‘Many Sides Of Jane’ Mother Sheds Light On Dissociative Identity Disorder | TODAY
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- Опубликовано: 21 янв 2019
- A single mother named Jane Hart is speaking out about dissociative identity disorder in a powerful new docuseries, “Many Sides of Jane,” on A&E. Hart speaks with NBC’s Joe Fryer about how she balances the disorder and raising her family.
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‘Many Sides Of Jane’ Mother Sheds Light On Dissociative Identity Disorder | TODAY
It just breaks my heart so much how they’ve experienced something so traumatic that their brain needed to create a new person to be there for them
Without them honestly i dont think we would of coped. I love and admire my parts so much. Working together to create a wonderful and incredible life despite our trauma.
It breaks my heart too that she and apparently many others felt/feel/will feel the need to create different parts, but at the same time, I find it amazing that the brain is so creative/protective that it is able to create them. Human brains are incredible!
Anna133199 you guys need to watch the woman by the name of Jeni Haynes who got her PhD in law to take down her abuser and she has 2500 personalities. We don’t know we create these personalities. I’m 26 and only found out about them when I was 25 and only diagnosed at 26. My mind created them to keep us safe. The 60 min documentary is incredible at explaining DID
Hippo Pilot that’s actually really horrible to say. If you watch the documentary about her you will learn. 1-2% of the world has DID. It is not a strange phenomenon it is a traumagenic disorder! Watch her doco and learn she is incredible.
Hippo Pilot DID is not a phenomenon- it is a dsm5 recognised disorder effecting 71 million people in the world. There is nothing phenomenal or outrageous or unbelievable about DID.
People judge what they do not understand.
Joy Dance
*Agreed, My Friend... Agreed..*
One of my alters is like that.
true
@@paulj0557tonehead That's so deeply fascinating. I'd love to learn more.
So sad
My wife has DID and severe PTSD and has been in intensive therapy for the past 2 years. 23 personalities are present so far and I have met most of them, from several "littles" all the way up to mid thirties. If you know someone with DID, don't fear them, love, support, and understanding is what they need. A lot have been through childhood horrors that will make you sick to your stomach and survived.
Thank you
What if her personalities switch while your having intercourse just curious .
Bless you. Many spouses would tuck tail and run rather than try to understand and support. Your wife is a blessed woman.
Magical. Beautiful work, friend!
Megan D you
My biological grandmother seemed largely fine, aside from the narcissism, abuse and neglect.
We found her journals after she died. The DID showed up in completely different handwriting. Child's handwriting, as though she'd never held a pencil, she couldn't spell. Then it would switch to her actual handwriting, a beautiful cursive script, and so forth.
That must've been so crazy to see
Well, your grandmother was really committed to the bit
DID is not as rare as they say. People are misdiagnosed or undiagnosed and are walking around with it.
what DID you say??
@@johnleebass I said D.I.D is NOT as rare as they make it out to be. Many people live with it not knowing that they are fractured.
@@johnleebass lol god word pun there 😁
It's very rare and most cases involve very severe chronic physical and sexual abuse.
@@LapisGarter it's not actually that rare, it's as common as bipolar and "s" I forgot how to spell it
It’s incredibly infuriating how many people have been faking this disorder as of late, it’s extremely disrespectful to people like this who do indeed *actually* have DID. It’s not some cool weird thing like an odd hobby; it’s a debilitating mental condition.
Some fake vertigo to mock me knowing I got it. And they act like they're going to fall towards me. Cause I'm a loner.
I wouldn't worry about it
My mom used to tell me to not be myself but to be someone else. To late. I liked cause she was nice to me. And I liked Debbie Boone so I was working on singing like her. The You light up my life. And I acted out the girl in Don't tell Momma, the babysitter is dead. And Kim Richard's in Return From Witch Mountain pretending, I'm levitating people that frighten me.
How do you know if they are faking?
