me and my childhood best friend driffted as we got older, we always kept in touch, and she invited me to her wedding. i wasn't offended at all that i wasn't a bridesmaid or anything, i was happy that she considered me still a friend that she'd want at her wedding. i've since been to her baby shower, and birthday parties. her wedding actually bought us close again
Lucky, I'm pretending I'm not upset that I didn't get invited to my longest best friend's wedding this year. Probably because I still mask like a silly little child even though it's become as normal as wearing my hearing-aid out of the house has been for my entire life. -_- She's said to me that she wouldn't be where she is now without me so sorry that I felt I was some sort of rock in her life for the past 20 years. Part of me wants to treat her the same way if I ever get to experience that miracle because it only seems fair, but part of me wants to go "oh well, I wouldn't be here without you either, celebrate this miracle with me!". Should I talk to her mother or something? I don't want to break us up platonically, I've had enough of losing friends over my silly feelings.
Story time: My wedding was kinda a drag. I had karaoke and dance music and a beautiful reception area, but it was just ... Dead. I planned to throw my bouquet off a large balcony overlooking a pool area with a forest scene as the backdrop. If I threw it off to the side (as intended) it would easily clear the pool into the reception area. However, my cousin and maid of honor, asked that I throw it towards the center of the pool for her to leap and catch it mid-air and cannonball into the pool and it went PERFECTLY. People still didn't dance, but it definitely livened things up 😂
So she kind of made herself the main character a little, but specifically did it for you. I love that. She sounds great. I'm sorry no one danced. I'm not much of a dancer, but I'd have karaoked the heck out of that thing. 😂
Mine was too. People were overall dancing and such but my mom was so hard up to leave to go watch a band at a local bar that she talked us into closing the reception early. Made us think everyone was leaving. We didn’t find out until later it was because she wanted to go to the bar. And so many people asked us why we stopped 2 hours early that night. I was pissed.
The bride and groom, and whomever else paid for the wedding ceremony and reception, should sue the security company that they hired and PAID FOR!!!!!! to work the wedding, for taking the payment and then blatantly not doing the job they were PAID to do!!!!
I bet the "security company" was the groom's younger cousin, who is one of those guys that always assures you of their abilities with complete confidence, as if they actually DO have their shit together, that they are NOT just blindly going through life without a thought or plan ahead.
My thing is, why would you let them stay when you knew neither you or the groom knew the girls? They could’ve been someone’s +1 but then why didn’t you call ANYONE over to question them before the $350 dinner? So she kinda brought that upon herself by willfully ignoring/dismissing it. Yes the girls are wrong for crashing. Yes security should’ve been better. But you LITERALLY saw and could’ve stopped it earlier and didn’t.
OMG the girl who spilled on the wedding dress 100% did that on purpose! Who interrupts the bride, hurriedly approaches the bride and then yells at the top of their lungs "you need champagne!" and proceeds to violently spill what looks like Rose all over the bride and her dress?? That is unhinged behavior and this is not a case of just "blame it on the alcohol"!! That SCREAMS jealous saboteur
The bride was actively asking where was her drink? I’m pretty sure that girl was supposed to be holding her drink, and it genuinely looks like her heel slips out from under her twice because she slips again well the security guard is trying to take her away xD.
Yeah, that just HAD to be staged for the views and shit. Like, that dress did NOT look good on the bride, in fact it looked TOO BIG, especially in the bust. It looked like it was about to fall off her! I don't know about everyone else, but I think you'd like to have a bridal gown that FITS and looks GOOD on you right? @@HalfNHalf.
It actually was a stunt. She made an update video explaining it go check it out… I think it’s completely ridiculous that she did that. But I guess it was her wedding and she could do what she wants. Lol.
I was invited to a small wedding where the bride and groom asked the guests, women wear white and the men wear black. The bridal party wore, bridesmaids purple and groomsmen teal. The bride had a very ornate sparkly white dress and the grooms tux was also ornate and his accents matched the bride. They really stood out. It was actually beautiful.
I have worn a sundress that was white with a very colorful flower print dominating. It could never have been mistaken for a wedding dress. I certainly wasn't trying to upstage the bride. It was not revealing. It was all I had on hand for an unexpected event. If someone looks like a bride, I can understand the revulsion. If they look like they are attending a summer luncheon. give them some slack.
@@tabaxikhajit4541I totally agree. It’s not actually a rule to not where white, it’s just that you obviously try not to upstage the bride. So you don’t wear something that would make people think you’re the bride. Even Camilla’s white outfit is not bridey.
My BFF from my childhood and I had made a pact that we would each be the other one's MOH. After high school, we both moved to different towns and lost contact for a little while. I ended up eloping, so I felt bad. When we got in contact again, she wasn't upset at all, just was happy that I was happy. Several years passed, my mom called, said I had gotten a wedding invite from her at mother's house. So I called, very excited. It didn't even matter that I wasn't in the wedding party, and I drove halfway across the country so I could be there. Helped her get dressed on the day of, and the wedding was beautiful. We have one of those friendships that can go for years without hearing from the other, and when we do, we pick up right where we left off, just like we had just spoken the day before.
That’s how my best friend and I are. I moved away from her at 15, and we’ve only seen each other in person maybe 5 times since, and now we’re 24 and she’s getting married and I was so surprised when she asked me to be one of her bridesmaids a few weeks ago. 🥺♥️ I’m not gonna lie, I just smiled and cried. I’m so happy for her.
I have the exact same story, and I couldn’t be more thrilled for her regardless of whether or not I’d be the MOH. True friends celebrate each others stories ❤️
I met my best friend when I was 4 yrs old. We always promised that we'd be each other's chief bridesmaids, but when it came to her wedding (she married first) there were so many young girls in her family wanting to be bridesmaids - and her parents were organising/paying for the wedding, so the bride had little say in the matter - I wasn't asked to be a bridesmaid at all, but I was of course invited to the wedding. I dressed well, went along to the wedding, had a wonderful day, was joyful to see my friend's happiness, and bore no ill-will about not being in the wedding party. When it came to my own wedding, my situation was different and I was able to ask her to be my MOH. Both of us have since remarried, and were witnesses for each other's marriages. We've been best friends for 58 years, and I think this illustrates that there's more to a friendship than wearing a bridesmaid's dress - or not!
The reason queen Elizabeth wore white was because Camila wore white to princess Diana’s wedding so she got her iconic revenge by wearing white ( she wore white so camilia couldn’t) ICONIC
According to Google, Camilla wore pale gray. Princess Diana is also alleged to have said Camilla did not wear white to the wedding. I'm sure she would know.
Bullshit . Thats what the media said . Its a made up that story . Do you honestly think that woman , the Queen of England would be that petty ????. She is not american with an out of control ego she is British . Maybe they are more with the times and have left behind old archaic and ridiculous ideS about weddings .......afterall its the 21st century .
@Tanya.G.Bourgeoisie yeah, she was wearing a white pillbox viel and everything. Also, if something is an extremely pale grey (or even very pale pink, or eggshell) that is pale enough that it looks white in photos and to others except for up close, it's a shade of white in reality and it's not okay. To me, her dress looked like Benjamin Moore's paper white.
A little gem regarding the queen wearing white to Camila and Charles’s wedding: Camilla wore white to Diana and Charles’s wedding, so the queen made a point of wearing white to their wedding. Since she was the queen, it meant no one else could wear the same color as her to an event. She tagged along for only a little bit of the ceremony, but long enough to justify Camilla not wearing green.
@@carolinegosselin9284Considering that the Queen refusing to let then Prince Charles to marry Camilla that led to affairs by both then Prince Charles and Princess Diana, not much of such a bold move. I loved the Queen. My mother was British and a royalist. My mother hated Prince Charles for what he did to Princess Diana. But this story has been romanticized. Camilla never planned to wear white. Ironically, Camilla's decision to not wear white caused people to criticize Meghan Markle for doing so. I don't care either way. I really don't like how she and Harry are throwing the RF under the bus but criticizing her for wearing white is a bit out there.
For our wedding, we were on a budget, so we did a lot of DIY stuff, and it was really pretty. For food we served this freaking amazing bbq that wasn't expensive, but lemme tell you, everyone loved it. But the best part was that his granny brought some of her fried chicken up to the wedding table just for us. It was a total surprise. She'd originally offered to fix it for the wedding guests, but realized early on that it'd just be way too much to handle. We understood completely, which is when we got the bbq. But she brought us that little personal pan of fried chicken and uh...yeah. Best wedding food ever. 😂
My ex husband’s aunt kindly catered our reception. It was a lovely variety of dishes,and I enjoyed it more than the sit down meals I’ve had at other weddings. She had dishes suitable for all diets,and some she ordered pre prepared from a restaurant. That was her gift to us,and we really appreciated it,as did our guests!
We had a few wedding crashers come to the reception, old friends of my husband from highschool- 5 dudes all dressed up walking in like they belong. My hubby addressed them- gave them drinks and sent them on their way. Regardless it was beautiful day and can’t wait to marry him all over again for our 25th. 😊💕
My best friend got married 2 years ago. She told me she wanted to make her sister her maid of honour since she had been the MOH at her wedding. Since I'm not a sociopath I said "Of course, you don't have to justify yourself. It's your day and I'm glad to celebrate with you." She made me the ring bearer since I'm best friends with the bride and the groom. That's how friendship works, you consider each other's feelings and if there ever was a day to put your ego on the back burner, it's your friend's wedding.
We had a local Mexican restaurant cater our wedding. We did a fajita bar. Only $17 per plate with staff serving food. Everyone had heaps of food on their plate and some even got seconds and we STILL had leftovers to take home. IMO it was the best food I’ve had at a wedding. Nobody went home hungry that day.
This is my plan for my wedding. Both of us were born and raised in San Diego, so Mexican food was a given. Buffet style! Different flavored margarita machines, nacho bar, etc.! Too fun!
I think the drunk girl who fell into the bride looked genuinely sorry in her face but how does anyone get THAT drunk at a wedding? She needs help with her life🥺
When I was still working as a chef, we had a kitchen (fully loaded) inside a small trailer that we would bring to the location. With it we could cook for up to 200 people. We also had coolers in another trailer for produce and such. We got hired to do a wedding of around 140-150 people on an estate property that had to be in the millions. I remember this because I was in charge of the steaks. I had a list of how many and how to cook each one. There was 5 cooks including me and everyone had their jobs with lists of food to prepare and any changes or allergies. After sending the last plate out one of the caterers came back asking for the last 5 plates. we told them we counted everything before leaving and marked them off as they were done. I showed him the paper work to prove it. He left and went back inside. Since we were done we started to clean and pack up. The caterer came out for a smoke and told us that the family of 5 who own the property invited themselves and were the ones who got the 5 meals meant for the guests. The family just left after the meal like they did nothing wrong. So 5 of the guests didn't get the food we made so the wedding party had to send someone to another restaurant close to pick up meals for them.
Having lived and worked in Newport, R.I. for years I can attest to the fact that sometimes even the ultra-wealthy (especially if they are nouveau riche), are stingy and mean.
@@alisalaska1786 I thought the same, how can they not have some extra meals when unforeseen events could happen. Not only uninvited guests, what if somebody trips and drop the food or whatever??
I didnt have bridesmaids...i dont really have friends. My husband had his brothers as groomsmen so I had my brothers as "bridesbros". I only have brothers, btw. It was awesome. It had been us thru thick and thin and it was great to have them beside me on my special day.
fr! I cant believe anyone is trying to defend wearing white at weddings. They have so many other colours to choose from, every single one of the ones defending wearing white is a melodramatic attention seeker
@@theemeraldhourthe only time the non bride may wear white, eggshells,ecru,cream,snow,etc. Is under two conditions 1. The culture requires it 2.the bridal party specifically stated that in the invitation
It looked like that woman directly WALKED up to the bride and did it on purpose. The fact that the bride then called for security tells me she was not someone close and probably should not have been there.
My sister used to manage a group of homes for people unable to fully function as independent citizens. Basically there were care assistants on hand to help as needed, but they were encouraged to be as autonomous as possible. One group of Downs syndrome customers would get dressed up on Saturday mornings and be gone all day. Eventually someone checked on them. They would go to the church, hang around outside after a wedding. Someone would always offer them a lift to the reception. I wonder how many families, years later, are trying to figure out who these people are in the photos
Ok well who would be upset about that? That's a sweet kind thing. Think majority of people would be super excited. That's a tad different than stalkers who showed up and security doing nothing.
