Melina KB - I’ve Had Enough (Lyrics)

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  • Опубликовано: 23 дек 2024

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  • @heyitshay5129
    @heyitshay5129 3 года назад +13371

    "If your so mature now I think it's time you grow up. Admit you did it we all know you did it. And yet you still gaslight me up." Those lyrics hit me different.

    • @LunarTrap2625
      @LunarTrap2625 3 года назад +253

      It reminds me of my mother when she cause many problems to my family and treating me bad for no reason when I saw the lyrics, that’s every emotions that I have to go through when she does that….

    • @heyitshay5129
      @heyitshay5129 3 года назад +137

      @@LunarTrap2625 Aww. It reminds me of my father. Who would gaslight me and abuse me. We are getting ready to go to court to get full custody for my mom. I am so sorry you had to deal with that.

    • @epilepsylizard2469
      @epilepsylizard2469 3 года назад +50

      That’s what I came here for

    • @kyzdenise3495
      @kyzdenise3495 3 года назад +37

      @@LunarTrap2625 the same thing is also happening to me too..I hope you're feeling better now

    • @LunarTrap2625
      @LunarTrap2625 3 года назад +25

      Thank you guys for that support since I needed it due to depression and anxiety because of her and I’m trying to talk to people about my problem but what if they don’t know what I have been and just walk away from me?

  • @lienebaumane2801
    @lienebaumane2801 3 года назад +18828

    This song sounds like it could be in a musical

  • @randomheadful7190
    @randomheadful7190 3 года назад +3643

    I’m 52 and my teenage daughter introduced me to this song. I am so glad young women have music like this reminding them of their worth in a very powerful way. The lessons here are ones I wished I had learned much younger. To all you Gen Z girls, never compromise your integrity or your soul for a man. It’s time we held them accountable. I know I’ve had enough.

    • @yestheprofileismyart6435
      @yestheprofileismyart6435 2 года назад +84

      Ty!

    • @zelda7059
      @zelda7059 2 года назад +93

      The only flaw I will point out in this song is how gendered it is. If it was more gender neutral then I think a more wider audience would relate to this. (Like male and non binary victims.) Yeah, most predators are men but we shouldn't forget that alot of predators are women too.

    • @arandomcatheehee
      @arandomcatheehee 2 года назад

      @@zelda7059 I think this song is specifically meant to be empowerment for women, especially since we still have men in power trying to quiet us and take our rights away. Example: Texas wants to make abortion completely illegal AND punishable with death sentence. Rape has a lower bail than abortions. In many places in the world, women are still heavily oppressed.

    • @oreos.mikewheeler442
      @oreos.mikewheeler442 2 года назад

      @@zelda7059 Your comment is probably my favorite one here. I love this song but the only dislike I have is that it seems to make only girls relate to this. Even though it doesn't say every boy is a predator, I would like it to have girls, boys, AND non-binary people.

    • @Soup_phobic
      @Soup_phobic 2 года назад +16

      @@yestheprofileismyart6435
      Agreed

  • @colormelolita
    @colormelolita 3 года назад +4786

    I realized one of the reasons I love this. Her enunciation and it almost sounds like a Broadway song if the chorus didn't repeat i could hear this in a musical. ALSO she's an alto and we need to normalize people who can sing don't need to hit soprano notes and still sound fire and make an impact.

    • @gachacute7379
      @gachacute7379 3 года назад +196

      Yeah it does! For some reason “you are such a flame out. Your only drive left’s in the bed” really reminded me of a broadways show idk why

    • @Lulu_RL800
      @Lulu_RL800 2 года назад +53

      I would love any Broadway musical she sings in. Cuz it does and it sounds amazing.

    • @katpage9378
      @katpage9378 2 года назад +3

      That’s actually the reason I really dislike this song

    • @tanginamo12321
      @tanginamo12321 2 года назад +41

      @@katpage9378 to each their own

    • @katpage9378
      @katpage9378 2 года назад +2

      @@tanginamo12321 thanks. I really dislike frozen too

  • @unnxhwx
    @unnxhwx 3 года назад +11612

    this gives me Someone Gets Hurt from Mean Girls, kinda Burn from Hamilton and Congatulations vibes (also heather chandler and regina george) I LOVE THIS

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 года назад +2118

      YES oh my gosh thank you!!!! That is such a huge compliment!

    • @iluvcheese6679
      @iluvcheese6679 3 года назад +121

      I thought the same

    • @jamieroman2495
      @jamieroman2495 3 года назад +56

      Yes exactly

    • @roxyannee5536
      @roxyannee5536 3 года назад +38

      YEAH EXACTLY

    • @tennie3812
      @tennie3812 3 года назад +62

      Oh gosh so that's why a small part of me was like, this vibe feels kinda familiar

  • @noah_the_tvboy1321
    @noah_the_tvboy1321 Год назад +729

    As a boy, who's was molested by a young adult at the age of 8 for months, and nothing was done about it, I can't help but love and sing this song

    • @IristheDreamon
      @IristheDreamon 11 месяцев назад +48

      I’m sorry that happened to you. I hope you’re doing better now. ❤

    • @azrael5839
      @azrael5839 10 месяцев назад +27

      I hope you're feeling alright and if you're not that you find the path of healing. Mental pain may linger but we can learn to be happy despite it 💖

    • @eli3rdgender208
      @eli3rdgender208 9 месяцев назад +19

      You are not alone

    • @serenityy111
      @serenityy111 8 месяцев назад +19

      youre struggle is valid, and we're all here for you

    • @Quail.was-here
      @Quail.was-here 7 месяцев назад +25

      Girl or not sa is a horrible experience. I hope you’ve mentally healed.

  • @amity4562
    @amity4562 3 года назад +14933

    AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO GETS PARTNERS IN CRIME BY SET IT OFF VIBES FROM THIS??? I LOVE THIS.

