if i could add a few more lines: sometimes i wish i could lend you my scars lend you my brain and lend you my heart sometimes i wish i could go back in time fix what is wrong and reveal what is right
This song is so relatable.. It brings up so much elements in peoples life that others don't understand. I listen to this song and its like someone's describing how I feel. It makes me feel understood and that others are going though the same thing as me tough I thought I was the only one that was going through that.
Omg i felt the exact same way. I felt like i was completely unrelateable until i finally found this song. Im glad i found so many others that relate to this 😁
Ur not the only one. People that have these feeling will be able to make a whole story about this song. Like me, my sistertjought it was about a zombie but I explained to her each line and each word what it was really about she was so shocked and thought that it was so sad. Me personally I feel no one understands me either
“Sometimes I hope for a savior to come, who’s got what it takes to convince everyone.” So relatable it’s illegal. “Sometimes I wish I could lend you my voice, lend you my heart, and lend you my choice.” Hits too close to home.
the song is meant to be interpreted in different ways, but for me, i always closely related this with my experience being autistic. other people never understood, and they'd never be able to unless they were autistic. especially with the line "sometimes i wish i could lend you my ears, lend you my thoughts, and lend you my tears", people would always tell me it's not that big of a deal after calling me stupid for my autistic traits and saying i'm overreacting when i get upset. the fact that i've literally seen people call others autistic as an insult, like the equivalent of being "stupid" just pisses me off. there's always going to be people who do this, and i hate that there's nothing i can do to change that. there's so many times where i've wished i wasn't autistic. so people don't have to accommodate for me, so i could actually relate with my peers, so i wouldn't have the mindset that im never going to be good enough because of people who have called me dumb, stupid, the r word etc. there's nothing i could ever do about it from the moment i was born.
Dear beloved human, I feel bad that you deal with so much. I know people who are autistic and it's a real struggle. But just know you are not stupid and you are amazing. Yes, things will get hard and you will wish you weren't autistic but people with autism can do amazing things. :)
And you are always going to be more than good enough. And you don't need to relate to your peers to be good enough or to even make friends. Love you ❤️
I have a big brother and he is %99 autistic. It really hurts seeing people call eachother autistic as a joke or insult or something like that you know what I am talking about... Whenever I saw people doing this I want to say somethings to them, punch them or find their homes and burn it. It really makes me sad. People shouldn't use autism, depression or other things make people suffer as jokes or insults...
For all the comments on this song /the vents/ I'm so sorry that happened to all of you guys I really hope it gets better for all of you and I'm so proud of you for making it this far you guys!!
This song reminds me of someone talking to their younger self going through puberty, not knowing what’s ahead in life, and wishing you could tell them what not to do
Something many might not agree with but I honestly think it's the truth: You don't become a grown up when you turn 18 or older, that's just the age many people agreed on. Some who are 18 or more don't understand the true world at all, they have no idea of suffering, mental illness, disorders etc. For me being a true adult(grown up) is when you've understood the true nature of this world, society and life
I'm 19 and I've known of the horrors of the world, suffering, mental illness, and disorders since I was young. My eating disorder took over my life for 4+ years, I was sexualized from a young age because Im female, ive had to pretend to be someone I'm not for my own safety because I'm queer, I've went my life not understanding why everyone seemed to judge me before I found out I'm autistic, etc. etc. I still don't feel like a full adult. I agree with your main point, but not your listed justifications. I know more teenagers who suffer illness and injustice and truly understand they live in a horrible world than teenagers who don't.
well, i disagree. im a teenager who's aware that life is not always so full of sunshine and rainbows. i don't know what you adults know, or don't but i just can't help it but want to understand everyone's struggles. for no reason at all. i guess that's one thing about me that made me realize that... im not so innocent 😅
@@majestikhunn I am not an adult tho 🚶♀️ I am just saying that some adults mentally think like 12 y.o while some teens have a more vast opinion on different topics and more understanding in some areas especially psychological ones
“lucky is she, who lives unaware, who doesn’t get bothered by those who don’t care! lucky is she, who lives unaware, who doesn’t get bothered by all that’s unfair!“
2:20 “sometimes I wish for a saviour to come, who’s got what it takes to convince everyone” so relatable to me, I really wish I had a friend who could save me from being bullied, but I doubt anyone cares
No one will save you if you don't fight. Weak people obtain strong people who like them for fighting even though they are weak. Be your own saviour, and then others will start roaming around you. ❤
A lot of people relate to this song in different ways. Mine is with having autism and ADHD as well as Asperger's. I wish I could be understood by other people. If I accidentally do or say something wrong and then try to explain that I have a hard time helping it, and I try to explain my disability to them, they think I'm making excuses. They think I'm behaving this way on purpose. What do they know? They don't have it. I'm not trying to make excuses, I'm trying to explain what I go through to people who will never understand no matter how much I try to explain to them.
Yeah and then they wonder why you don't enjoy their company like my brother is christ you literally pushed me away, of course I don't like you that much.
Exactly! Same with my brother, my siblings like to enter my room and be loud and they're kinda rude to me too and make fun of me, and they wonder why I'm telling them to leave And I leave my room to get food and my family is like "oh there she is! She finally left her room! Why are you never with us?" and I'm like, why do you think? You always criticize me for things I struggle with more than you do like cleaning my room And this one teacher I have doesn't understand that either, she always criticizes me because I make a mess when I eat chips, but I don't do it on purpose, it's hard for me to help it, and she said that if I don't stop making a mess when I eat, the other kids won't be able to have snacks Yeah, I eat messy and I don't clean my room much, but I really struggle with it and I'm not doing it on purpose, it's just hard
@@arcticwinds2371 I can relate to this except it in a way where my brother doesn't understand why I don't want to have a fresh start in our relationship (FRIEND SHIP BTW) with him when he can't keep some of his promises and he judged me for days and days and even more days for being a furry and then he said "oh I was blending in" WITH WHO?? he doesent even do it in public he does it when I have to watch my baby brother cause my parents aren't in the camper basically he does it when we are alone with our baby brother and he can't talk that well cause he has autism and he's a toddler so he can't even tell our mom or dad about this whole mess AND I HAVE TO BOTTLE IT UP otherwise I will start more problems and I already feel like one so "why make more", he just it not that trust worthy to me and I don't like him that much cause all he does is judges me for who I like, what I like & and what I am, the rest of my family is nice though, my brother just doesn't like me that much and so I don't like him, you'd think that would be fair until he won't stop trying to "make everything better" when ik he's just gonna ruin it all again
"Lucky is she who lives unawsare doesn't get bothered by those who don't care,lucky is she who lives unaware doesn't get bothered by those that's unfair,unlucky me who knows way to much fights to make changes with music and such unlucky me aware of the pain..all cuz I happen to have some..BRAIN!" that part is relatable to me
Same!!!!!! I view these lines as lines as a genius who's always pressured to be perfect because they're smart they're often overthinking so there jealous of people who live there life with an average IQ
"But sometimes the truth is just my point of view, not what is real. And not what is true." This is actually the most relatable lyrics I've ever heard.
I know most people agree that the song mainly connotes to body dysmorphia but this for me perfectly sums up my experience with finding out I had Autism. I already seen a few people also say that this also connotes to them being autistic and i just wanna share my own experience. I am suspected to have ASD, CPTSD, and Bipolar Disorder. And i think from a very young age, especially when i was getting abused alot, i knew i was different. As i grew older it only got worse and i felt like i couldn't relate to anyone else because my experience was so complex that it was basically impossible for even me to understand it, let alone speak about it. I also felt invalidated for feeling the way i felt because me and others felt my experiences weren't "traumatic enough" so i never truly understood what was wrong with me, i only knew that there was something wrong. A couple more years of this bullshit and i think i started to understand what it truly was. It was after a manic episode that things out of nowhere became crystal clear: im autistic. But because i didn't have the resources to get an official diagnosis, i again was thrown into the bad state i was in where i felt invalidated. It only grew worse as that stupid clock app began glorifying and romanticizing mental illness. People were faking disorders and making fun of it and i felt like i was in the same group as them because i never got an official diagnosis. I felt like an unforgivable piece of shit because i thought i was doing the exact same thing. A couple more months of this and i was near my breaking point. I hated thinking this way for so long but i couldnt find any validation that told me i wasnt a bad person for thinking this way, until i found this song. This song honestly saved me because it finally felt like i was relating to something. Shortly thereafter, more and more validation surfaced about others who were self diagnosed autistics and their journey through it, and i felt like i finally was a good person again. Im sorry this was so damn long, i guess i got too excited when i saw others share. Ill end this on a message: you arent alone, no matter how disassociated you feel from everyone. And you arent a bad person for feeling the way you feel. It will always get better, you just sometimes need extra help. *you are valid.* TLDR: "I think im autistic" "Who am i kidding, im not autistic. I sound just like those assholes on that cringey clock app" *listens to this song* "I relate to this to an unimaginable level and i am definetly autistic"
As a 12 yo that thinks she might have ADHD its a problem since when i stim they STARE at me and ofc since they stare i look at them deadly then its MY faulr what did i do i want to get diagnosed but my mum thinks autistics are rlly dumb and that adhd is autism so for my mum i dont have adhd bc im not in a wheelchair?!?
