So happy to see you in my notifications ....whether it be for 10 minutes, 10 seconds, or 10 hours. You are an inspiring and uplifting person. Now it's our turn to lift you up and let you know how much you mean to all of us. You are always worth the wait.
So glad you are back! I enjoy you so much, not just your work, but YOU. You are so fun and motivating. We all need a break in life sometimes, I’m glad you took care of yourself first. You can’t pour from an empty cup. I look forward to seeing more of you and your beautiful work!!
Good to see you back. Our live go in chapters and the saying “when one door closes another one opens “. Don’t think I’m a weirdo but I see orbs flying around you. ❤
you aren't a weirdo, many people have said that in this video, I had to go back and watch it :) and you are right...its all chapters in our life right?
I saw them too! We all go through stuff in our lives and understand where you're coming from. Thank you for sharing. Keep up the amazing work you do. Love your creations. 😊❤
Don’t ever worry about rambling, you are just being honest and yourself. Everyone should be able to relate. And please know that what you create and share with all of us is only a part of why we are all here. The bigger reason why everyone comes back to you is because of you and your lovely personality. I will send a hug and a thank you for everything that you do! 🤗😔
I think so too, I really miss him so so much. Rupert and Stanley will be making more appearances and they are such good boys and have really helped us all heal
I've been vigilantly watching and waiting for you to post a new video. I did a double take yesterday when I saw this! So elated to have you back! Furniture flipping isn't the same without you! After what you've been through, I don't blame you for stepping away. You need to take care of YOU before worrying about anything else. But I'm so happy you found an outlet, and made your way back!!! Can't wait to see your next beautiful piece of art come to life!!! ❤❤❤
So super proud of you, there will always be bumps, but to recognize that the bump is actually a brick wall takes time to chip away. You need to nurture yourself, and those baby steps will get you exactly where you need to be. Take good care of yourself, and the doors will open for you 👏🏻🙌🏻🥰❤
Good to see you back. The world needs your light and color of happiness. Take the time you need to heal. I've been catching past videos for inspiration and you will never loose my sponsorship. Can't wait for your new works of art.
Wow, Crys'Dawna, thank you for sharing this. You sound just like they way i feel. It gives validation to my feelings. I have often wondered what is wrong with me. And those orbs flying around are really cool. Someone is watching over you with love.
Thank you for sharing, Crys. Not all of us are that brave but it is very important issue to address. Wishing you best and looking forward to see more of your videos.
You are just as important as anyone and everyone around you. You need to take care of every part of yourself, mentally, emotionally and physically. It's good that you recognized the burn out and then began to deal with it in a positive manner, so many don't. We're still here, and likely always will be. Luv luvs!
Thank you so much for opening up and sharing. I know I struggle with life and career burnout, it’s no joke and I’m happy for you finding (and continuing to try) that spark again. I love your spirit and energy, your creative sharing has helped me grow and for that I thank you and appreciate you!
It's been 2 years since I lost my Rosie. She was my first rescue animal and taught me so much, motivation and inspiration just haven't been present over that time. BUT, there is a "healing journey" and one must take it when everything seems to go wrong or you're lost for good. It's also hard to hear you are strong, when you feel anything but. You are a wonderful teacher and always have been. You, Brandy, Shelley (Shizzle) and Tracy (Tracy's Fancy) were my first teachers. Each and every one of you I respect for your hard work and YES being human. All talented ladies with great spirit and drive. I'm so glad you are pulling away from the "crash" and getting the vibe again, you talent is a part of you and it will work to shine through more and more. Thank you for being you and sharing with us
thank you so so soooo much, this means a lot. I knew I need to just take some time, reset so I COULD give my authentic self to others and I think this year was just that. I am feeling better and ready to get back at it!!
it sounds like you’ve been going through so much this year! ❤ i’m getting the vibe that you’re experiencing a lot of grief (your pup, the move, loss of support, etc), which is completely reasonable. keep giving yourself grace, never apologize for how you feel, and I’m sending good energy your way!
I'm so glad you're back! I've missed you! I totally get the burnout. I think it's a theme for so many in 2023. I've chosen to see it as a push for me to edit what I give my energy to. It's been a HARD year. I feel like 2024 is full of new opportunities. ❤
You have been such such a huge inspiration for me flipping furniture, it is such a nice hobby, and I genuinely appreciate you taking your time to teach us. And I’m so sorry about the burnout . My husband is military and being a stay at home mom and taking care of everything , the burnout it so real
What an inspiration you are! Thank you for this video. I too have been going through some anxiety and to see you talk about and share what you are going through is uplifting and making me feel it is just not me.🥰 You have many supporters and we all love you!
Thankyou for your honesty. I've been inspired by your work so many times but yes, I sometimes stand in my studio and cry for all the sad things going on in my life. My art is my release but in those days, no art happens.
I think it helps me mentally and physically to flip furniture . I get so depressed that i was burnt out on everything. Im a single mom raising an extremely high needs teen boy.. im stepping back in after 3 or 4 months off.. here i am watching who started me on this journey, YOU!!! We need you ❤
I’m so happy to see you. Sometimes life is just hard and it’s so overwhelming but like you said we have to give ourselves time and grace. Take care of yourself your followers understand and are still here for you.
You seem to be handling the transition fairly well. Putting yourself first was the first step. After all you can’t help others if you can’t help yourself. I think you have made the right decisions. Keep on keeping on. Thank you for your inspiration.
Thank you for sharing real life. We've all been there. Give yourself the time and grace you need. We love you and we'll all be here when the time is right for you. I'm praying for you, I care about you, and you are not alone. Merry Christmas!
so nice to see your face & hear you are doing ok! Baby steps! Take care of you first...we'll be here to appreciate your many gifts when you are ready to create & share again!
