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I also hate joint family system
I hate joint family system
Me too
I hate hate and just hate to live in joint family....
Uffff me too a biggest hate to joint family system
Zindagi eak see nhi chalti kabhi na kabhi kuch eyshe haadse hote hi hai jis me joint family ki support ki bahut hi zayada zarurat hoti hai bahut sare mashle ashani se hal ho jate hai us me to hate wahi karte jo dusron ko kuch Dena nhi chahte , Allah ne zindagi dee hai to kuch de kar jawo es dene me etni sakoon milti jitni khud k liye karne me bhi nhi milti
Seriously..
I love. Joint family m b joint family m hn or sb kch krti hn ghr ki bari hn sb ko dekh soch Samaj k chalati hn or sb mjh se Khush b hn
Yi tu tmhara hyal Hy dosry kia kihty Hy 😢
Husband should be balanced. before marriage parents should teach their sons mentally to be prepared about their marriage
Apki batain boht achi hai Allah paak apko parda karnay ki bhi tofeeq Dai Aameen sum Aameen
The problem is in-laws do not give space to girls. They do compare their bahoos with their daughters and then say it loudly our daughters are better in every aspect.
That is a big fact comparison of naseeb of her daughter with bahu ... Only with bahu ... Why not compared to other daughters naseeb .... Uffff yeh mother in laws
Jubki betiya saas sasur se alag rehti hai or hum sath me reh rhe hai 😅😅
ab mein bhi palat kr bolti hu meri Ammi tumse behter hai tum padhna likhna nhii janti meri ammi ssc kiye hai 60 saal pehle 😜🤣🤣 Ab jalii padii hai unlogo ki jubki mene such bola hai😅
Very beneficial talk I sometime het very emotional and after few hours I’m back to normal . You are so right that we should keep observing our state of mind so we don’t make wrong decisions
It is applicable only when everyone have adjusting nature.
Jo sawal aap ne shuru me kia. Aesa hota hai. Bilkul sahi kaha host ne k koi jhoot nahi bolta. Aesa hee hota hai.
Allah sy dua krain k Allah sb ki mushkl hal kry...
Erum API it's nice to see u after so many years I was in school when u were in dha college if u remember when u see my comment
I never when to DHa college bache
Lots of respect you mam from India (jammu)
Sari duniya he motivational speaker ha ab tau
She is not motivational speaker
السلام وعلیکم ورحمتہ اللہ وبرکاتہ
جوائنٹ فیملی اچھی ہے پر کبھی کبھی ہم اپنی زندگی کے بہت سے سال دے کے دوسرے رشتوں کو۔
خود کے پاس سوائے خاموشی کے کچھ بھی نہیں رہتا ۔
اور آخر میں رشتے نبھاتے نبھاتے اتنی تھکن ہو جاتی ہے کہ پھر کسی کے ہونے نہ ہونے سے کوئی فرق نہیں پڑھتا
Women living in a joint family should prioritize open communication and maintain healthy relationships with all family members. They should contribute to household responsibilities, while also ensuring self-care and personal growth.
It sjould be like that but its not easy at all
Open communication is called betmazi in our society. It’s Pakistan not abroad.
@@nailasaba2601agreed
her mushkil kay ''bad'' nahi, her mushkil kay ''sath'' asani hay.... there is a difference between these two meanings...
Kia Matlab hoa
Jeee bohat farq hai
Both r same
Yes this is the actual translation and there is a lot of difference b/w the two, coz tangi k sth bhi asani hoti h blkay 2asanian hoti hn
Joint family system se nafrat Krny se society Ki buri KO khtm Nahi Kiya ja sakta, we have to solve where actual problem exist, max time problem is just our self created by annoying and impulse reactions on others behaviour, we shoud sort out the reasons, if your are helpless and can't solve issues, then ankhain aur Kan BND kr lain and enjoy your life, Jo b Jo kuch b krta he Krny dain, you have to focus on your life and children
ma sha Allah
Thank you so much ! ❤❤❤
Baten kerna aasan Hy sub gharon ki satuation different Hoti hy.islami taalem p Amal koi nai kerrta Islam ko hi samgh len to sab thik hojay.joind family system is not necessary in Islam.
