I’ve been a licensed cosmetologist for over 30 years. I’m totally on your side on this about everything. Braids are my specialty. There’s nothing more disappointing tan your hair not coming out the way you asked for. It’s even worse to be treated poorly. I’m so sorry you had to experience this, especially on your birthday. Your MIL is so sweet and supportive. What a Blessing she is. I know you’ll find a hairdresser that does what you want and treats you like your her only client while you’re in her (or his) chair. After all, you’re a Queen n deserve the best. 💝💯👍🏽🌞
I myself teared up, watching you cry out of anger and frustration. If your husband is anything like my dear departed hubby, he will *BELIEVE* and tell you that you are beautiful no matter what you're wearing on your head or body! You were brave to go back to that salon and you handled yourself civilly and admirably. You didn't show us the entire finished look but it appeared to be neat and extremely presentable. I bet you could learn to do this yourself - you are so freakin' talented!! Bless you and happy birthday, sweetness.
Yep me too. Plus I don’t like my edges being pulled out by braiders who insist on making them too tight. RUclips has lots of videos. It does take some practice though, and more time to DIY vs going to a professional. It’s very UNprofessional to start and hour and a half after the appointment time though. They would not have tolerated you showing up that late if it were the other way around.
I've been a hairdresser for 38 years and what you were put through was not only unprofessional but very cold and cruel. DON'T go back to that place!! Hope they gave you a huge discount. I'm so sorry you were treated so badly. Your beautiful inside and out even with your hair not done. 🥰
You are a beautiful, sweet, and vibrant young lady. Continue to show your beauty, regardless of what the outside of you may display. Besides, you have so many attributes. You display in your videos an intelligent, vibrant, caring lady, mother, and wife. I'm not saying that getting dolled up isn't a part of being a woman. But girl with the healthy physique you have (envied by most) getting your hair done is just the icing on the cake. So stay positive and upwardly mobile towards your faith, family, and success.
Your mother N Law has a beautiful soul!! Wen she said ur beautiful after not getting ur hair done just melted my heart!! I love love her!!!! Edit: I hope u have a great Birthday!!!! Happy Birthday!!! Ur still Beautiful….
Not to diminish your disappointment and frustration, but all I was thinking was, 'My God, she's so beautiful!' Good for you for pushing back on that braider, and her sub-par service. Happy Birthday!
Any hairstyle she wears she will rock it. She could have done a lot more with it just the way the first hair dresser left it. I'm glad she stood up for herself though.
It’s so frustrating when you have an idea on your hairstyle and are super excited, then it doesn’t come out like you want and you have to pay your money for it! But you’re beautiful regardless…happy birthday!!! BTW your mother in law is so sweet ☺️❤
Don't cry little Mama. That happened to me once. I started asking people for recommendations, if i liked the way their hair looked. That worked out well for me. Sending love 💜 Happy Birthday 🎂
Even tho your hair wasn't what you wanted, it still looked nice on you, I'm glad you went back to let them know, what happened so that you can hopefully get a quick resolve. Happy 28th BDay your alive, you have a Beautiful family and your Blessed 🎊🎉🎈🎁
You looked so sad omg. When you were crying I started crying. I’m so sorry this happened. Leave them a terrible review and tell your friends not to go there girl. Hell I wanna know so I know to never give them my business when I’m in the area. I do hope you enjoyed your birthday overall. ❤️
I’m so sorry you experienced that. As women, in this society, so much importance is put on the beauty of our hair, and getting a special hair appointment on your birthday was supposed to be a treat and pampering. I would’ve totally cried too. Just because you’re able to move past it doesn’t mean it wasn’t super disappointing and upsetting at the time. I hope you find a better salon. Wishing you a wonderful birthday. So glad you have a wonderful M-I-L. 💕
If I were you I would not ever go back there. Remember you don't know what is in a person's mind these days. Love peace and blessings to y'all, your mother in law is so awesome and father in law.
Omg I’ve been in that situation before with the hairstylist I love the way you spoke up I used to just let people do whatever they like to my hair and go home & be so upset .. your so naturally beautiful I love the way you went on with your day without feeling defeated your boys are so sweet they love their mommy so much they instantly made you feel better and your mother in law is the absolute best such a sweet caring woman although the style wasn’t what you asked I really loved your braids at the end 🎉happy birthday may god continue to bless you & your beautiful family ❤🫶🏾
I’m sure Brett will love you with anything you do to your hair. So sorry for your experience. Totally unacceptable the way you were treated at the salon. Hope it didn’t ruin your birthday. Happy birthday beautiful lady. 🎉❤.
You have the best MIL ever. You hit the MIL jackpot. I wish I would've been that lucky. If you ever get sick of her you can pass her my way. I'm so sorry you didn't get the hair style you wanted. Some people probably think it's not a big deal but it is. When you're spending that much money and time they sure as he11 better do a good job. What they did could easily give them a bad rep and cause them to lose customers. Happy Birthday, by the way. You have it all, awesome kids, a good looking hubby, the best Mil ever...and maybe some awesome hair soon too! Congrats
I could feel your pain sis I’ve had one too many annoying experiences! It’s so hard to not find opportunists in the hair industry. But also you are strong! I’m happy you went back to stand up for yourself.. they are not worth the 260$ geez.. You are definitely going to 28 a stronger human 😘 and you are a beautiful person ❤
I've had such an awful experience when I was a young mother that I learned to do it myself at home (including cutting!) -- because honestly leaving my baby, spending so much $$ and going from excited to frustration wasn't worth it! *Side note you're beautiful and could honestly rock a short Hallie Berry do better than most anyone -- I would look into a short easy hairstyle while they're still little or else find you a trustworthy hairdresser and hold on for dear life -- HAPPY Birthday! ❤🥂
I am 54 years old. I stop letting people do my hair when I was 20 years old. I do my own crochet braids, cornrows, braids, weave and when I used to color and perm, I did that myself. I had little ones running around too. We do what we need to, to get the job done! IMPROVISED!
