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  • @carmenblanchard3596
    @carmenblanchard3596 3 года назад +32

    Hi guys,
    I’ve been binge watching your videos more out of curiosity than anything else. I’m very open minded and I get you guys. You love who you love and you can love two people simultaneously. I see happiness, contentment, and adoration all around. I wish you three years of happiness with each other.

  • @cram6891
    @cram6891 4 года назад +9

    Thank you gentleman so much for the brutal honesty. It's refreshing to be witness to the beauty unfolding. I look forward to more content from this dynamic!

    • @KCAndJax
      @KCAndJax 3 года назад +1

      Vegas_N54 ❤️❤️❤️

  • @alinafernandapicayo
    @alinafernandapicayo 3 года назад +1

    Hola chicos, hey guys, I wanted to say I've been watching your videos a lot these last few weeks. I am always looking to challenge my ideas as well as enhance the ideas I already have in every aspect of my life whether it be academically, professionally, socially, culturally, etc and your videos give me a lot to think about which I am grateful for. I always appreciate people who are the exception and who stand out and are able to shine positive light on the general negative stereotypes out there in anything. Thanks for helping me see your lives and those of others just a little bit differently. Through your story, you help to make me a little bit of a better person. Also, it is great that you have a Latino in there. I am Cuban Mexican so I love to see Latinos in all content. Show Jax making favada or paella or some other delicia española.

  • @richh9450
    @richh9450 3 года назад +18

    Just found you guys on youtube yesterday. You've proved that a throuple can work well. Love y'all

    • @KCAndJax
      @KCAndJax 3 года назад

      Kirk Taylor thank you ❤️❤️❤️

    • @sofyaneelayta9131
      @sofyaneelayta9131 3 года назад +1

      Check their last video haha. Don’t think so buddy, monogamy hasn’t been a part of humanity for thousands of years without a reason :-)

    • @KCAndJax
      @KCAndJax 3 года назад +2

      @@sofyaneelayta9131 yeah... because monogamy doesn’t fail all the time as well - have you not seen the divorce rates? 🙄 such an ignorant comment. Polyamory has been around forever. Just because someone’s relationship doesn’t work out doesn’t mean it doesn’t work. It just means the relationship didn’t workout - like COUNTLESS monogamous ones don’t.

  • @myblissfullife
    @myblissfullife 3 года назад +4

    I have no idea how this video popped up in the very feminine hetero suggestions that typically appear in RUclips, but I'm so glad it did. It has opened my eyes to different ways of living and experiencing the world. You guys are so kind and loving toward each other. You're also so patient and open with your experience. This has certainly shifted my paradigm. Okay, and let me be real, ALSO you guys are VERY easy on the eyes. Much love to you all💕

  • @adamtanpahawa850
    @adamtanpahawa850 3 года назад +133

    And here i am😐 cant even get one😑 ....still....single.....

  • @KevC84
    @KevC84 4 года назад +14

    For Jax and KC: Was it difficult to transition from making decisions as a couple to a throuple on topics such as living decisions, family and financial decisions especially since you both have a long history and are married? What were some of those challenges and how did you work through them?
    For Joey: What were you feelings or concerns about joining an established relationship where the couple is married? Did you experience any and how did you work through them?

  • @tovenj456
    @tovenj456 4 года назад +60

    omg joey is so so so hot. who would not fall in love with him?

  • @ClappingForChlamydia
    @ClappingForChlamydia 3 года назад +26

    spoiler: yes there is.

  • @grnicholas01
    @grnicholas01 3 года назад +13

    i'm so glad and happy this works for you guys!
    and your happy!

    • @KCAndJax
      @KCAndJax 3 года назад +1

      Thank you! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @crimsonagent4763
    @crimsonagent4763 3 года назад +4

    Just love the fact how all three of them need to be in contact and how Joe's both hands are entwined with one of Jax's and KC's

    • @KCAndJax
      @KCAndJax 3 года назад

      ❤️☺️❤️

  • @philiphoffman4740
    @philiphoffman4740 3 года назад +1

    When you share your thoughts and ideas you help other men who might be thinking along these lines. So, it is a good thing you are doing.

