My 7-month old baby died as I watched, my mum & dad have died too. But in all, I'll not quarrel God

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  • Опубликовано: 9 янв 2025
  • Damaris is an only child, a young gal in her twenties. Today she feels all alone. Her mum died when she was in college, her dad died less than a year later and two months ago, she lost her child.
    Her child died as she watched. Today, as she looks back at her loss, however painful, Damaris tells me: 'I will not quarrel God'.

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  • @gracegitonga7808
    @gracegitonga7808 9 месяцев назад +4

    This girl is very strong God has walked with her in grieving journey and given her quick healing. It been years since my husband passed away and I can't narrate about what happend without crying. Kairitu mwathani akwaririe riua ria wega na uthie na mbere kuiganwo ni wega wake na akurathimire wira wa moko maku. Shalom shalom ❤

  • @esthermusembi2632
    @esthermusembi2632 9 месяцев назад +9

    This girl is very strong. May the Lord keep comforting her.

  • @Truthfulmen_women
    @Truthfulmen_women 9 месяцев назад +24

    I thank God that I have my mother and father alive , and for those who have lost their mums & dads, May God comfort them. 😢😢❤❤❤❤

    • @anthonywaweru3606
      @anthonywaweru3606 9 месяцев назад +1

      Last year august 11 I lost my Dad nokaî tihahûthû ruo rûrî ongoro

  • @damariswaithira2018
    @damariswaithira2018 9 месяцев назад +7

    Thanks fam..i love you all ❤❤

  • @charitywanjohi884
    @charitywanjohi884 9 месяцев назад +7

    Grief Is Painful. Lost My Mum 19yrs Ago n Memories Are Always Fresh. Small Caskets Are The Heaviest To Carry. 2020 I Lost My Up To Term 3rd Born, 3hrs After Delivery Due To Heart Problem n 2023 I Had A Miscarriage 😢😢😢. I Had To Heal Coz Of My 1st n 2nd Born That Am Totally Greatful For. Damaris We Share EMPATHY n May You Find Peace For The Sake Of The Little Princess. God Is Coming Through For Us In Mighty Way n He Wipes The Tears.

  • @wambuinderitu2461
    @wambuinderitu2461 9 месяцев назад +7

    May God never leave her side 🙏. My mum also passed on i felt like my world had just ended but it wasn't. She was my only parent, loving , selfless in short she was my world . She was the first person who taught me what's love is and also she's the first person i have ever loved im my life. She died while i was in form 2 n now am in my last semester in uni i thank God ❤. Sometimes i feel down , miss her n cry my heart out😭but i always know God is there .There before i also felt angry with God for letting mum pass n also envied pple with parents. One thing i also did is to accept she's not there anymore n tell myself that God is my parent ❤.

    • @reenahndungu799
      @reenahndungu799 9 месяцев назад

      God will continue strengthening you and healing your heart in Jesus'mighty name.

  • @margaretmwaniki65
    @margaretmwaniki65 9 месяцев назад +2

    True in everything there is a reason to thank God. Her story is full of courage and gratitude which is everything in life.

  • @joycelynnmunene-dd2mk
    @joycelynnmunene-dd2mk 9 месяцев назад +1

    Wee me too nikalelewa na mum to tukajuana na baba baada ya kifo cha mum na tukabord vizuri na dad mpaka akingawa shamba nikapata share yangu but after 7yrs dad akafuata mum and the world turn black to me but kifo ya dad iliniuma kwa 2month but my mum mpaka wa leo from 2007 nakumbalianga siku mbili siku mbili naanzia ku regret bona nilienda kuolewa ningekaa na mum na angekuwa hai but all in all God above all

  • @Trizah072
    @Trizah072 9 месяцев назад +1

    I wsh ningepewa strong heart kaa ya Damaris, my mom passed away 20yr ago n hakupelekwa morgue 😢😢😢n mm nlimtuza alipo ekwa kwa nyumba ghaii ngeka atia tondu maa even now i always see my mom vile nlkua

