How to Find A "Traditional Woman" (This Might Hurt Your Feelings)
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- Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
- I'm diving into why it's hard to find traditionally feminine women these days. You might find that it's not so much about females but about males in today's society. I also talk about how the media, big government, and societal shifts are messing with the natural balance of masculine and feminine energy.
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I've recently started taking, a lot more seriously, becoming a traditional man. It wouldn't be right for me to expect a traditional woman if I'm not going to be the traditional man in return; it's good to hear this idea reinforced.
Respect!
good take, nowadays it's gotten popular to blame feminists and hoes, but most men themselves do not correspond to the standard
This is a really positive and appropriate way to go about it. The guy in the video makes a lot of sense and he's giving out really good advice. While I like that F&F expose a lot of bad traits in women, I don't always like their advice for men -- definitely, I appreciate they encourage men to workout and build resources, but they don't focus on finding traditional relationships much.
@Billy-bc8pk I find F&F push a pretty good message about building yourself up. However, I feel completely the opposite when they talk about women/relationships. They push hookups and quickly moving on, and seem to embrace hookup culture generally, rather than pushing for long term, fulfilling relationships.
@@Billy-bc8pkF&F's advice for men basically boils down to either indulge in hookup culture & extract what your heart's desire or become a passport bro.
Everything else is just a buildup to either of these two.
Great conversation. In essence, if you want a mental/physical picture of a "10" you need to be a 10 yourself. Iron sharpens Iron.
If a man is looking for a perfect looking woman, he's lost the idea of finding a wife. He doesn't have to settle for someone he's not attracted to but men who are looking for perfection in looks aren't considering character.
@@susannaCdonovan23 well said. Women are a total package as well as men!
Yessir. You are what you attract🔥
@@ethan.wroblewskiIn my youth I used to attract some very "been around" men but I wasn't that type of girl at all. I never actually dated them, but did go to lunch with one of them, and prayed that if he wasn't for me he'd cancel the future date to a movie, and lo and behold he cancelled the date, and I told him that his cancellation was an answer to my prayers. He was very attractive, but I was looking for husband material, not a mover. Found out that looks mean nothing, and character was everything.
That don't work either. If your too attractive she's gonna assume your a player. Even If your not.
Yes, please, and thank you!! There's waaayyy more trad women right here in the U.S. than people believe, but we're below the radar hiding from non trad men and men who say they want a trad woman but don't want to be the complete trad man we are attracted to. Do what this guy says and you'll easily find us...
Completely agree. This term passport bros are the non traditional men wanting a traditional woman. If you truly are in your heart, a traditional man, you will not need to travel to find a traditional woman.
Absolutely! Don’t look for the right girl just become the right man. We are definitely here everywhere
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You "trad women" are old and over 30 with high body counts from your 20s.
@@soullessnight6539 not true
From experience I can say this is true. I have virtually no social media footprint. I work a few jobs, workout everyday and live my beliefs. I found a traditional woman, who would do anything for me, and I her. They are out there brothers, but like they said, you can’t go out looking for one, they find you. Good luck brothers, being here, listening to this video is your first step 🔥 and if you’ve already found yours, then these words are what you can spread to help others find theirs.
I'm married to a Colombian woman and couldn't be happier and more satisfied. She's a traditional woman and very feminine. Good luck fellas.
haha just wait until she goes crazy and throws everything in the house at you
@@chrispekel5709ummm better than western women man. Treat her well and she won’t need to go crazy. Roses/attention/support. I’m engaged to a Latina and they are the best.
Yep they do that. Western women divorce and take the house and everything in it along with your j come and retirement
I will have a Colombian girlfriend soon, she is absolutely amazing. It sucks other men may never have the chance to experience this.
@@rl7329 yeah man they all think they are gold diggers. Yes they want a better life but they want a good man. Red pilled guys will never get them and be virgins forever
4:37 Exactly! I’m a conservative traditional woman, and I’m looking for a loyal and kind Christian leader, not skinny nor fat nor muscular, smart, financially organized, loves Land Rovers (I need someone that shares my hobby), doesn’t smoke nor drink (except now and then for social occasions), flexitarian. In essence, I need to feel completely SAFE with him. Emotionally safe, financially safe, spiritually safe. Until then, I can’t give my body and everything I am to you.
You sound boring
When I was single, an older, married friend asked me if my dad was handy around the house. She said her dad could fix things, but her husband could not. She struggled with respecting that her husband could not fix things. After pondering this deeply, I realized that the ability of a man to fix things was more important to me than a college degree. Because of my dad, my definition of masculinity is "one who fixes things."