You are bless to have a energetic mother inlaw she is so sweet and a kind spirit please calm down my heart goes out to you you are such a beautiful young woman inside and out just take a breath there's so much love surrounding you continue to stay strong sweetheart you have people out here constantly praying for you and your beautiful family 🙏😊💞 hold on up your beautiful head
It makes me so happy that you and your mil get along so well. And grandpa looks happy to have those little boys around him. They can surely teach the littles life’s lessons that they can take them through life. At the ages they are, they will never forget them. I am in awe of the family relationships you have created. I know sometimes parents get tired and exhausted sometimes. I just adore your family togetherness. 😇🙏❤️
You remind me of myself as a young mom and wife. Our time with our family is so precious and we don’t want it squandered. I’m so sorry your pleasant day was interrupted by this person’s unprofessionalism and total disregard for your time and money. People like that are entitled & unapologetic and shouldn’t be in that line of work.😕
Happy Birthday!!! I’m so sorry you went through that experience with your hair. I hate salons ,because of that reason . I’m sure your husband will love you regardless . I love your channel and your family. Your mother in law is everything. ❤
Happy Blessed Birthday!!!!! You are naturally beautiful with your hair done or not done... Sorry that you had to experience that..... You are truly blessed to have such a humbled, understanding and amazing mother n law ❤❤❤❤
Girl, you are so pretty. I know you didn’t get what you wanted, hopefully you’ll fine another hair salon. A good reputable stylist and salon is difficult to find. When my stylist moved I drove an hour and a half just to stay with her, until she move out of state. Maybe some of your viewers can recommend a salon or a braider in your area for you?
Happy birthday beautiful ! So sorry you had to go through all that horrible service at the hair salon. You should put them on blast and let everyone know where they are located. I hope they will learn to be considerate of other people time , you are paying them for a service and they need to listen to what the customer wants not what they want to give you.
Happy Birthday Queen!!! You are so beautiful inside & out. I know & understand your frustration. I started doing my own hair around 14. It was quite a process.. But I took my time & learned/ studied what I could. I've never been to a stylist before but I've heard quite a few stories. I'm grateful I stuck with that along with doing my own makeup. You know, only women can understand what the depth means as far as having a style of your own. I truly understand. And I in no way will dismiss how that stylist acted. Totally disrespectful. I'm sorry you had to go through that. I wish you a positive encouraging birthday. Sending love & support to you & your beautiful family from NC ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤
I had no clue the struggles you guys go through with your hair until I dated wonderful black girl. Unfortunately I was her first relationship after coming out and her family couldn't tolerate it. I had no clue what she went through with her hair until one day she went to the salon and was there for over 5 hours. I hope you have a wonderful birthday and I hope you can find a salon that does your hair the way you want it done. I love it when my new girlfriend comes home from the salon with that extra bounce in her step
Aaaaah babygirl. I feel sorry for you You looking BEAUTIFUL no matter what. You have Natural BEAUTY. You have Most important things. loving family. Your mother-in-law is AWESOME BEAUTY also. GOD BLESS U BOTH and HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!
HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY, SEEING YOU CRY MADE ME WANT TO CRY TOO... I'M SO HAPPY YOU WERE ABLE TO GET A RESOLUTION AND THANK GOD FOR SUCH A GREAT AND UNDERSTANDING MOTHER-IN-LAW!
Happy Birthday love I love your family I also live in Arizona been here for 4 years and my daughter braids do sew in and she nothing like these people here that be trying to get over if you ever want to reach out I pray your family stay blessed and be blessed 🎉
Happy Birthday Love Today is my daughter’s birthday too! Don’t ever go back to those tasteless ppl. Find you a local braider on IG and pay for her to come to your home. Sorry you went through this.
Yes, definitely don't let them touch your hair again. Been through that pain so many times. And I have great hair but not as pretty a face as you. Got my money back numerous times. Sorry about your experience. Happy 28. ♥️
Sending you hugs 🤗! I cry when I am really angry as well. I stopped going to the hairdresser a long time ago, most have no respect for your time. Prices are out of control as well. Hope you find a better hairdresser in the future. your still beautiful sis! Love, love your mother in law ; she’s such a vibe 💕💕
🎉Happy Birthday Queen of Kings!!! Focus on how beautiful you are inside and outside. I know it was your very special day but do not allow anyone to rob you of your JOY. Glad mom was there to help both of you recoup and turn a frown upside down. Remember the song “CELEBRATION TIME, Come On “ 🎂🎈💐🥰 And many more! May the good Lord bless you and fam 🙏🏽
The customer is always right. Even if they can't quite explain what they want. You keep adjusting the service until you create what they want. If they still are not happy you don't take their money. That is what a true professional does...You have loving children and a husband who loves you pass anything external. Even at your worst they are always lifting you up, even MIL. You are truly blessed!
