And her parents seem to be ok with that! Don’t know how, but apparently they care more about their reputations than the treatment they gave their daughter.
What a lying AH. There is no possible way he found out about a two-week international trip _three days_ before it happened! He definitely knew ahead of time!
@@jrwebber8015 Right, and how did the ex take two weeks off from work with 3 days notice? _Especially_ if he had already applied for time off for his upcoming wedding? That just doesn’t happen.
Yall i think they're britons. It makes the timeliness more sensible, he'd be much more likely to have a passport and the flight time is far shorter. He's still a pos tho.
He wanted life experiences but not with the woman he loves but with his buddies and didn't even tell her and left her to panicked. That says a lot about how he truly feels about her.
What you do in the past is a pretty fair example of what you will do in the future. So if she did the same to him, he would be just fine with it right, what a load of BS.
He could have left a note or borrowed a friend's phone. He was on a sex trip before settling down. Plus you are being controlling but once trust is gone so is the marriage.
He "would do anything", well unless he can invent a time machine and actually do the one thing that would have fixed everything before he found out that consequences exist, he's shite out of luck
Tbh no one should be more emotionally invested in a relationship other than the couple. Second, he needed to “Get experiences” out of the country with no contact for two weeks, to get it out of his system? He wasn’t ready to get married and you would have dealt with his hidden resentment and this type of behavior for the whole marriage if you had not nipped it in the bud.
Seriously. People block others for a reason. If someone doesn't want to talk to the person they broke up with, you don't forward messages to help them get around the block.
In sending all the messages did you also mention he wanted to have life experiences, code for “cheating”. Right there was enough reason to cancel wedding. You did the right thing, his friends have control over him. Sounds like he would be putting them over you.
Nah, we all know what he was doing on the trip. He didn't have enough respect to talk to her about it, he didn't even call after he got there. He has no respect for her feelings, only his wants. Now he wants her to forgive him...anyone who won't try to understand also doesn't really care about her feelings. The parents are the worst ones...
We all know what those life experiences were that he was after and her parents were ok with that and calling her unreasonable. She should have talked to him before calling off the wedding? Why? She already knew what he was doing on that “bachelor” trip and decided it wasn’t something she was willing to let slide. Anybody who just goes MIA for 2 weeks, without any communication, isn’t worth keeping around. He was ok with letting her worry about what happened to him and that makes him not suitable for a relationship!
She should make definite plans to go over to her parents house. Perhaps for a visit. Make sure they are fully aware of what time she supposed to show up and how excited she is to come and visit. Then, she should just disappear for two weeks and see how her parents feel about it. How much worry they will have. How much time they will spend looking for her. How much fretting they will do. Then tell them, ha ha I just decided to go on a vacation and not inform you.
We all know he was experiencing life with other gals. He didn't care, why should she care? He's a selfish idiot, who only thinks about himself and what he wants.
He sould of sat down and told you what he really wanted and to just leave like that was so disrespectful and then to think that you would just get over it is just wrong but telling him to come back when he was already gone or else was not right either
That's a big red flag you dodged. Your "spidey-sense was right! Don't second guess your choice. Your ex is a toolbag! Tell parents and former in-laws to pound sand. Since ex had a trip, why don't you have one. Turn off your phone and go away. You need to turn off your mind and stop thinking. Good luck, my dear.
@ oh I am certain it's not real because In real life, someone like either of these characters would have at least ONE person telling them that they are nowhere near ready for marriage. It's hysterical seeing other posters taking it as gospel. lol
OP leave so call friends behind and parents they are the big AH for sure . Do u someone lies leave early in morning not tell u take off for 2 weeks without telling u or call u right away make u worry that his own parents did not know did not call them back too . He was up no good at all let me do me hell no before I get Tie down to you . He was with someone else there on that trip. Do u find good man ❤
I think asking him to come back while he was already there, was a little bit absurd. Granted he shouldn't have gone in the first place, but if I were him, I wouldn't have come back either.
