Other than my bump I had no symptoms of pregnancy. No morning sickness, No Braxton hicks. I had cravings in the first few weeks which was Orange cordial. Towards the end I had real bad acid reflux and painful hips. I went 4 day's over my due date. I'm pretty good with pain and lasted 6 hours at home in labour then went into hospital. They broke my waters and as soon as they did I went straight to 9cm I had gas and air and a Meptid shot. The cord got stuck around his shoulder so I had to have an Episiotomy, he then came right out. Do what's right for you Madison there are no rules. You sound ready even if you don't feel ready. It does sound like you won't make it to term. I'm so excited for you. You will not take your eyes of her for the first few day's. Enjoy every moment xoxo
i had 4 natural births and 5 c-sections, you do what's right for you. my daughter had my grandchild 2 years ago and had the epidural but it didn't work. she was is awful pain and there wasn't anything i could do...she handles it so well. my son-in-law and i just kept her focused and it was over before she knew it. good luck little one, enjoy and take advantage of the hospital. send the baby to the nursery to get some sleep, you'll have a lifetime with her
1st baby 39 weeks (labored for 23hrs) 2nd baby 37 weeks (labored for 11hrs) 3rd baby 38 weeks (labored for 10hrs) My water broke with none of my kids, and with the last two the doctor broke my water and I dilated from 7cm to 10cm in 5 minutes. The doctor was shocked both times, and the nurse almost had to be the one to deliver them.
I was 90 percent effaced and 3cm dilated for weeks with my first son Zeppelin. And he still went over 2 weeks and 6 days. I hope your little lady is nicer to you! 💛
Yes epidurals are good. My daughter I was in labor for 3 days literally. My son was about 8 hours. But the pain was horrible. And don't let anyone shame you for it either
A woman should have the birth experience she wants. No shaming natural birth, c-sections, epidural and everything in between. Every mama works hard for that baby
My first baby tried coming at 28wks but with strict bedrest, I made it to 38.5wks. He was vaginal with epidural. He came super fast. 5hrs of labor tops! I was 6cms when I got to the hospital so he was quick. My 2nd and 3rd sons were born at 36wks. They were both breech so unfortunately I had to have a c section with them. I also have a deformity of my uterus which is why my babies came earlier than expected. Can’t wait to see baby Ryleigh!! You’re gonna do great!! All the pain will all be worth it and forgotten once she’s in your arms!! 😘💜
I had my first at 37 weeks was laying on my moms couch saying bye to my sister on the phone say she was flying to Italy for a school trip and my water broke I felt so bad but my mom said it was fine and drove me to the hospital. With my second oh she was stubborn I was overdue 41 weeks and a few days. She’d give me contractions for a whole weeks straight 10 mins a part unless I was asleep or eating. Worst week of my life. But in the end it was totally worth it. I love my girls wouldn’t change a thing 💝
When I started my weekly visits at 36 weeks I started out at 90% effaced and around 1 cm dilated, so my dr told me the same thing that it could happen at any minute or not until my due date. But I stayed the same at the rest of my weekly visits until 40 weeks and then was scheduled for an induction because they were worried he was getting too big. Little man decided to show his face the day before I was set to be induced. I had a long labor but the epidural was magic and I only had to push for 15 minutes. I miss those last weeks so much! Enjoy them!
So painful but so worth it! My one and only baby boy I had at 38 weeks, my water broke at home labored for 12 hours and pushed him out in 30 minutes.. he was a 9 pounder lol And I can’t even remember what the pain felt like after my epidural! You got this!!
My first baby was 4 days early , 2nd one was 4 days late, 3rd was 15 days early, 4th was 14 days early and my 5th was 13 days early. Good luck relax and enjoy the ride. You can do it ❤️🙏🏼
Madison, you are so ready for this. I've seen people come into the store to buy their baby furniture AFTER the baby was born. There were also many times when a dad showed up to buy a car seat when mom and baby were ready to come home from the hospital (one amusing guy came to us after visiting two other locations earlier in the day because he didn't like the selection, with his wife calling him repeatedly from the hospital to remind him that they were ready to leave). You are already so far ahead of most of the people I deal with. P.S. I can always identify the new dads because during baby and mom's first day at home, Dad will come to the store asking for nipple cream and nursing pads. I'd stock up now or let Joel know what and where to find them.
Love this! I'm 31 weeks and it helps me so much to watch these cause you are just a little a head of me. It's getting me so excited! My husband is finishing up the lighting and painting baby girls room and I can't wait for him to finish so I can get all her furniture set up.
With both of my kids I went past my DD. My first was born 40 weeks and 4 days and got induced with him. My second was born 40 weeks 2 days and she came all by herself (without induction, that's what I mean). With both I had an epidural and they came fast so I would highly recommend the epidural.
I was in labor 35.5 hours with my son and never went into labor with my daughter. with my son I went into labor about 3 hours before my scheduled induction at 38 weeks and 5 days. My magnesium levels were low so the Pitocin actually slowed my labor down. I also had preeclampsia so my bp was up as well as my heart rate. After 34 hours I was finally fully dialeted and my dr wanted me to push (all the while keeping her eyes on the monitors) I had to have an emergency csection for my health. My son was perfectly healthy at 8 lbs 11 oz and 21 1/4 inches. when I was pregnant with my daughter I told her I was going to potentially go through that all over again... I had her at 39 weeks via csection. She was 6 lbs 14 oz and 19 inches. Its hard not to be nervous and anxious but do try to relax/find your happy place bc the baby can feel your anxiety. You will do wonderful and you and Joel will be amazing parents!
Im so glad that you are sticking to "your" birth plan!!!!! Good for you for knowing your strengths and weaknesses....thats all that matters!!!! You will do great!!!
I’m sooo excited for you!!! My birth plan with my first was to get an epidural too, but it only worked on one side, and then they redid it and it didn’t work at all!! I regretted not looking into natural labor coping techniques just in case. It might be a good idea to watch some natural births or look into some methods just in case-I only warn you because I care!! I hope you have a smooth and healthy delivery!