I felt this! Many hairstylists these days are horrible in customer service and or quality. I haven't found a great stylist YET ... Start investing in some good quality wigs until you find a good stylist. If you're into wigs. Edit: The issue at that salon was that they clearly don't know how to do hair AT ALL.
Im commenting again because I just finished watching good for you I'm glad you went back you definitely stick up for what you want Soo glad you didn't just cut your losses and not go back I'm the same way and I teach my daughter to do the same😎
Oh my sorry that happened to you hun you deserve better. You're still beautiful. Hope you have a happy birthday. I love your mother in law she's so loving. I also cry when I'm angry
Happy Birthday beautiful and fellow Saggie sis, it's going to be ok..I moved to AZ from the East and let me tell you girl they can't do here...that's just it! So I've learned to do my own hair and when I go back home, get it professionally done. AZ black stylists get it together!
I’m crying watching your video because I’ve experienced the same situation you’re so Beautiful that any look and perfect you can always get a nice wig and put over the braids nice Protective style!
Oh sweet girl, as a mommy of three I felt this so deeply. I totally have been there. I was mad/sad for you. But. Your babies thought you looked great. Lol. Isn't that always the way. It is so funny and sweet. We be looking a hot damned mess - and they love us.
🎉🎉🎂 Happy Birthday 🎉🎉🎂 😢 Sad... In spite of things not working out...The best thing is your kids, your health, and the love 💕 surrounding you & celebrating another yr ❤️ shame on that lady ... Don't go to her ever again!! I learned something important with these hairstylist... reading they reviews too...
Same thing happened to me about 4 or 5 years ago. I requested a very similar braid style only to get nearly the same results as you got except my braids were more bulky and made me look like a man. I paid a lot of money. The lady who did it was a lovely person but she was not able to do it. I did not tell her how upset I was but 4 days later when I had taken it out the manager saw me in the area and asked me why and I told her the truth. This is the only black owned salon in my area, usually I get my hair done elsewhere because I was always dubious they never had customers but I wanted to support them. I never went there again.
It broke 🥲my heart to see you cry because you didn’t get what you wanted but you are beautiful 😍even if it isn’t the hairstyle you prefer to have you are a very strong, young woman and I don’t think I would patronize their business anymore. Find someone who takes great pride in their work anyway, happy birthday 28 looks good on you.🎂🎁🎈🎉
Oh I felt so bad when you cried....I wish I knew how to braid, I would braid your hair for you. You looked so beautiful even with the cornrows...I wish your husband would think so. Your family is so beautiful and you are so blessed.
Happy Bday. I can sooo relate to u. I feel as though every last bday I have had I had hair problems, like every single time. Either the hairdresser flaked or some issue came up. I think when a lot of people went natural and started going even more to these Braiders they all feel like they can do what they want. Braiders never get my style right, they do what they want with my money. Then the other stylists be charging an arm and a leg. I washed my hair this weekend and promised myself to buy the braiding hair and try it myself. I work too hard to pay these prices and not even be happy with the service or the style. Anyway I hope ur day turns out well.
So sorry that happened to you. It will be ok. I had to teach myself to do my own nails during covid. I do them really well. Hugs to you. When I get mad I cry also since I found the Lord, I don't slap people anymore. You have a wonderful mom in law. You are blessed 💝
Girl I’m the same way when I get mad. Then I get mad at myself for crying. I know people judge me for it. And think I’m weak. But trust me I think they rather I cry and get my frustration out that way than taking it out on them. Just remember you are beautiful no matter what your hair looks like. You could shave it off and you would still be gorgeous. But I totally get your frustration.
Happy birthday 🎉🎈! The comment I left in the live was a response to the comment you made. I was upset about how others respond to your life when their lives isn't squeaky clean. After you read part of my comment I realized I didn't say to you DON'T WORRY ABOUT THEM. It bothered me that I didn't say/leave my comment correctly. You being a sweet soft person as well as I, I didn't want you to feel saddened on your birthday by me for a misunderstanding comment. Love you and your family HAPPY BIRTHDAY GORGEOUS 🦋💜🦋
Aww sweetie I’m so sorry you went through that but good for you for going back & telling her the way she did you was wrong. When you said you didn’t want to go into your 28th birthday looking with your hair like that I thought to myself you would be going into your 28th birthday with your natural hair which is beautiful! You have the perfect hair texture for coils, you should go on YT & search for The Curly Girl method for girls with your hair type. Natural curly hair will look really good on you. Hope you have a very Happy Birthday! 🎂
I think every girl or woman has experienced tears and frustration due to a bad hair cut or style. Hair can make us feel so much, good or bad. I hope you find someone you trust to do the style you want. You look really nice with short hair too, and I think you could style it and be natural and still look just as amazing as if you had gotten longer braids in.
What an awesome and loving family you all are! So blessed! Your family sets a wonderful example of what is the most important thing about life! Love and kindness!♥️♥️♥️
All of you are beautiful. Every member of your family placed carefully in your life. You are all so loved. God is great beautful girl. Your a gorgeous soul.
I am so sorry that you had to go through that...that is time and money that you cannot get back. I hope that you find another shop. You are still beautiful. Happy Birthday.