I relate to this song in so many ways. TW: ED, BODY DISMORPHIA, ANGER ISSUES "Sometimes i wish i could take a new shape" hits so close to home, i grew up as the fat kid, my family and people i know would treat me differently than the others because I'm fat. Im now skinny but i have fat arms and now they would still bodyshame me for being too "skinny" or too "fat" that at this point i have no idea what i even look like. Some people also call me "ugly" but some people call me "pretty" some people would point out things in my face im not even insecure about, and it creates a new insecurity. Like how my sister said i have a big head, and downwards eyes and that it doesnt look good on me. There are times i hate looking at myself. "Sometimes i wish i could lend you my ears, lend you my thoughts, and lend you my tears" how they would call me "sensitive" for reacting to their offensive words and they would act like the victim just because i wanted to stand up for myself. In the end, its me who gets blamed because i fought back, and im the bad person, im the "sensitive" one. "Learn to take a joke" yeah and thank you for the jokes, you just made my whole day miserable.
U are absolutely gorgeous nothing will ever change that ur so wonderful and amazing u seem really sweet i hope u get better if u need anyone I'm here anything at all ask me and I'll help :))
I'm just gonna say a little story So the story is about a man traveling with a donkey and his child, They were going to the market with their donkey but a man said "you fools what is a donkey for but to ride upon" so the man let his son on the donkey,then they passed a group of men and one of them said "see that lazy youngster, he lets his father walk while he rides" so than the man took his son down and got on it himself, then woman said to them "shame on that lazy trout to let his poor little son trudge along" he then put his son in front of him on the donkey, people later started talking about how he was overloading the donkey,so they them both got off got a metal pole and tied the donkeys legs to it and raised the pole and the donkey to their shoulders they later arrived to a bring and the donkey kicked making the kid let go of his part of the pole the donkey then fell off the bridge and drowned since he could not swim since his legs were tied then an old men said " let that teach them a lesson try to fulfill everyone and fulfill no one. The story means to say that you can't please everyone so I hope you do whatever makes you happy, not what they want you to look like but what you would like to look like!
i understand, my family is rude to me too, not because I struggle with things physically, but mentally, and then they call ME rude for not enjoying their company, and then wondering WHY i don't enjoy their company
this song makes me think of living in an abusive home with siblings who get treated better then you and they think its fine/its your own fault for being treated worse, and knowing that they're wrong and just hoping that they'd see it your way for once.
@@KomoriOtorii understandable. I hope you have a great day and make sure to keep hanging on. I'm not good at making people feel better, but all I can do is hope you feel better and make every day count! Stay strong.
Now that I think of it that way it actually does make sense "Lucky is she who lives unaware" the siblings who get treated better and see you get abused and think it’s alright and "Unlucky me, aware of the pain" you aware of ur parents abusive ways and live pain and also "sometimes I wish for a savior to come, who’s got what it takes to convince everyone" someone or something changing your siblings view/ convincing them and realizing that the parents are actually abusers
I think music is the most beautiful form of art. The original writer of the lyrics can put a meaning behind the song itself, but it's the listener that comes up with Their own meaning, every single time. It's quite fascinating.
what i think is so cool ab this song is in how many ways it can be interpreted, there is no right or wrong way to interpret it as because it was probably made so people all around the world would be able to relate to it. and there are no easy or hard situations, everyone is going trough something hard or went trough something hard so that's what makes this song so relatable for everyone.
I relate to this song in many ways (warning:body shaming,anger issues and more) I grew up in this very judgemental family and I would eat every day but my body would just not grow and I would stay skinny and short and my parents always forced me to eat because I was never eating enough and that made me very insecure of myself and I would just cry knowing crying is gonna do nothing and it made me not wanna eat anymore but then I would vent to my friends at school and say"its not a big deal" and that made me so angry because no one felt and thought how I did and I when my friends just would not listen to me I would get rlly mad and be mean to them and then they left me but then I met a rlly good person who listened to me and was insecure about herself too and she felt and thought how I did so we became rlly good friends I still friends with her but I told my parents how they treated me they said sorry but they didn't really change
i completely get that, I'm super skinny and i eat an awful lot but I still remain the same skinny body shape, and people call me short and one of my teachers thought i was underfed i'm trying to gain weight by eating a lot so that they stop, but it's not working and I'm still skinny
i had the problem to but i have more than that to worry about. it’s just abuse and yelling and comparing who is smarter more talented in the family etc also have you tried vitamins cuz that might be the problem. your body can’t absorb all the food you ate
Lyrics I also wanna add: sometimes I wish I could lend you my sight, to see what is wrong and see what is right, sometimes I wish I could lend you my heart, just so maybe you won’t tear yours apart. Other lyrics: lucky is she, who knows things I don’t, who gets helped by others but me? I won’t. Unlucky me who knows not too much, and fails everything and is lazy and such.
I think a way this song relates to me is if instead of the person singing commenting on others its a person singing and quoting others. A lot of people think of me as a sheltered princess who is blissfully ignorant, the would say, "Lucky is she who lives unaware." But in reality, "Unlucky me who knows way too much," I think that's why its extremely important to remember that everyone is fighting their own battles and everyone deserves respect, no matter what you think. "But sometimes the truth is just my point of view, not what is real and not what is true."
Same, I stopped caring if people disliked me aaaages ago (which I’m glad about don’t get me wrong) but people don’t realise that the secret to my confidence is years and years of masking and being forced to grow up early 😎
So I was listening to this on Spotify while I was driving and the line “Is god what it takes to convince everyone?” Came up and just in that moment I saw a sign on a window that said YES in bold letters. Interpret this how you want but I think it was a message.
I love how people relate to this song in different ways,for me it’s about being bullied ,treated badly and abused. And even being misunderstood. This song reminds me about how I WISH I could just start a new life and end this one. So thanks to the artist that made this song .❤
People are talking about their relations to this song so I’ll add what this reminds me of. I’m autistic, gay, lived through the pandemic, roe vs wade, I know lots of trans people and POC and understand the struggles of them to some extent. I understand so many things and mentalities that hurt people and how they could be fixed. Yet SO. MANY. PEOPLE. Who refuse to learn. Who refuse to recognize the issues in the world. I don’t think I’m perfect. I don’t think I know everything or how to fix everything. But I try to learn what the issues are and what can be done. And sometimes when I know that I wish, with every fiber of my being that I didn’t. Because I’m one person, one young person, who no one wants to listen to. My voice will forever be drowned out. I wish I could live in ignorance sometimes because that would be so much easier. But no, I’ll keep learning, I’ll keep fighting to make change and stuff for other people and me. I’ll hardly do anything or make any difference. Yet I’ll try
I completely understand how you feel. I'm autistic and gay and I try to explain to people that my autism and ADHD is why I do and say things I have a hard time controlling, and they just think that I'm making excuses because they don't know what I'm going through,
“Sometimes the truth is just my point of view” feels like that moment where you have to accept that most people _aren’t_ as “unaware” as you think. It’s realising that the people around you also have hardships, illness or baggage to deal with, but trauma has a way of making you self-centred. That’s why unaware people are so lucky: because it’s so rare to be unaffected like that. I remember when it seriously hit me, for the first time, that other people suffered too, and it was depressing as hell. We’re all just trying to endure as well as we can.
for me the different parts of the song relates to different things. “sometimes i wish i could lend you my ____” makes me think of wanting to give away all of myself to my friends who feel like they’re too skinny, they don’t have enough happiness, etc. but the “lucky is she/unlucky me” makes me think of seeing little kids who know nothing about the world and think everything is okay and normal, compared to me who’s been on the internet since i was 7 and knows way too much about hatred. BUT. 2:34. OUCH. i am literally 24/7 thinking ‘am i right? is anyone getting hurt by this choice?? am i hurting my friends?? are my friends hurting someone else??’
