Let's break the MV down a little bit. 1. Nagsimula na naka-belo si Syd tapos TINANGGAL. Hindi siya ang nagtanggal. Hindi siya ang may gusto o may gawa para matanggal ang belo (na sa message obv. na yung purity niya yon) 2. Karatula na "Karinderiang hindi bukas sa lahat ng gustong kumain". Hindi porke meron akong parte ng katawan ko na magagamit mo para maibsan yung nararamdaman mo e gagamitin mo na ako. 3. Wardrobe. Yung suot ni Syd very modern, pero dahil sa touch ng filipiniana sa baro we know na sa Pilipinas ito, lalo na sa environment ng mv. Yung mga lalaki na masasabing "abusers' ay nakatakip ang mukha, means it could be anyone. Walang specific na tao, itsura, ugali. 4. Scene 2 nakahiga na si Syd, again, hindi siya humiga mag isa. Inihiga siya. Hindi siya ang gumalaw para mangyari yon. 5. Bumangon siyang wala sa ayos ang damit, tapos hinubad niya. Umakyat sya sa platform at sumasayaw sa tugtog pero kita sa muka niya ang lungkot. Represents victims that are forced to perform acts dahil marahil sa takot. 6. The scene becomes intense, nagkakaron na ng galit. And she finally stands tall, she stands up for herself. 7. Cut to next scene, wala na sa paligid niya ang "abusers" pero nasa likod at kita and silhouette. This shows that the trauma lingers. It stays with the victim. Followed by dark backdrops with the "abusers" that seem disoriented. 8. The next scenes represent the repetition of abuse. Nasa gitna nanaman siya sumasayaw against her will, wala na sa silhouette ang abusers at nahahawakan nanaman siya. 9. final scene, binalutan siya ng tela na pinagmuka ulit siyang birhen. Pero nandon ang abusers. Hindi na katulad nung unang belo na nakabalot sa kaniya. This is the flimsy effort to try and restore the ruined purity, the ruined trust, the ruined sense of self. 10. Finally, there is NO JUSTICE. She still ends with abusers with her. Walang third party na kumilos para ilayo siya doon. Musicality, beyond awesome. Symbolism, a big slap on the face of everyone turning a blind eye.
ito. ito yun e. this is how art speaks to others. kahit magkaiba ang interpretasyon ng artist at viewer, it totally makes sense and it speaks out so so differently. may intended message ang artist but that doesn't invalidate what the viewer experiences and feels, dahil sabihin mang may mga bagay na lost in translation it doesn't mean na nabawasan o nawalan ng meaning yung pinapaabot na mensahe dahil minsan lalong lumalalim pa ito depende sa demographic. this is beyond beautiful as an interpretation. kudos and I truly deeply love how you broke this down.
i think the song goes beyond sexual harassment and rape. the main theme is actually about VICTIM BLAMING, which is very prevalent in Philippines today. women shall be respected, not harassed, regardless of whatever they wear, whether it be filipiniana or revealing outfits. women are not asking for sex just because they wear 'sexy' clothing. women are not asking for sex just because they drink with you. women are not asking for sex just because they hang out with you. it is rape if there is no consent. "pag sinabi kong ayaw, ayaw ko, di ako nagpapapilit." AND THE BLAME SHALL ALWAYS BE ON THE RAPIST NOT THE WOMAN. stop saying kasalanan niya yan pokpok kasi suot nya; ginusto nya yan, nakipag inuman kasi sya. break patriarchy, machismo culture, and toxic masculinity!
@Marlboro Lights there are not many songs about sexual harassment, especially in the local music scene. it is not generic and if you listen closely, you'll understand :) try to listen again
@Marlboro Lights lols! The message is very clear. It actually has a strong impact about who is right and wrong. Whether a woman drinks with guys, wears something revealing, takes drugs and wants to have fun, but when she says ,"ayaw ko", well, "ayaw nya talaga".
This song deserves more recognition, very timely. Ito yung kantang masarap iparinig sa mga nagbibingi-bingihan dahil patuloy na isinisisi sa mga biktima yung sexual harassment. Sana mamulat na kayo at huwag niyong isisi sa pananamit ang pang-aabuso. BLAME THE RAPIST NOT THE VICTIM.
This song should be appreciated by many. "Karinderiang hindi bukas sa lahat ng gustong kumain." This says a lot. Wag kang pumasok ng walang pahintulot. Ang katawan ko ay hindi isang pagkaing hinanda para sa piyesta. Huwag mo akong diktahan kung ano ang nararapat kong gawin, kung ano ang dapat kong suotin, kung sino ang gusto kong samahan. I do what I want to do kasi normal lang na sundin ko kung ano ang galaw at kilos ko. I wear what I want to wear kasi may karapatan akong magdesisyon para sa sarili. I go with anyone I like kasi pinagkakatiwalaan ko sila. Don't blame me for the mistakes of others. Hindi ko kasalanan na may mga lalaki talagang bastos at walang respeto. Instead of telling me that I should be careful not to be rape, teach men not to rape. Huwag ako ang sisihin niyo kasi wala akong kasalanan!
"Karinderiang hindi bukas sa lahat ng gustong kumain" My body, your body, his body, her body, and their body is not an object and will never be an object for your needs. In short, hindi kailanman magiging tama ang pang-aabuso para lang maibsan iyang libog mo.
This song and mv should be viral. It's a bop AND it speaks the current problem of our nation: sexual harassment. Congrats, Syd! Been here since your first yt video ❤
nakakarelate ako haha wala kasi naranasan ko rin dati yung sexual harassment when i was in junior high like for multiple tines talaga yun at wala akong boses in order for other ppl to hear me out. this is probably my anthem. im literally crying rn. thank you for this song!! nagkaroon na ako ng boses.
DAMN! Almost everyone in the entertainment industry (especially from major labels) kept on using the same "love/romance" formula on their craft. Then here is Queen Hartha using her talent to spread empowering messages. I STAN YOU NOW MORE THAN I EVER STANNED YOU BEFORE! Stan this Queen ya all!