OMG I’m sorry u went through all that! Wish I could say I have never been through it, but I know exactly what ur dealing w. Especially when ur new in town & end up going to one of those places that think it’s ok to sit, & sit & sit…BEFORE they even put u in the chair.. No Ma’am I got stuff to do & I can’t be at the hairdresser allllll day. Even though it’s not what u wanted it’s at least nice & happy birthday!!! Ur family loves u & think ur beautiful hair or no hair. God got u…& the hair situation ❤. Chalk it up to live & learn. 💪🏾👊🏾Happy Birthday Sis 🎊 🎉!
Happy, Happy Birthday Beautiful Queen 👸🏾!!! I adore you and think that your family is absolutely beautiful!!! Your MIL is an absolute gem. I totally feel you about your hair experience, and I’m so so sorry you went through that smh…
Happy Birthday Beautiful Queen. I know you were upset about your hair and I totally get it. With that being said you look really pretty with the alternative hairstyle. You have the face structure and beauty for straight back hair and I'm not just gassing up a stranger. Sending love and light on your bday from Dallas! ✨️
I'm sorry that happened it seems like some people just need a job because that's the way of just making it in America 😩 but happy birthday beautiful your family is there everybody is there to support you so just turn up happy birthday 🎂🎂🥰 sending love from #houston
Happy Birthday!!!! Like you, I don't like cornrows either as a female hairstyle, but you are really beautiful. I am appalled when I show a desired hairstyle to a hairstylist, and she tells me she can do it. The end result shows that she could not. These opportunists expect to get paid as if they did it the way you wanted. A few are chosen to have talent in doing hair, but many went for the money no matter how they destroyed people's hair and hair day.
The having run a salon and spa and being an esthetician. I find the biggest problem with my black hair stylist and training is properly was time management. And not overbooking. Or if you are late calling your clients. There's just a way that the industry has run for years. And always felt like never was there an emphasis on the valuation of time. In years past a lot of hair stylist would overbook themselves so would have three or four people going at the same time. And I'd watch ladies being a chair for 6 hours. And then in turn they would charge a fraction of what they should be charging the client. And in essence they'd be working harder throughout the day. It was nothing to see a hairstyle is doing a 16-hour day. And making the same money or less money than their white counterpart that only did say five clients what have you.
When you work hard, there is a certain level of expectation that we as women have for ourselves. It is very frustrating when things as simple as getting our hair done doesn't go well. I understand wholeheartedly how you feel. Also, felt you about your hubby. We also love to look good for our men, cater to what they like...just want to give you a big ole hug.
Happy birthday you look good girl 🎂🥳 on the bright side you did get some "me" time it wasn't a good experience but a learning experience. On your next "me" time whenever that comes around it'll be better than the first time. God bless you and your family 💝
I've had a similar experience years ago, so I learned to do my own. I had a toddler at the time, so I took my time over three days and used three mirrors to get the parting right. What I didn't get to finish I tied up in a turban with the completed parts displayed and went to work. I got it done the way I wanted by doing a little at a time with the schedule I had to work with, plus only spent money for the packaged braids added in.
Awww now I'm crying!!!...I'm so sorry...but guess what...you are the prettiest little thing EVER!!!! Gurllll...you're beautiful...and your mother in law is the coolest!
Why would your husband be embarrassed of the hairstyle maybe you didn't explained that well.
They are big and bulky sitting on the top of my head, they look ultra fake and he appreciates a more feminine look
Ok,so it wasn't done well,I understand now.
@@kerryfran9438 it’s not even the same style.. I asked for feed in braids. It’s not what I asked for
I’ve been a licensed cosmetologist for over 30 years. I’m totally on your side on this about everything. Braids are my specialty. There’s nothing more disappointing tan your hair not coming out the way you asked for. It’s even worse to be treated poorly. I’m so sorry you had to experience this, especially on your birthday. Your MIL is so sweet and supportive. What a Blessing she is. I know you’ll find a hairdresser that does what you want and treats you like your her only client while you’re in her (or his) chair. After all, you’re a Queen n deserve the best. 💝💯👍🏽🌞
@@hello15848 The older boys are in school, so the babysitter will mostly be for the baby.
I love how mom was just like let’s drinks and build stuff…such a beautiful family
I myself teared up, watching you cry out of anger and frustration. If your husband is anything like my dear departed hubby, he will *BELIEVE* and tell you that you are beautiful no matter what you're wearing on your head or body! You were brave to go back to that salon and you handled yourself civilly and admirably. You didn't show us the entire finished look but it appeared to be neat and extremely presentable. I bet you could learn to do this yourself - you are so freakin' talented!! Bless you and happy birthday, sweetness.
Mom so cute! Love how loving and helpful she is!
Your mother in law is so sweet and kind.
What a beautiful spirit.
These hairstylists are out of hand. Due to so many frustrations, I just taught myself to do my own hair. So sorry you had to go through that 😩
Girl I stop letting people touch my hair 15 years ago and I'm only 32 lol... Now I'm tired of touching my own hair and got locs 😂
She a blogger with a following ✨️ do your own hair from other RUclips videos and document the process going forward.
Yep me too. Plus I don’t like my edges being pulled out by braiders who insist on making them too tight. RUclips has lots of videos. It does take some practice though, and more time to DIY vs going to a professional. It’s very UNprofessional to start and hour and a half after the appointment time though. They would not have tolerated you showing up that late if it were the other way around.
Same. You get to keep your time and your money and once you learn multiple styles, you never have to worry about being disappointed again.
I've been a hairdresser for 38 years and what you were put through was not only unprofessional but very cold and cruel. DON'T go back to that place!! Hope they gave you a huge discount. I'm so sorry you were treated so badly. Your beautiful inside and out even with your hair not done. 🥰
Amen!
