That daughter should be so grateful and appreciative that her mother took her and her daughter in. And she should know her mother's job is important and unpredictable and make a permanent sitter relationship.
She is an adult now so I see what you're saying BUT the mother basically messed through the last of her daughter's teenage years by choosing to remarry when clearly the wounds of divorce weren't worked through for the child.
The daughter has abandonment issues which is why she is hurt by her mother's new relationship. It hurt her that she felt left out and not included. She felt like she was being replaced and had no place in her mother's heart for her. She comes off as a demanding and entitled brat because its her way of expressing that you abandoned me, now you are abandoning me again! (via her text messages)
Maybe birth control or not having sex should have been a priority instead of giving her mother crap!!! This daughter really really made me mad. AND doesn't even seem to realize what the problem is.
To add insult to injury she has them both scared of her and should make the father of her child take responsibility not her Mother but then again that’s why she’s back home she had more control there.
I’m the baby father and have tried to be in my child “Liam’s” life for all his 5 years but she held a grudge, lied on my name, assassinated my character and made America as well as her city of Traverse City, Mi believe I was and still am a deadbeat. I’m the opposite. I have custody of my 7 year old daughter (her sons sister) just like Dan said on the show “she holds grudges” and I’m living proof she does. I see my son for 6 hours a months and I drive 12 hours a month to see him because she moved him 3 hours away without my knowledge because I cheated on her. That’s the truth. She has a boyfriend too btw so that grudge is why I hardly get to see my son based off a lied she told to begin with by saying I was abusive when I never ever abused her. She has ruined a lot of time I can’t get back with my son but now we are about to FINALLY have our day in court 💔 she doesn’t like that my son LOVES his dad
Reading the comments here you realize why Mel is the life coach. It’s definitely a skill most people don’t have because judging is their first response instead of looking for solutions.
The daughter is spoilt, entitled, rude and I like the way that Mel saw through her BS and put her straight. This is a fully grown woman that get herself pregnant and feels that she can talk to her parents like crap! Get over it and let parents live the rest of their lives. I cannot believe that she spoke to her mother like that doing a job that is so wonderful.
Mel, why didn't you address the fact that the daughters son is not her mother and stepfather has responsibility. She decided to have a baby she gets to take care of it just like all the rest of us parents.
How much raising did Mom do of her teenage daughter? I think you can't overlook how mom abandoned the daughter in daughter's experience at like 15 by just moving on regardless of how daughter felt or therapy she probably needed.
I’m the baby father and have tried to be in my child “Liam’s” life for all his 5 years but she held a grudge, lied on my name, assassinated my character and made America as well as her city of Traverse City, Mi believe I was and still am a deadbeat. I’m the opposite. I have custody of my 7 year old daughter (her sons sister) just like Dan said on the show “she holds grudges” and I’m living proof she does. I see my son for 6 hours a months and I drive 12 hours a month to see him because she moved him 3 hours away without my knowledge because I cheated on her. That’s the truth. She has a boyfriend too btw so that grudge is why I hardly get to see my son based off a lied she told to begin with by saying I was abusive when I never ever abused her. She has ruined a lot of time I can’t get back with my son but now we are about to FINALLY have our day in court 💔 she doesn’t like that my son LOVES his dad
That’s extremely harsh, she clearly feels remorseful and no one in this particular video has done nothing wrong-it started with her feeling abandonment and everything was domino effect falling from there. It’s so important to be sensitive towards people especially when they’re being vulnerable and sharing their problems on a public platform. Let’s be kind, have a wonderful day💗
I feel this entire thing is the mother's fault and Mel let her off easy. 1st, marrying someone her child never really got to know and adjust to. 2nd, now being married and that child is now an adult, you're not going to come into our house and disrespect my husband. Once your children are grown, your spouse should be the most important person. I even told my son this. That when his mother remarried, her husband comes first because you are a grown man now. Don't put your spouse first when kids are grown the marriage definitely won't work. A wife would expect the same from her husband.