That's my recommendation for young men who are looking to "step into their masculine energy". If you can't fix things, learn. If you do, pursue charitable activities that allow you to use your ability to fix things.
I met my wife because through friends. Check your circle of friends as well. Understand you are who you hang out with.
Beautiful 22yr old woman in a blue sundress. I still remember that day.
Excellent point. Your circle of friends is key. Will the woman you are looking for be happy to hang out with your friends? Will your friends find partners that you could be friends with?
A woman who knows she is a woman doesn’t need pronouns to define her or sexy pics for bait.
And he is so right about the role of a mother, so very important to the future generation growing up as is a strong dad
GOLD right now!! Im a respectful, strongminded, proud, hardworking blue collar who is a good provider to my respected wife and 14 year old daughter, your relationship with your family can be as good as you put into it, be yourself, do whats right, be a good role model for your child, let your spouse know how truly appreciative you are of them. Im a lucky man, i married my traditional woman 14 years ago, put in the work and make as good of memories as you can.
So true my husband was raised in a jungle. He’s very capable. I wasn’t raised to be feminine, but he makes it possible for me to lean in to my feminine role. The husband is the natural leader. If you want a traditional woman be a traditional man.
This is something similar I did to attract my girlfriend right now I read compound effect by Darren Hardy, also recommend that book and he wrote in the book that he wrote all the qualities of his dream wife, and he wrote down the qualifies a man that she’s looking for has, and he worked on becoming that, and attracted his wife I did the same thing, and I’m with my dream girlfriend, she’s sleeping right now as I’m typing this haha, Just focus on being the best version, and build the qualities that the woman you aspire to have wants in a man.
That's so wonderful
@@The-Oneness11agreed
Wonderful thing you did! But what about someone who has an ugly face? How can he improve that? (Let’s say they take care of themselves and have great body but still get rejected all the time)
@@alikhalil2863as a woman i can tell you we tend to care less about a man being handsome IF he is a masculine, competent, man and can make us feel good
I think the real test is after you've been married for ten years.
I agree 100%. I’m a woman that has been stuck in my masculine because I haven’t been able to find a man that will step up. I have tried with men but I lose respect for them when they won’t show up. I didn’t realize until now that that’s what it was. I just felt like I was their mom trying to do everything. It’s exhausting and now I’m just single waiting for my masculine man to show up if he does. There doesn’t seem to be a lot of them out there at least in this country. I really hope things turn around for our kids. I don’t want them lonely.
U a single mom?
@@harpersnyder2297 yes I was married.
CGA really seems to be the only "older" guy, really understanding the current game. He is up to date.
CoachGang4life!
No such thing as a traditional woman when she has the laws in her favor.
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There are good men & women everywhere. I often felt in my youth that the role of a mother was not valued in our country... But recently I've become more hopeful for us. Thank you for putting a light on this.
Moved to the US in my late teens I’ve mimicked my grandpa who humbly raised me with discipline and respect to everyone, I was a pain in the ass growing up getting in trouble and lazy af he was on my ass the best he could making sure I wasn’t a Fucken peasant fast forward 40 years…as a grown man now I remember those traits grandpa taught me, have my two daughters in college, both have brand new cars cause I treat them like princesses they are just like their mom, I have a hot rod in my garage pay my bills on time, take my wife out on dates, I open and close the car door for her and do same for anyone entering or exiting any place…thank you grandpa and so sorry for letting you down many times hope I’m making you proud and you are watching over me 🙏🏽
Sending your daughters to be indoctrinated or dug out while giving them brand new cars they didn’t earn? Oof. You took away the struggles that taught your grandfather life lessons and humbled him.
@@carlosesturain3831 nah I’m sure they know their priorities believe me those cars are mine I’m a nice guy just don’t test me and they know it, they both work and get good grades, are respectful and responsible or otherwise, we are raised differently we all are respect your views tho 👍🏽
@@carlosesturain3831 got kids yourself? Unless you do and treat like a dad should you may not get it unless you broke and live pay check to pay check
@@julianskns I don’t have kids. I suppose I can ask if you’ve attended a college as a student in the last decade? You don’t need to have kids to know that 1) your struggles in life are what truly shape you and 2) most people aren’t going to college for education and effective career-building skills. Even if you taught and demonstrated good values, you’ve sent them to an environment that’s diametrically opposed to family and virtue. I’m sorry I have to say this, but don’t be surprised if your daughters are different people when you’re not around. This is common. You’re a valuable asset to them.
