Who in the world invites themselves into someone else's house and then brings their friends? And who does it when they think the homeowner ISNT HOME?! Like why is no one talking about this??
@@cathyb1273 I would have constantly changed the locks, 'cause you know the husband would give mother the new key each time it was changed. I'd keep locks in bulk stored on the property. Lolol.
I’m a woman. Last year I paid for me and my family to go on a short vacation. Because I could. I invited so I paid. It’s not just the man’s job. Whoever can afford pays. Or you share.
You are something special now a days. Watching my nephew date it's his money is our money the lady's money is only for her. Not all but it's becoming more and more. Stay safe God bless you and your love one's
@@mikeosinski50 I've noticed that trend, also. It also bothers me that people are referring to their spouses as "partners" and/or "significant others". For me, my husband is not an "other" nor is he just a partner. He's my husband. We are a team, we are partners, but to describe him as "other" or is just a partner just seems so cold and impersonal to refer to the one relationship that should be the exact opposite. Maybe it's just me.
If my husband ever asked why I don’t pay anything while we go on holiday, I’d think he was crazy. Our finances are all together so of course it’s both of our money, which means everything we do, it’s both of our money paying. I wouldn’t be able to stay with a man that says and does such stupid things
@@Allie_phelps I'm doing good. Getting a break from the grandkids and enjoying the peace and quiet while I can. Hope you are doing well and having a good week 👋🤗
Hubs and I are the same way. We have the main checking account that both of our money goes into and from which we pay all the bills. Then we have each our own separate checking and savings accounts for our"mad money" as Grandma used to call it. Over the years sometimes I make more than him or he makes more than me - that all evens out in the end. I know it's the fad these days for couples to keep their own money and split bills 50/50, That just seems like a very inefficient way to do it. We figured once we got married we were as one and we both contribute to the functioning of our family.
Dumb. As soon as he quibbled about paying to go on vacation because they both enjoyed it he wanted her to pay too. If she didnt enjoy sex, would he pay it all 😅
This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
I am sorry about what you have been through. I have been through something similar and was almost depressed, till I contacted a spiritual counsellor who helped me get my ex back and hence my life back.
Online, you'll find shelly renee white, revered for her expertise as a spiritual counsellor. She has the ability to reunite couples and promote holistic well-being.
Yes! You can love someone and not be financially compatible with them. People also need to talk about religion, children, goals in life... I'm beginning to think premarital counseling was not a bad idea. In the hands of the right counselor, I think many couples would avoid divorce-causing pitfalls.
I'm female and the breadwinner in the family so I pay for the house, the vacations, etc... rolls are reversed sometimes - however she shouldn't make the boyfriend pay for everything.
Me and my Wife role got changed because I got into a bad work accident and now I’m disabled, I am very thankful for her because there’s women out there that would’ve just ditched me over this and the same thing goes for men that would ditch women because of this
SHE bought the house with HER money that she inherited, or was given, and the money SHE earned, The money was all hers BEFORE the marriage. Its her house.
Why did she marry this man?..why does MIL have a key to the house?. She kept calling it "our house" just because she bought the furniture.. I would've told her to take her furniture.. why would she put his name on a house he didn't put a dime on? He must be on drugs.
Everyone in this story pretty much sucks. From her friend Katie who gave terrible advice, to her MIL who claimed ownership because she bought them some furniture to her husband who didn’t put any money into and wanted part ownership. OP doesn’t get off scot free because she was expecting the fiancé to pay all the time because he was a man.
The wife seems to pay for everything already, including the house and house repairs. The husband put up such a fight over a few hundred dollars for his share of roof repair. I think if he paid for the vacation, since he doesn't pay any rent or repairs, and didn't purchase the house, that would be fair.
Why can’t Kevin go to his mom’s house ?? Why the hell is she stuck dealing with him and her daily. Don’t put his name on anything you purchase alone EVER. Might be better to put in a brothers name. He’s gonna try to spend her money on his mommy and him
He's only using her. He accused her of lying when she didn't. Instead, he believed his mom's lies.Then he has the nerve say she doesn't love him when it's clear he is using her. He and his mom are entitled Karens.
