I fucking hate when someone tries to take their life and other people go “Oh, how selfish, what about their family and friends?” Like NO. That is NOT who you should be worrying about. You should be worrying about the person who almost fucking died. I just find it so frustrating seeing someone talk about how selfish the person trying to take their own life is. Like the person does not need your unnecessary comments. They’re already struggling with something and you’d just be making it worse. If you really cared about the person, you would try to help them. Not comment some unnecessary shit like “They’re just doing it for attention.” Sorry if I sounded aggressive. It just grinds my gears when people say this idiotic shit. This is only my opinion and you can have your own and I’d be happy to discuss any disagreements. But yeah, thanks for reading this and I hope you enjoy the rest of your day/night!
I AGREE TOO THE MAX LUKE WHY THEIR NOT BEING SELFISH THEY HAVE THEOR OWN PROBLEMS SOMETIMES THEOR FAMIKY OR FREINDS ARE THE REASON THEY ARE TRY TO COMMIT FUCKING SUICIDE IF YOU ARE ONE OF THEM STOP IT Not the person who I’m replying to btw it’s for anyone who reads my comment
Preach dude. Preach. I hate how ppl who don't understand mental health just brush it off and make fun of us who actually are dealing with rhis shit. Why can't ppl just understand....if you don't have something nice to say, Dont say it at all...
This has nothing to do with the family around them, it’s about the person who is struggling. How could people believe that this is their fault. I hope that they are okay (whether it is a skit or vent) and willneventually get better and not feel they need to commit. :( 🌺
I told my dad that one time I actually wanted to... do le poof (I dont have a better way to censor it, sorry) (also it was only momentary, I'm okay now!) and his first response was to call it selfish and "the coward's way out". And he wonders why I don't want to spend time with him 😃 It's like parents think you don't consider everyone else when you want to do something like that. Sorry if this counts as a vent 😅
@@khoi_0918 no no! I do that too, you can always wish the family the best but if someone commits, it’s obvious they were struggling and it should be focused on the poor fellow that felt the need to end there life, to get out of the struggles and guilt, stress, hate, bullying, disorder, bad self esteem, whatever they faced.
Sir…. People are people…. What they saw is what they believe…. What they heard is what they thought… It very normal and might be good or very bad sometimes… That the moral of the story… But Don’t mind me too much cause I’m an idiot. :)
People are always like “Oh your family is gonna be upset” “Oh but they’ll be heartbroken” but have to ever considered what the actual person is feeling? Have you ever considered why they wanna do this? You should be caring about the person and helping them cope with their problem instead of caring for their family more.
Holy shit. This is so accurate that I'm concerned about you. I overdosed 3 months ago and after that everyone started making everything about themselves. I haven't attended school since then and stopped meeting people. Although I do understand how hard it must be for my mom and I shouldn't be so selfish. I still feel bad. No matter how much I forced myself into thinking that it was my fault that everyone is having trouble and I did it for a petty reason. I really would've been happy to receive some support at that time instead of stuff like "doesn't she feel bad?" "Oh my god, poor
I’m so sorry you had/have to go through that! Hopefully you’ll get more positive and caring people in your life that can help you while you help yourself! Take care of yourself, mentally and physically!!
No- it’s not understandable, as someone from a poor family (and my best friends family is homeless) we all are in therapy, cause we’re all not okay and especially if you had just od, than it’s not understandable, please don’t think that, also you were not selfish, you were not being mean, as someone who has had to learn that about myself and my situation, it’s not your fault at all.
This is a real problem and when someone commits an act like this it's not supposed to be about the family. Cleary the person was struggling and needs support. Not for someone to call her selfish, and pray for her family. You should make and effort to make THAT PERSON is ok.
Ugh, society is so selfish they only care when it affects them and their life not anyone else. I wish you the best just remember you’re not selfish for trying to do that people are horrible to say you were. Your family should be glad your alive and not complain cause I bet you are a wonderful person and you matter so much. People care, we love you :) so please keep being strong and brave and keep fighting. I hope youre doing better now.
God I feel so bad for Mia It's sad to think this is such a common reaction when people are in so much pain they try to take the hardest route out of it, lucky they survive. Just upsetting to think people forget that just because they survive doesn't mean their happy . . .
I don't know whether this is just a of skit but either way, are you ok? If you ever need someone to talk to we are here, and make sure to take care of yourself and stay strong! Either way the editing was amazing and you did a really good job! Have a good day!
I really hope you're fine and this isn't how things are going in real life but still. Please remember that you're never alone even if you feel like you are. There is always someone who will love you. The people who talk shit about you are just not worth it so don't try to please them. You're precious and you're worth it even if you can't see it yourself, the more you start focusing on yourself and not things others tell you to do the sooner you might be able to realize it yourself.
People are so insensitive and if this is a vent, I’m so sorry this happened. I get your pain, I truly do. But I want you to know that you’re not alone. There are still so many people out there who love you, and some might not know it yet. but we’re all here for you. Be safe, anything can get better at some point.💕
I'm not sure if this is a vent, but to those who are struggling with this, I know it's going to be hard, people tell you to try think of others when right now you need to be thinking of yourself, believe it or not you have a chance at a lot of things. You just have to choose the right one, do what YOU like and only for YOUR sake
This relates to me and if this was a vent, I really hope you're doing fine! It's not about the people around, it's about the person who is suffering. Maybe you could even feel selfish, but you aren't, you just try to find a way to escape. I send you all my support and I really love your channel
thank you so much! and I’m so sorry that you relate to this but hopefully you’ll start feeling better! Take care of yourself! And remember mental health is also very important
I had an A/S recently and all my family talked about was how heartbroken they would have been and how they would have felt and how my _friends_ would have felt. This really ticks me off because I felt alone and horrible and all they cared about was themselves.