This New Yorker is here to staaaaaaay!!!! Sorry to hear about your struggles and losses but glad to hear you are on the mend. We forget sometimes to take care of ourselves, so please do just that. Looking forward to 2024 and all you bring with it!❤
Pam!!!!!! I still need to get to NYC!!! you are only like 5 hours form me and Roxlyn has always wanted to go!!! ALSO THANK YOU, I appreciate you more than I could ever say!
@@BellaRenovare Roxlyn will absolutely love it!!! It's over the top and definitely a great experience. Hop, skip, and a jump away!!! Five hours is really not that terrible. Rob and I live in Staten Island, one of the five NYC Boroughs. We don't travel to Manhattan often but it's only about 20 mins. Hope you visit soon!
I’ve missed you and your honesty. Burn out in life is real, I’ve been struggling for years but this last 10 months have broke me. I’m starting to look at life differently again and I actually an happy more often than not these days. A good husband, a good friend, a good therapist and also a good dog help me. Glad your back. 💕🇨🇦
Sometimes you need to just ramble. I have been where you are at. So u ramble when you need to. Glad to see you hang in there. It will come back stronger
Just stumbled upon your channel. So sorry for your loss. Thank you for being so candid. I am much older than you but can totally relate. I was listening to Mel Robbins this AM and she said something that resonated. When we want to be happy, life gives us something hard. When we want to be peaceful, life gives us chaos. It's to teach us how to overcome and move forward. Don't give up on your dreams. They are the most important thing. That was the jist. She also said, "Let your light shine so brightly, that you illuminate a pathway for others to find their way out of the darkness!” - Dr. Stacey A. Maxwell Give yourself grace when down. And think of yourself as a light! Sending you good juju for 2024 and beyond!
I wish I was in Maine and could take you out to lunch!!! I'm sooo sorry you have had a rough year!!! You are always honest & real with us. We want your heart to be happy in whatever life decisions you choose. I can tell you it makes my heart Happy to hear you are back!!! I'm a stay-at-home at home Mom who should get a real "job"but would rather paint but gather my supplies & daily struggle with what color to paint & sit there paralyzed and don't paint anything. I personally need you in my life to light that spark deep inside of me so I can maybe someday be able to paint furniture as beautiful as you do!!! Thank you, thank you, thank you for always being you & we are lucky that you bring us along with you on all of your journeys!!!!! 🤗💖
Thank you so much for sharing! I have learned that it is never easy to open up one's experience with burnout and admire you for sharing the importance of recognizing and taking care of our health and well-being! Wishing you all the best! 💖
I love you so much girl! You have always been so real and honest. Do what you need to do. So Many transitions at once and the unknown and the military to civilian life is overwhelming. Sometimes you need to give yourself grace and a mental health break.
Thank you for sharing your journey. I have experienced that burnout as well. I’ve been creating pop up cards for the last 8 years and found myself not wanting to create anything. I found your channel and, through your inspiration, started painting furniture. I have a renewed heart. I may keep my card business going, but your inspiration buoys me and it may turn into a new path. I learn SO much from you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you for being a bright light in our world; especially mine.
Crys'Dawna, I'm happy that you're back, too. My husband retired 13 months ago with no real plan for what to do with his time, and it has been disconcerting (to say the least) for both of us, and rather soul-crushing for me. I'm just exhausted at having to make up things for him to do in a day, and my own creativity? Pffttt. Just not there. And disheartened that I have 100 ideas but not excited about any of them. So I do get it. ❤
I 1 million times understand this. It's like the pressure of his happiness is put all on you. It's a lot to take on and still maintain YOUR creativity and happiness. That is also something I didn't address is the transition for him, they have. sense of purpose and direction and then retirement sounds great until reality sets in and it's like what do I do now? It has gotten better but I think that's another thing we don't talk about is how after retirement many people their sense of "worth" or "purpose" and it falls on the loved ones to try to pick that person up and it can be very hard. You've got this.
For both of you ladies, please try to remember that the ONLY thing in life that you can control is yourself. It’s truly not on you to map out your respective husbands’ next chapter - they MUST take that burden on themselves. It is a burden, unknown and scary, but you can’t walk that walk for them. You obviously love them, and truly want them to be happy, fulfilled, and feel supported, but it’s on them to figure out what’s next. The ‘after retirement’ issue is SO incredibly overlooked and millions of folks are unexpectedly thrown into actual depression when their life’s ‘meaning’ is over. People are meant to work, to feel fulfilled with purpose, to contribute, etc. Once your work life is over, it’s crazy to think total laziness and never-ending golf is the path forward (it most often brings misery after a time). I have a book called “Don’t retire, REWIRE” - which is something all ‘working’ people should think about as they approach retirement… But, you must protect and take good care of yourselves too - their retirement is not actually your problem to solve! Be thinking about your OWN next chapter before you find yourselves in the same spot. This is said with all due love, respect and understanding - as women this is often a hard balance. Remember to put on your own mask first! Good (best) luck!!😘 (I found a good therapist and even took an anti-depressant for a time until I leveled out my boundaries)… life is SO hard sometimes. I’m glad you shared Cry’s Dawna!
@@datachickatl4092 Thank you so much for your reply, your insight makes a lot of sense to me. No one really talks about this issue, do they? Well, I think we SHOULD!
@@BellaRenovare Thank you so much. I can only imagine that retirement from military life, leaving behind the structure and support system, moving halfway around the world, even IF it's actually moving back home, making the new house a home for your family, and so sorry for the loss of your beloved pupper ... that's a lot of really HUGE life changes in a short time. You've held it together so much more gracefully than I would have in that situation. I know you've got this, too . But it's not easy, is it?
I've recently discovered you. I love your energy and totally understand this years trials for you. Whatever you do you'll be valuable just being you! It's hard to get back on a wagon sometimes. I wish you well you are an asset to our community just remember that. You don't always have to perform ❤❤❤
Mate, I can totally relate to this! Thank you for sharing. This year has been one of the hardest for me in business and even more so personally. I’ve lost more people dear to me in one year than I have in my lifetime and it’s rough! Business is suffering because of my personal life but I’m still going.