How exciting that she's almost here!!! My last Dr appt I had before labor I was 1/2 centimeter dilated and I don't remember how effaced I was but my water broke at 2:30 am 12 days before her due date. I never made it past 5 cm during labor and ended up having to have a c-section. Every woman and every labor is definitely so different. I'm praying that everything will go smoothly and safely and can't wait to see her and hear how you're enjoying motherhood!
I don't dilate very well. 3 kids and did not dilate past 1 cm. Had to be induced with my first. The other 2 had to be c sections. One was emergency and the other was planned c. My first baby was exactly on his estimated date .. Valentine's Day! 3.5 hrs labor from injection of inducement meds to crying baby #1! Congratulations and enjoy it all!!! With baby 3, it was my first time ever feeling what contractions were, what my water breaking felt like, and what a mucus plug felt like. My other 2 we're so quick and the second was an emergency c section so I didn't experience a lot of stuff with him. #1 he was 40 weeks #2 he was 40 weeks and 2 days #3 she was 10 days early. My second son wanted to have his birthday the weekend before she was scheduled to be born and she decided she was not gonna miss his birthday. They are 10 days apart in May, but he's 3 yrs older!
Bring movies to watch or your favorite music while your progressing...helps the time to pass more quickly. And getting the epidural is just fine. It can actually help with the contractions, becuz then your body is not fighting them. Good luck Madison. Can't wait to see her. You'll do just fine.
So happy for you Madison! Love how prepared you are, you got this mama! It will all work out. Everything is ok. We’ll still be here watching when you get back from your well deserved break!
Yes! Get the epidural! I have had 5 kids (including twins), and help deliver babies. (Im a respiratory therapist). Go with the epidural. Stick to it haha. It can make things so much more comfortable, so much smoother, and doesnt effect the baby! So happy for you!
I had epidural both my pregnancies. The CRNA that did my epidural also said that she believes having it helps you dilate faster instead of slower. With my daughter I had her at 37 weeks. With my son I had contractions every 5 minites for 2 weeks before I had him at 39 weeks. And yes I went to the hospital but was sent home because I was not progressing with my son. It wasn't braxton hicks, the nurse told me that I'm having real contractions, but could be days before I go on labor because I was barely 1cm dilated. It was hard for me to sleep for many nights.
I gave birth with my oldest daughter at 40+3 - she was 6lb 3 oz My son was 33+1 - he was 5lb 2 oz (he would have been HUGE had he gone full term) And I’m 20 weeks pregnant with our 2nd daughter. I currently am on progesterone and have a cerclage in to keep baby tucked in til hopefully 37 weeks! Hoping for closer to 40! Wishing you a healthy and smooth delivery! You’re beautiful and I’m sure your daughter will be stunning
I’m almost 39 weeks pregnant and a first mom like you we do worry bout him being healthy! My dr told me I was 1cm dilated and I walk a lot so I’m hoping to have him soon I don’t think I will make it to my due date oct 11
I just had my son Thursday, I had to be induced which made my contractions worse than if I had naturally gone into labor. Get the epidural if you can’t handle pain. I can’t either and wow it really helped. Postpartum care is the one thing I would tell you that is so important and not talked about enough. Wow I’m struggling. Look into that. That’s my advice for sure.
I'm glad your on top of things. I have seen kids get hurt by furniture filling on them. You are a great mommy to your little 4 legged babies and new baby girl.
I was 40 weeks and 1 day! Back labor is real. Epidural is amazing. And I never heard anyone mention it, but the peanut ball they give you is great! Best of luck!
I was in labor for about 33 hours, but it ended up being a c-section after regular and vacuum didn’t work. He was born at exactly 40! Weeks! He was put in the NICU for respiratory reasons and had headaches from the vacuum. It was definitely hard, but we got out the same day and now he’s a happy and healthy boy!
I was 4CM with my daughter at 37 weeks. My daughter put me in labor at 39 weeks 5 days. I was in labor for 28hrs the pain was horrible but I did it without medicine but it’s not a bad thing to have an epidural don’t let anyone shame you for it! Can’t wait for more updates!!
My son came a day early and labor was about a 13 hour labor with two hours of pushing! I’m really good with pain but the second I had the real contractions I opted for the epidural lol I’m wishing you a quick and healthy delivery!!
Always listen to your body! Your body will be ready when the baby is ready. The apple will fall from the tree with its ready..or at least that is how the saying goes, she will come when she is wanting out. But I can tell your so ready for her be here, and I cant wait to see her!
Each pregnancy is different. My first was born 19 days before his due date. Fast and easy, my second born wasn't. He was born 9 days before his due date. Long and hard. I was so scared with my first.
She will be here soon. Im so excited for you!! Omg is so close! Glad that you have a birth plan and everything ready Madison. I had 2 sections because of health issues the first one at 38 weeks and the second one at 30 weeks. Aww Ollie is soo cute! Good luck and God Bless you guys! 💖💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
You got this girl! I was 2cm at my 36 week appointment at had my son at 37.5 this past July! With the anxiety just remember to breathe- I have bad anxiety too and the thing that helped me through was to focus on breathing.
I have been following your journey since your first pregnancy update because I am also pregnant but a little further behind you . I am currently 25 weeks and watching your updates gives me an idea of what my future holds lol . I am also scared of labor and pain . But currently I am just experiencing acid reflux and lots of bathroom breaks when I walk anywhere in public. And occasionally I get this twisted cramp in my lower abdomen and it makes me feel dizzy and fainty . Not sure if that’s Braxton Hicks at it’s early stages or baby doing hiccups . I’m a first time mom so I don’t know the reason for everything that goes on in my body even though I read and watch a lot of videos on pregnancy but it’s hard to really connect if what I’m through is what other people are describing online . And I haven’t bought anything for the preparation of baby except two outfits today . Not really sure what it is I need . Luckily I have some friends that have kids already that is planning my baby shower so hopefully they will let me know what to get. I’m excited to meet my baby and I can feel your excitement too :)
I was 38 weeks with my first and 36 with my second. They were both very healthy!!!!! I was induced with my first due to high blood pressure, then went in naturally with my second. I also had an epidural and I'm with ya it made me really be able to be in the moment to where the pain wasn't all my focus. I can't wait, I think you will go this week or next, I can see your ready!!!!!!