  • @davidryan9586
    @davidryan9586 4 года назад +11

    This is so great to have you producing content about gay throuples. I am looking for a gay throuple relationship but I find it hard to find.

  • @belizeguy
    @belizeguy 3 года назад +4

    Communication is the key to all of this. Congrats guys!!

    • @KCAndJax
      @KCAndJax 3 года назад +1

      belizeguy thank you! Yes, it certainly has been ❤️❤️❤️

    • @belizeguy
      @belizeguy 3 года назад

      @@KCAndJax Be Well Guys!!

  • @dannyboudreau5151
    @dannyboudreau5151 3 года назад +20

    Damn! These guys have TWO boyfriends and I can't even find one ! Some guys get all the luck, I swear :(

  • @geljimenez1304
    @geljimenez1304 3 года назад +2

    just found you today and I stan! :)

    • @KCAndJax
      @KCAndJax 3 года назад

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @heshvan
    @heshvan 3 года назад +9

    I love you guys! Don’t let any negativity effect what you guys have! Keep the love flowing! 👍

    • @KCAndJax
      @KCAndJax 3 года назад +1

      Andrew Johnson thank you for the love and positivity! Much love and happiness to you as well! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @were-all-human9427
    @were-all-human9427 3 года назад +4

    loving this, had no idea KC and Jax have been together 7 years.... so as married for 5 years they have legal protection/medical authorisations, my Q would be does Joe have any sort of medical intervention authorisation in place... away from home/parents, when a quick decision is needed, who has 'power' over Joe medical care in case of dire emergency..... love these vids, and wow Jax was a "3rd" in a str8 relationship before KC... and KC was on the DL when they met, Jax being almost his 1st ..... may I ask is Jax a little older, Im assuming so. xx

  • @serenasmuckers9310
    @serenasmuckers9310 3 года назад +2

    Why do I hear the Three's Company theme playing in my head? Lol. Good for you guys. Make it work!

  • @kbophoto
    @kbophoto 2 года назад +1

    Tried it... ended our 8 year relationship. There has to be boundaries. Doesn't work without them.

  • @patrickom82
    @patrickom82 4 года назад +5

    You should do a throuple Q&A!!

  • @smiggles6963
    @smiggles6963 2 года назад +2

    There always a duo in a trio. The one in the middle and on the left are definitely closer

  • @nancyborden5860
    @nancyborden5860 3 года назад +1

    Watching Joe and KC having a thumb battle while Jax is talking

  • @IanMWalker
    @IanMWalker 3 года назад +8

    You three are so fortunate. I can't even find one fella who wants more than just sex, let alone two. Wishing you all the best. :)

  • @calvindavis3641
    @calvindavis3641 4 года назад +4

    I never saw a third as a part of a throuple. That makes no sense. Everyone makes a decision that this is want you want and that it feels right and that's enough. In fact, I hope to have the same someday because I find it would be satisfying and would increase the the intensity of my current relationship. I'd be more interested in the dynamics of the relationship, how you make it work, do anyone have specific expectations, etc. What would be a deal breaker as a throuple might be the most interesting question.

  • @AuthorCaseyHolloway
    @AuthorCaseyHolloway 3 года назад +2

    You guys are so well spoken. We just ended our Throuple this year and hope to find someone again. and People have NO IDEA how hard it is to date as a couple.

  • @greenladyknitter
    @greenladyknitter 3 года назад +9

    I think y’all look great together. Judging someone’s relationship based on assumptions about how someone might be acting in public or in front of camera is ridiculous.it seems like ideal situation to me. Look forward to hearing more

    • @KCAndJax
      @KCAndJax 3 года назад +5

      Thank you so much for the kindness and love ❤️ people wanted to know more so we simply shared more of our story... none of us had experience speaking and sharing like this in front of the camera... it was all a new experience! (And yes! We were all a bit nervous to put ourselves out there like this!)
      Hope to share much more! Lol, and maybe not get blasted so much for not being “experts” speaking in front of a camera 🙈
      Much love and happiness to you! ❤️