  • @mummylexie
    @mummylexie 9 месяцев назад +3

    may God comfort her and giver her strength to kee going at all times even when she feels hopeless

  • @lucymuiruri7851
    @lucymuiruri7851 9 месяцев назад

    You're very strong Dama may God continue to give u peace n comfort wish u all the best n Gods blessings

  • @rahabwariara5915
    @rahabwariara5915 9 месяцев назад +1

    Grief is very painful and personal,Dama i won't tell you that all is well. All i can do is to ask for God's grace and comfort. May God give you peace and power beyond what is normal. Sending my love and hugs❤

  • @mosesmuiruri1595
    @mosesmuiruri1595 9 месяцев назад +3

    She's very strong... From my village and extended family member.. God bless you and give you strength....🙏

  • @gertrudenjeri5494
    @gertrudenjeri5494 9 месяцев назад

    Damaris, you are really strong. May God keep you strong and heal you.

  • @Shiku355
    @Shiku355 9 месяцев назад

    Such a sweet girl the fruits of a loving parent . This is how my mum is❤

  • @maggiewanjohi
    @maggiewanjohi 9 месяцев назад

    Watching from Saudi Arabia so painful story tell her to be strong and to have strength bcoz God love her and give her a gift of life we love her so much and thank so much Monica Kagoni

  • @irenekarimi692
    @irenekarimi692 9 месяцев назад

    Dama you are such a strong girl.may God heal you completely and may God restore you gal.

  • @MaryWaroiro
    @MaryWaroiro 3 месяца назад

    A very sad story may god help the lady an give her to be strong

  • @Marywanjix4631
    @Marywanjix4631 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you Monica, God is using your channel for his glory. Damaris, you are young but wise and strong, so sorry about the losses. As you've reminded us, nothing happens without God allowing, as humans we may never have the answers to our whys, because God's ways are very different from ours. Please take courage, God has you, he assures us that he will never leave us or forsake us and nothing will ever separate us from his love. Yes, it's lonely because you don't have blood siblings but God will bring people in your life who surpasses blood relatives. You have a wonderful family: cucu, guka, na tata. May the Lord continue to heal you, and God's plans come to pass for you.

  • @lucymwathi8033
    @lucymwathi8033 9 месяцев назад

    she is calm and quiet,may God heal her heart ❤

  • @wanyagahostrich2443
    @wanyagahostrich2443 9 месяцев назад +2

    About the child I can advise her to get another child soon 🙏 I lost mine (first born dota ) almost same of her child 7months ,19days and it ease the pain .vile aligonjeka pneumonia ya few hours I didn’t believe she’s gone 🙏🙏sikuweza kumuona pia burial day but day before I made her hair 😢 it’s most heaviest coffin ever 🙏🙏God heals our heart day by day 🙏

  • @estherwangari8612
    @estherwangari8612 9 месяцев назад +3

    Looking good kagoni

  • @wanjirarate499
    @wanjirarate499 9 месяцев назад

    This girl still needs counselling and support. Grief comes back like a bomb.

  • @GeorgeKagiri095
    @GeorgeKagiri095 9 месяцев назад +1

    Hii kitunguu imekua Kali sana😭😭😭

  • @SusanNgugi-pk2xo
    @SusanNgugi-pk2xo 9 месяцев назад

    Damaris was my high school mate, very determined and hardworking girl. She is really strong

  • @reenahndungu799
    @reenahndungu799 9 месяцев назад +6

    You're so strong Damaris.Grief is one of the worst pain one can go through.May God give you strength, peace of mind and of heart.Someone explain to me,what is kung'ang'athara??

    • @janekanuthu6678
      @janekanuthu6678 9 месяцев назад +1

      It's like unaanguka ,unajisahau unakauka kaa mkufi 😢 ,sio kitu kizuri.