She can come any day now... LOL. With my twin girls are 3 and I actually had them at 36 weeks with a planned C-section, but with twins is normal to have them early... And they both came out 5 lb babies and were so healthy... my oldest son is 8 and he was 2 days late, my youngest son turns 7 on October 3rd and he was actually premature I had him almost 2 months early but he is healthy as can be and you would never know that he was a preemie today, and then my oldest daughter just Turn 6 and I believe I had her full term but I had to have a planned C-section due to the emergency C-section I had with my youngest son... But they are all healthy and I couldn't be more happier my babies are my world! 😍👣💞
With my first baby I was like you, I dilated really early and had my son the day I turned 38 weeks. This may be tmi but me and my husband had intercourse the night before and 24 hours later I was in labor, and I was only in labor for 9 hours so it went by pretty quick. Also my midwife told us that semen and intercourse actually helps speed up the labor process so maybe keep that in mind lol. I pray for a easy delivery and a healthy baby. And also I agree with you about living in the those moments with delivery and those first few weeks because it flys by so fast and the next thing you know you will be planning her first birthday. Good luck to you momma❤️
Lol, with my first my husband and I did the same thing. Had intercourse 48 hours before i went into labor..was uncomfortable but fine..did it the night of going into labor at least tried and it was a no go
Honestly, do whatever works for you when it comes to your birth plan. Do what you feel you need, and what feels safe for you. I'm personally going to try going naturally because thats what I want for myself. But thats of course not best for everyone, just like breastfeeding isnt for everyone. I hope you have the best labor experience possible girl. 💕
1st baby was born 2 days before her due date. 2nd baby was born 3 weeks before her due date. My first was an easy delivery and pregnancy my second was a hard pregnancy and delivery. Everybody is different and every pregnancy is different. You're going to do great. 😊
Someone else mentioned it, but it’s worth looking into natural labor techniques just in case. Meditation helped me get the job done and just staying focused. And of course having my husband and Mom there helped :)
I was 36 wks and dilated/effaced haha! I think I’m a week ahead of you. Went to my 37 wk appt this Thursday and was 2cm/75% effaced 😮. Drs say won’t make it to my 10/14 due date and I totally agree with you about staying active. I’ve exercised 5-6 days a week throughout this pregnancy and I swear it’s what’s helped progress things, also. Fingers crossed for us 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼
I’m so glad that I chose to get the epidural. I was able to relax and enjoy the birthing process rather than being in intense pain and agony. More power to those women that do it naturally, but I wasn’t about that life. I just wanted a safe and healthy delivery for both my daughter and myself. However that may be.
I found your channel when I got pregnant, I am due Oct 10! So close to your due date. I went into labor with my first at 40w4d and I really thought I was going to be early. But this pregnancy, my OB said it's easier and quicker the second/consequent time around so we'll see! Im 38w4d today. Good luck and enjoy the rest of your pregnancy!
Just a heads up to be prepared for possibly not being able to get an epidural. My plan was to get one but because things progressed so quickly for me by the time the doctor came in to check me out in order to administer the epidural I was at 9 cm already and it was too late! Too late for pain meds as well. I was a little freaked out but you do what you have to do in the moment and your body sort of just takes over. And he’s my first baby too! They said it was crazy how fast it happened for me, so maybe it was meant to be. But good luck!
Awe ur so close!!! It makes it so much easier when u r already dilated and effaced!!! And I was 4 cm at that stage for my first pregnancy and I went 2 weeks over!!! And epidurals are amazing I was terrified of them so I did all natural with my first 3 and my last I got an epidural and I was shocked how easy it was!!!!
You’re looking so beautiful and glowy🤗✨💖✨!! I love the new bathtub and it’s definitely a more functional one that’s low maintenance, and are used one just like that in my farm sink and I loved it so much!
Hi Madison you look beautiful!! You better pack ur hospital bag and start taking it to every doctors apt. You never know if they will say go to the hospital. That happened to me twice I'm glad I had it! Love ur videos and don't stress so much, she won't mind if you don't have everything done right when she gets here. ❤ you are going to be such a good mom .💙🍼💕
I was induced with my daughter. I was in labor for 44 hours and I gave birth to her at 42 weeks 2 days. I labored for 33 hours before I finally broke down and got the epidural. It was the best option for my body because it aloud me to relax and dilate. My contractions were every minute and lasted for about 50 seconds so I only had 10 second breaks between contractions. It was absolutely brutal!
I'm 19 now but I was 17 when I had my baby and I was 37 weeks pregnant, I had been at 2cm since I was 24 weeks! And I wanted to tell you about my no epidural experience. They asked my birth plan super early and I said I wanted to try not getting an epidural but I knew I would beg for it once I was there so I was probably going to get it, then my mom told me not to get it because it's easier to recover shortly aftet when you don't get it, meaning you'd be in bed longer if you did get the epidural right after having the baby and then another friend of mine said that right after getting hers she passed out because of the pain of the epidural and she didn't get to see her baby for 2 days! Cause she was just going in and out because every time she would wake up she said her spine and legs felt like they were on fire, so them telling me that and my fear of needles I was leaning towards not wanting it more. When the day came I said "give it to me!" But when they checked I was already at 9cm and they stop giving it to you at 7 so I had no choice and instead they have me something that made me lightheaded thru the iv and it was instant, so the pain was still there but I was too high to do anything about it 😂 and when they started telling me to push it started wearing off and I pushed about 9 times and AS SOON as they put her on my chest I forgot EVERYTHING and apparently your brain is designed to do that so you'll want to keep having babies! And my mom was right, I was up and walking around 2 hours later also when you get the epidural there's more of a chance you get a catheter and I didn't have to! The thing about it is that the actual pushing out didn't hurt as much as the contractions for me, and mom's I've asked say the same thing, idk if it's the same for everyone but I think the most pain you'll feel anyway would happen before the epidural kicks in, also I was driving to the hospital and a friend texted me to tell my bf to drive over bumps so my water would break and I thought "that's ridiculous!" And didn't even tell him but we lived on a dirt road and he was speeding a little so he goes over this bump and as soon as the truck lands guess what happened? 😂
Same with the epidural. Needles are virtually painless (due to me have 23+ piercings) but other pain I'm a wuss. And if I get vaginal pain it makes my anxiety sky rocket.