Yes that girl needs to grow up and take ownership she left her Dads because she couldn’t control him ran back to her Mom because she can control her, now a baby and expects her Mom step up but not the father of the child! She needs a swift kick Moms fault for not giving it to her sooner!
I don't even have a mom or a dad or a step parent (which I wish I had) You don't deserve this mom. I would do anything for a mom like this or just any mom.
Alley thinks her mom and stepdad are her personal slaves. Your 20. An adult. So move out . Your parents must pay bills. They can't babysit and baby you.
Mel, this girl needs to move out and stand on her own 2 feet .She also needs her baby's dad to be involved in paying for their child. I'm surprised, you didn't talk to her about moving. She is subjecting her problems on her mom & stepdad. Her mom needs to put her husband 1st now that her daughter is an adult. It's not fair to him. The daughter is taking advantage and is way too selfish and self centered. She acts as if her mom should take care of her the rest of her life!!! This is wrong. Obviously her biological dad has boundaries and that's why she's not living with him. This younger generation feels like they are entitled to have everything and anything THEY want. We all have to go through our own trials and tribulations to learn how to cope in life. She is spoiled and needs to get on with her own life and leave her mom and stepdad alone so that they can live out the rest of their life the way THEY choose. They already raised the daughter. Kick her out of the nest and let her fly or fall. The stepdad is a very nice guy. It's sad he doesn't really have a say so. The mom is wrong for not standing strong together with her husband, as a team. The daughter is wrong for manipulating the situation and causing problems. The stepdad is the victim here. Mel, that daughter needs to go!!! I think she is still going to act out. Next time please encourage the daughter to move out on her own. She will give you a million excuses as to why she can't!! Enabling is not a good thing. Boundaries are needed here and I didn't see you encourage any of that. Step parents get walked on way too much and never have the power to remedy the situation. Please do a show that helps step parents cope better.
I’m the baby father and have tried to be in my child “Liam’s” life for all his 5 years but she held a grudge, lied on my name, assassinated my character and made America as well as her city of Traverse City, Mi believe I was and still am a deadbeat. I’m the opposite. I have custody of my 7 year old daughter (her sons sister) just like Dan said on the show “she holds grudges” and I’m living proof she does. I see my son for 6 hours a months and I drive 12 hours a month to see him because she moved him 3 hours away without my knowledge because I cheated on her. That’s the truth. She has a boyfriend too btw so that grudge is why I hardly get to see my son based off a lied she told to begin with by saying I was abusive when I never ever abused her. She has ruined a lot of time I can’t get back with my son but now we are about to FINALLY have our day in court 💔 she doesn’t like that my son LOVES his dad
I’m the baby father and have tried to be in my child “Liam’s” life for all his 5 years but she held a grudge, lied on my name, assassinated my character and made America as well as her city of Traverse City, Mi believe I was and still am a deadbeat. I’m the opposite. I have custody of my 7 year old daughter (her sons sister) just like Dan said on the show “she holds grudges” and I’m living proof she does. I see my son for 6 hours a months and I drive 12 hours a month to see him because she moved him 3 hours away without my knowledge because I cheated on her. That’s the truth. She has a boyfriend too btw so that grudge is why I hardly get to see my son based off a lied she told to begin with by saying I was abusive when I never ever abused her. She has ruined a lot of time I can’t get back with my son but now we are about to FINALLY have our day in court 💔 she doesn’t like that my son LOVES his dad
I'm unsure of why the comments are hating on the girl. She's still young. A kid was clearly not in her plans. She's been through a lot. Her parents' seperation, her mom telling her a stranger is going to be her dad. And she was fairly understanding of where she was wrong on the show. Telling her to move out like she wouldn't if she could is the most pointless part of these comments that I've seen till date. Cut the woman some slack. There were mistakes made on all ends.
Thank youu! Being sensitive towards others is so important, especially in thai situation there is no One wrong action-it’s all mixed in different things.