Ma bohat preshan hu joint family sai
Me too
Me toooo......... extremely hate this kind of living systems
I think mama's or baba's boys ko shadi ni krni chaye..kiun k shadi k bad balance life gzarny k lie important decisions lainy prty or agr parents ki finger pkr k faisla krny py aik trf jukhao ho jata kafi bar..or aik cheez jo smjny ki zrorat hai wo ye k ,shadi k 1st 3 years main ap apny spouse py jo invest kro gy sari life wahe bughto gy ..
Well
JazakAllah
joint family system saas susr ki hd tk theek ha wo perents hyn but jhaan hsad jlan krny wali nandyn nd 2nd main dewraniyan jithaniyan hr baat py gossiping ,judgment,tounting,criticism ye sb mil k joint family system buht mushkil bna dyti hyn
Exactly😢
Islam doesn't support joint family system.... But hindoism system support this and we Muslim copy that
To the point bat kya kary easy way m short tim m 😊
Buhat majboor hn hm joint family system azab
میرے ساتھ بھی کچھ ایسا ہی ہے
Jazak ALLAH Khair ma'am nice information...but kindly AAP itnaaa speed sy baat mt Kiya krn samajhny may diqqat hti h..... Pyary Nabi SAW bht tahammul mizaaji sy bat krty thy K samajhny may asaani hti Thi.....
Plz book ka name urdu main bta dain
Or kiya yeah urdu bazar say mil jaye gi
Ak ghr ma aty har baho ka apna kitchen hona chahey alag washroom beshak sb sath rhyn
Joint family pay kia raye de samjh ni aee
Joint family m rehny wali urytain kia karain 🤔. ..........................Kuch bhi na karain phaty chuk k rukhain family k larai sy khud hi separate kardain gy😂😂😂😂🙏
😂😂😂😂
مجھے تو جوائنٹ فیملی سسٹم سے بہت نفرت ہو گئی ہے کیونکہ میں نے اس سسٹم میں بہت تکلیف اٹھائی ہے بہت کچھ برداشت کیا ہے یہاں تک کہ اپنے کردار پہ بھی باتیں سنی ہیں میں اپنی اولاد کو اس سسٹم میں کبھی نھیں رکھوں گی انشاء اللّٰہ
I hate joint family
Lekin Allah farmata Hy mushkil k Sath asani Hy. Bas Allah par tawakkal hy
Log to apni zindagi ka control nahi rakhtay hamari zindagi ko kia control karain gay. Control karnay wali zaat to Allah ki ha jo logon ko bhi control karta ha aur hamain bhi aur wo hamesha behtar karta ha Alhamdulillah
Shadi nhi hui hogi aapki abhi
Mam asp ne idhar udar ki batein ki asal maslato wahein pe reh gaya
Bez solution in k pass b nhi
Me joint family me rehti hu.mere ghar ka mahol bohat hi bekar he is wajah se me or mere bache chidchide or beemar rehne lage he😢
Shuru me jo quran ki ayet padhi hai apne osme "wa" nahi hai , Quran sahi padhiye pls.
Good
Kab aye ga acha wakt 😢😢😢😢
True dB sae ziyda mere bavhe bht preshan hai they r 12 14,15 main bht preshannhu .wo mujhbsae khete hai kae app nae bigre bache delhe nahi . Main harcwaqt guilt main rehti hu meri beti mujh sae kheti hai kae mama hum teens main chat rehe hai u can't feel our feelings. Mai bht preshan hu
Music lagna lazmi tha😢
Joint family system is good but . Sab k mind 1 jese hin jaha gunah ko gunah na samja jae or neki ki bat ko na mana jae or bad tameezi Se khud BAAT kr k ap tamez ki expect kro to me ese system. Ko kia kahu . Yaha to koi b ni reh Sakta hmara joint family ESA Hy or 12 Saal meny is me guzary or ab bht mushkil ho gya hy
Joint family ma rahna asan ni orat ko apna eshas khyal health har chez end krni phrti ha tb b qadr ni hote
Beqadray logon ki wja sy kis nay kaha hai aap ko waqt zaya krnay ka ....
