50 Single Men Get Real About Rejection | Iyanla: Fix My Life | Oprah Winfrey Network
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When I was younger I used to look at rejection as a bad thing. No that I'm older and I know better it was a blessing in disguise.
Why
@@foxc8646 Because if I had of got with those women then my life would be miserable now.
Don Newkirk Oh ok, because they are shallow ?
@@foxc8646 No, because Don saved himself a divorce and a loss of half of his belongings.
I looked at it the same also. But now it hurts because the same women that rejected me 15-20 years ago, now want to start talking to me. The only reason they want me now is due to the fact I’m doing well financially, and the other dudes stopped wanting them.
I like men who show me they are interested and I don't mind showing my interest as well. I just can't stand when people play mind games. Be straight up! If you're not interested in the other person, don't waste their time.
Yesss 💁
dating is mind games other wise it wouldnt be dating
Glam Fiend (Nail Design) are you available?
Sidney Pedroso Available in what way?
Monique Smith single
The girl stood up with so much confidence
Or a nose tackle
It’s always the masculine ones. That’s why that basketball player called bw bulldogs, perfect example right there.
@@kenhenrylynn5448 Unfortunately, their men are weak. What choice do they have?
And a ready sense of humor to which is quality bruh
I'm not an expert in body language, but it looked like aggression to me
"Dont give us hints tell us" meanwhile they go around giving Us "HINTS!" and not telling us they like us. Quit with the fn games.
☕☕☕☕☕🐸
Katrina M its not “reduced” to chase someone. Women should have confidence to be open about what they want as well. There’s nothing negative about going out your way for what you want. In fact, some men are finally realizing their value in today’s time and want women to see that as well.
One thing i know for sure...professional men with reasonable attractiveness are completely turned off by ghosting, games, and "posturing".
By the time a man becomes an established professional the tide has turn for both men and women. In a females youth, she rejects alot of potentially decent males and pursues a short term mating strategy. When she ages tho and switch to a LT strategy these same men she rejected in her prime want nothing to do with her. Then she complains about men. It's funny and sad to watch play out
Comment section is actually more insightful psychologically than the video.
I told my present boyfriend (through a text message) that I liked him. I did that while being aware and ok with the fact that I might get rejected. I was prepared for both. I wasn't going to miss out on the possibility of a great relationship because of fear.
That ladies and gentlemen, was one the best decisions I ever made because this guy is the love of my life. He is the best man I know (besides my dad :D) and he makes me so happy.
Girls, take control and don't play games. It's not worth your time and suffering.
Nice
L R - If a guy does that, women do not appreciate that.
Unfortunately, most women, especially attractive women, will simply not take heed.
Laka Rox Awesome. Good for you.
And...? You want a trophy or something..? FOH
Men don't call back because if they did, women would judge them as being too needy/clingy. That turns ya'll off. There's no winning in this game.
That is same for us women. Damn-- if we do and damn--- if we don't. It is much MUCH worse for us women. You guys got it easy. You guys win. We don't.
@Mark Zaney HENCE WGTOW! Yes, us women lose more then you guys do it.
@@nofybn7794 no need to show that off, that's a secret.
Thank you
@@nofybn7794 Whoa.....where do you get off claiming we guys "got it easy"? We guys face rejection A LOT. Women's biggest issue isn't rejection,it's trying to find the "right guy" out of the 10,000 all around her. All a girl has to do to have MULTIPLE OPTIONS is simply be cute. A guy'd have to be rich and famous to have girls throw themselves at him.
I've seen like hundreds of movies where a woman is simply walking down the street,and she'll get cat calls and whistles from guys at constructions sites. How many films have you seen with a guy walking down a sidewalk and a HOST of women cat call and whistling at him?
Women do not handle rejection well.
Rejection hurts for everyone. Then you move on.
Mr Wayne some men literally murder women when rejected
Rejection is not always a bad thing! It can be God’s protection! God has protected me from men that could have sent me into a nervous breakdown! 😬
jagir at least we don’t kill women and harass women when rejected. Men literally get violent when rejected.
@@beautypopper1016 Some men? Or you are using the little percentage of men who go violent to account for "men"?
Yeah because women always tell men they aren't interested after going out on a date or just upfront in general, oh how many times have I had some goofy chick flake and not just tell me it's not working out? It goes both ways women are guilty as well.