So excited to meet you're baby girl. I'm also pregnant with a baby girl due in January and you're videos really help! Where did you get the crib sheet from and the cloud mobile? 💖
Epidural really saved me, i was so tired before it, and it gave me another boost of energy. But hopefully you get a easy birth, i was in labor for 34 hours and it was the worst experience of my life. But i wasnt opening, and that was the problem, so the fact that you are 2 cm open allready you are going to have a easy one, im sure 😊 and dont be scared of the pain, just remember to breathe, and your going to be fine 😘 im so exited for you guys 🤗❤️ and when i went to labor i was at 40+0 weeks 😊
If you are just buying a mobile to look pretty, that one is good, but if you actually want it to play music etc, it’s better to get an electronic one. I originally had a beautiful mobile but then when the baby actually started sleeping in her crib, I realized you had to crank it to get it to play and it only lasted a very short time. Ended up switching it for one that you turn on the switch and it plays for 45 min and then goes off on its own. It also has a night light feature. My baby loved it!! Although it wasn’t as pretty, it worked much better for us!
My 1st pregnancy my won came 5 days early :) I worked up until the day before I had him and I truly believe that's why my labor was so easy was being so busy while pregnant. Good luck momma ♡♡ it's an amazing experience! I have 3 handsome boys now and all deliveries were different. I did it natural but wanted an epidural if I asked but it all went so fast it didn't happen haha. My last baby I got to the hospital at 650am and he came at 656am!
With my first son, I made it to 38 weeks exactly. 19 1/2 hours with an epidural that didn’t work until it was redone. With my second son, I made it to 36+6. I was only in labor for 3 to 3 1/2 hours and didn’t have time to get the epidural. I think it went quicker because I didn’t. I felt a lot better after my 2nd than I did after my 1st. I was dilated or effaced with either of them at any of the weekly checks. In fact, the last appointment with my 2nd son, the doctor said I might even go past my due date. I had him 2 days later.
I'm almost 10 weeks pregnant and I'm high risk. Due to complications with my 2 second pregnancy (I'm on my 4th pregnancy baby #5) my doctor says I have to have a c section. I wanna wish you luck and send my love and support.
Your due date should be 2 days ahead of my. First time mom having a girl here. Good luck with everything. And I’m with you on that anxiety and stress thinking about labor.
Almost there girly! First time mom here, just had my baby in july. I had to be induced at 41 weeks and 3 days...I thought I had all the symptoms of labor but he just wouldn't come. Good luck 💕
My first pregnancy I was 1cm and 20% at 32 weeks. At 36 I was 4cm and 70%. I had my son 42 weeks and 5 days. I was in labor for 30 hours.. I left the hospital 2 day after having him.. I wish you luck Madison and cant wait to see the baby girl..
I loved my blooming bath! We just put it in the dryer on the spin cycle after each use and it was super convenient!! We also had that bath you just got & never used it 🤷🏼♀️
Just so everyone knows it might not be coming that soon. I was 8cm dialated for 3 weeks when I finally gave birth. My baby was very low yet I still didn’t give birth until three weeks later.
I'm glad you're being so real about knowing you're body and pain meds. You also might be having lots of BM's because the baby is pushing on your large intestine. So my first child I started having labor pains on Thanksgiving which was no fun cause I wanted to eat lol. But I ended up having my baby boy the following Thursday and 11 days early, I tried having him with no pain meds but I ended up having an emergency C-Section as his heart rate was dropping. Baby was fine and I was good. Wishing you the best luck and a healthy delivery. XOXO Reece from AZ
I delivered at 37 weeks with baby #1 and I was 4cm for like 2 weeks. I had my 37 week dr appointment the day before I went into labor but for some reason my dr didn't think my cramping pains was contractions or say anything about my high blood pressure that ended up being preeclampsia that put me into labor.
Other than my bump I had no symptoms of pregnancy. No morning sickness, No Braxton hicks. I had cravings in the first few weeks which was Orange cordial. Towards the end I had real bad acid reflux and painful hips. I went 4 day's over my due date. I'm pretty good with pain and lasted 6 hours at home in labour then went into hospital. They broke my waters and as soon as they did I went straight to 9cm I had gas and air and a Meptid shot. The cord got stuck around his shoulder so I had to have an Episiotomy, he then came right out. Do what's right for you Madison there are no rules. You sound ready even if you don't feel ready. It does sound like you won't make it to term. I'm so excited for you. You will not take your eyes of her for the first few day's. Enjoy every moment xoxo
i had 4 natural births and 5 c-sections, you do what's right for you. my daughter had my grandchild 2 years ago and had the epidural but it didn't work. she was is awful pain and there wasn't anything i could do...she handles it so well. my son-in-law and i just kept her focused and it was over before she knew it. good luck little one, enjoy and take advantage of the hospital. send the baby to the nursery to get some sleep, you'll have a lifetime with her
Michelle Millikan Woah you have 9 children?
1st baby 39 weeks (labored for 23hrs)
2nd baby 37 weeks (labored for 11hrs)
3rd baby 38 weeks (labored for 10hrs)
My water broke with none of my kids, and with the last two the doctor broke my water and I dilated from 7cm to 10cm in 5 minutes. The doctor was shocked both times, and the nurse almost had to be the one to deliver them.
I was 90 percent effaced and 3cm dilated for weeks with my first son Zeppelin. And he still went over 2 weeks and 6 days. I hope your little lady is nicer to you! 💛
Yes epidurals are good. My daughter I was in labor for 3 days literally. My son was about 8 hours. But the pain was horrible. And don't let anyone shame you for it either
A woman should have the birth experience she wants. No shaming natural birth, c-sections, epidural and everything in between. Every mama works hard for that baby
My first baby tried coming at 28wks but with strict bedrest, I made it to 38.5wks. He was vaginal with epidural. He came super fast. 5hrs of labor tops! I was 6cms when I got to the hospital so he was quick.