True
Boht pyary bolty hy
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Hmesha ayt ka trjma sei ni kia jta.....mushkil k bhd asani ni.mushkil k sath asani h
I have factual emotions now tell me what to do
Sari zindagi qurban karne ke baad result ye hota he ke log kehte hn kiaa aap in ki mother hn means persoality totally damaged husband ki amman lagne lagti he wo orat jo husband se kai saaal chooti thi jis ne bacho or shohar ko waqt dete dete khud ko bhula diya
Gd but back ground bohat ger zaroory music js sa disturbness ho ra he h
Exactly
aap kehna kia chahrahi hay smjh nai araha
Assalam o Alaikum. Sahi trha urdu bolen.iss qadar angrezi zada lehja na apnayen.angrezi bolni hay to puri bolen.apnay aap ko ziada prha likha sabit krnay ka ye pta nhi kon sa tariqa hay k urdu bolna chor do.bhai tumhari apni zuban hay fakhar se puri trha urdu bolo.pta nhi log ehsas e kamtari ka kyun shikar hen? Samajh nhi ati
Me 2.5 min me hee apkee fan hogi hoon yellow hijaab wali sahiba. Bikul sahi baat kee hai jo shayad mene abhi tk kisi se nahi suni
Assalam o alikum
Plz api english km.bola krn ai.smj.ati.ha pz.urdu.zyadda istimal.krn plzzzzz
I live in joint family and mujhy bemariyan lag gae hain koi din esa nh guzarta jb ap ka mood thek ry
Same yr zehni mareez bn gi husband b n smjta
@@sarimali915 husband apni maa behnon ko glt nh keh Sakta chahy wo kitni ee glt hon wo pretend b esy krty hain Jasy wo Humary kher khawa hain r Jar b katti hain wohe
I haet joint family
Remember us in Dua
Mare shadi ko 13sal hu gy hn ur ma joint family ka azab bughat rhe hun.Allah aisy logon ko hdaiat dy jo rishton ko zbrdasti jor k rakhty hn jb k dil ma na muhbt hu ur na ezat.30 membrs hn hum ur mera apny husband sy ziada susraliyun sy wasta h mery ur bachon ka hr faisla khana pena sb kch bry krty hn ur sary kama k unhain dety hn .ab bron ki marzi jis ko chain zizda dain.ab jo 2sry k hisy ka kah rha h wo joint system ko prefer kry ga ur jo sacrifice kr rha hu usy ya system aik lahnat sy km ni.i hate this system.😢😢😢
Yah to meri life hai😢 same here also😂😂😂
Yah safiya madam Kabhi joint family mein Rahi nahin shayad, isiliye sawal k jawab me dam nai hai, hamare sasural me to saare faisle sirf saas hi karti hai, yahan tak k hospital jana hai ya nahi wo b , agar hame kuch taklif hai to wahi decide karegi k hame hospital jana hai ya nahi , warna unke liye to wo natak k siwa kuch b nai hai
Ab batayiye safiya madam, agar ham apne haq k liye b mu kholte hai to ghar me ilzam lagate hai k bahu har waqt ladte rahti hai aur shohar k samne kuch bolo to seedha ghar se jane ki baat karte hai,
I don’t support joint family system
Mai buhat tang aa chuki ho joint family se. Mare bace be
The joint family system is against islamic teachings.
Baj8 English thori Kam boly SB apke trhan educate ny hain😊
Achhe waqt ka intazar karte karte orat qabar mn ja soti he
Yes boht kuch banda kho deta hi mostly sehat but Allah is a big creater Jo bandy ko sambhal Lita hi logo ko razi krny ki bjy rab ko razi kry yhi asl Kam hi Jenny ka❤
Cheep music ki waja s y video nhi daikhi
😂
Please Urdu men bt kiya Karen har koi apki trha prha likha ni hota please
Can you talk privately plz???
you make wrong tranlation
be correct
"Har mushkil k SATH asani hai "
na kay baad
I hate joint family system.
Khod koshi karay.... I hate join family system 🤪😂🤪😂
Joint family Islam ka system hy hi nhi hy ak chota sa ghar chahe kmre ka ho
Mujy baty nai jazbaty ho
Bht azab hy joint family system
V true
Har koi bhitaa bashan dey raha .yarr kahan sy aty hen yea log 😂😂😂
When your son gets married, would you still hate joint family system? I think then you would love joint family system 😁
Maaa baap kisi aik baitay k sath reh Lain bas.. Lekin sab baitay or un ke bewiyan bachay aik ghar may rahaingay to ghar jahanum say kam Nahy Hai... Jis per guzarty Hai bs wohi janta hai
yes
Joint family with husband parents not a prblm, but with other married brothers with their family's become toxic and some time horrible.