I relate to the song. Because when I was younger (3 years ago and I was a transferee) I was a happy kid. I didn't care too much about what people think of me. I just said and laugh at everything I find funny. I was also a kind, bright and shareful kid back then. I was so unaware that I didn't realize that people didn't like me very much. When they gossip about me all I think is because they like me. Yes, I was an optimistic kid and didn't even realize my life was very lonely back then. I eat alone and my only friend was a transferee student too. But he was quickly transferred to another school because he was bullied. So there goes my only friend... I just DIDN'T KNOW that people didn't like me. So that is why when I talk they don't quite listen and when I am their seatmate they will complain and will scooch over. But I didn't become upset I just felt... whatever. But now 3 years later conscious about everything struck. I wasn't unaware anymore I am now the most pitiful, insecure, quiet, lonely, and dumbest person I know. I've finally realized everything. I feel jealous of anyone now and my self-esteem dropped significantly low. Like I AM STILL NOT ENOUGH. I feel useless and worthless every time. I always compare my feats to others which is none and how talented they are at everything. I can't concentrate properly anymore and I need help so badly!! Sometimes, I wonder what will my past classmates think of me now. They used to look up to me because I inspire them to study hard too but now... I just don't feel like studying anymore. I've failed them... I'm such a loser at everything now. I'm such an EMO about this!! Why can't I just have everything back like it used to be!! Happy, determined, proud, optimistic, and more importantly Unaware. I will never be mature about this I never am. But I will make a promise to myself that I shall NEVER GIVE UP IN THIS LIFE!! NEVER!! I CAN DO THIS!! I PRAY TO GOD THAT ONE DAY ALL THESE PROBLEMS SHALL BE JUST A HALLUCINATION BECAUSE IT ISN'T REAL ANYMORE. And that will be my promise to my past self. And my efforts now are for my future self's bright future once again. 5/13/22
man. everyone has a different relation to this song. this reminds me of me before and post identity crisis. i’m not fully through it yet, but it sometimes feels like the knowledge of everything happening in my country against the lgbtq+ community is suffocating me and all i want is to be happy. i just would like to transition and be in that state of bliss where people don’t hate me and i don’t hate myself because of my gender. it feels like me now is singing to past me to tell them maybe your ignorance was better. although i am still very thankful to everything i learned and hope to be able to help others through what i’ve had to go through alone.
this song has helped me go through depretion anxity suisitil thoughts and being not alowed in my life !god bless this song!!!!! this song is soooooo relaitibale
I love songs that are poetic and can be interpreted as different metaphors. This song has many indications of what it would be talking about, and everyone can relate. This includes: body dysmorphia, mental disabilities/illness, anger issues, SA (and other victim situations), and just situations in general where you wish people could see your side
“sometimes i hope for a saviour to come, who’s got what it takes to convince everyone” i relate to this sm cuz no matter how much i tell people i had good intentions and am a nice person, they never believe me, even when it’s coming from my own mouth. but what if someone else they liked said i was a good person? everything would change
There is one person in my life who knows what’s going on with me; but the rest know nothing and personally I’m okay with that. I still have a shoulder to cry on ❤️
I wanna add these lyrics: Sometimes I wish could lend you my thoughts, lend you my sight and lend you my mind, Sometimes I wish you could see that I try, even if you only notice one time. Sometimes I wish I could lend you my rights, lend you my light and let you my time, Sometimes I wish you would take it to heart, those wretched things that they told you in class. Lucky is she who lives unaware who doesn’t get bothered by those who don’t care, Oh why’s that true for you and none other, I don’t understand how that could be fair. Unlucky me who knows way too much, who fights to make changes and music and such, Why am I here staring at you, somehow it feels like a one-way truth.
This reminds me of when I used to sh I would feel this way so much and so many people didn’t notice and now I still wanna sh but I don’t I do still have a eating disorder and insomnia and body dysmorphia ur over all I still really relate to this song my fav part is “unlucky me, aware of the pain all because I happen to have some brain” 3:01 I really relate to it
I relate to this song by autisim and ADHD, I get bullied 24/7 for it, this song is the only thing I relate to in this unsafe universe, god bless the people who goes through this aswell, if you do, remember alot of people gets treated like this too...
"unlucky me, who knows way too much, who fights to make changes and music and such. Unlucky me, Aware of the pain, all cause I happen to have some brain" are the lines I relate to most, for I identify as a therian and alterhuman/nonhuman. The therian community is not very well known so not enough people know of our struggles to have any awareness. The fact that my neighbor, her best friends and I are the only therians we know of makes me feel so lonely, just us suffering alone, out of sight of everyone else who are living fairly normal and happy lives.
The part ''Lucky is she who lives unaware..''' reminds me of my younger and ''unlucky me...'' is current me. This is how i view the song in my perpspective.
Blow My Brains Out - My version (credit if you use) Sometimes I wish I could lend you my dreams, Lend you my hopes and lend you my schemes. Sometimes I wish I could take a new flight, Switch out my wings and soar through the night. Sometimes I wish I could lend you my sight, Lend you my dreams and lend you my light. Sometimes I wish I could take a new form, Switch out my heart and hide in a storm. Lucky is she who lives unaware, Who doesn’t get tangled in life’s snare. Lucky is she who lives unaware, Unbothered by the world’s despair. Unlucky me, with a mind that’s too keen, Fighting for change in a world so unseen. Unlucky me, aware of the pain, All cause I happen to have some brain. Sometimes I wish I could lend you my heart, Lend you my courage and lend you my art. Sometimes I hope for a hero to rise, Who’s got the strength to open our eyes. Sometimes I wish I could lend my fights, Lend you my confidence and lend you my rights. Sometimes I wish to speak up for myself, If I wasn't so tiny and small as an elf. Lucky is she who lives unaware, Doesn’t get tangled in life’s snare. Lucky is she who lives unaware, Unbothered by the world’s despair. Unlucky me, with a mind that’s too keen, Fighting for change in a world so unseen. Unlucky me, aware of the pain, All cause I happen to have some brain. Lucky is she who lives unaware, Lucky is she who lives unaware. Unlucky me, with a mind that’s too keen, Fighting for change in a world so unseen. Unlucky me, aware of the pain, All cause I happen to have some brain.
"Sometimes I wish I could lend you my ears, lend you my thoughts and lend you my tears.. sometimes I wish could take a new form, switch some parts become like the norm..." This hits hard. Being a therian, I'm constantly bullied and I wish I could lend my bullies my experiences, and wish I could become "normal".
I just discovered this song last week through my SoundCloud channel. I listen to this more than I do my own music for now. First, it was just the catchy melody, then I learned the lyrics and have been completely captivated since. Thank you for sharing this!
Ah, this song reminded me of my queer friends. I'm nonbinary myself, but I never really dealt with gender dysphoria like many people I know. In fact, I would've never dealt with it at all if I didn't have biases and pre-conceived notions of gender and sexuality to begin with. My friends wish they could swap out with another sometimes or just have been born/able to be expressed in the way that makes them most comfortable. Same with me. And so many are born content with their bodies in ways that some trans people will never be able to get because of maybe rules in their country or lack of financial aid. So many people just walk by and think "ah yes the LGBTQ is complaining about being oppressed again but they're fine". No, we aren't. We suffer in ways some of you will never understand because you were given what your mind lined up with to begin with. We don't get to do as we wish in many countries. We're constantly harassed or ignored in our struggles. You don't have to agree with my rant or even acknowledge it, but I just needed to get this off my chest.
This song is relateable to me. My mom and dad broke up 5 or 6 years ago, now, im at my mom's at weekends and my dad's school time. They both are working, i have a big brother who doesnt see my mom on purphose and he doesnt has a good relationship with my dad as well. So i have to support all of them trough pains and act like i hate others because they hate eachoter.
And its a pain to me because i know all of them and love them, but im the only one aware of the fact the others are not as rude or care-free as they think in family
This song is related to me because of two reason. I'm transgender but is unable to transition because of fear of my family not accepting me. Another reason is because it seems like my mom doesn't understand me and the more I try and tell her how I feel she either one ups me by saying she had it worse or saying people do the same thing to her. And when I try even harder to reach out for her help she gets mad at me.
i have autism and a twin sister with a pretty severe disability and this song crushes me. i thought i could have a normal life, but my sisters gone and she’s not coming back ever. i just want her to be ok and catch up to me even though it will never happen and i know it’s dumb to wish for something that’s impossible. twins are supposed to have the most special bond out of all siblings and she got taken away from me. mentally she’s seven and nobody ever seems to understand how much this hurts. i was only at the same pace as her for five years so i didn’t know her too well but god i miss her. it’s like a grief that never goes away, a walking reminder that my life will never ever be normal. after highschool i might not go to college because she needs constant care. the worst part is, the disability is so rare that nobody else has the situation where one twin has the disability and the other doesn’t except for us, so even among freaks and weirdos we’re freaks. the autism doesn’t help much, sound hurts and it pierces my ears like needles into my brain and nobody understands so i just get brushed off. god, im trying so hard to make friends but there’s basically nobody in the world who i can relate to. everyone misconstrues my intentions and i just want to be liked and accepted. sorry for ranting but idk, there’s just a lot on my mind and nobody who i can ever talk to. thanks for reading and maybe trying to understand, it means a lot.