@@carlosesturain3831 we all act different when we are not around our parents normal, yes have a degree myself got it within the last decade 😉 while active duty, they both have tattoos and piercings too forgot to mention we set the example that’s all we can people will grow and make their own decisions and learn from them
Don't forget the male traits of smart, kindness, and generous. Love my sweet, smart, provider man.
It’s true, if my man is not masculine, it’s not attractive. Vice versa for a man with a woman. With that being said we have both energies and require a balance as he said Yin and Yang. attract one yes, by being your true authentic self!
❤I like how Bedros dropped this 😂😂👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
My wife is very traditional. I am self employed though and she stays home with the kids. She absolutely loves it.
That does mean I had to do better in life so we had the life we have. That means I had to make 300-400k a year. I have 3 businesses I created and run. To have this life requires a lot of sacrifice time wise. But she plays her role taking care of the children.
So we are a pretty traditional household. 4 children with a mother who stays home with the kids while dad works to support them. It is possible but you have to earn it.
I really feel like too many people are just lazy. It’s not hard to achieve success in business. Most people are just lazy and expect things to be handed to them. Good luck getting a traditional woman like that and not being miserable while you struggle. Then divorcing over financial issues. Number one way to kill a marriage is financial instability or cheating. Avoid both at all costs or destroy your family is the way I see it.
@@shawnmartin1306 Well done, you have everything you have worked hard for, stay blessed.❤️
Best in the game! Bedros the GOAT
This is the BEST advice for men I’ve seen in awhile!! Those male qualities were on point.
Us women are masculine because we watch Bedros & take TRULEAN
As a traditional wife, who has been with my husband for 18 years, this is 100% correct. Great video, my friend.
I envy guys that knew about masculinity and getting women from an early age. I'm 27 and I still struggle with being a proper man. Never had any real guidance, had none in my childhood and teenhood, my pop checked out and I had no male tribe. Never knew there was so much to being a man. Feeling stuck. At least my warehouse job gives me a sense of purpose. Blue collar workers unite.
Look to values that create heroes thru the ages: strength, goodness, control over your emotions, protecting the vulnerable, being respectful of others and not putting up with disrespect, be fair, loyal, truthful, understanding others but not falling for BS. Look to develop Godly qualities, and no matter what life throws at you, you will be OK. Best wishes on your journey brother.
Read books and keep practicing masculinity until it becomes second nature. Watch movies of your favorite masculine characters and role models. The fact that you want to increase your masculinity is such a breath of fresh air 🙌🏽😍 it’s never too late to improve! ❤
It takes some time, growth and maturation to figure all this out❤ but once done, it is worth it. the world needs to appreciate and be so grateful for woman and men and all that it means. We are meant to be different and it's wonderful
You state the obvious, and ignore the issue of today
The comments section is where people get to share their thoughts openly. There no need to be an asshole about it. ⛔️
@@danika9448 Asshole should be able to share their thoughts and opinions too, We got to many people concerned about hurt feelings, get tough, butter cup, so you can deal with the real 🌎 world
Well said @tanyaclifford9028
This gives me hope. Thank you for this discussion. I’m thrilled to have discovered your channel.
You have made a point that I have not heard from anyone else and it is so healthy and productive that I want this to spread far and wide. It is healthy and normal for women to have masculine energy when needed. Likewise, it is healthy and normal for men to have feminine energy to tap into when needed. It is very healthy for there to be a balance and sharing of these energies in a relationship. It is not healthy when these energies are out of balance.
I think this distinction is lost with all of the nonsense talk about traditional, modern, or western women. Traditional compared to what? Modern compared to what? Because the uncomfortable fact is that so much of the stereotypes surrounding “traditional” women are only traditional compared to the stereotypical housewife of the 1950’s who is still very modern compared to all of history!
Gentlemen, you say you want a traditional woman. What does that mean? Really think about it. I think of my great-grandmother who was born in the 1890’s. She is too masculine for you. She is as traditional as they come and you would reject her outright for being too modern.. Too argumentative. Too western. So what does traditional even mean? To my grandmother it meant holding down the homestead. Raising livestock. Killing livestock. Chopping wood. Digging a garden by hand. All of the things that needed to be done while my great-grandfather was farming in the outer acres. Because while the manly-man was out doing manly things, that meant that my great-grandmother had to step into her masculine energies and get stuff done while he was doing his part.