Tm bethi yhan batain kr rai ho
Asy log b hain Jo husband khuch kmaty ni khrcha b biwi ko ni dyty or sas susr bjy byty ko smjhany k bahu ko khty k kmao or apna khrch khud uthao
Ort bcha b smbhaly ghr kam kaj or sth kma k b khyly to phr shdi krny ka kia faida hua
Islam may hay hi Nahi joint family system
Because
Dewar ko Islam may fire Kaha Gaya hay
Khud ko depression ka mareez banaein😂
Joint family main yh soch ky rahain ky is trh sy hamary bachon ky liye better hy Jo bachy separate rehty hain r Jo Joint system main un bachoon main zameen asman ka Farq hota hy ap ky bachoon ky liye bht zaruri hy ky ap Joint family main rahain ALLAH sy dua kiya karain r Jo Jo kuch ap bardasht karain gy to phir ap magic dekhain gy ap ky bachoon ko kitna advantage mily ga
Bachy e na hn to?
Ye beikar ki baat hai zarori nahi k Jena marna sirf joint family me hi ho
I agree bhi joint family main bachon kiliye advantages hosakte hai likhen agar ghar main tension ho joint family system ki waja se toh phir woh bura asar banjata hai bachon ke upar. Agar mother tension main ho toh woh bachon ko kaise healthy tareeka se bara karegi? Aur joint family main akhsar hota hai mother time hi nahi dehsakti bachon ko kyon ki itne zimadariya hai uske upar.
Toba kro sis joint family mein hi tu bchy kharab hoty Hain dosry bcho ko dekh kr
16 saal ho gye intezar main,ub tu umeed bhi khatam.kabhi acha waqt nhi ata.
Mayoos na hon .ALLAHSWT se dua jari rakhen ism e azam parh k dua karen ,astaghfar durood or lahola wala qoatta illa BILLAH kasrat se parhen. ,ALLAHSWT apko ornsab کو dunya akhrat ki khushyan ata karen ameen
mazay ki baat bataon meri life main exactly 16 years ky baad hi big positive change aya such main duua is most powerful tool of muslim Allah bohat asanian dy😊
Her mushkil k bad asani hi in alfaz py yaqeen rakho
@@azankamran583 sach kaha👍
Allah aap k liye aasanian peda kry. Main bhi mayous ho gai thi pr dua kri rehti thi Allah aap ko aap ki bardasht se ziada nai azmaye ga jab lagta hay k saare raste khatam ho gai hain tu aik dam se aasani aa jati hay
Inkar kar den our kya karna hai😂
Aur phir itna paisa Kahan se laen , itnay kharchonnkay liye😂
Mjy to na shadi e bhtt buri lagti ab
muhobbt duriyome he hoti h.. joint family me Sirf chalakiya hoti h.. or nafrate badti jati h
Urdu bola krey
😂😂😂
Ye ajeeb pareshan c aurat q viral hui v ae ajkal 😂😂
Aik doosray ki izat karen aur mill k kaam karen. koi khud ko army chief na samjhay insan ki bachian ban k rahen kaam taqseem karlen ghar k saray kaam aik aurat separate reh k kar sktee hai to 3 se 4 khawateen ghar k sirf aik kaam daily kar k guzara nhi kar sktee ? thori aqal aur ikhlaq hoto aur ego na ho to sb kaam ziada aasani se ho jatay hain aur skoon bhi secuirty bhi ghar ki
Khud rehly ap janab
Bat kam ki ni h g gut gut k jena b koi jena h .andr sy ap mar rhy ur sb ko khush chera dekhana bht mushkil h g.
Ye to hame b malum hai, ego nahi rahna, aur kaam baantke karna lekin aisa karta koi nai hai, saare kaam bahu k hawale bas, kuch bolegi to ladayi shuru, joint family ka poora kaam sirf ek hi insan, to soncho kaise khush rahegi wo, din bhar kaam Me hi jata hai, sab milke rahte hai to milke kaam karna chahiye, agar aisa hua to bahu kabhi alag hone ki baat nai karegi, ghar me kabhi jhagde hai honge, magar lagta hai namumkin hai sab.
Allah ne deen ko bahot asaan banaya hai, agar sab amal karenge to zindagi b asan ho jayegi
ab her koey motivational banana shoru ho gia hai bakwas hai sub
There is no concept of joint family system in Islam. Aor yahan to rakha jata hai bahoo ko is system me na jane kitnay toxix logon k beech ......
I hate joint family system
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I hate joint family system