@@loveoftruth9531 🤷♀️
Thank you. As a now 44 year old mother who was first diagnosed with D.I.D. nearly 20 years ago, I have kept it secret for years, which unfortunately kept me hiding and away from my adoptive family for year's. Only a handful of people I trusted enough to tell, and my own family wasn't any of them. I was blessed to meet my husband Dan 9 years ago, and he figured it out before I could even tell him. But unlike others, he stayed, and has been my biggest supporter. 6 years ago we got full custody of my step-son. I was terrified that people would find out and think I could not help raise him. But he is a great young man ( now 12 years old) who is aware of all the parts of me, and although he doesn't want his friends to know (which I understand) he is extremely protective of the little ones. Your story has given me the courage to tell my parents. They adopted my two sisters and I when I was 6. Thank you again ❤️
How’d he figure it out👀
@@michaelmcfarland3929 idkbro when you see a person behavior change completely under different circumstances and you actually care and think about that person and are Knowledgeable about psychology you can find out
wow you are a crazy lady like in movies woww
i have this disorder and i’m glad it’s finally getting a shine light on we’re nothing like glass !
Everyone seems to think im going to turn into some beast like thing as well like yes I have an alter I call them shares that is significantly stronger than I am and one who doesn't like people and gets agitated easily but nothing like split showed people were comfortable around me untill they watched that movie now I petrify people
And you may not know many with d.i.d.s are geniuses- or have high high high IQ's. That is why survival was possible. Respect from one on the journey😇
@@shadowsdclxvi3062 most with d.i.d. or apt to hurt themselves if anyone at all. Split was a big lie. You are wonderful.
Sure you do!
exactly
We're glad to see there's more people with DID who are sharing their stories
-Nova
@p a s t a they actually have DID, check out their channel
D.I.D
did lol
@@iamadarkfox dissociative identity disorder
Oh ya same. We feel less alone
- Shay
🙏
1% of the human population is not rare. Uncommon, yes, but not rare.
The stupidest thing I've heard today, congrats
@@MODERNDAYJESTER 1% of 7.5 Billion is still 75 Million...Which is a lot of people...
ZaLynnC plus there’s a lot of people who aren’t diagnosed because they dont know they have it and there’s plenty of professionals that misdiagnose so that number is most likely a lot higher
@@lights4946 Yes. You're right.
Yeah a lot of ppl don't know they have it because not a lot of doctors are studying it
It's not rare, it's actually MORE common than schizophrenia. It's parts not whole developed personalities. Different parts carry different things, like memories, rage, sadness, protective parts, child like parts, and adult parts for example.
My mom have schizophrenia...Its scary, but shes fine now
It's very underdiagnosed.
Yes we are distinct alters yes we may have roles but it’s not personalities like rage and sadness it’s alters who may carry the rage from the trauma experienced I don’t know how to put it but wording this correctly makes sure that people fully understand what it is
exactly
@@samiam7360 i know what you're saying. We have to distinguish parts from their burdens because no part is bad. They're just dealing with trauma in the way they know how.
Having a friend with DID, I've come to find that these alters aren't just a figment of their imagination, but instead a part of them, formed as a trauma response
It's more like, yes the alters are a part of them, but not the manifestation part. Alters sometimes have whole lives they remember "before the system" despite never existing in reality before the abuse. Usually their lives, their memories, even their behaviour can be circled back to a trauma the whole system experienced. One alter may say that in their memories they didn't have a loving parent, this could be because they hold the part of the abused child that realised they weren't being treated right.
@@therealjesterguys yeah i maybe didnt phrase it very good. When i said manifesting things about themselves i did mean abuse, idk why i put it the way i did
Idk why I'm crying.
I'm happy there are others that are like me
i think what you have is magical . i think you are a big step on human evolution .
@@thexophguy i agree. you are magical!
Us too
What are the personalities u have ? Can u tell their names please
Ken Kaneki lol
My parts and I aren’t dangerous and we are so happy to see more videos bringing awareness. DID/OSDD are not considered as ‘rare’ as people might think. It’s just that we often aren’t diagnosed until way later in life or that some of us go undiagnosed at all. The disorder in itself hides it from the host and anyone else the host knows.
As a thirty year old having a lot of reemergence, yes! The body is working exactly how it should (in my opinion). If child me would have had to carry even the things I’ve just now remembered, she couldn’t have. Only now that my body and all its parts (apparently) feel fully safe was I able to remember. And I had never had the ability of self reflection in my life. I thought I did but definitely not! I was a different version of myself (angry dominating protector, terrified submissive victim, and gullible, wide eyed child self- true self that never continued I think). It gets very confusing when you genuinely cannot explain your behavior but also feel like it was completely justified in the moment. Fight, flight, freeze, fawn. They were all here, never connecting with the others.
Healing is possible! I am integrating more every day and have never felt so alive, happy, and HERE! 💝
I’m thankful Jane did this series and it’s not been overly sensationalized like so many Hollywood depictions don’t show how it really works or is dealt with.
