THE TRAGEDY OF INSECURITY- Sunday Morning w/ RC BLAKES
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What our parents did, or did not do in childrearing, has a lot to do with being insecure. I never received positive feedback as a child, and this has effected my personal relationships. Never had real female friends, romantic relationships have failed me, I always feel that I am not "good enough" and that people really don't like me. I am 52 years old and basically antisocial and I never wanted to be this way. Thank you Pastor for addressing this topic, I am definitely suffering from childhood trauma.
38 years old and I have the same wound.
I’m sorry. That’s called mirroring. Parents are “supposed to” reflect back to you what they see in you (hopefully positives!). Something that may help you is to know LOTS of people have not gotten this for SO MANY reasons. But they and you can still see the TRUTH - which is you have those positive things in your nature that are SO valuable.
same im 37 but I dont feel insecure now..just shy..some comments my father made in the past may have affected me a bit..comparing me with my sisters..but I now realise that he wants to conform..my sisters are 31 and 35 and had several men..I had none..only kissed a few and was almost on my back once in my early 20s but I said no because I knew my legs and home are closed until marriage..I did have real female friends but I hanged more with male friends..now I only have male friends..I think the women its harder..there is jealousy etc ..men too but different..I realise that people who dont like me is simply because we arent on the same level intellectually..generally its men and women too that are as intelligent as me or more that want to be friend..and they value intelligence..I realise also that my family ..and maybe my father is not that intelligent ..for example he never said I was intelligent ..its always friends or strangers who d say it..no one in my direct family said it..I knew when I grew up that I could nt really connect with them and felt like I was on my own..once I had a panic attack..and my father said go back to be its nothing we ll check tomorrow morning..but I couldnt breathe..thats when I realise..I cant count on them..its not like I had this before..only once this happened to me and I couldn't breathe..
Go change that
Your story is word for word my own, not to mention I was born in 1970 also!
Thank you for your honesty.🤍
Become so secure in Christ that it just simply doesn't matter about the rest of the world and what they think
I'm working on this
True
What is a practical way of doing this? I understand its about actions but what does it look like? For instance, if people don't like me no matter how much I try, how do I act strong in the face of that rejection?
@@segunjay4153 Jesus gives you that security from within. Makes you strong to overcome those who reject you. You should be complete in Christ and not be concerned what anyone may think of you. Jesus today is still rejected 😔 Yes, I am sure this hurts his heart however he is God so he still continues to love regardless. I have been hurt and rejected many times. Jesus is truly all I will ever need so people do not bother me. I consider this their loss. I am a very good Woman 🤍
@@marylivich7477 I believe you are very good woman Mary and thank you for encouraging me. I have been scapegoated a lot for mainly standing for the truth and refusing injustice. I know Christ said that we should cast our cares on him, I will continually do that. I wish you the very best and I pray God strengthens you not to be bothered about what people think of you
Create in me a clean heart Lord and renew a right spirit within me Lord!! I praise and thank you Lord for my renewed mindset! ❤️
Yessss. God will.
Food for the soul indeed. Thank you for this timely message. God bless you Bishop. Trinidad
I was just talking to my God mother about this matter last night, praying about this this morning.
I see that I have to be brave and have faith and just go for it. Each day is step by step. This was an on time word.
RIGHT ON TIME VIDEO PASTOR!!! THANKS SO MUCH FOR THIS🙏🏾🙌🏿👐🏿👏🏾👏🏾💯💯💜💜GOD BLESS YOU AND FAMILY!!!!!
Awesome sermon! I need this for my spiritual growth. I was insure about a job opportunity but I’m gonna do it in fear! Thank you Jesus. Thank you Bishop!
Great message Pastor Blakes and Lisa. All must see this...👏🏽❤👏🏽❤👏🏽
Happy Mother's Day to all.
Thank you!!!
YOUR internal constitution is not strong enough to back up your mental ambitions! WOW!!! PREACH and teach pastor! 🙏
Greetings Bishop and Cyber Church Family. I listened to this message on yesterday, and I meditated on it yesterday all day long. I got up this morning meditating on this Word. As the old folks used to say I was chewing on it. Then I had to digest it. It was so profound, and I took a look back over my life on all of the insecurities I had to face as a child, as a teenage mother, as an employee, etc. We hear a lot about insecurities nowadays, especially food insecurity. As a senior I'm faced with insecurities on every level. This is not the life I had planned for me. This is not how I envisioned spending my senior years, but with God it better than what I had anticipated in many ways. I don't look at what people live in, what they drive or what they buy. I'm secure in knowing what God has for me is for me. Everyday is not sunshine, but it's better than!!! I don't have to be jealous or envious when God Blesses someone else. I have Blessings that others don't have. "Don't Hate, Celebrate" when God Blesses others. That means my Blessing is on the way too. Insecure people don't seem insecure on the surface. They come off as condescending, pumped up, pious and just plain arrogant. There were three points made on yesterday:
1) When you have an insecure spirit, you take the strengths of others as a personal reflection on you.