I'm just gonna add this: Sometimes I wish, you could live what I live, so you can see, all of my pain, sometimes I wish, I could change all my wrongs, into my rights But sometimes what's right, is not what it seems, and sometimes what's wrong is actually what's right Lucky is she, who lives happily, Doesn't get bothered by all that surrounds, Lucky is she, who just doesn't know, just what's the truth in front of her Unlucky me, sees all the pain, unable to fight, just for my sake, Oh useless me, so weak inside, Unable to fight, for what is right, Oh what am I saying?, just keep complaining, just quietly dying inside
This is my lyrics just from my life This is mainly based about my anxiety Enjoy Somtimes i wish i could lend you my life lend you my hands and lend you my mind Sometimes i wish you were out of my life Throw all the truama away from my heart sometimes i think maybe if you were wrong this wouldnt have happened and i still would be fine. Sometimes i think about whats right and wrong am i right or am i wrong? Sometimes i say way too much bout what i have done and what goes on Sometimes i feel like im drowning in like theres no escape to what i can see Lucky are they to have a norm life to never think bout what is wrong and what is right Lucky is he To have such good skin Lucky is she to never think twice everything comes out with out saying twice Unlucky me who always thinks twice * never say anything its always wrong* Unlucky me who hurts all the time cant stop hurting till its all gone Unlucky me who never goes out People will think things Bout whats Going on
i am just coming over my insecurities about not being good enough for everyone, getting talked about, being ugly, and more. i still have a lot more and im still healing. ive always had a rough life and im trying to change it. a lot of these lyrics i can realate to. for anyone dealing with issues, insecurities, mental health issues, health in general, or anything else just know your good enough, your perfect, your loved, and dont ever change yourself just because of anyone else.
I hate my family, all of it! Sometimes I wish I got Adopted or died, sometimes I think If I was adopted or abandoned, I would still be happy if a knew what it was like to have my current family. Lucky are you who live unaware of my pain…
Dear wonderful person, I understand your pain. Families suck sometimes. Even all the time. You should never have to feel the way you feel. You have so many possibilities ahead for you. Not me, not the person who lives next door. YOU! You can do so much for yourself. Just keep going. I know it's easier said than done. I get told that. And it's still hard to "keep going" but you will make it. It just takes time. You are an awesome person. You do NOT deserve to die. People care about you. People will miss you. It may not seem like it. Even I will miss you. I love you ❤️
“Sometimes I wish I could lend you my shoes lend you my life and lend you my truth” this hits close to home cause one of my friends had a difficult childhood and then moved in with a great family, I had the perfect childhood till my mom died and when I git adopted it just wasn’t the same. People or always comparing us and this is exactly what I feel.
" Unlucky me, aware of the pain, fights to make changes and music and such. Unlucky me, aware of the pain, all cause I happen to have, some, brain. " Is me in real life
This not that deep as other people stories in this comment section are but the song remember me to a girl I know, she used to hate me and tried to do bad to me for years when we were students, even though I didn't done anything to her before I knew about her intentions. Many years later listening this song and thinking abt some of the things that happened back in the time, I feel like in her eyes I was the "lucky" one and that made her angry or something, but me, knowing my own truth and life circumstances feel like she (even know) is the "lucky" one (not really) unaware of the hard things in people's lives just wasting her time judging just by what she thinks or sees in the surface. (She's still like that, I just stopped to be her favorite subject). "But sometimes the truth it's just my point of view, not what is real and not what is true"
You skin is not paper don’t cut it You’re life isn’t a movie don’t end it You’re neck isn’t a a coat don’t hang it You are perfect just the way you are ❤❤
I cried one night, I was playing music and this happened to play. I couldn’t help but cry harder because this song is so relatable. As just a kid who has pain that is so hard to explain. I don’t have trauma, but just because I don’t have it doesn’t mean I feel empty in my soul and heart, emotionless emotions, words I don’t mean, actions I don’t mean or regret, people o regret even meeting, wanting to hurt myself for the pain I caused to others. Tears so hard to keep as I keep all my emotions inside until I can’t hold them in anymore.
I relate to all these negative songs, and what makes me feel better the most are the comments. Why? Because it reminds me that I'm not alone.. And I want everyone else to know that
this song perfectly describes how I feel when someone says "Everyone has a little but of ADHD in them though" like DUDE you have NO IDEA what it feels like. Just because you have one trait of ADHD doesn't mean you have ANY idea what it feels like and it really doesn't make ANYONE with ADHD feel better about themselves.
If I could add lines: Sometimes I wish I could lend you my fears, Lend you my shadows and lend you my tears Sometimes I wish that I stopped making scars So that these people did not find it out. Sometimes I wish I could lend you my thoughts, lend you my feelings and lend you my scars sometimes I wish I stopped hiding my pain, so that I could not have suffered the pain.
I want to add my own lyrics that relate to me personally. “Sometimes I wish I could give you my eyes, So you can see what it’s like to be blind. Not in a figurative sense, though you see, But a literal one, that makes a struggle for me. The pain is still there, even if I can, Still see my arms, and still see my hands, My vision could go away permanently, Then you’d be wondering what happened to me.”
Sometimes i wish i could lend you my dove Lend you my love And lend you my glove (these parts are connected) Sometimes i wish i could travel back Fix what is gone And ditch what is done.. … … … … … Sometimes i wish i could lend you my rights Lend you my kites And lend you my lights.. Sometimes i wish i take a new day Twitch out some lights and switch what is right..
"sometimes i wish i could lend you my ears lend you my thoughts and lend you my tears" way too relatable for when someone tells me that they wish they had my parents .
“But sometimes the truth is just my point of view, not what is real and not what is true” THIS LYRIC RIGHT HERE
Yeah It relates to me because I'm delusional and imagine things that aren't there
It sounds so wise idk why😭😭😭
LITERALLY
Your feelings are real, even if they caused by not real things
Like actually though
if i could add a few more lines:
sometimes i wish i could lend you my scars
lend you my brain
and lend you my heart
sometimes i wish i could go back in time
fix what is wrong
and reveal what is right
THAT SLAPS THO
Nice!
WHY IS THIS RELATABLE OMG IT SHOULD BE ADDED TO THE SONG
OKG THAT’S AMAZING AND COULD EASILY (maybe) BE ADDED INTO THE SONG WITH SEEMLESS EFFECTS
UNDERRATED
I love this song cuz u can interpret it in so many ways which makes alot of ppl relate to it
Yess
Same
This song is so relatable.. It brings up so much elements in peoples life that others don't understand. I listen to this song and its like someone's describing how I feel. It makes me feel understood and that others are going though the same thing as me tough I thought I was the only one that was going through that.
Omg i felt the exact same way. I felt like i was completely unrelateable until i finally found this song. Im glad i found so many others that relate to this 😁
Ur not the only one. People that have these feeling will be able to make a whole story about this song. Like me, my sistertjought it was about a zombie but I explained to her each line and each word what it was really about she was so shocked and thought that it was so sad. Me personally I feel no one understands me either
I'm very, very sorry for you, believe me everything will be very good💗
@@madalynnramos9083 autism sucks sometimes
So true
"Unlucky me, aware of the pain all cause I happen to have some brain.'' is way too relatable
Yeah :(
Yeah..
Agreeable
Yeah
Yep…
“Sometimes I hope for a savior to come, who’s got what it takes to convince everyone.” So relatable it’s illegal.
“Sometimes I wish I could lend you my voice, lend you my heart, and lend you my choice.” Hits too close to home.
Bro you get me without even knowing me
@@sarha6024 I’m glad I could make you feel seen 💕
the song is meant to be interpreted in different ways, but for me, i always closely related this with my experience being autistic. other people never understood, and they'd never be able to unless they were autistic. especially with the line "sometimes i wish i could lend you my ears, lend you my thoughts, and lend you my tears", people would always tell me it's not that big of a deal after calling me stupid for my autistic traits and saying i'm overreacting when i get upset. the fact that i've literally seen people call others autistic as an insult, like the equivalent of being "stupid" just pisses me off. there's always going to be people who do this, and i hate that there's nothing i can do to change that. there's so many times where i've wished i wasn't autistic. so people don't have to accommodate for me, so i could actually relate with my peers, so i wouldn't have the mindset that im never going to be good enough because of people who have called me dumb, stupid, the r word etc. there's nothing i could ever do about it from the moment i was born.
Dear beloved human,
I feel bad that you deal with so much. I know people who are autistic and it's a real struggle. But just know you are not stupid and you are amazing. Yes, things will get hard and you will wish you weren't autistic but people with autism can do amazing things. :)
And you are always going to be more than good enough. And you don't need to relate to your peers to be good enough or to even make friends. Love you ❤️
I have autism too. I know exactly how you feel. Sometimes I wish I wasn't autistic too.
I’m on your side. I have a little sister with autism.
I have a big brother and he is %99 autistic. It really hurts seeing people call eachother autistic as a joke or insult or something like that you know what I am talking about... Whenever I saw people doing this I want to say somethings to them, punch them or find their homes and burn it. It really makes me sad. People shouldn't use autism, depression or other things make people suffer as jokes or insults...
For all the comments on this song /the vents/ I'm so sorry that happened to all of you guys I really hope it gets better for all of you and I'm so proud of you for making it this far you guys!!
💀
@@chuuchuuutrain you have skill issue
@@chuuchuuutrain what?
