Me, who can easily tell my parents footsteps and has a small blanket with which I sleep with to be comfortable but also have literally the best parents ever: w h a t
It isnt considered s*lf h*rm, please dont listen to the misinformation in some of these videos. S*lf h*rm is having the urge and intent to inflict pain on your body.
@@pearleaf3052 no problem man!! Be careful with whats said on the internet as it can be misinformation, if you have a feeling somethings wrong please talk to a professional ^^
For the ones that don’t really understand 3:51 An acrylic 2 way mirror is the mirror that looks like a mirror on one side but it’s actually a window. You can see these at police stations when you’re being questioned(i got this from the shows and movies) where the one being questioned sees a mirror but the policeman can see the person being questioned
@@ZimLikesPastaAnimation don't worry, i have the same thing where i can sense my family foot steps but i can assure you that nothing like that goes on in this house, it's quite boring if i do so say myself, if you do think you have trauma don't over thing and take a calm approach, talk with a trusted adult. That's all i have so bye
i literally have all of the “signs of abuse” and idk whether i should get a therapist or something- Edit: i actually got in contact with one, hopefully will be having a session too soon lmao
Same, you should try talking to one. Definitely wouldn't hurt to seek help Edit: Nice, I'm happy for you! :) Just remember, if you feel like your current therapist isn't the right fit for you, you can always find another one
somethings are normal but they can lead to having been abused in the past/no memory because of the trauma, but most of the time its just a comfort thing.
I actually hated the kid bc he was let off so easy. Like he can burn down a house and his parents would be like 😊don’t do that. And if I ask for candy like 3 times I get punished Like wha-
9:10 This is called the Oedipus complex (Electra in girls). It's a theory created by Sigmund Freud, generally knows as the father of the psychodynamic/analytic branch of Psychology. However, as with most theories he created, there's hardly any weight to it. His theories were often too vague to test, and when they were tested by him, information was often tampered with to fit the theory's thresholds. Although many of Freud's theories just don't hold up, me disliking many of them myself (such as the one where he links erogenous zones matched with childhood ages and, if the "problem" regarding that erogenous zone isn't addressed, said child will have certain negative personality traits when they're an adult. For example: 2-3 is the anal stage. If the child isn't properly potty trained, they'll have horrible trust issues as an adult and likely despise their parental figure. Some weird stuff), the occasional theory within this branch of Psychology has had major impacts within the field itself that it is not easily forgotten. But man, Freud was one biased, sexist crackhead. Jung and Adler were better, though.
ok, it can't just be me but.....the girl talking about her grandma sacrificing her aunt to satan LOOKS EXACTLY LIKE TINKER BELL!!!!! TELL ME I'M WRONG!
just a reminder, the only time you are actually self harming is when you have intentions of hurting yourself. If, for example, you pick the dead skin off your lips like the girl in the video, if you're doing it because you know it will cause you pain, thats self harm. If not, you're probably just anxious, or you could have clinical anxiety. (Idk if theres a term for diagnosed anxiety so i just put that lol)
Thank you SO MUCH for this! Seeing so much misinformation spread on these traumatic events really offends me and many others, to anyone reading this please dont trust tiktok and other social medias to self-diagnose or check symptoms cause in alot of the cases it is incorrect!
Heres my verison.. Me having great grades from cheating: SARAH 😁😁😁 my teacher: to take the state test you will have to come to school to make sure nobody cheats 😀 Me: what 😁
Tw: Me finally getting social media and looking for my best friend to blow up his phone His brother: my brother was in love with you . . . . . . . . But he unalived himself Me: *wHaT*
Hey guys, just to let everyone know, you need to specify what's the trigger after saying TW. Otherwise it doesn't work, and someone would end up reading it.
TW: mentions of self harm Me: *happy that my teacher is taking our class to the park* My teacher: hey can I speak to you in private? *insert best friends name* is in the hospital after trying to self harm Me: *W H A T*
2:454:10 Don’t take those as an absolute truth, I say that to both the viewers and creators. Tiktok likes to do that ; it can be the reason but there also could be a lot of other ones (with much less shock factor). You can’t just affirm that in all situations.
Its not self harm unless you have the intention of hurting yourself, I dont appreciate how some of these tiktoks are spreading misinformation about very traumatic events
here’s my take on this since i don’t have tiktok dad- we need to go see ur mom at her work dad 20 min later: were calling an ambulance she passed out snd ms...is gonna talk to you bc she might die me an 8 year old- wha?
1:25 literally happened to me a day ago. Casually talking with my mum only for her to tell ne she lost ome of her pregnancies a year and a half after i was born.