2) When you possess a spirit of insecurity, you will always excuse your way out of opportunities.
3) You won't be able to own your success.
Profound statements:
1) Just do it.
2) The only antidote for insecurity is action.
3) You will never overcome a fear you will not face.
In the words of Winston Churchill, "If you're going through hell, keep going." There's victory on the other side!!!! Bishop, thank you for your teachings!!! These teachings are my therapy sessions. Pray for me as I pray for you.
Thank you, pastor. I'm 49 and have been insecure ever since I can remember. It's held me back from living a happy life.
"You will never overcome a fear that you will not face " I was a skinny child growing up, but I stood up to some big thick girls that were bullying me and that made all the difference in the world. The other kids respected me for not putting up with it anymore, and I even surprised myself, along with the bullies! Laid the foundation for life early on the playground, but it's never too late.
Have dumb myself down my whole life and I’m 37.... hard to change a 20 year habit but better late then never
Insecurities develop in most situations in which I don't have control pertaining to myself and have to rely on others outside of myself for my preferred outcome.
20mins in and your absolutely shining...thank you.
Definitely needed to hear this
Thank you pastor for your words of wisdom. I learn from you daily. It is profound thoughts and it helps me think critically.
If this message didn't have you on the edge of where ever you were sitting. 👀😔🙌🏿👏👏👏👏👆👆👆
As always Bishop. This message was/is on point. 😍😍
Good Morning
“Stop dummying yourself down to be liked”. I know that’s right pastor.
Hey Bishop, love ya specs. This message is so necessary, women’s hate towards each other is so sickening😔. They’ll dog first and all you’ve said to them is good morning. It breaks my heart for them.
The timing of this. Thank you for this message.
Insecurity definitely stems back from childhood. Deuteronomy 11:22-25 Overcome Obstacles ! Hallelujah Hallelujah! God ordained it! Walk it out!!
What a powerful word of deliverance. I grew up insecure. I often was teased as a child because of my looks or lack thereof. As a teen I was overlooked by my peers. Boys always tended to favor the "red bone" and not the dark skinned girls. I felt ugly and insecure in my appearance so I settled in young adulthood for any man that showed me attention. It wasn't until I began to learn who God says I am that I began to come into the true knowledge of myself. I know I can never get any of those years back but my plan is to finish strong. I'm 55 years young and am truly grateful to God for powerful ministries like that of RC Blake's that teaching deliverance to the captives. God Bless.
Ignore the previous reply. I received the same message. This is not authentic...
This was such an amazing word. Thank you so much for sharing it. 🇬🇧
Amen , Bishop !
This one for me, thank you Pastor 😊🙏🏾
EXCELLENT😇👀
COME ON JESUS
Thank you- for all the passion and transparency you bring to the principles and principalities of our awesome God!! I will continue to grow mentally and spiritually by the grace of God-Amen Amen
Good morning Pastors, happy new month thank you.
Thank you Pastor🙏🏾
Thank you Pastor
All PRAISE
Thank you!
Awesome message!!
Such a valuable and well-taught word! Thank you!!
This video saved my life.
Amazing. Thank you for this!
HALLELUJAH! What a powerful message!!!
Ty. For this encouraging message.
This is so good, both seeing and understanding myself and others. Thank you.
This is beautiful. I am very thankful that I can celebrate many people and I don't ever feel jealous of anyone. I respect them and wish to be like them. The hard part is that I feel like being single is making me more insecure. I also have a very strong fear of letting my parents down and I don't make my own decisions if they are against them.
This is so on point! Thank you Bishop🙏🏽
Beautiful Message.
Amen thank you for sharing. I needed to hear this. Love listening to all your posts. May you always be blessed 😊🙏🏽🙏🏿💙
Amen! Preach!
Bishop, thank you, thank you , thank you. I will be sharing this lesson. ❤❤❤ 🙏🙏🙏
God, I am through with people pushing their insecurity on me. I have met the most wicked of people and I know the world is made of much nicer people as well. So I pray to release me of the wicked ones, binding every form of insecurity in trusting in self and others, binding every unequal yoke and common share with those being insecure in self and others, loosening healthy security in self and others for myself, friends, family, colleagues, neighbours, acquintances, opponents and the body of Christ in agreement with this whole message and numbers 13:30-33, 1 samuel 18:7-9, isaiah 63:7, deuteronomy 11:22-25, 2 corinthians 6:14-15, matthew 6:24, 1 john 3:10 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah!
Those were Literature Giants
We love you God bless🕊🕊💥💥❣❣❣❣
This is soo good! Praise the Lord 🙏
Yes!! How do we process??
Great word. Truly blessed my soul. Recently I asked the Father to help me to deal with my insecurities sand this wonderful good news blessed me so. I thank God for His provisions in my life. Glory be to God
Love your teaching!
Speak the truth shame the devil “if they gossip then they also lie “
Thank you so much. I was nodding along to everything you said.