That girl with the glasses😂🤣 the way she stood up!
It’s not about being chased, it’s just about reciprocating the feelings.
Like if I put all this effort in, I need somethin back to not only validate what I’m feeling, but to also understand what our relationship actually is
A man has no problem with rejection as long as it’s known. There’s way too much of a grey area
I like this lady. She's very neutral and unbiased on these issues. She will call out both sides on their crap and is open to real dialogue without emotions involved. Good for you and keep on going!
"If a girl is showing you she's interested..."
How? It's going to be different person to person. One girl's signals are another's quirks.
Girl say they show she's interested because she's smiling and talking to you.
Yea that's called being "nice."
She wants the option of first refusal. When you don’t, her ego is crushed. An audience of delusional women.
Damn. This is it. They want the power to be the ones to reject.
real talk.
Sexist. Same goes to you, buddy. So you can't talk.
Look at the network hosting the show.
Enough said lol
@@realjcoop182 Well of course. Let me tell you something.....
A man and a woman can go out on a date,and BOTH PEOPLE.....BOTH the man AND the woman....they can BOTH not be interested in each other....but THE WOMAN wants to be the one to express disinterest FIRST. If the man does it,you know what most women will sometimes do?
They'll PRETEND to be interested in the man just to get him to show sexual interest back. And then when he does,THEN she'll reject him. So even if the disinterest is mutual,she still wants to be the one to call it off FIRST.
The bottom line is dating and being social is a skill and a whole lot of people don't have it. Men shouldn't approach women they aren't interested in and women should make it clear if they are interested. No one is willing to put it on the line and find out what they need to find out in fear of rejection.
When I was single I would tell a guy I wasn't interested and he would still ask for my phone number. I would take his number or give him the wrong number because I already told him I wasn't interested or have a mate already.
I wish I could be on these shows when doing these type of topics. I'd bring some heat
Kole Wiltshire that’s exactly what I was thinking, where do I get tickets!! I would have loved to be a part of this
Facts
I like the heat
Carry the hell on Ghostface killah.
Being afraid of rejection and refusing to call her is cowardly. If you are not interested, let a person, don' t ghost them.
Vana Phill being afraid of rejection and refusing to approach him is cowardly.....if your interested in a guy start a conversation with him
Marcello Wheeler
Some men aren't any better at taking no for an answer as some women are.
Men know rejection all too well. We gather that courage to cross the room and try to start a conversation with you (in the middle of your colleagues..friends..etc) and are shut down for a host of different reasons, some of which have nothing to do with us.
So knowing how rejection cuts... we sometimes think it better to save you that pain we wouldnt want for ourselves. Otherwise we'd just be hypocrites.
Not saying it doesnt hurt (because all rejection would hurt).
Not saying it's right either.
But give us a better solution
mavishill
What about the women who say no nicely and get cursed out by the men? Is it any wonder why some men get ghosted?
Vana Phill , OMG... Don't you understand. If someone is not responding to you. Their not interested. Do you need for them to hold up a sign 🤔
From this clip I can see the societal expectation that men only have two emotions and are not complex individuals. Some advice for women out there ...All men are not the same and we are complex individuals who think and feel just like everyone one else but don't show it because that's how we were raised.
Andrew Williams wow, hit it on the head. Guys are taught "don't be weak, be a man", meaning don't show any emotion and thats when we run into issues as adults in romantic relationships !!!
I'm sorry these are lies everytime I have been honest it has always backfired
You all need to quit playing these high school games,it's getting old People.
The last guy is whipped 😂
Women like to be chased by guys they like, then they accept. They still like to be chased by guys they either don't like or have no feelings for, but ultimately only to knock those down. They get a sense of boost towards their marketability out of it.
As a supporter of OWN, I wish they would replay great episodes like these during the week. I have yet to see this full episode but I am fully caught up on murder mysteries thanks to their Dateline and 20/20 marathons. Ijs
3:30 she got up with confidence . I love that. There is nothing wrong with showing a man you care by calling or showing your Intrest in him
Sorry but she is that type of woman a guy will reject. I like her confidence though. But it always seem like the pretty women are too stuck up to chase the man whether they like them or not. Meanwhile, we get the overweight and below average women chase us.
Dating in this day and age isn't about finding love, it's about seeking validation. 100% narcissism. Good men and women just chewed up and spit out. If they're lucky, two good people may find each other by accident.