I’m the baby father and have tried to be in my child “Liam’s” life for all his 5 years but she held a grudge, lied on my name, assassinated my character and made America as well as her city of Traverse City, Mi believe I was and still am a deadbeat. I’m the opposite. I have custody of my 7 year old daughter (her sons sister) just like Dan said on the show “she holds grudges” and I’m living proof she does. I see my son for 6 hours a months and I drive 12 hours a month to see him because she moved him 3 hours away without my knowledge because I cheated on her. That’s the truth. She has a boyfriend too btw so that grudge is why I hardly get to see my son based off a lied she told to begin with by saying I was abusive when I never ever abused her. She has ruined a lot of time I can’t get back with my son but now we are about to FINALLY have our day in court 💔 she doesn’t like that my son LOVES his dad
so alli is basically a 14 yo raising a baby, great. I personally wouldn't stay in a relationship with a man with kids.. i feel my life has been made a bit better than it would have been otherwise. Life can be hard enough.
This is a serious problem happening within families as stated, the power struggles dynamic of the grown kids causing problems by including the grandkids and the parent of that kid can create a egg shell effect within the family. The step parent lives a life of duality and anxiety.yes understanding and possibly some forgiveness and a meaningful meeting in the middle on both sides will need to take place in order to move forward.
This daughter needs an attitude adjustment!!! I would keep my goal of retirement at 60!!! I’m legally blind and I didn’t expect my mom to take care of my daughters!!! I’m always asking my daughters about anyone I’m interested in getting involved with!!! They want me to be happy 😆, because their father died!!! I’m the one that is holding back, because I am really afraid 😱 of getting hurt again!!! I’m going to try, and move on with my life, because I deserve to be happy, and my daughters want me to be!!!
I’m the baby father and have tried to be in my child “Liam’s” life for all his 5 years but she held a grudge, lied on my name, assassinated my character and made America as well as her city of Traverse City, Mi believe I was and still am a deadbeat. I’m the opposite. I have custody of my 7 year old daughter (her sons sister) just like Dan said on the show “she holds grudges” and I’m living proof she does. I see my son for 6 hours a months and I drive 12 hours a month to see him because she moved him 3 hours away without my knowledge because I cheated on her. That’s the truth. She has a boyfriend too btw so that grudge is why I hardly get to see my son based off a lied she told to begin with by saying I was abusive when I never ever abused her. She has ruined a lot of time I can’t get back with my son but now we are about to FINALLY have our day in court 💔 she doesn’t like that my son LOVES his dad
So mom can dump the daughter whenever she pleases- her mom was planning on getting married & didn't bother to tell daughter she was dating? I guess it is acceptable to forget that you have children already when you meet a new man & plan your new life, epic fail Mel! Kids are not disposable & it is obvious daughter was supposed to grow up & graduate & get out so that they can retire & move on with their lovely new life.
Mom didn’t tell because she scared of the daughter obviously and what about her father? I’m sure he has moved on she just needs to grow up and raise her child and boss the father of that child which she can’t.
Ok, so grown adult daughter, and grown adult husband are fighting. So how is any of this the mothers problem? Im sorry but it seems like these two grown adults need to figure their shit out and stop dragging this poor woman into the middle of it.
Carol Allison agreed. the mother messed up in the beginning but it’s obvious shes sorry about it. its between the step dad and daughter she shouldnt be torn in the middle
That daughter should be so grateful and appreciative that her mother took her and her daughter in. And she should know her mother's job is important and unpredictable and make a permanent sitter relationship.
She is an adult now so I see what you're saying BUT the mother basically messed through the last of her daughter's teenage years by choosing to remarry when clearly the wounds of divorce weren't worked through for the child.
The daughter has abandonment issues which is why she is hurt by her mother's new relationship. It hurt her that she felt left out and not included. She felt like she was being replaced and had no place in her mother's heart for her. She comes off as a demanding and entitled brat because its her way of expressing that you abandoned me, now you are abandoning me again! (via her text messages)
Maybe birth control or not having sex should have been a priority instead of giving her mother crap!!! This daughter really really made me mad. AND doesn't even seem to realize what the problem is.
To add insult to injury she has them both scared of her and should make the father of her child take responsibility not her Mother but then again that’s why she’s back home she had more control there.