I always book mine and my husbands holidays and activities. He’s clueless when it comes to all that. I’m fine with it because during the holidays, he takes initiative in asking if I want something or if I like something. He will always buy it if I like something.
Even though the wife is in the right her tone throughout the story made her seem more like a fishwife rather than the protagonist she actually is. The husband sounded like a mommy's man child who never had a thought of his own while he regurgitated his mother's opinions using her words maybe even verbatim. It made the story of one unlikeable and unrelatable character to an even less likable, brainwashed and man child of a husband who couldn't phrase his own wants and needs without his mommy whispering in his ear.
People really need to understand it's fine to be considerate of other people feelings but if they don't consider your feelings, then all kindness is off. Reciprocity is the name of the game. Stop allowing people to take advantage of you and then feel some type of way. Sometimes, you have to demand respect.
I earnt three times what my husband earned I just always put my money in I did later divorce and was treated badly so I wouldn't do that again. When money is involved people don't stay fair.
Okay, this is getting ridiculous. I'm at 16:53 in the video and I really don't understand why this woman married that guy... and her going to her friend to complain is all well and good but what about taking these issues up with the husband? I can't vibe with this story, so I'm ducking out now.
I found the wife on the moral high ground until at the end when she played the "plastic surgery...it will make you look younger" card. That made her as bad as the MIL. Story would have been perfect if she'd left that out.
Girl, if your contributing to the finances of the household then your paying too. So remind him. $400k for a 2 bedroom. WTF Put the house in your name, otherwise you'll get screwed over. Your paying for 3/4 of the house anyway. Girl Carl sounds like he financially unstable hence all the weird questions. He works yet hasn't saved any money? HUGE RED FLAGS WITH HIS MOTHER, SOONER OR LATER SHE'S GONNA WANT TO MOVE IN. Katie is right. Girl a gift is given without strings. attached. Holy cow, now Louisa's just calling the house hers. GET A DIVORCE NOW CHANGE THE LOCKS IMMEDIATELY IS CARL A MAMA'S BOY? WOW WHAT A HUGE LIAR LOUISA IS. PLASTIC SURGERY LMFAO WHAT'S NEXT SHE LIES SAYING YOU'RE CHEATING ON HIM.
My house MY rules if you don't like it you can get lost. Just because you are older it doesn't give you a free bitch pass. It's really disgusting how others think they have the right to go over to other peoples houses and try and take it or take over.
MIL: "Did you buy the furniture?"
Without the house, the furniture would be useless.
Who in the world invites themselves into someone else's house and then brings their friends? And who does it when they think the homeowner ISNT HOME?! Like why is no one talking about this??
That’s a thing in those stories. In laws cannot be trusted BUT they have a key....
@@cathyb1273 I would have constantly changed the locks, 'cause you know the husband would give mother the new key each time it was changed. I'd keep locks in bulk stored on the property. Lolol.
@@darianroscoe1017
🤣🤣 it gets expensive after a while...
She was smart not to put the house in her husband’s name, him and his mother were planning to take that house over
I’m a woman. Last year I paid for me and my family to go on a short vacation. Because I could. I invited so I paid. It’s not just the man’s job. Whoever can afford pays. Or you share.
You are something special now a days. Watching my nephew date it's his money is our money the lady's money is only for her. Not all but it's becoming more and more. Stay safe God bless you and your love one's
@@mikeosinski50 I've noticed that trend, also. It also bothers me that people are referring to their spouses as "partners" and/or "significant others". For me, my husband is not an "other" nor is he just a partner. He's my husband. We are a team, we are partners, but to describe him as "other" or is just a partner just seems so cold and impersonal to refer to the one relationship that should be the exact opposite. Maybe it's just me.