Thissss
You know, if a woman doesn't call back, the man takes the hint. So, ladies, if the man doesn't call back TAKE THE HINT!
not at all. they will keep calling and calling for months. men are only interested when you're not interested in them.
man not call, man not interested - period
oh! no see once i get rejected, this right here is moving on to the next,and will not stop until mat is happy.
Matthew White
OK, but what are you going to do when you realize that you're going to get rejected by every woman that you ever meet (like I was)?
@Buford Pusser well try something else as a matter of a fact it is no such thing as being or getting rejected but not living for the right audience or god i was called by heavenly god the father spiritually nine years ago also found my purpose in life as well too so what god wants for us is greater than man
As a man, I can say that one of the most infuriating things to deal with is a woman who waits for a man to make all the moves. When you make them chase you, when they have to put in all the effort in just to set up a date or even just to talk to a woman, it wears on our self-esteem and motivation. Because believe it or not, MEN HAVE FEELINGS TOO. When I see that a woman clearly isn't going to initiate a conversation by texting first or otherwise make the first move, I've forced to assume she isn't interested. Therefore, I will act accordingly and move on.
Awhile back, I had someone I knew that I was crushing on a bit, and tried to get together for a 'date'. I:
- Initiated the first move (asked if she wanted to hang out, she said yes)
- Texted her first (every time)
- Rescheduled our meet-up multiple times
She:
- Barely mentioned meeting up after talking about it the first time
- Never texted out of the blue and said "Hey, how does XX time and day work for you?"
- To her credit, did at least suggest a different time and day when the current plans didn't work out
- Generally showed no interest in it at all
Conversely, I have a platonic woman friend who I've hung out with a couple of times. She:
- Made suggestions to go somewhere (we ended up going to a shadow play of Rocky Horror Picture Show this year)
- Kept in contact as needed
- Was generally very excited for our outings
As a result, I:
- Tried to put in as much effort as she was
- Kept her up-to-date on my costume hunting and other things
- Got just as excited as her (high energy can be contagious)
Women, if you leave a man hanging, if you will not make time for him, then he will assume you have no interest and will act accordingly. I realize fully that people can be very busy, but if you are truly interested in someone, you set a time and day aside and treat it as if it were an important doctor's appointment that cannot be rescheduled easily. A man's time is just as valuable as yours, and stringing him along is insulting.
Man I know this is an old comment but hear me out, I’m 20 and I’ve never approached a women before, I just don’t accept it
OMG! Look at the white man's face between 3:34 - 3:39. Hillarious! LOL
YES!!! I saw that too. He looks afraid...LOL
jesusisthechrist4evr THAT WAS HILARIOUS!!! Lol
jesusisthechrist4evr thank you. I waited for that.
That was literally me.
😂😂😂
i've never been able to pick up the "interest" signs..I'd always hear women complain about guys trying to "hit" on them constantly so I'd almost feel guilty about asking anyone out because I didn't want to feel like I was harassing them.
And with the negative consequences of an unwanted approach, which include time in the hoosegow for anything from stalking to attempted rape, make it a risk not worth taking
So true !
Scott. Grow up just take the rejection like a man. You will never know who fell for it.
I don't see men quitting when they lose a foot ball match
@@iponderwonder1279 those two things aren't comparable.
Well, the female I would be interested in is the one with the glasses on who stood up acknowledging that she would "chase a man".. It's nice to be *wanted*, *desired*, and *prized* by a woman... I actually married the woman who "chased" me.
VAIO294 Some women have taken on the masculine role and male had taken on the docile, passive feminine role. I bet if I encountered you all should would be very aggressive and domineering and you would be passive. The old Black folks would call that being hen pecked.
Y'all out here in these comments saying women can't handle the truth or rejection, when there are women who have been killed for saying "no" to a man...gtfoh...
It's both. The only men killing women out here are the male feminists that want brownie points and realize they can't get some.
Team 50/50. No cat and mouse games. We adore each other equally. And most importantly put God 1st.
well said.
50/50 will never work
Equity not equality
Na god only
the minute someone starts making blanket statements meant to apply to an entire demographic of any kind, just stop listening. Nothing applies to everyone in any group. We are all...ultimately.....individuals.
It's to bad you cant take people out of their own schema long enough to point out its flaws to them. We all get it if and when we're ready.
THANK YOU!