Peace be with all of you ❤
I am dialed in to the LORD.Thank you, wonderful Bishop Blakes.I need this message. I am listening.
Thank you Father Yahweh for this awesome Rhema that your servant has rightly divided, God did not create us to be a duplicate of anyone,we have been given our own unique qualities and talents, the devil uses insecurities within us as the greatest weapon against us, thank you Bishop Blakes 💜💎💯
Bless God...Bless you Bishop Blake's
I definitely deal with some insecurities in my family, job, and my church home.. I've believe it's got a lot better than before, however it's still there... I know who I am in Christ... He created and loves me (for who I am)
Thank you for this Blessed message to resonate In my life...Amen💜🙏
Pastor Blake's, you out did yourself with this video, i could really relate to pretty much everything you said. I'm going to listen to this again in it's entirety because I had a lot of interruptions. Thank you and God Bless!
Pastor thank you 😊🙏 for this opportunity to hear 👂 this lesson it is a great blessing to my spiritual experience 🙏!!!
Great sermon... . Amen!
Pastor thank you so much for this message you are spot on.👏👏👏🙌🙌God bless!
So good 🙌🏽✝️
Just do it😌
Thank you Pastor🙂
Just do it. I needed to hear that
Amen!!
interesting as I stay in a job until im kicked out..and same with men..I cant move on unless they tell me yes or no..
AMEN 🙏🙏🙏
Not easy listening. But a chance to grow !
Tulsa
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You've just explained the poem in the Movie Coach Carter. Our Deepest fear is that we are not inadequate. Our Deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure....etc... Yes!
exactly im not accepted but since I voice more my opinion in a firm and confident manner. I have more friends..so it gives me hope ill meet someone..my legs and home are closed until marriage and open only with condoms after at 98% effective against pregnancies..Anyone /man challenging me on this ill walk away..and on many other things..I also love art and books and I m not afraid to buy my own books and art stuff , and things that I like..or even a house but have no money right now lol..ill want to do it at some stage..
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🔔🔔👟👟✊👍💯Work it out Lord, Psalm 23.
he is offended that I asked for marriage and to have one child only ...you d be surprised that having children is even an issue..im friend with someone who is about to break up with his gf because he wants a family ..however I feel that he doesnt even want the woman to work..as I said I wouldnt want a career but I want my own money to be able to buy what I want..like books and art material..he was silent..he had said the wife can use the money of the husband to manage the household but I said the above yeah but buying something for yourself..Ill keep him as a friend..plus he is way younger than me..we do have the same values..but he wants 3 children and I want one..he said maybe 2 it depends..but not 1..and I only want 1..he was also silent when I said it was scary to give birth and twice I couldn't do it maybe adopt..it shows he is not someone for me..wouldnt a man want to understand u and reassure you..
Insecurity....The silent pandemic.
can a man lack confidence and ghost you for another woman? he ghosted me but stares at me on the street with no expression with his gf or different women I dont know..I stare and dont smile as he doesnt..and then break eye contact before him..yesterday he gave me bad look..maybe its not personal..but I thought jeez he is not nice..even though I fancy him..I got scared a bit and move my body away from him..he know my legs and home are closed before marriage..lol..but he never told me yes or no..
@Dee Berry yeah probably I never went out with him really...had to beg him..to meet to begin with..and he would encourage me via text..signs with X sometimes etc..and told me I was a great artist ..he d check my site for years I think while being with other women..
I thought he liked me but he wasnt honest..I did send him 20 texts after he ghosted but that was 2 years ago..Some of these texts I said i wouldnt go out with any man unless it leads to marriage though and I just want one man , it makes no sense to be with anyone unless you are ready to have a family..etc..and well I told him I wanted to marry him and have a baby with him..but asked his thoughts and whether he fancied me too because I did..and I want him for years..I kind of sucks..at the end of the day like RC blackes says..I dont really know him so far its the physical attraction..
I just look because not many people on the street due to the lockdown..and I have to admit I do fancy him..but like you said he is not good..true I should stop looking at walk close to him because I saw him from far and then look up ..should have ignored..
@Dee Berry now that I think about it ..you may be right that he s angry im not begging..because I bumped into him twice..in the last 2 weeks..and I hadn't bumped into him for the last 2 years which was my last text...the first time he was simply staring at me with no expression and the second time with this hatred /angry look..so maybe he hoped I would have contacted him again after seeing him that first time..if thats the case ..this is crazy..anyway I said everything I had to say to him and even propose to meet to discuss..so its up to him to reach out if he wanted ..he clearly doesnt want
@Dee Berry yeah you are right..he is bad I think...i thought he was nice deep inside but I was wrong..well yeah my comment was for him..but he has so many comments
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That is not the real youtube channel of this pastor. You are using his content to scam people. God sees you.
What’s the real channel?
This is one of his 2 channels. I’m subscribed to both and you can see this channel listed under the original channel, so it does belong to Bishop RC Blakes Jr
The enemy is always interfering with God's agenda. Beware!!
Thank You!
Amen needed to hear this today thank you Mr Blake