    • @nex_._
      @nex_._ 3 года назад +387

      YES I HEAR THE SIMULAROTIES

    • @calicothecreator.
      @calicothecreator. 3 года назад +1183

      Pov: the partners in crime splitted up

    • @amity4562
      @amity4562 3 года назад +225

      @@calicothecreator. YES LMAO

    • @melanchabri
      @melanchabri 3 года назад +180

      OMG THANK YOU, I THOUGHT I RECOGNIZED THIS SONG

    • @rosebud577
      @rosebud577 3 года назад +86

      @@calicothecreator.
      YES

  • @potatoskin5168
    @potatoskin5168 3 года назад +3035

    I DO NOT BELIEVE IN SIGNS BUT THIS CAME OUT ON WHAT WAS SUPPOSED TO BE MY ONE YEAR WITH A SHITTY EX. THIS IS THE SONG I NEED TO HEAR TODAY

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 года назад +440

      I AM SENDING YOU SO MUCH LOVE & AM SO GLAD THIS SONG REACHED YOU

    • @sherrilogan5400
      @sherrilogan5400 3 года назад +23

      Same like wtf

    • @wowsports8800
      @wowsports8800 3 года назад +15

      Then you should start to believe

    • @theincarnateofkurro
      @theincarnateofkurro 3 года назад +10

      @@wowsports8800 dont force beliefs on people :/

    • @_cocoon_8694
      @_cocoon_8694 3 года назад +8

      @@theincarnateofkurro I Thought They Were Repeating What Parappa The Rapper Said-
      *"I Gotta Believe!"*

  • @Glitched_Goth
    @Glitched_Goth 2 года назад +840

    As someone who got groomed and has the frustrating experience of said groomer avoiding accountability like the plague, the part 2:58 - 3:17 hits SO hard for me. This entire song makes me feel so much less alone in my resentment and anger towards him. Everyone who's experienced any type of sexual assault, abuse, grooming, etc, is SO strong. And after reading the comments I can confidently say that, we survived hell, and for that we should have the right to feel any emotions we can towards our abusers with no strings attached or others telling us to "forgive and forget". It should be, and IS, up to you how you handle your recovery process - not forgiving whoever hurt you does NOT make you a bad person and it is NOT required to heal. Because it is YOUR choice on how you cope/recover. And nobody from an outside perspective has the right to tell you that it's wrong.

    • @makennalillian2435
      @makennalillian2435 2 года назад +21

      ive experienced this exact same damn thing, and i agree with EVERYTHING you said. yes maam 👏

    • @dekuanimeweeb9336
      @dekuanimeweeb9336 2 года назад +32

      My mom keeps telling me I NEED to forgive my ‘brother’ for things he did to me and I told her no and she gets mad at me every time. She always says ‘you can forgive someone but it doesn’t mean you forget’ and I tell her I’m never forgiving him and that I don’t care about him anymore

    • @molly.dog8brooke792
      @molly.dog8brooke792 2 года назад +19

      YESSSSSS!!! My parents told me “you didn’t tell us at the time, so it’s time to get over it, you can’t keep using that as an excuse” (an excuse for what, I’ve never asked). Fuck that, I’m allowed to be as resentful as I want towards them. Say it louder for those in the back!!!

    • @Mvlt1
      @Mvlt1 2 года назад +12

      Damn I feel so sorry for y’all. I’m a trans guy, I had my dad sexually abuse me and rape me multiple times when I was 4-5, and my friends got sexually abused by family members, and my little sister got sexually assaulted by my step great grandfather I know how it feels and I have empathy for all those who had to experience that

    • @BlindStarLily
      @BlindStarLily 2 года назад +13

      Thank the gods I’ve never been SAed, but I was made to feel extremely uncomfortable and vulnerable by a much older man. I was fourteen years old, maybe 4`9`` and 100 LBS soaking wet. I’m also disabled, and as such I took a certain bus full of other kids who couldn’t take the normal bus to school. It came right to my door to pick me up. The bus driver saw me in a very modest sundress. Like when I say modest, I mean knee length dress with a jacket on over it and a ribbon in my hair. I looked like a little girl, and he kept making these extremely uncomfortable comments about how pretty I looked, telling me that the boys would be all over me, how he’d, “See you tomorrow, beautiful lady/pretty girl,” and how I should, “Stop biting those beautiful lips.” It took me crying into a friend’s chest for an hour to be able to report him, and even then he wasn’t fired. I was just moved to a different bus. Until he quit, whenever I passed him, he’d call out, “Hey sweetie,” to me whenever I passed by his bus, and he later went on to comment about how suggestively another disabled friend, who is younger than me, looked in the clothes they were wearing. For reference, they were literally just wearing shorts and a T-shirt. I finally worked up the courage to tell my older brothers about it, and they told me it wasn’t sexual harassment because he didn’t tell me he wanted to have sex with me, and started getting all up in arms defending the adult man who told a fourteen year old girl who looked about twelve years old how beautiful her body was. I feel sick to my stomach just thinking about him, and I still remember his full name and now can only associate the first name with bad things. Though it was nice later on that my bus drivers after him knew exactly what he’d said and one of them outright told me, “You have every right to be angry. Nobody should ever talk to a young girl like that.” It was especially validating because he had previously been friends with the other driver until he learned what he’d done, at which point he stopped respecting him completely and wouldn’t even allow him near the bus when I got off and on. That’s the driver who’s name I wish I remembered

  • @junospace
    @junospace 3 года назад +6534

    this is the song you listen to while planning to ruin your exes life and i’m all for it-

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 года назад +927

      Absolutely & thank youuu!!!

    • @angelbarrameda8571
      @angelbarrameda8571 3 года назад +149

      Don't just plan, do it 😶🤭 it's more fun that way

    • @chloeloves1167
      @chloeloves1167 3 года назад +47

      Let's burn down their house I believe in you

    • @VinVin_31
      @VinVin_31 3 года назад +40

      Wouldn’t make you any better.