Several of my friends are military wives and it’s the same thing. Guess who’s taking on the masculine role while their husbands are off on deployment? These men chose well in their partners. They are secure enough in their own masculinity to not feel threatened by competent women.
So many other commenters have made excellent posts about where traditional women can be found. They can be found doing stuff. They’re still out there, I promise. But you won’t find them in the clubs.
Can things be skewed to the extreme? Sure. We see it all the time. But I hope that more conversations like this will find their way into the greater discussion and provide that much needed balance.
He's speaking the truth, he's speaking on the law of attraction, if you work on yourself you will attract that person 💪🏼💯
There is more. I have a real traditional beautiful feminine woman. But not only is she a natural I also cultivated her and brought it out of her. Women will typically pick up behaviors from their men. You need to teach her with expectations and behaviors. If you want a good woman you need to he a good man and provide money, protection and leadership.
Does any of this sound like a woman is a child to you? It does to me. This kind of talk is what is offensive to women.
If you had said "I fulfil the expectations she has for me, and in turn she fulfills the expectations i have for her.
(Knowing that ALL of this is voluntary not mandatory and she doesnt HAVE to do anything for me to love her and visa versa)
His previous statement truly felt male supremacism to me, a woman.
@@jjqchomes8443 I really dont care what you think or are talking about. Im sitting on a warming blanket watching tv with my kid as my wife is baking a cake for my daughters birthday tomorrow. She just got done making me chicken, eggs and hash potatoes for breakfast with a slice of home made apple pie. There is more to this that would make you head explode but im not trying to show off to much as its already getting there.
Bottom line is simple. You become the man that women want to make happy your life will change forever.
There are men out there who dont just watch these shows for a quick dopamine hit. There are actually men out there who live and succeed the way Bedros is describing and thats why we watch him.
Good luck to you brother. The sooner you realize that women WANT to become your servant and make you happy IF you do the right things your life will change.
@@jjqchomes8443
Oh, I guess you’re a chick.
In that case, good luck to you SISTER.
I’ll give you a tip. Bake a cake or cook dinner in your favorite robe with nothing but his favorite panties under it and watch him just go crazy with pride and lust.
@@jjqchomes8443 It absolutely does. These posts are why I unsubscribed from the channel.
Yessir bro.
A huge reason why women are masculine is because the men don’t want to accept the responsibility exam they get married have kids at the beginning he might help with the baby waking up at 3 in the morning to change the diaper but with time the men find excuses to escape his duty as a father, with going out to his friends house and leave the woman alone to bear the hole responsibility, we are human and also the woman needs to sleep or time for herself. That’s one of the most common reasons women become masculine for the lack of support and leadership of the men.
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I believe the personality of some women has changed simply due to the domineering characteristics men evolved into, i.e infidelity, dishonesty, and (abrupt) irritability. Anger from some men is at the top of the list why women’s independence evolved. Men always had hierarchy in the home and women were submissive till abuse (verbally, emotionally, physically) entered the relationship. Control is the beast that causes the divide in any relationship. NO ONE wants to be controlled.
Yet some do like to be controlled. Why else would the American people push socialism so much? Yes, even in a relationship some need told what to do. Too each their own.
Blabla let's blame the men as usual, yet I find the complete opposite to be true, women infidelity at all time high (because even the ugliest girl can get easy D by going on Tinder), women with anger issues at all time high, and you can tell by the number of fake accusations of sexual harassment/abuse, etc.
This is exactly the truth!!
@@jacobmasters438 I don’t believe the topic has to do with women who want to be controlled. I understood the podcast to speak on the evolution of the traditional woman; however, your perspective is subjective. Anyone (male or female) who condones any level of control in a relation is an individual who doesn’t know their true identity, their self-worth is fragmented.
Sounds like you attract some really crappy men. You always attract what you are.
Another problem that’s rarely discussed is the Feminine and it’s qualities are deemed lesser than. From the tearing down of Nature to the devaluation of women’s emotions, feelings and intuitions. There was a time when men valued the feminine and looked to that side for consul. There used be two leaders of a tribe of being the feminine spiritual leader.
Now iLogic is King so a lot of us have been forced to rely on it to navigate the world at the expense of our feminine side becoming dormant. A lot of us are stuck in our heads constantly thinking all day long. And heaven forbid if we become overly emotional and be deemed”crazy” You ask the women you know how easy is it for them to fall asleep and 9 out 10 will say it’s hard. Their mind is constantly going.