So, so glad to see you back❣️My heart hurts for your loss😢 Hang in there. Moving is a major stressor for sure. You’ll have your local support people very soon, I’m sure of it !
It’s still here and really happy to see you again! Welcome back. ❤ Being burned out really sucks and I’m really proud of you working your way through this. I wish you and your family a very Merry Christmas and a wonderful 2024❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for sharing this. Having had a couple of major burnouts I know the best thing is to stop, take care of yourself, rest & heal. Then when you are ready you get insired for the next part of life. Blessings for you & your family.
I really missed you & your beautiful work & your soulful self. I'm so happy to know that you are taking care of yourself. You really needed that time for your healing & learning about yourself. I've been through so many similar things. In the end, our souls grow & it looks & sounds like you are stronger than ever. Bless you!💖☺️❤️Thank you for sharing with everyone. I'm sure that your positivity & openness has helped many of your followers. I'm sorry that you had to go through, so much.💖☺️❤️
It is really good to see you back. Thank you for being open and honest about your struggle. There are so many aspects to this life and they all overlap and impact each other. I am glad to hear that you were able to successfully step back and reset yourself like you needed. Your faithful followers are still here and look forward to what you will create and share with us going forward. Take care and happy holidays ❤️🎄😊
HELLO! This really resonated with me - so thank you. My mantra is 'this too shall pass'. We lost my Dad unexpectedly in October in the midst of a family wedding (10 days after he passed) and a birth (9 days after he passed). With organising a funeral and trying to support each other through "stuff", the emotional toll is exhausting and real - AND then there's the grief........
So glad you made this video. I have been concerned since I have not seen you in a while. You should put yourself first and we will definitely wait on you and will support your channel
Yeah, it's all about re- balancing when things go sideways. Not easy, like one & done, more like life is a blue run and we're on a snowboard hoping we get the hang of it before the next turn. I'm glad softball helped you manage your curveballs 😆. I moved back home to CO within two weeks of your big move back to Maine. Like you, a major life shift (though very different circumstances). I've never given myself more grace than I have the past 12 months. Maybe not great financially, but I needed to "find myself", my center again. I hope the same is coming into focus for you. Love yourself, love your life. Great to see you here today, pal! Wishing you all the best. #gratitude is key
I totally understand feeling burned out like not having any inspiration I used to paint daily on canvas then all of a sudden boom!! It stopped people letting me down stayed with painted pieces I literally snapped I slaughtered my paintings from being frustrated . So I knew I needed to create something so I wouldn't get rusty lol pottery and concrete and clay were my escape from my burn out. You are a very talented lady that has lots to offer heck your blending skills are amazing so we welcome you back with open arms . You got this ❤
Ohhh, it was so good to hear this, Crys'Dawna. I have been struggling with burnout for the last couple of years when we moved across the country, but especially this year. I haven't painted or been very active in my business, and it makes me sad. Hearing what you're going through truly inspires me and gives me courage to keep going. ❤
I see orbs flying around you too! You should watch the end of your video!!! Alot of people believe these are spirits and you had quite a few flying around you and welcome back!!! Looking forward to seeing what you do with paint next!
Thank you for sharing, we all feel burdened through out our lives, it makes us human, it's what we chose to do with them makes us better humans. God Bless 🙏 prayer s for you.
Thank you for honesty so much of what you said also resonated with mg life too. Glad that everything is moving in the right direction may it only continue ❤
When I saw the orbs, I immediately thought of your beloved Cannon. He was dancing around you and trying to cheer you up with his beautiful light. He'll always be with you. So glad to see you back Crys. You've been missed. Life is a rollercoaster, with good times and rough ones. You'll be fine. Blessings to you and your family. We are here for you.
Yes! My circumstances are different but the resulting burnout is similar. Lost my mom, 2 cats, had a crippling health issue, turned 69, retired… all the safe guards dropped and dangerous cliff-sides abound! I agree taking a life break can help with creative burnout and blocks. If I had the means, I would take a couple of months off in some sort of pampered resort, where other people cooked, served me food and lovely drinks, and offered me easy, fun activities, like swimming in the warm Mediterranean. I feel better just thinking about it! Thanks for your honesty and please know that we here deeply appreciate you.
Authenticity is what enables true connection and is something we all seek and appreciate. Thanks so much for sharing. You have always been and remain inspiring ❤
You are AMAZING! You continue to teach us regardless of circumstance. What you have been going through is huge. Thank you for taking care of yourself and facing this pain head on. The message of being gentle with ourself is of paramount importance. It is so good to see you again! Excited for what is yet to come! Again… THANK YOU! B~}
Hell yeah good for you for putting yourself first..Life is so hard. I lost my bf 2.5 years ago. And finally I decided to adopt again to invest all my love into my newest baby. She’s 2.5 yrs old and has the same smile as my Bono did. This Aussie girl is the sweetest and timid soul. I have missed you. I’m only a message away … just to vent to an outsider. lol.
For some reason there is no comment bar so I'm hopping on someones comment. We will be here. You are the best of the best in my book so I will show up to see what you are doing. I certainly hope thing just keep getting better and better. So hard to lose Cannon. I'm pulling for you!
you are amazing!! thank you for always being so loving and kind, it means more than I can ever tell you. Rupert and Stanley have really helped heal my heart and I see a lot of cannon in both of them but I still miss cannon so so much.
Ahh I’ve missed your content! It’s good to see you post again, even if it isn’t about working on a piece. Your work is a huge inspiration to me, I’m working on actually applying techniques I’ve learnt from you and others! Also, that wardrobe behind you, I’m still obsessed with it’s one of my favourite pieces you’ve done!