    • @Ruyumi-Royota
      @Ruyumi-Royota 3 года назад +18

      @@MelinaKB this is amazing
      ✨👏🏾✨

  • @breemcgarry194
    @breemcgarry194 3 года назад +7320

    Added this to my “the only time I miss a man is when I swing and he ducks” playlist 😌

    • @gannawalidibrahim2664
      @gannawalidibrahim2664 3 года назад +475

      why do i feel like me and you would be friends

    • @nattykat2736
      @nattykat2736 3 года назад +317

      Imma need that playlist, thanks

    • @ellie9621
      @ellie9621 3 года назад +246

      Don't be shy share the playlist (jk u don't have too)

    • @cupidarrows6656
      @cupidarrows6656 3 года назад +97

      PLEASE- I LOVE IT

    • @webby9044
      @webby9044 3 года назад +85

      Omg I saw duck and I just thought of the song duck is lord

  • @darksnakezz8932
    @darksnakezz8932 2 года назад +1555

    i feel like as a man i am not "allowed" to sing along to this since its a song for women whose voices got silenced. but as a victim of rape twice i just can't do anything but sing along. thank you for your amazing song!

    • @dagianlee8519
      @dagianlee8519 2 года назад +339

      This song should be for everyone.

    • @browhattheactualfu-2659
      @browhattheactualfu-2659 2 года назад +388

      This song isn't directed at every man in the world. It's for the ones that abuse, assault, etc. Sing on!

    • @CxmfyBeanoldacc
      @CxmfyBeanoldacc 2 года назад +126

      I hope your doing better 🥺❤️

    • @JustAFantasy2015
      @JustAFantasy2015 2 года назад +110

      good sir sing to your hearts content

    • @hithere911
      @hithere911 2 года назад +98

      I'm sorry you had to go through that. I hope you're in a much better place and doing better now.

  • @BasicallyCaramel
    @BasicallyCaramel 3 года назад +840

    The part everyone uses: 2:18 - 3:05
    The best part of the song: 0:01 - 3:31

  • @lucychivers
    @lucychivers 3 года назад +3666

    Wait a second....
    WHY ISN'T THIS THE WOMEN'S ANTHEM YET?
    This song and "When A Girl" By Cary should be our anthem 💞✊🏼✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿💞

    • @HerefortheOGvideos
      @HerefortheOGvideos 3 года назад +27

      Thanks for commenting this song! I went to listen to it & I love it

    • @BLU-ky6bn
      @BLU-ky6bn 3 года назад +31

      Question? Why do women need an anthem? Does every gender need one orrr?

    • @elsaoravakangas2538
      @elsaoravakangas2538 3 года назад +11

      And power by little mix

    • @urmom-un9yx
      @urmom-un9yx 3 года назад +17

      Don't forget "boys will be boys" by dua lipa💗

    • @Norecalls
      @Norecalls 3 года назад +71

      @@BLU-ky6bn genders dont need an anthem, I believe this is just a complement for how well written this song is sense no comment should be taken seriously tbh, yeah i wont deny the song is good but it shouldnt just a play a role as an anthem sense this could just genuinely be an experience the singer has went through

  • @Goodnight.Jupiter
    @Goodnight.Jupiter 3 года назад +277

    The "I survived a toxic relationship" Anthem and im here for it

  • @flyingblind5677
    @flyingblind5677 3 года назад +966

    The pre chorus is the actual embodiment of a chefs kiss

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 года назад +133

      ahaha I love this comment thank uuu!!!

  • @yamnamoreno7607
    @yamnamoreno7607 3 года назад +2877

    IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE! SO EXCITED TO ADD THIS TO MY PLAYLIST.

    • @CacahueteParlante
      @CacahueteParlante 3 года назад +75

      ME TOO SIS

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 года назад +196

      OMG THANK YOU!!

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 года назад +156

      @@CacahueteParlante Y'all are SO SWEET

    • @nekomc6232
      @nekomc6232 3 года назад +31

      @@MelinaKB I'm not gonna say I know you BUT GREAT VIDEO❤❤❤

  • @kreati_
    @kreati_ 2 года назад +77

    I love that it starts as a song about one specific woman's experience but at the end it becomes an anthem for every girl who has gone through similar problems.

  • @eldritchcatgirl
    @eldritchcatgirl 3 года назад +3615

    I award you the highest honor,
    **Makes an animatic in my head of this, never to be created**

  • @lexisgswlife
    @lexisgswlife 3 года назад +594

    THIS SONG GAVE ME FUCKIN CHILLS!!! AS A SURVIVOR THANK YOU MA'AM!!!! I DIDN'T DESERVE WHAT I GOT AND I AM PROUD TO SAY THAT NOW

  • @17lili17
    @17lili17 3 года назад +787

    screaming this while still in an abusive relationship, fuelling the future me who WILL have the strength that i don’t now.
    june 2023- i’m out ❤️

    • @justherebruh6822
      @justherebruh6822 2 года назад +49

      you got this girl!!!

    • @ihakarthik4725
      @ihakarthik4725 2 года назад +42

      you can do it hon!!!! we’re rooting for you!

    • @SophieCxt
      @SophieCxt 2 года назад +35

      I’M CHEERING YOU ON!!!

    • @neurodivergent-velociraptor
      @neurodivergent-velociraptor 2 года назад +20

      You got this love!! Rooting for you ❤️

    • @17lili17
      @17lili17 2 года назад +13

      @@justherebruh6822 i get stronger and closer every day ❤️

  • @rosierose7031
    @rosierose7031 3 года назад +504

    My mother works with abused women and she absolutely loves this song!

    • @tseliius
      @tseliius 3 года назад +27

      Tell your mom that she’s awesome. ✨

    • @saturn6563
      @saturn6563 2 года назад +14

      Tell your mom that she is awesome and also tell your mom to tell the women she works with that they are awesome!