She made the choice to get pregnant. So deal with the consequences. I won't put up with her behavior
I’m the baby father and have tried to be in my child “Liam’s” life for all his 5 years but she held a grudge, lied on my name, assassinated my character and made America as well as her city of Traverse City, Mi believe I was and still am a deadbeat. I’m the opposite. I have custody of my 7 year old daughter (her sons sister) just like Dan said on the show “she holds grudges” and I’m living proof she does. I see my son for 6 hours a months and I drive 12 hours a month to see him because she moved him 3 hours away without my knowledge because I cheated on her. That’s the truth. She has a boyfriend too btw so that grudge is why I hardly get to see my son based off a lied she told to begin with by saying I was abusive when I never ever abused her. She has ruined a lot of time I can’t get back with my son but now we are about to FINALLY have our day in court 💔 she doesn’t like that my son LOVES his dad
Just because someone is offering something doesn't mean you don't say thank you. WTH???
u say no thank u.
Reading the comments here you realize why Mel is the life coach. It’s definitely a skill most people don’t have because judging is their first response instead of looking for solutions.
The step dad seems nice. The daughter really needs to back off and allow her mum to be happy. Everyone is tiptoeing around this grown adult child
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Spoiled rotten
GROW UP daughter===WOW!
The daughter is spoilt, entitled, rude and I like the way that Mel saw through her BS and put her straight. This is a fully grown woman that get herself pregnant and feels that she can talk to her parents like crap! Get over it and let parents live the rest of their lives. I cannot believe that she spoke to her mother like that doing a job that is so wonderful.
Mel, why didn't you address the fact that the daughters son is not her mother and stepfather has responsibility. She decided to have a baby she gets to take care of it just like all the rest of us parents.
keli Surfs she did address it. She said that having a child is an adult decision.
How much raising did Mom do of her teenage daughter? I think you can't overlook how mom abandoned the daughter in daughter's experience at like 15 by just moving on regardless of how daughter felt or therapy she probably needed.
Agree 💯 %
She decided to have a child and is a grown up. Take responsibility for your decisions.
I’m the baby father and have tried to be in my child “Liam’s” life for all his 5 years but she held a grudge, lied on my name, assassinated my character and made America as well as her city of Traverse City, Mi believe I was and still am a deadbeat. I’m the opposite. I have custody of my 7 year old daughter (her sons sister) just like Dan said on the show “she holds grudges” and I’m living proof she does. I see my son for 6 hours a months and I drive 12 hours a month to see him because she moved him 3 hours away without my knowledge because I cheated on her. That’s the truth. She has a boyfriend too btw so that grudge is why I hardly get to see my son based off a lied she told to begin with by saying I was abusive when I never ever abused her. She has ruined a lot of time I can’t get back with my son but now we are about to FINALLY have our day in court 💔 she doesn’t like that my son LOVES his dad
That girl is such a cold hearted, ungrateful and rude person. May she never experience that kind of ingratitude in her life
That’s extremely harsh, she clearly feels remorseful and no one in this particular video has done nothing wrong-it started with her feeling abandonment and everything was domino effect falling from there. It’s so important to be sensitive towards people especially when they’re being vulnerable and sharing their problems on a public platform.
Let’s be kind, have a wonderful day💗
I feel this entire thing is the mother's fault and Mel let her off easy. 1st, marrying someone her child never really got to know and adjust to. 2nd, now being married and that child is now an adult, you're not going to come into our house and disrespect my husband. Once your children are grown, your spouse should be the most important person. I even told my son this. That when his mother remarried, her husband comes first because you are a grown man now. Don't put your spouse first when kids are grown the marriage definitely won't work. A wife would expect the same from her husband.
Jonathan Collins totally agree
Maybe she’d have others to rely on for help if she wasn’t so selfish and self-centered.
Yes that girl needs to grow up and take ownership she left her Dads because she couldn’t control him ran back to her Mom because she can control her, now a baby and expects her Mom step up but not the father of the child! She needs a swift kick Moms fault for not giving it to her sooner!
Mel said much that was relatable.