People don’t realize why they did this? All they care about is the “friends and family” but, what about the person who did this. It’s terrible that someone would do that, but taking behind their back and calling them selfish just makes that person feel even worse. If this is a vent btw, I hope your ok now❤️
Hope you're ok ❤️ The "funny" part is that they made it all about themselves when they aren't the one struggling with that situation The video is really well made and portraits well that kind of situation
I don’t have an experience like this but I have the exact opposite. Recently, I was in a mental hospital two times in one month. And god damn am I happy this didn’t happen to me. There were only a couple people who were like, “rooting for the family!” Thank god, but I have mad respect for anyone who had to go through this.
I hate it when people say that ‘what about your family’ or ‘that’s selfish think about others’ like shouldn’t you be worrying about the person instead of the people around them 🤨
IMPORTANT MESSAGE BEFORE YOU READ: I AM NOT A DOCTOR I DONT KNOW ANY PROFESSIONAL ADVICE I JUST THOUGHT THIS WOULD HELP. im crying and just know if you feel like this tell someone you trust with all your heart and if you don't have someone like that tell someone you know maybe a complete stranger that you know will be welcoming and not blame you if you have a phone call kids help line or anything like that i just hope you know that its ok and it will get better you just have to trust the time and talk to a person get your bad emotions out and try think positive if you cant eat start with a small meal or just a little snack like some fruit maybe not something with a lot of bad sugars and start to build up your appetite and soon maybe a little longer than that you should start feeling better getting better im really sorry if this doesn't help but talk to your doctor and what not.
It’s the fact that the people asking are you ok or are talking about mia and herself either say these things and never take their own advice for theirselves, have been through it, or are saying those things for clout..
This had terrified me because I thought this was a vent, but either way I’m glad you made this off an actual scenario that happens. I thankfully cannot relate but sometimes finding videos you can relate to comforts people. I don’t quite know how, but I’m sure you’re helping a lot of people with this video.
I really hate that things like this actually happen. People shouldn't make someone else's pain all about them, THEYRE the ones being selfish. I hope you are okay.
The reason this almost made me cry because this is almost like my real life, except- no I never overdosed, but still, it actually hurts the fact your the victim, your the one going through the trauma, somehow they make it about themselves instead and pity the family and friends only, and the parents just wants us to be normal and perfect. At least, what I feel. Sorry for venting here on accident- have a good day and stay safe! Merry Christmas
You go through this and you're still here, without over dosing, having the courage to vent it out. That makes you strong. you are strong. keep fighting!! you're rainbow will come someday. storms won't last forever. It's their fault for not seeing that you're the victim. 😊
Overdosing is quite painful- I almost did that I had to crawl to my sink for water since I was the only one home it like takes away your air painfully it’s not nice 😕
I am so sorry. I don't know what your going though, but I know what it's like to see someone do that. I hope that you are getting the help that you/if want. Just know that you are no alone in this world and you are loved.
I have heard some say "what about their family because of something stupid they did u do know that there are ups and downs in life right?" It just make me fucking mad.When I say that their family wasn't there when they were going through or they just don't wanna burden their family.They would have did this because it could have been too much of shit in life for them to take .But they would go "still" it just make me furious when some people feel bad for the person's family instead of the actual person going through this. Sorry if my English is bad it's not my native language.
It’s sad because I know people this has happened to I’m glad she’s getting better and finding coping mechanisms to stop her from doing it again may what ever god you believe in bless you
It sad to know that some people doubt the sad child and worry about their family members instead. like, maybe if you just helped they wouldn't need to know that its disgusting how people make fun of that and how parents say things like 'I wish she was normal' or 'how could you do that' its obviously because their sad, instead try sitting with them, comforting them and talking to them.
it's sad how some people think of the family and bills and trying to keep her happy when not actually talking to her. they want to make her happy but not genuinely
i swear those people are so annoying like What the hell is wrong with humanity this is why so much people die more often because there so insensitive and so annoying like stop saying "ur so selfish" and think about the person ur hurting like imagine someone calls u selfish of course u would feel bad and thats what ue exactly doing to the person ur hurting!!
Wow the first bit about overdosing reminds me of my best friend who overdoses all the time and endes up in hospital:( I’m sorry what your going through
(TW: mentions of OD) I went through something like this a few months back, I ran into the girls bathroom with whatever pills I had in my bag, luckily my best friend knew what I was trying to do and called a teacher to help me and word spread quick about “how could you not think of your family or friends?!” When in reality it’s you who needs help and needs emotional support. For those who read this and are going through a hard time don’t hesitate to ask for help, your emotions are valid and you deserve love and care no matter where you are, where you come from or what your story is, you matter in this world. Stay safe out there
Why is this to relatable .... Tw: SA I did my first suicide attempt in 2020 i was so tired of everything, my mom was so scared she took me to the hospital and everything when we came back she manage again to turn everything against me telling me " you're a coward" "did you think what people will think of us?!" "How could you do this to me?!? What about me?! I'm not important to you?!" Like I'm so tired like that was exactly the kind of act that maked me feel bad.... just like i did that they forget about everything and like that i redid a second attempt in 2021....i got out but again my mom slapped me, said "What are those useless things you're doing?!" ....now idk what to do anymore Everytime I say I'm tired to make her react she's like " oh please what are you tired about? I'm the one who should be saying so" Well if anyone read this I'm very happy that you heard my story, well bye!
If this is a vent, Or even if it isn’t. Please keep in mind that lots of people love you! You’re worth it! Society is just blind. I absolutely hate it when people don’t care if anyone ever wanted to take there own life. People are rude. You deserve the worl💞
no matter how hard I convince my self to end it, I cant seem to do it, because my mom trusts me a lot, I have a friend overseas who I cant leave without saying anything, I don't want my mother's dreams and hope for me and my sister to get crushed, my parents would do anything they can to get us to the college they got into and I'm grateful for it, please don't end your life, there are a lot of people who needs you and are waiting for you, I hope everything is going well for you!