Finally, someone who cares about the horrid issue of harassment especially when drinking out. Many suffers/suffered from the situation, unheard. This mv is goooooood
Mark Velasco tama! Just because something is shared doesnt mean bad things for the artist. It just means that the others who base their identities on ‘obscure music taste’ have to figure out who they really are
Dark Horse hindi po ikaw ang punot dulo kasi ang ultimate na sisi ay babagsak sa kriminal na rapist. Makukulong yun, kahit pagbali-baliktarin ang batas di sya makakalusot dahil nangrape sya ng lasing na babae na walang malay o wala sa katinuan. Wala pong victim blaming sa batas natin so please wag nang pavictim. Pero dapat ka ring pangaralan na ingatan ang sarili. Wag ilagay ang sarili sa sitwasyon na pwede kang mapahamak. Ingat palagi at wag basta magtiwala
0:00 Hindi ako asong sunod-sunuran Panay lamang oo Anong tingin mo sa sarili mo? Hindi ako papel na blangko Sulat-sulatan kung kailan mo gusto Anong tingin mo sa sarili mo? 'Di lahat ng gusto dapat masunod 'Di lahat ng hiling dapat matupad mo Ngunit natalo ako sa kanyang lakas Matagal kong kapit sa sarili ay pumipigtas 'Pag sinabi kong ayaw, ayaw ko talaga 'Di ako nagpapapilit, masyadong mahigpit ang kapit niya Ba't pinapatawad pa nila Ako pa raw ang may pakana Epekto raw ng serbesa, ako pa rin ang may... Wala akong sinabing oo Wala rin sa galaw at kilos ko Anong laman ng isipan mo? Nagiging agresibo sa 'king paghina, lumalakas loob mo Ako pa rin ba ang puno't dulo nito? 'Di lahat ng gusto dapat masunod 'Di lahat ng hiling dapat matupad mo Ngunit natalo ako sa kanyang lakas Matagal kong kapit sa sarili ay pumipigtas 'Pag sinabi kong ayaw, ayaw ko talaga 'Di ako nagpapapilit, masyadong mahigpit ang kapit niya Ba't pinapatawad pa nila Ako pa raw ang may pakana Epekto raw ng serbesa, ako pa rin ang may... La, la, la, la, la, la, la La, la, la, la La, la, la, la, la, la, la La, la, la, la, Nagiging agresibo sa 'king paghina, lumalakas loob mo Ako pa rin ba ang puno't dulo nito? 'Di lahat ng gusto dapat masunod 'Di lahat ng hiling dapat matupad mo Ngunit natalo ako sa kanyang lakas Matagal kong kapit sa sarili ay pumipigtas 'Pag sinabi kong ayaw, ayaw ko talaga 'Di ako nagpapapilit, masyadong mahigpit ang kapit niya Ba't pinapatawad pa nila Ako pa raw ang may pakana Epekto raw ng serbesa, ako pa rin... 'Pag sinabi kong ayaw, ayaw ko talaga 'Di ako nagpapapilit, masyadong mahigpit ang kapit niya Ba't pinapatawad pa nila Ako pa raw ang may pakana Epekto raw ng serbesa, ako pa rin ang may... Pakana
Yes, agreeee. Please, we need more songs like this. It's an eye opener. Side Thought: We don't need any more love songs that make women think that their self-worth is based on how many men fall for them. Like, masmaraming humahanga, masmaganda at nakakalamang sa iba.
Agree, tsaka yung chorus ang sarap pakinggan kung musicality lang, pero mas lumakas ang impact dahil sa message, whoah, I'm so emotional now with this song 😊
Ang ganda ng song mo. Relate ako. Pinilit. Inakala na nagpapakipot. At dahil mahal ko. Hinayaan ko. Kahit labag sa loob. At ngayon magisa na lang ako sa bangungungot na ito.
Whitemare 26 I feel for you.. I may not remember mine that much (since it happened 12 years ago) but it still haunts me to this day. I just wanna say that, I may not know you, but I’m proud of how resilient you are. And that no matter how much you went through in your life, you still found a way to carry on. 💜💜💜
Our body's cells regenerate at an average of 7yrs. Soon, your body will not be the body that they touched and used to know anymore. Hugs for all of you! 🙂
Ah okay tungkol sya sa mga lalake na nang mamanyak ng babae. Ang galing sobrang napapanahon ang issue na ito. Parang eto lang yung kanta na may ganitong concept na alam ko.
Hindi ako asong sunod-sunuran Panay lamang oo Anong tingin mo sa sarili mo? Hindi ako papel na blangko Sulat-sulatan kung kailan mo gusto Anong tingin mo sa sarili mo? 'Di lahat ng gusto dapat masunod 'Di lahat ng hiling dapat matupad mo Ngunit natalo ako sa kanyang lakas Matagal kong kapit sa sarili ay pumipigtas 'Pag sinabi kong ayaw, ayaw ko talaga 'Di ako nagpapapilit, masyadong mahigpit ang kapit niya Ba't pinapatawad pa nila Ako pa raw ang may pakana Epekto raw ng serbesa, ako pa rin ang may... Wala akong sinabing oo Wala rin sa galaw at kilos ko Anong laman ng isipan mo? Nagiging agresibo sa 'king paghina, lumalakas loob mo Ako pa rin ba ang puno't dulo nito? 'Di lahat ng gusto dapat masunod 'Di lahat ng hiling dapat matupad mo Ngunit natalo…
I love her expression and attitude throughout the MV. Showing the attitude of knowing her worth instead of fear and submission. It shows that she is above these abusers.