In high school we used to drive around and crash weddings and parties. Sometimes we got found out but even when we did, we were invited to stay. It was a friendly town. 😊
Most of them are probably happy to have them in the photos and at the event. I would have been. That is the sweetest party crasher story I've ever heard. If I knew about it happening in my town, I would invite them. My husband worked in a group home like that and would have other opinions about the rules, but that story is beautiful.
That last one. My sister in law was so rude at our wedding. She did not congratulate, thank or even SPEAK to us at our wedding. But the worst part was that during photos she kept positioning herself in our sightline with her arms crossed and glaring at us. It was very distracting. We had a small, lovely wedding at a winery that we had planned ourselves. It was idyllic. I guess she was jealous and being petty. Well, petty comes back around like karma. My brother in law dumped her 2 years later for not refilling the ice trays after their ice maker broke. Obviously, it was a straw/camel/back thing but I still laugh about it.
My sister in law was a B at my wedding too. She only said one thing to me the entire day...*hugging me and whispers in my ear* "you hardly look pregnant at all" Like what a bitch! I was 32 and that baby was planned by the way. We didnt want to wait any longer. Anyways she a narc. He's narc abuse gave my brother cancer. Narcs make you sick. Actually toxic
Wait a minute, please. I need to process this, she was your SISTER-IN-LAW, and you BROTHER-IN-LAW wound up dumping her? If she was your sister-in-0law, that would mean that she was married to you brother, and your brother-in-law would be married to a sister (unless they had a different sexual orientation, which might not have been). Either way, I guess it's not that important, and while she didn't seem to be the most pleasant person (I know somewhat about adversarial SILs, thank you) it doesn't seem to be a reason to dump someone over not refilling an ice tray, unless there were other (maybe minor) things that had been done, too. That's one thing about karma. It will sometime allow small things to accumulate until it becomes a huge, messy thing that karma can explode into your face.
@@Austenfan177 If he's married to her *husband* then he's a bigamist, and she would be his wife (also committing bigamy), and none of them would be in-laws. Throuples are not legally recognized.
@@Austenfan177 Thank you for clearing things up. If I might, I'd suggest that from now on, you proofread your comments so they don't lead to this kind of confusion in the future. I must admit that being unmarried myself, and both of my siblings being married (my brother is a widower now) I've never had to contend with a spouse's side of the family and their marriage relations with siblings/in-laws.
@@jacklow9611I assume sister-in-law as in: commenter's husband's (or wife's) sister. Her husband is also called brother-in-law. Or the other way around: BIL is the sibling of commenter's spouse.
RE the last story. My fiance had a couple females in his friend group that wouldn't even extend pleasantries when they saw me. They would literally walk straight by me as if I were a stranger. Apparently when we first started dating I was their favourite topic. Needless to say they didn't make the guest list, and I continue to be their favourite topic 🥳
Are they like, wives or girlfriends of guys in his group? I wouldn’t hang out with them if they were trashing my spouse. Or I’d at least lay into them (as a girl) like, “this is my husband, we are married, I love him, and I don’t appreciate you guys always trashing him.”
@@annieharris2965 yeah but that's the thing, the roles are different. That would be the guy friend telling his female friends 'this is my wife and I love her and i dont appreciate you guys being rude to her'. I dont know if OP is a woman but my gut is telling me they might be bc women can be really catty to other women behind their backs. Misogyny still going strong
@@Ruby-yn5fp hey! yes I am a woman. It is as you described. I think perhaps they just aren't fulfilled in their own lives. For context, they are my fiancé's best friend's (who is a male) friends. So we would end up around them every now and then, but after hearing some of the comments they would make to others in the group he has distanced himself from them. It is sad because I am much younger than them (the female friends).
Weird, there's got to be more to the story. Were they all jealous because they had a crush on him? Did he leave one of their close friends to be with you instead?
@@rachelmaddowswife8713 not sure if they had a crush on him but possible. I actually suspect this with one in particular. But no he didn’t leave a close friend for me lol
Not really if the Lobster is covered in all-Organic diamonds from Mars and the steak is Wagyu with marbling of Platinum instead of Ordinary fat...... You didn't know this?! 😜🤣
That cost probably was the cost with everything included, appetizers, liquor, etc., most places have packages like that. If they upgraded the food I'd bet they upgraded the bar package too.
@@rustyhowe3907Oh yes definitely, and of course only Organic truffles found by a pig bred on the moon with a Royal bloodline would be acceptable.... Obviously! 🤣🤣🤣
I've heard this story before, but you know what makes me feel it's iffy? We're talking about Queen Elizabeth II here. Not just any mother in law. And the 'wedding of the century' basically (well, in Europe at least). With an exact and strictly observed protocol, that probably took dozens of very experienced people to plan and hundreds to execute. And huge, worldwide media coverage. I find it hard to believe, that especially back then, when the rules were stricter still then today, the various outfits of the members of the royal family and of high ranking (and therefore very visible) guests would not have been subjected to an approval process before the day. I don't think, you can just turn up to an event like that in an unsuitable outfit and not face consequences. I don't think, Camilla would have worn that dress against the wish of the Queen (may she rest in peace), or that she would have been allowed to just stay as she was, if her dress had been decidedly against protocol.
Regarding the last story: the way she said those two rude ladies were "attached" to people she cares about makes me think they are some form of in-law. 😂
Yeah! I thought so too! One could be an in-law and the other friend could’ve been someone she may have wanted to be with the groom instead. The whole passive aggressive behavior is extremely immature. But, happy and proud of the last bride for making the best of a crappy situation. I don’t understand people like that… If you’re miserable, don’t go to happy occasions and catch an attitude. Either suck it up and let it go or just don’t come. ✌🏼
My aunt (mom's youngest sister) was my first babysitter, first best friend, forever ride or die. She was my matron of honor and only person on my side of the wedding party. Best decision ever. She helped me make good decisions on the wedding and she advocated for my voice as the bride.
Just have a courthouse wedding. Honestly. I cancelled my own wedding out of pettiness, disinvited everyone except my in laws and my mom after people kept treating me like my ideas were stupid and made it seem like they were planning their own wedding to their liking and not mine????
Getting married and I learned the courthouse thing, is not a thing in Canada. You have to apply for a marriage certificate a month in advance and have a person registered to a specific area to officiate. Each area has 8 registered officiated people each
I just had my wedding a week ago! It was perfect!! Super low key. My now wife looked beyond amazing in a white summer dress with strawberries on. I looked pretty sharp in a brown herringbone 3 piece suit, pocket watch and all 😁😁 I could not have gone better. Reception was just food at my parents house with family and a couple of good friends. It could not have been better. I am bouncing of the walls with happiness!
My first wedding had alllll the bells and whistles. It was so beautiful, but I just remember it being so much of a big thing you have to do because it's the way it is "supposed to be" - I remember escaping to the bridal suite during the reception and just laying on the ground with my best friend thinking "this is the day - they say this is the best day of your life," but it felt so robotic to me. My second wedding was in my parents' backyard with only people who had met both of us as a couple (a small 150 lol). I'll never forget walking into the reception and seeing everyone's faces whom I love so much and who love us. It really was the best day of my life (thus far)! Congratulations on your very new nuptials!! Wishing you the best!!
The lobster bisque that my venue serves at their restaurant isn't normally on their wedding packages, so we paid an extra $8 per head to have it at our wedding because I wanted it that badly. Worth it
@@aliendeer1294 when she lived in her condo, there was a guy who would go out on his balcony or walk about quite unclothed. There’s a whole lot of episodes. I think it’s about 2 years ago?
Best wedding I ever went to (besides my own several years later) was a wedding that didn't happen. A woman I know who I had a major thing for was getting married and I was invited to the wedding. Beautiful setup, probably a 20 to 30K wedding. It was held in a beautiful garden area of a very ritzy hotel. The groom was a no show. After some very awkward moments of the bride thanking everyone for showing up and explaining that it would be a party after she changed out of her wedding dress. On her way out she asked me to help her. Turned into a really great weekend LOL
First story absolutely shows the difference between my wedding and others - I had my wedding at a beautiful 500 year old hotel castle in Scotland and met so many lovely hotel guests in the toilets that I ended up inviting them all in - we gave them free drinks and a hot meal buffet and danced the night away with them - we made friends for life - it’s always rubbish when you’re a hotel guest and there’s a big wedding on cos it makes you feel like you’re interloping if the venue is too close to the bar and ours was, so I wanted everyone to have a great time and join us. As Scots, we pride ourselves on having the most fun weddings, and the people we made friends with that night were thrilled to be invited to a Scottish wedding. Some were from England and some were from the US….and one was a travelling musician who ended up playing the harp for our ceremony…but we showed them all a great time!
Yeah... they were already handing a special glass to the bride when she RAN up with a FULL glass of red wine, screaming Champagne? This was TOTALLY deliberate... and the bride handled it with grace. Pausing, addressing the crowd that she would be back soon, and even apologized for the delay. But the best was her just firmly telling security to remove that idiot. This was deliberate.
My husband and I didn’t have a wedding party (no bridesmaids or groomsmen) and it was the best decision ever. Just him and I up at the alter and no one feeling left out or having to buy wedding party dresses/tuxes. I would do it the same way if I had a do over.
My husband and I also had no attendants (and no guests) - just a minister, 2 witnesses and our 3 living parents. It went VERY well! I'd do it all over again.
I also didn't have bridesmaids/groomsmen. Just had children as ring bearers and two flowergirls to throw rose petals. Was perfect. No stress over bridesmaids makeup/hair/dresses/fittings, just focusing on ourselves ❤
We lived in Green Bay, WI many years ago and found out that it was the tradition to have a wedding in the morning then the reception in the evening. This was because it was a major farming area and farmers had to go back home and tend to livestock in the afternoon. Well the bridal couple would often take the time in the afternoon to bar hop so by the time the reception came they were often totally drunk. I can’t tell you how many times I saw the couple and attendants throwing up and stumbling around. I don’t know if this is still done but it was truly awful!
My wedding was truly special! ❤ We did our own centerpieces that were “Nerd” themed. (Ie. Comic-con, Avengers, Harry Potter, Star Wars, etc.), the DJ was AWESOME - he had everyone dancing all night - speeches were few, brief, and super meaningful. We had less than 80 people. No one went crazy, but everyone was loose, silly and had a good time
Hmmmm, On story #1, I wouldn’t be surprised if the terrible security guard knew the two wedding crashers and gave them all the info to attend. Then he let them in AND discouraged the happy couple from removing them. Something just doesn’t sound right about all that. I bet there’s a connection there. 🤔
I can believe that! Back in 1978, I was attending a formal for Junior Achievement, a fun group for "future entrepreneurs" and such. The event was at a fancy hotel where there was also a big wedding. As we were getting photos taken next to the grand staircase, we saw cops quietly entering the hotel. Someone who worked in the kitchen had stolen several wedding gifts from the table and tried hiding them on a rolling serving cart that was covered with a tablecloth. The nerve of some people!
@@LazyIRanch That’s crazy and very sad. So now, security people have to add staff to their list of who and what to look out for. Wow! It’s great that they caught the thief.
Charlotte ,thank you ! I was married 30 years ago. I was close to many of the girls I worked with. One got married 2 months before me. At her wedding, one of our co workers wore pure white lace with matching hat. I did not invite this person to my wedding because of that. I have wondered over the years if that was the correct decision. Hearing you and so many on the chanei find this deplorable even these days , validates my decision
@@Nanasays0731 You are correct, but the bride who is about to marry the future King of England actually is allowed the honor of having her entire group of attendants wear (“purity”) white. *Guests* however are expected to exhibit a deferential tone and wear any color except all white.
So if we're trying to normalize wearing white to a wedding, are we also going to normalize showing up with our own coffins to funerals? No? We only wanna disrespect brides during their day? Interesting
It's not a big thing to wear white at a wedding as a guest. I think Americans make wayyyy too much of it that why ppl do it to piss off the couple. To each their own I guess.