Women get mad when the guy doesn't call them back because then it takes the opportunity away from her to reject you. Women get a high out of being able to reject men
You must have been extremely busy, interviewing every woman world wide.
@@tranquility9325 no need for that, it's pretty well known that women enjoy rejecting men.
@@averagecitizen863 not all women do that.
@@tranquility9325 sure not all woman, but the ones that do are still a big portion of the female population.
@@averagecitizen863 unless you have ever interviewed the majority of women that isn't fair to say.
Each individual is different.. Never allow your feelings to be too intense, she’ll treat you like a lame.. Energy is everything
But shouldn’t your feelings be intense so you can have start relationship honestly? Don’t you want a girl you like to know how much you like her? It’s never lame to tell someone how much you like them, especially if you’ve already established that you’re working toward dating.
0:45
In my experience, the last thing a woman can handle is brute honesty.
Tell it to them straight and they give you this "how dare you" attitude and cause drama because they can't handle the thought of being put off or flat out rejected.
And a man simply doesn't want to deal with the drama of it all and frankly shouldn't have to.
tripleflip7 Iyanla did acknowledge that some women will react to the truth that way.
Or a drink to the face.
A young men who goes out to meet women has to deal with rejection all the time! Because women still expect the man to make the first step. Most men have been rejected hundrets of times in their life by women. It´s normal, when you are a man. Part of the game. We are used to it and we learned to deal with it.
Women, you can´t demand a certain behavior from men, while comfortably sitting back, always being passive and letting the man do everything. Then you have to accept what you get. Simple!
Get over 100 rejections?? I don't think so
Just stopped looking, had better luck this way
@@creepyaxe true
Never got rejected because, I didn’t approach any women
Women on here talking about they don't chase no man. I bet a lot of y'all be chasing them I.G. and F.B. likes. Chasing for the attention.
Lol exactly
Jermaine Williams Agreed! I see it all the time.
lol right
I’m so glad that you posted this. Some women are always contradicting themselves. Don’t be mad when you get called out on it either.
Accurate man
Heterosexual dating cycle:
Man interested in woman, pursues, gets no buy-in from her, because she's reasonably attractive and gets lot of attention.
Woman is interested in separate man, who she pursues, but he is not interested in her.
Woman strings you along, until the man she cannot get, accepts her.
In the meanwhile, you've wasted time and money on dates, while you're, at best, 3rd or 4th on her hypergamy list. You only move up when the impossibility of the man she actually wants materializes.
S J - Hey, a rough,rough game!
That's just how the game goes. Only thing that changed was the players
That last guy be knowing ✊🏽 lol.
That last guy is a simp
Last guy was raised by a single mother...when a man chases a women...she knows she can manipulate and control him!..No high status man will lower himself that way...women will twist that around and get turned off because its needy and creepy
Yeah. Then real problem with chasing as such, is that men have a greater chance of getting dissed anyway. That's the underlining reason at the root of why some guys won't put too much energy into chasing the woman, or even refuse to chase them at all.
no he just said what women want to hear
Backward thinking. equality is in in this era. nothing wrong for women to chase men its time you guys have to.
2:16 Just look at the happiness among the men in the audience over having their fear being respectfully acknowledged by a woman.
it's lovely to see!
That last guy is such a tool.
Respect is earned, not given
Most women don't deserve it.
Americo Pedroni respect is given until someone gives you a reason to disrespect them. As a person I respect you out the gate. Why wouldn’t it be the same from you?
Godluvnherbalist83 you never know. First impressions count.
GamerZrage exactly first impressions do count. You don’t lead with disrespect though, unless its shown towards you..right?
I don't like to chase men. I've realized that if I have to keep initiating to call/text, the man is not interested. It has nothing to do with the man feeling as though he will be rejected.
+Faith W. ultimately knowing your own feelings on a deep level go a looong way to create a wonderful relationship
Raj Singh You got that right!
+Richie Rich Brethren, it is unfortunate that most all men were never taught from our mothers the positive/negatives of female nature. I understand the nurturing & emotions that are hard-wire in them. It is useful if they have daughters but when it comes to men it is a different kind of situation. The earlier we learn the nature of it the better off we will be. Today's mother through my observation caters more involvement with the female daughter (her, career, her validation, social status etc.) In contrast, the son are "nurtured" "babied" "spoiled little-man mentality" especially in a single mother household
+bigjayking24 There is a bit of a misunderstanding. I should of clarified more.