    • @ed_cmntonly
      @ed_cmntonly Год назад +7

      Tell ya mom she's based and got the highest respect from humanity

  • @sarahmassalha2358
    @sarahmassalha2358 3 года назад +605

    Never had a song make me want to scream the words so loudly as this song has. So beautiful and empowering. You’re so talented and strong for releasing such a song that I’m sure has a large story behind it.

    • @lyricaall
      @lyricaall 2 года назад +3

      I relate so much! Personally, it gives me a kind of feeling of… closure? Whatever it is, I think it’s good?

  • @luna-mo3ol
    @luna-mo3ol 2 года назад +98

    This needs to be in a musical. Like seriously.

  • @Xx_Yasomi_xX
    @Xx_Yasomi_xX 3 года назад +600

    2:18 the part that everyone heard at tiktok

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 года назад +124

      Yasss I love my Tik tok fam❤️

    • @ManaSamaLover.
      @ManaSamaLover. 3 года назад +13

      Tyyyy

    • @rosebud577
      @rosebud577 3 года назад +19

      @@MelinaKB
      We love you too /p

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 года назад +30

      @@rosebud577 AWWW THANK U

    • @catthecastrophe
      @catthecastrophe 3 года назад +9

      that's literally where im here from

  • @dancingbunnie5550
    @dancingbunnie5550 3 года назад +152

    ''And for the boys, Who don't care who they destroy, Told us "No'' was not a choice, You can not silence our voice."
    probably my favorite line.

  • @rijune
    @rijune Месяц назад +28

    this hits now more than ever.

  • @tinyartangel9611
    @tinyartangel9611 3 года назад +1531

    That one dislike is from the ex

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 года назад +319

      TEA TEAAAAA

    • @heyitsmeurcat6951
      @heyitsmeurcat6951 3 года назад +61

      @@MelinaKB girl don’t forget us when you become famous pleaseee

    • @scar_rat1955
      @scar_rat1955 3 года назад +17

      @@heyitsmeurcat6951 LOVE THE PFP

    • @batsybuns5911
      @batsybuns5911 3 года назад +14

      Scar_ Rat
      I READ ‘I LOVE THE PP’ HELP

    • @scar_rat1955
      @scar_rat1955 3 года назад +6

      @@batsybuns5911 BHAHAHA

  • @Alini_
    @Alini_ 3 года назад +148

    2:18
    It reminds me of the bully started out friend who gave me trauma, the class mates and teachers who stood by and did nothing and blamed me. My dad who reaffirmed the things the bully would tell me. The friends who took advantage of me and left me. The boy who wouldn’t leave me alone and scarred me when I was 6 years old on the school yard. The doctors and therapists who push me to the side and allowed my issues to get worse. The family who loved me only when I behaved. The bully who left my psyche more shattered than Cinderella’s forgotten glass slipper.

    • @thatchaoticneutral3730
      @thatchaoticneutral3730 2 года назад +4

      Yooo!
      Same dude, wanna talk ‘bout it?
      If not we good but like trauma isn’t very fun

    • @trinityrodriquez5476
      @trinityrodriquez5476 2 года назад +3

      Reminds me of my emotionally abusive mother

    • @0sleepy_moon
      @0sleepy_moon 2 года назад +2

      I have a story like that it was when I was in kindergarten everyone bully me pinched me and laugh at me and everything bad I was still little so I didn't understand that it was bad and did not tell anyone :(

    • @girlygirl666lollipops
      @girlygirl666lollipops Год назад

      That is so sad like

  • @chunkybum96
    @chunkybum96 3 года назад +100

    I'm so glad I came across this song! Mainly because for 3 years I got groomed and sexually assaulted by someone who I thought loved me. I was young and dumb but I've since dumped his ass and found an amazing man. To anyone who has experienced this you guys deserve better and you will get through this. If I could go back and change what happened I might but if I did I don't think I would of met my current partner. So I'm not sure..

    • @SpiderBrained
      @SpiderBrained 2 года назад +10

      I am so sorry no one should ever have to go through that

  • @flyingblind5677
    @flyingblind5677 3 года назад +1676

    I feel like as a guy I’m not worthy to sing along to this song, BUT ITS SO MF GOOD

    • @SnowieKitten
      @SnowieKitten 3 года назад +308

      i feel like guys are allowed to also relate to & enjoy songs like these, so u shouldn't feel like u can't sing it!

    • @flyingblind5677
      @flyingblind5677 3 года назад +311

      @@SnowieKitten I relate to the subject matter, but I know this song is made for women especially at the end with “here’s to my girls.” I sing along until that point. As a guy I need to stand aside and let voices be heard, if more people could just shut up when people are voicing their hurt then we’d be farther along with true equality by now. I hope you have a great day

    • @naureenabdulmajeed526
      @naureenabdulmajeed526 3 года назад +137

      @@flyingblind5677 people like you are holding onto the thin strings of hope we have for humanity

    • @flyingblind5677
      @flyingblind5677 3 года назад +88

      @@naureenabdulmajeed526 well hope isn’t inherently worthless, but at this point, it may be so

    • @izabellaalloyswife5863
      @izabellaalloyswife5863 3 года назад +92

      You have every right to sing this. Everyone has the right to feel powerful.

  • @Sup_sneks
    @Sup_sneks 3 года назад +210

    This song literally made me think that there was a whole ass Broadway musical I was missing out on!! It’s so good I’m just jamming to it repeatedly!!!

  • @Bread-ky3qe
    @Bread-ky3qe 2 года назад +92

    As a victim of SA, this song speaks to me.