I wanted to bring a guillotine to my divorce hearing, ya know, since we were splitting up! Courthouses frown on that sort of thing. 😉JK I wonder... the girls who wear white to other people's weddings, when they attend their nephew's high school graduation, do they show up wearing a cap and gown? 🤔
My big brother's then new girlfriend (now wife) met my entire family for the first time at my wedding. They came a few days before as my brother needed to get his tux, we had the rehearsal etc. It was going ok. She came off a little odd but that is nothing new in my family. The morning of my wedding she shows up dressed in what I can only call a wedding dress. My grandmother almost stroked out! I'm the only girl out of 27 grandchildren so my wedding was a big deal in the family. However not a word was said. 23 years later they are staying with my family over the holidays and she just blurts out " I wore white to your wedding" and giggles. I straight faced looked her in the eyes and said " did you? I honestly did not notice ". The look on her face was so worth playing the long game lol. She was devastated that no one noticed she was a bitch. She has gone on to do so many wild things that wearing that to my wedding is low on the list at this point lol
@@kimberlymarino7344 wow... Its really sad she was allowed to be like that - she should be kicked out and your brother should be shamed for bringing in someone like that into family gathering
The girl who got wine on the bride’s gown did it on purpose. I could tell by how she was holding her glass right before she “accidentally” ran into the bride. I’m not sure if she really was drunk. She may have been pretending.
@@b00ksrb3tt3rthanppl I Googled “The Kline Venture” (from the clips) and “wedding crasher”. There are several videos about the whole thing being fake and that the woman was hired by the bride to “shock her friends”.
In NY, we went to different weddings to check out the Band or Venue or the food. The wedding couple always ok’d our attendance and knew of it ahead of time. We would be seated with the band.
My mum told me a story of when she was little, she saw in town that someone was getting married so she went and had a look. She asked one of the guests who was getting married and the woman looked at her like she was crazy and said, "Your DAD is getting married?" Mum went in, saw that yes, her dad was getting married and ran and went home to go tell grandma. You better believe grandma crashed grandpa's second wedding and raised hell. I was told there was hair pulling on every side. Not sure what happened to that woman, but she wasn't the only one grandpa was getting it on with, even though he was legally married to my grandmother. He had the audacity to try and hold a full wedding whilst married to my grandmother, who had no idea. DNA test done by my twin sister revealed grandpa had a LOT more children than we thought he did. Mum thought she was his only child. Ha. Ha. She wasn't. We get more updates every now and then. Fun times.
Wow. So I'm thinking that grandpa isn't marriage material. Also, he should be slapped. Sorry I know he's your grandpa but that's just horrible for your grandma.
Some people are just that miserable. They can't be happy for others. I feel sorry for those like that, but I also don't want to be around the Debbie Downers!
Some people can't stand for anyone else to be happy. They're only happy if others are miserable. Steer clear of anyone like that. They never change. They usually get much worse over time. Sometimes dangerously so.
When I got married I went classic. We got southern fried chicken, corn on the cob, mac and cheese, Cesar salad, asparagus, garlic mashed potatoes. I wanted southern comfort I picked a vendor that had amazing reviews. Thank god my reception wasn’t at a hotel because that’s usually when the food isn’t too good. Booking my own vendors for everything made the food beyond delicious.
I just went to my best friend's wedding and it was the best wedding I've ever been to. Only bride and groom standing, no wedding party. It was so beautiful, everyone had a good time. No drama.
Low key, I’ve always wanted to have a black and white wedding where me and my SO are the only ones in color. Colorful flowers for the bridesmaids and matching pocket squares for the groomsmen.
I am nearly 73 years old and a grandmother. I have been in numerous wedding parties, many as the MOH. I watch these videos with you ( I adore you, Charlotte! You are one of my favorites) and am I disbelief. I never once saw or experienced anything like what goes on at these celebrations. Well, there was one I didn't go to and my friend, the bride, called me to say she slept with the best man the night before the wedding...😮😢😂❤ But nothing like that happened at the ones I went to as guest or bridal party member. To my knowledge...Damn! Nothing really changes. 😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤
Hi Charlotte! I just wanted to say thank you. See, I’m a socially awkward person who can’t pick up easily on social cues. Your wedding videos have really helped me learn the etiquette of weddings. I feel like I’m ready for my next invite. Happy Holidays and take care ❤️
I remember the naked man!!!!! Also the microphone. I remember when you were saying you were moving and I was really sad we weren’t going to hear about them anymore. It was seriously one of my favorite surprises in your videos!
Wedding weekends.. pre wedding dinner.. that’s a lot. In the uk us common folk have a registry office wedding then go off to the pub for karaoke and a buffet.. simple, hassle free, fun. Same happens for funerals actually..
Tea time ☕ for those that don't know this old story (because it's STILL a good one) 8:45 i can't believe that clip is still around. That was his REAL wife that showed up with his kid. So the "bride" was the side chick and the marriage wasn't legal. But the daughter doing all the hollering just made her look crazy because she knew the truth. The actual wife posted videos on IG & FB of the "bride" & her daughter coming to try and fight her a month before the wedding, so they knew he had a wife he lived with. Honestly though 🤷🏽♀️ WHY?? I can't believe the audacity of some people. He knew he couldn't be married to 2 women at the same time and the new bride knew that they were denied a marriage certificate because he was married. Ok my rant is over 😂 😂 Y'all have a great day ☮️&💜
@@MarinaRhymin this was like pre-pendemic. I saw this back in 2018 so its older than that because I think it was old when I saw the story. But I I have noticed The disappearance of obey unless it's requested by the couple. Something tells me he requested it since I'm sure he wanted an obedient wife since his actual wife wouldn't let him cheat 😂😂
The last story. I'm a wheelchair user, this year I organised a massive haloween party for my church group, many of whom I've known since I was a kid. At the activity, 2 people spent any time with me and most treated me like I was invisible, I'd organised the whole thing single handedly but no one came up to me and said thank you, they just enjoyed my hard work and ignored me. I was dressed as a flipping fairy, I wasn't easy to ignore. But this happens a lot. I'm an ambulatory wheelchair user, so sometimes I need my chair and sometimes I don't, on the days I'm using crutches or a cane, these same people are a little more aware of my existence, when I use my chair, it's targeted avaoidence and it just disgusts me.
I've noticed that too about people who are in wheelchairs. What is it about them that makes them practically invisible? I don't get it. It's literally just a chair with wheels. How does sitting in it make you somehow not a person? It's weird. I have to use a walker sometimes and people really are weird about it.
I'm sorry that happened to you. People can be friggin' awful. My mum has M.S and is always in a wheelchair, but thankfully she doesn't get treated like this, at least for the most part. Though, a lot of services that are supposed to be for her, the workers seem to not want to come and help. Why are people so rude to wheelchair users? My mum is a really kind and caring person and deserves better.
I am sorry to hear that, but to be honest from the perspective of someone who has autism and was always told not to stare at those with obvious disabilities this may have something to do with it to a certain extent, because I was always told it was rude. However in a more social setting I can see how it would be more hurtful since it may seem like they’re purposefully leaving you out, but I just wanted to bring up that perspective on it as well
I serve pizza at my wedding, they had over 40 different flavors , 10 flavors of dessert pizza then 5 different flavors of focaccia. Everything was so fancy and then it comes the pizza. We also had a drink bar with all this different cocktails. People still talk about our wedding.
i seen an influencer invite all her subs and fans to her upcoming funeral, she was documenting her cancer story and in the end she didn't make it, such a beautiful lady and her gorgeous wife, watched them for so long they were both awesome her name was Emily Hayward and her wife Aisha, I hope I spelled her name right
My sister's wedding will live rent free in my head till the end of time: It was along the Mississippi and during the ceremony a boat came up and some people shouted "DON'T DO IT! YOU'LL BE SORRY!" My brother and I had a huge struggle in trying not to laugh.
idk maybe you had to be there but to me this is the same kinda humor as the cake topper of the groom trying to run away, or having a ball and chain to his ankle. people dont have to get married anymore bc men can take care of the household and women can work so it's all voluntary now - at least in some parts of the world
@@Ruby-yn5fpmy sister got married in Vegas (she wanted a quick wedding, less than 12 guests. We don’t like attention) but after the wedding we went to lunch and some congratulated her but others were saying to no go through with it. And coming from a young divorcee (me) it was appalling. Some marriages don’t work. But what give them the right to shit on other people’s happy day?
@@casc7937 Turns out my sister should have listened to them, he cheated on her with a girl 7 years younger and she was already 15 years younger then him.
I've been offended once at a friend's wedding. We were childhood besties. Neighbors who spent a lot of time together. always talked about being in each others' weddings. Well, I knew we drifted after college. so I wasn't offended when I wasn't in her wedding, nor was I offended when I wasn't invited to the ceremony itself since it was a small close family only thing followed by a large reception. However she did make it quite clear that I was no more of an afterthought on the guest list when she had me sitting at the vendor's table instead of with any of our mutual friends. She also proceeded to ignore me after the wedding when I reached out to maybe hang out and catch up once life settled back down for her. I feel like I would have been less offended if I didn't get invited at all before letting the friendship fade out. She clearly no longer wanted to keep our friendship. To this day I haven't spoken to her at all unless you count when she published a book and sent me a message asking me to buy it. I never responded to that. Fast forward to my wedding, to a guy she had introduced me to. My mom was shocked that this former friend wasn't on our guest list. Mom's still friends with her parents and thinks that old friendships like that don't fade away but by this point neither husband or I have spoken a word to former friend in over 5 years at that point. Why would we invite her to our wedding?
8:25 Queen Elizabeth supposedly wore white to Camilla’s wedding because Camilla was in attendance to Princess Diana’s wedding and she wore white. It was revenge (supposedly). Idk if someone else said it
I remember! There was one naked man who smoked cigs and the smell would waft up to your balcony. It was delightful to hear you talk about it. You always were respectful.
Yesterday the train conductor said I could just sit anywhere in Business since there weren't many on my trip. (Note: I had a business class ticket.) I said No, I didn't want to wind up on someone's TikTok if I wound up in a later boarder's seat. The conductor laughed. Yeah, he knew what I was talkin' about.
22 years ago my husband & I got married in our apartment, in regular clothes & in front of a Justice of the Peace. We decided to forego the wedding ceremony & reception & used the $ for a house instead. We made the great decision to avoid all that drama.
Want to share the BEST wedding - My friends threw a picnic on Sydney Harbour and just provided picnic blankets and baskets. It was so simple, no seating plan - no hassles. We played cricket, listened to music. She looked GORGEOUS in a really simple white boho dress and flip flops with a fresh white flower crown and over the bands of the shoes. The groom wore white linen. In the picnic baskets was a feast! Lobster, champagne, cheeses, little cakes.. no gifts required. Afterwards, we caught the ferry to a local posh hotel on the water and people had cocktails if they wanted and then they went to thier room for the night. Cost them $10 grand tops. Still the most chilled, stylish, REAL wedding I have been to. In contrast, the worst DIY wedding I ever went to, the bride and groom had platters of food and champagne while they got ready [so they were fine] and all the focus was on the bride getting her hair and makeup done. I was there all day doing the flowers and table decorations, but got offered no food or even water. Wedding guests assembled at about 3pm in a garden and the pizza guy hired for food to the guests didn't begin serving until 9pm. We were STARVING... and getting cold outdoors. People started to leave - I got pneumonia.
It is amazing how many people come out of the woodwork expecting to be invited to a wedding. We kept ours small, 50 people, and so many coworkers and extended family got butthurt about not getting invited. I even told one coworker specifically that I had to sign three documents saying that we wouldn't have glitter because the ceremony/reception were in a historic building; her response was that she would make sure to sneak some in to throw... absolutely not, no invitation whatsoever.
@lazy-pinkgirl2388 a man that lives in a condo building across from Charlotte He used to walk around his apartment naked and she could see him while filming and talking to us
@user-vm6oz6wt5g it's jumbo shrimp, potatoes, sausage and corn cobs all boiled together in cajun/seafood spices ... its really really good!! Some people use crawfish instead of shrimp, but we used shrimp for our wedding.