She is a good parent trying to do the best for her kids and she's coping with the abuse she went through.
I hope she is doing well
I've found out a lot about DID from the Oprah show and I think its important to raise awareness about it. This mental illness is caused by extreme childhood trauma, they deserve to be understood, respected & loved!
n0t_her_sist3r ruclips.net/video/mCy6M3XsGzQ/видео.html
I absolutely believe DID is real (no, I haven't been diagnosed nor do I believe I have it), but the way the documentary series was presented, it came across as a 1980s After School Special. There were weird special effects that were not needed and a number of things that just made it come across as a fictional program instead of trying to inform people about a condition that is very real.
It seems fake to me. To be clear, not the disorder, just this show.
Oh.... it's real.
I try to convince myself otherwise everyday.
@@jessicachanae9977 it’s honestly hard to believe yet and I’m trying to look for scientific evidences of it, no matter if this is real or not it’s a scary experience for someone who actually have alters
@@smh5179 there are plenty of studies you can find, and the disorder itself is not too scary when you know whats going on
@@jessicachanae9977 most of my family struggles with did I have it and I’ve been locked in my room for my safety it’s a terrifying disorder it’s very real and has ended the lives of many due to the little help and more stigma then any other disorder
We’re very happy as another dissociative system of others not staying silent. We know how difficult it is to unmask in front of strangers. Our heart goes out to Jane. ❤
Its incredible how some people think that this kind of stuff is worth faking and now that you see a real case of it you cant help but hink theyre faking it. its really heartbreaking
I’m so happy that there’s someone who has the opportunity and courage to come forward and educate people about DID-Jon
Same, also hi Jon it's nice to meet you, I have D.I.D too, I'm the main original host, sorry not sure what else to say but hello
Why didn’t they interview HER? He’s butchering her story.
Rightt
It seemed like their questions were accusatory. "What about the kids.. one of her parts is a lesbian". I feel bad for Jane and her parts for how they went about it.
@@hunterharris637 Agreed. I'm glad that they didn't interview her because they were judging her immediately.
@None of your Business actually i didnt need that clarification, because i was referring to how the interview was rude. All you see is the word lesbian apparently without reading the whole comment. Smh
Moonknight brought me here. God bless anyone who’s dealing with this, I couldn’t imagine.
Same
Me too
OMG SAME. I was like, omigosh this is a real thing and I need to know more...
I remember watching a YT video a long time ago with a girl who had this, and saw multiple people accusing her/claiming she was possessed by a demon. Like what-
Let me take a Jörmungandr at that ruclips.net/video/mCy6M3XsGzQ/видео.html
Well a LOT of people are faking it. The only way to truly tell the difference between a faker and someone telling the truth is brain scans. It shows different activity in the brain and areas light up differently in alters
Thank you Jane for shedding light on the disorder. We are nothing like split or glass. We have a system of around 17-24- and counting ! -Nadia
Jane is such a brave woman, explaining her uncommon disorder like this to the public, it takes many guts to make a decision like this and I'm glad she chose to do this. I hope people will be more open-minded and understanding to this topic. I hope she lives well with her kids, I'm sure those different hearts of hers don't mean any bad and would genuinely like to protect her.
ah chuu ruclips.net/video/mCy6M3XsGzQ/видео.html
I have DID and it’s been so hard living with it and having people understand. Having it isn’t the issue it’s the people around me who don’t understand getting effected
I got different personalities too. I got an American mercenary, some British guy who likes Egyptian culture, and this Italian hit man.
Ahhh I see you there
Spanish* not Italian
I understood that reference
@@NerdyHero yepp
Does he turn to some white mummy hoody guy and a well dressed colonel sanders like person?
First of all I want to say how proud of Jane I am for sharing her story and I love all of her parts I am watching it on Hulu and I cry so much. Her smile is so beautiful and she is so brave. I do not have did but I have anxiety, mood disorder and ptsd and I think she is very brave for sharing.
Jane seems like a sweet person!
I feel for these patients suffering with this disorder. I have a sister who has this disorder but she can be aggressive. Im still trying to understand why this is not being funded to help the patients to better cope with their struggles everyday.