Great advice for younger men. I'm older and a widower. Based on demographics and the size of my small town there may be TEN or so matches. I don't do social media. This may take some time.
As a traditional woman myself, I want to say that we still exist! 🤭 And there wasn’t one lie Bedros told in this video.
I have noticed that the men that say there aren’t anymore good woman have some issues that they still need to work through so when they do meet that traditional woman she may be considered “boring” lol
Glad to know yall are still around
How’s your head game? Y’all traditional women still need to be freaks in bed
@croatiangambler8059 Church.
You hit the nail on the head. Good for you.
Why are some women kinda snobbish now a days and get with pretty boys and bad boys me and other men have seen it , like it’s rare to find a good woman now days they’re are some out there but the bad ones out number the good ones
A good woman will only say yes to a GOOD man. So first and foremost yo7 have to have integrity . My husband and I attracted each other because we are the same. 15 years marries. You have to be what you want to attract. Be a cheater for example and the woman who will accept that and be ok with it, will be a cheater too. Values cant be opposite. They dance to the same melody.
@Bedros you were cookin my man...good stuff 💪🏾
And that ladies and gentleman, is what we call "spittin' facts"
Maybe 100 years ago. But today, this advice only works for 5% of men at most. There just are not enough suitable traditional women in the West for more than 5% of the male population.
Not enough traditional women because there aren't enough traditional men. Women are what they are because men became what they are nowadays. At least that's how I see it. @@dmark2639
i love being the traditional malewife to my gay husband ❤️
😎🤝😎
I was married for 36 years we did get divorced we did have a good but our paths and interests diverged and we are friends because we have children. I was a stay at home mom and raised kids and supported my husband to leave his job and start his own business. We did pretty well. Women always asked me aren't you bored? No I wasn't! Life is what you make it. I raised my babies supported and worked for my husband and did volunteer work. My husband lol....was not a handy man so I took that over as I can be pretty handy and I taught my son how to use tools and drive a stick shift! My son is looking for someone kind of like me which I think is hysterical because he used to ask why I didn't have a job like the other moms. Lol...go figure. But unfortunately these days you really need two incomes to survive. I know that I was very very fortunate.
If you don’t mind me asking, what are you doing now to make a living after 36 years as a SAHM? Were you able to successfully reintegrate into the workforce?
After being a SAHM for 20 years, I went back to paid work outside the home when my youngest started high school. With such a huge gap in my resume I found it difficult to find anything better than an entry level retail job. After 2 years of working full-time, I went back to uni to complete my degree, thinking it would open up better job opportunities. I continued to work part-time while juggling my studies and family responsibilities. After uni, I was able to get a couple of good temporary positions through local connections but when it came to applying for permanent positions, I kept losing out to younger candidates. My husband earns a good income but I was hoping to bring in enough to enable him to retire a few years earlier. That hasn’t happened and with the steep rise in the cost of living, it’s a more elusive goal than ever.
Well like you and I went back to school when I was 50 and worked. I earned my administrative Assistant and executive assistant diplomas both with High Honors. After my divorce I moved and changed jobs. Took a pay cut to start working at a Cannibus facility lol...which my kids thought was hysterical as I was in my 60's. Yes it was tough but I found employers couldn't always count on the younger set who seemed to feel entitled . I kind of became a company person and went over and beyond my responsibilities and took shifts and jobs that others wouldn't to help out upper Management and make myself indepensible. Got promoted and a raise.
I am retired now and enjoying life. Good luck in your future endeavors I know it's a tough world out there.
Then I guess it wasn't meant for us because I love my mom and what makes her happy counts
Love you bedros
Yes, all this, and if you don’t both work at your partnership as a team, it doesn’t matter how ‘traditional’ either of you are.
FACTS 💯💯🔥🔥🔥
I appreciate that he clearly defines them as the "Opposition". People skirt around that fact with lip service.
"My daughter Chloe is looking for those traits...because I've conditioned her that way." Yeah, that doesn't sound creepy!!!
It doesn’t…
It would’ve sounded better if he said he raised her that way
"I can run a mile in 4 minutes because I've conditioned myself that way." Does that sound creepy? Raising a child is conditioning them for success in life. If that sounds creepy, please refrain from procreation.
@@lespearson3801 Yeah, but that's a bad analogy. Here's how you can apply the original statement to yourself: Les's daughter only likes a certain kind of man because he has conditioned her that way.
People can condition dogs. When they condition other human beings, it's creepy.