No thats not the case he didnt tell her about spain she found out herself through social media and contacted him multiple times and when he finally answered and said he will back few days before the wedding imagine ur partner leaving for two weeks without telling u and giving u that answer u would be pissed off she has very right to be done with him especially that op ex cheated on op it clearly ishows that op was never his 1st priority even after being together 6 years
I haven't gotten all the way through the video yet, but when she said "...we had discussed Bachelor and Bachelorette parties and I that I don't like them..." felt more like she said "we're nit having those parties" and expected him to comply
He didn't dodge a bullet, but she definitely did. I had no respect for her and if he did this once, he'd do it again. He knew she wouldn't like it so took the cowards route by not telling her what he was doing.
Are you one of the "friends" ? 😂😂😂 The guy went on a trip, without even saying anything...just disappeared, en ghosted her in the duration....and of course he cheated too... Who dodged what then? Lemme guess, ...single? 😂
He never once bothered to respond to her messages and calls. He blew her off completely. She did the right thing.
He admitted to not talking to her about it because she'd say no. That's enough to end a relationship. That shows what kind of man he is.
"Life experiences" means he cheated on her. He didn't forget, he chose not to contact her right away. Weak spine, lying, cheating... bullet dodged!
She did the right thing. He probably cheated and she doesn’t need him
That’s what I think. What else could “want more experiences” mean? It sure wasn’t just traveling to Spain.
@@kalani431 sowing his oats 🤣🤣
And her parents seem to be ok with that! Don’t know how, but apparently they care more about their reputations than the treatment they gave their daughter.
@stirrednotshaken4823 grandbabies... And a mariage with good "caste"....might be an European thing... Parents are weird creatures 🤷
It's in the last update. He did cheat.
Complete disrespect and possibly cheating is a perfect reason to call off a wedding....
Her parents are trash for defending an immature brat that also cheated on their daughter.
What a lying AH. There is no possible way he found out about a two-week international trip _three days_ before it happened! He definitely knew ahead of time!
Right. How did his friends know if he had a passport. Most people that age don't unless they know they are going on a trip.
@@jrwebber8015 Right, and how did the ex take two weeks off from work with 3 days notice? _Especially_ if he had already applied for time off for his upcoming wedding? That just doesn’t happen.
Yall i think they're britons. It makes the timeliness more sensible, he'd be much more likely to have a passport and the flight time is far shorter. He's still a pos tho.
And britons would have an easier time taking vacation
Marcus screwed his way across that town for his "life experience". She did the right thing. He will not settle down after what he did.
He wanted life experiences but not with the woman he loves but with his buddies and didn't even tell her and left her to panicked. That says a lot about how he truly feels about her.
What you do in the past is a pretty fair example of what you will do in the future.
So if she did the same to him, he would be just fine with it right, what a load of BS.
He could have left a note or borrowed a friend's phone. He was on a sex trip before settling down. Plus you are being controlling but once trust is gone so is the marriage.
Tell him to take his cheating butt down the road and never come back and take both sets of parents with him!!
He "would do anything", well unless he can invent a time machine and actually do the one thing that would have fixed everything before he found out that consequences exist, he's shite out of luck
He took 3 weeks off before the wedding? He knew about it, you did the right thing. You deserve soooooo much better.
NTA. You made the right decision in cancelling.
Tbh no one should be more emotionally invested in a relationship other than the couple. Second, he needed to “Get experiences” out of the country with no contact for two weeks, to get it out of his system? He wasn’t ready to get married and you would have dealt with his hidden resentment and this type of behavior for the whole marriage if you had not nipped it in the bud.
Seriously. People block others for a reason. If someone doesn't want to talk to the person they broke up with, you don't forward messages to help them get around the block.
In sending all the messages did you also mention he wanted to have life experiences, code for “cheating”. Right there was enough reason to cancel wedding. You did the right thing, his friends have control over him. Sounds like he would be putting them over you.
Screw what everyone says if it was gender swapped the role that wedding would still be cancelled 😂 we all know what happened on that vacation 😂
When trust is gone you ain't got nothing to stand on. He lost her trust and she is better off without him.