I watch the video with Anthony Padilla where he talks about the multiple personality with people with it, it's a great video in my opinion
I wish i had the courage to talk to my therapist about my other personalities. But its not that easy. People fakeclaim you, insult you, tell you to just 'be normal'. I wish we could finally take the step to get diagnosed
-Caleb
Jane... THANK YOU! I can't imagine how hard this is. Thank you for putting a spotlight on mental health in general. You are a beautiful young women who deserves a partner who loves all the different parts of you! I wish nothing but good things for you in the future.
It’s nice to see other people with DID it’s not an easy thing to live with---Luca
of who?
@Gordon Thomas BAILEY you must mean the perpetrators of child abuse.. yes totally
@Gordon Thomas BAILEY are you being hateful or what? I'm confused
@Gordon Thomas BAILEY MEN and woman.
@Gordon Thomas BAILEY So you're comparing children who aren't raised correctly to adults who were so traumatized as children, that their brains caused DID as a defense and protective mechanism? You do realize that they're two completely different things, yes?
Thank you so much, Jane. My best friend has this. We did a lot of research, collected money among our group and are trying to arrange extensive therapy because her parents think she's faking it all. D.I.D. is real and she suffers through it. Every single day.
I'm so sorry for what you're going through. She went through a lot too.
Janes voice is so calming to me
This was so nice, thank you for doing this headline
I found this video while doing some research about faking mental disorders, now I am just speechless on how strong this woman is
One thing I am noticing about this series....Jane is awesome...and I am so glad there is a series like this....I have a friend who has multiple personalities, and she struggles so much with one of her personalities that is very much like the "Alexis" that Jane deals with. When my friend's "Alexis" type of personality comes out, I just can't deal with her....
Try talking to Alexis in a way that asks how you can help if at all. Tell Alexis youd like to try to understand. It may work.
Wow! Jane is amazing in a way she has that courage to face this innate problem. she is able to live with tremendous coping mechanism. And thats the most important part
Came here after MOON KNIGHT
I've experienced a lot of trauma during my childhood and I find that my guys- I refer to them as my friends and my posse, are very keen on protecting me because of the trauma I experienced. One of them for me identify himself as a father/father figure to me and he doesn't like to use the word "protective" over me (all though he is) we say "guarded over me" and in my writing about it, I refer to him as my 'security guard'.
Good for her for opening up about her experiences. You are golden!!!!
May we not judge people by words or 'disorders' but by who they are as individuals.
We are not dangerous
We are not monsters
We are all humans
We are all learning
Imagine going through something so traumatic that your brain splits into seperate people to protect you; living a life with memories you will never find because someone else is holding it for you to protect you from the trauma. They all hold different memories of her trauma and the most heartbreaking one is the child. Someone hurt a baby so bad she had to seperate herself from her head. These poor people in her head . This poor women.
We feel less alone dealing with this thanks to Jane and her system
Great to see more people sharing their stories publicly as it helps t end the stigma around the disorder :)
I have never been told about my illness and avoided asking. Just THANK YOU ❤
Many people walk around with these parts, they aren’t even aware of. She’s so brave! I admire her bravery to admit this to news outlets. ✨❤️✨ thank you to her for the awareness she brings to something so normal!
I was abused as a child, and I did actively split my conscience to hide from reality. A certain show made me realize what I was doing, (I wont mention to avoid trivialising) and opened my eyes to this disorder. I cant even rewatch the show anyone cause its too traumatic
I don't have the disorder, but My prayers go out to the community, and anyone who is or knows someone who is suffering from it
I feel very bad for you. I can take a wild guess as to what the show was, but I really feel for you. I don’t have DID but it feels very intriguing to learn about something so fascinating yet the cause was tragic. I once again apologize for your abuse.
Thank you for not self diagnosing 🙏 or saying that the majority of the population has DID this comment was perfect I hope you have a lovely life 💖
I still cannot believe anyone could hurt a child... 😢
It's so joyful to my parts that you have vocalized your journey. I was diagnosed with DID 2 years ago and have been in intense therapy getting to know them to so I can function. I have 3 parts to my system. I would so much like to talk more to you.
As someone who's lived his entire life with DID but only recently found out, I can definitely relate to this woman's struggles. Sometimes I worry if I will ever be able to be a good father someday while coping with the disorder, but seeing this gives me hope that it is achievable. My wife (who also has DID) has been my rock and we've supported each other throughout all our struggles. Thank you for sharing this woman's story in a respectful way; it is only recently that this order has become destigmatized.
Who's here after watching the season finale of Mr. Robot 🙋
Me!
Me
Yup
What does did have to do with that show?