If my husband ever asked why I don’t pay anything while we go on holiday, I’d think he was crazy. Our finances are all together so of course it’s both of our money, which means everything we do, it’s both of our money paying. I wouldn’t be able to stay with a man that says and does such stupid things
Good morning Allie! Have a great day 👋🤗
@@bridgetdebourgh5698 hi Bridget, long time no talk. Hope you’ve been well
@@Allie_phelps I'm doing good. Getting a break from the grandkids and enjoying the peace and quiet while I can. Hope you are doing well and having a good week 👋🤗
@@bridgetdebourgh5698 haha sounds very nice. Enjoy your break. I’m doing very well thank you
Hubs and I are the same way. We have the main checking account that both of our money goes into and from which we pay all the bills. Then we have each our own separate checking and savings accounts for our"mad money" as Grandma used to call it. Over the years sometimes I make more than him or he makes more than me - that all evens out in the end.
I know it's the fad these days for couples to keep their own money and split bills 50/50, That just seems like a very inefficient way to do it. We figured once we got married we were as one and we both contribute to the functioning of our family.
So let's get this correct. He acted weird before they got married, but she married him anyway.
Dumb. As soon as he quibbled about paying to go on vacation because they both enjoyed it he wanted her to pay too. If she didnt enjoy sex, would he pay it all 😅
This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
I am sorry about what you have been through. I have been through something similar and was almost depressed, till I contacted a spiritual counsellor who helped me get my ex back and hence my life back.
Interesting. Who is this counsellor, and how do I meet the person?
Online, you'll find shelly renee white, revered for her expertise as a spiritual counsellor. She has the ability to reunite couples and promote holistic well-being.
Thanks a lot. I just did. Impressive.
Best to move on. Live and learn I guess.
Financial is one of the things people need to agree about before they get married.
Yes! You can love someone and not be financially compatible with them. People also need to talk about religion, children, goals in life... I'm beginning to think premarital counseling was not a bad idea. In the hands of the right counselor, I think many couples would avoid divorce-causing pitfalls.
I'm female and the breadwinner in the family so I pay for the house, the vacations, etc... rolls are reversed sometimes - however she shouldn't make the boyfriend pay for everything.
Me and my Wife role got changed because I got into a bad work accident and now I’m disabled, I am very thankful for her because there’s women out there that would’ve just ditched me over this and the same thing goes for men that would ditch women because of this
It seems the wife pays for everything anyway. I think the least he can do is pay for the vacation.
@@darianroscoe1017 the problem is that they automatically assume the man should be paying, when actually it should be 50-50.
SHE bought the house with HER money that she inherited, or was given, and the money SHE earned, The money was all hers BEFORE the marriage. Its her house.
The bit at the end there was awesome lol.
I don't think the wife should have told the MIL she needed plastic surgery while working at the mart. It made the wife as bad as the MIL in my eyes.
Guilt and gaslighting “if you really love me you’d ….”
Old does not make you wise. And does not give you the right to be expected to be catered to either. This mother needs to get a grip on life!
I’m 60 and my coworkers are all younger than me, and I 💯 guarantee they are wiser than me.
Why did she marry this man?..why does MIL have a key to the house?. She kept calling it "our house" just because she bought the furniture.. I would've told her to take her furniture.. why would she put his name on a house he didn't put a dime on? He must be on drugs.
These mothers always cause their sons to lose it all...
Good morning from Hitchins, Kentucky.
She should not have married him
If he wants half the house he has to pay for half the value of the house.
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Omg, what a whiny little boy. Waa, waa, waa 😩
Everyone in this story pretty much sucks. From her friend Katie who gave terrible advice, to her MIL who claimed ownership because she bought them some furniture to her husband who didn’t put any money into and wanted part ownership. OP doesn’t get off scot free because she was expecting the fiancé to pay all the time because he was a man.
The wife seems to pay for everything already, including the house and house repairs. The husband put up such a fight over a few hundred dollars for his share of roof repair. I think if he paid for the vacation, since he doesn't pay any rent or repairs, and didn't purchase the house, that would be fair.
She shouldn’t have told him anything!