As an airforce spouse coming back from overseas, I totally get it. There is a huge support system and to leave a base and go straight to a state without that community you're used to having around you, can be very lonely. We all go through it to some extent. Glad you are coming back, your videos have been missed by many. Do you feel like a military retiree yet 😁?
So wonderful to see you. It’s horrible that you have had to go through this turmoil. I’ve experienced some of the same and it’s not easy to come to terms with or talk about. I’m so happy that you are on the mend and things are improving. It’s a cliché, but take each day as it comes, and hopefully take comfort that your followers are rooting for you. I look at my bedroom with its colour and painted furniture and thank you for all the inspiration you provided for me to achieve it. Take care. X
You take all the time you need, to find yourself back. My last 2 years have been horrible, so I can relate to what you are feeling, just put yourself and your family first😊. I am a die hard fan😅😊 so I will keep on following you, for no matter how long it takes for you to be back ❤ ( or maybe not, if you will desite that you need to start a new chapter in life) do what ever it takes to make yourself be happy again, life is too short to feel miserable. Live your life and feel great and happy❤
I hope you’re all doing well and everything goes smoothly for you and your family. Take care of yourself and your family first and then everything else will fall into place. Take care ❤✌🏽😇
I will follow you no matter what. I began watching your channel because I was in exactly the same place you were. Lost my husband and best friend after a brutal 17 month fight with cancer. Retired to be with my husband. So I was separated from my work family and severe loss of socialization. It seemed like only people we saw were health care professionals. He passed suddenly in my arms at only 66 and my best friend of over 40 years was gone. My life was not going to be what I had expected. Then here came Covid. I was paralyzed. I’ve been an artist all my life and I could NOT have a creative thought much less make something. You helped me so much. I began to paint a few things I had lying around. Then I began looking for more treasures to transform. I truly love the search and have scored some amazing finds. And some real duds. I learned a lot from you and some other RUclips furniture artists. I enjoyed transforming them into works of art. I have gradually moved more towards my old pursuits of painting and jewelry making. It has been a process. You helped me so much in my healing journey. I wish I could do something to help you. I have a lot (I mean a garage FULL) of furniture that still needs a new life. If you would like some of it please let me know. Just know it will get better. I will follow your channel if you paint furniture or bake cookies.
Glad you are back. I'm sorry you had a rough year. This year has been hard for us too. We lost our dog Jack. He was very special to us and we were heartbroken. I also had to help my friend who was battling cancer and sadly she lost that battle December 1. I have always been creative and I haven't been able to do any of that. I told my husband I felt like I was walking in a fog and just going through the motions of life. Good things have happened because we were given the opportunity to adopt a little dog that had been abandoned at our vets. Our support system are the people in our small community that came together to help when our friend went on hospice. We all took turns caring for her and her little dog in the end and supported each other. The dog has gone to a good home and for that I'm grateful. Sometimes life is hard but this year has really kicked us in the teeth but we will get through it.
ooh I am so so sorry :( You are right sometimes life is hard but we've got this!!! What is your new pups name?? You know they say that your animals find you, maybe it was fate :)
@@BellaRenovare His name is Bobby. He gets along great with our other little dog Ruby and he's a sweetheart. Ruby and Bobby are both 9 years old so it all worked out. My husband is in his 70's and I'm in my late 60's so we wanted an older dog because the thought of leaving pets behind if something should happen wasn't acceptable to us. These will probably be our last dogs because of our age. Bobby got a good home and Ruby has another companion (she was very sad about Jack).
I was so glad to see that you posted a 10 minute tuesday! I looked forward to these videos and love it when they are longer than 10 minutes. I literally gasped and teared up when you mentioned losing Cannon. It's so hard losing them, especially when its unexpected 😢 Im.so glad you took time for yourself. ❤ Merry Christmas!
It's hard to admit being burned out on life. One of the many things I've always admired about you is your frank transparency. Much love, my friend ❤️
So happy to see you in my notifications ....whether it be for 10 minutes, 10 seconds, or 10 hours. You are an inspiring and uplifting person. Now it's our turn to lift you up and let you know how much you mean to all of us. You are always worth the wait.
So glad you are back! I enjoy you so much, not just your work, but YOU. You are so fun and motivating. We all need a break in life sometimes, I’m glad you took care of yourself first. You can’t pour from an empty cup. I look forward to seeing more of you and your beautiful work!!
Not me over here bawling 😭 Love you, Hugs!!!
Good to see you back. Our live go in chapters and the saying “when one door closes another one opens “. Don’t think I’m a weirdo but I see orbs flying around you. ❤
you aren't a weirdo, many people have said that in this video, I had to go back and watch it :)
and you are right...its all chapters in our life right?
I saw them too! We all go through stuff in our lives and understand where you're coming from. Thank you for sharing. Keep up the amazing work you do. Love your creations. 😊❤
Don’t ever worry about rambling, you are just being honest and yourself. Everyone should be able to relate. And please know that what you create and share with all of us is only a part of why we are all here. The bigger reason why everyone comes back to you is because of you and your lovely personality. I will send a hug and a thank you for everything that you do! 🤗😔
Wonderful to see you ❤!! We can't give from an empty cup! Glad to hear your regaining your inspiration 🙌💕
Around the 6.20 mark, look to the bottom right……you have a couple of spirit Orbs dancing around!
Cannon approving for sure 🐾 ❤
I think so too, I really miss him so so much. Rupert and Stanley will be making more appearances and they are such good boys and have really helped us all heal
I saw them too❤
Yes! I saw those too!