I no longer have to deal with that because I've learnt a great deal about relationships. I actually don't initiate when I give a gentlemen my number. Most often the guy does messages me first. In the past when I was choosing the "wrong" men, I had to deal with games. I'm aware now and have very little tolerance for certain behaviors. Usually communication should be mutual once you've went on a few dates.
+Richie Rich Honestly, if I feel like the person only wants to text and shows no interest in speaking by phone or meeting for a date. I usually terminate the texting. There are plenty of guys that want to chat over text for extended periods of time. It's quite annoying and time consuming.
Effective communication should be mutual when two people like each other. When a man wants a woman, there is no reason she should have to contact him more frequently than he contacts her.
I think that I am one of those "chase me" men. Reason is, because I would give so much of myself or so much of anything, freely. In return, I'd like to know that a woman wants me for me and not what I can give her.
Dude just because a woman chases u doesn't mean she is totally in love with you stop wasting your time
@@resolute7177 So what is the point in her chasing him? What's in it for her?
@@eastwaters4082 loll u don't wanna know take it from me
'Women spend more time wondering what men think than men spend thinking.' Cowboy Wisdom - Kit Pharo
Jefferdaughter - I actually spend more time thinking about what women might be thinking than my own thoughts.
She needed to get a few men on there that have been rejected their entire lives. Get their response.
animedudevid There is something seriously wrong with you. You are too pathetic.
Myrtle Urkel jumped up so fast! She was tryna butter Eddie’s biscuits 😂
😂😂 you are too crazy!!
I could care less if a guy doesn't call me back. I'm no fool, I can take a hint & I can move on.
naw, sorry I am not into no man who looking for me to chase him lol
Edit: 125+ comments of men who do not know me or my fiancé giving unsolicited advice mansplaining how I should conduct my romantic relationships. Lol, why would women want to chase crazy, bruh? Y’all need a job 🤣
But nearly 500 likes. Keep it up 👍🏾
+Udoka O equal relationships
no top man is gonna chase some woman
Keyboard Warrior Keep telling yourself that.
+Udoka O loool, believe me when the guys who approach you disappoint
Keyboard Warrior I'm in the relationship of my dreams currently :) Literally, I didn't know a love like this existed. I don't listen to love advice from anyone who doesn't have an amazing love or better. And yes, he courted me ;)
I would never let a women talk to me as if I’m a child while clapping her hands like I need a snap count to understand what she’s saying.
D H 808 -You do not have a choice.They do what they want and no one calls them on it.
"Are there any women that like to chase?" Dude was cheesing hard until ol girl popped up & the white man behind him was like oh hell na😂😂💀💀
Baby when that woman stood up and looked up and down I was gone! 😂😂😂💯
She had a wonderful evening. That does not mean that he did.
10,000 thumbs up for Helena Monique Clark (from 8 months ago).
Everybody is an individual. NO ONE statement about relationships covers all people in a specific group.
The 1st question can be asked to women why they don't respond to messages.
BS.. Cut it out.... Don't clap for that garbage. There's no such thing as "(Man Jobs) or (Woman Jobs)" in a relationship. That's why everyone in that audience is single.
Why did she look like Barney with glasses on? lol
Many women today make it nearly impossible for men to be interested (let alone approach them) in public today because of their cell phones. They're more preoccupied with that then trying to notice who maybe trying to establish eye contact with them
The last guy made the most sense to me. You can't want a guy more than he wants you or even treat him that way. He's so right! Men like the thrill and if you make it too easy for them you will never fully get what you could get out of them, such as respect, romance, marriage, and being pursued to the highest degree of "their capability." It's like the little boy on the play ground that's yelling "mommy, look at me--look at me!" trying his best to get her attention to impress her. Well everyman, regardless of age, still has that little boy inside of him. If you daunt over them constantly you could spoil him and he can become unappreciative, just like a rotten or ungrateful child. Make him earn it, encouraging and rewarding him like he's been conditioned to do and expect, and he'll value what he has with you more.