@@jaehwan123 Humans condition each other constantly. Your threshold for creepy is skewed. Pavlov used dogs for simplicity, but human minds work on the same basic operating system. Classical education is built on this phenomenon. What other means exist for installation of shared values? One devoid of conditioning? Please, enlighten me on how that would work.
Next time cinnamon rolls make your mouth water go lecture the baker for being creepy. Be super sure you don't reward your offspring for compliant and cooperative behavior too. Because that is conditioning, and all conditioning is now creepy. Or, is it just conditioning you don't personally agree with? Because I'm 100% sure you condition people every single day.
Such an amazing breakdown, whom you expect to attract make sure you are that man yourself 🙂
Married a woman who doesnt upload selfies. No regrets.
Great man
Everything you say is true. I have SO much respect for my husband...he always comes through for me. Good headship is the key. He's a man, not a guy.
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This is the first male conversation about traditional women that didn’t make my ears bleed
DIDDO. DIDDO & FRICKIN' DIDDO!!! I hope every young man in the world listens to this. Well said Bedros!!!
All the good women are already married. Good luck fellas
There's literally almost 10 billion people on earth. Mathematically that's an absolutely ridiculous thing to even think.
Millions of young women turn 18 every single day. Find a young woman who has not yet been brainwashed by the New Age, modern women garbage and you’ll be happy. It’s an uphill battle to find people who aren’t social justice warriors and subscribing to all these bizarre, alternative schools of thought, but they’re definitely out there. Most traditional women practice some sort of organized religion, after all, marriage was created by God. So if you are affiliated with, or practice any kind of religion, you can definitely find a wife in your place of worship. The most important thing to do is be very honest and intentional about what you’re looking for and don’t waste anyone’s time. Don’t just keep seeing someone that you have no intention of marrying because you’re having sex with her. Actually, it’s not a good idea to be having sex with anyone unless you’re married but we all know that it’s more likely to happen than not. But ironically I hear the same complaints from women that I hear from men, they can’t find a suitable, traditional spouse. They’re out there, but it is hard to weed out the genuine ones from the liars who are looking for something else under the guise of finding a spouse.
Unfortunately, at minute 3:00 , when our host asks us to attract a feminine woman and what she may look like most men head overseas. The United States of America when concerning femininity it's 95% completely done
Theres alot of traditional women in South Africa.Im a 39 year old woman and i believe this 100%.
I have a rooster and some hens in my backyard. These hens initially did not have a rooster for a while. Since chickens are hierarchical animals, one particular hen took charge of the group and became an alpha hen. She pecked other hens, was bulling them, she was the boss. Then i decided to introduce these hens to a rooster. The moment i put the rooster among the hens, the alpha hen immediately attacked the rooster, and they began fighting for dominance. The rooster won easily since he is bigger and way stronger than the hen, and the fight finished with the rooster mating with the alpha hen and she immediately became submissive. All the other hens accepted the rooster as the boss. The funny thing is, that rooster would rather die of hunger than eat before the hens. He wants to make sure they have eaten any food i give them first, and only then he eats. He is also very aggressive and hostile to humans and other animals as a true protector should be. I find that a bit funny when he starts attacking me 😂. So the point is animals that are synonymous with low IQ, are actually teaching humans a valuable lesson in life. As the great Bruce Lee once said, be like water my friend, i say, be like rooster 😂.
You know, I have had conversations with women who are fed up with men who complain to us about not providing enough for the family and we came to the conclusion that men nowadays are very womanly.
You'd have better luck finding a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow.
Better get looking then Mr. Baggins.
i'm a 20 y/o woman
i'm so good at baking and listening to people's emotions. i'm skinny. i'm good at cleaning. i have long brown hair. where are yall??? come get me!!! LMAO
Please network and be visible in your local area. Make sure people know about you, like friends and family, so they can help you meet men.
Masculine energy for a traditional woman in your society means enough money for alimony. Get grinding guys!
Set up a shady foundation and transfer your assets to it. Then you won't be afraid of divorce.
I just Love your voice because I hear it so much on Absolute Motivation videos when i gym , when i walk, when i drive.
"A savage and a servant" awesome
Take a time machine back to the 70s.
Totally agree about being the masculine to attract the feminine you desire. Totally agree about roles and yin/yang. However, knowing these dynamics, you can't throw shade at passport bros. Many of them, myself included, found foreign brides because of the dynamics and truths of which we're speaking. If you're a soy beta loser in America, you'll have less luck overseas. Asian women especially will have no qualms directly asking you if you're gay if you do the Western feminist ally approach on them. The masculine frame will be requisite for success. They are a traditional culture.