I've been vigilantly watching and waiting for you to post a new video. I did a double take yesterday when I saw this! So elated to have you back! Furniture flipping isn't the same without you! After what you've been through, I don't blame you for stepping away. You need to take care of YOU before worrying about anything else. But I'm so happy you found an outlet, and made your way back!!! Can't wait to see your next beautiful piece of art come to life!!! ❤❤❤
So super proud of you, there will always be bumps, but to recognize that the bump is actually a brick wall takes time to chip away. You need to nurture yourself, and those baby steps will get you exactly where you need to be. Take good care of yourself, and the doors will open for you 👏🏻🙌🏻🥰❤
Good to see you back. The world needs your light and color of happiness. Take the time you need to heal. I've been catching past videos for inspiration and you will never loose my sponsorship. Can't wait for your new works of art.
Wow, Crys'Dawna, thank you for sharing this. You sound just like they way i feel. It gives validation to my feelings. I have often wondered what is wrong with me.
And those orbs flying around are really cool. Someone is watching over you with love.
Thank you for sharing, Crys. Not all of us are that brave but it is very important issue to address. Wishing you best and looking forward to see more of your videos.
You are just as important as anyone and everyone around you. You need to take care of every part of yourself, mentally, emotionally and physically. It's good that you recognized the burn out and then began to deal with it in a positive manner, so many don't. We're still here, and likely always will be. Luv luvs!
Thank you so much for opening up and sharing. I know I struggle with life and career burnout, it’s no joke and I’m happy for you finding (and continuing to try) that spark again. I love your spirit and energy, your creative sharing has helped me grow and for that I thank you and appreciate you!
It's been 2 years since I lost my Rosie. She was my first rescue animal and taught me so much, motivation and inspiration just haven't been present over that time.
BUT, there is a "healing journey" and one must take it when everything seems to go wrong or you're lost for good. It's also hard to hear you are strong, when you feel anything but.
You are a wonderful teacher and always have been. You, Brandy, Shelley (Shizzle) and Tracy (Tracy's Fancy) were my first teachers. Each and every one of you I respect for your hard work and YES being human. All talented ladies with great spirit and drive.
I'm so glad you are pulling away from the "crash" and getting the vibe again, you talent is a part of you and it will work to shine through more and more.
Thank you for being you and sharing with us
thank you so so soooo much, this means a lot. I knew I need to just take some time, reset so I COULD give my authentic self to others and I think this year was just that. I am feeling better and ready to get back at it!!
it sounds like you’ve been going through so much this year! ❤
i’m getting the vibe that you’re experiencing a lot of grief (your pup, the move, loss of support, etc), which is completely reasonable. keep giving yourself grace, never apologize for how you feel, and I’m sending good energy your way!
I'm so glad you're back! I've missed you!
I totally get the burnout. I think it's a theme for so many in 2023. I've chosen to see it as a push for me to edit what I give my energy to. It's been a HARD year. I feel like 2024 is full of new opportunities. ❤
You have been such such a huge inspiration for me flipping furniture, it is such a nice hobby, and I genuinely appreciate you taking your time to teach us. And I’m so sorry about the burnout . My husband is military and being a stay at home mom and taking care of everything , the burnout it so real
so real!!! don't worry friend you've got this!! and also...thank you for your kind words, it means so so much ❤❤❤❤
What an inspiration you are! Thank you for this video. I too have been going through some anxiety and to see you talk about and share what you are going through is uplifting and making me feel it is just not me.🥰 You have many supporters and we all love you!
So glad you are addressing your needs. I would certainly wait forevermore for YOU!! So happy you're back sister!!
Thankyou for your honesty. I've been inspired by your work so many times but yes, I sometimes stand in my studio and cry for all the sad things going on in my life. My art is my release but in those days, no art happens.
One step at a time and one day at a time. You're going to be ok! ❤❤
We would never leave you! Take the time you need and know we send you love❤
I think it helps me mentally and physically to flip furniture . I get so depressed that i was burnt out on everything. Im a single mom raising an extremely high needs teen boy.. im stepping back in after 3 or 4 months off.. here i am watching who started me on this journey, YOU!!! We need you ❤
I’m so happy to see you. Sometimes life is just hard and it’s so overwhelming but like you said we have to give ourselves time and grace. Take care of yourself your followers understand and are still here for you.
I've missed you. I'm glad to hear that your creative juices are bubbling. Take your time. Look after you. You inspire me. Hugs.
You seem to be handling the transition fairly well. Putting yourself first was the first step. After all you can’t help others if you can’t help yourself. I think you have made the right decisions. Keep on keeping on. Thank you for your inspiration.
Thank you for sharing real life. We've all been there. Give yourself the time and grace you need. We love you and we'll all be here when the time is right for you. I'm praying for you, I care about you, and you are not alone. Merry Christmas!
so nice to see your face & hear you are doing ok! Baby steps! Take care of you first...we'll be here to appreciate your many gifts when you are ready to create & share again!
This New Yorker is here to staaaaaaay!!!! Sorry to hear about your struggles and losses but glad to hear you are on the mend. We forget sometimes to take care of ourselves, so please do just that. Looking forward to 2024 and all you bring with it!❤
Pam!!!!!! I still need to get to NYC!!! you are only like 5 hours form me and Roxlyn has always wanted to go!!! ALSO THANK YOU, I appreciate you more than I could ever say!
@@BellaRenovare Roxlyn will absolutely love it!!! It's over the top and definitely a great experience. Hop, skip, and a jump away!!! Five hours is really not that terrible. Rob and I live in Staten Island, one of the five NYC Boroughs. We don't travel to Manhattan often but it's only about 20 mins. Hope you visit soon!
Appreciate your honesty and authenticity. Glad to hear you again. Take it slow and find your footing again
I’ve missed you and your honesty.
Burn out in life is real, I’ve been struggling for years but this last 10 months have broke me.
I’m starting to look at life differently again and I actually an happy more often than not these days.
A good husband, a good friend, a good therapist and also a good dog help me.
Glad your back.