You are a beautiful, sweet, and vibrant young lady.
Continue to show your beauty, regardless of what the outside of you may display.
Besides, you have so many attributes. You display in your videos an intelligent, vibrant, caring lady, mother, and wife.
I'm not saying that getting dolled up isn't a part of being a woman. But girl with the healthy physique you have (envied by most)
getting your hair done is just the icing on the cake.
So stay positive and upwardly mobile towards your faith, family, and success.
Exactly like what the heck!?
Your mother N Law has a beautiful soul!! Wen she said ur beautiful after not getting ur hair done just melted my heart!! I love love her!!!!
Edit: I hope u have a great Birthday!!!! Happy Birthday!!! Ur still Beautiful….
Some stylists have NO respect for our time. Been there, done that!!! I cry to when I’m upset. 😢 bless you and Happy Birthday!!!
Not to diminish your disappointment and frustration, but all I was thinking was, 'My God, she's so beautiful!' Good for you for pushing back on that braider, and her sub-par service. Happy Birthday!
I was thinking the same thing! The face is giving beautiful 😍.
me too.
Any hairstyle she wears she will rock it. She could have done a lot more with it just the way the first hair dresser left it. I'm glad she stood up for herself though.
It’s so frustrating when you have an idea on your hairstyle and are super excited, then it doesn’t come out like you want and you have to pay your money for it! But you’re beautiful regardless…happy birthday!!!
BTW your mother in law is so sweet ☺️❤
Your mother in law seems like your best friend you two are so sweet together!!!!
Claiming a moma in law like this one 💞😇
Don't cry little Mama. That happened to me once. I started asking people for recommendations, if i liked the way their hair looked. That worked out well for me. Sending love 💜 Happy Birthday 🎂
Even tho your hair wasn't what you wanted, it still looked nice on you, I'm glad you went back to let them know, what happened so that you can hopefully get a quick resolve. Happy 28th BDay your alive, you have a Beautiful family and your Blessed 🎊🎉🎈🎁
I love how your mother in law looks so happy being there with you.
Your MIL is da bomb! No wonder her fabulous son would be with such a fabulous woman! I just love her! I love your family. ❤
You looked so sad omg. When you were crying I started crying. I’m so sorry this happened.
Leave them a terrible review and tell your friends not to go there girl. Hell I wanna know so I know to never give them my business when I’m in the area.
I do hope you enjoyed your birthday overall. ❤️
I’m so sorry you experienced that. As women, in this society, so much importance is put on the beauty of our hair, and getting a special hair appointment on your birthday was supposed to be a treat and pampering. I would’ve totally cried too. Just because you’re able to move past it doesn’t mean it wasn’t super disappointing and upsetting at the time. I hope you find a better salon. Wishing you a wonderful birthday. So glad you have a wonderful M-I-L. 💕
If I were you I would not ever go back there. Remember you don't know what is in a person's mind these days. Love peace and blessings to y'all, your mother in law is so awesome and father in law.
When I get angry I cry as well, you got this boo
Me too
@@ceceprincess4758 it's an outlet
Omg I’ve been in that situation before with the hairstylist I love the way you spoke up I used to just let people do whatever they like to my hair and go home & be so upset .. your so naturally beautiful I love the way you went on with your day without feeling defeated your boys are so sweet they love their mommy so much they instantly made you feel better and your mother in law is the absolute best such a sweet caring woman although the style wasn’t what you asked I really loved your braids at the end 🎉happy birthday may god continue to bless you & your beautiful family ❤🫶🏾
I’m sure Brett will love you with anything you do to your hair. So sorry for your experience. Totally unacceptable the way you were treated at the salon. Hope it didn’t ruin your birthday. Happy birthday beautiful lady. 🎉❤.
Omgggg I LOVE LOVE your family dynamics. Please cherish it mama!!! You have a fan and friend in me..ALL THE WAY FROM NEW YORK❤❤
You have the best MIL ever. You hit the MIL jackpot. I wish I would've been that lucky. If you ever get sick of her you can pass her my way.
I'm so sorry you didn't get the hair style you wanted. Some people probably think it's not a big deal but it is. When you're spending that much money and time they sure as he11 better do a good job. What they did could easily give them a bad rep and cause them to lose customers.
Happy Birthday, by the way. You have it all, awesome kids, a good looking hubby, the best Mil ever...and maybe some awesome hair soon too! Congrats
I knew you were a Sagittarius from the time I started watching you, you reminds me so much of myself. You are a strong woman. Happy Birthday Queen!
Yeeessss! Me too! DECEMBER babies are courageous, beautiful mind body & soul. I just know you’ll be back on your game in no time flat! Hang tight!
So trueeee
I could feel your pain sis
I’ve had one too many annoying experiences! It’s so hard to not find opportunists in the hair industry.
But also you are strong! I’m happy you went back to stand up for yourself.. they are not worth the 260$ geez..
You are definitely going to 28 a stronger human 😘 and you are a beautiful person ❤
I've had such an awful experience when I was a young mother that I learned to do it myself at home (including cutting!) -- because honestly leaving my baby, spending so much $$ and going from excited to frustration wasn't worth it!
*Side note you're beautiful and could honestly rock a short Hallie Berry do better than most anyone -- I would look into a short easy hairstyle while they're still little or else find you a trustworthy hairdresser and hold on for dear life -- HAPPY Birthday! ❤🥂
And when you and mom laughed after that tough moment that's what it's all about! its going to be alright, bless you and your family.