I tried for 15 years stateside to find that avatar of which we speak to no avail. Because in the West, that avatar only presents in maybe 3 in 100 women. 9 in 10 times that woman is predictably happily married already. It took me all of 3 months in Vietnam to find what I was looking for. 1 in 3 women present the right attributes, and only half the time are they spoken for.
The passport bros have figured out that in order to find that Nissan GTR dream car, you have to leave the Chevy dealership and go over to the Nissan dealership. It's kind of odd when people question that logic, or more baffling, continue searching for the elusive GTR at the county line Chevy Truck Emporium.
Exactly.
Tbh most Asian women are ugly though.
Ho3flation= putting in 10x more work than your grandfather to get a woman 20x worse than your grandmother.
Just woke up and this is what I needed to hear.
Become a traditional man , done
Your 1st minute....earned a SUBSCRIBE.
That's only in America the western society where women are masculine but there are some females in America who are traditional and who are feminine
This is the best youtube video I have ever watched. It spoke to me. Thank you.
Love the back wall covering. Beauty
Having a marriage where the man allows the woman to stay home and be a mother is a start. Putting away selfishness is another area. They're not perfect women in this world. When a man wants a perfect woman but still wants to cheat that selfishness in a melting pot. When a wife does not want to quit her career when she becomes pregnant that is very selfish to me. When does not want to help his wife with the children or back her up that selfness. When you put yourself before marriage or spouse it will fall apart. 00:01 To find a traditionally feminine woman, one needs to understand the reasons for the increase in masculine traits among women and the strategic efforts to demasculinize men.
No wife, happy life.
Until your a lonely sick old man.
Men- lower your body count if you expect to find a traditional woman
"2 cars, earn high salary, house" ...well.... that escalated quickly.😅
50/50 relationships can work too, I'd advise men to retire their wives if they can afford
What an amazing speaker!
Not traveling overseas for a partner. People look down on MGTOW and black pill, but they are becoming more and more relevant over time.
"Cave Man Bad Ass" - Spot on!
My wife is traditional and feminine but also trains boxing and gets dirty with the animals our farm. I like abit of both lol.
But i think if you want to be an masculine respected adult yourself stop going nightcubs, stop wearing cringe graphic Ts of your superheroes, stop playing computer games, living in a camp gentrified city lifestyle. How you gunna attract a traditional women like that? Get a real job like a trade. Get life experiences like travelling the world, train in a high stress sport- full contact martial arts, start deleting your social media etc. Its simple really.
this is so true i met my husband in a small city club 3 weeks ago. at first he wasnt sure because he was so old traditional and i was new modern but we fixed that. we are exactly the yin yang bedros talked about. i like to drink party and "meet new people" and my man likes to stay home clean cook, anmd wait for me. etc we complete eachother. this is so tru bedros thank you. we are happily married almost 1 month now.and he didn't make me sign a prenup bcuz we have trust
LMAO, nice job making your man a soyboybetacuck while you got out and get ran through by "new people". Kudos on conning him into not having a prenup. Going to come in handy in the divorce.
I appreciate that these lives and video segments are done with the young man and you, Bedros! This conversation specifically provides the feel of you pouring into a younger version of yourself to speed up his success in a true mentoring way.
well said. my traditional woman won't have tattoos either
Oh look it’s the virgin brigade
"women should be submissive and men should dominate and control their lives because yknow bro yin and yang and sun and moon and summer and winter obviously" i dont understand how anyone can take these spiritual goobers seriously
While I can appreciate this, no woman has ever cooked a brontosaurus, and that made the entire thing a bit comical. 😂 Like buffalo or pig would have been enough. Now we in fairytale land of the lost with humans and dinosaurs living together.
Just go down to your local church on Sunday and pick one up. Theres millions of them. Perfect woman. Biggest pick up joint in town.
This is a brilliant talk
Be a passport bro finding women non western women.
Even though it’s easier to find women who are more pleasant to be with, still can’t trust em haha
That traditional woman isn't needed anymore. Technology has made most of her duties the push of a button. Now boredom will set in. That's why in the 50s and 60s women wanted to go to work. How many wives hand wash clothes and dishes? How many make food from scratch with stuff you raise or grow on your farm? You are looking for women who don't exist. The game has changed.