Being able to tell who's coming down the stairs or recognizing footsteps is not a sign of fucking abuse. Its a sign of strict parents. Stop trying to romantisize trauma
@@dr.heinzdoofenshmirtz8513 no?? its a theory by sigmund freud and like many of his theories, it holds no weight to it. he had a large impact on psychology but everything he said wasn't law. he would also usually tamper with the experiments to make it fit his theory.
@Annabeth Chase no, its not a common thing at all, only something that very few people go through. the man who coined the theory, sigmund freud, had the hots for his mom so he thought everyone did
Just a lil vent cause I don't wanna keep it in Me : *talking to my best friend about my psychotic disorder thinking they'll support me because it's a very scary and confusing time for me* My best friend : I'm going to take you to my church so they can exorcise you! Me : W h a t.
The one about not remembering anything before 11 hit hard, my earliest memory was when I was like 3 and then everything from 6-11 is just blended together
For real! Like... What? I'd say, for me, it's about from 5 to 10. I literally can't remember anything from 2nd, 3rd, or 4th grade, even when I was in 5th grade.
I have a similar thing to recognising footsteps except we have this thing on the door where u put a code to get in. but it makes a sound when you press a button. I can tell who enters by how they enter the door code (fast, slow, having to re-enter it) but idk
8:08 ok although it is technically a form of sh, if you're doing it unintentionally it's not but if it's only a habit it's not like a bad form of sh such as the ones you normally think of (ex: cutting, scratching, burning). Please don't go out and say you sh if it's only a habit.
5:50 why does this happen to me I’ll be in my phone and think of some horrible stuff out of nowhere and I’ll try to stop thinking about it and my brains like "nah ima keep you thinking about horrible things”
Me and my dad casually going to McDonalds like we do every weekend My dad: I have something important to say My dad: im divorcing your mom and I haven't told her yet Me: *what*
TW Me, after my cousin comes visit me when I was 4-5: Sarah! Him, 5-6y/old: *Sexually abused me* Caillou! Ni Hao! Me, now living with trauma, PTSD, anxiety, suicidal thoughts, insomnia, depression,hate towards men/boys, irrational fear of my nickname that he use to call me, gets anxiety and panic attacks 3 times a day, scared of the numbers 4 and 5, and has all the thing of sings of trauma in this video: What?😃
i love the one girl who has made like 15 vids under this sound
I feel very bad for her
She has a pretty messed up life tough...
Y’all know she could just be making shit up right-?
@Annabeth Chase Aight then
@@mushrooms9948 Tbh tho, it’s most likely she’s not, shit like this really does happen to some of us.
Me, who can easily tell my parents footsteps and has a small blanket with which I sleep with to be comfortable but also have literally the best parents ever: w h a t
same..
Same
same but i have strict parents but they are still nice!and i sleep with a stuffie
@@SweetTooth-l6q same here
Same lol
i’m concerned for some of these-🧍♀️like do i laugh ? 😭
@Strawberry Innitツ t r a m a
im sorry😭🤲
@@Maddiegrace..07 PLS 😭
i feel like if they make these, they’re prob good with you laughing tbh, i mean i can’t hear this audio without laughing at this point 💀
Go ahead lmao
Like 0:38
Tearing dead skin off your lips is considered self harm? Well damn I-
not of you don't have bad intentions or like are trying to hurt yourself or are stressed
It isnt considered s*lf h*rm, please dont listen to the misinformation in some of these videos. S*lf h*rm is having the urge and intent to inflict pain on your body.