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Sometimes you need to just ramble. I have been where you are at. So u ramble when you need to. Glad to see you hang in there. It will come back stronger
Just stumbled upon your channel. So sorry for your loss. Thank you for being so candid. I am much older than you but can totally relate. I was listening to Mel Robbins this AM and she said something that resonated. When we want to be happy, life gives us something hard. When we want to be peaceful, life gives us chaos. It's to teach us how to overcome and move forward. Don't give up on your dreams. They are the most important thing. That was the jist. She also said,
"Let your light shine so brightly, that you illuminate a pathway for others to find their way out of the darkness!” - Dr. Stacey A. Maxwell
Give yourself grace when down. And think of yourself as a light! Sending you good juju for 2024 and beyond!
I wish I was in Maine and could take you out to lunch!!! I'm sooo sorry you have had a rough year!!! You are always honest & real with us. We want your heart to be happy in whatever life decisions you choose. I can tell you it makes my heart Happy to hear you are back!!! I'm a stay-at-home at home Mom who should get a real "job"but would rather paint but gather my supplies & daily struggle with what color to paint & sit there paralyzed and don't paint anything. I personally need you in my life to light that spark deep inside of me so I can maybe someday be able to paint furniture as beautiful as you do!!! Thank you, thank you, thank you for always being you & we are lucky that you bring us along with you on all of your journeys!!!!! 🤗💖
So glad it’s back
me tooooooo!!! Thank you for being here!!!
So happy to see you again! Life is not always easy... take your time to recover.
Thank you so much for sharing! I have learned that it is never easy to open up one's experience with burnout and admire you for sharing the importance of recognizing and taking care of our health and well-being! Wishing you all the best! 💖
I am so sorry that all happend to you but I am glad you back merry Christmas ❤
hey you grow through what you go through right??? thank you so so much!! Merry Christmas :)
I love you so much girl! You have always been so real and honest. Do what you need to do. So Many transitions at once and the unknown and the military to civilian life is overwhelming. Sometimes you need to give yourself grace and a mental health break.
love you friend!! thank you for always being here for me ❤️❤️❤️
Subscriber for life, you are an inspiration for me! take your time, we will all still be here when your ready
Thank you for sharing your journey. I have experienced that burnout as well. I’ve been creating pop up cards for the last 8 years and found myself not wanting to create anything. I found your channel and, through your inspiration, started painting furniture. I have a renewed heart. I may keep my card business going, but your inspiration buoys me and it may turn into a new path. I learn SO much from you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you for being a bright light in our world; especially mine.
I’m so happy to see you and have missed you! We are here for you ❤
You really need to look after yourself first.
So good to see you back💜🕉
Crys'Dawna, I'm happy that you're back, too. My husband retired 13 months ago with no real plan for what to do with his time, and it has been disconcerting (to say the least) for both of us, and rather soul-crushing for me. I'm just exhausted at having to make up things for him to do in a day, and my own creativity? Pffttt. Just not there. And disheartened that I have 100 ideas but not excited about any of them. So I do get it. ❤
I 1 million times understand this. It's like the pressure of his happiness is put all on you. It's a lot to take on and still maintain YOUR creativity and happiness. That is also something I didn't address is the transition for him, they have. sense of purpose and direction and then retirement sounds great until reality sets in and it's like what do I do now? It has gotten better but I think that's another thing we don't talk about is how after retirement many people their sense of "worth" or "purpose" and it falls on the loved ones to try to pick that person up and it can be very hard. You've got this.
For both of you ladies, please try to remember that the ONLY thing in life that you can control is yourself. It’s truly not on you to map out your respective husbands’ next chapter - they MUST take that burden on themselves. It is a burden, unknown and scary, but you can’t walk that walk for them. You obviously love them, and truly want them to be happy, fulfilled, and feel supported, but it’s on them to figure out what’s next. The ‘after retirement’ issue is SO incredibly overlooked and millions of folks are unexpectedly thrown into actual depression when their life’s ‘meaning’ is over. People are meant to work, to feel fulfilled with purpose, to contribute, etc. Once your work life is over, it’s crazy to think total laziness and never-ending golf is the path forward (it most often brings misery after a time). I have a book called “Don’t retire, REWIRE” - which is something all ‘working’ people should think about as they approach retirement… But, you must protect and take good care of yourselves too - their retirement is not actually your problem to solve! Be thinking about your OWN next chapter before you find yourselves in the same spot. This is said with all due love, respect and understanding - as women this is often a hard balance. Remember to put on your own mask first! Good (best) luck!!😘 (I found a good therapist and even took an anti-depressant for a time until I leveled out my boundaries)… life is SO hard sometimes. I’m glad you shared Cry’s Dawna!
@@datachickatl4092 Thank you so much for your reply, your insight makes a lot of sense to me. No one really talks about this issue, do they? Well, I think we SHOULD!
@@BellaRenovare Thank you so much. I can only imagine that retirement from military life, leaving behind the structure and support system, moving halfway around the world, even IF it's actually moving back home, making the new house a home for your family, and so sorry for the loss of your beloved pupper ... that's a lot of really HUGE life changes in a short time. You've held it together so much more gracefully than I would have in that situation. I know you've got this, too . But it's not easy, is it?
I've recently discovered you. I love your energy and totally understand this years trials for you. Whatever you do you'll be valuable just being you! It's hard to get back on a wagon sometimes. I wish you well you are an asset to our community just remember that. You don't always have to perform ❤❤❤
Thank you so much! I am so glad you found me!!! I am just so glad to have such an amazing community of people in my life!!
Happy to see you back!! Sending prayers and love to you. Take all the time you need.... ❤
Mate, I can totally relate to this! Thank you for sharing. This year has been one of the hardest for me in business and even more so personally. I’ve lost more people dear to me in one year than I have in my lifetime and it’s rough! Business is suffering because of my personal life but I’m still going.
So, so glad to see you back❣️My heart hurts for your loss😢 Hang in there. Moving is a major stressor for sure. You’ll have your local support people very soon, I’m sure of it !