Mistress9 watch the show! It was perfect
Many sides of Jane...I truly understand the pain, you hurt to explain. 💔❤
Excellent Video...
Thank you so much for sharing this.
I wanted to watch this video because a lot of people have been faking having D.I.D on tiktok, which truly breaks my heart. This woman has clearly been through so much, and for people to just use disabilities for clout is just not okay. Spreading awareness is certainly the best thing to do. The fact that people needed to be created for comfort is so heartbreaking
naysayers can count themselves lucky. Whatever the trauma she endured at 10 that had her brain rewiring to continue living...Cannot imagine.
I don't think insensitive people understand a lot about life or people. It might be why they're depressing to interact with.
I can imagine and it still doesnt justify this cry for attention. She said the other personalities (conveniently) don't come out in interview situations...hmmm ok. But then goes on to say that stress is the trigger for the different "parts" to come out, one would think an interview on national television is somewhat stressful no?
Alice Doors some people aren’t scared of public speaking unlike you 👀
@@alicedoors4826 it can be different forms of stress. Like for example, maybe people yelling and arguing is a trigger for an alter. Triggers are not stupid things, and shouldn't be regarded as such. Someone might be triggered by something, while another person is completely unaffected by it. And maybe the alters don't want to come out on the interview? Maybe they're doing things in the internal world. It isn't our business on why they are not fronting right now. Seriously.
@@cam7739 Lol what a dumb thing to say to someone you don't know...yh ok lmao
Alice Doors
Love how you completely ignored my comment. Wonderful. DID isn't a cry for attention. It's a coping mechanism for those who have been through extreme and repeated trauma in childhood.
it is so disgusting that people on tiktok fake this kind of stuff
yeah they think it’s quirky and fun to do it, they’re just embarrassing themselves
Thank you for sharing Jane ~ & Jane's System. You've got this!
I am so very proud of Jane!! She is not a freak...she is a survivor and a warrior.
RIP Steven
I saw Moonknight and came here
Same here
I hope the children are getting help through it too. It’s not that people judge a mother with it, but its that it would be naturally worrying a stressful for the children to see their mom having different personalities and speaking to them through ‘other people’. It’s an obvious one. Doesn’t mean shes a bad parent, but it means that as a single parent, as stated, the children need to be watched and helped through it too.
The headaches are sealing the deal for me, now I know exactly what it is
I know someone who has mostly all the symptoms of DID yet the psychiatrists she has seen in the past have never diagnosed her with it and I don’t understand why not. I’ve known her for 2o years and she confided in me that she has suffered through physical, verbal and sexual abuse by her father from any early age. She also watched her sister and mother being abused by her father. Many long periods of memories of her childhood she can’t remember...I’m talking years of early childhood and into her early teens. She suffered from sleepwalking and woke up not knowing where she was, nightmares and has a now has a lot of anxiety issues. Even going to the store is very difficult for her and she frequently isolates herself from people and going out in public in general. She hasn’t admitted to having any alters which she has names for, but does say that she experiences the feeling of other people in her head, and also having the feeling that when stressful situations happen it’s like at times she’s another person and that her behaviors feel out of control and like someone else is taking the lead during those conversations. It’s really affected her personal and work life in a negative way and had a hard time keeping jobs or relationships going. Does this sound like someone who has DID?
Hi! I’m not an expert and i cant diagnose her obviously so take my words with a grain of salt, but i do have DID and I’ll say her story sounds very similar to my own. Maybe her psychiatrist doesn’t like to give diagnoses? I know some professionals are like that. Another possibility is that her psychiatrist might not believe in DID or may have misconceptions about the disorder; that’s unfortunately very common. It’s also possible she’s not being completely honest with them about her struggles. Pretty common for people in general to downplay their symptoms and when it comes to DID its even more so since its a disorder that’s designed to fly under the radar as much as possible. I wish you and your friend the best ❤️
Absolutely. I am a d.i.d.er. Yes yes yes.
I think a lot of psychiatrists don't believe it exists. Mainly because they are taught that its extremely rare and they don't want to ruin their professional reputation by trying to diagnose someone with it and made to look like a fool. I've been diagnosed with it in the past and this psychiatrist at my local hospital was aware of it because a nurse told him. I can tell by his actions that he was so against the idea. Years before another psychiatrist diagnosed me with it and treated me as such for 6 years. Regardless if it was the correct diagnosis I did get much better. The therapist I'm seeing now is aware that I had been diagnosed with it. At first she said it was a fad from years ago and that no one can prove it exists. Now shes like on the fence about it. She won't say she thinks I have it but will say she has seen some "shifts" and my demeanor changes. Its so frustrating. It really just depends on what therapist you get. I think anyone who has lots of suicide attempts and a lengthy psychiatric history needs to be screened for it and other dissociative disorders.