My 2nd and 3rd sons were born at 36wks. They were both breech so unfortunately I had to have a c section with them.
I also have a deformity of my uterus which is why my babies came earlier than expected.
Can’t wait to see baby Ryleigh!! You’re gonna do great!! All the pain will all be worth it and forgotten once she’s in your arms!! 😘💜
I had my first at 37 weeks was laying on my moms couch saying bye to my sister on the phone say she was flying to Italy for a school trip and my water broke I felt so bad but my mom said it was fine and drove me to the hospital. With my second oh she was stubborn I was overdue 41 weeks and a few days. She’d give me contractions for a whole weeks straight 10 mins a part unless I was asleep or eating. Worst week of my life. But in the end it was totally worth it. I love my girls wouldn’t change a thing 💝
When I started my weekly visits at 36 weeks I started out at 90% effaced and around 1 cm dilated, so my dr told me the same thing that it could happen at any minute or not until my due date. But I stayed the same at the rest of my weekly visits until 40 weeks and then was scheduled for an induction because they were worried he was getting too big. Little man decided to show his face the day before I was set to be induced. I had a long labor but the epidural was magic and I only had to push for 15 minutes. I miss those last weeks so much! Enjoy them!
So painful but so worth it! My one and only baby boy I had at 38 weeks, my water broke at home labored for 12 hours and pushed him out in 30 minutes.. he was a 9 pounder lol And I can’t even remember what the pain felt like after my epidural! You got this!!
My first baby was 4 days early , 2nd one was 4 days late, 3rd was 15 days early, 4th was 14 days early and my 5th was 13 days early. Good luck relax and enjoy the ride. You can do it ❤️🙏🏼
I think it’s completely normal to be anxious about everything. I really wish you the very best!!! Love you
Madison, you are so ready for this. I've seen people come into the store to buy their baby furniture AFTER the baby was born. There were also many times when a dad showed up to buy a car seat when mom and baby were ready to come home from the hospital (one amusing guy came to us after visiting two other locations earlier in the day because he didn't like the selection, with his wife calling him repeatedly from the hospital to remind him that they were ready to leave). You are already so far ahead of most of the people I deal with. P.S. I can always identify the new dads because during baby and mom's first day at home, Dad will come to the store asking for nipple cream and nursing pads. I'd stock up now or let Joel know what and where to find them.
Love this! I'm 31 weeks and it helps me so much to watch these cause you are just a little a head of me. It's getting me so excited! My husband is finishing up the lighting and painting baby girls room and I can't wait for him to finish so I can get all her furniture set up.
With both of my kids I went past my DD. My first was born 40 weeks and 4 days and got induced with him. My second was born 40 weeks 2 days and she came all by herself (without induction, that's what I mean). With both I had an epidural and they came fast so I would highly recommend the epidural.
Omg I’m so excited for Baby Ryleigh to be here!!!
Hello Madison! This was a wonderful update thank you I can't believe how close you are! :)
I was in labor 35.5 hours with my son and never went into labor with my daughter. with my son I went into labor about 3 hours before my scheduled induction at 38 weeks and 5 days. My magnesium levels were low so the Pitocin actually slowed my labor down. I also had preeclampsia so my bp was up as well as my heart rate. After 34 hours I was finally fully dialeted and my dr wanted me to push (all the while keeping her eyes on the monitors) I had to have an emergency csection for my health. My son was perfectly healthy at 8 lbs 11 oz and 21 1/4 inches. when I was pregnant with my daughter I told her I was going to potentially go through that all over again... I had her at 39 weeks via csection. She was 6 lbs 14 oz and 19 inches. Its hard not to be nervous and anxious but do try to relax/find your happy place bc the baby can feel your anxiety. You will do wonderful and you and Joel will be amazing parents!
All the best Madison ...and just be positive about everything💕
Really loving your updates. I was 40+9 when I went into labour with my baby girl. She is 4 now and time has flown so fast. Enjoy every moment! X
Omg you're so close and I'm so excited for you! I can't wait till your baby girl comes to the world and I love your pregnancy updates 💖
I’m actually really excited! Praying for a safe delivery❤️❤️
This was so sweet, I love that you’re prioritizing the baby ❤️❤️
Im so glad that you are sticking to "your" birth plan!!!!! Good for you for knowing your strengths and weaknesses....thats all that matters!!!! You will do great!!!
I’m sooo excited for you!!! My birth plan with my first was to get an epidural too, but it only worked on one side, and then they redid it and it didn’t work at all!! I regretted not looking into natural labor coping techniques just in case. It might be a good idea to watch some natural births or look into some methods just in case-I only warn you because I care!! I hope you have a smooth and healthy delivery!
How exciting that she's almost here!!! My last Dr appt I had before labor I was 1/2 centimeter dilated and I don't remember how effaced I was but my water broke at 2:30 am 12 days before her due date. I never made it past 5 cm during labor and ended up having to have a c-section. Every woman and every labor is definitely so different. I'm praying that everything will go smoothly and safely and can't wait to see her and hear how you're enjoying motherhood!
I don't dilate very well. 3 kids and did not dilate past 1 cm. Had to be induced with my first. The other 2 had to be c sections. One was emergency and the other was planned c. My first baby was exactly on his estimated date .. Valentine's Day! 3.5 hrs labor from injection of inducement meds to crying baby #1! Congratulations and enjoy it all!!! With baby 3, it was my first time ever feeling what contractions were, what my water breaking felt like, and what a mucus plug felt like. My other 2 we're so quick and the second was an emergency c section so I didn't experience a lot of stuff with him. #1 he was 40 weeks #2 he was 40 weeks and 2 days #3 she was 10 days early. My second son wanted to have his birthday the weekend before she was scheduled to be born and she decided she was not gonna miss his birthday. They are 10 days apart in May, but he's 3 yrs older!