ENGLISH Lyrics: I am not a dog - always following That’s always saying yes Who do you think you are? I’m not a blank paper That you could just write on whenever you want to Who do you think you are? Not everything you want should be obeyed Not everything you wish for should happen But I lost because he was too strong I’ve been holding too long and wanting to be free Chorus: If I say no, it really means NO I’m not trying to play hard to get, but he’s holding me too strong Why do they forgive him? Telling me I was the one who had a scheme He said it’s because of the alcohol, it's still me to… (blame) I never said yes It wasn’t seen in the way I move and act What are you thinking? Getting aggressive because of my weakness, you’re having the audacity Am I still the reason for this? Not everything you want should be obeyed Not everything you wish for should happen But I lost because he was too strong I’ve been holding too long and wanting to be free (Chorus) La, la, la, la, la, la, la La, la, la, la (2x) Getting aggressive because of my weakness, you’re having the audacity Am I still the reason for this? Not everything you want should be obeyed Not everything you wish for should happen But I lost because he was too strong I’ve been holding too long and wanting to be free (Chorus 2x)
I'm a guy pero nung first time ko nakita to sa myx sobrang napahanga ako. Ang lalim ng kanta. Ang lalim ng mv. Eto ung dapat na nagva viral. Sana dumami ung ganitong klaseng kanta.
I have been listening to this song a lot in the past weeks, it is my favorite PH song at the moment.. It is so good~ I became her fan, great songs.. Love from Brazil (country where rape happens more than anything and the victim is always blamed, such a shame)
Naririnig ko lang to sa spotify then napadpad sa recommendations ko. Y the fck is this so underrated???!? Hays, anlakas ng impact nito sakin as a victim of abuse. I hope she gets the recognition she deserves. Ito dpat sumisikat, di yung plagiarized na Neneng B.
oohhh official MV~ (to me) the guys are dressed up like the typical construction workers... this reminds me of the Bawal Batos Law and the stereotype about how most construction workers catcall at women
This is powerful! For those victims of abuse na pilit sinisikil ang karaptam sa hustisya, I am praying na makamit nyo ang hustisya. Be strong Syd! E-heads should condemn Marcus for this! #boycotteheads pag sinali pa din si Marcus sa concert!
The way she deliver each word is magnificent, this is pure talent what an artist indeed. She is rare because most of the time singers just stick to plain HUGOT/LOVE songs but she is different. This is also an eye opener for people that blames victims of harassment. VICTIM BLAMING does exist and it affects victims more than the perpetuators.
THIS IS THE DEFINITION OF A TRUE ARTIST, JAH BROUGHT ME HERE AND I COMPLETELY UNDERSTAND WHILE HE REALLY LIKE THIS SONG. STAN SYD HARTHA! also kudos to justin for being such an amazing man! stan SB19!
Sana mag 1mil views na ito sobrang deep ng mensahe ng kanta nato💚💪 Nangingiyak ako habang paulit ulit kong pinapakinggan to..... Ang kanta tong naging boses para sa kagya kong nakaranas ng "sexual harassment" ~pag sinabi kong ayaw ayaw ko talaga!! (ang sakit ng part na to)
watched this already at your mv launch but I'm still amazed after I watched this here!!! I'm so proud of u, syd!! more gigs to come and I hope I can go. Will always support u no matter what happens. Ilysm syd!!!
Very good message. Hopefully this breaks the stigma with Filipinos that thinks a “No” from a woman means “Persuade me more”. May more women stand up to say “No” and never feel uncomfortable in any situation where their holistic health is at risk. 🙏🏼
Salamat sa ganitong musika Syd! 🖤 Nawa'y magsilbi itong inspirasyon sa mga taong naging biktima ng pananamantala, sana wag silang matakot ipaglaban ang karapatan nila. Maunawaan rin sana ito ng mga taong mapagsamantala hindi lang sa sekswal na aspeto, sana matuto silang rumespeto sa karapatan ng ibang tao. Nasabi ko na ito dati pa, sasabihin ko ulit sa yo ito, napakaganda ng musika mo, ipagpatuloy mo sana ito dahil nagbibigay inspirasyon ka sa maraming tao 💖🤗
@@shellaoleta1387 oo nga eh nabalitaan ko, pero matapang si Syd pinaglalaban nya kung anong karapatan nya. Proud kami sayo Syd! Mahal ka namin ❤ Laban lang! Nasa iyo ang suporta namin ❤
For such a young age, she understands and bravely fighting for such issues (harassment, rape, catcalling, victim blaming). Ganito ang influencer at pagiging artist. Keep up, Syd.
oMG ANG UNCULTURED KO PALA ALL THIS TIME SO THIS IS THE FIRST TIME I HEARD FROM SYD AND ANG GANDA NG MESSAGE NIYA TALAGA this has been and is still a major issue between me and my dad and god, he even told me to post my thoughts about the way women's dress and raping. ang lala daw ng thinking ko. hopefully maging hit na talaga to so that he can hear this. kudos po! we deCIDED TO STAN TALAGA
sobrang ganda!! super proud!! im so glad we have artists like u to tackle social issues like this in the conservative nature of the Philippines. ipaglaban!
I wanna watch SB19, Syd, IV of spades, Allmo$t music and the other filipino rising music artists perform in stage. All genres of OPM. It must be mind blowing.
hanep. malalim na lyrics, may adhikain, may kuwento, pero relatable pa rin! 'yon lagi sinisikap ko kapag nagsusulat ng kanta. ngayon, may youtube channel na hahaha
I will never get tired of listening to this song and watching this MV. 5 years ago nong unang beses ko tong marinig at mapanood. The melody is haunting. The lyrics, the symbolism, and the actions were all calculated to send a very strong message. Victim blaming is prevalent in our culture. Even when presented with evidence, we still try to justify the actions of the wrongdoers and let the victims suffer from trauma and be forced to act as if nothing happened. San mas marami oang ganitong kanta and maisulat, malapatan ng nota, at maiparinig sa maraming tao.
When I listen to this song, I remember my girl bestfriend how she described and cried while talking about her experience with her boyfriend. The lyrics of the song really fits to her experience. Hayys I wish I could do some but nahh.