The world is much better with you in it! Stay strong and don’t let other people crush you down! Make sure to get the help you need and remember to take a day off if you really need it as long as you are allowed to! And I hope you feel better, I’ve had similar experiences like this to in the past. I haven’t acted on it and don’t plan to and I’ve also gotten the help I need, and I hope you have too! Sending good and positive vibes your way.
Something that I have seen go through my schools is that kids who are struggling with this stuff are caring and kind and do everything for other people and then as soon as they start to no longer care they get called selfish or all these things but when you're going through something like that then obviously at one point you will get tired of hiding it that's how my mom found out I had anxiety it was just too much to keep in at that point they aren't selfish they're tired of it just it isn't selfish to take time off for your mental health its extremely important but I can't really say anything since I for some reason CANT TAKE MY OWN FRICKEN ADVISE but just saying
Also P.S. the mom fricken sucks "why couldn't Mia just have been born normal" like I said I have anxiety but that's because my mom has anxiety mental health issues are somewhat genetic so if your child is going through something maybe look into other people in the family's mental health also if it isn't genetic she wasnt born oddly she is normal well nobody's "normal" but y'know what I mean something probably happened people at school, age, phobias, literally almost anything can trick a person into falling into that deep dark hole of depression and other mental health disorders so like stfu
This is so accurate my step dad overdosed 4-5 years ago and and people were like “ I wonder what his family thinks about this” and “he’s a terrible father” I know it’s wrong to do that but he was going through a really bad state in his mental health back then and I’m now 14 and he has been sober for about 4 years now and is a great dad to both of my siblings and me and also working on adopting me so he’s doing much better!!
I tried overdosing and obviously I survived but I wish I never attempted… people were so upset about it and the mental hospital was HELL (the hospital wasn’t bad though, I got yummy food and the people there were nice). I’m glad people have moved on from that though.
i hate when people say someone is selfish when they attempt, the person attempting isn’t selfish but the people who made them attempt are selfish cause they didn’t care enough for the person. Anyway, i hope you’re okay if this is a vent, i’m proud of you no matter what even though i don’t know you, keep going and i promise it’ll be better sooner or later
I hope your ok. :( if this is a vent, I promise that things get better! Whether thats tomorrow, or in the future. Stay strong, I believe you can get through this.
TW! . . . . . when I tried telling my sister I wanted to die and try to explain she butted in saying I was ungrateful and selfish to want to leave I was so shocked and heart broken I didn’t know what to say
I hate when someone tries to take their life and people are like: I feel bad for the people who love them like they probably feel so hurt right now that is NOT what it's about if you're going to say that you feel bad for someone than feel bad for the person that is going through that.
This is so relatible for me, I'm so sorry if this is a vent because I get what it's like not to be asked "Are you doing alright", I'm currently in one of those toxic friendships and the girl just vents to me but never ask's if I'm doing okay and she kinda said she doesn't care about me so I absolutly understand what it's like to feel no one cares about you and yout mental health.
I’m so sorry you’re going through that, hopefully the friend understands and starts caring if not try to cut them from your life! I get that it’s hard but people like that really suck and are very draining to be with.
Hope you’re ok! I feel sad at times but then I go to my friends for advice they always help me 😊 if you don’t have any friends remember we are all here never leaving your side🤞🏼
The fact that these things happen, it’s so… like I don’t even have a word for how stupid people can be for blaming the person going through the trauma making their parents worried. At least the victim is alive and well, people shouldnt be saying this sh-t if the person was dead, but that doesn’t make it ok to say it if they’re alive.
If this is a vent I hope ur doing okay, If u ever need someone to vent to or even talk to Im here and all the others, we In the comments and all the subscribers are here to make sure ur doing okay! Ur perfect, everyone is perfect in different ways
So quick little uh- storytime about how terrible my school was to a few kids who tried to take their lives and the one who succceded. (May they rest in peace and I hope to whatever the heck's out there causes the ones who drove them to it to feel terrible pain) So after all the attempts happened, the ones who needed the help the most were getting all of these comments from teachers like "I hope your parents are okay" "that was really stupid you know you could have died!" (The 2nd one from my COUNSELOR to me after my hanging attempt-i'm doing much better now by the way) and there were all of these posters saying that taking your life wouldnt end the pain just pass it on to someone else and "THink about how others would feel if you offed yourself" THAT WAS IN MY HEALTH CLASS DURING A LESSON MY TEACHER ASKED THAT QUESTION AND I- So the gsa and a few other clubs who were like "what the actual fuck is happening this is not okay that's victim blaming" so we ripped down all of the posters and made new ones, and ended up speaking out in class when teachers talked to victims like that. We also had an event related to that, for anyone who was feeling down or going through something terrible, just so they know they matter and that there are people who are about THEIR heath and not how terrible thoughts like that could "affect other people" their the ones going through it not the families. We have a tribute to the person who ened their life in the gsa, they were an amazing person and may they rest in peace. Our school changed mostly for the better, but I know some people are still going through things like this. And i just want you to know, If your feeling like ending your own life is the only option, try talking to some people who support you or doing something you love! You can also do something reckless because this is your life, and we don't live for long so make it count! If you can't do any of those things and you need someone to talk to, my dm's are always open! (Fyi i'm not that great at comforting people, but I can send you some videos and memes that make me feel better, and just be there to listen
Well I’m so sorry you and the others had to go through that but I’m glad you’re doing better! Hopefully they’ll also see better days soon. It is sad that people victim blame WAY TO MUCH but hopefully they’ll learn and start becoming better people. Anyways take care of yourself, mentally and physically!