    • @reenahndungu799
      @reenahndungu799 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@janekanuthu6678 Oooooooh!It's like convulsing?I think it's because of diabetes or meningitis

    • @WinfredNgugi-y6s
      @WinfredNgugi-y6s 9 месяцев назад

      Converse

    • @tilter884
      @tilter884 8 месяцев назад

      Convulsions

  • @eunicewairimu518
    @eunicewairimu518 9 месяцев назад

    It is well Dama,i can relate,2018 I lost my Dad ,and it not easy,letting it go is the hardest thing ever,but God is faithful.

  • @monicahlishiar6631
    @monicahlishiar6631 9 месяцев назад +3

    I lost my mum July 5th 2023...and it is not easy monicah it is not easy

    • @reenahndungu799
      @reenahndungu799 9 месяцев назад

      May God give you strength, peace of mind and of heart and acceptance in Jesus'mighty name.

  • @Jacinta-d9x
    @Jacinta-d9x 9 месяцев назад +1

    In this story,u see my mum,,am born alone and all the sacrifices she has made in my life ohhhh my God, Keep that woman for me

  • @PerisKiarie-iw6by
    @PerisKiarie-iw6by 9 месяцев назад

    Mungu amtie nguvu kabisa…nimejifuza anything hapo,,,on valentines I lost my mummy,,,niliuliza mungu maswali mingi sana,,

  • @stanleymwangi8388
    @stanleymwangi8388 9 месяцев назад +3

    Damaris is lady who I know very well. Signing Sunday school God give you peace and be blessed after all this

  • @moniwawarikuo2253
    @moniwawarikuo2253 9 месяцев назад

    Kairitu koogi very hardworking
    May God bless her always

  • @mercymathenge5742
    @mercymathenge5742 9 месяцев назад +2

    That loneliness ya kulelewa alone till today i wish tungekukuwa wawili

    • @moniwawarikuo2253
      @moniwawarikuo2253 9 месяцев назад

      Me too,but ni vile to mum n dad it was an exodus n they had to accept

  • @bygrace-254
    @bygrace-254 9 месяцев назад +3

    Watching

  • @mamaketwins138
    @mamaketwins138 9 месяцев назад

    i lost my daughter at 8 months, nlikuona akiaga na machine zikalia red😭😭😭Saad,, hugs sweetie,, 7 months on and I still don't forget about her,, it isn't easy at all

  • @raelvivian2057
    @raelvivian2057 9 месяцев назад +1

    Hugs babygirl😢For us who have patients please lets embrace them

  • @dorcasqui6217
    @dorcasqui6217 9 месяцев назад +3

    Tell her to be my sister❤❤am also an orphan without siz or brother😢😢...

    • @monicahlishiar6631
      @monicahlishiar6631 9 месяцев назад +3

      Am also here no brother no sister no mum

    • @dorcasqui6217
      @dorcasqui6217 9 месяцев назад

      @@monicahlishiar6631 the ever boring life🥲

  • @PerisKamau-c8x
    @PerisKamau-c8x 9 месяцев назад

    Only a month and she can,t even shed a tear?she is not okay,not yet healed may God remember her

  • @Princess-eq5ei
    @Princess-eq5ei 9 месяцев назад

    This is what I have been preaching give birth to children you can afford 👏👏👏your mum was very wise may she rest in peace 🕊️

  • @wilsonmuriuki3292
    @wilsonmuriuki3292 9 месяцев назад

    I lost my mum about 27 years ago and i was only 18 years life has not been easy without a mother but am trying to accept it though it's not easy then like 12 year's ago i also lost my sister who was younger than me it's has not been easy for me but God is faithful i believe it will be well though not easy and my sister was expecting a baby only two weeks for her to deliver but she just died si rahisi kabisa

  • @drsirmechemistrymaster
    @drsirmechemistrymaster 9 месяцев назад +1

    This was my student.... Little did I know behind the class prefect's (Dama) smile was a long story 😢😮