@@chuuchuuutrain ❤️*
Im suffering from autism
This song reminds me of someone talking to their younger self going through puberty, not knowing what’s ahead in life, and wishing you could tell them what not to do
Same
@@YourLocalAlmond sorry but- Is that Luz in your pfp?? I love TOH so much lol
@@NingguangsWife Yes, that’s Luz. I also love Toh 😁
@@YourLocalAlmond toh is honestly so good
@@YourLocalAlmond ooo I drew a picture of luz!
This song is literally talking about like 40 different POVs in only one song, and I absolutely love it.
That makes sense. I have gender dysphoria transfem, and my cousin has autism.
Something many might not agree with but I honestly think it's the truth:
You don't become a grown up when you turn 18 or older, that's just the age many people agreed on. Some who are 18 or more don't understand the true world at all, they have no idea of suffering, mental illness, disorders etc.
For me being a true adult(grown up) is when you've understood the true nature of this world, society and life
Thats the difference between physically being an adult, and mentally being one
I'm 19 and I've known of the horrors of the world, suffering, mental illness, and disorders since I was young.
My eating disorder took over my life for 4+ years, I was sexualized from a young age because Im female, ive had to pretend to be someone I'm not for my own safety because I'm queer, I've went my life not understanding why everyone seemed to judge me before I found out I'm autistic, etc. etc.
I still don't feel like a full adult. I agree with your main point, but not your listed justifications. I know more teenagers who suffer illness and injustice and truly understand they live in a horrible world than teenagers who don't.
well, i disagree. im a teenager who's aware that life is not always so full of sunshine and rainbows. i don't know what you adults know, or don't but i just can't help it but want to understand everyone's struggles. for no reason at all. i guess that's one thing about me that made me realize that... im not so innocent 😅
@@majestikhunn I am not an adult tho 🚶♀️
I am just saying that some adults mentally think like 12 y.o while some teens have a more vast opinion on different topics and more understanding in some areas especially psychological ones
I understood that life was not colorful at the age of 6 after realizing that I stopped trying to be at the top.
“lucky is she, who lives unaware, who doesn’t get bothered by those who don’t care! lucky is she, who lives unaware, who doesn’t get bothered by all that’s unfair!“
2:20 “sometimes I wish for a saviour to come, who’s got what it takes to convince everyone” so relatable to me, I really wish I had a friend who could save me from being bullied, but I doubt anyone cares
😂
@@AngelSanchez-tt1ocuhm.
@@AngelSanchez-tt1ocbro it’s not funny
Same, I'm always the one looking out for my friends, but when it happens to me, no one says or does anything
No one will save you if you don't fight. Weak people obtain strong people who like them for fighting even though they are weak. Be your own saviour, and then others will start roaming around you. ❤
A lot of people relate to this song in different ways. Mine is with having autism and ADHD as well as Asperger's. I wish I could be understood by other people. If I accidentally do or say something wrong and then try to explain that I have a hard time helping it, and I try to explain my disability to them, they think I'm making excuses. They think I'm behaving this way on purpose. What do they know? They don't have it. I'm not trying to make excuses, I'm trying to explain what I go through to people who will never understand no matter how much I try to explain to them.
Yeah and then they wonder why you don't enjoy their company like my brother is christ you literally pushed me away, of course I don't like you that much.
Exactly! Same with my brother, my siblings like to enter my room and be loud and they're kinda rude to me too and make fun of me, and they wonder why I'm telling them to leave
And I leave my room to get food and my family is like "oh there she is! She finally left her room! Why are you never with us?" and I'm like, why do you think? You always criticize me for things I struggle with more than you do like cleaning my room
And this one teacher I have doesn't understand that either, she always criticizes me because I make a mess when I eat chips, but I don't do it on purpose, it's hard for me to help it, and she said that if I don't stop making a mess when I eat, the other kids won't be able to have snacks
Yeah, I eat messy and I don't clean my room much, but I really struggle with it and I'm not doing it on purpose, it's just hard
@@arcticwinds2371 I can relate to this except it in a way where my brother doesn't understand why I don't want to have a fresh start in our relationship (FRIEND SHIP BTW) with him when he can't keep some of his promises and he judged me for days and days and even more days for being a furry and then he said "oh I was blending in" WITH WHO?? he doesent even do it in public he does it when I have to watch my baby brother cause my parents aren't in the camper basically he does it when we are alone with our baby brother and he can't talk that well cause he has autism and he's a toddler so he can't even tell our mom or dad about this whole mess AND I HAVE TO BOTTLE IT UP otherwise I will start more problems and I already feel like one so "why make more", he just it not that trust worthy to me and I don't like him that much cause all he does is judges me for who I like, what I like & and what I am, the rest of my family is
nice though, my brother just doesn't like me that much and so I don't like him, you'd think that would be fair until he won't stop trying to "make everything better" when ik he's just gonna ruin it all again
@@arcticwinds2371 sorry my first reply is long as hec TvT
im sorry if this offends you but hearing your story got me ideas to write an oc i hope you are doing good
"Lucky is she who lives unawsare doesn't get bothered by those who don't care,lucky is she who lives unaware doesn't get bothered by those that's unfair,unlucky me who knows way to much fights to make changes with music and such unlucky me aware of the pain..all cuz I happen to have some..BRAIN!" that part is relatable to me
So.. the whole song
Same
its the most relatable stuff ever
these lines show how it feels to be hyperaware of the people you are with and your surroundings at a young age
Same!!!!!!
I view these lines as lines as a genius who's always pressured to be perfect because they're smart they're often overthinking so there jealous of people who live there life with an average IQ
"But sometimes the truth is just my point of view, not what is real. And not what is true." This is actually the most relatable lyrics I've ever heard.
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I love this song so much 😭
It’s pretty relatable to me :)
Same
same.
samee
sammeeeee
just wanna die
For those who thinks theres no lyrics it just has a long intro
nobody thought that
@@marletta420 i think they mean just incase
I did
OMG yes-
@@marletta420 nobody thought you had to comment this
I know most people agree that the song mainly connotes to body dysmorphia but this for me perfectly sums up my experience with finding out I had Autism. I already seen a few people also say that this also connotes to them being autistic and i just wanna share my own experience. I am suspected to have ASD, CPTSD, and Bipolar Disorder. And i think from a very young age, especially when i was getting abused alot, i knew i was different. As i grew older it only got worse and i felt like i couldn't relate to anyone else because my experience was so complex that it was basically impossible for even me to understand it, let alone speak about it. I also felt invalidated for feeling the way i felt because me and others felt my experiences weren't "traumatic enough" so i never truly understood what was wrong with me, i only knew that there was something wrong. A couple more years of this bullshit and i think i started to understand what it truly was. It was after a manic episode that things out of nowhere became crystal clear: im autistic. But because i didn't have the resources to get an official diagnosis, i again was thrown into the bad state i was in where i felt invalidated. It only grew worse as that stupid clock app began glorifying and romanticizing mental illness. People were faking disorders and making fun of it and i felt like i was in the same group as them because i never got an official diagnosis. I felt like an unforgivable piece of shit because i thought i was doing the exact same thing. A couple more months of this and i was near my breaking point. I hated thinking this way for so long but i couldnt find any validation that told me i wasnt a bad person for thinking this way, until i found this song. This song honestly saved me because it finally felt like i was relating to something. Shortly thereafter, more and more validation surfaced about others who were self diagnosed autistics and their journey through it, and i felt like i finally was a good person again. Im sorry this was so damn long, i guess i got too excited when i saw others share. Ill end this on a message: you arent alone, no matter how disassociated you feel from everyone. And you arent a bad person for feeling the way you feel. It will always get better, you just sometimes need extra help. *you are valid.*
TLDR:
"I think im autistic"
"Who am i kidding, im not autistic. I sound just like those assholes on that cringey clock app"
*listens to this song*
"I relate to this to an unimaginable level and i am definetly autistic"
No offense but I think you meant TikTok right?
@@EmptyHeadspace_123 duh
As a 12 yo that thinks she might have ADHD its a problem since when i stim they STARE at me and ofc since they stare i look at them deadly then its MY faulr what did i do i want to get diagnosed but my mum thinks autistics are rlly dumb and that adhd is autism so for my mum i dont have adhd bc im not in a wheelchair?!?
@@bellathesuperpomsomg I'm so sorry to hear that! I hope you're doing okay 💗
I relate to this song in so many ways.
TW: ED, BODY DISMORPHIA, ANGER ISSUES
"Sometimes i wish i could take a new shape" hits so close to home, i grew up as the fat kid, my family and people i know would treat me differently than the others because I'm fat. Im now skinny but i have fat arms and now they would still bodyshame me for being too "skinny" or too "fat" that at this point i have no idea what i even look like. Some people also call me "ugly" but some people call me "pretty" some people would point out things in my face im not even insecure about, and it creates a new insecurity. Like how my sister said i have a big head, and downwards eyes and that it doesnt look good on me. There are times i hate looking at myself. "Sometimes i wish i could lend you my ears, lend you my thoughts, and lend you my tears" how they would call me "sensitive" for reacting to their offensive words and they would act like the victim just because i wanted to stand up for myself. In the end, its me who gets blamed because i fought back, and im the bad person, im the "sensitive" one. "Learn to take a joke" yeah and thank you for the jokes, you just made my whole day miserable.