I don't even have a mom or a dad or a step parent (which I wish I had) You don't deserve this mom. I would do anything for a mom like this or just any mom.
I was raised in an orphanage. Home was not an option for me.
This daughter is terrible and VERY insensitive
Alley thinks her mom and stepdad are her personal slaves. Your 20. An adult. So move out . Your parents must pay bills. They can't babysit and baby you.
Mel, this girl needs to move out and stand on her own 2 feet .She also needs her baby's dad to be involved in paying for their child. I'm surprised, you didn't talk to her about moving. She is subjecting her problems on her mom & stepdad. Her mom needs to put her husband 1st now that her daughter is an adult. It's not fair to him. The daughter is taking advantage and is way too selfish and self centered. She acts as if her mom should take care of her the rest of her life!!! This is wrong. Obviously her biological dad has boundaries and that's why she's not living with him. This younger generation feels like they are entitled to have everything and anything THEY want. We all have to go through our own trials and tribulations to learn how to cope in life. She is spoiled and needs to get on with her own life and leave her mom and stepdad alone so that they can live out the rest of their life the way THEY choose. They already raised the daughter. Kick her out of the nest and let her fly or fall. The stepdad is a very nice guy. It's sad he doesn't really have a say so. The mom is wrong for not standing strong together with her husband, as a team. The daughter is wrong for manipulating the situation and causing problems. The stepdad is the victim here. Mel, that daughter needs to go!!! I think she is still going to act out. Next time please encourage the daughter to move out on her own. She will give you a million excuses as to why she can't!! Enabling is not a good thing. Boundaries are needed here and I didn't see you encourage any of that. Step parents get walked on way too much and never have the power to remedy the situation. Please do a show that helps step parents cope better.
I’m the baby father and have tried to be in my child “Liam’s” life for all his 5 years but she held a grudge, lied on my name, assassinated my character and made America as well as her city of Traverse City, Mi believe I was and still am a deadbeat. I’m the opposite. I have custody of my 7 year old daughter (her sons sister) just like Dan said on the show “she holds grudges” and I’m living proof she does. I see my son for 6 hours a months and I drive 12 hours a month to see him because she moved him 3 hours away without my knowledge because I cheated on her. That’s the truth. She has a boyfriend too btw so that grudge is why I hardly get to see my son based off a lied she told to begin with by saying I was abusive when I never ever abused her. She has ruined a lot of time I can’t get back with my son but now we are about to FINALLY have our day in court 💔 she doesn’t like that my son LOVES his dad
That baby-adult needs to get a life 🤔
These woman make their lives harder than it has to be.. DRAMA DARMA! Just move on!! Grow up!!
The daughter needs to hire day care..........
I’m the baby father and have tried to be in my child “Liam’s” life for all his 5 years but she held a grudge, lied on my name, assassinated my character and made America as well as her city of Traverse City, Mi believe I was and still am a deadbeat. I’m the opposite. I have custody of my 7 year old daughter (her sons sister) just like Dan said on the show “she holds grudges” and I’m living proof she does. I see my son for 6 hours a months and I drive 12 hours a month to see him because she moved him 3 hours away without my knowledge because I cheated on her. That’s the truth. She has a boyfriend too btw so that grudge is why I hardly get to see my son based off a lied she told to begin with by saying I was abusive when I never ever abused her. She has ruined a lot of time I can’t get back with my son but now we are about to FINALLY have our day in court 💔 she doesn’t like that my son LOVES his dad
Parents need to be careful about who they bring into the children's lives...........
I'm unsure of why the comments are hating on the girl. She's still young. A kid was clearly not in her plans. She's been through a lot. Her parents' seperation, her mom telling her a stranger is going to be her dad.
And she was fairly understanding of where she was wrong on the show. Telling her to move out like she wouldn't if she could is the most pointless part of these comments that I've seen till date. Cut the woman some slack. There were mistakes made on all ends.
Thank youu! Being sensitive towards others is so important, especially in thai situation there is no One wrong action-it’s all mixed in different things.
