Sexuality and its fluidity
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- Опубликовано: 5 окт 2019
- Hello!
Coming at you with a new video about how sexuality can be quite fluid and that that's okay. If you find your sexuality is changing as you get older, try not to think too hard about it. Just let it flow and listen to your heart.
I struggled with my sexuality for a very long time. I didn't accept my sexuality until quite recently myself.
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You are literally the cutest human holy shit. Also I followed a similar timeline: first asexual, then a lesbian, then a straight guy, now pansexual. Crazy how hormones change how society percieves you, and therefore how you feel in your body and perceive yourself. More comfy in the bod, more confident and adventurous in the sheets.
You are so damn cute I can’t 😂
Ah you seem so happy and comfortable with where you are at! It's really beautiful, and so are you! :)
You're the coolest lesbian-trans-gay I ever seen!!! I followed your videos for many many years and I admire you! Now some may say your not are worthy carrying this label or that label becasue you are today this and tomorrrow that... don't give a toss about that because you are who you are and you are honest to yourself and to your partner. Carpe diem!
I was just thinking about my own personal journey and how sexuality is fluid being that coming out day is soon and then boom your video pops up. I feel all this to a T. Also you been hella gay boy, glad you have accepted it 😁
oh my gosh, i finally found your channel again. i remember watching your transition 3/4 years ago and all i can remember is cute red hair guy..smth timelord...smth taylor! glad to see you posting still 🥰
Thank you so much for sharing this, I thought that I was just bisexual. But it turns out that I am both bisexual and genderfluied, it took me a LONG time to figure it out. And I couldn't be happier. Thank you for making this video.
Hey, I'm someone who has been questioning my gender for a while and I think I might be a trans guy. And I see myself a lot in you! I also am mostly attracted to guys but I also *fee*l like a guy and it's so confusing! Even though I know sexuality and gender are not related. I'm really trying to come to terms with myself and your perspective helps me.
Hey! I love your videos! I am glad i finally found a gay male ftm on RUclips. Just curious: Are you a top or a bottom?
Wonderful video. Keep them up. You are a treasure.
I've never really been attracted to men. I love women. But my current partner is a pre t trans guy. I feel bad cause I feel like that means I don't see him as a guy? But that isn't true. I totally support him though and I would never misgender him or direspect his identity. I still havent told anyone in my family because I'm afraid theyll just think me dating another trans guy is weird and that I'm actually just a lesbian or something stupid.
Hey Taylor, okay first you look a bit to good in this video, actually Xd.
But anyways, yeah, my sexuality is quite fluid too. The first person I ever liked was a girl (which I totally didn't accept at the time, not because of lesbian, but because I felt so damn much as a guy when I was around her and at that point of my life I was really rejecting the transguy stuff), somewhat older I fell completely for a dude, and then later for another guy, so at that point I was like: yup I'm straight... and then I fell for a girl who was hella hot and okay, maybe I'm bi Xd.... and not gonna deny it, I still liked the first girl (and still do 10 years later, she knows but it isn't the other way around, don't be sorry for me, just really happy I can be open with her and have her in my life as best friend :) ). But anyways, so at 20 years old I was like totaly sure I'm bi.
And then I finally accepted I'm a guy and within 2 months... my head was only turned by women, I mean... I still looked a lot at men, but more in the way "I want to steal your body to look like that myself", than "I want your body and you and wow", and wow, pre-T, but holly girls made me crazy !
And then I met this (another friend of mine, straight guy, so yeah) really cool guy and there was something... so maybe I'm still bi (even though I hadn't been attracted to men in like almost a year). At least, that was what I thought until I started T and except for that one first girlcrush, I was only into guys anymore. I didn't feel anything for women anymore, like at all.
And then 1,5 half year later I stopped T (for record, still totaly 100% identify as a man, but I don't want a dependence on medication, and my voice dropped anyways, and we don't really have beards in the familly so... )
But yeah I stopped T, and two weeks later told the romeos dude I wanted to meet for months that maybe we wouldn't meet up after all... because I suddenly wasn't attracted to men anymore ! And again, a lot attracted to women, and stranger... for the first time in my life to "feminine" women (and fell hard for one, with all the physical feathures I have never liked: dresses, big boobs, really pretty and wow).
No, 1 year later, I would say that at this moment I'm a bit more attracted to women, but again also to men since a few months... let's see if it'll stay. But I realise mostly that I'm more attracted to the personnality than to the body (or gender expression), so I would say Pan
So yeah, it's fluid XD
PS: I always stay at least a bit Pan, because once I like someone it stays (more or less) whether or not my sexuality is changing again...
I'll make a really silly question. What happens if hypothetically at one point you stop feeling identified with your current body. Would you transition back to a woman?
That's a tricky question. I don't feel I'm qualified to answer it, honestly, but I think you should think on it for awhile and try and weigh the pros and cons of your current situation. Maybe in the end, de-transitioning is the best option for you. I think it all boils down to how you are feelings deep down. Have you thought about talking to a therapist about it at all?
And.. you look freakin amazing btw like you are so handsome 😍
i'm a guy and years ago i had this fire with this girl that, identifyed as a lesbian, but for some reason had it on with me! We would have been a great match, but she transitioned into a he and i couldn't feel the attraction anymore.
whats your instagram?
Lesshumanmoretimelord
I want contact you because i want change my sexual
if you can help me plz?