U are absolutely gorgeous nothing will ever change that ur so wonderful and amazing u seem really sweet i hope u get better if u need anyone I'm here anything at all ask me and I'll help :))
I'm just gonna say a little story
So the story is about a man traveling with a donkey and his child, They were going to the market with their donkey but a man said "you fools what is a donkey for but to ride upon" so the man let his son on the donkey,then they passed a group of men and one of them said "see that lazy youngster, he lets his father walk while he rides" so than the man took his son down and got on it himself, then woman said to them "shame on that lazy trout to let his poor little son trudge along" he then put his son in front of him on the donkey, people later started talking about how he was overloading the donkey,so they them both got off got a metal pole and tied the donkeys legs to it and raised the pole and the donkey to their shoulders they later arrived to a bring and the donkey kicked making the kid let go of his part of the pole the donkey then fell off the bridge and drowned since he could not swim since his legs were tied then an old men said " let that teach them a lesson try to fulfill everyone and fulfill no one.
The story means to say that you can't please everyone so I hope you do whatever makes you happy, not what they want you to look like but what you would like to look like!
i understand, my family is rude to me too, not because I struggle with things physically, but mentally, and then they call ME rude for not enjoying their company, and then wondering WHY i don't enjoy their company
Yeah me to...
it fucking hurts to see this kind of shit going on in peoples lives. i’m sorry you have to live with these “people”.
this song makes me think of living in an abusive home with siblings who get treated better then you and they think its fine/its your own fault for being treated worse, and knowing that they're wrong and just hoping that they'd see it your way for once.
You doing alright?
@@StanMarsh293 we aren't Stanley marsh..
@@KomoriOtorii understandable. I hope you have a great day and make sure to keep hanging on. I'm not good at making people feel better, but all I can do is hope you feel better and make every day count! Stay strong.
Now that I think of it that way it actually does make sense "Lucky is she who lives unaware" the siblings who get treated better and see you get abused and think it’s alright and "Unlucky me, aware of the pain" you aware of ur parents abusive ways and live pain and also "sometimes I wish for a savior to come, who’s got what it takes to convince everyone" someone or something changing your siblings view/ convincing them and realizing that the parents are actually abusers
This describes my life
the way you relate to this differs between people. i love that. no matter who you are, you relate. thank you,
tikkle me.
Yes, love the tone of this song, never expect 😇
24/7 never tired of it
I think music is the most beautiful form of art. The original writer of the lyrics can put a meaning behind the song itself, but it's the listener that comes up with Their own meaning, every single time. It's quite fascinating.
"Sometimes I wish I could take a new shape"
Me LITTERLY everyday
*becomes a hexagon*
*transforms into triangle*
*takes dodecahedron*
I relate to this on a very deep level as a trans guy
what i think is so cool ab this song is in how many ways it can be interpreted, there is no right or wrong way to interpret it as because it was probably made so people all around the world would be able to relate to it. and there are no easy or hard situations, everyone is going trough something hard or went trough something hard so that's what makes this song so relatable for everyone.
WE GIVING OUR BODY PARTS AWAY WITH THIS ONE👌🏽💯💯
BODY FROM MOTHER MOTHER REFERENCE??
@@Little_Buttercup BB IDK WHAT THAT IS😍
YESS@@Little_Buttercup
YASSSSSSS
I relate to this song in many ways (warning:body shaming,anger issues and more)
I grew up in this very judgemental family and I would eat every day but my body would just not grow and I would stay skinny and short and my parents always forced me to eat because I was never eating enough and that made me very insecure of myself and I would just cry knowing crying is gonna do nothing and it made me not wanna eat anymore but then I would vent to my friends at school and say"its not a big deal" and that made me so angry because no one felt and thought how I did and I when my friends just would not listen to me I would get rlly mad and be mean to them and then they left me but then I met a rlly good person who listened to me and was insecure about herself too and she felt and thought how I did so we became rlly good friends I still friends with her but I told my parents how they treated me they said sorry but they didn't really change
This is me but the opposite
They probably weren’t ur friends if they said that
i completely get that, I'm super skinny and i eat an awful lot but I still remain the same skinny body shape, and people call me short and one of my teachers thought i was underfed
i'm trying to gain weight by eating a lot so that they stop, but it's not working and I'm still skinny
U probably had failure to thrive
i had the problem to but i have more than that to worry about. it’s just abuse and yelling and comparing who is smarter more talented in the family etc
also have you tried vitamins cuz that might be the problem. your body can’t absorb all the food you ate
Lyrics I also wanna add: sometimes I wish I could lend you my sight, to see what is wrong and see what is right, sometimes I wish I could lend you my heart, just so maybe you won’t tear yours apart.
Other lyrics: lucky is she, who knows things I don’t, who gets helped by others but me? I won’t. Unlucky me who knows not too much, and fails everything and is lazy and such.
THIS IS GOOD AF
TYY
Beautiful lyrics 💕
I think a way this song relates to me is if instead of the person singing commenting on others its a person singing and quoting others. A lot of people think of me as a sheltered princess who is blissfully ignorant, the would say, "Lucky is she who lives unaware." But in reality, "Unlucky me who knows way too much," I think that's why its extremely important to remember that everyone is fighting their own battles and everyone deserves respect, no matter what you think. "But sometimes the truth is just my point of view, not what is real and not what is true."
Same, I stopped caring if people disliked me aaaages ago (which I’m glad about don’t get me wrong) but people don’t realise that the secret to my confidence is years and years of masking and being forced to grow up early 😎
So I was listening to this on Spotify while I was driving and the line “Is god what it takes to convince everyone?” Came up and just in that moment I saw a sign on a window that said YES in bold letters. Interpret this how you want but I think it was a message.
@@Sqeepio I’m just gonna say it as god, cuz that’s what I heard. I do respect your opinion tho, so thanks for letting me know
amen 🙏🏽
@@MARSHLEAFTONit says got tho 💀
Amen 🙏🙏🙏
I love how people relate to this song in different ways,for me it’s about being bullied ,treated badly and abused. And even being misunderstood. This song reminds me about how I WISH I could just start a new life and end this one. So thanks to the artist that made this song .❤
as an autistic, ADHD, borderline person, this song hits, hits really hard, deep on the chest
"But sometimes the truth is just my point of view,not what is real and not what is true"
All the lyrics are true but those lyrics are so true
People are talking about their relations to this song so I’ll add what this reminds me of. I’m autistic, gay, lived through the pandemic, roe vs wade, I know lots of trans people and POC and understand the struggles of them to some extent. I understand so many things and mentalities that hurt people and how they could be fixed. Yet SO. MANY. PEOPLE. Who refuse to learn. Who refuse to recognize the issues in the world. I don’t think I’m perfect. I don’t think I know everything or how to fix everything. But I try to learn what the issues are and what can be done. And sometimes when I know that I wish, with every fiber of my being that I didn’t. Because I’m one person, one young person, who no one wants to listen to. My voice will forever be drowned out. I wish I could live in ignorance sometimes because that would be so much easier. But no, I’ll keep learning, I’ll keep fighting to make change and stuff for other people and me. I’ll hardly do anything or make any difference. Yet I’ll try
I completely understand how you feel. I'm autistic and gay and I try to explain to people that my autism and ADHD is why I do and say things I have a hard time controlling, and they just think that I'm making excuses because they don't know what I'm going through,
“Sometimes the truth is just my point of view” feels like that moment where you have to accept that most people _aren’t_ as “unaware” as you think. It’s realising that the people around you also have hardships, illness or baggage to deal with, but trauma has a way of making you self-centred.
That’s why unaware people are so lucky: because it’s so rare to be unaffected like that. I remember when it seriously hit me, for the first time, that other people suffered too, and it was depressing as hell. We’re all just trying to endure as well as we can.
The iconic "mY tDi dEsErVeD wInNeRs" music
HELP SO TRUE-
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for me the different parts of the song relates to different things. “sometimes i wish i could lend you my ____” makes me think of wanting to give away all of myself to my friends who feel like they’re too skinny, they don’t have enough happiness, etc. but the “lucky is she/unlucky me” makes me think of seeing little kids who know nothing about the world and think everything is okay and normal, compared to me who’s been on the internet since i was 7 and knows way too much about hatred.
BUT. 2:34. OUCH. i am literally 24/7 thinking ‘am i right? is anyone getting hurt by this choice?? am i hurting my friends?? are my friends hurting someone else??’
I relate to the song.