Glad to hear that her story is being shared...DID is not easy to live with...It's not only stress that triggers it...watching this clip caused me to rotate between personalities...A lot o the kid parts showed up. DID is caused by childhood trauma.
Terri Cunningham ruclips.net/video/mCy6M3XsGzQ/видео.html
They’re not personalities. They’re real people
@@kitkatwomp they are personalities...I have had several intrograted into healthy parts
@@terricunningham6810 I have DID, they’re their own people. They have different personalities themselves but all are living people.
@@kitkatwomp You're disgusting for pretending you know anything about this. Get help, you no doubt have problems, just not DID.
this really helped me
Am here because of Mark and Steven
Did is so facisinating and interesting, it's amazing what the mind can do to cope with trauma.
It's okay Jane I know how it feels.were no crazy.thank you so much Jane
I have DID. This is pretty accurate. I feel when I switch most times. Memory loss is the biggest issue for me.
I loved this documentary and I’m wondering if a Jane has social media or if we can find updates on her journey?!? If anybody knows or find out, please drop me a comment!
She has nine
Anyone here from Moonknight?
Lol
🌙
Yep
I went to the doctor to see what was wrong he diagnosed me with multiple personality disorder. So I told him thanks and, send the bill to the other guy.
Nahh💀💀💀💀
this is very interesting. DID sounds like a fascinating thing, Its sad that so many people misunderstand what it truly is but actually I think its pretty cool that different identities of yourself can live separately to protect you. I find these types of things really interesting and it makes a lot of sense how this works, despite how heartbreaking it is to experience something so traumatic its quite fascinating to learn about
Anyone else come here from Moon Knight and wanted to learn more about this and how it worked ? I thought it was very fascinating how they did it in the show and wanted to learn more about it
If you ever have questions 😅😊
This is such an interesting disorder!
Feel free to message us if you ever want to learn more! We have this disorder and we love helping people learn more about it
@@arcadiab413
I would love to learn more from others personal experiences with this!
@@JustMe-nf1mf I just woke up after 26 years of being locked in the dark place as an EP. I have a unique perspective.
You people will believe anything. It's not a disorder. It's pretending to please the therapist. Stop!
@@maggie0285 “you people”
What a brave young woman!!!!!
😣 PTSD here 💔 Hardest part is when you are not aware of the identity in the light, but everyone else (family/friends) can see it. For me, is very hard to accept that… I recently had an insight when finding very offensive text messages to my boyfriend without recalling. I had to call my best friend and tell her. Her message was: We have known since several years. I had to go to nearest ER because it was shocking. I’ve been struggling to have friends…to be kind to coworkers…to be the best boyfriend…Unfortunately, one of the alters is very protective of the others. He can be very difficult to deal with. We thought it was Bipolar Mix Disorder or a Borderline…But now I know and accept that there is 4 alters and I have no control.
You do have control - each one of you has control. You can learn to work as a team, to share the body you have. Leaving notes, internal agreements and communication. A good therapist can help you do this. You're not alone, and there is help out there.
sometimes certain selves just need proper healing if identity stance is very strong due to serious hurts in the psyche that needs the most healing compare to other functioning psyche of a person and it may take time to merge identities in unity overtime.
if you want to merge with and lift the burden of that self to exist as whole one you also need to be ready to embrace psychological painful processes that should be guided by a mental health specialist on a routine check up basis but take your time the hurts in a psyche is not easy to take and handle but with emotional supports and connections and specialist this helps the process being smoother but it will still sting quite a bit but that's the important steps for merging unity to happen and after all he is you and just you but carries a certain psychological karmic weight i hope this can help as i am just a stranger who has build a lot of soul knowledge through the years and who has applied it to myself in the healing journey i go through as well, good luck.
It’s weird because I have the same disorder but I don’t have different personalities with different names that I can actually specify and all that 🤣😭 I wasn’t even aware that the other ‘personalities’ existed until I was diagnosed and had it explained to me. This lady is next level, hope she gets better
i read that there are 4 sub types of dissociative and some have the amnesia and some with both comorbidities.
