Exactly. I won’t forget when I was 20 years old. I had no job, no money and was living with my mother. I tried with all my might to change my life and put a lot of effort to where I am now by looking for jobs constantly. I now work several jobs and moved out of my mother’s home. No way did I get into a relationship with some single mother. I had to work on myself and it seems to me that this guy didn’t do anything to change it. I hope that everything worked out for this woman in the end.
LADIES: If a man cheats, lies, steals, abuses you....Dont use "We have kids" to stay wiht him. Yes, a Broken home can affect a child. But a man cussing, name calling, abusing you, etc... affects them 100% worse and can make them think that is how it is supposed to be....so they end up in that situation to
When I was married to the girl's dad he abuse me for 23 years, when the abuse didn't stop I divorced him. The abuse hurt me, destroyed my love for him,it ended our marriage. I was always the blame in his mind . After he abuse me he would apologize to me, say that he loved me,I knew that it wasn't love when he abused me. My oldest daughter asked me if I would go back to him,I looked at her are you crazy? Never ever would I go back to the abuse.
Let’s pause and take a moment for security guy Mike. The way he stepped up on Keneth when he threw that chair on pure instinct, was wonderful. Steve even had to call him off. I love seeing REAL men stand up to POS males.
Please 🙏 Steve. Let me have five minutes with this bum. This sorry excuse for a man.It would be the last time he even consider hitting a woman. Trust me.
I agree My sister dated a POS alcoholic who suffered from trauma, had a criminal background and he stomped her when she was pregnant with his child. I am so glad my dad, my former Army brother and the police kicked him out. I lost any and all respect for men after that, it takes a lot for me to respect a man after that incident.
And depending on how fragile his ego really is, Steve just put a target on that child's head for the crime of being better at something than him. Unless you've been in these situations, you really can't understand the depths of selfish immaturity that drives people to attack others. Go watch the scene from The Incredibles where mom tells the kids that the bad guys won't show restraint, and recognize that if a cartoon can be that forward, maybe you need to wise up before jumping on a band wagon and celebrating some kid becoming the next scapegoat.
Girl, you are 💯 percent correct. Men like that never change! I’m very sorry you went through relationship abuse twice. As a guy, I don’t like boys and men that bully and pick on women. If guys are REAL men they treat women with respect and dignity. I admire women and love it when they take their power back. I hope you’re doing great now!
@@baehelptai He's scared of everything, that's why he's like that. He knows he is thoroughly incapable of being a real man. He's like a chihuahua, shouting real loud at everyone because they know they're the smallest and weakest
I wish I had a father like Steve, he's so very protective of the most vulnerable guests, his kids are going to be outstanding adults with Steve and his wife as examples 💝
I hate toxic abusive relationships and the worst part is there’s a child in the middle of it like that’s ridiculous . And the simple fact that the son tries to protect his mother from the abusive father it’s brave and sad because no child should witness any of that abuse .
Women who allow their kids to live in these abusive situations need to give themselves a good hard talking to. Get out of there for the sake of your kids!!
My mum suffered years of domestic abuse and even after she eventually left my brother suffered for years. He had to see a child psychologist at 5 yrs old and unfortunately my brother became an abuser. It took him actually meeting someone that he respects to make him stop. He hasn't lifted his hand for over 10 yrs now. I suffered 10 yrs of domestic abuse and it took him smacking my son that made me leave. I can choose. My son can't. The day I left I watched the clock go round for 20 minutes while he BATTERED me senseless while my 4 yr old son sat screaming and my 6 month old was a foot away in his seat. I'm proud to say that I brought my two beautiful boys up by myself and they would NEVER raise a hand to a woman. They despise the man their father is. My youngest son has nothing to do with him, my oldest does for his daughters sake. It takes time but you can eventually get away. There is many agencies that are there to help. Please leave before it's too late xx
True Fact: Momma's Boys usually tend to seek out relationships thinking they will be catered to and taken care of, etc... by others like their momma's did, only to find out it doesn't work.
So true, my dad was a big-time mama's boy. Even though she allowed my dad to get abused/ sexually molested by his stepdad. She never took him to a doctor, or therapist, never called the cops nothing. He grew up to be abusive and he not only neglected me and abused me from time to time, screaming at me when I cried sometimes. He also didn't treat my mom right and didn't take care of her. Abusive patterns repeat 99% of the time. That is my point.
I do not understand why people think the DNA dad has to be in a kids life. DNA does not make you a real dad. Being a dad makes you a real dad. I hope she leaves him forever.
EXACTLY!!!!! My "step dad" who I call my dad stepped up and took me on as his child. My bio father is and has been nowhere near me since my mum was 6 months pregs
If the biological father was worth a crap it wouldn't be a topic for discussion. It's about pride, responsibility, and accountability. It tells you a lot about a man's character. You also have to consider a biological father's rights to be with their child (in the cases where the father wants to play an active role in their child's life).
16:51 Steve Wilkos: Does anybody in here feel sorry for this guy? Audience: NO! 16:58 Steve Wilkos: We're gonna take a little clown break right now & you're gonna go offstage. Me: 😆😆😆😆😆
She looks like she is 50 yrs old. Steve is right she needs to pick better guys. She put her kids thru hell for nothing. She's a grown mature woman. She needs to concentrate on raising her kids.