Hindi ko alam kung napansin niyo yung background but it also symbolises poverty. Kung titignan natin, mostly ng mga rape victims na sinisisi pabalik ay yung mga nasa laylayan kasi ang madalas na prejudice ng mga tao sa kanila ay malalandi and such. Kaya dumadami ang mahihirap kasi marami din sa kanila ang narerape. Wether you're from whichever class in the society, rape is rape and yun dapat ang nakikita natin. Don't let our prejudice state a victims fault.
yung mga nag dislike, yun yung mga taong mapilit pag sinabing "ayaw" pilit pa rin. hahahahahahaha. anyway, i heard this when you opened for ben&ben in circuit makati. you were AMAZING. ❤️
Let's break the MV down a little bit.
1. Nagsimula na naka-belo si Syd tapos TINANGGAL. Hindi siya ang nagtanggal. Hindi siya ang may gusto o may gawa para matanggal ang belo (na sa message obv. na yung purity niya yon)
2. Karatula na "Karinderiang hindi bukas sa lahat ng gustong kumain". Hindi porke meron akong parte ng katawan ko na magagamit mo para maibsan yung nararamdaman mo e gagamitin mo na ako.
3. Wardrobe. Yung suot ni Syd very modern, pero dahil sa touch ng filipiniana sa baro we know na sa Pilipinas ito, lalo na sa environment ng mv. Yung mga lalaki na masasabing "abusers' ay nakatakip ang mukha, means it could be anyone. Walang specific na tao, itsura, ugali.
4. Scene 2 nakahiga na si Syd, again, hindi siya humiga mag isa. Inihiga siya. Hindi siya ang gumalaw para mangyari yon.
5. Bumangon siyang wala sa ayos ang damit, tapos hinubad niya. Umakyat sya sa platform at sumasayaw sa tugtog pero kita sa muka niya ang lungkot. Represents victims that are forced to perform acts dahil marahil sa takot.
6. The scene becomes intense, nagkakaron na ng galit. And she finally stands tall, she stands up for herself.
7. Cut to next scene, wala na sa paligid niya ang "abusers" pero nasa likod at kita and silhouette. This shows that the trauma lingers. It stays with the victim. Followed by dark backdrops with the "abusers" that seem disoriented.
8. The next scenes represent the repetition of abuse. Nasa gitna nanaman siya sumasayaw against her will, wala na sa silhouette ang abusers at nahahawakan nanaman siya.
9. final scene, binalutan siya ng tela na pinagmuka ulit siyang birhen. Pero nandon ang abusers. Hindi na katulad nung unang belo na nakabalot sa kaniya. This is the flimsy effort to try and restore the ruined purity, the ruined trust, the ruined sense of self.
10. Finally, there is NO JUSTICE. She still ends with abusers with her. Walang third party na kumilos para ilayo siya doon.
Musicality, beyond awesome. Symbolism, a big slap on the face of everyone turning a blind eye.
This MV is really AWESOME...
pota pang media studies 11 ah. ahah. dabes! yas!
ito. ito yun e. this is how art speaks to others. kahit magkaiba ang interpretasyon ng artist at viewer, it totally makes sense and it speaks out so so differently. may intended message ang artist but that doesn't invalidate what the viewer experiences and feels, dahil sabihin mang may mga bagay na lost in translation it doesn't mean na nabawasan o nawalan ng meaning yung pinapaabot na mensahe dahil minsan lalong lumalalim pa ito depende sa demographic. this is beyond beautiful as an interpretation. kudos and I truly deeply love how you broke this down.
Just wow. Awesome. A very superb review and observation from yours👏
ung no.7 parang inspired siya naman sa 'How do you sleep' ni Sam Smith HAHAHA
i think the song goes beyond sexual harassment and rape. the main theme is actually about VICTIM BLAMING, which is very prevalent in Philippines today. women shall be respected, not harassed, regardless of whatever they wear, whether it be filipiniana or revealing outfits. women are not asking for sex just because they wear 'sexy' clothing. women are not asking for sex just because they drink with you. women are not asking for sex just because they hang out with you. it is rape if there is no consent. "pag sinabi kong ayaw, ayaw ko, di ako nagpapapilit." AND THE BLAME SHALL ALWAYS BE ON THE RAPIST NOT THE WOMAN. stop saying kasalanan niya yan pokpok kasi suot nya; ginusto nya yan, nakipag inuman kasi sya. break patriarchy, machismo culture, and toxic masculinity!
So wit
Yessss!!!
PREACH BITCHES
YESSS!!! EXACTLY
Agree
not many local artists sing about important topics. I love you, syd!
mahal ko kayo parehas 😩
@Marlboro Lights the message is clearly about sexual harrassment po
@Marlboro Lights there are not many songs about sexual harassment, especially in the local music scene. it is not generic and if you listen closely, you'll understand :) try to listen again
@Marlboro Lights lol you clearly dont know anything about reality
@Marlboro Lights lols! The message is very clear. It actually has a strong impact about who is right and wrong. Whether a woman drinks with guys, wears something revealing, takes drugs and wants to have fun, but when she says ,"ayaw ko", well, "ayaw nya talaga".
This song deserves more recognition, very timely. Ito yung kantang masarap iparinig sa mga nagbibingi-bingihan dahil patuloy na isinisisi sa mga biktima yung sexual harassment. Sana mamulat na kayo at huwag niyong isisi sa pananamit ang pang-aabuso. BLAME THE RAPIST NOT THE VICTIM.
😄😄😄
This song should be appreciated by many.
"Karinderiang hindi bukas sa lahat ng gustong kumain." This says a lot. Wag kang pumasok ng walang pahintulot. Ang katawan ko ay hindi isang pagkaing hinanda para sa piyesta. Huwag mo akong diktahan kung ano ang nararapat kong gawin, kung ano ang dapat kong suotin, kung sino ang gusto kong samahan. I do what I want to do kasi normal lang na sundin ko kung ano ang galaw at kilos ko. I wear what I want to wear kasi may karapatan akong magdesisyon para sa sarili. I go with anyone I like kasi pinagkakatiwalaan ko sila. Don't blame me for the mistakes of others. Hindi ko kasalanan na may mga lalaki talagang bastos at walang respeto. Instead of telling me that I should be careful not to be rape, teach men not to rape. Huwag ako ang sisihin niyo kasi wala akong kasalanan!