Bring movies to watch or your favorite music while your progressing...helps the time to pass more quickly. And getting the epidural is just fine. It can actually help with the contractions, becuz then your body is not fighting them. Good luck Madison. Can't wait to see her. You'll do just fine.
So happy for you Madison! Love how prepared you are, you got this mama! It will all work out. Everything is ok. We’ll still be here watching when you get back from your well deserved break!
Yes! Get the epidural! I have had 5 kids (including twins), and help deliver babies. (Im a respiratory therapist). Go with the epidural. Stick to it haha. It can make things so much more comfortable, so much smoother, and doesnt effect the baby! So happy for you!
80% effaced is awesome! That's more progress than dilation. I'm guessing it will be a fast labor when she comes.
OLLIE IS SO CUTE I WANT HIM!!! ❤️❤️❤️😭
I had epidural both my pregnancies. The CRNA that did my epidural also said that she believes having it helps you dilate faster instead of slower. With my daughter I had her at 37 weeks. With my son I had contractions every 5 minites for 2 weeks before I had him at 39 weeks. And yes I went to the hospital but was sent home because I was not progressing with my son. It wasn't braxton hicks, the nurse told me that I'm having real contractions, but could be days before I go on labor because I was barely 1cm dilated. It was hard for me to sleep for many nights.
I am so happy for you! I can only imagine how excited you and your family must be! Hopefully you have a very easy delivery. Thanks for the updates!
I gave birth with my oldest daughter at 40+3 - she was 6lb 3 oz
My son was 33+1 - he was 5lb 2 oz (he would have been HUGE had he gone full term)
And I’m 20 weeks pregnant with our 2nd daughter. I currently am on progesterone and have a cerclage in to keep baby tucked in til hopefully 37 weeks! Hoping for closer to 40!
Wishing you a healthy and smooth delivery! You’re beautiful and I’m sure your daughter will be stunning
I’m almost 39 weeks pregnant and a first mom like you we do worry bout him being healthy! My dr told me I was 1cm dilated and I walk a lot so I’m hoping to have him soon I don’t think I will make it to my due date oct 11
FTM too ! Due the 24th! So excited it's October!
I guess my baby boy don’t want to come out yet I’ve tried everything n my water don’t break
I just had my son Thursday, I had to be induced which made my contractions worse than if I had naturally gone into labor. Get the epidural if you can’t handle pain. I can’t either and wow it really helped. Postpartum care is the one thing I would tell you that is so important and not talked about enough. Wow I’m struggling. Look into that. That’s my advice for sure.
I'm glad your on top of things. I have seen kids get hurt by furniture filling on them. You are a great mommy to your little 4 legged babies and new baby girl.
Ya I love your baby update!! I’m due in jan with a baby girl and your videos are so helpful
Aww congrats!!! 💕💕
I'm due in January with a baby girl too! :) Madison's videos are amazing and so helpful!
Alison Hagen sweet when in Jan are u due
Jesseca Ritchie Jan 15. And she’s my first baby 😄 what about you??
Alison Hagen Jan 22 with my first baby girl also
38 weeks for my daughter is such a blessing. Wishing you the best love you
I was 40 weeks and 1 day! Back labor is real. Epidural is amazing. And I never heard anyone mention it, but the peanut ball they give you is great! Best of luck!
So happy for ya keep us posted and spoil her rotten
I was in labor for about 33 hours, but it ended up being a c-section after regular and vacuum didn’t work. He was born at exactly 40! Weeks! He was put in the NICU for respiratory reasons and had headaches from the vacuum. It was definitely hard, but we got out the same day and now he’s a happy and healthy boy!
I was 4CM with my daughter at 37 weeks. My daughter put me in labor at 39 weeks 5 days. I was in labor for 28hrs the pain was horrible but I did it without medicine but it’s not a bad thing to have an epidural don’t let anyone shame you for it! Can’t wait for more updates!!
My son came a day early and labor was about a 13 hour labor with two hours of pushing! I’m really good with pain but the second I had the real contractions I opted for the epidural lol I’m wishing you a quick and healthy delivery!!
I'm so so excited to see the baby😊😊
Always listen to your body! Your body will be ready when the baby is ready. The apple will fall from the tree with its ready..or at least that is how the saying goes, she will come when she is wanting out. But I can tell your so ready for her be here, and I cant wait to see her!
Each pregnancy is different. My first was born 19 days before his due date. Fast and easy, my second born wasn't. He was born 9 days before his due date. Long and hard.
I was so scared with my first.
You’re soo close! The swan mobile is adorable. You’re going to be a sweet and amazing mommy. Love you. 👶🏼💕👶🏼💕👶🏼💕👶🏼
I’m soo excited for you guys!! ❤️❤️
She will be here soon. Im so excited for you!! Omg is so close! Glad that you have a birth plan and everything ready Madison. I had 2 sections because of health issues the first one at 38 weeks and the second one at 30 weeks. Aww Ollie is soo cute! Good luck and God Bless you guys! 💖💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
You got this girl! I was 2cm at my 36 week appointment at had my son at 37.5 this past July! With the anxiety just remember to breathe- I have bad anxiety too and the thing that helped me through was to focus on breathing.
I’m so happy for you both!! Try to stay calm- it’s out of your control!! Rest and Ryleigh will be here soon!
My son came 3 weeks early. Motherhood is such a blessing girl, I’m so excited for you. My son just turned 7 & it’s so fun!
I have been following your journey since your first pregnancy update because I am also pregnant but a little further behind you . I am currently 25 weeks and watching your updates gives me an idea of what my future holds lol . I am also scared of labor and pain . But currently I am just experiencing acid reflux and lots of bathroom breaks when I walk anywhere in public. And occasionally I get this twisted cramp in my lower abdomen and it makes me feel dizzy and fainty . Not sure if that’s Braxton Hicks at it’s early stages or baby doing hiccups . I’m a first time mom so I don’t know the reason for everything that goes on in my body even though I read and watch a lot of videos on pregnancy but it’s hard to really connect if what I’m through is what other people are describing online . And I haven’t bought anything for the preparation of baby except two outfits today . Not really sure what it is I need . Luckily I have some friends that have kids already that is planning my baby shower so hopefully they will let me know what to get. I’m excited to meet my baby and I can feel your excitement too :)
So excited for you and Joel!! ❤️❤️💕😍💕
I was 38 weeks with my first and 36 with my second. They were both very healthy!!!!! I was induced with my first due to high blood pressure, then went in naturally with my second. I also had an epidural and I'm with ya it made me really be able to be in the moment to where the pain wasn't all my focus. I can't wait, I think you will go this week or next, I can see your ready!!!!!!
😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱 it’s almost that time for baby girls arrival. Yay! 🎉
She can come any day now... LOL. With my twin girls are 3 and I actually had them at 36 weeks with a planned C-section, but with twins is normal to have them early... And they both came out 5 lb babies and were so healthy... my oldest son is 8 and he was 2 days late, my youngest son turns 7 on October 3rd and he was actually premature I had him almost 2 months early but he is healthy as can be and you would never know that he was a preemie today, and then my oldest daughter just Turn 6 and I believe I had her full term but I had to have a planned C-section due to the emergency C-section I had with my youngest son... But they are all healthy and I couldn't be more happier my babies are my world! 😍👣💞
I’m loving the nursery! This video made my day. 💐💐💐💐
At home births seem like such an intense experience! 😲
With my first baby I was like you, I dilated really early and had my son the day I turned 38 weeks. This may be tmi but me and my husband had intercourse the night before and 24 hours later I was in labor, and I was only in labor for 9 hours so it went by pretty quick. Also my midwife told us that semen and intercourse actually helps speed up the labor process so maybe keep that in mind lol. I pray for a easy delivery and a healthy baby. And also I agree with you about living in the those moments with delivery and those first few weeks because it flys by so fast and the next thing you know you will be planning her first birthday. Good luck to you momma❤️
Lol, with my first my husband and I did the same thing. Had intercourse 48 hours before i went into labor..was uncomfortable but fine..did it the night of going into labor at least tried and it was a no go
Honestly, do whatever works for you when it comes to your birth plan. Do what you feel you need, and what feels safe for you. I'm personally going to try going naturally because thats what I want for myself. But thats of course not best for everyone, just like breastfeeding isnt for everyone. I hope you have the best labor experience possible girl. 💕
1st baby was born 2 days before her due date. 2nd baby was born 3 weeks before her due date. My first was an easy delivery and pregnancy my second was a hard pregnancy and delivery. Everybody is different and every pregnancy is different. You're going to do great. 😊
Someone else mentioned it, but it’s worth looking into natural labor techniques just in case. Meditation helped me get the job done and just staying focused. And of course having my husband and Mom there helped :)
I was 36 wks and dilated/effaced haha! I think I’m a week ahead of you. Went to my 37 wk appt this Thursday and was 2cm/75% effaced 😮. Drs say won’t make it to my 10/14 due date and I totally agree with you about staying active. I’ve exercised 5-6 days a week throughout this pregnancy and I swear it’s what’s helped progress things, also. Fingers crossed for us 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼
I’m so glad that I chose to get the epidural. I was able to relax and enjoy the birthing process rather than being in intense pain and agony. More power to those women that do it naturally, but I wasn’t about that life. I just wanted a safe and healthy delivery for both my daughter and myself. However that may be.
I love how open you are about the TMI part... Hardly no one will share that its nice to know youtubers "are still human" lol
I found your channel when I got pregnant, I am due Oct 10! So close to your due date. I went into labor with my first at 40w4d and I really thought I was going to be early. But this pregnancy, my OB said it's easier and quicker the second/consequent time around so we'll see! Im 38w4d today. Good luck and enjoy the rest of your pregnancy!
Just a heads up to be prepared for possibly not being able to get an epidural. My plan was to get one but because things progressed so quickly for me by the time the doctor came in to check me out in order to administer the epidural I was at 9 cm already and it was too late! Too late for pain meds as well. I was a little freaked out but you do what you have to do in the moment and your body sort of just takes over. And he’s my first baby too! They said it was crazy how fast it happened for me, so maybe it was meant to be. But good luck!
Awe ur so close!!! It makes it so much easier when u r already dilated and effaced!!! And I was 4 cm at that stage for my first pregnancy and I went 2 weeks over!!! And epidurals are amazing I was terrified of them so I did all natural with my first 3 and my last I got an epidural and I was shocked how easy it was!!!!
I’m so excited for you!! 😊💕💕
You’re looking so beautiful and glowy🤗✨💖✨!! I love the new bathtub and it’s definitely a more functional one that’s low maintenance, and are used one just like that in my farm sink and I loved it so much!
You look incredible Maddy! I'm so excited for you :D
Hi Madison you look beautiful!! You better pack ur hospital bag and start taking it to every doctors apt. You never know if they will say go to the hospital. That happened to me twice I'm glad I had it! Love ur videos and don't stress so much, she won't mind if you don't have everything done right when she gets here. ❤ you are going to be such a good mom .💙🍼💕
I was induced with my daughter. I was in labor for 44 hours and I gave birth to her at 42 weeks 2 days. I labored for 33 hours before I finally broke down and got the epidural. It was the best option for my body because it aloud me to relax and dilate. My contractions were every minute and lasted for about 50 seconds so I only had 10 second breaks between contractions. It was absolutely brutal!
I’m first finally 💗 what baby app update do you use ? Btw I love your blogs
The bump 😊💕
I watch every single pregnancy video! 💕 I can’t believe you’re baby will be here soon already ☺️ I’m almost 28 weeks now.
Due with my 2nd but first girl on Nov 24th! Love to watch all the baby videos, makes me even more excited to have a girl!