She looked a lot much older than what she said she is and saw this thick young dude thinking she's going to have an awesome sex life with him and trap him with a pregnancy because he probably doesn't have any kids so by him being so immature and acted like one of her kids she got fed up with him and now she doesn't want him in her life so she reacts like she's the victim not knowing what to do to get away from the relationship so she comes on Steve's show for help when all she had to do was tell him to leave and break up with him and he would've left just like he did it on the show.
Yes I hate it when women bring a worthless much younger man into their children's lives if they want to run around like that then do it outside your home and away from your kids
Why the hell does women stay with men like this? Hoping they'd change? They will never change, no matter how many times they say they will. Abusers are cowards
@@Olliethekiller idc how much I'm in love with someone, hitting/abusing me is one thing, but hitting/abusing my kids is totally different. His @$$ be locked up
@@WVnurseJo the abuse isn't immediate. They tell you sweet nothings and love bomb you , then they start isolating you from your family. Convince you that you should be taking care of the kids , which leads to financial dependency. Then they start degrading you , then they start beating you. It's a progress that starts years after dating or months after . It's not immediately
Abusers mostly manipulate their victims so they become dependent on them. It’s a slow process, they pretend to be loving and sweet. Then the abuse starts
1st ~ "I don't know what he's capable of" is all the reason to keep him away from your child. 2nd ~ She allowed him to reside with her that long without income. He got comfortable. She came to her senses ( a bit too late) & he is now bewildered.
It's never too late. She could have been scared to do anything. We don't know what we would really do until we are in that situation. She's just 21. She has so much time to really make a good life. And hopefully leaving this clown behind is just the beginning for her. I'm just happy she came to her senses.
My ex husband call me a hoe - so yeah - I feel for this mom ! Bless you Steve - I agree with you Steve! My dad is my hero too ! He was a Vietnam vet and a school teacher - my not be a cop (but was like your dad - installed values and morals in you Steve ) bless you for putting this jerk in his place !!
As much as I hate the behavior of these men, I have to wonder how they were raised? What abuse could have happened to them to think it’s okay to act this way? Little chub 20 yr old thought he found a free ride with her. Who taught him that?
@@somebody9140 guess you're friends with this type of dude?? Smh this dude is a scumbag and of course it's only a woman fault. Not thit father's or other men... Just women SURE. No it's HIS fault he's a pos
I'm trying to shorten this as much as possible, the look in his face, and the quietness spoke volumes over him running his mouth, it screamed Steve I need help, but he was afraid to say it, you could see it clearly the way he shook his at head Steve when he asked him deep questions, he stopped mouthing Steve, and I believe he backed down from trying to be rude to Steve because he was only doing it to look good on TV to begin with, but that truth hit him, and I could tell he really did want Steve to help him he was afraid, but no man is going to stand there and take all of that and back off of going off, unless he has gotten to that stage of coming out of denial and wanting help just ashamed to say it aloud, I believe that he wasn't a waste of time for Steve to spend time with him, and I believe we'll hear from him again, for the girl she may never go back to him because some things you just can't repair the damage, and then again he may straighten up because I don't really think she wants to leave him. She just ran out of options and desperately called Steve. In the end either way I feel glad that she's going to get the help. I do hope if he is reading this message that he does reach out to Steve and get help for himself because I think he can change with some tough love that Steve gave him and I think he was ready for it he just was right there at that point of breaking and saying I need help and it just wasn't enough time on the show alone for it to get done. But his facial expression was priceless the way he shook his head quietly and nodded several times yes. They said the brain can lie but the body language cannot so all of that stuff he was putting out there was coming out of his mouth. But his body language told what was really going on with him he wanted to stay and figure out what the hell is wrong with him and how can it change it. I pray for them both I really do
Change is the best choice of ALL!! Alot of abusive people will have babies to trap the other partner... break free ladies.. your so much more worthy of genuine love then you realize!!
As horrible as it must be to lose a baby. Let alone twins, the mental pain alone must be unimaginable. A tiny shining glimmer cones from the fact she isn't tied to this asshole for life and she didn't have to raise even more children under the horrible situation she was in. But of course I wish she had her babies :'(
Yes losing twins is very painful mentally more than physically but Yes it was a horrible experience but a blessing for her to get away from this crazy kid he's not a man and it's kinda her fault for getting involved with a 20 year when she's a 35 year old woman who has a 16 year old daughter wow her man is 4 years older than her daughter that's disgusting sorry but she should have known better and she should have put her children first and I don't think she's innocent in all that
What I hate in most about abusive relationships is that after all this effort they'll still run right back to the abuser, keep crying and complaining then worst of all bringing more babies into this craziness
Well if it's that deep into the abuse then it's their fault for staying as long as they did. I'm sorry thats not an excuse. When it comes down to it the kids are the ones who suffer the most they watch that and then think it's ok when in reality it isn't. Women need to gain some self worth and show themselves they can leave. File charges and actually go through with it, don't go and bail them out thinking things will be ok come that night.
@@ItsAllLove4Real Thank you. People don't understand this until they've been through it. I was in an abusive relationship, went through with filing charges like a lot of ppl suggest, his grandma bailed him out, he found my daughter and I, threatened to kill her and I both if I didn't get back with him, etc. Trauma bonding is also a real thing, there's a psychology involved in this, it's much more than "Just leave". Also the law is not on your side in DV situations, it doesn't hold them accountable like it should. The woman eventually gets to a point where she finds a safe way to get herself and her children out of it, she just has to go through the process of it. It's easy to cast judgement and say all the stuff you "should do", so seeing someone with an understanding perspective like yours is refreshing, thank you for that.