@@Gomorahkallenbach Oh oh oh, thank you so much-! I got worried that i was harming myself all these years 😭❤️
@@pearleaf3052 no problem man!! Be careful with whats said on the internet as it can be misinformation, if you have a feeling somethings wrong please talk to a professional ^^
1:56 darah
This whole thing concerned me ✋🏻😭
For the ones that don’t really understand 3:51
An acrylic 2 way mirror is the mirror that looks like a mirror on one side but it’s actually a window. You can see these at police stations when you’re being questioned(i got this from the shows and movies) where the one being questioned sees a mirror but the policeman can see the person being questioned
do you watch criminal minds? or monk? or psych? lmao
@@hiraeth.6902 Brooklyn 99 😎
@@stinky8007 ohhhh
@@hiraeth.6902 Also in the marvel shows (Agents Of S.H.I.E.L.D.) has shown in before
@@stinky8007 oh yeahhhh
6:54 ive always been able to tell whose been coming down the hall by footsteps like since i was seven i thought i was a super human or something
How come i dont have trauma yet i can tell each of my familiy member's steps
@@gaussiangirl well they said it is a sign it doesn't mean you have
... that's a sign of trauma? oh no
@@ZimLikesPastaAnimation don't worry, i have the same thing where i can sense my family foot steps but i can assure you that nothing like that goes on in this house, it's quite boring if i do so say myself, if you do think you have trauma don't over thing and take a calm approach, talk with a trusted adult. That's all i have so bye
@@ZimLikesPastaAnimation not at all, unless it's because you were afraid of one of your family members
i literally have all of the “signs of abuse” and idk whether i should get a therapist or something-
Edit: i actually got in contact with one, hopefully will be having a session too soon lmao
Same, you should try talking to one. Definitely wouldn't hurt to seek help
Edit: Nice, I'm happy for you! :) Just remember, if you feel like your current therapist isn't the right fit for you, you can always find another one
I heard that sometimes people make that stuff up and that it's not actually a sign of abuse or trauma. It's still helpful to get a therapist tho
I thought that it was normal to be able to separate people's footsteps
@@soupandwitches lol I have strict parents so if I'm ever in my room with my phone (I'm not supposed to be) I know what family member is getting close
somethings are normal but they can lead to having been abused in the past/no memory because of the trauma, but most of the time its just a comfort thing.
not my bro being obsessed w/ caillou when he was lil-
i'm pretty sure everyone was lol
but okay
I actually hated the kid bc he was let off so easy. Like he can burn down a house and his parents would be like 😊don’t do that. And if I ask for candy like 3 times I get punished
Like wha-
ssarah!: me, excited that my cousin is going to stay with us.
caillou, ni hao!: him seggsualy assaulting me
"what?"
@1776 New York City please tell them, as hard as it may be please tell them. it could help a lot
@1776 New York City perfect, whatever makes you comfortable first! :)
I hope both of are safe now, I’m sorry that happened to you guys! 💜✨
Please, both of you, reach out to someone
@1776 New York City
Any updates w/ telling them? I’m proud of you guys that can open up about it, it’s not an easy topic!
i'm scared of some of these ngl
📌❔
ughhhh my childhood 🤠✨
Guys since this vid doesn’t have a trigger warning imma give one, since this video and trend in general involves some sensitive topics :)
0:58 this scared me lol. The way she looks over and smiles
9:10 This is called the Oedipus complex (Electra in girls). It's a theory created by Sigmund Freud, generally knows as the father of the psychodynamic/analytic branch of Psychology. However, as with most theories he created, there's hardly any weight to it. His theories were often too vague to test, and when they were tested by him, information was often tampered with to fit the theory's thresholds. Although many of Freud's theories just don't hold up, me disliking many of them myself (such as the one where he links erogenous zones matched with childhood ages and, if the "problem" regarding that erogenous zone isn't addressed, said child will have certain negative personality traits when they're an adult. For example: 2-3 is the anal stage. If the child isn't properly potty trained, they'll have horrible trust issues as an adult and likely despise their parental figure. Some weird stuff), the occasional theory within this branch of Psychology has had major impacts within the field itself that it is not easily forgotten. But man, Freud was one biased, sexist crackhead. Jung and Adler were better, though.
You just mad Freud was based.
0:50 THEY DO LOOK LIKE RYLAND
I THINKS ITS THEIR COUSIN
ok, it can't just be me but.....the girl talking about her grandma sacrificing her aunt to satan LOOKS EXACTLY LIKE TINKER BELL!!!!! TELL ME I'M WRONG!
0:49 I love this one 😭
Are they actually related to him or just look a lot like him?
@@stinky8007 I can’t tell😭
just a reminder, the only time you are actually self harming is when you have intentions of hurting yourself. If, for example, you pick the dead skin off your lips like the girl in the video, if you're doing it because you know it will cause you pain, thats self harm. If not, you're probably just anxious, or you could have clinical anxiety. (Idk if theres a term for diagnosed anxiety so i just put that lol)
Thank you SO MUCH for this! Seeing so much misinformation spread on these traumatic events really offends me and many others, to anyone reading this please dont trust tiktok and other social medias to self-diagnose or check symptoms cause in alot of the cases it is incorrect!
5:32 WTH schools are so bad these days
Heres my verison..
Me having great grades from cheating: SARAH 😁😁😁
my teacher: to take the state test you will have to come to school to make sure nobody cheats 😀
Me: what 😁
@@serein444 IK
Omg same we have the test on Tuesday I’m screwed
SAME I TOOK MINE ON FRIDAY 😭😭
SAME!!