"Karinderiang hindi bukas sa lahat ng gustong kumain"
My body, your body, his body, her body, and their body is not an object and will never be an object for your needs. In short, hindi kailanman magiging tama ang pang-aabuso para lang maibsan iyang libog mo.
Yeah women are not just a sex object...
A woman being catcalled by drunk men. Saying no but people tell her it is also her fault. And a lot more message.
I think its more serious than catcalling.. I think its an issue of giving consent... or it could be worse like rape and victim blaming
@@angelicad.1647 I agree!
This song and mv should be viral. It's a bop AND it speaks the current problem of our nation: sexual harassment. Congrats, Syd! Been here since your first yt video ❤
Di na ko nagulat kung bakit bet to ni sb19 justin this song speaks big sense both the lyrics and mv. mga ganitong kanta sana dapat ang nasikat.
I feel you dude
nakakarelate ako haha wala kasi naranasan ko rin dati yung sexual harassment when i was in junior high like for multiple tines talaga yun at wala akong boses in order for other ppl to hear me out. this is probably my anthem. im literally crying rn.
thank you for this song!! nagkaroon na ako ng boses.
beb, nandito lang kami for u!
You're still valued by God. :)
Sobrang ganda talaga ng kanta na ito. It was so fun and such a privilege to dance for this project. Thank you for your music mehn. sahled
Moses Adel Baculanta salamat! 🖤
DAMN! Almost everyone in the entertainment industry (especially from major labels) kept on using the same "love/romance" formula on their craft. Then here is Queen Hartha using her talent to spread empowering messages. I STAN YOU NOW MORE THAN I EVER STANNED YOU BEFORE! Stan this Queen ya all!
Finally, someone who cares about the horrid issue of harassment especially when drinking out. Many suffers/suffered from the situation, unheard. This mv is goooooood
You and Unique Salonga should do a collab, you're both great in delivering your messages in Songs. Hope you see this Ate.
I agree (2)
I agreee
Agree!
yes please
please please pleaseeee
Ang ganda ng song ❤️❤️❤️😲😲😲. Thanks kay #sb19_justin for introducing this song 👏👏👏
soon, syd won't be our little secret anymore.
huhuh i feel you. ang sarap lang na pinagdadamot siya lol
@@mattredondo8438 dapat nga pinagkakalat yung ganitong music eh. mga gaya niyo ang dahilan kung bakit di sumisikat mga idol niyo
SArap ipagdamot shet
Mark Velasco tama! Just because something is shared doesnt mean bad things for the artist. It just means that the others who base their identities on ‘obscure music taste’ have to figure out who they really are
it's the gatekeeping 4 me 😌
Gloc 9 ft.Syd hartha..like mo ..kung gsto mo rin.
Yes please
Pano naman kung ayaw
Yessss!!!
"'pag sinabi kong ayaw, ayaw ko. Talaga."
Tsar.
PLEASE MAKE THIS HAPPEN
"Ako pa rin ba ang punot dulo nito"
Stop victim blaming
Dark Horse hindi po ikaw ang punot dulo kasi ang ultimate na sisi ay babagsak sa kriminal na rapist. Makukulong yun, kahit pagbali-baliktarin ang batas di sya makakalusot dahil nangrape sya ng lasing na babae na walang malay o wala sa katinuan. Wala pong victim blaming sa batas natin so please wag nang pavictim.
Pero dapat ka ring pangaralan na ingatan ang sarili. Wag ilagay ang sarili sa sitwasyon na pwede kang mapahamak. Ingat palagi at wag basta magtiwala
@@pongpong123able4 Sa batas siguro nga walang victim blaming pero sa mata and mentality ng trashy people oo meron
Sana nga mag bago na si punk zappa
@@canapiphoebekarelangela7355 Who cares about what they say anyway? Justice will be served.
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Hindi ako asong sunod-sunuran
Panay lamang oo
Anong tingin mo sa sarili mo?
Hindi ako papel na blangko
Sulat-sulatan kung kailan mo gusto
Anong tingin mo sa sarili mo?
'Di lahat ng gusto dapat masunod
'Di lahat ng hiling dapat matupad mo
Ngunit natalo ako sa kanyang lakas
Matagal kong kapit sa sarili ay pumipigtas
'Pag sinabi kong ayaw, ayaw ko talaga
'Di ako nagpapapilit, masyadong mahigpit ang kapit niya
Ba't pinapatawad pa nila
Ako pa raw ang may pakana
Epekto raw ng serbesa, ako pa rin ang may...
Wala akong sinabing oo
Wala rin sa galaw at kilos ko
Anong laman ng isipan mo?
Nagiging agresibo sa 'king paghina, lumalakas loob mo
Ako pa rin ba ang puno't dulo nito?
'Di lahat ng gusto dapat masunod
'Di lahat ng hiling dapat matupad mo
Ngunit natalo ako sa kanyang lakas
Matagal kong kapit sa sarili ay pumipigtas
'Pag sinabi kong ayaw, ayaw ko talaga
'Di ako nagpapapilit, masyadong mahigpit ang kapit niya
Ba't pinapatawad pa nila
Ako pa raw ang may pakana
Epekto raw ng serbesa, ako pa rin ang may...
La, la, la, la, la, la, la
La, la, la, la
La, la, la, la, la, la, la
La, la, la, la,
Nagiging agresibo sa 'king paghina, lumalakas loob mo
Ako pa rin ba ang puno't dulo nito?
'Di lahat ng gusto dapat masunod
'Di lahat ng hiling dapat matupad mo
Ngunit natalo ako sa kanyang lakas
Matagal kong kapit sa sarili ay pumipigtas
'Pag sinabi kong ayaw, ayaw ko talaga
'Di ako nagpapapilit, masyadong mahigpit ang kapit niya
Ba't pinapatawad pa nila
Ako pa raw ang may pakana
Epekto raw ng serbesa, ako pa rin...
'Pag sinabi kong ayaw, ayaw ko talaga
'Di ako nagpapapilit, masyadong mahigpit ang kapit niya
Ba't pinapatawad pa nila
Ako pa raw ang may pakana
Epekto raw ng serbesa, ako pa rin ang may...