If you're having problems right now here are some things you can do: Talk to a close one or therapist. Go outside and take a break from blue light ( Phones, computers, ect ect) Listen to music , do something that's fun! (like going to an funfair, stuff that you like) I know its not that easy, but don't harm you're self I'm not going to lie and say that It is okay, But I can promise you that one day it will get better. Suicide is final you can't undo it . You only have one chance to live use it wise. Please stay strong.
Awe I hope you feel better and those mean people stop those comments because we love you and would hate for something to happen to you lots of love ❤️ here I’ll send a hug to you 😊= 🙁
I really hope things are going smoother for you, and I’M SO SORRY that those people made it about them when you were dying. I’m sorry. I hope it gets better.
Most of the time people don't notice what they can do to another person and it can really hurt them, no one should ever blame you for something you have no control over when you're in a dark place, it's heartbreaking that the reality of it all is when you do something to hurt yourself and people find out about it and it spreads is "I heard this guy did this, the poor parents this must have been traumatizing for them" Sure, the people involved all get an impact from their perspective but it's more important to be concerned about YOUR health, YOUR safety, YOUR well-being Since you are the one most affected by it, your life was literally on the line! It's either that or it's better for them to just shut the fuck up and let the people involved handle it themselves I hope you go past this and gain your strength back and feel at peace, we're all human, we falter but I know you can persevere, don't let them get you down
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People suck. They don't think about what their saying and make people feel at fault when their the victim. They feel bad for others when your the one that needs support. Remember many people love your content and will be there for you if you need their help. Don't let anybody get to you. Its not your fault that they are sad . You are okay and well that's the point. And now they know you need support. I hope others realize that it's not your fault your not feeling well mentally and stops blaming you. You make many others happy and that's why they will be there for you . I know that much because of all the comments comforting you. I may have just seen you in my fy page but just from looking in the comments, I know that everyone subscribed to you care for you and always wishes you well. I hope you are okay.
You are perfect. I just found your channel and i dont think its right for people to say all those things like: Oh they should have died. Or: Nobody would care if they died. they need to stop that. They don't think about people's feelings! It's rude, unkind, and its unfair! I HATE those people, because they either just CARES about THEMSELVES, or just wants to get a "good reaction". I have someone who kinda.. harasses me? He's not that kind.. yeah.. but i know he is only doing that to get a reaction from me. So I do support you. Really! Don't let them bring you down! You have 52k subs! I could NEVER do that, and some of those people who are unkind to you can't either. You are an amazing youtuber! Good luck with everything!
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I fucking hate when someone tries to take their life and other people go “Oh, how selfish, what about their family and friends?” Like NO. That is NOT who you should be worrying about. You should be worrying about the person who almost fucking died. I just find it so frustrating seeing someone talk about how selfish the person trying to take their own life is. Like the person does not need your unnecessary comments. They’re already struggling with something and you’d just be making it worse. If you really cared about the person, you would try to help them. Not comment some unnecessary shit like “They’re just doing it for attention.” Sorry if I sounded aggressive. It just grinds my gears when people say this idiotic shit. This is only my opinion and you can have your own and I’d be happy to discuss any disagreements. But yeah, thanks for reading this and I hope you enjoy the rest of your day/night!
I agree but SWEAR ALERT
I AGREE TOO THE MAX LUKE WHY THEIR NOT BEING SELFISH THEY HAVE THEOR OWN PROBLEMS SOMETIMES THEOR FAMIKY OR FREINDS ARE THE REASON THEY ARE TRY TO COMMIT FUCKING SUICIDE IF YOU ARE ONE OF THEM STOP IT
Not the person who I’m replying to btw it’s for anyone who reads my comment
@@artwithtillie7640 bro nobody cares about swears 😭 its a 13+ app
Yes. I agree with EVERYTHING you stated. They can flip off
Preach dude. Preach. I hate how ppl who don't understand mental health just brush it off and make fun of us who actually are dealing with rhis shit. Why can't ppl just understand....if you don't have something nice to say, Dont say it at all...
This has nothing to do with the family around them, it’s about the person who is struggling. How could people believe that this is their fault. I hope that they are okay (whether it is a skit or vent) and willneventually get better and not feel they need to commit. :( 🌺
yea... wgen people hear that ur suicidal the fiest thing they will say why are u so selfish? what do u think ur family will react if u die?...
I told my dad that one time I actually wanted to... do le poof (I dont have a better way to censor it, sorry) (also it was only momentary, I'm okay now!) and his first response was to call it selfish and "the coward's way out". And he wonders why I don't want to spend time with him 😃
It's like parents think you don't consider everyone else when you want to do something like that.
Sorry if this counts as a vent 😅
@@khoi_0918 no no! I do that too, you can always wish the family the best but if someone commits, it’s obvious they were struggling and it should be focused on the poor fellow that felt the need to end there life, to get out of the struggles and guilt, stress, hate, bullying, disorder, bad self esteem, whatever they faced.
Sir….
People are people….
What they saw is what they believe….
What they heard is what they thought…
It very normal and might be good or very bad sometimes…
That the moral of the story…
But Don’t mind me too much cause I’m an idiot. :)
If this is a vent p, I just hope your ok! Your beautiful and who cares what people might say and be yourself we love you💞
DW IM FINE!!
@@mi3hell4 💖😁
@@mi3hell4 phew, I just found this channel and thought it was you
That’s a huge relief
@@mi3hell4 oh thank gosh, I’m glad you’re okay
@@mi3hell4*You have yours subs, your fans and friends.*
People are always like “Oh your family is gonna be upset” “Oh but they’ll be heartbroken” but have to ever considered what the actual person is feeling? Have you ever considered why they wanna do this? You should be caring about the person and helping them cope with their problem instead of caring for their family more.