@@jeno7788 don't even go there. I left my ex husband after the FIRST hit. People like you need to Stop making excuses for the victims and instead put the effort into shaming them enough to make them LEAVE. PERIOD. The main issue is these women care more about that live-in peen than they do the safety of their own children. THAT is why most stay. A person who is TRULY scared, will risk their lives to LEAVE. So the whole I'm too scared to leave crap is bogus
@@somebody9140 I completely agree. There is so many ways to get put of those situations now days. That person has to want to do it and stop with all the excuses. When it comes to my kids I'll do whatever.
On the real as a black woman talking to the rest of the black women: YOU NEVER EVER EVER EVER PUT A MAN BEFORE YOUR CHILDREN!!! NEVER DO THAT! I have a son and I NEVER put his father before my son in my entire life. When I was growing up, I've seen my own mother put my father before us kids and it made me very angry and bitter. So, I learned from my mom's mistake what to do and what NOT to do when you have children because they're going to remember that for the rest of their lives and let's just hope and pray that it won't destroy them because it almost destroyed me. Take heed of this message. I love all of you black queens 👑💖🌹
This is a message for ALL WOMEN ill NEVER run after a man before taking care of my own babies if my babies don't like you then you gotta go point blank period
I understand why friends and family will stop getting involved because 9/10 they'll go right back to the abuser then get mad at you for trying to help them. I have a relative going through this but if we step in she will go defend him, when we try to help. It's sad to watch honestly. All it takes is one hit in the wrong place which can lead to it becoming fatal. To everyone men & women please pay attention to red flags & LISTEN because your friends & family especially your mother can see things you can't see!!!!
It doesn't work. My relative would say "he changed." He changed since last week when he knocked your head off the wall? Finally we said fuxk it, and went along with it. The more we told her we accepted him, the better. I could see the disgust on her face if I pointed out what a wonderful person he is. When I would tell her the truth- he's a loser- she defended him. Once I went along with the "changed" bs, and told her how great he is, she couldn't take it. Try pretending to like him, mamas. It's the worst thing you could do to their relationship. ;)
It’s funny to me how all these guys say well, you know I have a temper and I can’t control it but yet Steve is in their faces making jokes at their expense,and they hold their temper just fine with him
Honestly, I wish Steve was my friend! He is such an amazing advocate for the abused, and is such an empathetic person! I watch the show because I really admire him and the way he goes straight to the truth of the matter. We could ALL use a Steve in our lives!
🤣 Sorry this Is so long... My Dr. says "you know what I'm saying, huh?" after every single sentence and he's the type but I love him. On Dec. 9th 2021 we found I had cancer, after he sent me straight to the emergency roomand they started to run test all over me.. I swear I never knew anything was even wrong with me but I am pretty much ate up with it, it's called small lung cell cancer. I woke up on 9th and my right leg wouldn't move and it still doesn't move when I stand up.. Come to find out I had 2 strokes and didn't even know.. crazy as it is, if not for the strokes that affected my leg, I probably would have died before the week was out I have brain, spine, lungs and liver cancer. When I we t back the next month he hugged me the second he came into the room.
@@brittany7jeffrey4I'm so sorry. Your in my heart and prayers. Keep fighting. My brother had it for about 2 years. Said it was clear through his body. They took some out of his brain. They said it was like mold spreading. But he even had it come outside of his neck. If he had done his treatments I feel he'd made it longer. So please do all you can. Get what years you can. Your in my heart and prayers. Hugs
Derrick The Clown was so silly. 😆 I'm laughing at him because he made himself look like a damn fool in front of Steve Wilkos & the studio audience but what he did to abuse his lady Karmela was still really sad. 😢
Steve needs to tell these women the truth. They are BAD mothers! If you keep your child in an abusive, dysfunctional chaotic environment, you are a child abuser. Period. You belong in jail. Also, stop using these kids as excuses to fulfill your own selfish desires. You don't care ab your kid having a father. You care ab your own sick relationship. It's pathetic and blatantly obvious.
I noticed back stage when Steve was asking him why he called a 6 yr old ??? he made excuses then said "I don't lie " but he lied to her about his age etc....
The final straw for me in my relationship was when my two year old son jumped in between us and started pushing and hitting his dad, trying to get him away from me. 🥺 I had him leave the next day and never let him back.
She needs to move to a state with a castle doctrine (the second woman does). That way the police will remove any adult who's name is not on the lease from her residence and not require her to go through the courts to evict him.
Pray to GOD this young beautiful woman left this abusive evil man!!!!! I have NO DOUBT, if she left him, she and her children are thriving!!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I was raised the same way. But I got very lucky. I was 15 and my husband was 16 when we started dating. We dated n lived together 6 years. Git married we are 64 n 65 now and still happily married. We have never hit on each other.
Let me share something with yall. When black people say get him Steve, thats much respect for Steve Wilko and the work he does We Love You Steve 👍❤️👍❤️
I was in a controlling and abusive relationship for 8 years. These people get worse and worse over time and will never change. I actually fear for this woman's safety after she left the show. Hopefully she's safe now. In situations like this i am so glad she was able to get out without children tying her to him forever. These kinds of men TRY to trap you with a baby!
