MY BROTHERS WANT NOTHING TO DO WITH ME | OVERLY PERSONAL STORYTIME
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I don’t have a relationship with my brother and haven’t since I was 8. The only thing I wanted to do was move out of the house and away from him. He abused me for 4 years while living at home and is probably the underlying cause for my mental health problems. He wants to act now like nothing happened and wants to act all buddy buddy with me but I’m not having it. I told my parents he is not to know where I live. He treats my parents like crud but they continue to let him live in their home. He makes our yard look like a dump, the police are always at my parents house because of him, and one night he drove 45 minutes home DRUNK and punched my dad in the face and then he told me one night he never drinks and drives. Then how did you get home the night you hit dad? Is what I told him and he just gave an excuse and ran in circles. He’s condescending and he’s a pathological liar.
I was never close with any of my family. My mom has some serious issues (addiction, narcissism, borderline personality disorder etcetera..) Now family is so important to me because of growing up with no one I dont want that for my children nor do i wish that on anyone. No matter how crappy it gets with my husbands family i make sure it never years us up
My brother doesn't want me in his life. When our mom died he decided to help himself to my possessions and my moms stuff too. I almost died in 2015 and he decided I wasn't worthy of his presence. It hurts but I can't change who or what he is.
Thank you for sharing your story.
First off, thank you for sharing this. I don't know what brought me to this video, but Im glad I did. Secondly, you know how we are in the south; we're BIG on family. That being said, my family is small. My little brother is almost 17 years younger than me and we have different dads. I basically rasied my brother from the time he was born and I can never see us not liking each other. I also have 4 boys, all teens now and they have different mothers (well, I have 3 baby mommas) but I take care of ALL of them and they know each other VERY WELL even though they live in different households. My second son is autistic and he knows his brothers. Conversely, I have cousins that I grew up with like siblings that dont talk to me at all since my great aunt (their grandmother) passed away. My father didn't raise me and I keep the lines of communication open for him to talk to me. Ive long forgiven him for not raising me.
The bottom line is this: a person will do what they want to. I love family and do what I can to get with them. You are doing the right thing if you keep the lines of communication open and deal with any anxiety you have within yourself. Family members can be strange people, as we well know. You just do the best you can to ensure that you haven't ostracized them. I will keep yall in prayer and again thank you for sharing. :-)
Thank you so much for sharing your story!
@@MissHannahGoodman, I thank you for allowing me to post! :-) I will keep your family in prayer!
So proud of you for getting out of your comfort zone to talk about this ! ❤️❤️
Thank you!
Oh Hannah I can so relate! My parents had three kids. I have an older sister who is special needs, I am the middle child and I have a younger brother. When my dad was alive my brother rarely came around and it put a strain on the family especially on the holidays. When he passed my brother put on a performance and showed up drunk. My father has been gone eighteen years. My mom who is super close to my brother rarely speaks to me because I won't condone my alcoholic brother's behavior. I have not seen him in five years. Mind you we only live a couple of miles from each other. Thank goodness for my husband's family. Otherwise, I would not have a support system. Thank you for letting me vent! Have a great day!
You too!! ❤️💕
My mother had an older sister and I never saw her even though she lived in the same city as the other 2 sisters who I saw fairly often.
i can definitely relate. im 14 and i havent seen my half brother since i was 9. him and my dad have problems but i dont know what it is and i dont know why he doesnt want to talk to me or my little brother
I have an older brother and older sister who I rarely ever speak with... They too are from my dad's previous marriage... My mom raised them as teenager's but we really never hung out... They were already 16/18 when I was born... I've done everything in my power to try and be close to them but only my older sister will acknowledge that I even exist... I don't even know what my older brother looks like and he has 2 kids one of which lives with my older sister... I moved up to Washington State and found out that my brother lives in the same state as me 2hrs away... I've tried to reach out to him and try and go out for coffee or something on my dime, my time, and my gas and still he refuses to get to know me... Hell I even have cousins that live 25mins away from me that pretend like I don't exist as well and the only reason why I even got to see one of them was because my grandmother came up for his wedding and she didn't even know I lived up here and that I was so close to them until I saw a Facebook post of her's stating that she was in Oregon for his wedding... So I contacted her to see if I could meet up with her and she was pissed!!! She yelled at my Uncle and his kids for how they treated me and stated that she would not attend the wedding if I wasn't invited... So it was because of my grandma that I went to 2 of their weddings because they adore her and didn't want to upset her... But I always wonder... What on Earth did I do to become the black sheep 🐑 of the family????