Story time - I had totally forgotten about this but all these wedding dramas brought it back - Back in the day, mid 90s - my best friend has 2 older sisters. Her oldest sister actually became part of our active friend group so she and I were also very close. That summer, we all started hanging with the guys in the local band that played at the main hangout - oldest sister ends up engaged to one of the band members. Mind you I grew up at their house all the time so very close with their mom and their dad, who later left their mom for the women he had been cheating with (little attempt to hide) for YEARS- their dad marries mistress and live in a gorg house with large property pool - all the things. Sidebar- whilest being mistress to my bffs dad, since he was married and all, mistress also ends up publicly dating people. One person she dated was my then boyfriends bff - (she was older than my parents) so fair to say we spent time together the 4 of us. I grew up with him too (boyfriend’s bff). Boyfriend was a jacka$$ to me and most his friends clearly didn’t like it but didn’t stand up to him or protect me when it was happening - but I had broken up with him by the time my bff and I and sister were band groupies. Back to wedding - sister had wedding at dad’s house by the pool. It was a whole things we spent the summer planning - handing by the pool at dad/wife mistresses house just living life. We get to their house wedding day and bff and I go straight in to find sister who was in their dads/(mistress turned wife)’s bedroom. I was closing the door behind me as we entered bedroom when crazy (we called her crazy) literally grabbed my arm thru tiny hole in the crack of closing door and snatched me and began yelling at me to leave her house -- 😶 - stunned and HELLA confused I snatched arm back while she is repeating while speaking to soon to be bride and my bff that I need to leave her house and that they were told that she would act a fool if I showed up - and I mean she is truly living the crazy name at this point. Bff and bride’s mom is there and trying to intervene and telling crazy to get her hands off of me but she’s crazy so - that wasn’t happening - my friends are profusely apologizing while I’m just spinning around like WHAT THE ACTUAL HELL IS HAPPENING …. Long story short…. I left because it was one of my closest friend’s wedding and I didn’t want it ruined (and I’m 4’10” and whilst my tiny self can work up some chihuahua size rage in a hurry - it was no match to crazy!) I walked out alone, took my bff’s car cause we came in hers and drove back home so in shock …. I later learn she hated me and my bffs saw her a time or two when we were all there eating dinner with the 🔪 to my back when I wasn’t looking and had told everyone I was not allowed and they never told me any of this thinking she wouldn’t go thru with it. I also learned she hated me because the friend she dated that I grew up with and was my then boyfriends bff was apparently secretly in love with me and said my name in his sleep when she was there with him. 😶🥴😮. None of these people are together now. Me included. 🤷🏻♀️🙊🙈🙉
@@AK_golden_rose right! I had NO idea this woman had the hates for me or that her ex (aka friend I grew up with) had a thing for me - all of it was out of nowhere but once it did happen, my two bffs (basically her step daughters) then started telling me all the crap she had been doing and we spend dang near every weekend at their house in the pool!! 🤯 delulu shit for sure!
@@missyscarborough1301 JEEEEEEEEESUS, that fr is next level. So glad you were relatively physically unharmed by all that. If I found out that a friend of mine had a thing for me and that another friend secretly hated me for that, I'd probably start doubting so many other things
Ok so some in-site on that wedding where the pregnant lady showed up. There was a back story that lady whom showed up was actually already his wife whom was carrying one of many of kids. He left her that morning saying he was going to work but got married to another woman. So yea I think anything goes when a woman is scorn.
I was a best man twice and I pray I am never asked again. The pressure and stress of the toast/speech made me not be able to enjoy my friend and also my brothers wedding. I don't know why so many people get upset that they weren't picked. I am happy to just sit by have no responsibility and just have fun🎉😊
Maybe I'm weird, but I don't think I've ever had bad wedding food. The food at my reception back in 2001 was $6.50 a plate. (Sure, it was buffet, whereas Mrs. $350-per-plate probably had table service, but unlike her, I was on a realistic, normal-person budget.) It was absolutely delicious! 😋 I also had leftovers for a week.
From a wedding photographer: choose your guest list extremely carefully and EXTRA CAREFUL about your bridesmaids. Those "questionable" people can and WILL ruin your day.
The girl that did my hair was my husband's "best friend" who was married with a kid of her own, and known me the entire relationship. Her "gift" to me was to do my hair for the day. She got offended that I didn't give her a gift like I did my bridemaid's. She left right after doing my hair to drive 45 min (one way) to pick up her husband and son for the ceremony (he was supposed to bring the son) I went outside to do some Bridal portraits, it was windy, my hair got mussed.. Not only was she not there to touch it up, but she and her family never made the ceremony, she said they were both asleep when she got home. 1 1/2 years later as she was getting divorced she had the audacity to ask my husband if I weren't in the picture would they be together. (I know this because he told me). Needless to say I had the foresight to not put any pics with her into my wedding album. She only ever cared about herself, that day was an eye opener, but the death of my husband last year sealed it, as much as I miss my husband the one thing I'm happy to have out of my life is her.
@@aly6374ewe husband's best friend was a girl. That's a red flag for me. However, condolences to you for your loss. Also thanks for sharing your story. 😊
Followed your merch link to see if you did "How are you not embarrassed" merch, was disappointed to find there wasn't any. Another great video Charlotte, hope you and your family having a wonderful festive season 🥰
From what I understand, if the time, location, etc., of a funeral are in the obituary or otherwise published, anyone can come who wants to come. (Though not necessarily to any gathering afterward unless someone sees them and invites them.) It's only if no details are published, especially if it specifically says "services will be private" that you shouldn't attend a funeral uninvited even IF you somehow manage to learn where and when it is.
Camilla did not wear white to Charles and Diana's wedding. She wore a light gray dress. The Queen gave her blessing to Charles and Camilla's wedding , although technically they didn't have a wedding, they had a civil ceremony because they both were married before. The Queen attended the blessing only after the civil ceremony and it was not white is was a cream color.
1) Miss naked man and the Charlotte reaction… 2) Adore you and the lovable Mike… LITERALLY CANNOT IMAGINE SHOWING UP AT ONE OF YOUR LIFE EVENTS!!!! To quote… ABSOLUTELY NOT!!! ♥️🤣 Happy holidays!! Go get yourself something really nice, from me (channeling cousin Eddy). 🤗
Carlotte's accent while she reads is so soothing and easy to remember that the other day when i was reading the AITA post to my friend i read it the exact SAME WAY Charlotte would, accenting the end of the dramatic sentences and everything :'D
I love how her outfit looks like some kind of monarch on a winter journey. Her queenly looks and facial expressions are definitely helping. Plus for the brides in that video I feel so bad for them on their big day!
I dunno about steak and lobster and 50000 wedding. I tell my daughters I'll lend the guy a ladder, $50 for the certificate and McDonalds for everyone afterwards 🤣😂
How dare they! The wedding couple are the STARS of the day!! (And btw besties, Miss Toocus wants to wish her daddy a happy birthday today. Me too, Miss Tooc, me too!!)
I want to ask if her sweater is vintage, because I have two sweaters from the 1950s that look very much like this! I also have a Vogue magazine from 1955 that has an ad for this type sweater, and it was _expensive!_ About $100. Mine are fine cashmere with rhinestone buttons and a mink collar. BTW, $100 in 1955 has the same purchasing power as $1,122.54 today.
i cried at my friend's wedding cause she looked so beautiful walking down the aisle and i couldn't believe i got to watch a friend get married and i feel bad still ok
the girls crashing the wedding for food is actually a lot more common than you think in the movie Parasite (korean film) the sister actually talks about it a few times , that she makes a lot of money doing it and gets cool things and food
It usually happens in Asia, because wedding is an event for everyone. Everyone is invited, no need for invitations. It was just this modern times when weddings are held inside buildings with security that people started screening guests. Plus food is expensive now.
The perfect belated Christmas present is a Charlotte wedding video! 🙌🏽 Thank you Charlotte and your incredible team for always putting a smile on my face and brightening my day. I hope that everyone had a very Merry Christmas. 💗
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me and my childhood best friend driffted as we got older, we always kept in touch, and she invited me to her wedding. i wasn't offended at all that i wasn't a bridesmaid or anything, i was happy that she considered me still a friend that she'd want at her wedding. i've since been to her baby shower, and birthday parties. her wedding actually bought us close again
this is so niceeee, makes me feel warm that real friends grow apart but never stop being friends
I'm so glad for you! She wanted you there for the special events :)
Thats beautiful, very Happy you found eachother again ^^
Lucky, I'm pretending I'm not upset that I didn't get invited to my longest best friend's wedding this year. Probably because I still mask like a silly little child even though it's become as normal as wearing my hearing-aid out of the house has been for my entire life. -_-
She's said to me that she wouldn't be where she is now without me so sorry that I felt I was some sort of rock in her life for the past 20 years.
Part of me wants to treat her the same way if I ever get to experience that miracle because it only seems fair, but part of me wants to go "oh well, I wouldn't be here without you either, celebrate this miracle with me!".
Should I talk to her mother or something? I don't want to break us up platonically, I've had enough of losing friends over my silly feelings.
I'd want to know why I wasn't invited but I don't think I'd ask. I would def treat her differently after that.
Story time: My wedding was kinda a drag. I had karaoke and dance music and a beautiful reception area, but it was just ... Dead. I planned to throw my bouquet off a large balcony overlooking a pool area with a forest scene as the backdrop. If I threw it off to the side (as intended) it would easily clear the pool into the reception area. However, my cousin and maid of honor, asked that I throw it towards the center of the pool for her to leap and catch it mid-air and cannonball into the pool and it went PERFECTLY. People still didn't dance, but it definitely livened things up 😂
So she kind of made herself the main character a little, but specifically did it for you. I love that. She sounds great. I'm sorry no one danced. I'm not much of a dancer, but I'd have karaoked the heck out of that thing. 😂
I came here because I'd thought you said it was drag, as in IN drag 😅😅 how odd but i was here for it 😅
lol, that's rly cute@@draghag
Mine was the same. No one wanted to dance, but I was too drunk to care.
Mine was too. People were overall dancing and such but my mom was so hard up to leave to go watch a band at a local bar that she talked us into closing the reception early. Made us think everyone was leaving. We didn’t find out until later it was because she wanted to go to the bar. And so many people asked us why we stopped 2 hours early that night. I was pissed.
The bride and groom, and whomever else paid for the wedding ceremony and reception, should sue the security company that they hired and PAID FOR!!!!!! to work the wedding, for taking the payment and then blatantly not doing the job they were PAID to do!!!!
Exactly what I thought
This is what I was thinking
I bet the "security company" was the groom's younger cousin, who is one of those guys that always assures you of their abilities with complete confidence, as if they actually DO have their shit together, that they are NOT just blindly going through life without a thought or plan ahead.
I mean, they paid them a thousand and the meal cost them 700.. just saying.
My thing is, why would you let them stay when you knew neither you or the groom knew the girls? They could’ve been someone’s +1 but then why didn’t you call ANYONE over to question them before the $350 dinner? So she kinda brought that upon herself by willfully ignoring/dismissing it. Yes the girls are wrong for crashing. Yes security should’ve been better. But you LITERALLY saw and could’ve stopped it earlier and didn’t.
OMG the girl who spilled on the wedding dress 100% did that on purpose! Who interrupts the bride, hurriedly approaches the bride and then yells at the top of their lungs "you need champagne!" and proceeds to violently spill what looks like Rose all over the bride and her dress?? That is unhinged behavior and this is not a case of just "blame it on the alcohol"!! That SCREAMS jealous saboteur
The bride was actively asking where was her drink? I’m pretty sure that girl was supposed to be holding her drink, and it genuinely looks like her heel slips out from under her twice because she slips again well the security guard is trying to take her away xD.
It honestly looked VERY staged lol
Yeah that was 100% was staged for clicks and ass pats.
Yeah, that just HAD to be staged for the views and shit. Like, that dress did NOT look good on the bride, in fact it looked TOO BIG, especially in the bust. It looked like it was about to fall off her! I don't know about everyone else, but I think you'd like to have a bridal gown that FITS and looks GOOD on you right? @@HalfNHalf.
It actually was a stunt. She made an update video explaining it go check it out… I think it’s completely ridiculous that she did that. But I guess it was her wedding and she could do what she wants. Lol.
That wine spiller knew exactly what she was doing. I watched it back a couple of times and she LITERALLY chucked it at her. What a scrag!!
That’s right! She spilled that whine on purpose!
Next year we are going to a fully black wedding, I can't wait :D
Pretty sure the entire thing was staged
Updated tik tok shows bride was in on it and it was planned to shock the guests and bring the drama
@victoriaz5320 I HAD to look it up... I can't really understand bringing that negativity to your own wedding? To each their own....
I was invited to a small wedding where the bride and groom asked the guests, women wear white and the men wear black. The bridal party wore, bridesmaids purple and groomsmen teal. The bride had a very ornate sparkly white dress and the grooms tux was also ornate and his accents matched the bride. They really stood out. It was actually beautiful.
I have worn a sundress that was white with a very colorful flower print dominating. It could never have been mistaken for a wedding dress. I certainly wasn't trying to upstage the bride. It was not revealing. It was all I had on hand for an unexpected event. If someone looks like a bride, I can understand the revulsion. If they look like they are attending a summer luncheon. give them some slack.