Put your own needs and ego aside and just raise your kids. Keep it separated folks, date your romantic interest for 12-18 mths BEFORE you introduce your kids!
I am not a racist, but there are so many gangtype men who hit their girlfriend on your show Steve.. I just dont get it.. what the f.. is up with these men
I love the first young lady's southern drawl....I'm from the south so it sounds like home. She is so sweet and beautiful, I pray she runs from the circus, she deserves better!!!
She’s pretty, she’s smart, she works and go to school and she has her own house at 21??? Wtf does she need this penny Pinching bum in her life for????
She needs a man to correct here. Sometimes five across the eyes can really help.
@@johnmadsen37 huh?
Because she don't got all that they talking up for tv
@@johnmadsen37 wtf is wrong with you. You don’t smack a woman. Hell you don’t slap anyone.
@@johnmadsen37 what in the fuck, dude?
I loved it when someone in the audience called the 2nd dude a loser right out of nowhere
Yes that was awesome !!!!
Exactly. I won’t forget when I was 20 years old. I had no job, no money and was living with my mother. I tried with all my might to change my life and put a lot of effort to where I am now by looking for jobs constantly. I now work several jobs and moved out of my mother’s home. No way did I get into a relationship with some single mother. I had to work on myself and it seems to me that this guy didn’t do anything to change it. I hope that everything worked out for this woman in the end.
Yasssssss I loved it
@@victoriagreywind8444 Period
he deserves an award lol
LADIES: If a man cheats, lies, steals, abuses you....Dont use "We have kids" to stay wiht him.
Yes, a Broken home can affect a child.
But a man cussing, name calling, abusing you, etc... affects them 100% worse and can make them think that is how it is supposed to be....so they end up in that situation to
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When I was married to the girl's dad he abuse me for 23 years, when the abuse didn't stop I divorced him. The abuse hurt me, destroyed my love for him,it ended our marriage. I was always the blame in his mind . After he abuse me he would apologize to me, say that he loved me,I knew that it wasn't love when he abused me. My oldest daughter asked me if I would go back to him,I looked at her are you crazy? Never ever would I go back to the abuse.
Let’s pause and take a moment for security guy Mike. The way he stepped up on Keneth when he threw that chair on pure instinct, was wonderful. Steve even had to call him off. I love seeing REAL men stand up to POS males.
Please 🙏 Steve. Let me have five minutes with this bum. This sorry excuse for a man.It would be the last time he even consider hitting a woman. Trust me.
Love for Video chat and then you shouldn't
I agree
My sister dated a POS alcoholic who suffered from trauma, had a criminal background and he stomped her when she was pregnant with his child. I am so glad my dad, my former Army brother and the police kicked him out.
I lost any and all respect for men after that, it takes a lot for me to respect a man after that incident.
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"So he's more of a man than you are" Brilliant, Steve, you NAILED him on that one.
And depending on how fragile his ego really is, Steve just put a target on that child's head for the crime of being better at something than him. Unless you've been in these situations, you really can't understand the depths of selfish immaturity that drives people to attack others. Go watch the scene from The Incredibles where mom tells the kids that the bad guys won't show restraint, and recognize that if a cartoon can be that forward, maybe you need to wise up before jumping on a band wagon and celebrating some kid becoming the next scapegoat.
I went through this twice! These men DON'T CHANGE!!! The abuse gets worse. Please ladies take your power back and take your children and LEAVE!!!
Girl, you are 💯 correct! They NEVER change...ever.
Girl, you are 💯 percent correct. Men like that never change! I’m very sorry you went through relationship abuse twice. As a guy, I don’t like boys and men that bully and pick on women. If guys are REAL men they treat women with respect and dignity. I admire women and love it when they take their power back. I hope you’re doing great now!
I’m not saying someone like that can’t change but I’ve seen countless men like this and I’ve never seen one change. Run. Never look back.
Women dont change neither ain't always the man's fault
You are absolutely right!! I was married twice and I thank God I never had children with any of them!!
They are such cornballs when they say “This is MY show today!” Whatever dude. 🤦🏽♀️
@Liberalsarelosers get a life dude
If this is his show. Then it's a dummy derrick show
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He really thought Steve was going to be scared of him. Boy if you don't sit yo behind down.
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Steve will put some Paris Island and Camp Geiger on him that he would NEVER forget.
He wasn’t scared of Steve either😂
@@baehelptai He's scared of everything, that's why he's like that. He knows he is thoroughly incapable of being a real man. He's like a chihuahua, shouting real loud at everyone because they know they're the smallest and weakest
@@IamDAFTCHILD nah I’m pretty sure bro tryna blitz sum if it wasn’t national television
That’s exactly what I said 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I wish I had a father like Steve, he's so very protective of the most vulnerable guests, his kids are going to be outstanding adults with Steve and his wife as examples 💝
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One of the realest episodes ever made. When Steve said his son was more of a man then him I felt that.
Then ??????
I hate toxic abusive relationships and the worst part is there’s a child in the middle of it like that’s ridiculous . And the simple fact that the son tries to protect his mother from the abusive father it’s brave and sad because no child should witness any of that abuse .
I hate men who make the male gender look aggressive and violent, I hope men who abuse their partners get consequences for what they've done.