Yes! Exactly! People can be so careless and annoying.
@@dearestwither234 we*
Also, what if they have a bad relationship with their parents, that's going to make them feel 10x worse
i do agree, but it is important to realise that people who overdose can cause a lot of stress to family. its not bad to think about the family
Holy shit. This is so accurate that I'm concerned about you.
I overdosed 3 months ago and after that everyone started making everything about themselves. I haven't attended school since then and stopped meeting people. Although I do understand how hard it must be for my mom and I shouldn't be so selfish. I still feel bad. No matter how much I forced myself into thinking that it was my fault that everyone is having trouble and I did it for a petty reason. I really would've been happy to receive some support at that time instead of stuff like "doesn't she feel bad?" "Oh my god, poor
I’m so sorry you had/have to go through that! Hopefully you’ll get more positive and caring people in your life that can help you while you help yourself! Take care of yourself, mentally and physically!!
@@mi3hell4 thank you so much! I'm alot better now so I don't have any more su!c!dal thoughts
No- it’s not understandable, as someone from a poor family (and my best friends family is homeless) we all are in therapy, cause we’re all not okay and especially if you had just od, than it’s not understandable, please don’t think that, also you were not selfish, you were not being mean, as someone who has had to learn that about myself and my situation, it’s not your fault at all.
I’m so sorry you went through that. I’m proud of you for getting through it . Just remember your a treasure that nobody can compare to 💕💖💝
Dang, I’m sorry for you. I hope you meet someone that makes you feel better, and it’s not your fault.
This is a real problem and when someone commits an act like this it's not supposed to be about the family. Cleary the person was struggling and needs support. Not for someone to call her selfish, and pray for her family. You should make and effort to make THAT PERSON is ok.
Yes! This is WHAT you’re actually supposed to do!!
I know like-
Wait- that’s what supposed to happen?
Now I feel cheated
I feel like comforting the person who is struggling is just common sense, but apparently it’s not.
Wait I’m confused.
@@renxv woah what happened to you buddy? You need to talk to someone?
Ugh, society is so selfish they only care when it affects them and their life not anyone else. I wish you the best just remember you’re not selfish for trying to do that people are horrible to say you were. Your family should be glad your alive and not complain cause I bet you are a wonderful person and you matter so much. People care, we love you :) so please keep being strong and brave and keep fighting. I hope youre doing better now.
God I feel so bad for Mia
It's sad to think this is such a common reaction when people are in so much pain they try to take the hardest route out of it, lucky they survive. Just upsetting to think people forget that just because they survive doesn't mean their happy . . .
Yeah same, the reason I did this was because this usually happens in real life
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I don't know whether this is just a of skit but either way, are you ok? If you ever need someone to talk to we are here, and make sure to take care of yourself and stay strong!
Either way the editing was amazing and you did a really good job! Have a good day!
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Thank you very much!!
and Hello!
@@mi3hell4 I’m glad!
Make sure to take care of yourself either way!
Have a great week!
@@gacha-atlas Aww thanks and you too!!
I really hope you're fine and this isn't how things are going in real life but still. Please remember that you're never alone even if you feel like you are. There is always someone who will love you. The people who talk shit about you are just not worth it so don't try to please them. You're precious and you're worth it even if you can't see it yourself, the more you start focusing on yourself and not things others tell you to do the sooner you might be able to realize it yourself.
People are so insensitive and if this is a vent, I’m so sorry this happened. I get your pain, I truly do. But I want you to know that you’re not alone. There are still so many people out there who love you, and some might not know it yet. but we’re all here for you. Be safe, anything can get better at some point.💕
They all suddenly start caring when you actually do something to yourself.
I'm not sure if this is a vent, but to those who are struggling with this, I know it's going to be hard, people tell you to try think of others when right now you need to be thinking of yourself, believe it or not you have a chance at a lot of things. You just have to choose the right one, do what YOU like and only for YOUR sake
This relates to me and if this was a vent, I really hope you're doing fine! It's not about the people around, it's about the person who is suffering. Maybe you could even feel selfish, but you aren't, you just try to find a way to escape. I send you all my support and I really love your channel
thank you so much! and I’m so sorry that you relate to this but hopefully you’ll start feeling better! Take care of yourself! And remember mental health is also very important
I had an A/S recently and all my family talked about was how heartbroken they would have been and how they would have felt and how my _friends_ would have felt. This really ticks me off because I felt alone and horrible and all they cared about was themselves.
People don’t realize why they did this? All they care about is the “friends and family” but, what about the person who did this. It’s terrible that someone would do that, but taking behind their back and calling them selfish just makes that person feel even worse. If this is a vent btw, I hope your ok now❤️
Hope you're ok ❤️
The "funny" part is that they made it all about themselves when they aren't the one struggling with that situation
The video is really well made and portraits well that kind of situation
I don’t have an experience like this but I have the exact opposite. Recently, I was in a mental hospital two times in one month. And god damn am I happy this didn’t happen to me. There were only a couple people who were like, “rooting for the family!” Thank god, but I have mad respect for anyone who had to go through this.
I hate it when people say that ‘what about your family’ or ‘that’s selfish think about others’ like shouldn’t you be worrying about the person instead of the people around them 🤨
don't stay for what others will say!you are yourself you are beautiful the way you are you must like you as you are!
This song is amazing omg
The story, character designs and everything look rlly nice!