  • @pygmydae
    @pygmydae 3 года назад +5849

    as a trans guy I just- yes. stand up and be HEARD, ladies- I may not be one of you anymore but you've sure as hell got my support

    • @The_Diminished
      @The_Diminished 2 года назад +484

      hi, also a trans guy! That's super cool :D

    • @Ivemovedlmao
      @Ivemovedlmao 2 года назад +455

      Hey there two trans guys! I completely agree. We are all here to support you, and as the song says, NOBODY can demand who you are or your body. You are an amazing human being, and you absolutely deserve rights, no matter how many idiots protest to it.
      and to whoever reading this, I’m so proud of you for coming this far 🫂

    • @SophieCxt
      @SophieCxt 2 года назад +145

      I support you!

    • @hwaslvtt
      @hwaslvtt 2 года назад +218

      Same!!! I may not be a woman anymore, but ill still stand by and support women forever.

    • @olioaks9869
      @olioaks9869 2 года назад +63

      Sameee

  • @CloudSeanie
    @CloudSeanie 3 года назад +507

    This is so good. The set it off tone/beat. The strength of burn in Hamilton. Omggggg. This is so fucking good

    • @totallyjokers
      @totallyjokers 3 года назад +24

      First burn/congratulations vibes

    • @_lynx2568
      @_lynx2568 3 года назад +5

      yep

    • @hxney7293
      @hxney7293 2 года назад +6

      AYE SET IT OFF AND HAMILTON

    • @adeleaslan8182
      @adeleaslan8182 2 года назад +2

      It reminds me of the beginning of your obedient servant

  • @jonathanfellows7868
    @jonathanfellows7868 2 года назад +128

    This song fits unnervingly well with the USA right now-

    • @lattestarlet
      @lattestarlet 2 года назад +21

      It does, and it sucks that men still don't know the answer no.

    • @Starlacloverleaf
      @Starlacloverleaf 2 года назад +8

      It does

  • @inthelife1775
    @inthelife1775 3 года назад +714

    I've been so excited for this to come out. I have not been disappointed. Such an amazing song

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 года назад +80

      Oh my gosh thank you, that means the world!!!

  • @lime_forrest1451
    @lime_forrest1451 3 года назад +114

    This song reminds me of one of my dear friends. He got into a relationship that was in short, heavily abusive. He deserved so much better then what he was getting and finally was able to stand up for himself after he realized that this person was being absolutely horrible to him. I know this song has a predominantly female role but it can truely happen to anyone. My best friend who I am now proud to call my lover are as happy as can be and are both getting over our scars from past relationships to help better one another and make a life for ourselves in which we are both comfortable. Cause that’s what love should be, a union that can be associated with both comfort and contentment.

    • @CodyG.
      @CodyG. 2 года назад +16

      You're right! Personally I don't think this song is necessarily tall is necessarily targeting only women women. Women and men alike go through abusive situations whether it be Physically or sexually. I would say this is a great song but what bothers me the most is how People think only women can go through abusive situations. I've gone through abusive situations myself And as much as I'm happy to hear people standing up for themselves people also have to realize that men go through hardships and abusive situations. I just wish more people realized that.

  • @jessicahalma-reed5854
    @jessicahalma-reed5854 3 года назад +234

    Was anyone else struck by: "I don't deserve this, and for your next girlfriend, you need to treat her with respect"?
    I'm so used to hearing women sing songs about exes and bashing the women who date him after them as slots and hoes.
    If 2021 is the year that women move more towards standing up for each other and building each other up regardless of what they do or who they date, then at least something good came out of it ❤

  • @susanaeaton179
    @susanaeaton179 3 года назад +268

    Boy, this gives me some heathers, mean girls, and Hamilton vibes. With just a pinch of the ladies from Henry 8. I found this song because Instagram gives you tik tok videos. And I fucking love this song! Please don't give up your singing!

  • @ch1o_a
    @ch1o_a 3 года назад +436

    🛐You need to write a friking musical or I would cry. Tienes un chingo de talento, sigue así y llegarás lejos

    • @y4rwnnnnnnnn
      @y4rwnnnnnnnn 3 года назад +16

      @Victoria Crow The song is so good that people would pray to it.

  • @olaolopintrailblazer9925
    @olaolopintrailblazer9925 Месяц назад +6

    We ladies need this song more than ever before

  • @jjhurd1464
    @jjhurd1464 3 года назад +133

    Does this bring up memories of parental psychological abuse for anyone else? My dad still gaslights me and has the audacity to demand my presence whenever he wants something done but refuses to acknowledge that I've already done so much for him.

    • @nuny4592
      @nuny4592 3 года назад +18

      It's always funny when people say you never do anything for them yet they're always the first person they run to when they need something done.
      But anyway, it honestly *does* remind me about my parents (as well as reminds me of my ex). It's def the typa song that I'll blast once I cut my parents out of my life when I turn 18.

    • @isabelberger9441
      @isabelberger9441 2 года назад +7

      Yes, it reminds me of my mom…

    • @BraveBowgamingYT
      @BraveBowgamingYT 2 года назад +3

      yes very

    • @thatbluspook4483
      @thatbluspook4483 Год назад +1

      Yes, it reminds me of the verbal, emotional, and psychological abuse my mother put me through. Soon, it'll be the anniversary of my first year free of her, and hearing the section with "gaslighting me up" shook me when I heard it in a short. I will probably listen to this when I have bad days thinking about her from now on.

  • @tris8735
    @tris8735 3 года назад +232

    I’VE BEEN WAITING ANS THIS DID NOT DISAPPOINT

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 года назад +18

      AWEEE THANK YOU!!!!

    • @tris8735
      @tris8735 3 года назад +5

      @@MelinaKB OFC!! THIS WENT STRAIGHT ON MY PLAYLIST

  • @caramelcaffemacchiato1707
    @caramelcaffemacchiato1707 3 года назад +56

    this sounds like it could be a part 2 to "All You Wanna Do" from SIX the musical. This song sounds like it can really fit in a musical and I think the message aligns if Katherine did decide to fight back

  • @tris8735
    @tris8735 3 года назад +98

    can we just take a minute to admire how gorgeous she looks in that picture~ like how??