Now I'm in tears😢 Many blessings to you and your beautiful family❤
You're mother-in-law is such a Blessing!,
I understand exactly how you feel. I’m glad you went back and asserted yourself regarding what you wanted, versus what the braider decided to do.
You’re still beautiful! MIL is priceless. ❤
I am 54 years old. I stop letting people do my hair when I was 20 years old. I do my own crochet braids, cornrows, braids, weave and when I used to color and perm, I did that myself. I had little ones running around too. We do what we need to, to get the job done! IMPROVISED!
KWEEN, you are gorgeous and you are surrounded by a beautiful family!
You are bless to have a energetic mother inlaw she is so sweet and a kind spirit please calm down my heart goes out to you you are such a beautiful young woman inside and out just take a breath there's so much love surrounding you continue to stay strong sweetheart you have people out here constantly praying for you and your beautiful family 🙏😊💞 hold on up your beautiful head
It makes me so happy that you and your mil get along so well. And grandpa looks happy to have those little boys around him. They can surely teach the littles life’s lessons that they can take them through life. At the ages they are, they will never forget them. I am in awe of the family relationships you have created. I know sometimes parents get tired and exhausted sometimes. I just adore your family togetherness. 😇🙏❤️
You remind me of myself as a young mom and wife. Our time with our family is so precious and we don’t want it squandered. I’m so sorry your pleasant day was interrupted by this person’s unprofessionalism and total disregard for your time and money. People like that are entitled & unapologetic and shouldn’t be in that line of work.😕
Happy Birthday!!! I’m so sorry you went through that experience with your hair. I hate salons ,because of that reason . I’m sure your husband will love you regardless . I love your channel and your family. Your mother in law is everything. ❤
Happy Blessed Birthday!!!!! You are naturally beautiful with your hair done or not done... Sorry that you had to experience that..... You are truly blessed to have such a humbled, understanding and amazing mother n law ❤❤❤❤
Girl, you are so pretty. I know you didn’t get what you wanted, hopefully you’ll fine another hair salon. A good reputable stylist and salon is difficult to find. When my stylist moved I drove an hour and a half just to stay with her, until she move out of state. Maybe some of your viewers can recommend a salon or a braider in your area for you?
Happy birthday beautiful ! So sorry you had to go through all that horrible service at the hair salon. You should put them on blast and let everyone know where they are located. I hope they will learn to be considerate of other people time , you are paying them for a service and they need to listen to what the customer wants not what they want to give you.
Happy Birthday Queen!!! You are so beautiful inside & out. I know & understand your frustration. I started doing my own hair around 14. It was quite a process.. But I took my time & learned/ studied what I could. I've never been to a stylist before but I've heard quite a few stories. I'm grateful I stuck with that along with doing my own makeup. You know, only women can understand what the depth means as far as having a style of your own. I truly understand. And I in no way will dismiss how that stylist acted. Totally disrespectful. I'm sorry you had to go through that. I wish you a positive encouraging birthday. Sending love & support to you & your beautiful family from NC ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤
I had no clue the struggles you guys go through with your hair until I dated wonderful black girl. Unfortunately I was her first relationship after coming out and her family couldn't tolerate it. I had no clue what she went through with her hair until one day she went to the salon and was there for over 5 hours. I hope you have a wonderful birthday and I hope you can find a salon that does your hair the way you want it done. I love it when my new girlfriend comes home from the salon with that extra bounce in her step
Aaaaah babygirl. I feel sorry for you You looking BEAUTIFUL no matter what. You have Natural BEAUTY. You have Most important things. loving family. Your mother-in-law is AWESOME BEAUTY also. GOD BLESS U BOTH and HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!
You have a lovely relationship with your mother-in-law.
HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY, SEEING YOU CRY MADE ME WANT TO CRY TOO... I'M SO HAPPY YOU WERE ABLE TO GET A RESOLUTION AND THANK GOD FOR SUCH A GREAT AND UNDERSTANDING MOTHER-IN-LAW!
Happy Birthday love I love your family I also live in Arizona been here for 4 years and my daughter braids do sew in and she nothing like these people here that be trying to get over if you ever want to reach out I pray your family stay blessed and be blessed 🎉
Happy Birthday Love Today is my daughter’s birthday too! Don’t ever go back to those tasteless ppl. Find you a local braider on IG and pay for her to come to your home. Sorry you went through this.
Thank you so much, tell her my family and I wished her a lovely birthday ♥️♥️♥️
Yes, definitely don't let them touch your hair again. Been through that pain so many times. And I have great hair but not as pretty a face as you. Got my money back numerous times. Sorry about your experience. Happy 28. ♥️
Sending you hugs 🤗! I cry when I am really angry as well. I stopped going to the hairdresser a long time ago, most have no respect for your time. Prices are out of control as well. Hope you find a better hairdresser in the future. your still beautiful sis!
Love, love your mother in law ; she’s such a vibe 💕💕
Your mother in law's response was priceless and correct!!🥰
🎉Happy Birthday Queen of Kings!!! Focus on how beautiful you are inside and outside. I know it was your very special day but do not allow anyone to rob you of your JOY. Glad mom was there to help both of you recoup and turn a frown upside down. Remember the song “CELEBRATION TIME, Come On “ 🎂🎈💐🥰 And many more! May the good Lord bless you and fam 🙏🏽
The customer is always right. Even if they can't quite explain what they want. You keep adjusting the service until you create what they want. If they still are not happy you don't take their money. That is what a true professional does...You have loving children and a husband who loves you pass anything external. Even at your worst they are always lifting you up, even MIL. You are truly blessed!