I think I failed
This is really weird to watch because my name is Sarah, the sound keeps distracting me from reading the text 😔
Tw:
Me finally getting social media and looking for my best friend to blow up his phone
His brother: my brother was in love with you . . . . .
.
.
.
But he unalived himself
Me: *wHaT*
8:44 ... that's quite specificccx🤣
@Kirsten Jones dangg 😭💀
Hey guys, just to let everyone know, you need to specify what's the trigger after saying TW. Otherwise it doesn't work, and someone would end up reading it.
2:42 i-.....
me who cant sleep without my plushie and feeling like someone is holding me unless i wanna have a break down: ... what?
ALL OF THE ONES TALKING ABOUT A SIGN OF ABUSE I DO i dont think ive been abused but I also dont remember any childhood
That’s a big sign💀 it could be verbal or mental abuse not just physical/sexual that you would necessarily recognize or remember
@@LJ-ft3uj uh i think I remember a bit of things that happened😜🦄🌈
Don’t worry me too, I can barely remember my childhood. I have a few memories but that’s it
the fact i was concerned through out this entire video
and also the fact i was laughing is concerning too...
NOOO NOT THIS TREND💀💀💀
9:52 I don’t get this one- is she surprised.. or like she doesn’t understand why it was brought up? I am confusion.
you’re almost at 200k! congrats 🥳🥳🥰
8:00 STOP I do that all the time my mouth is raw right now because ive been biting it😀
wait....sleeping with a teddy bear is a sign of abuse..?? but i sleep with a te-
Same- 😀
But how?
6:51 wHaT- damn I guess so...✨both mentally and physically✨
Please don't trust tiktok as a reliable source
@@Lime9611 agreed, everyone knows who goes up and down the stairs, whether you live in a loving family or not
@@Lime9611 yes lol
Sarah!! - Sarah was finally home, Cailou was very happy to see her- “Cailou! Nihao!” “What”
6:44 how can i unsee this
Hi tiktok angel, I have a question...why you always add that 3 tiktoks at the end to all the videos?just curious...Btw love your work 💖
3:13 seriously...what?
“need sugary.... growig crystels...”
6:43 HARRY STYLES DOES LOOK LIKE JYP SKNSKSSNSKNKSKNSSKKS
STOP THIS- IM- JAJSHAH 😭😭
TW: mentions of self harm
Me: *happy that my teacher is taking our class to the park*
My teacher: hey can I speak to you in private? *insert best friends name* is in the hospital after trying to self harm
Me: *W H A T*
My family being straight
“SARHA”
me coming out as gay
“Caillou ni hao”
Supportive but confused
“What.?”
1:23 OMG YESSS now i know all the snakes in my family 😭
LMFAOOO SAME
2:45 4:10 Don’t take those as an absolute truth, I say that to both the viewers and creators. Tiktok likes to do that ; it can be the reason but there also could be a lot of other ones (with much less shock factor). You can’t just affirm that in all situations.
i swear i am not doing summer school like thats our time to escape stress. AND WTF TAKING HOT SHOWERS AND ENJOYING THEM IS A FORM OF SELF H@RM????
Its not self harm unless you have the intention of hurting yourself, I dont appreciate how some of these tiktoks are spreading misinformation about very traumatic events
here’s my take on this since i don’t have tiktok
dad- we need to go see ur mom at her work
dad 20 min later: were calling an ambulance she passed out snd ms...is gonna talk to you bc she might die
me an 8 year old- wha?
5:34 im so sorry..
I came for memes, not being high concerned for at least 75% of the video 😭😭😭
I LOVE THIS SOUNDDD
8:03 No it ain't... it's a form of grooming from our late ancestors, like picking off scabs.
1:25 literally happened to me a day ago. Casually talking with my mum only for her to tell ne she lost ome of her pregnancies a year and a half after i was born.
Being able to tell who's coming down the stairs or recognizing footsteps is not a sign of fucking abuse. Its a sign of strict parents. Stop trying to romantisize trauma
It can be tho.. Not everyone has the same experience, so you have to be open-minded to those who actually go through that.
WHAT NEXT-
STAYING ON YOUR PHONE LATE AT NIGHT IS A SIGN OF DEPRESSION?-
5:53 IM SORRY BUT JUST THE WAY SHE STOOD THERE- 😭✋🏽
9:15 BRUH WHAT??? she’s joking right...😶😳
No it’s a real thing. Dont worry the feelings usually fades out when they hit puberty. This also happens to girls too lol
@@dr.heinzdoofenshmirtz8513 no?? its a theory by sigmund freud and like many of his theories, it holds no weight to it. he had a large impact on psychology but everything he said wasn't law. he would also usually tamper with the experiments to make it fit his theory.