Pakana
I wish english subtitles were available. An international audience would see what original Filipino artists are saying with their music.
The shift from love songs to social issues of Syd Hartha's music. Sobrang gandaaaaa ❤️❤️🥰
Yes, agreeee. Please, we need more songs like this. It's an eye opener.
Side Thought: We don't need any more love songs that make women think that their self-worth is based on how many men fall for them. Like, masmaraming humahanga, masmaganda at nakakalamang sa iba.
Agree, tsaka yung chorus ang sarap pakinggan kung musicality lang, pero mas lumakas ang impact dahil sa message, whoah, I'm so emotional now with this song 😊
Ang ganda ng song mo.
Relate ako. Pinilit. Inakala na nagpapakipot.
At dahil mahal ko. Hinayaan ko. Kahit labag sa loob. At ngayon magisa na lang ako sa bangungungot na ito.
Whitemare 26 I feel for you.. I may not remember mine that much (since it happened 12 years ago) but it still haunts me to this day. I just wanna say that, I may not know you, but I’m proud of how resilient you are. And that no matter how much you went through in your life, you still found a way to carry on.
💜💜💜
I'm not alone 😭😭😭💔
I’m sorry that you girls had to experience this horrible thing. Mahigpit na yakap sa inyo.
Our body's cells regenerate at an average of 7yrs. Soon, your body will not be the body that they touched and used to know anymore. Hugs for all of you! 🙂
Stay strong, ate you acn do this. Malalagpasan mo rin to, God is good.
It's like a sweet version of Bita and the Botflies. Awesome music btw!
Onga e
exactly
Oo ngaa
Yaaaas
Peklat cream.
naalala ko noon, napakinggan ko lang to sa MYX tapos ang ganda kaya tuwing nanonood ako ng MYX hinihintay ko talaga to. grabe superb!
Yung "rrrrrrrrrrrrrrr" na yan, yan gusto ko sayu... Sariling atin ang bersyon. Ang galing...!
This kid is wise, mature beyond her years. Looking forward to hearing the rest of your record, inday. More power!
Yeah.. better than icing on her 🧁
Ah okay tungkol sya sa mga lalake na nang mamanyak ng babae. Ang galing sobrang napapanahon ang issue na ito. Parang eto lang yung kanta na may ganitong concept na alam ko.
Try bita and the botflies also
YEP victim nga po siya :(
@@shellaoleta1387 yeah, with her own father.
Also sisikat ka iha
@@allayzaemmanuelle9907 hala father nya mismo minamanyak sya?
Hindi ako asong sunod-sunuran
Panay lamang oo
Anong tingin mo sa sarili mo?
Hindi ako papel na blangko
Sulat-sulatan kung kailan mo gusto
Anong tingin mo sa sarili mo?
'Di lahat ng gusto dapat masunod
'Di lahat ng hiling dapat matupad mo
Ngunit natalo ako sa kanyang lakas
Matagal kong kapit sa sarili ay pumipigtas
'Pag sinabi kong ayaw, ayaw ko talaga
'Di ako nagpapapilit, masyadong mahigpit ang kapit niya
Ba't pinapatawad pa nila
Ako pa raw ang may pakana
Epekto raw ng serbesa, ako pa rin ang may...
Wala akong sinabing oo
Wala rin sa galaw at kilos ko
Anong laman ng isipan mo?
Nagiging agresibo sa 'king paghina, lumalakas loob mo
Ako pa rin ba ang puno't dulo nito?
'Di lahat ng gusto dapat masunod
'Di lahat ng hiling dapat matupad mo
Ngunit natalo…
I love her expression and attitude throughout the MV. Showing the attitude of knowing her worth instead of fear and submission. It shows that she is above these abusers.
Ang daming atin dito....thanks sb19 justin..nalaman kong my sobrang gandang song na ito grabe..🤘🔥🔥
ENGLISH Lyrics:
I am not a dog - always following
That’s always saying yes
Who do you think you are?
I’m not a blank paper
That you could just write on whenever you want to
Who do you think you are?
Not everything you want should be obeyed
Not everything you wish for should happen
But I lost because he was too strong
I’ve been holding too long and wanting to be free
Chorus:
If I say no, it really means NO
I’m not trying to play hard to get, but he’s holding me too strong
Why do they forgive him?
Telling me I was the one who had a scheme
He said it’s because of the alcohol, it's still me to… (blame)
I never said yes
It wasn’t seen in the way I move and act
What are you thinking?
Getting aggressive because of my weakness, you’re having the audacity
Am I still the reason for this?
Not everything you want should be obeyed
Not everything you wish for should happen
But I lost because he was too strong
I’ve been holding too long and wanting to be free
(Chorus)
La, la, la, la, la, la, la
La, la, la, la (2x)
Getting aggressive because of my weakness, you’re having the audacity
Am I still the reason for this?
Not everything you want should be obeyed
Not everything you wish for should happen
But I lost because he was too strong
I’ve been holding too long and wanting to be free
(Chorus 2x)
Eloisa amazing translation!
bakit niyo po tinranslate?
@@skux7933 may nagtanong kasi na taga-ibang bansa kung ano ibig sabihin sa English.
post kayo sa Genius lyrics
Thank you!!
Use me as: _"I'm here before 1M_ _views"_ button
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ᴢαɢєツ ayee im here at 60k
here at 90k :D
ᴢαɢєツ here ar 98k
Yoo
Here at 100K
The message of this song, the choice of words, the expression - this is art. Thank you for making this and for the very creative music video.
I'm a guy pero nung first time ko nakita to sa myx sobrang napahanga ako. Ang lalim ng kanta. Ang lalim ng mv. Eto ung dapat na nagva viral. Sana dumami ung ganitong klaseng kanta.
I have been listening to this song a lot in the past weeks, it is my favorite PH song at the moment.. It is so good~ I became her fan, great songs.. Love from Brazil (country where rape happens more than anything and the victim is always blamed, such a shame)
Indeed, it's hard to be a woman anywhere in the world. Btw, how did you understand the song?