    • @greenladyknitter
      @greenladyknitter 3 года назад +1

      KC JAX JOE well I think what you are doing is absolutely fantastic. I am really rooting(and praying) for y’all to be successful. This just makes so much sense . I mean I am cis female and I believe love is love . No boundaries or barriers. Stories like yours and so many of the people I have met thru tiktok(I love that app) just make my heart soar and sing and smile. I am older generation and I remember stings and arrests etc and seeing how things are today. It is getting better every single day . Love y’all and I haven’t even met you❤️❤️❤️

  • @trevorwindle8980
    @trevorwindle8980 3 года назад +4

    I luv your talks makes me feel assured life is a challenge for all of us you are judged as to the longevity of this 6 months in by some I have been in coupled monog relationships houses picket fence and all ended me richer in life experience some last that fought like bastards & survived others full of love failed its a lottery for some but I hope you guys stay the distance luvxxx tassy tara dah boom dee eh!

  • @bradleyf3224
    @bradleyf3224 3 года назад

    Really interesting 🤔 What do you guys argue or disagree the most about/topic?

  • @jamesrobinson2175
    @jamesrobinson2175 3 года назад +4

    I love you fellows very much!!! Maybe one day I'll meet you fellows physically.

  • @JC-pg3cy
    @JC-pg3cy 3 года назад +5

    Oh man Joey is my perfect type of guy, can we make this a four LOL

  • @scottbottorff1939
    @scottbottorff1939 8 дней назад

    Just found your channel. My husbands and I have been together for years. Husband ray and I have been together for going on 28 years. We have been with our other husband since 2006

  • @williamlarson275
    @williamlarson275 2 года назад

    You guys are amazing!

  • @ItsAMbutyoutubechangedmyname
    @ItsAMbutyoutubechangedmyname 3 года назад +5

    Why did youtube not recommend this sooner ....... Just got it on recommend today.......

  • @jasonmurray3976
    @jasonmurray3976 4 года назад +3

    Wow u guys are so lucky to have each other

    • @KCAndJax
      @KCAndJax 3 года назад

      Jason Murray ❤️❤️❤️

  • @happyscorpiox2
    @happyscorpiox2 3 года назад +1

    Now THAT is what I call perfect situation. 👍😉 I once was involved with a couple..... truly the best time of my life. Single now, but IF such a situation should ever arise again.....only then would I again be prepared to „get serious“ with anyone again.

  • @yuvanesh2156
    @yuvanesh2156 2 года назад

    Thanks for the post guys you guys look amazingly beautiful. Medical student Malaysia let's celebrate the endemic together guys. ✌💙

  • @steventodd7280
    @steventodd7280 3 года назад

    Getting into this late... Want updates so bad! What do I do??

  • @miguelescobedo1382
    @miguelescobedo1382 4 года назад +4

    Love is love is love❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤

    • @andyt3789
      @andyt3789 3 года назад

      Miguel Escobedo
      Yes, but lust is never satisfied. It always wants more, more, more. Selfrestraint & control is a must for human beings.

  • @Thechannelofalexlopez
    @Thechannelofalexlopez 2 года назад

    You guys have the best haircuts lol who’s your barber? 😍

  • @jrize3228
    @jrize3228 3 года назад +2

    Gorgeous kitchen!

    • @KCAndJax
      @KCAndJax 3 года назад

      Thank you! ❤️

  • @sarkozibalazs3154
    @sarkozibalazs3154 3 года назад +1

    Looking amazing guys ❤❤❤🌍🌈🙏😌

  • @Yasmin-xt2rj
    @Yasmin-xt2rj 3 года назад +15

    I have never seen anything like this. This is so interesting and cute ☺️

  • @lakulo27
    @lakulo27 3 года назад +16

    This aged like milk

    • @KCAndJax
      @KCAndJax 3 года назад +3

      Happens when someone lies and cheats... no matter how many people are in a relationship - that tends to destroy it.

    • @Bunnybunny5656
      @Bunnybunny5656 3 года назад

      @@KCAndJax lmfao 💀

    • @aberfitchyguy
      @aberfitchyguy 3 года назад

      LMAO

  • @moviefan7854
    @moviefan7854 2 года назад

    I'm wondering how legal & medical decisions work for a thruple. If you're married there's built in rights, but what about for the third?