  • @danyphantom7008
    @danyphantom7008 3 года назад +104

    Came here straight from tik tok and I'm in love! ❤

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 года назад +20

      Awee hi!!! Thank you so much🥺🥺❤️

    • @danyphantom7008
      @danyphantom7008 3 года назад +7

      @@MelinaKB hi love!! ❤ and yw! I wish I heard this song back in hs when I was in my toxic relationship but still, I appreciate and love this song. I listened to it nonstop actually :)

  • @feonixrizen4960
    @feonixrizen4960 8 месяцев назад +6

    My abusive ex tried texting me yesterday after over a year. I'm so proud of myself for shutting him down and telling him where he can shove it

  • @ladybi_
    @ladybi_ 3 года назад +497

    ~Lyrics for those who like to see them all at once like me❤~
    So you say you really miss me? (Aah)
    Well that makes me laugh
    'Cause you miss the way I let you walk all over me
    Broke every bone in my back
    So you wanna reminisce things? Huh (aah)
    Well don't come round here with that
    If we review through your phony excuses
    I bet it won't change the past
    Closed for the weekend
    Don't you apologize
    I know you don't mean it
    I quit
    Here's to the "no"s
    To the "I think you should go"s
    To the leave his ass alone's
    To the hanging up thе phone's
    To the no man can demand my body, my spirit, my lovе
    Ooh
    Here's to the "no"s
    To the "walk yourself on home"s
    To the keeping on my clothes
    To the highs without the lows
    To the no man can demand my body, my spirit, my love
    Ooh
    I've had enough
    So you're claiming you're a martyr, what?
    Like I don't have a clue
    Too bad I'm smarter, be discreet's a starter
    I'm staring right at the proof
    Closed for forever (uh-huh)
    I'm done with shutting up
    I've learned a lot better
    Listen
    Here's to the "no"s
    To the "I think you should go"s (I think you should go)
    To the leave his ass alone's
    To the hanging up the phone's
    To the no man can demand my body, my spirit, my love
    Ooh
    Here's to the "no"s
    To the "walk yourself on home"s
    To the keeping on my clothes
    To the highs without the lows
    To the no man can demand my body, my spirit, my love, love, love
    If you're so mature now
    Then I think it's time you grow up
    Admit you did it
    We all know you did it
    And yet you still gaslight me up
    You are such a flame out
    Your only drive left's in the bed (your only drive left's in the bed)
    I don't deserve this
    And for your next girlfriend
    You need to treat her with respect
    Here's to my girls
    Standing up for what they're worth
    Yeah, you know who run the world
    I am ready to be heard
    No man can demand my body, my spirit, my love (my body, my spirit, my love)
    Ooh
    And for the boys
    Who don't care who they destroy
    Told us "NO" was not a choice
    You cannot silence our voice
    No man can demand our bodies, our spirits, our love
    We've had enough

    • @epilepsylizard2469
      @epilepsylizard2469 3 года назад +7

      This is literally a lyric video

    • @ss-iy5zd
      @ss-iy5zd 3 года назад +54

      @@epilepsylizard2469 they clearly said, “Lyrics for those who like seeing them all at once.”

    • @Mz73-KAT
      @Mz73-KAT 8 дней назад +2

      I find this helpful thank you I was actually looking for this, usually they put these type things in the description but for some reason, this one didn't so I had to check the comments, most people think it's weird to do this, but I find it helpful because sometimes I want to just look at the lyrics and not listen to the actual song before. Yes, I know I could just go on Google, but I like to do this.
      Bite me

  • @Bambibanbditime
    @Bambibanbditime 3 года назад +80

    It’s right about the anniversary of when I got with my shitty ex for six years. I left him September and this song has helped me feel like myself again

  • @ArtBeam.X.HSHH1
    @ArtBeam.X.HSHH1 16 дней назад +2

    So we're not talking about how beautiful and strong her voice is? I loveee this song

  • @Lizbeth-mu8bo
    @Lizbeth-mu8bo 3 года назад +572

    Who wants to bet that the one dislike is from the person the song is about 😂

  • @sophiamarques1778
    @sophiamarques1778 3 года назад +60

    IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE!!! TURN IT UPP🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊

  • @thatbluspook4483
    @thatbluspook4483 Год назад +6

    Even though it's a song about bad men hurting people, I vibe with this on a different level.
    I'm a trans man who's only been free of an abusive mother for almost a year, and all of my life up to my escape last year was hell. She was discreet, she was good at hiding it and tricking people to turn on me if I tried to use my voice. Even took coming out to my grandfather who passed away by doing it for me without my knowledge. I could write a book how wicked she was.
    I lost my best friends because of her, and even though I have been struggling... I've been thriving. I have moments where I miss the "safety" of being under her thumb, but then I remember how bad it was... This song is going to be one of a few that I listen to when I think about what I went through.

  • @miraris.
    @miraris. 3 года назад +61

    This is Angelica vibes with Eliza's voice from Hamilton, it's like Burn & Congratulations but she's actually burning him.

  • @liannegordon9622
    @liannegordon9622 3 года назад +19

    This song feels like the solo in the musical right before the interval where the good girl who is loved by everyone finally gives up and becomes the villian

  • @btrhasmyheart
    @btrhasmyheart 2 года назад +20

    Thank you for making this song! I’ve been dealing with a lot of PTSD and depression lately and I view this song as a personal theme of mine for the ones who have hurt me in the past thank you! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @flyingblind5677
    @flyingblind5677 3 года назад +26

    Honestly, the little baffled “what?” At 1:21 might seriously be my favorite part of the whole song, I can’t help but laugh every time

  • @yassouza1620
    @yassouza1620 3 года назад +258

    Your vocals, the mean of the lyric, GOD I LOVE THIS SO MUCH

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 года назад +28

      THANK YOU SO MUCH🥺❤️

    • @GamingGuineaPig
      @GamingGuineaPig 6 месяцев назад

      @@MelinaKB even new kanye is better like even carnival is better

  • @loveisanopendoor3532
    @loveisanopendoor3532 Год назад +9

    This feels like such a main character moment in a Broadway musical.