Because when I was younger (3 years ago and I was a transferee) I was a happy kid. I didn't care too much about what people think of me. I just said and laugh at everything I find funny. I was also a kind, bright and shareful kid back then. I was so unaware that I didn't realize that people didn't like me very much. When they gossip about me all I think is because they like me. Yes, I was an optimistic kid and didn't even realize my life was very lonely back then. I eat alone and my only friend was a transferee student too. But he was quickly transferred to another school because he was bullied. So there goes my only friend... I just DIDN'T KNOW that people didn't like me. So that is why when I talk they don't quite listen and when I am their seatmate they will complain and will scooch over. But I didn't become upset I just felt... whatever. But now 3 years later conscious about everything struck. I wasn't unaware anymore I am now the most pitiful, insecure, quiet, lonely, and dumbest person I know. I've finally realized everything. I feel jealous of anyone now and my self-esteem dropped significantly low. Like I AM STILL NOT ENOUGH. I feel useless and worthless every time. I always compare my feats to others which is none and how talented they are at everything. I can't concentrate properly anymore and I need help so badly!! Sometimes, I wonder what will my past classmates think of me now. They used to look up to me because I inspire them to study hard too but now... I just don't feel like studying anymore. I've failed them... I'm such a loser at everything now. I'm such an EMO about this!! Why can't I just have everything back like it used to be!! Happy, determined, proud, optimistic, and more importantly Unaware. I will never be mature about this I never am. But I will make a promise to myself that I shall NEVER GIVE UP IN THIS LIFE!! NEVER!! I CAN DO THIS!! I PRAY TO GOD THAT ONE DAY ALL THESE PROBLEMS SHALL BE JUST A HALLUCINATION BECAUSE IT ISN'T REAL ANYMORE. And that will be my promise to my past self. And my efforts now are for my future self's bright future once again.
5/13/22
man. everyone has a different relation to this song. this reminds me of me before and post identity crisis. i’m not fully through it yet, but it sometimes feels like the knowledge of everything happening in my country against the lgbtq+ community is suffocating me and all i want is to be happy. i just would like to transition and be in that state of bliss where people don’t hate me and i don’t hate myself because of my gender. it feels like me now is singing to past me to tell them maybe your ignorance was better. although i am still very thankful to everything i learned and hope to be able to help others through what i’ve had to go through alone.
we are both relatable to each other.i really feel you.
this song has helped me go through depretion anxity suisitil thoughts and being not alowed in my life !god bless this song!!!!! this song is soooooo relaitibale
Struggling through problems and when someone asks you is everything ok: THIS SONG
I love songs that are poetic and can be interpreted as different metaphors. This song has many indications of what it would be talking about, and everyone can relate. This includes: body dysmorphia, mental disabilities/illness, anger issues, SA (and other victim situations), and just situations in general where you wish people could see your side
“sometimes i hope for a saviour to come, who’s got what it takes to convince everyone”
i relate to this sm cuz no matter how much i tell people i had good intentions and am a nice person, they never believe me, even when it’s coming from my own mouth. but what if someone else they liked said i was a good person? everything would change
There is one person in my life who knows what’s going on with me; but the rest know nothing and personally I’m okay with that. I still have a shoulder to cry on ❤️
I wanna add these lyrics:
Sometimes I wish could lend you my thoughts, lend you my sight and lend you my mind,
Sometimes I wish you could see that I try, even if you only notice one time.
Sometimes I wish I could lend you my rights, lend you my light and let you my time,
Sometimes I wish you would take it to heart, those wretched things that they told you in class.
Lucky is she who lives unaware who doesn’t get bothered by those who don’t care,
Oh why’s that true for you and none other, I don’t understand how that could be fair.
Unlucky me who knows way too much, who fights to make changes and music and such,
Why am I here staring at you, somehow it feels like a one-way truth.
These lyrics hit so hard 😢
This reminds me of when I used to sh I would feel this way so much and so many people didn’t notice and now I still wanna sh but I don’t I do still have a eating disorder and insomnia and body dysmorphia ur over all I still really relate to this song my fav part is “unlucky me, aware of the pain all because I happen to have some brain” 3:01 I really relate to it
I relate to this song by autisim and ADHD, I get bullied 24/7 for it, this song is the only thing I relate to in this unsafe universe, god bless the people who goes through this aswell, if you do, remember alot of people gets treated like this too...
I'm sorry abt that, dear!
Hope ur doing well.
This song never gets old.
"unlucky me, who knows way too much, who fights to make changes and music and such. Unlucky me, Aware of the pain, all cause I happen to have some brain" are the lines I relate to most, for I identify as a therian and alterhuman/nonhuman. The therian community is not very well known so not enough people know of our struggles to have any awareness. The fact that my neighbor, her best friends and I are the only therians we know of makes me feel so lonely, just us suffering alone, out of sight of everyone else who are living fairly normal and happy lives.
I Know A therian And Shes My Best Friend, I May Not Be A Therian But I 100% Support You All.
The part ''Lucky is she who lives unaware..''' reminds me of my younger and ''unlucky me...'' is current me. This is how i view the song in my perpspective.
Blow My Brains Out - My version (credit if you use)
Sometimes I wish I could lend you my dreams,
Lend you my hopes and lend you my schemes.
Sometimes I wish I could take a new flight,
Switch out my wings and soar through the night.
Sometimes I wish I could lend you my sight,
Lend you my dreams and lend you my light.
Sometimes I wish I could take a new form,
Switch out my heart and hide in a storm.
Lucky is she who lives unaware,
Who doesn’t get tangled in life’s snare.
Lucky is she who lives unaware,
Unbothered by the world’s despair.
Unlucky me, with a mind that’s too keen,
Fighting for change in a world so unseen.
Unlucky me, aware of the pain,
All cause I happen to have some brain.
Sometimes I wish I could lend you my heart,
Lend you my courage and lend you my art.
Sometimes I hope for a hero to rise,
Who’s got the strength to open our eyes.
Sometimes I wish I could lend my fights,
Lend you my confidence and lend you my rights.
Sometimes I wish to speak up for myself,
If I wasn't so tiny and small as an elf.
Lucky is she who lives unaware,
Doesn’t get tangled in life’s snare.
Lucky is she who lives unaware,
Unbothered by the world’s despair.
Unlucky me, with a mind that’s too keen,
Fighting for change in a world so unseen.
Unlucky me, aware of the pain,
All cause I happen to have some brain.
Lucky is she who lives unaware,
Lucky is she who lives unaware.
Unlucky me, with a mind that’s too keen,
Fighting for change in a world so unseen.
Unlucky me, aware of the pain,
All cause I happen to have some brain.
0:52 when song starts if u wanna listen more
Why do I kin this song!?!?!? 😭🔫🔫🔫
don’t we all?
"Sometimes I wish I could lend you my ears, lend you my thoughts and lend you my tears.. sometimes I wish could take a new form, switch some parts become like the norm..." This hits hard. Being a therian, I'm constantly bullied and I wish I could lend my bullies my experiences, and wish I could become "normal".
“Switch out some parts and become like the norm” I relate so much 😭😭
I just discovered this song last week through my SoundCloud channel. I listen to this more than I do my own music for now. First, it was just the catchy melody, then I learned the lyrics and have been completely captivated since. Thank you for sharing this!
This song explained my whole life
True
“sometimes i wish i could lend you my ears, lend you my thoughts and lend you my tears ” is the must relatable thing i have ever heard
Ah, this song reminded me of my queer friends. I'm nonbinary myself, but I never really dealt with gender dysphoria like many people I know. In fact, I would've never dealt with it at all if I didn't have biases and pre-conceived notions of gender and sexuality to begin with. My friends wish they could swap out with another sometimes or just have been born/able to be expressed in the way that makes them most comfortable. Same with me. And so many are born content with their bodies in ways that some trans people will never be able to get because of maybe rules in their country or lack of financial aid. So many people just walk by and think "ah yes the LGBTQ is complaining about being oppressed again but they're fine". No, we aren't. We suffer in ways some of you will never understand because you were given what your mind lined up with to begin with. We don't get to do as we wish in many countries. We're constantly harassed or ignored in our struggles.
You don't have to agree with my rant or even acknowledge it, but I just needed to get this off my chest.
This song is relateable to me. My mom and dad broke up 5 or 6 years ago, now, im at my mom's at weekends and my dad's school time. They both are working, i have a big brother who doesnt see my mom on purphose and he doesnt has a good relationship with my dad as well. So i have to support all of them trough pains and act like i hate others because they hate eachoter.
And its a pain to me because i know all of them and love them, but im the only one aware of the fact the others are not as rude or care-free as they think in family
This song is related to me because of two reason.
I'm transgender but is unable to transition because of fear of my family not accepting me.
Another reason is because it seems like my mom doesn't understand me and the more I try and tell her how I feel she either one ups me by saying she had it worse or saying people do the same thing to her. And when I try even harder to reach out for her help she gets mad at me.