  • @gordonsmith9153
    @gordonsmith9153 3 года назад +3

    wow you guys are all awesome and hot!
    i have been married to a women for 30 years and have always said i was bi but really i'm gay.
    i was going to divorce her 2 years ago to be who i really am but then she got terminal cancer so i could not do that to her at that time but when i'm single again i would love a throuple relationship
    BTW i subscribed! you guys are awesome!

  • @timplofkin5247
    @timplofkin5247 3 года назад +4

    I’m in a 20 year relationship with a man I adore any which way you look at it,,we’ve been in 3 ways many times before and we enjoyed it totally, even fantasizing about a third, because it felt that good and comfortable, BUTTTTT,,,there once in awhile when one of us or the other one was attracted to one more then the other,,,don’t tell me that hasn’t happened in your relationship,,how do you deal with that,,do you play separately or always together,,I love playing with a third with my partner,,,but sometime that urge to be with and feel something different,,is exciting,,how do you deal?

  • @alexhildred4441
    @alexhildred4441 3 года назад +2

    Thank you I was being pressured by family that have taken me and as far as I see at present I am at least 5 months away from the really truth to my birth and the cause of why I have the life I have had with missing pieces present in every moment looking forward to learning about my environment and nurturing as well as sexuality and I we should have no expectations other than true love for the elephant in the room the babie universe suggests that I can give some beneficially advice and recommend some useful tips in care for all types of families that go into building strong successful happy loving well caring orderly way and trust in one all thank you for opening my eyes to different relationships today 31.8.20 time 21.19pm

  • @elianacastellon104
    @elianacastellon104 Год назад

    Omgg you guys are so cute!!

  • @tigergreg8
    @tigergreg8 3 года назад +18

    They guy on the far right is not into this as much as the other 2 are. His facial expressions speaks volumes, and the dude in the middle could see it.

    • @noneofyourbusiness18
      @noneofyourbusiness18 3 года назад +6

      Pretty sure the guy on the far right was the one who reached out to Joey first.

    • @tigergreg8
      @tigergreg8 3 года назад +3

      @@noneofyourbusiness18 He sure doesn't seem like a happy person then. Lmao

    • @BabyDoll-qo7ol
      @BabyDoll-qo7ol 3 года назад +6

      @@tigergreg8 I was looking for this comment,his body language is way off,his facial expressions say a lot and I'm sure he is a bit jealous of the closeness between the other two. I will even say he might be having some second thoughts.

    • @tigergreg8
      @tigergreg8 3 года назад +1

      @@BabyDoll-qo7ol 👍😉

    • @deechatterton5828
      @deechatterton5828 3 года назад +5

      I'm not so sure about that. It's true that he doesn't look as comfortable as the other two but I get the sense that he's not as comfortable in front of the camera.

  • @ronaldgiroux3307
    @ronaldgiroux3307 3 года назад +1

    Well this experiment fizzled and died quickly. I hope KC & Jax can fix whatever it is that was lacking in their union that they felt only having a third partner could fill.
    It isn’t clear why Joe left so everyone is left to draw their own conclusions. “Troppling” seems novel in the interim but most of us are seeking that one person to be our soulmate. I feel at some point one person in a trio will begin to feel like a third wheel.

    • @KCAndJax
      @KCAndJax 3 года назад

      Fizzled and died quickly? It was a full year. Just because our relationship didn’t end up working out doesn’t mean poly relationships don’t work. You are projecting your own biases.
      We know countless “couple” relationships and marriages that have failed. - that doesn’t mean all couple relationships are doomed to failure/ don’t work... which is what your logic is implying with poly relationships.
      If you’ve watched our vids you would have seen the vid in which Jax talked about his 4 year throuple relationship. This isn’t just some experimental thing we have done on a whim.
      Nothing is lacking in our union. We both are poly and have the ability to love more than one person. You are projecting your beliefs and perspective onto us and attempting to negate our reality simply because it is not yours. There are lots of ways to live and love, too many people try to fit people and relationships into strict rules and boxes based on their own experiences and understanding. The reality is this world is diverse and full of all kinds of people with all different lifestyles, relationship styles, and love styles. There is no one size fits all.

  • @aliasmountaineer
    @aliasmountaineer 4 года назад +3

    Livestream Q&A 👍

  • @phillipkamber8860
    @phillipkamber8860 3 года назад

    I'm in a throuple. I would love to learn more.