A very nice story lol loved it.
Why can’t Kevin go to his mom’s house ?? Why the hell is she stuck dealing with him and her daily. Don’t put his name on anything you purchase alone EVER. Might be better to put in a brothers name. He’s gonna try to spend her money on his mommy and him
He's only using her. He accused her of lying when she didn't. Instead, he believed his mom's lies.Then he has the nerve say she doesn't love him when it's clear he is using her. He and his mom are entitled Karens.
Lol serves them right
The mil is so rude!
I'm a guy but I'd have been annoyed about the fact that Carl can't be a man and speak plainly.
I always book mine and my husbands holidays and activities. He’s clueless when it comes to all that. I’m fine with it because during the holidays, he takes initiative in asking if I want something or if I like something. He will always buy it if I like something.
Ops house isn’t a showroom or a cafe
She should not be telling him all the details of her finances, they are hers, and she dhould keep them separate.
Even though the wife is in the right her tone throughout the story made her seem more like a fishwife rather than the protagonist she actually is. The husband sounded like a mommy's man child who never had a thought of his own while he regurgitated his mother's opinions using her words maybe even verbatim. It made the story of one unlikeable and unrelatable character to an even less likable, brainwashed and man child of a husband who couldn't phrase his own wants and needs without his mommy whispering in his ear.
Even if they weren't married he would have to pay for rent so helping to pay for maintenance or household expenses because he lives there too.
I also wouldn’t want to pay to repair something that I didn’t at least co-own.
People really need to understand it's fine to be considerate of other people feelings but if they don't consider your feelings, then all kindness is off. Reciprocity is the name of the game. Stop allowing people to take advantage of you and then feel some type of way. Sometimes, you have to demand respect.
Good morning from Alabama
huh? What the hell no after that?
Um... If he asked can I pay part, no problem (if I can afford). But this weird way of asking 🙄
Here is the thing. If he wants to be part owner than he needs to pay his wife half the money she paid for the house.
Exactly.
I earnt three times what my husband earned I just always put my money in I did later divorce and was treated badly so I wouldn't do that again. When money is involved people don't stay fair.
Equal rights pay money
Yes, if he wanted equal rights in the house, he should pay equal share for it.
@@darianroscoe1017 i am talking about the woman. Equal rights so she should pay.
Okay, this is getting ridiculous. I'm at 16:53 in the video and I really don't understand why this woman married that guy... and her going to her friend to complain is all well and good but what about taking these issues up with the husband?
I can't vibe with this story, so I'm ducking out now.
Both men and women should treat each other well.
Whose name is on the deed? My money, my name!
I found the wife on the moral high ground until at the end when she played the "plastic surgery...it will make you look younger" card. That made her as bad as the MIL. Story would have been perfect if she'd left that out.
Everyone sucks in this episode. The mom and her son are whiny trash, but the wife is stank. It's nice to hear stories when everyone is trash lol.
What a baloney story.
Second
Girl, if your contributing to the finances of the household then your paying too. So remind him.
$400k for a 2 bedroom. WTF
Put the house in your name, otherwise you'll get screwed over. Your paying for 3/4 of the house anyway.
Girl Carl sounds like he financially unstable hence all the weird questions. He works yet hasn't saved any money?
HUGE RED FLAGS WITH HIS MOTHER, SOONER OR LATER SHE'S GONNA WANT TO MOVE IN. Katie is right. Girl a gift is given without strings.
attached.
Holy cow, now Louisa's just calling the house hers.
GET A DIVORCE NOW
CHANGE THE LOCKS IMMEDIATELY
IS CARL A MAMA'S BOY?
WOW WHAT A HUGE LIAR LOUISA IS. PLASTIC SURGERY LMFAO WHAT'S NEXT SHE LIES SAYING YOU'RE CHEATING ON HIM.
My house MY rules if you don't like it you can get lost. Just because you are older it doesn't give you a free bitch pass. It's really disgusting how others think they have the right to go over to other peoples houses and try and take it or take over.