@@tabaxikhajit4541I totally agree. It’s not actually a rule to not where white, it’s just that you obviously try not to upstage the bride. So you don’t wear something that would make people think you’re the bride. Even Camilla’s white outfit is not bridey.
@M_SC it's not a rule but it's definitely rude.
My BFF from my childhood and I had made a pact that we would each be the other one's MOH. After high school, we both moved to different towns and lost contact for a little while. I ended up eloping, so I felt bad. When we got in contact again, she wasn't upset at all, just was happy that I was happy. Several years passed, my mom called, said I had gotten a wedding invite from her at mother's house. So I called, very excited. It didn't even matter that I wasn't in the wedding party, and I drove halfway across the country so I could be there.
Helped her get dressed on the day of, and the wedding was beautiful.
We have one of those friendships that can go for years without hearing from the other, and when we do, we pick up right where we left off, just like we had just spoken the day before.
My bff and I are the same we can be apart for years but as soon as we get together it’s like no time would pass.
That’s how my best friend and I are. I moved away from her at 15, and we’ve only seen each other in person maybe 5 times since, and now we’re 24 and she’s getting married and I was so surprised when she asked me to be one of her bridesmaids a few weeks ago. 🥺♥️ I’m not gonna lie, I just smiled and cried. I’m so happy for her.
❤ that type of friendship is wonderful and healthy. 😊 my sisters and friends are the same way.
I have the exact same story, and I couldn’t be more thrilled for her regardless of whether or not I’d be the MOH. True friends celebrate each others stories ❤️
You’re an amazing friend 😊
I met my best friend when I was 4 yrs old. We always promised that we'd be each other's chief bridesmaids, but when it came to her wedding (she married first) there were so many young girls in her family wanting to be bridesmaids - and her parents were organising/paying for the wedding, so the bride had little say in the matter - I wasn't asked to be a bridesmaid at all, but I was of course invited to the wedding. I dressed well, went along to the wedding, had a wonderful day, was joyful to see my friend's happiness, and bore no ill-will about not being in the wedding party. When it came to my own wedding, my situation was different and I was able to ask her to be my MOH. Both of us have since remarried, and were witnesses for each other's marriages. We've been best friends for 58 years, and I think this illustrates that there's more to a friendship than wearing a bridesmaid's dress - or not!
This is such a beautiful story.
The reason queen Elizabeth wore white was because Camila wore white to princess Diana’s wedding so she got her iconic revenge by wearing white ( she wore white so camilia couldn’t) ICONIC
She wouldntve worn white because it wasn't her first marriage. Maybe Queen Elizabeth just wanted to make that more noticeable by wearing white.
According to Google, Camilla wore pale gray. Princess Diana is also alleged to have said Camilla did not wear white to the wedding. I'm sure she would know.
Bullshit . Thats what the media said . Its a made up that story . Do you honestly think that woman , the Queen of England would be that petty ????. She is not american with an out of control ego she is British . Maybe they are more with the times and have left behind old archaic and ridiculous ideS about weddings .......afterall its the 21st century .
@@scribe712Also according to Google (images), Camilla did in fact wear white to Charles and Diana’s wedding.
@Tanya.G.Bourgeoisie yeah, she was wearing a white pillbox viel and everything. Also, if something is an extremely pale grey (or even very pale pink, or eggshell) that is pale enough that it looks white in photos and to others except for up close, it's a shade of white in reality and it's not okay. To me, her dress looked like Benjamin Moore's paper white.
A little gem regarding the queen wearing white to Camila and Charles’s wedding: Camilla wore white to Diana and Charles’s wedding, so the queen made a point of wearing white to their wedding. Since she was the queen, it meant no one else could wear the same color as her to an event. She tagged along for only a little bit of the ceremony, but long enough to justify Camilla not wearing green.
Not a big fan of the Queen, but that move against Camilla was brilliant. May she rest in petty. 😅
Peace
So the queen did not attend the wedding, just the reception following it.
@@carolinegosselin9284Considering that the Queen refusing to let then Prince Charles to marry Camilla that led to affairs by both then Prince Charles and Princess Diana, not much of such a bold move.
I loved the Queen. My mother was British and a royalist. My mother hated Prince Charles for what he did to Princess Diana. But this story has been romanticized.
Camilla never planned to wear white. Ironically, Camilla's decision to not wear white caused people to criticize Meghan Markle for doing so. I don't care either way. I really don't like how she and Harry are throwing the RF under the bus but criticizing her for wearing white is a bit out there.
Camilla wore grey to Diana's Wedding. Where do ya'll get this stuff from?
For our wedding, we were on a budget, so we did a lot of DIY stuff, and it was really pretty. For food we served this freaking amazing bbq that wasn't expensive, but lemme tell you, everyone loved it. But the best part was that his granny brought some of her fried chicken up to the wedding table just for us. It was a total surprise. She'd originally offered to fix it for the wedding guests, but realized early on that it'd just be way too much to handle. We understood completely, which is when we got the bbq. But she brought us that little personal pan of fried chicken and uh...yeah. Best wedding food ever. 😂
My ex husband’s aunt kindly catered our reception. It was a lovely variety of dishes,and I enjoyed it more than the sit down meals I’ve had at other weddings. She had dishes suitable for all diets,and some she ordered pre prepared from a restaurant. That was her gift to us,and we really appreciated it,as did our guests!
That sounds amazing congratulations ❤
We had a few wedding crashers come to the reception, old friends of my husband from highschool- 5 dudes all dressed up walking in like they belong. My hubby addressed them- gave them drinks and sent them on their way. Regardless it was beautiful day and can’t wait to marry him all over again for our 25th. 😊💕
awwww cute
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My best friend got married 2 years ago. She told me she wanted to make her sister her maid of honour since she had been the MOH at her wedding.
Since I'm not a sociopath I said "Of course, you don't have to justify yourself. It's your day and I'm glad to celebrate with you."
She made me the ring bearer since I'm best friends with the bride and the groom.
That's how friendship works, you consider each other's feelings and if there ever was a day to put your ego on the back burner, it's your friend's wedding.
We had a local Mexican restaurant cater our wedding. We did a fajita bar. Only $17 per plate with staff serving food. Everyone had heaps of food on their plate and some even got seconds and we STILL had leftovers to take home. IMO it was the best food I’ve had at a wedding. Nobody went home hungry that day.
yeah steak and lobster tail is nice but not when a catering company is making it for 50+ people. That steak is not going to come out that well
That sounds like a lot of fun 🥰
This is my plan for my wedding. Both of us were born and raised in San Diego, so Mexican food was a given. Buffet style! Different flavored margarita machines, nacho bar, etc.! Too fun!
I think the drunk girl who fell into the bride looked genuinely sorry in her face but how does anyone get THAT drunk at a wedding? She needs help with her life🥺
Now that sounds absolutely amazing!
When I was still working as a chef, we had a kitchen (fully loaded) inside a small trailer that we would bring to the location. With it we could cook for up to 200 people. We also had coolers in another trailer for produce and such. We got hired to do a wedding of around 140-150 people on an estate property that had to be in the millions. I remember this because I was in charge of the steaks. I had a list of how many and how to cook each one. There was 5 cooks including me and everyone had their jobs with lists of food to prepare and any changes or allergies. After sending the last plate out one of the caterers came back asking for the last 5 plates. we told them we counted everything before leaving and marked them off as they were done. I showed him the paper work to prove it. He left and went back inside. Since we were done we started to clean and pack up. The caterer came out for a smoke and told us that the family of 5 who own the property invited themselves and were the ones who got the 5 meals meant for the guests. The family just left after the meal like they did nothing wrong. So 5 of the guests didn't get the food we made so the wedding party had to send someone to another restaurant close to pick up meals for them.
Even rich people can steal
@@BrianAndresScott sometimes they are the worst
Having lived and worked in Newport, R.I. for years I can attest to the fact that sometimes even the ultra-wealthy (especially if they are nouveau riche), are stingy and mean.
You were cooking for 150 people and didn’t bring any extra? That is…odd.
@@alisalaska1786 I thought the same, how can they not have some extra meals when unforeseen events could happen. Not only uninvited guests, what if somebody trips and drop the food or whatever??
I didnt have bridesmaids...i dont really have friends. My husband had his brothers as groomsmen so I had my brothers as "bridesbros". I only have brothers, btw. It was awesome. It had been us thru thick and thin and it was great to have them beside me on my special day.
Normalize having one person carrying a thermos of concentrated red koolaid at weddings, specifically for the non bride wearing white. 🤣
Yes! Only the packets no sugar, maybe in a squirt gun as well or super soaker ☺️.
fr! I cant believe anyone is trying to defend wearing white at weddings. They have so many other colours to choose from, every single one of the ones defending wearing white is a melodramatic attention seeker
Or,red paint
@@theemeraldhourthe only time the non bride may wear white, eggshells,ecru,cream,snow,etc. Is under two conditions
1. The culture requires it
2.the bridal party specifically stated that in the invitation
@@rochellethundercloud346 Absolutely! 😂
It looked like that woman directly WALKED up to the bride and did it on purpose. The fact that the bride then called for security tells me she was not someone close and probably should not have been there.
Or was she HIRED to do it?! * cue dramatic music!*
@@wickiwo1098oooooooooh never thought of that
Yes! I dont know why Charlotte didnt talk about that. It was during the soeech and everything. So on purpose.
It looked super staged, the entire wedding looked super fake, tbh.
@@crIms0ngen and where is her husband?
My sister used to manage a group of homes for people unable to fully function as independent citizens. Basically there were care assistants on hand to help as needed, but they were encouraged to be as autonomous as possible. One group of Downs syndrome customers would get dressed up on Saturday mornings and be gone all day. Eventually someone checked on them. They would go to the church, hang around outside after a wedding. Someone would always offer them a lift to the reception. I wonder how many families, years later, are trying to figure out who these people are in the photos
They just wanted to help celebrate the wedding. I'd insist on inviting them to my wedding.
Ok well who would be upset about that? That's a sweet kind thing. Think majority of people would be super excited.
That's a tad different than stalkers who showed up and security doing nothing.
In high school we used to drive around and crash weddings and parties. Sometimes we got found out but even when we did, we were invited to stay. It was a friendly town. 😊
That’s hilarious!! Good for them! 😂😂😂😂
Most of them are probably happy to have them in the photos and at the event. I would have been. That is the sweetest party crasher story I've ever heard. If I knew about it happening in my town, I would invite them. My husband worked in a group home like that and would have other opinions about the rules, but that story is beautiful.
That last one. My sister in law was so rude at our wedding. She did not congratulate, thank or even SPEAK to us at our wedding. But the worst part was that during photos she kept positioning herself in our sightline with her arms crossed and glaring at us. It was very distracting. We had a small, lovely wedding at a winery that we had planned ourselves. It was idyllic. I guess she was jealous and being petty. Well, petty comes back around like karma. My brother in law dumped her 2 years later for not refilling the ice trays after their ice maker broke. Obviously, it was a straw/camel/back thing but I still laugh about it.
My sister in law was a B at my wedding too. She only said one thing to me the entire day...*hugging me and whispers in my ear* "you hardly look pregnant at all"
Like what a bitch!
I was 32 and that baby was planned by the way. We didnt want to wait any longer.
Anyways she a narc. He's narc abuse gave my brother cancer. Narcs make you sick. Actually toxic
Wait a minute, please. I need to process this, she was your SISTER-IN-LAW, and you BROTHER-IN-LAW wound up dumping her? If she was your sister-in-0law, that would mean that she was married to you brother, and your brother-in-law would be married to a sister (unless they had a different sexual orientation, which might not have been). Either way, I guess it's not that important, and while she didn't seem to be the most pleasant person (I know somewhat about adversarial SILs, thank you) it doesn't seem to be a reason to dump someone over not refilling an ice tray, unless there were other (maybe minor) things that had been done, too.
That's one thing about karma. It will sometime allow small things to accumulate until it becomes a huge, messy thing that karma can explode into your face.
@@Austenfan177 If he's married to her *husband* then he's a bigamist, and she would be his wife (also committing bigamy), and none of them would be in-laws. Throuples are not legally recognized.
@@Austenfan177 Thank you for clearing things up. If I might, I'd suggest that from now on, you proofread your comments so they don't lead to this kind of confusion in the future. I must admit that being unmarried myself, and both of my siblings being married (my brother is a widower now) I've never had to contend with a spouse's side of the family and their marriage relations with siblings/in-laws.
@@jacklow9611I assume sister-in-law as in: commenter's husband's (or wife's) sister. Her husband is also called brother-in-law. Or the other way around: BIL is the sibling of commenter's spouse.