  • @EM-eb1lf
    @EM-eb1lf 3 года назад +4

    How do you handle Disagreements? I feel like the love making part will be easy 😁. But is it difficult to remain objective if 2 disagree. Does the third take a side, or just say....Thats between yawl! Go lock yourself in a room and dont come out till all is good.

  • @miggofrank3333
    @miggofrank3333 3 года назад +2

    Thier set up kinda weird however im seeing something special bond in between them

  • @nickdreamer-hitmanbreakero8039
    @nickdreamer-hitmanbreakero8039 3 года назад

    Wish you all the best and good luck

  • @user-if4df7lk1z
    @user-if4df7lk1z 4 года назад

    Cooooooool!!!!

  • @robhaden1147
    @robhaden1147 3 года назад +4

    I am in the process of becoming a throuple.... we are very excited about it.

    • @KCAndJax
      @KCAndJax 3 года назад

      Wishing you all the best! Much love ❤️☺️❤️

  • @carmenblanchard3596
    @carmenblanchard3596 3 года назад +1

    Oh yeah, new subscriber here.

  • @Thebestsalonandbarbershop
    @Thebestsalonandbarbershop 3 года назад +1

    Imma be the 4th lol 😆 *flying to San diego* lol

  • @Rudeboxx88
    @Rudeboxx88 3 года назад

    I‘m ‚the third‘ - emotionally there can be no difference. But on a long run you don‘t have the same legal status and security, just cause you‘re not in the marriage contract. Building (yes it‘s a topic) financial and most of legal stabily where everyone is on one level is not possible. At least not in Switzerland 🇨🇭 Cheers guys

  • @palomaboazuda2011
    @palomaboazuda2011 4 года назад +2

    😻😻😻😻😻

    • @KCAndJax
      @KCAndJax 3 года назад

      Paloma Santos ❤️❤️❤️

  • @christianquesada102
    @christianquesada102 3 года назад +2

    Hi guys I love your videos ❤️❤️

    • @KCAndJax
      @KCAndJax 3 года назад

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @user-sh5pg6ko6p
    @user-sh5pg6ko6p 3 года назад +5

    I have to be honest here, from what i see after this video, Joey seems like a mistake that KC made and they have to take Joey in to avoid admitting that KC had an affair...

    • @KCAndJax
      @KCAndJax 3 года назад +3

      Maybe actually watch the vids on how we met rather than making false assumptions based off of your own baises against polyamory.

    • @chrisg1499
      @chrisg1499 2 года назад

      嗯嗯 差不多吧

  • @michaelb9554
    @michaelb9554 3 года назад +3

    I respect their right to be in this relationship and I really wish them ALL of the best, but I just don't see how relationships are sustainable with more than two people. I am NOT attacking their relationship, I just cannot comprehend how this could work long term without the whole thing falling apart. I feel like, at some point, someone is going to feel like the third man out.

  • @EM-eb1lf
    @EM-eb1lf 3 года назад +2

    In any event....I fully support this.

  • @kevinnguyen5042
    @kevinnguyen5042 3 года назад

    literally there always is a THIRD! well, now just KC and Jax.

  • @oldsouthpaw
    @oldsouthpaw 3 года назад

    So do you date outside of your throuple!

  • @carlomartinez8595
    @carlomartinez8595 3 года назад

    You can't love them at equal measure. You should choose the second guy you love. But if both parties agree, then go for it. Congratz 🥰

  • @amasiolimaneto1131
    @amasiolimaneto1131 3 года назад +5

    Hi, beautiful all right love, I'm Brazilian I loved the video and people loved these men the more men and the better. I was all excited with these beautiful dream men, very tasty kisses from Brazil 🇧🇷❤️😍💋😘🇺🇸

    • @vinucini4341
      @vinucini4341 3 года назад

      Love to see your pic please mail me at varghese.vince@yahoo.com

  • @dsfsfsfsfs
    @dsfsfsfsfs 2 года назад

    Just from this video, I can tell that one of the guys on the side is feeling left out. I may be wrong but sometimes people agree to be in this kind of relationship because they accepted in themselves that they are lacking some kind of attribute (maybe physical or character) to bring into the relationship, hence they invite someone in to fill that void and hopefully have the other person stick it out.