Nah, we all know what he was doing on the trip. He didn't have enough respect to talk to her about it, he didn't even call after he got there. He has no respect for her feelings, only his wants. Now he wants her to forgive him...anyone who won't try to understand also doesn't really care about her feelings. The parents are the worst ones...
We all know what those life experiences were that he was after and her parents were ok with that and calling her unreasonable. She should have talked to him before calling off the wedding? Why? She already knew what he was doing on that “bachelor” trip and decided it wasn’t something she was willing to let slide. Anybody who just goes MIA for 2 weeks, without any communication, isn’t worth keeping around. He was ok with letting her worry about what happened to him and that makes him not suitable for a relationship!
So in the end he did cheat 😂 no surprise
She should make definite plans to go over to her parents house. Perhaps for a visit. Make sure they are fully aware of what time she supposed to show up and how excited she is to come and visit. Then, she should just disappear for two weeks and see how her parents feel about it. How much worry they will have. How much time they will spend looking for her. How much fretting they will do. Then tell them, ha ha I just decided to go on a vacation and not inform you.
YEP, KNEW IT.. immature, selfish, self centered cheater..
We all know he was experiencing life with other gals. He didn't care, why should she care?
He's a selfish idiot, who only thinks about himself and what he wants.
He sould of sat down and told you what he really wanted and to just leave like that was so disrespectful and then to think that you would just get over it is just wrong but telling him to come back when he was already gone or else was not right either
What did he expect ...he left home
That's a big red flag you dodged. Your "spidey-sense was right! Don't second guess your choice. Your ex is a toolbag! Tell parents and former in-laws to pound sand.
Since ex had a trip, why don't you have one. Turn off your phone and go away. You need to turn off your mind and stop thinking.
Good luck, my dear.
'we grew up together ever since we were 19' You grew up together ever since adulthood, did ya? lol
The real problem is that neither of them have grown up. Seeing the support either of them get on this page shows you how they both made it this far.
@@stogiedad1 If it's a real story that is. The info mentions an author name, no Reddit link or mention of a Redditor who posted this.
@ oh I am certain it's not real because In real life, someone like either of these characters would have at least ONE person telling them that they are nowhere near ready for marriage. It's hysterical seeing other posters taking it as gospel. lol
if it was just a trip not telling you then over reaction. but the words "life experiences" and cheating red flag
Why go away in secret and don't contact her he could have told her she have to see it on social media
OP leave so call friends behind and parents they are the big AH for sure . Do u someone lies leave early in morning not tell u take off for 2 weeks without telling u or call u right away make u worry that his own parents did not know did not call them back too . He was up no good at all let me do me hell no before I get Tie down to you . He was with someone else there on that trip. Do u find good man ❤
I think asking him to come back while he was already there, was a little bit absurd. Granted he shouldn't have gone in the first place, but if I were him, I wouldn't have come back either.
What did you say Marcus ?
For the sake of 6years in a relationship with you should have gave him a chance to talk to you,you need to learn to forgive
She did give him a chance. But what was the point. He cheated anyway. It's a good thing she left him.
She tried to control the man, he didn't give in and the girl's ego was hurt. She cancelled the wedding. Bro dodged a bullet with this control freak🤣🤣
No thats not the case he didnt tell her about spain she found out herself through social media and contacted him multiple times and when he finally answered and said he will back few days before the wedding imagine ur partner leaving for two weeks without telling u and giving u that answer u would be pissed off she has very right to be done with him especially that op ex cheated on op it clearly ishows that op was never his 1st priority even after being together 6 years
I haven't gotten all the way through the video yet, but when she said "...we had discussed Bachelor and Bachelorette parties and I that I don't like them..." felt more like she said "we're nit having those parties" and expected him to comply
Troll or just an incel?
He didn't dodge a bullet, but she definitely did. I had no respect for her and if he did this once, he'd do it again. He knew she wouldn't like it so took the cowards route by not telling her what he was doing.
Are you one of the "friends" ? 😂😂😂
The guy went on a trip, without even saying anything...just disappeared, en ghosted her in the duration....and of course he cheated too...
Who dodged what then?
Lemme guess, ...single? 😂
First :)