@@locksmith3208 Hello, I understand some Tagalog and I found an English translation too ;)
2019 is such a good year for OPM with SB19, MNL48, and now syd
seryoso ka mn48 sb19? mga basura
I’m seeing OPM a lot in comments of various videos. What does that stand for?
Small Anxious Introvert Original Pinoy Music
@@jimaquino470 baka ugali mo yung basura
Small Anxious Introvert ulol 2019 na di parin alam ibig sabihin ng OPM. Squatter
Ang galing dun sa part na from Filipiniana-to-modern wear, and still walang ginagalang at nirerespeto ang mga may masasamang loob..
this song is underrated. it needs more recognition, this is the kind of song na dapat marinig ng kabataan ngayon and should be trending.
Erin Nina Ricki Ilagan hindi yung puro neneng b
Madami pong kabataan na nagpropromote nito. Masyado nyong dinadown ang mga kabataan para pagmukhaing perfect yung generation nyo.
Naririnig ko lang to sa spotify then napadpad sa recommendations ko. Y the fck is this so underrated???!? Hays, anlakas ng impact nito sakin as a victim of abuse. I hope she gets the recognition she deserves. Ito dpat sumisikat, di yung plagiarized na Neneng B.
Dahil sa trending na rape issue and victim blaming I was reminded of this song.
"Bat pinapatawad pa nila, ako pa raw ang may pakana" :(
ok but how this song brings awareness to topics that should be talked about really seals the deal on it being a good song
Sa mundong tayo ay malayang magisip, hindi pananamit ng mga babae ang pakana. 0:00.
oohhh official MV~ (to me) the guys are dressed up like the typical construction workers... this reminds me of the Bawal Batos Law and the stereotype about how most construction workers catcall at women
Wow now that you pointed it out parang missed opportunity to have them all dressed differently (eg friends, family members, clergy lol)
Not mv related but i never thought I'd see you here 👋💞
@@joshabrogena1240 true. Commonly it's construction workers but anyone can be a perpetrator
SHUTANGINERZ BAKIT HINDI TO SIKAT 😭 GANTO DAPAT SUMISIKAT EH GRRRR
Came here because of SB19's Justin. *STOP VICTIM BLAMING*
Thank you for this song, Syd. I hope your message reaches more people.
After seeing her story on FB this song gives me more chills now.. She deserves to be respected.. 😢
Nyare
What is??
@@caralu5771 inaabuso Sia Ng tatay nia
artists who use their platform/s to talk about such important topics are one of the things i’m most grateful for❤️
"Nagiging agresibo sa aking paghina, lumalakas loob nya"
THIS!
This is powerful! For those victims of abuse na pilit sinisikil ang karaptam sa hustisya, I am praying na makamit nyo ang hustisya. Be strong Syd! E-heads should condemn Marcus for this!
#boycotteheads pag sinali pa din si Marcus sa concert!
A hidden gem, everyone needs to listen to this song... It gives me chills everytime I watched the mv...
The way she deliver each word is magnificent, this is pure talent what an artist indeed. She is rare because most of the time singers just stick to plain HUGOT/LOVE songs but she is different. This is also an eye opener for people that blames victims of harassment. VICTIM BLAMING does exist and it affects victims more than the perpetuators.
THE FREAKING EMOTIONSSSS!!!
*THIS IS A MASTERPIECE THAT IS NEEDED TO BE SEEN AND HEARD BY EVERYONE*
Wow ❤❤ omg this might make our tagalog language one of the sexiest language in the world!!! So nakakaproud
THIS IS THE DEFINITION OF A TRUE ARTIST, JAH BROUGHT ME HERE AND I COMPLETELY UNDERSTAND WHILE HE REALLY LIKE THIS SONG. STAN SYD HARTHA!
also kudos to justin for being such an amazing man! stan SB19!
Im here because of SB19 Justin. Nice song 🤟
Hands down!!! 👏🏼👏🏼
Syd Hartha needs to come thru more with this OPM.
loved how this song is about an important topics, it’s a bop and it shouldn’t be THIS underrated
Sana mag 1mil views na ito sobrang deep ng mensahe ng kanta nato💚💪
Nangingiyak ako habang paulit ulit kong pinapakinggan to.....
Ang kanta tong naging boses para sa kagya kong nakaranas ng "sexual harassment"
~pag sinabi kong ayaw ayaw ko talaga!! (ang sakit ng part na to)
Grabe yung History at Meaning nung kanta pati Video.
watched this already at your mv launch but I'm still amazed after I watched this here!!! I'm so proud of u, syd!! more gigs to come and I hope I can go. Will always support u no matter what happens. Ilysm syd!!!
Very good message. Hopefully this breaks the stigma with Filipinos that thinks a “No” from a woman means “Persuade me more”.
May more women stand up to say “No” and never feel uncomfortable in any situation where their holistic health is at risk.
🙏🏼
Salamat sa ganitong musika Syd! 🖤 Nawa'y magsilbi itong inspirasyon sa mga taong naging biktima ng pananamantala, sana wag silang matakot ipaglaban ang karapatan nila. Maunawaan rin sana ito ng mga taong mapagsamantala hindi lang sa sekswal na aspeto, sana matuto silang rumespeto sa karapatan ng ibang tao.
Nasabi ko na ito dati pa, sasabihin ko ulit sa yo ito, napakaganda ng musika mo, ipagpatuloy mo sana ito dahil nagbibigay inspirasyon ka sa maraming tao 💖🤗
Sad nga po kasi xa rin ung victim at father nia po ung gmawa si Marcus bandang Eraseheads.
@@shellaoleta1387 oo nga eh nabalitaan ko, pero matapang si Syd pinaglalaban nya kung anong karapatan nya.
Proud kami sayo Syd! Mahal ka namin ❤ Laban lang! Nasa iyo ang suporta namin ❤
Such a Beautiful Masterpiece to be Underrated
For such a young age, she understands and bravely fighting for such issues (harassment, rape, catcalling, victim blaming). Ganito ang influencer at pagiging artist.