And what about the little girl who is constantly trying to get her father's attention?
yemi akintunde That's a very specific kind of woman. Most females, even outside the human specie, enjoy and/or expect the male to put majority of the effort in vying for her attention. A girl chasing a guy exudes masculine energy and risk coming off too aggressive, needy, or desperate. Then she risk feeding into a man's ego. And he'll use her for his ego boast (go-to-girl). Grant it, some guys are shy and may need to be initiated first. But even then, to know whether he's into you, you'll have to let him tell you in his own way. Some females who are use to a lot of men coming on to them may find it refreshing/interesting if a guy doesn't automatically become smitten by her, therefore she might find him mysteriously alluring. But eventually she'll want him to pursue her in some way for reassurance that she still "got it." Everyone woman wants to feel special.
***** So true.
Incredibly immature. The thought process of a man with little intelligence.
Anytime you have to result to degradation and condescension it's an outer manifestation of an emotional immature person with low self-esteem. Watch Oprah clips more often and maybe you'll learn how to [not] operate out of ego.
Some guys who are emotionally unavailable won’t call because it’s too intimate. What makes talking on the phone too intimate for a person who avoids emotions is the sound of the persons voice in combination with stimulating conversations. My uncle always told me, a good (but not only) indication that a guy is into you is if he can carry a phone conversation with you for at least an hour - this is old school advice of course. These guys who don’t call would prefer texting because it’s very distant. It’s easier to schedule dates, meet ups, and hookups through text. So be weary of guys who prefer exclusively texting versus talking on the phone.
chasing a man is just being a desperado
Where oh where can I watch the full episode? Does anyone know?!
Queenceba29
OWN WHY NOT?! Everything is streamed online nowadays...
Watered down reality..
*I LOVE THE ONE WHO STANED UP AND GAVE HIM DAT STARE DOWN😂😂*
I would love to have combated what that light skinned brother has said. I noticed all of the women clapped to that....
Chasing a woman constantly and continuously becomes dangerous because a man chances being taken for granted.
To me it doesn't matter who chase who it's the response that you will get. My attitude is genuine, calm,collect and laid back.
Women play too many games with all of this initiation bs. Just ignore them fellas. Make them feel like they're in your way. It's more effective than you think.
Cagon415 then the girls move on to the next guy lol there are dicks everywhere
Games on TOP of games is not the answer
If that man doesn't have the confidence to pursue you and be honest thats not a man you want, just let him go.
In regard to calling, for men who are normally assertive, it means they aren't interested. Some men are really shy and don't want to initiate contact. Others don't want to seem TOO interested which is beyond stupid. If you're into somebody, let them know. Damn. If you aren't, well, it's not their job to figure it out. That's rude. I've done it before but now I know better.
Women be showing mixed signals just because you get number doesn't mean they want to talk sometime just a woman being nice
Dat Real19 Oh yeah that's true. Women are often afraid of outwardly rejecting a guy because they don't know how he'll react. Best to play safe.
Women: Respect us and tell us the truth...
Also Women: keeps dodging and spins around and never tells the truth even after she gets caught and had a lie detector test
Men just want to feel loved & that requires the feelings being reciprocated on a continual basis. Being a man in a relationship is often a thankless job. Women often want/require so much but aren’t willing to give much (not even in return) but simply showing respect & appreciating what the man is & represents in her life.
I wish we could hear more of what the last guy had to say...
Me too
This just made me even more confused about relationships.. Every man wants something different
+dance4life1208
Yeah. Look at the video "What attracts women to men" by howaboutwe.
You'll see that men don't know either.
+dance4life1208 Hell, if we're gonna go there, none of us really know what we want...and everyone always wants, what seems, something different. Fact is, what we want at the core of us is really an emotion that needs tending to...and then again, I could be wrong.
I believe we all want something but we aren't honest with it, and now the whole social structure of dating kind of ruins the naturalness of what romance or dating really is. I believe we all know exactly what we are looking for but it does not fit the criteria because it's maybe shunned or taboo. I believe if you are not interested in that person, its best to be honest instead of leading them on with giving them number. I do not think it's right to play games with each other and just embrace, because naturally we all want love and we are horny, so just be natural.
I love this series... i wish the entire episode was made available.
Baby girl standing up Like "What"....Priceless
this chasing stuff is so stupid. people just need to stop playing games. men play games really hard.
John Matty Disagree, women don't make men chase, if a woman wants a man to chase it's him who chose whether to go along or not.
Chasing is really stupid, little kids chase, adults don't
Andrew Harmon What are you talking about... Women play and act like they're feeling a guy and in reality they are just stringing them along. "Chasing" is when a guy goes after a girl and girls also try to play 'hard to get'.