You’re such a sweetheart ❤ I hope you saw the orb that showed it self at 8:54. 🙏🏻 God Bless you and your family. All great things to come ❤
It’s still here and really happy to see you again! Welcome back. ❤
Being burned out really sucks and I’m really proud of you working your way through this. I wish you and your family a very Merry Christmas and a wonderful 2024❤️❤️❤️
thank you so much friend!! I am ready to rock it and get back to what I love and being able to give back and teach!!! Merry Christmas!!!
Thank you for sharing this. Having had a couple of major burnouts I know the best thing is to stop, take care of yourself, rest & heal. Then when you are ready you get insired for the next part of life. Blessings for you & your family.
I really missed you & your beautiful work & your soulful self. I'm so happy to know that you are taking care of yourself. You really needed that time for your healing & learning about yourself. I've been through so many similar things. In the end, our souls grow & it looks & sounds like you are stronger than ever. Bless you!💖☺️❤️Thank you for sharing with everyone. I'm sure that your positivity & openness has helped many of your followers. I'm sorry that you had to go through, so much.💖☺️❤️
That’s A Lot on your plate! Happy to see you’re rebounding❣️
It is really good to see you back. Thank you for being open and honest about your struggle. There are so many aspects to this life and they all overlap and impact each other. I am glad to hear that you were able to successfully step back and reset yourself like you needed. Your faithful followers are still here and look forward to what you will create and share with us going forward. Take care and happy holidays ❤️🎄😊
HELLO! This really resonated with me - so thank you. My mantra is 'this too shall pass'. We lost my Dad unexpectedly in October in the midst of a family wedding (10 days after he passed) and a birth (9 days after he passed). With organising a funeral and trying to support each other through "stuff", the emotional toll is exhausting and real - AND then there's the grief........
Thanks Crys'Dawna! You rock!!
So glad you made this video. I have been concerned since I have not seen you in a while. You should put yourself first and we will definitely wait on you and will support your channel
Yeah, it's all about re- balancing when things go sideways. Not easy, like one & done, more like life is a blue run and we're on a snowboard hoping we get the hang of it before the next turn.
I'm glad softball helped you manage your curveballs 😆. I moved back home to CO within two weeks of your big move back to Maine. Like you, a major life shift (though very different circumstances). I've never given myself more grace than I have the past 12 months. Maybe not great financially, but I needed to "find myself", my center again. I hope the same is coming into focus for you. Love yourself, love your life. Great to see you here today, pal! Wishing you all the best.
#gratitude is key
I totally understand feeling burned out like not having any inspiration I used to paint daily on canvas then all of a sudden boom!! It stopped people letting me down stayed with painted pieces I literally snapped I slaughtered my paintings from being frustrated . So I knew I needed to create something so I wouldn't get rusty lol pottery and concrete and clay were my escape from my burn out. You are a very talented lady that has lots to offer heck your blending skills are amazing so we welcome you back with open arms . You got this ❤
Ohhh, it was so good to hear this, Crys'Dawna. I have been struggling with burnout for the last couple of years when we moved across the country, but especially this year. I haven't painted or been very active in my business, and it makes me sad. Hearing what you're going through truly inspires me and gives me courage to keep going. ❤
I see orbs flying around you too! You should watch the end of your video!!! Alot of people believe these are spirits and you had quite a few flying around you and welcome back!!! Looking forward to seeing what you do with paint next!
Thank you for sharing, we all feel burdened through out our lives, it makes us human, it's what we chose to do with them makes us better humans. God Bless 🙏 prayer s for you.
Thank you for honesty so much of what you said also resonated with mg life too. Glad that everything is moving in the right direction may it only continue ❤
ooh friend!! you are amazing. Thank you for always being so kind and supportive. I hope you are doing amazing :)
Ánimo, seguimos aquí apoyándote!! Gracias por compartir tu experiencia
Happy to see you! Take care of you and family 💙 We’ll be here
Good for you to take some time for yourself to heel and recocer.. life goes on my dear..
Welcome back 💚
Sooo happy you are back! I was missing you❤ you’ll be fine. Big Hugs from Italy
Welcome back. Missed you!
I’m so glad you did a ten minute video
Me too! Burned out on life!! 😢 thank you so much for this ❤❤❤
When I saw the orbs, I immediately thought of your beloved Cannon. He was dancing around you and trying to cheer you up with his beautiful light. He'll always be with you. So glad to see you back Crys. You've been missed. Life is a rollercoaster, with good times and rough ones. You'll be fine. Blessings to you and your family. We are here for you.
That’s how my life is going at the moment so thank you for sharing ❤
You've got this friend, I PROMISE IT WILL GET BETTER ❤❤❤
So appreciate your sharing your journey! It is a real thing and I can definitely relate. Keep doing you! Love all you do!
Yes! My circumstances are different but the resulting burnout is similar. Lost my mom, 2 cats, had a crippling health issue, turned 69, retired… all the safe guards dropped and dangerous cliff-sides abound! I agree taking a life break can help with creative burnout and blocks. If I had the means, I would take a couple of months off in some sort of pampered resort, where other people cooked, served me food and lovely drinks, and offered me easy, fun activities, like swimming in the warm Mediterranean. I feel better just thinking about it! Thanks for your honesty and please know that we here deeply appreciate you.
Good to see you, we are here for you!
Authenticity is what enables true connection and is something we all seek and appreciate. Thanks so much for sharing. You have always been and remain inspiring ❤
thank you so so much. Thank you for your beautiful words ❤️❤️
Glad to see and hear from you. You are one of my favorite artists here on you tube. Looking forward to seeing more of your masterpieces!
I needed this message, more than you know. Sending you love.
😍😍😍Love seeing your face, sorry about you dog. I understand about burnout. prayers
Gotta take care of yourself, great to see you!
