will. I pray an experience or something is placed directly in her path where she’ll know “that was nothing but God!” ❤️

  • @Lovelymadee_
    @Lovelymadee_ 6 месяцев назад

    I hope she went no contact with all them

  • @dianahdeborah816
    @dianahdeborah816 5 месяцев назад

    I hate that happen to you. I wish I would’ve said something because I know my mom would’ve helped me. I just didn’t. Until years later it broke her.

  • @sandrapalmer4354
    @sandrapalmer4354 7 месяцев назад +1

    🙌🙌🙏🙏💪💪

  • @corrieoutswitch
    @corrieoutswitch 6 месяцев назад +1

    Sounds to me like your aunt is a narcissist and you were her scapegoat. Did she hate your mother or father or have we blood with them? That would make sense too. She wanted to destroy you but don’t let her. Truly and honestly, every hateful thing a narcissist says to their scapegoat is exactly it opposite of the truth. When your mind gets stuck in words or statements she said to you I want you to try a technique my therapist taught me. Drown out those words or statements with the exact opposite word or statement. Replace her hate with those new words which are what the truth actually is. Every nasty thing she said to you was an outright lie. You are a beautiful, intelligent, strong, capable, kind, and good woman who is worthy of love and respect. Dont accept less. I’m so proud of you for overcoming all the poison that found its way into your life. I hope YOU are proud of YOU too- you should be.

  • @down4anything969
    @down4anything969 5 месяцев назад

    My mother’s youngest sister n I ended up pregnant

  • @sensiblesocialite102
    @sensiblesocialite102 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your story. You’re sharing is helping someone. I can relate because I went through similar childhood trauma. Due to that trauma I struggled with being mad at God. I want say I don’t believe because you aren’t mad at something you don’t believe exists. If you read your Bible you can understand that all of God’s disciples were imperfect people plagued by blood disorders, thieves, murderers, prostitutes etc. God usually chooses those that are imperfect because you are stronger than most and have a story to tell. Anybody that serves God will be attacked over and over again by the devil. The attacks are in the form or depression, suicidal thoughts or attempts, cancer, rape (which we both have in common) what you went through didn’t kill your. You are a survivor and because you survived that means the devil didn’t succeed. Some take their own life due to the depression that follows sexual assault. But you are here. God allowed it not because he hates you but because he needs you. He knew you were strong enough to handle it. Strong enough to use your trauma to help someone else. I didn’t see it then but I now know that my struggle is to be used to teach and bring ppl closer to God. Even if you don’t believe and you don’t pray I will do it for you. Because I was you,,, but my life changed so much when I start realizing that God chose me. If you read the Bible you will find yourself in there somewhere. You have a purpose bigger than what you even know. I pray for you and again thank you for sharing.

  • @karenmiller9825
    @karenmiller9825 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for telling your story. The feeling you have of not believing and trusting in God is very common for victims, however only a demon like your uncle would do what demons do. Steal, kill and destroy. Man has a free will and this is what that demon chose to do with it. How could no adult in your family see you for the VICTIM you were.

  • @jameshampton2899
    @jameshampton2899 5 месяцев назад +1

    Am, sorry for what happened to you..But please don't give up on God for the evil people do...Saten is the blame...

  • @BeautifulChoas1
    @BeautifulChoas1 7 месяцев назад +1

    GOD sent you your children and husband to help you heal 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @kittydebs
    @kittydebs 7 месяцев назад +1

    ❤‍🩹

  • @QuitoBrazil
    @QuitoBrazil 22 дня назад

    Nobody wanna stand up against the gate keepers and PDF

  • @rbspider
    @rbspider 2 месяца назад

    Interesting what you say about God. I listened to a woman who was going through a very difficult time and felt that God was putting her through this for an unknown reason and must trust that its all for the best, she was actually crying from all the stress she was under . Reminded me of women that are Beaten by a husband that swears it won't happen again , only to happen again. What God would cause pain and how brain washed must you be to think that God loves you when you feel he is punishing you and you keep praising his name? I see zero evidence that there is a God. The last thing I want to do is worship a God for eternity day after day night after night.

  • @dianahdeborah816
    @dianahdeborah816 5 месяцев назад +1

    Hard for me to listen too you blame God for man’s evil. You should know better than that since you grew up as a witness.

  • @kelisawhite9294
    @kelisawhite9294 6 месяцев назад

    Ohio is sad when it comes to young black lil girls they don’t expect for the lil girl to grow up and learn what the truth is all about killing lil girls black sad

  • @Ace-2.2MRD-S
    @Ace-2.2MRD-S 6 месяцев назад +1

    Sorry this happened to you but I really can’t understand anything that’s being said.

  • @bv377
    @bv377 7 месяцев назад +1

    GOD gave us humans the gift of having free will and that's why there is evil in this world we choose to do evil not GOD AT THE END EACH AND EVERY ONE WILL HAVE OUR DAY IN FRONT OF THE KING AND OUR CREATOR AND WILL WE HAVE TO GIVE AN ACCOUNT OF ALL WE HAVE DONE SEEK JESUS HE IS THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN HEAL YOU

  • @JoseRodriguez-jw6qy
    @JoseRodriguez-jw6qy 6 месяцев назад +1

    It’s free will. People can do evil why does that fall on God?

  • @schlondafarley7097
    @schlondafarley7097 6 месяцев назад

    GOD n is a healer the devil works to tell somebody and it can be stopped Wow

  • @arnb8907
    @arnb8907 6 месяцев назад +1

    Why are you whispering ?

  • @GregoryHawkins-d2p
    @GregoryHawkins-d2p 7 месяцев назад +1

    Its impossible for anyone to take anyone else's innocence away. A person can give away their innocence but no one can take it away. We're either guilty of a crime or innocent. No one else can control that, anymore than they can take away our political opinion.

    • @bippityboppityboo2u
      @bippityboppityboo2u 7 месяцев назад +4

      A child's innocence can very well be snatched away from them prematurely and in a much traumatic way...