I know what chasing is, its just like what you said, men chasing women, women playing 'hard to get', women giving guys hope when they don't like them, all that stuff is for little kids, and the problem is men won't refuse these type of women because they like to "chase", and that's the problem. Men need to seek REAL women, not little girls inhabiting adult female bodies. Btw I think pursuing is different from chasing.
Andrew Harmon I just think that the problem is for guys to tell what a 'real woman' is. And as men we balance that out with looks. We accept varying levels of crazy or immaturity based on how sexy a girl is. That's where the chasing comes in is that we sometimes just chase because the 'catch' so to speak is intriguing whether they be hot, smart, or whatever.
I can't believe these grown women don't know this stuff
Right!! it's not new information...it's been out for decades.
4:27 onwards every girls dream
I love the differences in responses from the men because they’re different men in this world. We as women have to find the kind of man that’s right for us. I don’t want a man I have to chase. I’d rather a man who feels that it’s his job to take control like the last man said.
This is what women do best.
Find something simple...
Then just make it complecated .
When the girl stood up hilarious 😂😂😂
These women love power and control.
I would never waste my time taking a woman's number. Give her yours. If she calls she's interested. The number one rule to dealing with women is like who likes you. If you like a woman and have to pursue her she has the upper hand. The person who controls a relationship is the one who cares the least.
Revenant somebody told me that's a coP out by not getting her number and waiting for her to call u
Men are really wonderful and smart.
natillefox1 No. It's Women who are wonderful and smart. That's why we're all scared shitless of you, haha.
"Love us and respect us enough to know that we can handle your truth"
OH COME ON, how many of you ladies give us guys your number just to say stuff that never allows an actual date to occur... you just want to see if we will call.. for validation reasons only.
So not true. We just wanted you to feel good you got the number. As a gesture of kindness to find her appealing. Giving up the # is Just a reward for being so brave to approach. Also it is to encourage you to continue in the right path you are going..that was the right action taken and you may end up with someone who loves you with all her heart .
But I am not answering the call cause I will not lead you on or use you. Something men never think about.
Considering the fact that guys are the ones who approach most of the time the response you mentioned
is very encouraging and kind to them.
This is very entertaining and funny lol....but like most conversations in this format, it does not truly teach anything and it explains nothing. Some men liked to be chased, some women liked to be chased. This doesn't tell us anything. It would help to say that we all like to be desired and we have different levels of this and it translates differently. In the end we are all human and all complexity that come with it. The only universal truths to relationships are respect, desire, and trust.
3:24 to 3:34 😂😍😁😍😂😍 I WANT THESE TWO TO FALL INLOVE AND LIVE HAPPILY EVER AFTER FRFR!
IM DEAD! 😁😂😁😂😁😍
Ew
Thats why friendzoning everybody works oit so well.
1.The ones that dont have the petience to be ir driend eliminate themselfs
2.the ones that are willing to be friends dont feel fear of being rejected
3. girl never chases anyone.
The issue is both sexes are too stubborn to show their true feelings because they don't want to get hurt. If you really want true equality everything should be 50 50. It seems like to me women want the man doing all the work but still want equality. If it's true equality you should be putting in 50% as well. Don't wait around for the guy you like to approach you. Approach him. And don't let him take advantage of you either.
@Tyrone jacobs jr I just sit back and watch . Even though I'm married , woman just come to me .
im starting to realize only people that remain single are bougie people, like think about it the bougie man and the bougie they seem to have one thing in common (the resume) and alot of them are single.
i've never been rejected, but i've seen it plenty.
Shakaama If you were a guy you would have experienced it already.
@@pthebeast2 is this some backdoor way to get to see my peen?
@@shakaama Oh god you're a male. My bad bro
I'm calling b.s. women absolutely 100 percent cannot handle the truth. go ahead and be 100 percent honest with any female on this planet and see how that works out for you. record it so we can watch the show please.
I'm MGTOW, I'm just here because a woman is actually asking a Black man what he feels/thinks. Haven't finished the video yet, so I hope these men are heard and not coerced into some contrived, acceptable answer. At some point, somebody is going to say what we men have been thinking all along and I hope the REAL conversation starts then...
Guys if a female doesn't want you in her prime life, do not except her in her DECLINE YEAR'S....... period!