  • @nicolemichel3720
    @nicolemichel3720 3 года назад

    Only on this channel only.

  • @vimmandude
    @vimmandude 3 года назад +2

    well, its good for now....but eventually (and that could be weeks or months) that two of them will decide they don't want to share each other. That will leave someone in the cold light of day. OR second scenario: one wants to leave in order not to ruin the original relationship (and that is usually just an excuse to move on to greener pastures). At any rate, the situation is doomed....(NEWSFLASH!!!!....check out the update!!!!! My prediction happened just as I said it would!!!!! How did I know??!!! well, its called life experience!!!)

    • @wutwutdayum
      @wutwutdayum 3 года назад +2

      I think any relationship has the potential to fail regardless of how many partners are involved be it 1 or 20. A relationship like this definitely requires a lot of transparency and communication for sure and although personally I couldn’t imagine (nor would I want) a third person involved in my own relationship I can respect that others have different beliefs and preferences.

  • @scottmarkham5
    @scottmarkham5 3 года назад +1

    JAX

  • @Whatsyourproblem99
    @Whatsyourproblem99 3 года назад +1

    Wait are the original 2 actually legally married?

  • @toddtepper4150
    @toddtepper4150 3 года назад +2

    Exhausting!

  • @joearceneaux9424
    @joearceneaux9424 3 года назад +1

    I love watching your channel an the openness of love you each have for each other.i don't see a third i see a committed relationship were truth an respect for each other. Much kindness and love you three handsome sexy souls.❤❤🌈🌈👅👅

    • @KCAndJax
      @KCAndJax 3 года назад

      Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @grnicholas01
    @grnicholas01 3 года назад +1

    OMG YOU GUYS ARE SO CUTE HANDSOME SEXY!
    sorry for the caps yelling but you guys are just so frickin cute all you all!!!!!!!

  • @escottscommunicationweddin25
    @escottscommunicationweddin25 3 года назад

    Nice one

  • @branarellylittlebeasty793
    @branarellylittlebeasty793 3 года назад

    I'm alittle confused I though all of you guys were married

  • @ariwidagdo1059
    @ariwidagdo1059 2 года назад

    Semoga kalian bahagia... salam dari Jakarta

  • @treehuggerpower6402
    @treehuggerpower6402 3 года назад

    Sailor Treehugger here and I love this!!! I want to have 4 Brotherhusbands in a Polyamourous Relationship someday and it's a continuation of my NYR from 2020 into 2021 !!!! Polyamorous Power!!!

  • @paralvusa
    @paralvusa 3 года назад +7

    This is great that there is no third

  • @KevinBruce-ti1sg
    @KevinBruce-ti1sg 11 месяцев назад

    Just asking can I join

  • @JYPfan018
    @JYPfan018 3 года назад +3

    im crushing on the middle guy.. is he joe? joe i have a crush on you 😍

    • @deangelomilan4270
      @deangelomilan4270 3 года назад

      It's Jax for me, oh lawdy he's "thick and gorgeous". That smile makes me moist.

  • @owtsideperspective3588
    @owtsideperspective3588 3 дня назад

    I wanna be their fourth that they dont call a fourth

  • @guynraleigh
    @guynraleigh 3 года назад

    Glad it works for you guys but not me

  • @nancyborden5860
    @nancyborden5860 2 года назад

    Surprised this post is still up .

    • @KCAndJax
      @KCAndJax 2 года назад +2

      We aren’t the type of people to try to hide or rewrite history. None of our social media posts from then are removed on our other platforms either.

    • @nancyborden5860
      @nancyborden5860 2 года назад

      @@KCAndJax I'm glad because I really loved this video weather it worked out or not, it gives a good insight on the way other people can and do live without following other people's rules. Love all 3 of you guys.

  • @DiamondFlame45
    @DiamondFlame45 3 года назад +1

    Is no one fazed by the fact that they are all wearing similar outfits? Lol.