Fellow trans kid here who also can't transition (admittedly due to other reasons,) I hear you. And I'm so sorry that your family doesn't accept you.
i have autism and a twin sister with a pretty severe disability and this song crushes me. i thought i could have a normal life, but my sisters gone and she’s not coming back ever. i just want her to be ok and catch up to me even though it will never happen and i know it’s dumb to wish for something that’s impossible. twins are supposed to have the most special bond out of all siblings and she got taken away from me. mentally she’s seven and nobody ever seems to understand how much this hurts. i was only at the same pace as her for five years so i didn’t know her too well but god i miss her. it’s like a grief that never goes away, a walking reminder that my life will never ever be normal. after highschool i might not go to college because she needs constant care. the worst part is, the disability is so rare that nobody else has the situation where one twin has the disability and the other doesn’t except for us, so even among freaks and weirdos we’re freaks. the autism doesn’t help much, sound hurts and it pierces my ears like needles into my brain and nobody understands so i just get brushed off. god, im trying so hard to make friends but there’s basically nobody in the world who i can relate to. everyone misconstrues my intentions and i just want to be liked and accepted. sorry for ranting but idk, there’s just a lot on my mind and nobody who i can ever talk to. thanks for reading and maybe trying to understand, it means a lot.
I hope your sister gets better
@@4zurite unfortunately she never will. she’s just gonna get worse and worse til it kills her. i appreciate your sentiment though. means a lot
@Daisydrop oh no! That's really heartbreaking to hear.. I hope you're alright.
I'm just gonna add this:
Sometimes I wish, you could live what I live, so you can see, all of my pain, sometimes I wish, I could change all my wrongs, into my rights
But sometimes what's right,
is not what it seems,
and sometimes what's
wrong is actually what's right
Lucky is she, who lives happily,
Doesn't get bothered by all that surrounds,
Lucky is she, who just doesn't know, just what's the truth in front of her
Unlucky me, sees all the pain, unable to fight, just for my sake,
Oh useless me, so weak inside,
Unable to fight, for what is right,
Oh what am I saying?, just keep complaining, just quietly dying inside
Nice lyrics you must be very proud
@@Jay-ul5sy yup, I was 😁
@@Itz_Zero2468 good
I can relate to this song in so many details, no matter how big or small
Thank you!
"Sometimes i wish i could you my ears, lend you my thoughts, and lend you my tears." Is so relatable! I feel like this towards people sometimes 😔
This is my lyrics just from my life This is mainly based about my anxiety Enjoy
Somtimes i wish i could lend you my life
lend you my hands
and lend you my mind
Sometimes i wish you were out of my life
Throw all the truama away from my heart
sometimes i think maybe if you were wrong this wouldnt have happened and i still would be fine.
Sometimes i think about whats right and wrong am i right or am i wrong?
Sometimes i say way too much bout what i have done and what goes on
Sometimes i feel like im drowning in like theres no escape to what i can see
Lucky are they to have a norm life to never think bout what is wrong and what is right
Lucky is he To have such good skin
Lucky is she to never think twice everything comes out with out saying twice
Unlucky me who always thinks twice * never say anything its always wrong*
Unlucky me who hurts all the time cant stop hurting till its all gone
Unlucky me who never goes out People will think things Bout whats Going on
This song’s amazing
I'm on the brink of giving up 😻✌
@@chibicat892 tysm u are so sweet
@@chibicat892 same thing for u
Did you give up?
not me staying home alone and singing this and getting emotional cause i relate too much 😍
It starts at 0:42
At 0:52 actually
@@Lalucy139 i mean the trend part were everyone start 😭
@@_VINIXXXYLOU_people start there?
@@_VINIXXXYLOU_srry for asking I just didn't really know
I love y'all's song
POV: You’re the therapist friend.
i am just coming over my insecurities about not being good enough for everyone, getting talked about, being ugly, and more. i still have a lot more and im still healing. ive always had a rough life and im trying to change it. a lot of these lyrics i can realate to. for anyone dealing with issues, insecurities, mental health issues, health in general, or anything else just know your good enough, your perfect, your loved, and dont ever change yourself just because of anyone else.
I hate my family, all of it!
Sometimes I wish I got Adopted or died, sometimes I think If I was adopted or abandoned, I would still be happy if a knew what it was like to have my current family. Lucky are you who live unaware of my pain…
I hope things get better for you.. :(
Dear wonderful person,
I understand your pain. Families suck sometimes. Even all the time. You should never have to feel the way you feel. You have so many possibilities ahead for you. Not me, not the person who lives next door. YOU! You can do so much for yourself. Just keep going. I know it's easier said than done. I get told that. And it's still hard to "keep going" but you will make it. It just takes time. You are an awesome person. You do NOT deserve to die. People care about you. People will miss you. It may not seem like it. Even I will miss you. I love you ❤️
@@DAWN02020 UNO REVERSE CARD!!
@@MabelPinesishere why do you hate your family? Just curious
@@TorbieGinger abusive rude selfish b*tches
“Sometimes I wish I could lend you my shoes lend you my life and lend you my truth” this hits close to home cause one of my friends had a difficult childhood and then moved in with a great family, I had the perfect childhood till my mom died and when I git adopted it just wasn’t the same. People or always comparing us and this is exactly what I feel.
" Unlucky me, aware of the pain, fights to make changes and music and such. Unlucky me, aware of the pain, all cause I happen to have, some, brain. " Is me in real life
Why is this song so relatable!
0:52 is where the song starts 😊 i hope you find this comment helpful :)
Forever Grateful that My cousin Showed me this song Love it so much
This not that deep as other people stories in this comment section are but the song remember me to a girl I know, she used to hate me and tried to do bad to me for years when we were students, even though I didn't done anything to her before I knew about her intentions. Many years later listening this song and thinking abt some of the things that happened back in the time, I feel like in her eyes I was the "lucky" one and that made her angry or something, but me, knowing my own truth and life circumstances feel like she (even know) is the "lucky" one (not really) unaware of the hard things in people's lives just wasting her time judging just by what she thinks or sees in the surface. (She's still like that, I just stopped to be her favorite subject).
"But sometimes the truth it's just my point of view, not what is real and not what is true"
Usually I hate these type of songs but this one I like
You skin is not paper don’t cut it
You’re life isn’t a movie don’t end it
You’re neck isn’t a a coat don’t hang it
You are perfect just the way you are ❤❤
I cried one night, I was playing music and this happened to play. I couldn’t help but cry harder because this song is so relatable. As just a kid who has pain that is so hard to explain. I don’t have trauma, but just because I don’t have it doesn’t mean I feel empty in my soul and heart, emotionless emotions, words I don’t mean, actions I don’t mean or regret, people o regret even meeting, wanting to hurt myself for the pain I caused to others. Tears so hard to keep as I keep all my emotions inside until I can’t hold them in anymore.
as a kid, ive always been insecure about my,nose,eyes,weight,and height
I relate to all these negative songs, and what makes me feel better the most are the comments. Why? Because it reminds me that I'm not alone.. And I want everyone else to know that
this song perfectly describes how I feel when someone says "Everyone has a little but of ADHD in them though"
like DUDE you have NO IDEA what it feels like. Just because you have one trait of ADHD doesn't mean you have ANY idea what it feels like and it really doesn't make ANYONE with ADHD feel better about themselves.
I found this on a Autism/Asperger songs playlist.
I feel the same! But i have autism.
"Sometimes I wish i could led you my ears, led you my thoughts, and led you my tears" this is way to relatable
If I could add lines:
Sometimes I wish I could lend you my fears,
Lend you my shadows
and lend you my tears
Sometimes I wish that I stopped making scars
So that these people did not find it out.
Sometimes I wish I could lend you my thoughts,
lend you my feelings
and lend you my scars
sometimes I wish I stopped hiding my pain,
so that I could not have suffered the pain.
For me, I feel like this song represents my two “sides”. One side accepting that reality sucks, and the other wanting and trying to fix it.
‘’Sometimes I wish I can lend you my eyes , lend you my hips, and lend you my thighs…..’’ Is so relatable 😅
I have never related to a song so much omg
I want to add my own lyrics that relate to me personally.
“Sometimes I wish I could give you my eyes,
So you can see what it’s like to be blind.
Not in a figurative sense, though you see,
But a literal one, that makes a struggle for me.
The pain is still there, even if I can,
Still see my arms, and still see my hands,
My vision could go away permanently,
Then you’d be wondering what happened to me.”
I almost cried from how relatable this is…
"Unlucky me, whos aware of the pain " I can relate cause my gf/bf broke up with me and I loved her
Sometimes i wish i could lend you my dove
Lend you my love
And lend you my glove (these parts are connected)
Sometimes i wish i could travel back
Fix what is gone
And ditch what is done..
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Sometimes i wish i could lend you my rights
Lend you my kites
And lend you my lights..
Sometimes i wish i take a new day
Twitch out some lights
and switch what is right..
This song slaps me with the "Everyone is blind until hey see your anger"
"sometimes i wish i could lend you my ears lend you my thoughts and lend you my tears" way too relatable for when someone tells me that they wish they had my parents .