Good job on this :]
THANK YOUU
IMPORTANT MESSAGE BEFORE YOU READ: I AM NOT A DOCTOR I DONT KNOW ANY PROFESSIONAL ADVICE I JUST THOUGHT THIS WOULD HELP.
im crying and just know if you feel like this tell someone you trust with all your heart and if you don't have someone like that tell someone you know maybe a complete stranger that you know will be welcoming and not blame you if you have a phone call kids help line or anything like that i just hope you know that its ok and it will get better you just have to trust the time and talk to a person get your bad emotions out and try think positive if you cant eat start with a small meal or just a little snack like some fruit maybe not something with a lot of bad sugars and start to build up your appetite and soon maybe a little longer than that you should start feeling better getting better im really sorry if this doesn't help but talk to your doctor and what not.
It’s the fact that the people asking are you ok or are talking about mia and herself either say these things and never take their own advice for theirselves, have been through it, or are saying those things for clout..
This had terrified me because I thought this was a vent, but either way I’m glad you made this off an actual scenario that happens. I thankfully cannot relate but sometimes finding videos you can relate to comforts people. I don’t quite know how, but I’m sure you’re helping a lot of people with this video.
I really hate that things like this actually happen.
People shouldn't make someone else's pain all about them, THEYRE the ones being selfish.
I hope you are okay.
The reason this almost made me cry because this is almost like my real life, except- no I never overdosed, but still, it actually hurts the fact your the victim, your the one going through the trauma, somehow they make it about themselves instead and pity the family and friends only, and the parents just wants us to be normal and perfect. At least, what I feel. Sorry for venting here on accident- have a good day and stay safe! Merry Christmas
same
You go through this and you're still here, without over dosing, having the courage to vent it out. That makes you strong. you are strong. keep fighting!! you're rainbow will come someday. storms won't last forever. It's their fault for not seeing that you're the victim. 😊
Overdosing is quite painful- I almost did that I had to crawl to my sink for water since I was the only one home it like takes away your air painfully it’s not nice 😕
Part 2 pls this is really good
Aww thanks!!
@@mi3hell4 your welcome🤗
Aw this was super sad but amazing video!!
Thank you!
I hope you feel better. There are people mistreating you, but remember that there are some people that care ^^
I am so sorry. I don't know what your going though, but I know what it's like to see someone do that. I hope that you are getting the help that you/if want.
Just know that you are no alone in this world and you are loved.
Woahh! This is so well done! The animations are smooth, the designs are simple but amazing, and all for a few second sound clip- THIS is talent-
I have heard some say "what about their family because of something stupid they did u do know that there are ups and downs in life right?" It just make me fucking mad.When I say that their family wasn't there when they were going through or they just don't wanna burden their family.They would have did this because it could have been too much of shit in life for them to take .But they would go "still" it just make me furious when some people feel bad for the person's family instead of the actual person going through this. Sorry if my English is bad it's not my native language.
I cant tell you how much I want to just give her a hug and tell her everything is going to be okay
Wish someone did that for me when I was struggling
We are the same, omfg, like that's exactly what happened to me...
It’s sad because I know people this has happened to I’m glad she’s getting better and finding coping mechanisms to stop her from doing it again may what ever god you believe in bless you
I LOVE IT. Amazing as always!!
U have me in tears I am not just saying that I am!!! PART 2 PLZ
AWW THANK YOU SO MUCH
I swear bro your videos are amazing⁉️⁉️
AWW THANK YOUU
It sad to know that some people doubt the sad child and worry about their family members instead. like, maybe if you just helped they wouldn't need to know that its disgusting how people make fun of that and how parents say things like 'I wish she was normal' or 'how could you do that' its obviously because their sad, instead try sitting with them, comforting them and talking to them.
it's sad how some people think of the family and bills and trying to keep her happy when not actually talking to her. they want to make her happy but not genuinely
I hope you’re okay no one deserves to get hurt like that so many times!
Whatever happens just know you have us by ur side 1,000% ✨
I can't explain to you how relatable this is, good job 🤌✨
This is so relatable but it hurts like fuck
Hope you’re doing well now
WOAA THE CHARACTER DESIGNS ARE SO COOL! THEY'RE NOT TOO MUCH DETAIL, JUST PERFECT AHH
okay sorry that was loud
AWW THANK YOU
i swear those people are so annoying like What the hell is wrong with humanity this is why so much people die more often because there so insensitive and so annoying like stop saying "ur so selfish" and think about the person ur hurting like imagine someone calls u selfish of course u would feel bad and thats what ue exactly doing to the person ur hurting!!
I dont cry too easy but this make me cry-
Wow the first bit about overdosing reminds me of my best friend who overdoses all the time and endes up in hospital:(
I’m sorry what your going through
I’m so sorry about your friend! Make sure to give them love and care as it can really help them ( of course only if they are comfortable with it!! )
(TW: mentions of OD)
I went through something like this a few months back, I ran into the girls bathroom with whatever pills I had in my bag, luckily my best friend knew what I was trying to do and called a teacher to help me and word spread quick about “how could you not think of your family or friends?!” When in reality it’s you who needs help and needs emotional support. For those who read this and are going through a hard time don’t hesitate to ask for help, your emotions are valid and you deserve love and care no matter where you are, where you come from or what your story is, you matter in this world. Stay safe out there
Why is this to relatable
.... Tw: SA
I did my first suicide attempt in 2020 i was so tired of everything, my mom was so scared she took me to the hospital and everything when we came back she manage again to turn everything against me telling me " you're a coward" "did you think what people will think of us?!" "How could you do this to me?!? What about me?! I'm not important to you?!" Like I'm so tired like that was exactly the kind of act that maked me feel bad.... just like i did that they forget about everything and like that i redid a second attempt in 2021....i got out but again my mom slapped me, said "What are those useless things you're doing?!" ....now idk what to do anymore Everytime I say I'm tired to make her react she's like " oh please what are you tired about? I'm the one who should be saying so"
Well if anyone read this I'm very happy that you heard my story, well bye!
that happened to me at school in 4th grade,most boys whispered about me when i look at them
the feeling of wanting to die but can't because you love your mom and she might become crazy or depressed.