    • @KCAndJax
      @KCAndJax 3 года назад

      diamondflame45 lol, we share all of our clothes 😅🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @ibgwiraga
      @ibgwiraga 3 года назад

      Gay couple share outfits all the time yes. Even underwear 😅

  • @CustCareRep
    @CustCareRep 3 года назад +1

    "Love" how you guys hang out in your socks. A hot man seems even hotter in white crew socks. That would be Joey. :-P

  • @willchristie2650
    @willchristie2650 3 года назад +1

    I thank God for all the gay couple channels on RUclips. For all you know, you may have saved the life of some poor gay kid in Mississippi who has been taught that he is evil and that being gay means a life of despair and ruin (Thanks, evangelical Christians!). So I think such channels like this are great. But on the other hand, the couples are almost always GORGEOUS while a lot of gay men are not gorgeous. So after leaving behind one set of assumptions about what being gay will mean, kids gain the assumption that being gay means you should be extremely handsome and gorgeous. It is like having all straight life represented only by straight models for fashion magazines. I honestly find this really dangerous since being gay does not automatically make you marvelous and incredibly handsome like all these RUclips couples. So there are pros and cons. Just be who you are. You don't have to meet any RUclips standards for physical perfection or having an always smiling perfect personality on camera. You can be yourself and still be gay, zits and all. Don't be brainwashed by all these perfect gay couples on RUclips. THIS IS NOT REAL LIFE!!!! I am an old man (see tiny picture). I have been in a monogamous relationship with a wonderful guy for 45 years, from the age of 25 until now. Being gay is not just about having marvelous experiences, decorating an apartment, moving to Los Angeles to be fabulous, or whatever other fantasy these couples present to you. Being gay is about having personal integrity, finding someone you love and caring for them through all the changes of life. My husband (legally since 2015) has Parkinsons and early Alzheimers. So from passionate young lovers we have attained a state where I am his primary caregiver each day. That is what real love means, not having a perfectly white teeth smile or always being delightfully whimsical. I want young gay people to know this. I met my husband at a time when there were no gay rights. It was a crime to simply be gay in many states. But we bonded and lived a good life together in spite of all this. There were no beautiful couples on the internet because there was no internet! So we did all on our own. You can do that also. Don't assume you have to meet the standards of any RUclips perfect gay couple. Just be yourself and expect the best for yourself. Happiness and love are not reserved for RUclips perfect couples. You can have them also. Blessings to you all.

  • @johnfuture4328
    @johnfuture4328 3 года назад

    Hey there,, I'm from California 34 yrs old single gay,, are you???

  • @Tye_silvertenor
    @Tye_silvertenor 3 года назад +1

    Well no wonder nothing happened with Joey and Travis (relationship wise) he was already in a relationship and Travis doesn’t do polyamory

    • @KCAndJax
      @KCAndJax 3 года назад +1

      He showed up on Travis’ YT a couple weeks after blindsiding us with an unexpected breakup and then vanishing from San Diego.

    • @Tye_silvertenor
      @Tye_silvertenor 3 года назад +1

      KC And Jax exactly my point, he just upended things blindsiding you both. I’m saying not a person that really can stay committed. 🎵Any way the wind blows🎶

    • @nancyborden5860
      @nancyborden5860 3 года назад

      @@KCAndJax he used Travis to help him make his own YT. He made one with Travis and hasn't been on since.

  • @tommachniak8899
    @tommachniak8899 2 месяца назад

    I can see a third 🥉 🐦

  • @aaironparker2837
    @aaironparker2837 3 года назад +2

    No thirds? Lol lies... But for real great job.

  • @Charliemortonuk
    @Charliemortonuk 2 года назад

    Shame theirs loads of background noise x

  • @guynraleigh
    @guynraleigh 3 года назад +1

    It’s called the husband is board

    • @KCAndJax
      @KCAndJax 3 года назад

      Check your spelling. It’s *bored . Also, you’re just projecting. Jax and I (the husbands) are still together. It had nothing to do with boredom 👍

  • @jacksonrouse9953
    @jacksonrouse9953 3 года назад +3

    It’s pretty obvious how this is going to end

  • @ericdurich4851
    @ericdurich4851 3 года назад

    Cute 😍❤👍

  • @user-gl8gn8mr1f
    @user-gl8gn8mr1f 3 года назад

    Now the channel is called JC and Jax😭