RE the last story. My fiance had a couple females in his friend group that wouldn't even extend pleasantries when they saw me. They would literally walk straight by me as if I were a stranger. Apparently when we first started dating I was their favourite topic. Needless to say they didn't make the guest list,
and I continue to be their favourite topic 🥳
Are they like, wives or girlfriends of guys in his group? I wouldn’t hang out with them if they were trashing my spouse. Or I’d at least lay into them (as a girl) like, “this is my husband, we are married, I love him, and I don’t appreciate you guys always trashing him.”
@@annieharris2965 yeah but that's the thing, the roles are different. That would be the guy friend telling his female friends 'this is my wife and I love her and i dont appreciate you guys being rude to her'. I dont know if OP is a woman but my gut is telling me they might be bc women can be really catty to other women behind their backs. Misogyny still going strong
@@Ruby-yn5fp hey! yes I am a woman. It is as you described. I think perhaps they just aren't fulfilled in their own lives. For context, they are my fiancé's best friend's (who is a male) friends. So we would end up around them every now and then, but after hearing some of the comments they would make to others in the group he has distanced himself from them. It is sad because I am much younger than them (the female friends).
Weird, there's got to be more to the story. Were they all jealous because they had a crush on him? Did he leave one of their close friends to be with you instead?
@@rachelmaddowswife8713 not sure if they had a crush on him but possible. I actually suspect this with one in particular. But no he didn’t leave a close friend for me lol
$350 a plate for steak and lobster is outrageous.
Not really if the Lobster is covered in all-Organic diamonds from Mars and the steak is Wagyu with marbling of Platinum instead of Ordinary fat...... You didn't know this?! 😜🤣
That cost probably was the cost with everything included, appetizers, liquor, etc., most places have packages like that. If they upgraded the food I'd bet they upgraded the bar package too.
@@chariscreighton-duff9424 Don't forget the edible gold and truffles.
@@rustyhowe3907Oh yes definitely, and of course only Organic truffles found by a pig bred on the moon with a Royal bloodline would be acceptable.... Obviously!
🤣🤣🤣
@@chariscreighton-duff9424 And ONLY if they're harvested when the planets are in alignment for horoscopes of course!
Queen Elizabeth wearing white to Camilla's wedding was on purpose because Camilla also wore white to Diana's wedding
She was an amazing woman
Whole thing is so messy.
Royal petty ✨
I've heard this story before, but you know what makes me feel it's iffy?
We're talking about Queen Elizabeth II here. Not just any mother in law. And the 'wedding of the century' basically (well, in Europe at least). With an exact and strictly observed protocol, that probably took dozens of very experienced people to plan and hundreds to execute. And huge, worldwide media coverage.
I find it hard to believe, that especially back then, when the rules were stricter still then today, the various outfits of the members of the royal family and of high ranking (and therefore very visible) guests would not have been subjected to an approval process before the day. I don't think, you can just turn up to an event like that in an unsuitable outfit and not face consequences.
I don't think, Camilla would have worn that dress against the wish of the Queen (may she rest in peace), or that she would have been allowed to just stay as she was, if her dress had been decidedly against protocol.
Thank you! saved me from typing that all over again :)
Regarding the last story: the way she said those two rude ladies were "attached" to people she cares about makes me think they are some form of in-law. 😂
Likely lol
That’s what I was going to say.
Sister-in-law and friend?
Yeah! I thought so too! One could be an in-law and the other friend could’ve been someone she may have wanted to be with the groom instead. The whole passive aggressive behavior is extremely immature. But, happy and proud of the last bride for making the best of a crappy situation. I don’t understand people like that… If you’re miserable, don’t go to happy occasions and catch an attitude. Either suck it up and let it go or just don’t come. ✌🏼
My aunt (mom's youngest sister) was my first babysitter, first best friend, forever ride or die. She was my matron of honor and only person on my side of the wedding party. Best decision ever. She helped me make good decisions on the wedding and she advocated for my voice as the bride.
Just have a courthouse wedding. Honestly. I cancelled my own wedding out of pettiness, disinvited everyone except my in laws and my mom after people kept treating me like my ideas were stupid and made it seem like they were planning their own wedding to their liking and not mine????
That is PETTY and I am LIVING for it. Sounds like there’s a story in there that Charlotte would love to react to 😂
Getting married and I learned the courthouse thing, is not a thing in Canada. You have to apply for a marriage certificate a month in advance and have a person registered to a specific area to officiate. Each area has 8 registered officiated people each
I just had my wedding a week ago! It was perfect!! Super low key. My now wife looked beyond amazing in a white summer dress with strawberries on. I looked pretty sharp in a brown herringbone 3 piece suit, pocket watch and all 😁😁
I could not have gone better. Reception was just food at my parents house with family and a couple of good friends.
It could not have been better. I am bouncing of the walls with happiness!
Congratulations and wishing you both a happy life together ❤
You sound incredibly pleased both with how it went and to now be married to your beautiful wife. Congratulations! 🎉
My first wedding had alllll the bells and whistles. It was so beautiful, but I just remember it being so much of a big thing you have to do because it's the way it is "supposed to be" - I remember escaping to the bridal suite during the reception and just laying on the ground with my best friend thinking "this is the day - they say this is the best day of your life," but it felt so robotic to me. My second wedding was in my parents' backyard with only people who had met both of us as a couple (a small 150 lol). I'll never forget walking into the reception and seeing everyone's faces whom I love so much and who love us. It really was the best day of my life (thus far)!
Congratulations on your very new nuptials!! Wishing you the best!!
Awww congrats!!!!
@@mammajamma4397 Thank you so much.
The lobster bisque that my venue serves at their restaurant isn't normally on their wedding packages, so we paid an extra $8 per head to have it at our wedding because I wanted it that badly. Worth it
OMG I totally loved your naked man! Many episodes until finally he was actually smoking and “acting” for you. The sexy music was hilarious 😂 😂😂😂
Same!! It had me cracking up every time 😂
I had completely forgotten about naked man! He was such a highlight for all of us ✨🤣
For those of us who are new to this channel....which episode/video is that?
about 2.5 years ago to 2 years ago he is a recurring "character" in Charlotte's content :) @@aliendeer1294
@@aliendeer1294 when she lived in her condo, there was a guy who would go out on his balcony or walk about quite unclothed. There’s a whole lot of episodes. I think it’s about 2 years ago?
Best wedding I ever went to (besides my own several years later) was a wedding that didn't happen. A woman I know who I had a major thing for was getting married and I was invited to the wedding. Beautiful setup, probably a 20 to 30K wedding. It was held in a beautiful garden area of a very ritzy hotel. The groom was a no show. After some very awkward moments of the bride thanking everyone for showing up and explaining that it would be a party after she changed out of her wedding dress. On her way out she asked me to help her. Turned into a really great weekend LOL
First story absolutely shows the difference between my wedding and others - I had my wedding at a beautiful 500 year old hotel castle in Scotland and met so many lovely hotel guests in the toilets that I ended up inviting them all in - we gave them free drinks and a hot meal buffet and danced the night away with them - we made friends for life - it’s always rubbish when you’re a hotel guest and there’s a big wedding on cos it makes you feel like you’re interloping if the venue is too close to the bar and ours was, so I wanted everyone to have a great time and join us. As Scots, we pride ourselves on having the most fun weddings, and the people we made friends with that night were thrilled to be invited to a Scottish wedding. Some were from England and some were from the US….and one was a travelling musician who ended up playing the harp for our ceremony…but we showed them all a great time!
Too many Reddit stories got me believing that that wine spill was deliberate.
Sure did look deliberate! I'd love to know the back story. I wonder if the spiller used to have a relationship or fling with the groom.
Yeah... they were already handing a special glass to the bride when she RAN up with a FULL glass of red wine, screaming Champagne?
This was TOTALLY deliberate... and the bride handled it with grace.
Pausing, addressing the crowd that she would be back soon, and even apologized for the delay.
But the best was her just firmly telling security to remove that idiot.
This was deliberate.
@Zardox2 yes! that was *absolutely* not an accident
Nah fake AF
Whole thing was staged bride was in on it to surprise and shock her guests. And she sold the ruined dress as a NFT or something like that
My husband and I didn’t have a wedding party (no bridesmaids or groomsmen) and it was the best decision ever. Just him and I up at the alter and no one feeling left out or having to buy wedding party dresses/tuxes. I would do it the same way if I had a do over.
My husband and I also had no attendants (and no guests) - just a minister, 2 witnesses and our 3 living parents.
It went VERY well! I'd do it all over again.
I also didn't have bridesmaids/groomsmen. Just had children as ring bearers and two flowergirls to throw rose petals. Was perfect. No stress over bridesmaids makeup/hair/dresses/fittings, just focusing on ourselves ❤
Several of my friends had only one attendant. It worked out well.
The spilled wine: I have such respect for the bride and the way she calmly handled that situation.
We lived in Green Bay, WI many years ago and found out that it was the tradition to have a wedding in the morning then the reception in the evening. This was because it was a major farming area and farmers had to go back home and tend to livestock in the afternoon. Well the bridal couple would often take the time in the afternoon to bar hop so by the time the reception came they were often totally drunk. I can’t tell you how many times I saw the couple and attendants throwing up and stumbling around. I don’t know if this is still done but it was truly awful!
grew up and got married in Green Bay, WI plus played for many weddings in Green Bay...never heard of this tradition. Very strange.
Why wouldn't they just use that time to take pictures? Why do people feel they have to get blackout drunk at a wedding?
Born and raised in WI and NEVER HEARD OF THIS 🤣🤣🤣
My wedding was truly special! ❤ We did our own centerpieces that were “Nerd” themed. (Ie. Comic-con, Avengers, Harry Potter, Star Wars, etc.), the DJ was AWESOME - he had everyone dancing all night - speeches were few, brief, and super meaningful. We had less than 80 people. No one went crazy, but everyone was loose, silly and had a good time
Hmmmm, On story #1, I wouldn’t be surprised if the terrible security guard knew the two wedding crashers and gave them all the info to attend. Then he let them in AND discouraged the happy couple from removing them. Something just doesn’t sound right about all that. I bet there’s a connection there. 🤔
I can believe that! Back in 1978, I was attending a formal for Junior Achievement, a fun group for "future entrepreneurs" and such. The event was at a fancy hotel where there was also a big wedding.
As we were getting photos taken next to the grand staircase, we saw cops quietly entering the hotel. Someone who worked in the kitchen had stolen several wedding gifts from the table and tried hiding them on a rolling serving cart that was covered with a tablecloth. The nerve of some people!
Oh yes.
That's what I thought!
@@Austenfan177 I think you’re totally right about that. What a sleezeball. Yuck!
@@LazyIRanch That’s crazy and very sad. So now, security people have to add staff to their list of who and what to look out for. Wow! It’s great that they caught the thief.
Charlotte ,thank you ! I was married 30 years ago. I was close to many of the girls I worked with. One got married 2 months before me. At her wedding, one of our co workers wore pure white lace with matching hat. I did not invite this person to my wedding because of that. I have wondered over the years if that was the correct decision. Hearing you and so many on the chanei find this deplorable even these days , validates my decision
Queen Elizabeth wore white to *Camilla’s* wedding to Charles BECAUSE Camilla wore white to *Diana’s* wedding to Charles. Turnabout is fair play.
It was so epic. Diana was saluting Queen MIL from the grave
Well all of Princess Kate’s attendants wore white. Said it’s not a big deal in the UK.
@@Nanasays0731 You are correct, but the bride who is about to marry the future King of England actually is allowed the honor of having her entire group of attendants wear (“purity”) white. *Guests* however are expected to exhibit a deferential tone and wear any color except all white.
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Fair enough.
@@Nanasays0731It is a big deal. Royals have their own set of rules/courtesies.
So if we're trying to normalize wearing white to a wedding, are we also going to normalize showing up with our own coffins to funerals? No? We only wanna disrespect brides during their day? Interesting
🤣😆😂 plot twist: people who show up in white to a wedding are given a coffin to wear
It's not a big thing to wear white at a wedding as a guest. I think Americans make wayyyy too much of it that why ppl do it to piss off the couple. To each their own I guess.