If this is a vent, Or even if it isn’t. Please keep in mind that lots of people love you! You’re worth it! Society is just blind. I absolutely hate it when people don’t care if anyone ever wanted to take there own life. People are rude. You deserve the worl💞
i promised myself to never cry again so they dont worry about me but this one make me cry be yourself we love you💕
I really hope you are doing ok...To know problems like these are common really breaks my heart.....
no matter how hard I convince my self to end it, I cant seem to do it, because my mom trusts me a lot, I have a friend overseas who I cant leave without saying anything, I don't want my mother's dreams and hope for me and my sister to get crushed, my parents would do anything they can to get us to the college they got into and I'm grateful for it, please don't end your life, there are a lot of people who needs you and are waiting for you, I hope everything is going well for you!
The world is much better with you in it! Stay strong and don’t let other people crush you down! Make sure to get the help you need and remember to take a day off if you really need it as long as you are allowed to! And I hope you feel better, I’ve had similar experiences like this to in the past. I haven’t acted on it and don’t plan to and I’ve also gotten the help I need, and I hope you have too! Sending good and positive vibes your way.
Something that I have seen go through my schools is that kids who are struggling with this stuff are caring and kind and do everything for other people and then as soon as they start to no longer care they get called selfish or all these things but when you're going through something like that then obviously at one point you will get tired of hiding it that's how my mom found out I had anxiety it was just too much to keep in at that point they aren't selfish they're tired of it just it isn't selfish to take time off for your mental health its extremely important but I can't really say anything since I for some reason CANT TAKE MY OWN FRICKEN ADVISE but just saying
Also P.S. the mom fricken sucks "why couldn't Mia just have been born normal" like I said I have anxiety but that's because my mom has anxiety mental health issues are somewhat genetic so if your child is going through something maybe look into other people in the family's mental health also if it isn't genetic she wasnt born oddly she is normal well nobody's "normal" but y'know what I mean something probably happened people at school, age, phobias, literally almost anything can trick a person into falling into that deep dark hole of depression and other mental health disorders so like stfu
Holy sh!t this made me cry so hard- I WANNA HUG THIS PERSON, IF ITS YOU *sending virtual hugs*
Where gonna need a full on mini movie on this one character
Best way to deal with that is to
Focus more on your mental health and taking a long break from any socials
Yep, I agree! Being social can be very draining so always make sure to make time for yourself to help relax!
You never know what someone is going through unless you experience it yourself people always judge😡
This is so accurate my step dad overdosed 4-5 years ago and and people were like “ I wonder what his family thinks about this” and “he’s a terrible father” I know it’s wrong to do that but he was going through a really bad state in his mental health back then and I’m now 14 and he has been sober for about 4 years now and is a great dad to both of my siblings and me and also working on adopting me so he’s doing much better!!
I’m sorry that you have to go through that i hope your doing alright pls don’t listen to them your amazing
‘Normal is the worst insult, honey im extra’
-Chi Chi De Vayne
I tried overdosing and obviously I survived but I wish I never attempted… people were so upset about it and the mental hospital was HELL (the hospital wasn’t bad though, I got yummy food and the people there were nice). I’m glad people have moved on from that though.
i hate when people say someone is selfish when they attempt, the person attempting isn’t selfish but the people who made them attempt are selfish cause they didn’t care enough for the person. Anyway, i hope you’re okay if this is a vent, i’m proud of you no matter what even though i don’t know you, keep going and i promise it’ll be better sooner or later
I hope your ok. :( if this is a vent, I promise that things get better! Whether thats tomorrow, or in the future. Stay strong, I believe you can get through this.
People are just like that,
sorry we can't help you,
please continue to go on,
you'll be thankful to your past self one day
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when I tried telling my sister I wanted to die and try to explain she butted in saying I was ungrateful and selfish to want to leave I was so shocked and heart broken I didn’t know what to say
I am so sorry she did that to you! I hope you’re ok, no one should ever go through that!
@@mi3hell4 thank you so much you to!
I’m so sorry.
and this video had great editing i could never
thank you!
Don't worry she is nice the brown hair is pretty nice the blue eyes are pretty the black shirt is pretty
SORRY LMAO I WAS ABOUT TO HAVE A MENTAL BREAKDOWN AND THEN THE OUTRO CAME XDDDD IM DYINGG LMAO
I hate when someone tries to take their life and people are like: I feel bad for the people who love them like they probably feel so hurt right now that is NOT what it's about if you're going to say that you feel bad for someone than feel bad for the person that is going through that.
This is so good! 🌻
Thank you!
This is so relatible for me, I'm so sorry if this is a vent because I get what it's like not to be asked "Are you doing alright", I'm currently in one of those toxic friendships and the girl just vents to me but never ask's if I'm doing okay and she kinda said she doesn't care about me so I absolutly understand what it's like to feel no one cares about you and yout mental health.
I’m so sorry you’re going through that, hopefully the friend understands and starts caring if not try to cut them from your life! I get that it’s hard but people like that really suck and are very draining to be with.
@@mi3hell4 Thank you, bless your soul.
Hope you’re ok! I feel sad at times but then I go to my friends for advice they always help me 😊 if you don’t have any friends remember we are all here never leaving your side🤞🏼
I know the feeling.
Have courage.
The fact that these things happen, it’s so… like I don’t even have a word for how stupid people can be for blaming the person going through the trauma making their parents worried. At least the victim is alive and well, people shouldnt be saying this sh-t if the person was dead, but that doesn’t make it ok to say it if they’re alive.
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dont worry girl were here for you😁
This was so sad😕 but I loved it!
I’m glad you loved it!!