Keep up, Syd.
oMG ANG UNCULTURED KO PALA ALL THIS TIME SO THIS IS THE FIRST TIME I HEARD FROM SYD AND ANG GANDA NG MESSAGE NIYA TALAGA
this has been and is still a major issue between me and my dad and god, he even told me to post my thoughts about the way women's dress and raping. ang lala daw ng thinking ko. hopefully maging hit na talaga to so that he can hear this.
kudos po! we deCIDED TO STAN TALAGA
her expressions says it all. nakakaproud to see where you are now ate syddd~ been a fan of you since cover dayssss
sobrang ganda!! super proud!! im so glad we have artists like u to tackle social issues like this in the conservative nature of the Philippines.
ipaglaban!
I wanna watch SB19, Syd, IV of spades, Allmo$t music and the other filipino rising music artists perform in stage. All genres of OPM. It must be mind blowing.
hanep. malalim na lyrics, may adhikain, may kuwento, pero relatable pa rin! 'yon lagi sinisikap ko kapag nagsusulat ng kanta. ngayon, may youtube channel na hahaha
This is so important. Pls support this song and this artist!!
*You deserve to be respected syd I love you and your music
Can someone translate the lyrics, im addicted with this song❤️❤️ Love from Malaysia🇲🇾
It's about purity taken away because of (gang) rape. And even though she said, "Ayaw" (which means NO), they took it away from her.
@@eloisaodiadamusic thanks, what a meaningful song
@@shashas8903 The lyrics is very deep.
I'll try to translate it when the lyrics is out
It's about consent, victim shaming and harassment. You can use Google translator to get the gist.
Napakatalino ng pagkakalikha.
I will never get tired of listening to this song and watching this MV. 5 years ago nong unang beses ko tong marinig at mapanood. The melody is haunting. The lyrics, the symbolism, and the actions were all calculated to send a very strong message. Victim blaming is prevalent in our culture. Even when presented with evidence, we still try to justify the actions of the wrongdoers and let the victims suffer from trauma and be forced to act as if nothing happened.
San mas marami oang ganitong kanta and maisulat, malapatan ng nota, at maiparinig sa maraming tao.
Big bita&thebotflies energy
I WAS ABOUT TO SAY THE SAME THING! Pity late ko napanuod g r r r
Yesssss
Tru!!!! Love them both!
trueeeee
Yaaaaazzzz, omg yyyyy 🍃♥️
an artist who speaks about issues that need to be tackled 👏👏 keep using your music for good
That bita and the botflies vibe both eerie and sweet at the sametime this is legit bop right here
Sobrang gandaaaa!!! Pag may taong di naintindihan ang message nito, ay ewan ko nalang talaga.
When I listen to this song, I remember my girl bestfriend how she described and cried while talking about her experience with her boyfriend.
The lyrics of the song really fits to her experience. Hayys I wish I could do some but nahh.
This by far took me by surprised considering the genres of her previous songs. Kudos to you Syd!
I'll predict year 2021 sisikat to si Syd
malapit na abang pa tayo
hey, 2021 na
sisikat song na 'to kasi same 'yung story line nung kanta sa nangyari sa F.A na ginahasa.
Ulul
2021 na, dapat ganto pinakikinggan e may meaning pa
underrated music this deserves more recognition aaa
Discover ko song ni sydharta sa Spotify radar Philippines.
Ang ganda ng lyrics at yung message ng song.
narinig ko pinatugtog ng hipag ko kaya pinakinggan ko ulit. ganda ng meaning at ng voice very unique. hands down sayo ms. syd 😊👌
Ang ganda, not just the song, but also the video itself, the set, the dancers, everythingg!! I've been waiting for this
SA MGA A'TIN NA NADIYAN GAWA NI JUSTIN, SABAY-SABAY NATING SABIHIN SALAMAT JUSTIN DE DIOS!
IT'S MY FIRST TIME HEARING YOUR SONG JUST NOW, AND I BECAME A FAN JUST LIKE THAT! OHMYG!!! WHAT A SONG! VERY SYMBOLIC AND MEANINGFUL!!!
Wow.. Syd Hartha, bat ngayon lng kita nakilala.., ito ang gusto kong mga soundtrip, bukod sa maganda na ang kumanta, mganda pa ang boses..
Hindi ko alam kung napansin niyo yung background but it also symbolises poverty. Kung titignan natin, mostly ng mga rape victims na sinisisi pabalik ay yung mga nasa laylayan kasi ang madalas na prejudice ng mga tao sa kanila ay malalandi and such. Kaya dumadami ang mahihirap kasi marami din sa kanila ang narerape. Wether you're from whichever class in the society, rape is rape and yun dapat ang nakikita natin. Don't let our prejudice state a victims fault.
Syd Hartha be speaking on behalf of us women and not only women, we need more of her masterpieces
yung mga nag dislike, yun yung mga taong mapilit pag sinabing "ayaw" pilit pa rin. hahahahahahaha. anyway, i heard this when you opened for ben&ben in circuit makati. you were AMAZING. ❤️
I actually cried when this song was released kasi ito yung parang naging boses ng mga taong pinagsamantalahan 🙃.
Oo victim rin xa. :(
No means NO.
Came here from a comment section sa Bita and the Botflies na MV. Super glad I found this. ❤️❤️❤️
drunk means no.
silence means no.
no means no.
✊
This mv and the song are a masterpiece! Sana maging viral ito. The mv is very professionally & artfully crafted. ❤
True
Sobrang galing ng concept and ng lahat ng involve(the singer and the dancers)...BRAVO TO ALL
I just love the message of this song and the music video
Itself. I stan an intellectual queen!! 💜
YAWKONA. THIS SONG IS TOO POWERFUL AND OH, THE MV IS SO CREATIVE AF 😍
I really love the thought of how "Ba't pinapatawad pa nila? Ako pa raw ang may pakana" that triggers victim shamming.
eto dapat sumisikat eeee deserve na deserve💖