I definitely relate to that ❤️ I'm so sorry, dear
Hi Hannah, your brothers are of a different generation (not that it should matter). If their mother or mothers are alive, perhaps that is an influence. I am happy that one of them comes around. It sounds as if the situation has nothing to do with you. It is your father which makes it difficult for you as well. Someone influenced your older brother beyond your knowing. I hope in time all the distance is resolved.
oh Hannah, you're not alone. I grew up with my half sister but my half brother not so much. While he was forced to see us when he was still a minor I saw him twice a year. Now, he refuses to answer my dad or I. He didn't come to my graduation party... that one really broke my heart. Thank you for sharing this, it helps me realize I'm not the only one that has these issues.
Ive always said its not blood that gives u the title and status as family its the person who spends time with u and gives u the world is family. I met ppl at times in my life, that were more family then some of my relatives. Thats there choice if they dont wanna, but there loss. If ur gonna be a entitled (possibly narcissistic) type person where u can go in and out as u please those ppl are best to cut out in life in general. If its a "im too busy" issue then its pure excuse no such as too busy even if u have ur own family, no excuse. U could be working 40 hrs plus handling ur own family u can squeeze in a couple days at least. Ppl dont care to try. Its a them issue not you, remember that.
I have a twin brother and we don't talk. Its his problem not mine. I'm here if he wants to talk.
19 grandkids?! Is that 10 and 9 kids per brother?!
I was wrong, it's actually 13. I knew it was a lot though!
I have 2 half sisters and I never see them or hear anything about them because they have nothing to do with my dad but I don't blame them because if it wasn't for my mom then I wouldn't even have nothing to with him. I also have a younger brother but I don't hear from him because he doesn't have a phone or social media accounts.
Your relationship with your older brother sounds like my relationship with my two half brothers 😞 the few times we come to a nieces or nephews party they finally act like family 🙄 it’s so fake...
I have had my little sister block me. I don’t see her or her family. Thank you for sharing. I feel less alone for not having a good sibling relationship. Hugs❤️
hannah, you r not alone n this & it is certainly not your fault. your older brothers r really missing out ,because you r a sister any brother should be proud of. you r not strange ,
lol, you r a smart, loving, funny, & unique person. take care & be u cause that's a wonderful thing to be. God bless :) :) nancy in ga usa
Thank you!
I hate my older brother he has never done anything for me he came into my room without knocking then tried to beat me up i managed to land 6 punches he had bloody nose i won that fight
I can totally relate I have a cousin that I share a birthday with that wants nothing to do with her mom's family which means me because her dad and her grandma turned her against all of us years ago when she was a little
Hey Hannah, I was wondering if you could do a video on when you went to OHIO JUVY!!!
Maybe so. I don't really have a lot to say about it though, and I covered it somewhat in a previous video.
Juvy? Is never have guessed that was something in your past. You've done great, and obviously overcame that period of your life x
I'm sorry growing up me and my brother weren't really close but now as an adult were alot closer then we use to be. I hope someday you guys can mend things and maybe talk it over.
Your relationship with your brothers is not wierd at all. They probably resent you because you got to grow up with him while they didnt. They are hurt which is normal. Did your dad have a relationship with them immediately after he dovorced their mother? Because that might be the reason why things are like this. I feel it has got to do more with their relationship with their father than it is about you.
He always tried to do things with them, but when they would come stay with him, they didn't want anything to do with him.
Hi Hannah I understand what you're going through. Will my biological dad got remarried him and his wife had a son and my brother and I have no kind of relationship at all. He has me blocked on his Facebook and Instagram ect. The only time I ever really see him is when I get a chance to go visiting my dad in Portland Oregon. And my brother is 36 and still lives at home. And when I'm there he completely ignores me the only thing he ever says to me is hi and that's it. I've tried so many times just talked to him but you always famous just ignores me. I'm honestly to the point where I've given up are you having any kind of brother sister relationship with him. I know it's easier said than done but the best thing to do is wait for them to come to you.