That broke my heart when he said his son was protecting his mother because I can just picture that scenario in my head. Like that is so sad 😢
Women who allow their kids to live in these abusive situations need to give themselves a good hard talking to. Get out of there for the sake of your kids!!
Exactly!!!!😢
"homie the clown is for real" I JUST SCREAMED
I love how Steve Wilkos called Derrick an "In Living Color" character.
He hits his own son what a big fing coward 😤
Me too I damn neared spit my food out
My mum suffered years of domestic abuse and even after she eventually left my brother suffered for years. He had to see a child psychologist at 5 yrs old and unfortunately my brother became an abuser. It took him actually meeting someone that he respects to make him stop. He hasn't lifted his hand for over 10 yrs now. I suffered 10 yrs of domestic abuse and it took him smacking my son that made me leave. I can choose. My son can't. The day I left I watched the clock go round for 20 minutes while he BATTERED me senseless while my 4 yr old son sat screaming and my 6 month old was a foot away in his seat. I'm proud to say that I brought my two beautiful boys up by myself and they would NEVER raise a hand to a woman. They despise the man their father is. My youngest son has nothing to do with him, my oldest does for his daughters sake. It takes time but you can eventually get away. There is many agencies that are there to help. Please leave before it's too late xx
True Fact: Momma's Boys usually tend to seek out relationships thinking they will be catered to and taken care of, etc... by others like their momma's did, only to find out it doesn't work.
So true, my dad was a big-time mama's boy. Even though she allowed my dad to get abused/ sexually molested by his stepdad. She never took him to a doctor, or therapist, never called the cops nothing. He grew up to be abusive and he not only neglected me and abused me from time to time, screaming at me when I cried sometimes. He also didn't treat my mom right and didn't take care of her. Abusive patterns repeat 99% of the time. That is my point.
I love Steve's facial expressions when he's dealing with morons!🥴😕😟😖
He’s dealing with clowns that think it’s funny to abuse women!
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You don't say?
@@Morgans_Mom I do say!
@@anthonyguarino4242 I came to the same conclusion... before my first comment!
@@Morgans_Mom first guy finally admits he is a dummy 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂
I do not understand why people think the DNA dad has to be in a kids life. DNA does not make you a real dad. Being a dad makes you a real dad. I hope she leaves him forever.
EXACTLY!!!!! My "step dad" who I call my dad stepped up and took me on as his child. My bio father is and has been nowhere near me since my mum was 6 months pregs
I agree, but the word your looking for is biological
They shouldn't be having kids full stop. Sick of irresponsible women bringing kids into their shitty lives
Very well said young lady
If the biological father was worth a crap it wouldn't be a topic for discussion. It's about pride, responsibility, and accountability. It tells you a lot about a man's character. You also have to consider a biological father's rights to be with their child (in the cases where the father wants to play an active role in their child's life).
16:51 Steve Wilkos: Does anybody in here feel sorry for this guy?
Audience: NO!
16:58 Steve Wilkos: We're gonna take a little clown break right now & you're gonna go offstage.
Me: 😆😆😆😆😆
She looks like she is 50 yrs old. Steve is right she needs to pick better guys. She put her kids thru hell for nothing. She's a grown mature woman. She needs to concentrate on raising her kids.
All she cared about was scratching her kink with that bbc.... well, she got what she wanted. she should be ashamed of herself.
Exactly.
She looked a lot much older than what she said she is and saw this thick young dude thinking she's going to have an awesome sex life with him and trap him with a pregnancy because he probably doesn't have any kids so by him being so immature and acted like one of her kids she got fed up with him and now she doesn't want him in her life so she reacts like she's the victim not knowing what to do to get away from the relationship so she comes on Steve's show for help when all she had to do was tell him to leave and break up with him and he would've left just like he did it on the show.
Yes I hate it when women bring a worthless much younger man into their children's lives if they want to run around like that then do it outside your home and away from your kids
She doesn’t look 50 it’s the wig
Why the hell does women stay with men like this? Hoping they'd change? They will never change, no matter how many times they say they will. Abusers are cowards
I agree but sometimes that happens when a woman is really in love with someone but I do agree
@@Olliethekiller idc how much I'm in love with someone, hitting/abusing me is one thing, but hitting/abusing my kids is totally different. His @$$ be locked up
@@WVnurseJo yeah
@@WVnurseJo the abuse isn't immediate. They tell you sweet nothings and love bomb you , then they start isolating you from your family. Convince you that you should be taking care of the kids , which leads to financial dependency. Then they start degrading you , then they start beating you. It's a progress that starts years after dating or months after . It's not immediately
Abusers mostly manipulate their victims so they become dependent on them. It’s a slow process, they pretend to be loving and sweet. Then the abuse starts
1st ~ "I don't know what he's capable of" is all the reason to keep him away from your child.
2nd ~ She allowed him to reside with her that long without income. He got comfortable. She came to her senses ( a bit too late) & he is now bewildered.
It's never too late. She could have been scared to do anything. We don't know what we would really do until we are in that situation. She's just 21. She has so much time to really make a good life. And hopefully leaving this clown behind is just the beginning for her. I'm just happy she came to her senses.
My ex husband call me a hoe - so yeah - I feel for this mom ! Bless you Steve - I agree with you Steve! My dad is my hero too ! He was a Vietnam vet and a school teacher - my not be a cop (but was like your dad - installed values and morals in you Steve ) bless you for putting this jerk in his place !!