  • @lucymwathi8033
    @lucymwathi8033 9 месяцев назад

    thanks for reminding mi to never question God

  • @nancygiteru6309
    @nancygiteru6309 Месяц назад

    How do you send a baby with meningitis home

  • @ChelseaSonia
    @ChelseaSonia 5 месяцев назад +1

    Eish her mum❤

  • @amanibasalim4698
    @amanibasalim4698 9 месяцев назад

    Be strong my sister

  • @topmarkwriters806
    @topmarkwriters806 9 месяцев назад +1

    Should this God be trusted? Yes! in all circumstances He remains to be God. He has a reason. though am also in process of healing. Hugs dear

  • @terrymichael2541
    @terrymichael2541 9 месяцев назад

    Aky nime cry wooi ngai so sad

  • @monicahlishiar6631
    @monicahlishiar6631 9 месяцев назад +1

    😥😥😥😥 dear lord its all about you ❣️💞💞💞❣️

  • @Tkay_realty
    @Tkay_realty 9 месяцев назад +2

    Lord of mercy

  • @perrywaicha3330
    @perrywaicha3330 9 месяцев назад +1

    Kagoni kugagathara nikee

    • @tilter884
      @tilter884 8 месяцев назад

      Convulsions

  • @counselorjane166
    @counselorjane166 9 месяцев назад

    Strong woman

  • @mercymumbi2510
    @mercymumbi2510 9 месяцев назад

    She needs deliverence😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @mercymathenge5742
    @mercymathenge5742 9 месяцев назад

    Being brought up alone it's lonely thing aki you have no one to share with

  • @periswangari5533
    @periswangari5533 9 месяцев назад

    I ask,, can someone really survive menengitis for even 5 hours, let alone days????

  • @gracewaithira2526
    @gracewaithira2526 7 месяцев назад

    This girl is my cousin

  • @marywanjiku9936
    @marywanjiku9936 9 месяцев назад +13

    First to watch need a like

  • @EmmahWangui
    @EmmahWangui 8 месяцев назад +2

    Sorry for everything you have gone through but please stop telling sam lie coz you are not telling the truth

    • @ChelseaSonia
      @ChelseaSonia 5 месяцев назад

      Ebu tell us what she is not saying plz

  • @Milkybluecow
    @Milkybluecow 9 месяцев назад +1

    Oh my God! So so so sorry for you! So young, gone through too much! Kenyan healthcare at its best! This hospital released an infant with bacterial meningitis!! Jesus! How could this happen! How!? What do you mean, "Enda nyumbani rudi Monday"???!!! Tell me! What school are these doctors going to? When will standards be better in Kenya! My God! This is not even one of those complicated medical issues- you admit the child immediately because death is imminent if you don't! And that's what happened! Where is the ministry of health when they are killing babies, my father, too many cases of negligence!

    • @marywangari851
      @marywangari851 9 месяцев назад

      @sharonn9769 am also very irritated....from the first convulsion that child was supposed to be admitted..... it's so unfortunate.... it's a shame
      May God to continue to give Dama strength to carry on

    • @joycemayoye3254
      @joycemayoye3254 9 месяцев назад

      😢😢😢 we can't put our hope in the Ministry anymore

    • @nyaxjosh
      @nyaxjosh 9 месяцев назад

      That’s shocked me!!! Lord!!! 😢😢😢it’s hard to even imagine that they also didn’t do enough test to conclude that the baby had diabetics?

    • @niceblessings234
      @niceblessings234 9 месяцев назад

      Even newly diagnosed diabetes in children you admit to monitor blood sugar until it stabilizes. Again 2mml/ l is too low to allow the baby go home.

  • @rabukaraumwa9131
    @rabukaraumwa9131 9 месяцев назад +1

    I don't like someone who uses " gukuithia"... I'd rather prefer " gukwirirwo"

    • @margaretndumia701
      @margaretndumia701 9 месяцев назад

      What's the difference at the end it means the same