  • @starlitdrms9210
    @starlitdrms9210 3 года назад +90

    ‘ *admit you did it we all know u did it* ‘
    Those lines hit me so bad in the heart

  • @JB-en2ze
    @JB-en2ze 3 года назад +47

    hello I've recently left a 3 year relationship because he cheated on me again and your song is helping me not to be soft to him and take him back. thank you 🥺🥺

  • @MelodyPeridot
    @MelodyPeridot 8 месяцев назад +1

    This song is 100% a good thing to get in your mind if you're struggling with narcissistic or sociopathic abuse (just don't get caught listening).
    If you're escaped, like I have this past October, listen to this. This will help with the trauma bond. The abuse is addictive but this song is how it should be. If you're away, savor the freedom. Savor how no one can tell you what to do, what to wear, who to talk to. You don't owe sex to anyone, whether you're the girlfriend or wife. you shouldn't be afraid to even lift your eyes up from the ground. You don't deserve to die for disobedience.

  • @janedaisy1519
    @janedaisy1519 3 года назад +85

    OH IM ACTUALLY NOT THAT LATE! I have seen you so much on my fyp your so talented girl thank you for gifting the world with this beautiful song :))

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 года назад +10

      oh my gosh hi! that is SO COOL TO HEAR, you are so sweet thank you!

    • @gachacute7379
      @gachacute7379 3 года назад +1

      Tiktok brought me here cause you were so good! I’m so happy for you that your music is spreading around tiktok too

    • @GamingGuineaPig
      @GamingGuineaPig 6 месяцев назад

      @@MelinaKB u know what else will be cool your body when the life drains from it

  • @jarodtatom1785
    @jarodtatom1785 3 года назад +9

    This song gives me the vibes of what I feel towards my Father(change some of the words of course, but the "If your so mature now, then I think it's time you grow up, admit you did it, we all know you did it, and yet you still gas light me up, your are such a flam out" reminds me of him trying to abuse us, and how he acts like he is so much better than us

    • @RK1M15
      @RK1M15 Год назад

      I'm really sorry

  • @nataliamercado3875
    @nataliamercado3875 3 года назад +3

    This song blew my mind. Usually I think cool song and move on. I ran to google from tik Tok to listen to the full version.

  • @emmagaston1120
    @emmagaston1120 3 года назад +18

    I’ve been playing the songs back to back for the last two days, Best song ever

  • @ririrante6358
    @ririrante6358 3 года назад +23

    This is the exact song ive been waiting made me cry even if it was upbeat,, i had a courage to break up with him since all he think is the 'bed' even if i told him no... The part where "and for your next girlfriend you need to treat her with respect" thats exactly what i told him.. but he kept his stand thinking he respect me.. so sad.. im happy im free

    • @ririrante6358
      @ririrante6358 3 года назад

      Thank you for this song 💜

    • @gachacute7379
      @gachacute7379 3 года назад

      You did the right thing breaking up with him. A good, mature, and caring boyfriend Willis understand if you weren’t ready for that and would wait as long as you need. I’m really happy for you and I hope you find someone who will treat you how you deserve 💕 also I agree, this song is so good and made me more confident especially about breaking up with my ex.

    • @gachacute7379
      @gachacute7379 3 года назад

      *would understand

  • @robertpitt5940
    @robertpitt5940 2 года назад +6

    As a girl who is dealing with trouble..this is my motivation song!!

  • @katte011
    @katte011 3 года назад +46

    I am so in love with this song!! Like others have said, it gives me MAJOR musical vibes and it's absolutely brilliant! I can soo imagine a whole broadway sequence to this... I hope you make more songs like this and pursue a broadway sound since you do it so well.

  • @cereal.boxx_7326
    @cereal.boxx_7326 3 года назад +19

    Put this woman in a musical and I will watch it straight away, this song give of Hamilton x mean girls vibes

  • @justinebidault1672
    @justinebidault1672 3 года назад +4

    I get the vibes of SIX the musical, I love it

  • @CryptiComet
    @CryptiComet 3 года назад +10

    This has only been on here for two days and I’ve already lost caught of how many times I’ve listened to this on loop.

  • @-BugIsGay-
    @-BugIsGay- 3 года назад +17

    OK this is officially my favourite song ever-
    Ik someone else said it but-
    These lyrics hit different.
    "If you're so 'mature' now, then I think it's time you grow up. Admit you did it, we ALL KNOW you DID it, and yet you still gaslight me up.."

    • @GamingGuineaPig
      @GamingGuineaPig 6 месяцев назад

      u want a good relationship song lil bro listen to runaway

  • @sageyy__m0thz
    @sageyy__m0thz 2 года назад +6

    My fav part "If your so mature now
    Then I think it's time you grow up,
    Admit you did it! We all know you did it! And yet you still gaslight me up"

  • @grandpamarilena100
    @grandpamarilena100 3 года назад +26

    I am so glad I stumbled upon your music yesterday. I love your style of music and this song is now my new favorite!

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 года назад +6

      Thank you so much!!🥺 that means so much to hear!