U deserves more than that girl u are a queen don’t let that trash ruin u!! I hope u are doing fine now
Lol “ I want to know why he is sitting back stage “ Steve
He jumped up!!
As much as I hate the behavior of these men, I have to wonder how they were raised? What abuse could have happened to them to think it’s okay to act this way?
Little chub 20 yr old thought he found a free ride with her. Who taught him that?
Sometimes it’s what they weren’t taught
It's a cycle of violence.
@@epcotman32 FACT
@@shakiramulcahy9069 true.. there isn't always prior abuse which is scary.
@@somebody9140 guess you're friends with this type of dude?? Smh this dude is a scumbag and of course it's only a woman fault. Not thit father's or other men... Just women SURE. No it's HIS fault he's a pos
I'm trying to shorten this as much as possible, the look in his face, and the quietness spoke volumes over him running his mouth, it screamed Steve I need help, but he was afraid to say it, you could see it clearly the way he shook his at head Steve when he asked him deep questions, he stopped mouthing Steve, and I believe he backed down from trying to be rude to Steve because he was only doing it to look good on TV to begin with, but that truth hit him, and I could tell he really did want Steve to help him he was afraid, but no man is going to stand there and take all of that and back off of going off, unless he has gotten to that stage of coming out of denial and wanting help just ashamed to say it aloud, I believe that he wasn't a waste of time for Steve to spend time with him, and I believe we'll hear from him again, for the girl she may never go back to him because some things you just can't repair the damage, and then again he may straighten up because I don't really think she wants to leave him. She just ran out of options and desperately called Steve. In the end either way I feel glad that she's going to get the help. I do hope if he is reading this message that he does reach out to Steve and get help for himself because I think he can change with some tough love that Steve gave him and I think he was ready for it he just was right there at that point of breaking and saying I need help and it just wasn't enough time on the show alone for it to get done. But his facial expression was priceless the way he shook his head quietly and nodded several times yes. They said the brain can lie but the body language cannot so all of that stuff he was putting out there was coming out of his mouth. But his body language told what was really going on with him he wanted to stay and figure out what the hell is wrong with him and how can it change it. I pray for them both I really do
Praise that guy who yelled “Loser!”
She said "he ain't cuz,he steve!!!!"😂 dead!!!!😂
He’s the kind of dude that be bent over in Jail gettin it from the back…
💯
Change is the best choice of ALL!!
Alot of abusive people will have babies to trap the other partner... break free ladies.. your so much more worthy of genuine love then you realize!!
Is none gonna talk about how brave that little boy is in the first story
Or how he could be seriously hurt or killed
And how that pos thought Steve would've been scared of him
Loved it when Steve referred to Derrick as "Homie The Clown".
The second woman brought a curse upon herself by going
with a younger man. It's sad that men treat women this way.
If you are or were abused in a relationship, know you're worth more than these things. value yourselves more. LOVE IS LOUDER!!
Should have ask the 2nd guy, what happened to her car. She needs her car back.
The first dude is a 🤡
The second guy is a 🤡
BOTH ARE CLOWNS
Both are good for nothing, they should have not been on this earth
As horrible as it must be to lose a baby. Let alone twins, the mental pain alone must be unimaginable. A tiny shining glimmer cones from the fact she isn't tied to this asshole for life and she didn't have to raise even more children under the horrible situation she was in. But of course I wish she had her babies :'(
Yes losing twins is very painful mentally more than physically but Yes it was a horrible experience but a blessing for her to get away from this crazy kid he's not a man and it's kinda her fault for getting involved with a 20 year when she's a 35 year old woman who has a 16 year old daughter wow her man is 4 years older than her daughter that's disgusting sorry but she should have known better and she should have put her children first and I don't think she's innocent in all that
I think he is going to kill her. Beware of it. I dont believe him when he said he will leave her alone. He is a coward
@@monicakhedoe7514 Thinking the same thing. He seems like the type.
What I hate in most about abusive relationships is that after all this effort they'll still run right back to the abuser, keep crying and complaining then worst of all bringing more babies into this craziness
It's deeper than that for the majority of abuse victims.
Well if it's that deep into the abuse then it's their fault for staying as long as they did. I'm sorry thats not an excuse. When it comes down to it the kids are the ones who suffer the most they watch that and then think it's ok when in reality it isn't. Women need to gain some self worth and show themselves they can leave. File charges and actually go through with it, don't go and bail them out thinking things will be ok come that night.
@@ItsAllLove4Real Thank you. People don't understand this until they've been through it. I was in an abusive relationship, went through with filing charges like a lot of ppl suggest, his grandma bailed him out, he found my daughter and I, threatened to kill her and I both if I didn't get back with him, etc. Trauma bonding is also a real thing, there's a psychology involved in this, it's much more than "Just leave". Also the law is not on your side in DV situations, it doesn't hold them accountable like it should. The woman eventually gets to a point where she finds a safe way to get herself and her children out of it, she just has to go through the process of it. It's easy to cast judgement and say all the stuff you "should do", so seeing someone with an understanding perspective like yours is refreshing, thank you for that.
@@jeno7788 don't even go there. I left my ex husband after the FIRST hit. People like you need to Stop making excuses for the victims and instead put the effort into shaming them enough to make them LEAVE. PERIOD. The main issue is these women care more about that live-in peen than they do the safety of their own children. THAT is why most stay. A person who is TRULY scared, will risk their lives to LEAVE. So the whole I'm too scared to leave crap is bogus
@@somebody9140 I completely agree. There is so many ways to get put of those situations now days. That person has to want to do it and stop with all the excuses. When it comes to my kids I'll do whatever.