I’m the baby father and have tried to be in my child “Liam’s” life for all his 5 years but she held a grudge, lied on my name, assassinated my character and made America as well as her city of Traverse City, Mi believe I was and still am a deadbeat. I’m the opposite. I have custody of my 7 year old daughter (her sons sister) just like Dan said on the show “she holds grudges” and I’m living proof she does. I see my son for 6 hours a months and I drive 12 hours a month to see him because she moved him 3 hours away without my knowledge because I cheated on her. That’s the truth. She has a boyfriend too btw so that grudge is why I hardly get to see my son based off a lied she told to begin with by saying I was abusive when I never ever abused her. She has ruined a lot of time I can’t get back with my son but now we are about to FINALLY have our day in court 💔 she doesn’t like that my son LOVES his dad
so alli is basically a 14 yo raising a baby, great. I personally wouldn't stay in a relationship with a man with kids.. i feel my life has been made a bit better than it would have been otherwise. Life can be hard enough.
This is a serious problem happening within families as stated, the power struggles dynamic of the grown kids causing problems by including the grandkids and the parent of that kid can create a egg shell effect within the family. The step parent lives a life of duality and anxiety.yes understanding and possibly some forgiveness and a meaningful meeting in the middle on both sides will need to take place in order to move forward.
Why did she say her grown daughter is the most important. I feel sorry for her husband. Yucks!!!
I caught that too!!! She should have never married if that is how she felt. That poor man
The husband is nice.......
Thank You. So relate.
Me To ! Step son ended my marriage -
@@beth3561 powerful energy suckers, kids are.
Mine was my/our own son....divorce.
The daughter looks just like Jennifer White!
This daughter needs an attitude adjustment!!! I would keep my goal of retirement at 60!!! I’m legally blind and I didn’t expect my mom to take care of my daughters!!! I’m always asking my daughters about anyone I’m interested in getting involved with!!! They want me to be happy 😆, because their father died!!! I’m the one that is holding back, because I am really afraid 😱 of getting hurt again!!! I’m going to try, and move on with my life, because I deserve to be happy, and my daughters want me to be!!!
Daughter is a self centered entitled brat.
Ungrateful daughter, where is the father of the Baby? She chose to have this baby, work and pay for a babysitter!!!
I’m the baby father and have tried to be in my child “Liam’s” life for all his 5 years but she held a grudge, lied on my name, assassinated my character and made America as well as her city of Traverse City, Mi believe I was and still am a deadbeat. I’m the opposite. I have custody of my 7 year old daughter (her sons sister) just like Dan said on the show “she holds grudges” and I’m living proof she does. I see my son for 6 hours a months and I drive 12 hours a month to see him because she moved him 3 hours away without my knowledge because I cheated on her. That’s the truth. She has a boyfriend too btw so that grudge is why I hardly get to see my son based off a lied she told to begin with by saying I was abusive when I never ever abused her. She has ruined a lot of time I can’t get back with my son but now we are about to FINALLY have our day in court 💔 she doesn’t like that my son LOVES his dad
She needs to grow up!!!
Sis needs to grow up
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So mom can dump the daughter whenever she pleases- her mom was planning on getting married & didn't bother to tell daughter she was dating? I guess it is acceptable to forget that you have children already when you meet a new man & plan your new life, epic fail Mel! Kids are not disposable & it is obvious daughter was supposed to grow up & graduate & get out so that they can retire & move on with their lovely new life.
Mom didn’t tell because she scared of the daughter obviously and what about her father? I’m sure he has moved on she just needs to grow up and raise her child and boss the father of that child which she can’t.
Her daughter is a brad , she needs to take responsibility for her life and her choices.
Ok, so grown adult daughter, and grown adult husband are fighting. So how is any of this the mothers problem? Im sorry but it seems like these two grown adults need to figure their shit out and stop dragging this poor woman into the middle of it.
Carol Allison agreed. the mother messed up in the beginning but it’s obvious shes sorry about it. its between the step dad and daughter she shouldnt be torn in the middle
They rewarded her outbursts with a car, insurance, money and free babysitting.
Brat