@Annabeth Chase no, its not a common thing at all, only something that very few people go through. the man who coined the theory, sigmund freud, had the hots for his mom so he thought everyone did
"Harry Styles and jay why pee look the same"
.. wha-
WTF with yt:
1 visit
12 likes
I swear yt be trippen 💀✋🏾
i relate to 0:17 sm :(
1:34 he's not the regular dad, he's a cool dad 😎
Me having a bff who I love with my heart; SARAH!
Her ending up being homophobic and racist, caliou, ni hoaw!
What 😁
Just a lil vent cause I don't wanna keep it in
Me : *talking to my best friend about my psychotic disorder thinking they'll support me because it's a very scary and confusing time for me*
My best friend : I'm going to take you to my church so they can exorcise you!
Me : W h a t.
The one about not remembering anything before 11 hit hard, my earliest memory was when I was like 3 and then everything from 6-11 is just blended together
For real! Like... What? I'd say, for me, it's about from 5 to 10. I literally can't remember anything from 2nd, 3rd, or 4th grade, even when I was in 5th grade.
This gets darker and darker as the video goes on.
1:23 hits home oof
For those who do not speak French, « Caillou » in french is like « Pebble » in english 😂👌
Yeah, really.
I have a similar thing to recognising footsteps except we have this thing on the door where u put a code to get in. but it makes a sound when you press a button. I can tell who enters by how they enter the door code (fast, slow, having to re-enter it) but idk
8:08 ok although it is technically a form of sh, if you're doing it unintentionally it's not but if it's only a habit it's not like a bad form of sh such as the ones you normally think of (ex: cutting, scratching, burning). Please don't go out and say you sh if it's only a habit.
5:50 why does this happen to me I’ll be in my phone and think of some horrible stuff out of nowhere and I’ll try to stop thinking about it and my brains like "nah ima keep you thinking about horrible things”
Now that I’ve figured out about the hot shower water thing (same one on the thumbnail) I’m concerned for myself 🤡
It's not sh unless you do it because you want to hurt yourself
@@artemis88899 i forgot i even made this comment but yea
WHY IS NO ONE MENTIONING THE 78YR OLD PREGNANCY 👁👄👁
9:14 ah good ol sigmund freud
and by good i mean absolutely fucking horrid
4:49 what- i.. actually don't remember anything from below the age 11 D:
i thought it was normal
7:59 do yall not do that? I thought like everyone did....
you're so close to 200k subs
ima head out 🚪🚶🏽♀️
💀
OMFG The first one: 💀
8:03 wait what I'm literally doing it rn no wayyy
0:16 im in the 97% then. Wtf is wrong with people
2:36 the makeup makes her look like she has two diff skin tones 😭
Lol I thought thinking people could hear you thoughts was normal but it’s a symptom of schizophrenia
0:45 THEY ACTUALLY DO THAT-
I spit out my heart-healthy cheerios when i heard that someone got engaged to shane dawson. i did some research and, well ok
Bruh the first one is so sad 😭
Sarah! Sarah was finally hone! Idk the name very happy to see her! Idk ni Hao... Wha- 🥺
The Shane Dawson one 😭
3:26 I'm sorry WHAT
6:57 wait but actually
Honestly all of these are concerning 🧍
2:31 is this true... 🥺
Me and my dad casually going to McDonalds like we do every weekend
My dad: I have something important to say
My dad: im divorcing your mom and I haven't told her yet
Me: *what*
whats the 97%....
this video is making me ..know things i didnt want to
Me who can tell my parent's footsteps, sleeps with a fox plushi, bites the dead skin off my lips and cheeks-
W h a t
It's a sign not a diagnosis most people with strict parents can tell footsteps and a plush is just comfy
8:33 w h a t ? 😀
TW
Me, after my cousin comes visit me when I was 4-5: Sarah!
Him, 5-6y/old: *Sexually abused me* Caillou! Ni Hao!
Me, now living with trauma, PTSD, anxiety, suicidal thoughts, insomnia, depression,hate towards men/boys, irrational fear of my nickname that he use to call me, gets anxiety and panic attacks 3 times a day, scared of the numbers 4 and 5, and has all the thing of sings of trauma in this video: What?😃
**me happy with the fact i’m a guy**
crippling gender dysphoria: calliou, ni hao 😙
me: *what?*
7:22
ESCUSE ME-
Can someone pLEASE confirm or deny?
im pretty sure its a hoax
No it isnt
1:12 ??? Ayo what
6:50 how is that abuse I’ve known that for years edit: knowing someone’s footsteps isn’t abuse why is everyone calling everything abuse now