That man ain’t no damn 20. More like 40. They’re both lying about their age.
Ikr. Shes somewhere in her 40s and maybe just enjoyed having a younger man. But hes not 20. Hes got a middle age gut.
Idk my son is in middle school and I swear some of his classmates have full beards and look 30 when they’re 13 lol
Yeah, she looks 45 and he looks 40
These stories break my heart. These dudes need to be in prison
In a mental house
I can't stand toxic relationships like these I wish these women would just leave their husbands and just be on their own
the emojis in the title too funny 😭😭
Far from funny, they childish asf for that.
It is messed up but funny in a dark kind of way lol their social media team definitely knows what they're doing, they prioritize views not compassion
Shit dark asf. 😂🤣
@@tulipw8693 This is how Steve made his name. Off of the misery of others. Its not 1% as bad as Steve on Jerry Springer.
@@tulipw8693 u trippin dis shit Hilarious 🫠🤣💀
On the real as a black woman talking to the rest of the black women: YOU NEVER EVER EVER EVER PUT A MAN BEFORE YOUR CHILDREN!!! NEVER DO THAT! I have a son and I NEVER put his father before my son in my entire life. When I was growing up, I've seen my own mother put my father before us kids and it made me very angry and bitter. So, I learned from my mom's mistake what to do and what NOT to do when you have children because they're going to remember that for the rest of their lives and let's just hope and pray that it won't destroy them because it almost destroyed me. Take heed of this message. I love all of you black queens 👑💖🌹
This is a message for ALL WOMEN ill NEVER run after a man before taking care of my own babies if my babies don't like you then you gotta go point blank period
@@GoldenMonke4561yes it's a beautiful message not sure why it had to be separated to black mothers instead of all mothers but
@@courtneymcleod9028yes it is a beautiful message. But I agree. It should be for all women. They all can do it alone without a man.
Well I'm white and I love you and I'm sorry your mom did that to you. All women should be strong enough to do it without a man and feel like this
I understand why friends and family will stop getting involved because 9/10 they'll go right back to the abuser then get mad at you for trying to help them.
I have a relative going through this but if we step in she will go defend him, when we try to help. It's sad to watch honestly. All it takes is one hit in the wrong place which can lead to it becoming fatal.
To everyone men & women please pay attention to red flags & LISTEN because your friends & family especially your mother can see things you can't see!!!!
It doesn't work. My relative would say "he changed." He changed since last week when he knocked your head off the wall? Finally we said fuxk it, and went along with it. The more we told her we accepted him, the better. I could see the disgust on her face if I pointed out what a wonderful person he is. When I would tell her the truth- he's a loser- she defended him. Once I went along with the "changed" bs, and told her how great he is, she couldn't take it.
Try pretending to like him, mamas. It's the worst thing you could do to their relationship. ;)
He's never gonna change untill he kill you
It’s funny to me how all these guys say well, you know I have a temper and I can’t control it but yet Steve is in their faces making jokes at their expense,and they hold their temper just fine with him
I love how Steve handles everything
lol all these thugs and punks on his show. Those are the best episodes, when these young thugs start copping an attitude with Steve hahaha
Steve willkos is the best he's got a big heart ❤️ 🥰 his wife is very lucky to have someone like Steve I'm so happy that you are helping people..
Honestly, I wish Steve was my friend! He is such an amazing advocate for the abused, and is such an empathetic person! I watch the show because I really admire him and the way he goes straight to the truth of the matter. We could ALL use a Steve in our lives!
Why would you get pregnant again by him if you know how he’s treats both you and his son
She’s absolutely beautiful…. Wouldn’t be long for a real man, to be the father she wants for her Son, and the Husband who would cherish her… !!!!
Good for her. Im glad she was able to have Steve make her voice even stronger. 😁😁😁
'Yes, I know what you are saying, you don't have to keep asking'. - Leopold 'Butters' Stotch
I still love you Butters 😍
Listening to this empty head made me exhausted. Poor Steve trying to talk to this!!
Mum in 1st clip is 💯 for her daughter and grandchildren, love her
"he messed around and got her pregnant" no they messed around and she got pregnant...it takes two to tango
Women get pregnant... her body her choice
Good Mama/Grandma. Wanting to help her Child no matter what or age.
This man should have his parental rights stripped of this 4 year old little boy.
He just needs a free place to live
He's just like a character from boondocks
I think that's what he thought it was, and that's why when he tried to threaten Steve, he was suprised when Steve didn't take the disrespect.
Homie the Clown 😂
Homey don't play that. Homey had class!
She is 35, he is 20. Block him, get a vpo, act like an adult and move on.
The first guy- "you know what I'm saying"
😂🤣😂🤣I know what you're saying!🤣😂🤣😂
Ikr
🤣 Sorry this Is so long... My Dr. says "you know what I'm saying, huh?" after every single sentence and he's the type but I love him. On Dec. 9th 2021 we found I had cancer, after he sent me straight to the emergency roomand they started to run test all over me.. I swear I never knew anything was even wrong with me but I am pretty much ate up with it, it's called small lung cell cancer. I woke up on 9th and my right leg wouldn't move and it still doesn't move when I stand up.. Come to find out I had 2 strokes and didn't even know.. crazy as it is, if not for the strokes that affected my leg, I probably would have died before the week was out I have brain, spine, lungs and liver cancer. When I we t back the next month he hugged me the second he came into the room.