I'm 19 now but I was 17 when I had my baby and I was 37 weeks pregnant, I had been at 2cm since I was 24 weeks! And I wanted to tell you about my no epidural experience. They asked my birth plan super early and I said I wanted to try not getting an epidural but I knew I would beg for it once I was there so I was probably going to get it, then my mom told me not to get it because it's easier to recover shortly aftet when you don't get it, meaning you'd be in bed longer if you did get the epidural right after having the baby and then another friend of mine said that right after getting hers she passed out because of the pain of the epidural and she didn't get to see her baby for 2 days! Cause she was just going in and out because every time she would wake up she said her spine and legs felt like they were on fire, so them telling me that and my fear of needles I was leaning towards not wanting it more. When the day came I said "give it to me!" But when they checked I was already at 9cm and they stop giving it to you at 7 so I had no choice and instead they have me something that made me lightheaded thru the iv and it was instant, so the pain was still there but I was too high to do anything about it 😂 and when they started telling me to push it started wearing off and I pushed about 9 times and AS SOON as they put her on my chest I forgot EVERYTHING and apparently your brain is designed to do that so you'll want to keep having babies! And my mom was right, I was up and walking around 2 hours later also when you get the epidural there's more of a chance you get a catheter and I didn't have to! The thing about it is that the actual pushing out didn't hurt as much as the contractions for me, and mom's I've asked say the same thing, idk if it's the same for everyone but I think the most pain you'll feel anyway would happen before the epidural kicks in, also I was driving to the hospital and a friend texted me to tell my bf to drive over bumps so my water would break and I thought "that's ridiculous!" And didn't even tell him but we lived on a dirt road and he was speeding a little so he goes over this bump and as soon as the truck lands guess what happened? 😂
Good luck Madison with your pregnancy 🤰!! You will do good in the name of God!!!
37 weeks and was 8 centimeters dialated when I got to the hospital. I was in active labor for 4 and 1/2 hours and only had to push for 30 mins.
Same with the epidural. Needles are virtually painless (due to me have 23+ piercings) but other pain I'm a wuss. And if I get vaginal pain it makes my anxiety sky rocket.
I'm really so happy for you maddy.. 💐 can't wait to see her..
So excited to meet you're baby girl. I'm also pregnant with a baby girl due in January and you're videos really help! Where did you get the crib sheet from and the cloud mobile? 💖
I literally have all the same symptoms you feel. That lightening crotch is no joke it’s so uncomfortable !
Love the Vlog Madison! 💕 I know you and Joel can't wait to meet your beautiful baby girl 🤰🏼👶🏼🎀💞 I know your birth will go really well 🙏🏽🙏🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽
Epidural really saved me, i was so tired before it, and it gave me another boost of energy. But hopefully you get a easy birth, i was in labor for 34 hours and it was the worst experience of my life. But i wasnt opening, and that was the problem, so the fact that you are 2 cm open allready you are going to have a easy one, im sure 😊 and dont be scared of the pain, just remember to breathe, and your going to be fine 😘 im so exited for you guys 🤗❤️ and when i went to labor i was at 40+0 weeks 😊
With my first baby i was stuck at 1 cm dilated for like 2 months. I knew i wasnt gonna make the due date. He ended up coming 2 weeks early
If you are just buying a mobile to look pretty, that one is good, but if you actually want it to play music etc, it’s better to get an electronic one. I originally had a beautiful mobile but then when the baby actually started sleeping in her crib, I realized you had to crank it to get it to play and it only lasted a very short time. Ended up switching it for one that you turn on the switch and it plays for 45 min and then goes off on its own. It also has a night light feature. My baby loved it!! Although it wasn’t as pretty, it worked much better for us!
My 1st pregnancy my won came 5 days early :) I worked up until the day before I had him and I truly believe that's why my labor was so easy was being so busy while pregnant. Good luck momma ♡♡ it's an amazing experience!
I have 3 handsome boys now and all deliveries were different. I did it natural but wanted an epidural if I asked but it all went so fast it didn't happen haha. My last baby I got to the hospital at 650am and he came at 656am!
So excited for you! Xx
With my first son, I made it to 38 weeks exactly. 19 1/2 hours with an epidural that didn’t work until it was redone. With my second son, I made it to 36+6. I was only in labor for 3 to 3 1/2 hours and didn’t have time to get the epidural. I think it went quicker because I didn’t. I felt a lot better after my 2nd than I did after my 1st.
I was dilated or effaced with either of them at any of the weekly checks. In fact, the last appointment with my 2nd son, the doctor said I might even go past my due date. I had him 2 days later.
I'm almost 10 weeks pregnant and I'm high risk. Due to complications with my 2 second pregnancy (I'm on my 4th pregnancy baby #5) my doctor says I have to have a c section. I wanna wish you luck and send my love and support.
Your due date should be 2 days ahead of my. First time mom having a girl here. Good luck with everything. And I’m with you on that anxiety and stress thinking about labor.
Almost there girly! First time mom here, just had my baby in july. I had to be induced at 41 weeks and 3 days...I thought I had all the symptoms of labor but he just wouldn't come. Good luck 💕
My first pregnancy I was 1cm and 20% at 32 weeks. At 36 I was 4cm and 70%. I had my son 42 weeks and 5 days. I was in labor for 30 hours.. I left the hospital 2 day after having him.. I wish you luck Madison and cant wait to see the baby girl..
I loved my blooming bath! We just put it in the dryer on the spin cycle after each use and it was super convenient!! We also had that bath you just got & never used it 🤷🏼♀️
Just so everyone knows it might not be coming that soon. I was 8cm dialated for 3 weeks when I finally gave birth. My baby was very low yet I still didn’t give birth until three weeks later.
I'm glad you're being so real about knowing you're body and pain meds. You also might be having lots of BM's because the baby is pushing on your large intestine. So my first child I started having labor pains on Thanksgiving which was no fun cause I wanted to eat lol. But I ended up having my baby boy the following Thursday and 11 days early, I tried having him with no pain meds but I ended up having an emergency C-Section as his heart rate was dropping. Baby was fine and I was good. Wishing you the best luck and a healthy delivery. XOXO Reece from AZ
That bath is THE BEST.
I delivered at 37 weeks with baby #1 and I was 4cm for like 2 weeks. I had my 37 week dr appointment the day before I went into labor but for some reason my dr didn't think my cramping pains was contractions or say anything about my high blood pressure that ended up being preeclampsia that put me into labor.