I felt this! Many hairstylists these days are horrible in customer service and or quality. I haven't found a great stylist YET ...
Start investing in some good quality wigs until you find a good stylist. If you're into wigs.
Edit: The issue at that salon was that they clearly don't know how to do hair AT ALL.
Im commenting again because I just finished watching good for you I'm glad you went back you definitely stick up for what you want Soo glad you didn't just cut your losses and not go back I'm the same way and I teach my daughter to do the same😎
Oh my sorry that happened to you hun you deserve better. You're still beautiful. Hope you have a happy birthday. I love your mother in law she's so loving. I also cry when I'm angry
You are so fortunate to have a fabulous mother-in-law.
Kween of kings YOUR NATURAL BEAUTY IS AWESOME 👌 👏 without a DOUBT.
Have a Happy Birthday and Many More 🎉🎊❤️💯🌹
Happy Birthday beautiful and fellow Saggie sis, it's going to be ok..I moved to AZ from the East and let me tell you girl they can't do here...that's just it! So I've learned to do my own hair and when I go back home, get it professionally done. AZ black stylists get it together!
I’m crying watching your video because I’ve experienced the same situation you’re so Beautiful that any look and perfect you can always get a nice wig and put over the braids nice Protective style!
Oh sweet girl, as a mommy of three I felt this so deeply. I totally have been there. I was mad/sad for you. But. Your babies thought you looked great. Lol. Isn't that always the way. It is so funny and sweet. We be looking a hot damned mess - and they love us.
🎉🎉🎂 Happy Birthday 🎉🎉🎂
😢 Sad... In spite of things not working out...The best thing is your kids, your health, and the love 💕 surrounding you & celebrating another yr ❤️ shame on that lady ... Don't go to her ever again!! I learned something important with these hairstylist... reading they reviews too...
Your Mom in love and your kids make everything better.She is a sweetheart!!! You are beautiful with or without your hair done.Happy 28th Birthday !!!
Of course your sons will love and adore all your hairstyles, especially when you're such an incredible Mom.& Mother.
Hold on KwEeN. It's okay. You're so ReAL. I respect you for your transparency. You're sooo strong and beautiful. You're mother-in-law seems so caring.
Your hair is still beautiful because you are my sister. I hope you get the style you want soon. Happy birthday Queen!💐💃🏻🥳🎉
Awww. This made me cry for you 😔 I can't believe see cut your hair and then charge you for a wash. HAPPY BIRTHDAY and many more to come 🎉🎊🎈🎁🎂🍾💖
Hope you had a lovely birthday!
Ecco jell, curl activator and moisturizers on just washed damped hair makes natural hair very beautiful.
Same thing happened to me about 4 or 5 years ago. I requested a very similar braid style only to get nearly the same results as you got except my braids were more bulky and made me look like a man.
I paid a lot of money. The lady who did it was a lovely person but she was not able to do it. I did not tell her how upset I was but 4 days later when I had taken it out the manager saw me in the area and asked me why and I told her the truth.
This is the only black owned salon in my area, usually I get my hair done elsewhere because I was always dubious they never had customers but I wanted to support them. I never went there again.
I'm sorry,for the way your day went. God bless,you and the family! I pray that your following days are filled with blessings and love
It broke 🥲my heart to see you cry because you didn’t get what you wanted but you are beautiful 😍even if it isn’t the hairstyle you prefer to have you are a very strong, young woman and I don’t think I would patronize their business anymore. Find someone who takes great pride in their work anyway, happy birthday 28 looks good on you.🎂🎁🎈🎉
Oh I felt so bad when you cried....I wish I knew how to braid, I would braid your hair for you. You looked so beautiful even with the cornrows...I wish your husband would think so. Your family is so beautiful and you are so blessed.
Happy Bday. I can sooo relate to u. I feel as though every last bday I have had I had hair problems, like every single time. Either the hairdresser flaked or some issue came up. I think when a lot of people went natural and started going even more to these Braiders they all feel like they can do what they want. Braiders never get my style right, they do what they want with my money. Then the other stylists be charging an arm and a leg. I washed my hair this weekend and promised myself to buy the braiding hair and try it myself. I work too hard to pay these prices and not even be happy with the service or the style. Anyway I hope ur day turns out well.
So sorry that happened to you. It will be ok. I had to teach myself to do my own nails during covid. I do them really well. Hugs to you. When I get mad I cry also since I found the Lord, I don't slap people anymore. You have a wonderful mom in law. You are blessed 💝
Girl I’m the same way when I get mad. Then I get mad at myself for crying. I know people judge me for it. And think I’m weak. But trust me I think they rather I cry and get my frustration out that way than taking it out on them. Just remember you are beautiful no matter what your hair looks like. You could shave it off and you would still be gorgeous. But I totally get your frustration.
I am the same way
Happy Birthday Beautiful Kween 🎉🎂💐💕. You handled the situation with class. I pray you find a great braided.