    • @GamingGuineaPig
      @GamingGuineaPig 6 месяцев назад

      @@MelinaKB know what else is good to hear when this song finishes

  • @kayleighlivezey2321
    @kayleighlivezey2321 3 года назад +9

    i want you to know i didn’t know how underrated you were when i first found your song on spotify. i’ve been listening to it NONSTOP for weeks, months actually. this is SO good. it’s so powerful too freaking go girl

  • @__fairy--frost__8796
    @__fairy--frost__8796 3 года назад +5

    " I don't deserve it and for your next girlfriend, you need to teach her with respect " it's the most beautiful part. It hits different :)

  • @saillama
    @saillama 3 года назад +14

    This song literally describes what I’m going through but it’s with people I used to be friends with 😩

  • @AxeSoul
    @AxeSoul 3 года назад +172

    You telling me this has 13K views? Do I need glasses? That should, at the very least, be a M, not a K. I saw this on TikTok and I’m really hoping it blows up on there, this deserves to be one of, if not, the best song made in 2021, I don’t care how early we are in this is a masterpiece

    • @Sav2006
      @Sav2006 3 года назад +12

      It’s now 120k. She’s growing so fast. I’m so happy for her. I hope she keeps making music, her voice is pure bliss.

    • @richie3519
      @richie3519 3 года назад +3

      @@Sav2006 227k now !!

    • @darkanti427
      @darkanti427 3 года назад +3

      349k views now!

    • @laibahashmi311
      @laibahashmi311 3 года назад +3

      388k Views!! ☺️

    • @haruchiid7254
      @haruchiid7254 3 года назад +1

      391k now

  • @rutivelez9802
    @rutivelez9802 Месяц назад +6

    This song fits so perfectly now these days

  • @Caitlin-sc1ew
    @Caitlin-sc1ew 3 года назад +32

    So many musical vibes I love it (also like Heather Chandler and Regina George kinda vibes lol

  • @yourlocalJellyBeans216
    @yourlocalJellyBeans216 3 года назад +8

    As part of the 97% this song speaks with my soul. I LOVE THIS SONG WITH MY WHOLE HEART!

  • @senecarus_whitur
    @senecarus_whitur Год назад +4

    I know this song is about a romantic relationship but listening to this after finally standing up to my boss, who belittled me to no end feel so good

  • @auds3216
    @auds3216 3 года назад +14

    PLEASE ADD THIS TO SOUNDCLOUDDD I HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS FOREVER BESTIEEEE

  • @s0ftsiren_840
    @s0ftsiren_840 3 года назад +59

    I’m going through my first heartbreak feeling used/sad/hurt/angry and this EXACTLY describes how I feel. THIS IS THE BAD BITCH ANTHEM I NEEDED.

  • @StarBurned
    @StarBurned 8 месяцев назад +2

    I’m sending this to my friend going through a toxic relationship as a subtle reminder she is strong

  • @kaylo6169
    @kaylo6169 3 года назад +4

    I really hope an instrumental of this is released in the future, I was recommended this during some intense spousal abuse and I have both cried and sung triumphantly to it. Thank you so much for putting these feelings into words, and into a beautiful arrangement at that. If I’m missing any instrumentals and if anyone reads this lmk! I really want to cover it as the first song I would’ve covered in a year but I’ve only found one shoddy version. I may learn it on the piano and play it. I want to express all this pain I’m feeling and put it out there whether or not people in my life believe the abuse has been real.

  • @kalopsia8709
    @kalopsia8709 3 года назад +9

    I am obsessed! This makes me feel very powerful and less of a pushover! ❤️❤️

  • @Darcie105
    @Darcie105 9 месяцев назад +1

    I LOVE THIS SONG LIKE IS IT JUST ME OR IS SHE SO RELATABLE!!?

  • @ghostingaround1749
    @ghostingaround1749 3 года назад +11

    I saw you post it on TikTok and I’ve fallen in love already. I’ve listened to the song at least 20 times by now and it’s only been a day.
    Your voice is beautiful 💕

  • @acornbaby4105
    @acornbaby4105 3 года назад +11

    Just getting out of a relationship and I've hit the anger stage after realizing how awful I was treated in the end and you bet I'm BLASTING this

  • @c4ndy.._..c0m
    @c4ndy.._..c0m 2 года назад +21

    As someone who was sexually harassed by one of my classmates multiple times, this song hits really hard for me, my partner was also sexually harassed by the same person, but my school did basically nothing, but you know what, shoutout to all the people who went through sexual abuse, rape, grooming, etc. you all are so strong, and I'm sorry to anyone who went through that

    • @NightmareKana
      @NightmareKana 2 года назад +1

      Bro im so sorry to hear that, you and your partner don't deserve to go through that kind of stuff

    • @c4ndy.._..c0m
      @c4ndy.._..c0m 2 года назад +2

      @@NightmareKana thx, we ended up cutting him off and we don't talk to him anymore

    • @FluffyCoconut
      @FluffyCoconut Год назад

      Thank you, that means so much.

  • @Blazeloulou
    @Blazeloulou 3 года назад +5

    It's been one week since I started listening to this song... I'm sure it's a sign, 'cause the song I listened before this one was all you wanna do from six the musical.
    Both of them talk about abuse.... It's hitting me so hard that I feel like someone took me down suddenly and I couldn't do anything about it

  • @ItzVintagePastel
    @ItzVintagePastel 2 года назад +22

    3:09 I have the ending in replay tbh 😭😭

  • @jellcie
    @jellcie 3 года назад +2

    no bc the build up reminds me of the anger I felt towards my toxic bestie. This song rlly scratches an itch in my brain.

  • @kraftykitty84_vr
    @kraftykitty84_vr 3 года назад +8

    I can hear the anger in your voice. Freaking love this song ❤️

  • @alexguerra6837
    @alexguerra6837 3 года назад +17

    Another song to listen to on repeat for 2 weeks 😩❤️

  • @lyricaall
    @lyricaall 2 года назад +1

    I know this is aimed at relationships and boundaries, but this reminds me of my family trauma. Especially the if your so mature now bit. Idk if it’s a good or bad feeling listening to this, but I can’t stop.

  • @bellawagner3075
    @bellawagner3075 3 года назад +5

    can not stop playing this song!!!!!!! It reminds me on one of my ex's and made me feel so much better