Yes you're right. It's not some conspiriacy against society, where the 'Elites' are using the advertising industries, education, conglomerates etc to manipulate. It's not that organised, it couldn't be, they're not that good. It's technology and as a consequence, ideology throwing the 'baby out with the bathwater' We live in an insulated cocoon in wealthy western countries where we can indulge in this. Things will never go back to what they were in the past. However, it would be great if we could actually discuss the negatives, instead of ignoring them and making them taboo, then women and men could make informed decisions about their lives without the negative consequences biting us in the ass.
Spot on! Pure facts
Nice trithfull chat. One thing i want to say tho " no women no cry"
I love everything in this video. The only thing I disagree with is that “men are the only threat to the system.” Strong masculinity is one of the threats but absolutely not the only one. Deep femininity is also a threat, because the deep feminine is a force of nature. We are also willing to die to protect what we love. The maternal instinct is one of the most powerful things there is.
I can tell you where you won’t find them… dating apps.
YES we need to ATTRACT what we want 🙌😍
Proverbs 31...... "she will do him no wrong"
Great, great video
I feel that men want to find a traditional woman but they don't know how to treat her right by helping her to stay in that traditional roles.
Growing up in Asia, I always want to be a SAHM like my mom. Thankfully, my mom know how important for women to be independent so my parents supported my college here when I moved to this country on my own when I was 18. I graduated from college with a useful degree and had worked in a professional field for 7 years. I met my husband at work. We fell in love, got married and have 3 sons. I started my SAHM career and dedicated my life to the kids and family since.
I thought I could be that feminine mom/wife, doing all the pink jobs (raise the children, cook homemade meals that my husband refuses to eat because he is a super picky eater, clean and wash, turn a house into a home, etc.) while my husband does the blue jobs (maintain the yards, upkeep the house, repair the broken, lead the family, etc.). I thought it wouldn't be wrong to marry a Texan, right!? When the kids were under 12, I thought it's normal to take care of the household & family because little kids need their mom the most. I thought when they got older (pre-teen & teen), my husband would take over (more like 2/3 of the parenting by getting them involved in sports and building) while I assist him by providing drink & food on the side, something like that. But that didn't happen, unfortunately.
Over 2 decades, I noticed my husband's unmanly behaviors. I couldn't understand why I had to negotiate, deal and sign a contract with the Mexican contractor who renovated our newly purchased old worn house, as his English is way better than mine. I couldn't understand why he made me to raise my hand to ask questions for him when we were discussing matters at the fellowship group at church. I couldn't understand why he wouldn't teach our sons how to play sport or do activities like my dad did that to me (e.g. riding a bike, swimming, ice skating, etc.) while he told me he was a lifeguard and his dad taught him how to play baseball at 3 (during courtship). I couldn't understand why he let the yards outgrown itself. I couldn't understand why everything breaks; it stays broken in our house. I couldn't understand why whatever comes to his hand, it goes south (i.e. gave him a work project, he failed it; gave him a house, he neglected it; gave him a wife, he ruins her; gave him a teen son, he destroyed his path to future by not guiding him). I couldn't understand why he controls all the finance and future plan without sharing any information with me. I couldn't understand why he avoids conflicts and runs away from problems all the time. I couldn't understand why he lies about his porn usage time after time. I couldn't understand why he only thinks for himself when it comes to the kids.
Gradually, I am taking up more & more of the masculine roles while he checks out. I took a class at Home Depot & taught the oldest son how to paint the front door because the paint was fading and peeling. I taught each of our sons how to ride a bike, how to swim, how to ice skate & roller skate, how to pogo stick. I seek all the activities/events/sports for them and volunteer with them. I took our sons to go hiking, camping with scouting almost every month for years. I thought moms turn the babies into boys while dads turn the boys into men. I didn't know that I have to do both!
This year, my oldest son tipped me that once our youngest twins graduate from high school (in 2 years), he will throw me into the curb (that's why he buys tons of stuff to sell when he retires so everything is off monetary record!). This is how he treats a traditional woman who gives her life, soul, blood & sweat into the family & eventually get disregard like a disposal trash. I know God is watching. He has plan for me but sometimes it's still hard to swallow.
Truth.
Is there such a thing anymore?
Not making an excuse... but there is hardly any in the US...
There's 350 million people in the United States. I'm always fascinated at how many guys have sorted through that many people that's absolutely remarkable. You have to tell me how you're sorted through that many people.
@@cameronjohn604Always one dude like you man. Always!! 😉
I am a weak man , i don't settle in that life i am a man i don't settle weakness
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