Mom is totally AWESOME❤
Happy birthday 🎉🎈! The comment I left in the live was a response to the comment you made. I was upset about how others respond to your life when their lives isn't squeaky clean. After you read part of my comment I realized I didn't say to you DON'T WORRY ABOUT THEM. It bothered me that I didn't say/leave my comment correctly. You being a sweet soft person as well as I, I didn't want you to feel saddened on your birthday by me for a misunderstanding comment. Love you and your family HAPPY BIRTHDAY GORGEOUS 🦋💜🦋
Aww sweetie I’m so sorry you went through that but good for you for going back & telling her the way she did you was wrong. When you said you didn’t want to go into your 28th birthday looking with your hair like that I thought to myself you would be going into your 28th birthday with your natural hair which is beautiful! You have the perfect hair texture for coils, you should go on YT & search for The Curly Girl method for girls with your hair type. Natural curly hair will look really good on you. Hope you have a very Happy Birthday! 🎂
I think every girl or woman has experienced tears and frustration due to a bad hair cut or style. Hair can make us feel so much, good or bad. I hope you find someone you trust to do the style you want. You look really nice with short hair too, and I think you could style it and be natural and still look just as amazing as if you had gotten longer braids in.
You’re beautiful!
Everything will come together for you and your family. Keep your faith.
Enjoy your day!
🙏🏼💜
I love watching you and your husband! Y’all make me laugh, because my wife and I have the same love for each other! Be happy, love more, and laugh!
What an awesome and loving family you all are! So blessed! Your family sets a wonderful example of what is the most important thing about life! Love and kindness!♥️♥️♥️
All of you are beautiful. Every member of your family placed carefully in your life. You are all so loved. God is great beautful girl. Your a gorgeous soul.
I am so sorry that you had to go through that...that is time and money that you cannot get back. I hope that you find another shop. You are still beautiful. Happy Birthday.
Having the perfect family is the best B-Day you could ever have 🧉🥂❤to you and your loving family
OMG I’m sorry u went through all that! Wish I could say I have never been through it, but I know exactly what ur dealing w. Especially when ur new in town & end up going to one of those places that think it’s ok to sit, & sit & sit…BEFORE they even put u in the chair..
No Ma’am I got stuff to do & I can’t be at the hairdresser allllll day. Even though it’s not what u wanted it’s at least nice & happy birthday!!! Ur family loves u & think ur beautiful hair or no hair. God got u…& the hair situation ❤. Chalk it up to live & learn. 💪🏾👊🏾Happy Birthday Sis 🎊 🎉!
Happy, Happy Birthday Beautiful Queen 👸🏾!!! I adore you and think that your family is absolutely beautiful!!! Your MIL is an absolute gem.
I totally feel you about your hair experience, and I’m so so sorry you went through that smh…
Happy Birthday Beautiful Queen. I know you were upset about your hair and I totally get it. With that being said you look really pretty with the alternative hairstyle. You have the face structure and beauty for straight back hair and I'm not just gassing up a stranger. Sending love and light on your bday from Dallas! ✨️
I do that to. When I get mad or sad or angry I cry . I cry even when I’m trying to talk my feelings. I feel you girl. I am the same way
I'm sorry that happened it seems like some people just need a job because that's the way of just making it in America 😩 but happy birthday beautiful your family is there everybody is there to support you so just turn up happy birthday 🎂🎂🥰 sending love from #houston
Happy Birthday!!!! Like you, I don't like cornrows either as a female hairstyle, but you are really beautiful. I am appalled when I show a desired hairstyle to a hairstylist, and she tells me she can do it. The end result shows that she could not. These opportunists expect to get paid as if they did it the way you wanted. A few are chosen to have talent in doing hair, but many went for the money no matter how they destroyed people's hair and hair day.
Happy birthday,you look beautiful on your new hair style ❤
The having run a salon and spa and being an esthetician. I find the biggest problem with my black hair stylist and training is properly was time management. And not overbooking. Or if you are late calling your clients. There's just a way that the industry has run for years. And always felt like never was there an emphasis on the valuation of time. In years past a lot of hair stylist would overbook themselves so would have three or four people going at the same time. And I'd watch ladies being a chair for 6 hours. And then in turn they would charge a fraction of what they should be charging the client. And in essence they'd be working harder throughout the day. It was nothing to see a hairstyle is doing a 16-hour day. And making the same money or less money than their white counterpart that only did say five clients what have you.
I feel you on the braid shops. You give them a picture of what you want and they do something different.. Happy birthday 🎉🎂🎉🎉.
When you work hard, there is a certain level of expectation that we as women have for ourselves. It is very frustrating when things as simple as getting our hair done doesn't go well. I understand wholeheartedly how you feel. Also, felt you about your hubby. We also love to look good for our men, cater to what they like...just want to give you a big ole hug.
Happy birthday you look good girl 🎂🥳 on the bright side you did get some "me" time it wasn't a good experience but a learning experience. On your next "me" time whenever that comes around it'll be better than the first time. God bless you and your family 💝
I've had a similar experience years ago, so I learned to do my own. I had a toddler at the time, so I took my time over three days and used three mirrors to get the parting right. What I didn't get to finish I tied up in a turban with the completed parts displayed and went to work. I got it done the way I wanted by doing a little at a time with the schedule I had to work with, plus only spent money for the packaged braids added in.
Awww now I'm crying!!!...I'm so sorry...but guess what...you are the prettiest little thing EVER!!!! Gurllll...you're beautiful...and your mother in law is the coolest!
Happy birthday Qwueen! God bless you with much more!
Awww it's gonna be okay, you're beautiful and your day will be special no matter what. 💗