I wanted to bring a guillotine to my divorce hearing, ya know, since we were splitting up! Courthouses frown on that sort of thing. 😉JK
I wonder... the girls who wear white to other people's weddings, when they attend their nephew's high school graduation, do they show up wearing a cap and gown? 🤔
My big brother's then new girlfriend (now wife) met my entire family for the first time at my wedding. They came a few days before as my brother needed to get his tux, we had the rehearsal etc. It was going ok. She came off a little odd but that is nothing new in my family. The morning of my wedding she shows up dressed in what I can only call a wedding dress. My grandmother almost stroked out! I'm the only girl out of 27 grandchildren so my wedding was a big deal in the family. However not a word was said. 23 years later they are staying with my family over the holidays and she just blurts out " I wore white to your wedding" and giggles. I straight faced looked her in the eyes and said " did you? I honestly did not notice ". The look on her face was so worth playing the long game lol. She was devastated that no one noticed she was a bitch. She has gone on to do so many wild things that wearing that to my wedding is low on the list at this point lol
@@kimberlymarino7344 wow... Its really sad she was allowed to be like that - she should be kicked out and your brother should be shamed for bringing in someone like that into family gathering
The girl who got wine on the bride’s gown did it on purpose. I could tell by how she was holding her glass right before she “accidentally” ran into the bride. I’m not sure if she really was drunk. She may have been pretending.
i'm just saying. if that happened on my wedding day, i'm throwing hands. SHE'D have a red stain on her dress. and it might not be wine.
@@b00ksrb3tt3rthanppldef wouldn’t be wine 😂
It was fake. The bride hired the woman who was the “crasher”. It was to “shock her guests”.
Both she and the “crasher”are terrible actors.
@@Mudhooks you know this how?
@@b00ksrb3tt3rthanppl I Googled “The Kline Venture” (from the clips) and “wedding crasher”. There are several videos about the whole thing being fake and that the woman was hired by the bride to “shock her friends”.
In NY, we went to different weddings to check out the Band or Venue or the food. The wedding couple always ok’d our attendance and knew of it ahead of time. We would be seated with the band.
My mum told me a story of when she was little, she saw in town that someone was getting married so she went and had a look. She asked one of the guests who was getting married and the woman looked at her like she was crazy and said, "Your DAD is getting married?" Mum went in, saw that yes, her dad was getting married and ran and went home to go tell grandma. You better believe grandma crashed grandpa's second wedding and raised hell. I was told there was hair pulling on every side. Not sure what happened to that woman, but she wasn't the only one grandpa was getting it on with, even though he was legally married to my grandmother. He had the audacity to try and hold a full wedding whilst married to my grandmother, who had no idea. DNA test done by my twin sister revealed grandpa had a LOT more children than we thought he did. Mum thought she was his only child. Ha. Ha. She wasn't. We get more updates every now and then. Fun times.
This is hilarious for all the wrong reasons 😂
There is sometimes an occasion for hair pulling. Says this pacifist.
Wow. So I'm thinking that grandpa isn't marriage material. Also, he should be slapped. Sorry I know he's your grandpa but that's just horrible for your grandma.
Damn your grandfather sounds like trash, hope your grandmother left him or met another guy
Dang. That's a whole soap opera right there.
I will never understand people wanting to ruin others day for no reason
Some people are just that miserable. They can't be happy for others. I feel sorry for those like that, but I also don't want to be around the Debbie Downers!
ITS Not for No reason, ITS jealousy
Some people can't stand for anyone else to be happy. They're only happy if others are miserable. Steer clear of anyone like that. They never change. They usually get much worse over time. Sometimes dangerously so.
When I got married I went classic. We got southern fried chicken, corn on the cob, mac and cheese, Cesar salad, asparagus, garlic mashed potatoes. I wanted southern comfort I picked a vendor that had amazing reviews. Thank god my reception wasn’t at a hotel because that’s usually when the food isn’t too good. Booking my own vendors for everything made the food beyond delicious.
I just went to my best friend's wedding and it was the best wedding I've ever been to. Only bride and groom standing, no wedding party. It was so beautiful, everyone had a good time. No drama.
Low key, I’ve always wanted to have a black and white wedding where me and my SO are the only ones in color. Colorful flowers for the bridesmaids and matching pocket squares for the groomsmen.
I think that sounds really cool! Black and white is elegant, and a touch of bright color brings joy and a little whimsy for a happy occasion.
That sounds GORGEOUS. wish I'd thought of that when I was planning my wedding (we ended up eloping cuz of too much stress)
That sounds lovely. If you ever have the opportunity, do it!!
I LOVE this idea
Honestly love that. Black is so classy and it looks so good against the white
I eloped to Key West with my man. The absolute best thing I ever did❤ Great food, great scenery, great weather, and no bullshit
I am nearly 73 years old and a grandmother. I have been in numerous wedding parties, many as the MOH. I watch these videos with you ( I adore you, Charlotte! You are one of my favorites) and am I disbelief. I never once saw or experienced anything like what goes on at these celebrations. Well, there was one I didn't go to and my friend, the bride, called me to say she slept with the best man the night before the wedding...😮😢😂❤ But nothing like that happened at the ones I went to as guest or bridal party member. To my knowledge...Damn! Nothing really changes. 😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤
I love this comment💜
Hi Charlotte! I just wanted to say thank you. See, I’m a socially awkward person who can’t pick up easily on social cues. Your wedding videos have really helped me learn the etiquette of weddings. I feel like I’m ready for my next invite. Happy Holidays and take care ❤️
I remember the naked man!!!!! Also the microphone. I remember when you were saying you were moving and I was really sad we weren’t going to hear about them anymore. It was seriously one of my favorite surprises in your videos!
Charlote your humour is on point girl! Tysm for you hard work during the holiday season, hope you had a great one!
NEVER WEAR WHITE TO A WEDDING UNLESS YOU ARE THE BRIDE!!!!!!!
But how will they know I'm the groom if I don't?!?
Or it clearly and specifically states that you are allowed,in the invitation.
Or you live in a country where it's not a big deal.
"or, or, or" you get the gist. you don't wear white to a wedding unless its allowed.
Unless it's a proxy marriage, I'd sincerely hope that the person standing at the altar marrying the bride is indeed the groom.@@hoofarted
Wedding weekends.. pre wedding dinner.. that’s a lot. In the uk us common folk have a registry office wedding then go off to the pub for karaoke and a buffet.. simple, hassle free, fun. Same happens for funerals actually..
Tea time ☕ for those that don't know this old story (because it's STILL a good one)
8:45 i can't believe that clip is still around. That was his REAL wife that showed up with his kid. So the "bride" was the side chick and the marriage wasn't legal. But the daughter doing all the hollering just made her look crazy because she knew the truth. The actual wife posted videos on IG & FB of the "bride" & her daughter coming to try and fight her a month before the wedding, so they knew he had a wife he lived with. Honestly though 🤷🏽♀️ WHY??
I can't believe the audacity of some people. He knew he couldn't be married to 2 women at the same time and the new bride knew that they were denied a marriage certificate because he was married.
Ok my rant is over 😂 😂
Y'all have a great day
☮️&💜
Thanks!!! Also… Did that pastor really tell the bride to OBEY THE GROOM in the vows?! It’s 2024… why is that part still in ANYONE’S vows?
@@MarinaRhymin this was like pre-pendemic. I saw this back in 2018 so its older than that because I think it was old when I saw the story. But I I have noticed The disappearance of obey unless it's requested by the couple. Something tells me he requested it since I'm sure he wanted an obedient wife since his actual wife wouldn't let him cheat 😂😂
The last story. I'm a wheelchair user, this year I organised a massive haloween party for my church group, many of whom I've known since I was a kid. At the activity, 2 people spent any time with me and most treated me like I was invisible, I'd organised the whole thing single handedly but no one came up to me and said thank you, they just enjoyed my hard work and ignored me. I was dressed as a flipping fairy, I wasn't easy to ignore. But this happens a lot. I'm an ambulatory wheelchair user, so sometimes I need my chair and sometimes I don't, on the days I'm using crutches or a cane, these same people are a little more aware of my existence, when I use my chair, it's targeted avaoidence and it just disgusts me.
I've noticed that too about people who are in wheelchairs. What is it about them that makes them practically invisible? I don't get it. It's literally just a chair with wheels. How does sitting in it make you somehow not a person? It's weird. I have to use a walker sometimes and people really are weird about it.
I'm so sorry, that's really not ok and you deserve better!
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I'm sorry that happened to you. People can be friggin' awful. My mum has M.S and is always in a wheelchair, but thankfully she doesn't get treated like this, at least for the most part. Though, a lot of services that are supposed to be for her, the workers seem to not want to come and help. Why are people so rude to wheelchair users? My mum is a really kind and caring person and deserves better.
I am sorry to hear that, but to be honest from the perspective of someone who has autism and was always told not to stare at those with obvious disabilities this may have something to do with it to a certain extent, because I was always told it was rude. However in a more social setting I can see how it would be more hurtful since it may seem like they’re purposefully leaving you out, but I just wanted to bring up that perspective on it as well
Bad to bad the wedding. But the reception too lmaooo 😂😂
I serve pizza at my wedding, they had over 40 different flavors , 10 flavors of dessert pizza then 5 different flavors of focaccia. Everything was so fancy and then it comes the pizza. We also had a drink bar with all this different cocktails. People still talk about our wedding.
Smart move!
Oh that’s a cute idea!!!
That is a great idea!!
i seen an influencer invite all her subs and fans to her upcoming funeral, she was documenting her cancer story and in the end she didn't make it, such a beautiful lady and her gorgeous wife, watched them for so long they were both awesome her name was Emily Hayward and her wife Aisha, I hope I spelled her name right
6:25 omg YES!!! THAT WOULD HAVE BEEN PERFECT 😂😂
My sister's wedding will live rent free in my head till the end of time:
It was along the Mississippi and during the ceremony a boat came up and some people shouted "DON'T DO IT! YOU'LL BE SORRY!"
My brother and I had a huge struggle in trying not to laugh.
idk maybe you had to be there but to me this is the same kinda humor as the cake topper of the groom trying to run away, or having a ball and chain to his ankle. people dont have to get married anymore bc men can take care of the household and women can work so it's all voluntary now - at least in some parts of the world
@@Ruby-yn5fpmy sister got married in Vegas (she wanted a quick wedding, less than 12 guests. We don’t like attention) but after the wedding we went to lunch and some congratulated her but others were saying to no go through with it. And coming from a young divorcee (me) it was appalling. Some marriages don’t work. But what give them the right to shit on other people’s happy day?
@@casc7937 Turns out my sister should have listened to them, he cheated on her with a girl 7 years younger and she was already 15 years younger then him.
I've been offended once at a friend's wedding. We were childhood besties. Neighbors who spent a lot of time together. always talked about being in each others' weddings. Well, I knew we drifted after college. so I wasn't offended when I wasn't in her wedding, nor was I offended when I wasn't invited to the ceremony itself since it was a small close family only thing followed by a large reception. However she did make it quite clear that I was no more of an afterthought on the guest list when she had me sitting at the vendor's table instead of with any of our mutual friends. She also proceeded to ignore me after the wedding when I reached out to maybe hang out and catch up once life settled back down for her. I feel like I would have been less offended if I didn't get invited at all before letting the friendship fade out. She clearly no longer wanted to keep our friendship. To this day I haven't spoken to her at all unless you count when she published a book and sent me a message asking me to buy it. I never responded to that. Fast forward to my wedding, to a guy she had introduced me to. My mom was shocked that this former friend wasn't on our guest list. Mom's still friends with her parents and thinks that old friendships like that don't fade away but by this point neither husband or I have spoken a word to former friend in over 5 years at that point. Why would we invite her to our wedding?
Next wedding I attend, I too will SCREAM "ANTHONY, DID U FOGET 2 TAKE UR PSYCHE MEDS, TODAYYY? ANTHONY, I GOT YO BABYYY!!!" 😅😅😅
I had a straight up nightmare last night that I wore a white dress to a wedding 😂😂 Thanks a lot, Charlotte! 😆
Yooo!!! I just checked. Nothing posted. 14 seconds later and here you are!!
Right?
Same!
I wait on these every day and check at 11 sharp 😂
Moi non plus j'aime les vidéos de Tatie Charlotte elle est gentille et honnête 😊❤
8:25 Queen Elizabeth supposedly wore white to Camilla’s wedding because Camilla was in attendance to Princess Diana’s wedding and she wore white. It was revenge (supposedly). Idk if someone else said it
untrue.
I saw the footage from Diana’s wedding…and Camilla did indeed wear white 😂
I remember! There was one naked man who smoked cigs and the smell would waft up to your balcony. It was delightful to hear you talk about it. You always were respectful.