@@brittany7jeffrey4I'm so sorry. Your in my heart and prayers. Keep fighting. My brother had it for about 2 years. Said it was clear through his body. They took some out of his brain. They said it was like mold spreading. But he even had it come outside of his neck. If he had done his treatments I feel he'd made it longer. So please do all you can. Get what years you can. Your in my heart and prayers. Hugs
This is the VERY first episode of The Steve Wilkos Show that I ever saw. July 2011. I’ll never forget it, the rest is history!
I was about to ask if there ever are normal people on this show, but I guess normal people wouldn’t air their dirty laundry on tv😅
"Go on Steve." I love this mama so much LOL She had me dying.
I'm so glad they got those new security guards. They're definitely just as easy on the eyes, as Steve is!!!
Derrick The Clown was so silly. 😆 I'm laughing at him because he made himself look like a damn fool in front of Steve Wilkos & the studio audience but what he did to abuse his lady Karmela was still really sad. 😢
And to Steve tell your dad Thank You For Your Service 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Steve needs to tell these women the truth. They are BAD mothers! If you keep your child in an abusive, dysfunctional chaotic environment, you are a child abuser. Period. You belong in jail. Also, stop using these kids as excuses to fulfill your own selfish desires. You don't care ab your kid having a father. You care ab your own sick relationship. It's pathetic and blatantly obvious.
You know what this show right here taught me..Fathers are important in a child’s life simple
"So he's more of a man than you are"!! Best thing said on this episode!😂
The first story...i love the mom supporting her daughter!
I noticed back stage when Steve was asking him why he called a 6 yr old ??? he made excuses then said "I don't lie " but he lied to her about his age etc....
Wait a minute...she said he was 26 soon to be 27? And she's 20-21? So he was 22-23 messing with a 16-17 year old? Why didn't they bring that up too?
I agree. Why didnt the mom have him arrested back then? She don't like him so she let him be with her under age daughter that long
The final straw for me in my relationship was when my two year old son jumped in between us and started pushing and hitting his dad, trying to get him away from me. 🥺 I had him leave the next day and never let him back.
She needs to move to a state with a castle doctrine (the second woman does). That way the police will remove any adult who's name is not on the lease from her residence and not require her to go through the courts to evict him.
Cops don’t take stalking seriously enough and it pisses me off.
Pot to piss in -- love it !! My mom says this too - bless the mom
LMAOOOO the way he kicked the chair was cringe af. Was someone supposed to be scared ? 😂
Ladies? Please listen to Steve you can stop this if you only just walk away
Steve is the dude!!!
"We are gonna take a little clown break" lollll right lol
Pray to GOD this young beautiful woman left this abusive evil man!!!!! I have NO DOUBT, if she left him, she and her children are thriving!!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I’m glad I was raised to never take no shit from no man 🤣 the single life has always worked for me
I was raised the same way. But I got very lucky. I was 15 and my husband was 16 when we started dating. We dated n lived together 6 years. Git married we are 64 n 65 now and still happily married. We have never hit on each other.
he is embarrassing himself talking all stupid
The black girl has beautiful eyes , she is doing good for herself...she should get rid of that low life
Yes and if you listened to the ages he was with her when she was like 16 and he was about 21. Why didnt the mom stop it then?
Steve: does nothing
Crowd: sttteeeeevvvveeeeeee
Lmao 22:53 Derrick: Running the Streets selling drugs instead of taking care of his family 😅😂
Let me share something with yall. When black people say get him Steve, thats much respect for Steve Wilko and the work he does
We Love You Steve
👍❤️👍❤️
Damn that's a rough ass looking 20
I love Nosey posts for they post exactly how many years, months, the shows we watch are not all t he same. You go Nosey.
I love seeing a strong woman on this show who knows she deserves more especially for her kids
I was in a controlling and abusive relationship for 8 years. These people get worse and worse over time and will never change. I actually fear for this woman's safety after she left the show. Hopefully she's safe now. In situations like this i am so glad she was able to get out without children tying her to him forever.
These kinds of men TRY to trap you with a baby!
I'm sorry you had that happen to you. I'm glad you got away. I hope your safe now and happy.
She needs to file a report about a stolen vehicle. He's gonna be where he needs to be.
Put your own needs and ego aside and just raise your kids. Keep it separated folks, date your romantic interest for 12-18 mths BEFORE you introduce your kids!
Should've told him to give her car back. Bet he'll use it as an excuse to contact her again.
😂😂😂 You sound crazy I never had her car that was almost 20 years ago I was a child dating a old woman who couldn't get a man her own age
Her mother is so relaxing in her chair!!¡! What kind of support. ? Does she really have?
I am not a racist, but there are so many gangtype men who hit their girlfriend on your show Steve.. I just dont get it.. what the f.. is up with these men
Steve had patients not to hit him after the guy called Steve’s dad a pig
I love the first young lady's southern drawl....I'm from the south so it sounds like home. She is so sweet and beautiful, I pray she runs from the circus, she deserves better!!!
Thank you for the uploads! Keep em coming! 👍
You need to just look after yourself and your children nothing else matters.