I know I'm late to this vid because I just have gone down a rabbit hole of this condition or system however you want to put it. But did anybody else who might see this comment realize like I did how different Alexis was in that quick transition to her qt first? I was just blown away because I didn't even realize I was looking at the same person. The mannerisms, the smile, the attitude... Everything was completely different! I never realized that it was the same body.
I have DDNOS which is an offshoot of DID, my parts are fragmented and not as developed I am co-conscious with my alters so I may not be in charge always Me as the host but I'm watching
I never watch alot of RUclips DID videos on RUclips because of the comments and when they sensationalize it and glamourize it or make fun of it. But this one was good for her taking care of herself so intensively for herself and her children my heart always breaks for those who have it BC it's often a really really bad reason why we have it but we are creative beautiful kind people 🌺
Now I understand myself..they come out when stressed..i talk to them to destress..i have 20..i was wrongly diagnosed as schizoaffective. They do protect help me cope. Thank u. So grateful..tho mine are imitators of real people or take on their persona..like parents..ones a counselor, I don't like losing me..but it's actually we
Sunshine Suinn
It’s not uncommon to have what are called “introjects” in DID or OSDD. Basically your brain grasps onto something from the outside world and shapes the new alter around it. They can be people you know (like parents or friends), they can be real people you’ve never met (like Justin Bieber or Barack Obama), they can be historical figures (like Cleopatra or Napoleon), or they can even be fictional characters (like Hermione Granger or Rapunzel).
She is so brave
saniyah richardson sarcasm?
@@agricolaregs I'm a kid I'm just 8
agricolaregs why would you think it’s “sarcasm”?!
Remarkable and interesting and breaking that stigma.
This is heartbreak but also investing how the brain can deal with trauma.
I am so proud of you Jane 4 coming forward about this I was diagnosed back in 2014 it's always good to learn new things about DID to help more people that have this so proud of you we all stand by u and we know u will get to the point we are at we all are working together to us all happy
I'm sure she got your msg 😵
Anyone here from Moon Knight?
Having multiple friends with did, sometimes I find it difficult to figure out who is fronting, sometimes I feel bad, but there’s not much I can do. I try my best to help and I love them as much as I can. I help with littles and I help with when things happen.
I just found out I have this today, I feel so much better knowing
Hi. I’m Dee Dee, one of the personalities of a 19 year old girl with DID. We have been aware we have DID for about two years, I believe. Idk I haven’t been in control for a while so I have lost track of time. We want to let everyone in the comments know : PEOPLE WITH DID ARE NOT SOMETHING TO BE FEARED. WE ARE NOT DANGEROUS. WE ARE TRAUMATIZED. THIS IS HOW THE BRAIN HAS DECIDED TO COPE. DO NOT FEAR US. Thank you.
Thank you
Came here after Moon Knight.
Fascinating
God bless you , ❤ Jane , that you ve shared your story with the world ! Only God knows , how much you are helping people , by seeing , that this is not a menace to society ! It shows the love and mercy of God , that He gives to a person , to be able to cope , and live the life ! God bless you and keep you , dear Jane ! 🙏
I'm pretty sure my mom has DID, and I always felt I have many "parts" to me that need to be on the same page, or else it's major internal conflict. It's funny because I also do collages to feel "whole" through self expression. Maybe I just think this way as a result of being raised so closely by someone who potentially has this. Wow.
I'm a great parent thanks. Littles only ever come out in play situations- so toy stores or playgrounds. I actually think it makes me a more fun energetic parent.
questioning your "good parent" (self) certification, as NO (good) parent needs to express such, to seek validation. take a parent class or start a blog. just saying ... good luck though 👶
When he asked that question im like ok singlet back off! We are fantastic with kids!
Would have liked to see how she and her boys doing now. My heart goes out to her♡
Cindy Wilson
She has an Instagram! She’s @real.janehart if you want to follow her!
ok i just wanna say the way jane/madison gives an actual numerical limit to what her kids can spend before they walk into a store is mf genius. genuinely feel like if i had that value ingrained from a young age that i'd be much smarter with money. major props / psa to find a tangible way to teach your kids the value of capital in a capitalist society!!!
After learning more about DID, I found out some really amazing key details. I don’t have it but it is very fascinating how a human being can be able to switch between different people, but it’s also heartbreaking due to the cause of this disorder. I apologize to anyone who has DID for whatever horrible upbringing they went through in the past.