Yesterday the train conductor said I could just sit anywhere in Business since there weren't many on my trip. (Note: I had a business class ticket.)
I said No, I didn't want to wind up on someone's TikTok if I wound up in a later boarder's seat. The conductor laughed. Yeah, he knew what I was talkin' about.
😂
What are you talking about?
22 years ago my husband & I got married in our apartment, in regular clothes & in front of a Justice of the Peace. We decided to forego the wedding ceremony & reception & used the $ for a house instead. We made the great decision to avoid all that drama.
Want to share the BEST wedding - My friends threw a picnic on Sydney Harbour and just provided picnic blankets and baskets. It was so simple, no seating plan - no hassles. We played cricket, listened to music. She looked GORGEOUS in a really simple white boho dress and flip flops with a fresh white flower crown and over the bands of the shoes. The groom wore white linen. In the picnic baskets was a feast! Lobster, champagne, cheeses, little cakes.. no gifts required. Afterwards, we caught the ferry to a local posh hotel on the water and people had cocktails if they wanted and then they went to thier room for the night. Cost them $10 grand tops. Still the most chilled, stylish, REAL wedding I have been to. In contrast, the worst DIY wedding I ever went to, the bride and groom had platters of food and champagne while they got ready [so they were fine] and all the focus was on the bride getting her hair and makeup done. I was there all day doing the flowers and table decorations, but got offered no food or even water. Wedding guests assembled at about 3pm in a garden and the pizza guy hired for food to the guests didn't begin serving until 9pm. We were STARVING... and getting cold outdoors. People started to leave - I got pneumonia.
Naked man...oh the nostalgia, the memories...😂♥️
I remember naked man.
If the queen had shown up at my wedding, I would not have cared if she wore white. She is truly the only exception though.
It is amazing how many people come out of the woodwork expecting to be invited to a wedding. We kept ours small, 50 people, and so many coworkers and extended family got butthurt about not getting invited. I even told one coworker specifically that I had to sign three documents saying that we wouldn't have glitter because the ceremony/reception were in a historic building; her response was that she would make sure to sneak some in to throw... absolutely not, no invitation whatsoever.
Charlotte
Naked man song is only for you. Every time I hear it, I'll rush to the phone like he magically returns. 😂
5:01 ohhhh. I remember naked man. !!!😂
@lazy-pinkgirl2388 a man that lives in a condo building across from Charlotte He used to walk around his apartment naked and she could see him while filming and talking to us
We did a low country boil at our wedding plus several different kinds of appetizers, it was about 18$ per plate... and it was AMAAAZZZING!!!!
Right they got screwed up the tukus.
What is a "low country boil""????
Ya I don’t buy that first girl saying it had to be over 300$ for it to be good. She’s just spoiled. Sorry
@user-vm6oz6wt5g it's jumbo shrimp, potatoes, sausage and corn cobs all boiled together in cajun/seafood spices ... its really really good!! Some people use crawfish instead of shrimp, but we used shrimp for our wedding.
@@ccc8647 the food definitely sounds good. It deserves a more appetizing name.
Yes I did expect her to rip off the skirt and break into a dance. It seemed fake to be honest or like a tv show being filmed lol
Story time - I had totally forgotten about this but all these wedding dramas brought it back -
Back in the day, mid 90s - my best friend has 2 older sisters. Her oldest sister actually became part of our active friend group so she and I were also very close. That summer, we all started hanging with the guys in the local band that played at the main hangout - oldest sister ends up engaged to one of the band members. Mind you I grew up at their house all the time so very close with their mom and their dad, who later left their mom for the women he had been cheating with (little attempt to hide) for YEARS- their dad marries mistress and live in a gorg house with large property pool - all the things.
Sidebar- whilest being mistress to my bffs dad, since he was married and all, mistress also ends up publicly dating people. One person she dated was my then boyfriends bff - (she was older than my parents) so fair to say we spent time together the 4 of us. I grew up with him too (boyfriend’s bff). Boyfriend was a jacka$$ to me and most his friends clearly didn’t like it but didn’t stand up to him or protect me when it was happening - but I had broken up with him by the time my bff and I and sister were band groupies.
Back to wedding - sister had wedding at dad’s house by the pool. It was a whole things we spent the summer planning - handing by the pool at dad/wife mistresses house just living life.
We get to their house wedding day and bff and I go straight in to find sister who was in their dads/(mistress turned wife)’s bedroom. I was closing the door behind me as we entered bedroom when crazy (we called her crazy) literally grabbed my arm thru tiny hole in the crack of closing door and snatched me and began yelling at me to leave her house -- 😶 - stunned and HELLA confused I snatched arm back while she is repeating while speaking to soon to be bride and my bff that I need to leave her house and that they were told that she would act a fool if I showed up - and I mean she is truly living the crazy name at this point. Bff and bride’s mom is there and trying to intervene and telling crazy to get her hands off of me but she’s crazy so - that wasn’t happening - my friends are profusely apologizing while I’m just spinning around like WHAT THE ACTUAL HELL IS HAPPENING ….
Long story short…. I left because it was one of my closest friend’s wedding and I didn’t want it ruined (and I’m 4’10” and whilst my tiny self can work up some chihuahua size rage in a hurry - it was no match to crazy!) I walked out alone, took my bff’s car cause we came in hers and drove back home so in shock …. I later learn she hated me and my bffs saw her a time or two when we were all there eating dinner with the 🔪 to my back when I wasn’t looking and had told everyone I was not allowed and they never told me any of this thinking she wouldn’t go thru with it. I also learned she hated me because the friend she dated that I grew up with and was my then boyfriends bff was apparently secretly in love with me and said my name in his sleep when she was there with him.
😶🥴😮.
None of these people are together now. Me included. 🤷🏻♀️🙊🙈🙉
What the actual hell, oh my God. That is low-key traumatizing
@@AK_golden_rose right! I had NO idea this woman had the hates for me or that her ex (aka friend I grew up with) had a thing for me - all of it was out of nowhere but once it did happen, my two bffs (basically her step daughters) then started telling me all the crap she had been doing and we spend dang near every weekend at their house in the pool!! 🤯 delulu shit for sure!
@@missyscarborough1301 JEEEEEEEEESUS, that fr is next level. So glad you were relatively physically unharmed by all that. If I found out that a friend of mine had a thing for me and that another friend secretly hated me for that, I'd probably start doubting so many other things
Ok so some in-site on that wedding where the pregnant lady showed up. There was a back story that lady whom showed up was actually already his wife whom was carrying one of many of kids. He left her that morning saying he was going to work but got married to another woman. So yea I think anything goes when a woman is scorn.
I was a best man twice and I pray I am never asked again. The pressure and stress of the toast/speech made me not be able to enjoy my friend and also my brothers wedding. I don't know why so many people get upset that they weren't picked. I am happy to just sit by have no responsibility and just have fun🎉😊
I've been a bridesmaid twice and yeah, never again! I hated it
Maybe I'm weird, but I don't think I've ever had bad wedding food. The food at my reception back in 2001 was $6.50 a plate. (Sure, it was buffet, whereas Mrs. $350-per-plate probably had table service, but unlike her, I was on a realistic, normal-person budget.) It was absolutely delicious! 😋 I also had leftovers for a week.
From a wedding photographer: choose your guest list extremely carefully and EXTRA CAREFUL about your bridesmaids. Those "questionable" people can and WILL ruin your day.
The girl that did my hair was my husband's "best friend" who was married with a kid of her own, and known me the entire relationship. Her "gift" to me was to do my hair for the day. She got offended that I didn't give her a gift like I did my bridemaid's. She left right after doing my hair to drive 45 min (one way) to pick up her husband and son for the ceremony (he was supposed to bring the son) I went outside to do some Bridal portraits, it was windy, my hair got mussed.. Not only was she not there to touch it up, but she and her family never made the ceremony, she said they were both asleep when she got home. 1 1/2 years later as she was getting divorced she had the audacity to ask my husband if I weren't in the picture would they be together. (I know this because he told me). Needless to say I had the foresight to not put any pics with her into my wedding album. She only ever cared about herself, that day was an eye opener, but the death of my husband last year sealed it, as much as I miss my husband the one thing I'm happy to have out of my life is her.
My dog is gonna be my maid of honor.
@@aly6374ewe husband's best friend was a girl. That's a red flag for me. However, condolences to you for your loss. Also thanks for sharing your story. 😊
Followed your merch link to see if you did "How are you not embarrassed" merch, was disappointed to find there wasn't any. Another great video Charlotte, hope you and your family having a wonderful festive season 🥰
We definitely need Charlotte merch!🎉
From what I understand, if the time, location, etc., of a funeral are in the obituary or otherwise published, anyone can come who wants to come. (Though not necessarily to any gathering afterward unless someone sees them and invites them.) It's only if no details are published, especially if it specifically says "services will be private" that you shouldn't attend a funeral uninvited even IF you somehow manage to learn where and when it is.
The queen deliberately wore white to Charles and Camilla's wedding as Camilla wore white to Charles and Dianna's wedding! 🤣
Camilla did not wear white to Charles and Diana's wedding. She wore a light gray dress. The Queen gave her blessing to Charles and Camilla's wedding , although technically they didn't have a wedding, they had a civil ceremony because they both were married before. The Queen attended the blessing only after the civil ceremony and it was not white is was a cream color.
1) Miss naked man and the Charlotte reaction…
2) Adore you and the lovable Mike… LITERALLY CANNOT IMAGINE SHOWING UP AT ONE OF YOUR LIFE EVENTS!!!! To quote… ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!
♥️🤣 Happy holidays!! Go get yourself something really nice, from me (channeling cousin Eddy). 🤗
OMG This was a perfect episode 😂😂 references to past episodes, unhinged videos and priceless Charlotte’s reactions 😂😂 LOVE IT
Just make sure the wedding is on live so we can all watch Queen Potato get married! 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Carlotte's accent while she reads is so soothing and easy to remember that the other day when i was reading the AITA post to my friend i read it the exact SAME WAY Charlotte would, accenting the end of the dramatic sentences and everything :'D
I love how her outfit looks like some kind of monarch on a winter journey. Her queenly looks and facial expressions are definitely helping. Plus for the brides in that video I feel so bad for them on their big day!
I dunno about steak and lobster and 50000 wedding. I tell my daughters I'll lend the guy a ladder, $50 for the certificate and McDonalds for everyone afterwards 🤣😂
How dare they! The wedding couple are the STARS of the day!! (And btw besties, Miss Toocus wants to wish her daddy a happy birthday today. Me too, Miss Tooc, me too!!)
Lol I’ll still be dancing 🤣🤣🤣 6:10
Every time the bride in the first story said "Ryan and I's" I died a little inside.
Someone once told me "its never ryan and me/my." Uhm yes, right there it is... 😂
What's wrong with "our"???
The style of Charlotte this christmas is just amazing. She looks so gorgeous. I LOVE her style.
Merry christmas. 🎄🤗
I agree
Merry Christmas
@@BrianAndresScott merry christmas.
I want to ask if her sweater is vintage, because I have two sweaters from the 1950s that look very much like this! I also have a Vogue magazine from 1955 that has an ad for this type sweater, and it was _expensive!_ About $100. Mine are fine cashmere with rhinestone buttons and a mink collar. BTW, $100 in 1955 has the same purchasing power as $1,122.54 today.
@@LazyIRanch i don't know if it is but is really gorgeous. I have a coat very similar that i bought on a vintage store a few years ago.
11:45 “CHILL OUT LINDA!!!” Charottle honestly has the best facial expressions and hilarious voice 🤣
i cried at my friend's wedding cause she looked so beautiful walking down the aisle and i couldn't believe i got to watch a friend get married and i feel bad still ok
the girls crashing the wedding for food is actually a lot more common than you think
in the movie Parasite (korean film) the sister actually talks about it a few times , that she makes a lot of money doing it and gets cool things and food
There's also a movie called Wedding Crashers where 2 guys do it.
It usually happens in Asia, because wedding is an event for everyone. Everyone is invited, no need for invitations.
It was just this modern times when weddings are held inside buildings with security that people started screening guests. Plus food is expensive now.
I wish I could say I’m surprised how many people want to be the center of every event. Let other people shine and sit down!!
I would've promptly called the company that security guard worked for. WTH?!!!
The perfect belated Christmas present is a Charlotte wedding video! 🙌🏽 Thank you Charlotte and your incredible team for always putting a smile on my face and brightening my day. I hope that everyone had a very Merry Christmas. 💗