You are AMAZING! You continue to teach us regardless of circumstance. What you have been going through is huge. Thank you for taking care of yourself and facing this pain head on. The message of being gentle with ourself is of paramount importance. It is so good to see you again! Excited for what is yet to come! Again… THANK YOU! B~}
💝 learning from you so happy that ypu are back🙏💞💞
Hell yeah good for you for putting yourself first..Life is so hard. I lost my bf 2.5 years ago. And finally I decided to adopt again to invest all my love into my newest baby. She’s 2.5 yrs old and has the same smile as my Bono did. This Aussie girl is the sweetest and timid soul. I have missed you. I’m only a message away … just to vent to an outsider. lol.
For some reason there is no comment bar so I'm hopping on someones comment. We will be here. You are the best of the best in my book so I will show up to see what you are doing. I certainly hope thing just keep getting better and better. So hard to lose Cannon. I'm pulling for you!
you are amazing!! thank you for always being so loving and kind, it means more than I can ever tell you. Rupert and Stanley have really helped heal my heart and I see a lot of cannon in both of them but I still miss cannon so so much.
Ahh I’ve missed your content! It’s good to see you post again, even if it isn’t about working on a piece. Your work is a huge inspiration to me, I’m working on actually applying techniques I’ve learnt from you and others!
Also, that wardrobe behind you, I’m still obsessed with it’s one of my favourite pieces you’ve done!
As an airforce spouse coming back from overseas, I totally get it. There is a huge support system and to leave a base and go straight to a state without that community you're used to having around you, can be very lonely. We all go through it to some extent. Glad you are coming back, your videos have been missed by many. Do you feel like a military retiree yet 😁?
Hallelujia, woman! I really missed it...missed your personality and good sense. Sending good vibes and huge hugs!
Thank you. Thank you! Thank you!
I understand 100%. I am on a break from furniture over the holiday.
So wonderful to see you. It’s horrible that you have had to go through this turmoil. I’ve experienced some of the same and it’s not easy to come to terms with or talk about. I’m so happy that you are on the mend and things are improving. It’s a cliché, but take each day as it comes, and hopefully take comfort that your followers are rooting for you. I look at my bedroom with its colour and painted furniture and thank you for all the inspiration you provided for me to achieve it. Take care. X
I so needed to hear this. Thanks for telling Me that’s ok to feel this way sometimes. I’m so glad you’re better and back! Happy Holidays! 🥰
You take all the time you need, to find yourself back. My last 2 years have been horrible, so I can relate to what you are feeling, just put yourself and your family first😊. I am a die hard fan😅😊 so I will keep on following you, for no matter how long it takes for you to be back ❤ ( or maybe not, if you will desite that you need to start a new chapter in life) do what ever it takes to make yourself be happy again, life is too short to feel miserable. Live your life and feel great and happy❤
I hope you’re all doing well and everything goes smoothly for you and your family. Take care of yourself and your family first and then everything else will fall into place. Take care ❤✌🏽😇
I loved the ramble ❤ welcome back!
Welcome back! Have a good year!
I will follow you no matter what. I began watching your channel because I was in exactly the same place you were. Lost my husband and best friend after a brutal 17 month fight with cancer. Retired to be with my husband. So I was separated from my work family and severe loss of socialization. It seemed like only people we saw were health care professionals. He passed suddenly in my arms at only 66 and my best friend of over 40 years was gone. My life was not going to be what I had expected. Then here came Covid. I was paralyzed. I’ve been an artist all my life and I could NOT have a creative thought much less make something. You helped me so much. I began to paint a few things I had lying around. Then I began looking for more treasures to transform. I truly love the search and have scored some amazing finds. And some real duds. I learned a lot from you and some other RUclips furniture artists. I enjoyed transforming them into works of art. I have gradually moved more towards my old pursuits of painting and jewelry making. It has been a process.
You helped me so much in my healing journey. I wish I could do something to help you. I have a lot (I mean a garage FULL) of furniture that still needs a new life. If you would like some of it please let me know. Just know it will get better. I will follow your channel if you paint furniture or bake cookies.
Glad things are looking up. Burnout is real.
so so sooooo real!!
Non preoccuparti….i tuoi follower ti aspetteranno. Grazie per l’onesta e non far sembrare sempre tutto bello e facile nella vita. Brava!
Glad you are back. I'm sorry you had a rough year. This year has been hard for us too. We lost our dog Jack. He was very special to us and we were heartbroken. I also had to help my friend who was battling cancer and sadly she lost that battle December 1. I have always been creative and I haven't been able to do any of that. I told my husband I felt like I was walking in a fog and just going through the motions of life. Good things have happened because we were given the opportunity to adopt a little dog that had been abandoned at our vets. Our support system are the people in our small community that came together to help when our friend went on hospice. We all took turns caring for her and her little dog in the end and supported each other. The dog has gone to a good home and for that I'm grateful. Sometimes life is hard but this year has really kicked us in the teeth but we will get through it.
ooh I am so so sorry :( You are right sometimes life is hard but we've got this!!! What is your new pups name?? You know they say that your animals find you, maybe it was fate :)
@@BellaRenovare His name is Bobby. He gets along great with our other little dog Ruby and he's a sweetheart. Ruby and Bobby are both 9 years old so it all worked out. My husband is in his 70's and I'm in my late 60's so we wanted an older dog because the thought of leaving pets behind if something should happen wasn't acceptable to us. These will probably be our last dogs because of our age. Bobby got a good home and Ruby has another companion (she was very sad about Jack).
I was so glad to see that you posted a 10 minute tuesday! I looked forward to these videos and love it when they are longer than 10 minutes. I literally gasped and teared up when you mentioned losing Cannon. It's so hard losing them, especially when its unexpected 😢 Im.so glad you took time for yourself. ❤ Merry Christmas!