I don't know why people write things about people who are already having a hard time. I hope you are doing good. ❤
If this is a vent I hope ur doing okay, If u ever need someone to vent to or even talk to Im here and all the others, we In the comments and all the subscribers are here to make sure ur doing okay! Ur perfect, everyone is perfect in different ways
"Why couldn't she just have been born normal" I felt that, my father said it to me :(
YOUR VIDEOS ALWAYS SO GOOD!! 🤩
Thank you!!
So quick little uh- storytime about how terrible my school was to a few kids who tried to take their lives and the one who succceded. (May they rest in peace and I hope to whatever the heck's out there causes the ones who drove them to it to feel terrible pain)
So after all the attempts happened, the ones who needed the help the most were getting all of these comments from teachers like "I hope your parents are okay" "that was really stupid you know you could have died!" (The 2nd one from my COUNSELOR to me after my hanging attempt-i'm doing much better now by the way) and there were all of these posters saying that taking your life wouldnt end the pain just pass it on to someone else and "THink about how others would feel if you offed yourself" THAT WAS IN MY HEALTH CLASS DURING A LESSON MY TEACHER ASKED THAT QUESTION AND I-
So the gsa and a few other clubs who were like "what the actual fuck is happening this is not okay that's victim blaming" so we ripped down all of the posters and made new ones, and ended up speaking out in class when teachers talked to victims like that. We also had an event related to that, for anyone who was feeling down or going through something terrible, just so they know they matter and that there are people who are about THEIR heath and not how terrible thoughts like that could "affect other people" their the ones going through it not the families. We have a tribute to the person who ened their life in the gsa, they were an amazing person and may they rest in peace.
Our school changed mostly for the better, but I know some people are still going through things like this. And i just want you to know, If your feeling like ending your own life is the only option, try talking to some people who support you or doing something you love! You can also do something reckless because this is your life, and we don't live for long so make it count! If you can't do any of those things and you need someone to talk to, my dm's are always open! (Fyi i'm not that great at comforting people, but I can send you some videos and memes that make me feel better, and just be there to listen
Well I’m so sorry you and the others had to go through that but I’m glad you’re doing better! Hopefully they’ll also see better days soon. It is sad that people victim blame WAY TO MUCH but hopefully they’ll learn and start becoming better people. Anyways take care of yourself, mentally and physically!
Oml- the sam thing literally is happening to me- and I don’t eat in school neither!
my problem is that I find it super awkward and in general I’ve lost my appetite for food🧍♀️
Sending virtual hugs! 🤗
If you're having problems right now here are some things you can do:
Talk to a close one or therapist.
Go outside and take a break from blue light ( Phones, computers, ect ect)
Listen to music , do something that's fun! (like going to an funfair, stuff that you like)
I know its not that easy, but don't harm you're self I'm not going to lie and say that It is okay, But I can promise you that one day it will get better. Suicide is final you can't undo it . You only have one chance to live use it wise. Please stay strong.
To anyone went through that : You’re not alone and we’ll care about you
Awe I hope you feel better and those mean people stop those comments because we love you and would hate for something to happen to you lots of love ❤️ here I’ll send a hug to you 😊= 🙁
I really hope things are going smoother for you, and I’M SO SORRY that those people made it about them when you were dying. I’m sorry. I hope it gets better.
Most of the time people don't notice what they can do to another person and it can really hurt them, no one should ever blame you for something you have no control over when you're in a dark place, it's heartbreaking that the reality of it all is when you do something to hurt yourself and people find out about it and it spreads is "I heard this guy did this, the poor parents this must have been traumatizing for them"
Sure, the people involved all get an impact from their perspective but it's more important to be concerned about YOUR health, YOUR safety, YOUR well-being
Since you are the one most affected by it, your life was literally on the line! It's either that or it's better for them to just shut the fuck up and let the people involved handle it themselves
I hope you go past this and gain your strength back and feel at peace, we're all human, we falter but I know you can persevere, don't let them get you down
People only want to be nice to you when they find out that when they should've been, they werent.
I’m so sorry if this is a vent. Hope your okay, and love you /p. 💞 we will always love you no matter what.
Don’t worry it’s not a vent! But thank you!!
Stupid RUclips keeps doing the subscribing error when I try to sub to you. I. AM. ANGRY.
BUT ALSO SHOCKED BECAUSE YOU TOOK A SERIOUS EVENT IN REAL LIFE AND ACTUALLY DIDNT MAKE IT INIT A TREND OR ANYTHING YOU MADE IT MATCH HOW IT WOULD BE IN REAL LIFE THIS IS SO GOOOOOOODDDDDD YOU ARE A GOD
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That whole convo I ha e everyday at school
HOW YOU DO IT IN KINEMASTER SO PERFECT
People suck. They don't think about what their saying and make people feel at fault when their the victim. They feel bad for others when your the one that needs support. Remember many people love your content and will be there for you if you need their help. Don't let anybody get to you. Its not your fault that they are sad . You are okay and well that's the point. And now they know you need support. I hope others realize that it's not your fault your not feeling well mentally and stops blaming you. You make many others happy and that's why they will be there for you . I know that much because of all the comments comforting you. I may have just seen you in my fy page but just from looking in the comments, I know that everyone subscribed to you care for you and always wishes you well. I hope you are okay.
You are perfect. I just found your channel and i dont think its right for people to say all those things like: Oh they should have died. Or: Nobody would care if they died. they need to stop that. They don't think about people's feelings! It's rude, unkind, and its unfair! I HATE those people, because they either just CARES about THEMSELVES, or just wants to get a "good reaction". I have someone who kinda.. harasses me? He's not that kind.. yeah.. but i know he is only doing that to get a reaction from me. So I do support you. Really! Don't let them bring you down! You have 52k subs! I could NEVER do that, and some of those people who are unkind to you can't either. You are an amazing youtuber! Good luck with everything!